Today we’re going to be talking about how to steal your ex from another woman.
But before we debate the morality of attempting to steal your ex from “the other woman” I’d like to point you to our “Ex Recovery Chances Quiz.”
I want to do this for one singular reason. I don’t want you doing anything in the “morally grey area” if you have zero chance of getting your ex back.
You’ll just look like a fool.
So, here’s what I’ve done. I have put a simple two minute quiz together for you. My intent is to help you understand what your chances are of getting your ex back.
Once you’ve given us some basic background information we’ll basically run your answers through an advanced algorithm that will spit out a number and tell you what kind of chance you have of getting your ex back.
Perhaps more importantly is you’ll get an idea on if this is worth your time.
How To Steal Your Ex From “The Other Woman”
One of the most terrifying situations to be in is if you’re trying to get an ex back and they’ve moved on to someone else.
When I first started out and someone would come to me with a situation like this, the gif below pretty much summed up my feelings,
But now when someone comes to me with a situation where their ex has moved on this is me,
Why is it that I’ve done such a complete 180º on this situation?
Well it’s actually because I’ve learned an epic strategy. Granted, it’s a little bit in the grey area morally but it works.
Today I’m going to teach it to you. So, let’s talk about the strategy that has been revolutionizing the way my clients have been getting their exes back if their ex is with someone else.
Warning – This Strategy Might Not Fit With Your Morals
Today we’re going to be talking about how to steal your ex from the “other woman” but before I begin I do want to warn you that this strategy might not fit with your morals.
I firmly believe that it’s my job to show you what I’ve found that works and doesn’t work.
I’m going to leave it up to you to choose whether or not you want to employ this strategy. However, before I begin I do want to warn you that this strategy that I’m about to unveil to you might not fit with your morals and if that’s the case, it’s ok.
Don’t feel that I’m painting you into a corner and making you choose to implement a strategy you aren’t comfortable with.
With that being said I feel this is an important strategy for you to fully grasp before you start judging it.
You can determine the morality of what I’m about to show you after you learn what I have to teach you.
The Key To Stealing Your Ex Back
The key to “stealing your ex back” is to not steal them back at all.
Rather it’s to present them with a situation or put them in a position where they choose to come back to you.
Now, you may be reading those words and think that, that’s impossible to achieve.
However, I’m not just basing this strategy on conjecture. No, what I’m about to show you has actually been proven by psychologists and I’m going to show you proof to back up that claim.
So what is this elusive strategy that is kind of in this gray area morally?
The “Being There Method”
Well, what I’d like you to do is that if you find yourself in this situation and you want your ex back from the new person he’s with is to utilize something called being there method.
And it’s actually pretty easy to grasp.
However, just because “the being there method” is easy to understand doesn’t mean it’s easy to implement.
Here’s how it works,
When your ex moves on to someone else you need to become a constant presence in their relationship
To clarify, constant doesn’t mean sexual.
On the contrary, you just need to be a friendly presence not even trying to steal him back but a constant one nonetheless.
Eventually that constant presence will indirectly intimidate the other woman to the point where she will issue him an ultimatum and it will ultimately lead to their demise.
Why Becoming A Constant Presence Is So Important
Becoming a constant presence actually does a couple of things,
- What woman is ok with her boyfriend talking to his ex?
- It creates a natural competition
- You can compete for his time with the other woman
- Ultimately the other woman will grow so insecure she will issue him an ultimatum
The most brilliant thing about “being there” is technically you’re not doing anything wrong.
You are NOT going to be trying to sleep with him or get him to cheat with you.
Instead, you are just becoming his friend. Essentially you are going to be friend zoning yourself on purpose hoping that, that simple act will intimidate the other woman.
The Being There Method Is Backed By Research
What if I told you that researchers have actually shown data proving that the being there method is effective.
Sounds too good to be true, doesn’t it?
Earlier this year psychologists released a paper where they actually started studying the effect that keeping in touch with a past partner has on your current relationship.
Here’s a quote directly taken from the Psychology Today article,
What implications does this have for people’s current relationships. In general those who stayed in touch with an ex tended to be less committed to their current partner than those who did not. But contact with an ex wasn’t associated with how satisfying they found their current relationship.
Now let’s pause there.
I find that really interesting. In the first study they did actually did find that those who stayed in touch with their exes tended to be less committed to their partners than those who did not.
However, it didn’t mean they were less satisfied with their relationship. Now I have a problem with that because my own research using my own data says the opposite.
People who keep in contact with their exes tend to be less satisfied with their relationships.
But that’s why I have this second part actually quotes below because the Psychology Today article said researchers actually conducted a second study.
The researchers further explored how contact with exes relates to the quality of the current relationship by examining people’s reasons for staying in touch with exes. They survived. Excuse me they surveyed 169 undergraduate students and relationships who said they communicated with an ex at least once every couple of months. This time the team found a link between contact with exes and the quality of the current relationship. The more frequent the contact with an ex the less satisfied participants were with their current relationships.
There you have it.
The being there method is essentially backed by psychologists and this was an actual scientific paper released earlier this year.
Let’s talk about the debate between the morality of if you should do that being there method or not.
Here’s my stance,
It’s not my job to debate morality with you. My job is to simply give you options to use as you attempt to try to get your ex back.
I know for a fact that the being there method works extremely well to get an ex back.
I have psychologists backing it up as well as a lot of different success stories.
It’s your responsibility to determine if this is within your morals