Has He Moved On? How To Get Him Back If He Has A Girlfriend

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It can really hurt when an ex boyfriend (who you still have feelings for) seemingly moves on to another girl. For many women out there they lose all hope of getting their ex back. Others will get angry and immediately look to start or cause a fight. Rarely will you ever come across one that does the smartest thing, stack the odds in her favor! That is really what this page is all about, how to get your ex boyfriend back if he has a new girlfriend by stacking the odds in your favor.

If you haven’t already read my epic article on how to get your ex boyfriend back I suggest you drop everything for the next 30 minutes (yes 30 minutes) and go read it.

What You Really Want..

When I first created this site I wanted to create the best online resource for getting your ex back. So far, I feel I have done a decent job of that. However, as I started interacting with you I began to notice that what I was writing wasn’t enough, you wanted more. This was especially true for those heartbroken women whose ex boyfriends have moved on to a new girlfriend. I understand how you particularly feel because I have interacted with so many of you. So, I decided to do something I have never done before.

I began writing a “super guide” on how to get your ex boyfriend back. I am talking about everything I could possibly think of. Eventually after 100 pages of writing I finished Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO. Think of it like the ultimate step by step guide to getting an ex boyfriend back. It will teach you everything you will need to know. So, if you feel you want some more in depth instructions on how to get an ex boyfriend back then please click the link below:

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Remember The Most Important Thing

Before you take any major steps to getting your ex boyfriend back it is important that you implement the No Contact Rule. Now, I am not going to go too deeply into that. In fact, I wrote an entire page just covering the no contact rule and what to do during it. You can visit that page here: No Contact Rule Guide.

If you don’t have the patience to read that entire page let me sum up some of the most important points for you.

No Contact Rule Main Points

  • No contact what-so-ever for 30 days (1 full month.)
  • This means no texting, calling, emailing, letters, facebook stalking or Googling.
  • During your 30 day freeze out make sure you improve yourself both mentally and physically.

You may be wondering why learning about the NCR (No Contact Rule) is so important. After all, this page is about a very unique situation, trying to get an ex boyfriend back who has a new girlfriend. Well, the importance of NOT CONTACTING YOUR EX is crucial in this particular situation. The fact that your old boyfriend has a new girlfriend can be heart crushing and you are going to want to contact your ex very badly (and you are definitely not going to have many good things to say.)

How Did He Get His New Girlfriend?

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(Disclaimer: I promised myself that I was going to use this page to legitimately help people. So, I feel that this section is important. While this may not be a section about how to get him back it is a section that is something I added in to prevent you from making a big mistake, going after a guy that will only hurt you very deeply again.)

Believe it or not but how your ex boyfriend got his new girlfriend matters in a very big way. I am going to outline three situations for you, two of these situations are going to focus on guys that you should be trying to get back and one of the situations is going to be focusing on guys that you should not be trying to get back. Let’s begin.

Situation 1- You broke up with your ex, realized you wanted him back but found out that he got a new girlfriend after the breakup. If you are in this situation then you are free to go ahead and try to get your ex boyfriend back.

Situation 2- He broke up with you and later got a new girlfriend. Again, this is a really common situation and you are free to go ahead and try to get him back.

Situation 3- He left you for another girl. He was either cheating or was in love with someone else. Ladies, I am going to be completely honest here, this guy is not someone that you should want to get back with. Sure, you can try to get him back but he needs to prove to you that he is trustworthy.

4 Truths To Getting An Ex Boyfriend Back With A New Girlfriend

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This section will explore some of the most important steps to getting back with an ex who has a new girlfriend. Admittedly you are at a bit of a disadvantage since he has moved on, or has he? Let’s explore!

Truth 1: Not contacting your ex is a must. Not only should you have implemented the No Contact Rule but you need to stay strong. Getting mad, breaking down and texting your ex a hateful message about his new girlfriend isn’t going to help your ultimate goal is it? Instead, be cool and don’t worry, every dog has it’s day.

Truth 2: It’s not always easy dating someone new. Especially if you came out of a relatively serious relationship. It may be entirely possible that your ex is uncomfortable in his new relationship. It happens all the time. This is one of the symptoms of what everyone likes to call a rebound relationship. This leads us to our next step..

Truth 3: Rebound relationships are relationships that usually form right after a breakup. Lucky for you rebound relationships don’t last forever. In fact, statistics show that 90% of rebound relationships are bound to fail. So, the odds are in your favor just make sure you keep your cool while he is dating his new girlfriend. Remember, if you freak out you are going to make a lot of mistakes and mistakes aren’t going to help get you two back together.

Truth 4: It is entirely possible that the further away from a breakup that your ex boyfriend gets the more nostalgic he will become about your relationship. Basically, instead of remembering all the bad things (like fights, disagreements or whatever caused your breakup) he will remember all the good things. This can definitely work in your favor.

How To Cope

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It is not always easy to want someone back so badly and see them in another relationship with someone else. I put this section together to give you some advice on how to handle what you are feeling. Remember, just because he is dating someone new doesn’t mean your chances are gone completely. Sometimes men need to go out with someone new to realize just how good they had it with you.

Keep The Focus On You- Try your best not to obsess over his situation. You can’t control what he does but you can control what you do. Go out and have fun. Make new friends. Basically, just ramp up your social life so you can focus on the most important thing, yourself.

It’s Not Your Fault- Sometimes women have a tendency to believe that their ex started dating someone new because of something that they did or something that they could not provide. Dating isn’t always black and white like that. Whatever happens, make sure you don’t let an ex boyfriends actions affect how you feel.

Accept That There Will Be Pain- You are not a robot. You can’t just turn off your feelings. It’s ok to feel pain over the situation but once that pain starts creeping into your everyday life and effecting how you live then you have problems.

Beware Of The “I Want What I Can’t Have” Syndrome- This particular piece of advice probably should have gone higher on this page. Sometimes a select group of women will want their ex boyfriend back once they see him with someone new. If you find that you are in this situation be very careful about proceeding to get him back. You may need to go back and do some serious searching on whether or not you want him back for a legitimate reason.

Resist Any Comparisons- It is only human nature to want to compare yourself to the new (hopefully temporary) girlfriend. Are you better looking? Do you have a better personality? Comparing yourself to the new girl is not productive. You only hurt yourself in the process and that is not going to help your cause at all.

Are There Any Actions You Can Take To Help Your Cause?

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So far this page has really been about personal things that you can do to get your ex back if he has a new squeeze. Now, I want you to realize that I laid this page out that way on purpose. The fact of the matter is that a certain amount of this is out of your control. I mean, if you have found a way to mind control someone please let me know because I could put that skill to good use. However, in this section I am briefly going to discuss certain actions you can take to drastically improve your chances of getting your ex boyfriend back.

(Remember, these actions should only be taken after you have completed the 30 Day No Contact Rule.)

Watch For Trouble Signs- No one is perfect and this is especially true of relationships. Each one has it’s ups and downs. Your job is to keep an eye out for his troubles with his new girl and be there to provide support and remind him how good he had it with you.

Initiate Contact Via Text Message- Test the waters with your ex boyfriend via text messaging. There are a whole set of rules and regulations that go with texting an ex. I am not going to go into those here but if you want to know them then please visit this page.

Be Very Nice To Him And His New Girlfriend- If you are on good terms with your ex or you have tested the waters via text messages and gotten a positive response be very wary about trashing his new girlfriend. It may be tempting but however strong that temptation is you are going to have to avoid it.

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2,104 Responses to Has He Moved On? How To Get Him Back If He Has A Girlfriend
  1. Cristina
    April 23, 2014 | 1:39 pm

    Hey Chris my boyfriend and I had been together for 2 years and 5 months…our relationship in the beginning was all about him begging be everytime we got into a fight even if it was my fault…but then things changed…I decided to break up with him a month ago because it yust seemed as if he didnt care it he saw me or talked to me for the day….if I didnt call him he didnt either and the moment I told him I didnt want the relationship he had no problem letting me go…I tried the NC but he never contacted me until I contacted him (breaking NC) he responded to every txt and was very nice to me but he blocked me from Fb….fortunately I have his password and get in every now and then and I read sum inboxes between him and an apparent coworker where he seemed really interested on taking her out to dance…I heartbroked (he never wanted to go out dancing with me for the last months of our relationship….has he moved on? Do I have a chance?

  2. Rory
    April 23, 2014 | 3:12 am

    My ex and I were dating for 6 months, we took a break while he travelled, and when he came back after a few months we thought everything would be great, only we took each other for granted in many ways. He ended up getting interested in a new girl and I ended up dumping him. I get the feeling it didn’t work out with the new girl at that time.
    After a month of NC he comes back making very casual but regular conversation, but I know he is still in contact with that girl every now and again. Is he worth giving a second chance? Or should I hang back and not continue to communicate with him, as he might still be playing the field to see what he can get?

    • admin
      April 23, 2014 | 4:05 pm

      I say hang back.

  3. isheworthit?
    April 22, 2014 | 11:12 pm

    I have dated this guy off and on for 6 to 7 months. He breaks up with me and than wants me back, twice this happens and I keep giving him these chances and than wanted me to wait for him since he did not know what he wanted and needed time to figure stuff out. I waited for him for two months till “apparently” we agreed to be friends. He’s starting to never text me and hanging out with this other girl that I feel he’s starting to like and going to date. He was the best person I have ever dated and sweet. I really want him back and I have tried moving on but can’t please help. Should I have him back?

    • admin
      April 23, 2014 | 3:57 pm

      Question…

      How is he the best person you ever dated if you two were breaking up and getting back together all the time?

  4. Samantha
    April 22, 2014 | 4:37 pm

    we’ll I just recently had a dream of me and my ex boyfriend and It was a good dream I just wished he hadn’t broken up with me :( I miss him but I know he hates me

    • admin
      April 23, 2014 | 3:36 pm

      He has a new gf I am assuming?

  5. alicia
    April 22, 2014 | 11:05 am

    After reading through all your advice on getting my ex back, I have finally come to the conclusion I’m better off without him. I realize I was spending way too much time on trying to be with someone that is not worth it. You actually have great ideas and your right on with your advice. I appreciate you. I just see now that I deserve better than what I was given and what I was fighting for. Thank u

  6. Shaneese
    April 20, 2014 | 10:25 pm

    My boyfriend (23) and I (19) have been together for over 2 years 6 months. We have lived together for 1 year. Two days ago we both decided to break up, he wanted to have space and be single, he told me he doesn’t know what he wants and that he has feelings for a work colleague he met 2 weeks ago so it was unfair to me that he continues our relationship whilst he has feelings for another. He says he still loves me but has lost the spark which he has found in this work colleague he has just met. Basically he broke up with me to see if anything happens with her. I didn’t want to end the relationship but I did in order for him to be happy. I have 2 weeks untill I can see him again unless he has gotten into a relationship with the work colleague, oh also she has boyfriend, but apparently she might break up with him to be with my boyfriend. I just want him back badly. Everyone has said we are soul mates and were perfect together.

    • Shaneese
      April 20, 2014 | 10:41 pm

      Sorry my question is, should I try to forget about him even though I really want him back?

      • admin
        April 21, 2014 | 4:08 pm

        Only if you think the percentage chance has dropped so low you don’t think its realistic to get him back.

    • admin
      April 21, 2014 | 4:15 pm

      How do you know she would break up with her boyfriend?

      Is she cheating on him?

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