Your Ex Boyfriend Blocked You… What Now? (Video)

Man… It’s been a while since I’ve posted a video, huh?

Turns out it’s not so easy to film when you go on vacation for Christmas and have a baby…

Who knew?

Anyways, after a long wait I have another video for you guys and it’s a goofy one.

I swear, I am having a little too much fun in these videos.

So, without further ado here is what to do if your ex boyfriend has blocked you.

Video Transcript

(Before I post this video transcript I want to give a special shout out to the newest member of the Ex Boyfriend Recovery team, Amor. She is going to be answering all of your comments and doing transcripts for us. So, be nice if you have the pleasure of talking to her. Thanks Amor!)

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Talk to the hand! You are blocked! That was weird. Anyways, today we’re going to be talking about what to do if your ex-boyfriend blocks you.

I’ll see you on the other side.

(INTRO)

There’s no doubt about it that it really sucks when an ex-boyfriend blocks you. I imagine there’s no greater feeling of depression for a woman who wants her ex-boyfriend back so bad but she has no way of contacting him. So, what I’m going to do for you today or what this entire video is going to do for you is, I’m going to teach what to do if your ex-boyfriend has blocked you and potentially how you can get him to unblock you.

But first, before we get into any of the details, we need to discuss the two types of blocking that your ex-boyfriend can do to you. First off, we have the partial block. A lot of women make this a lot more complicated than it has to be. The partial block is really simple. It’s basically when your ex-boyfriend blocks you in one way but you can still contact him in another way. Let me give you an example. Let’s say that I blocked you on Facebook but you could still text me with your phone, call me with your phone, email me or use an application like WhatsApp or something likethat. Well, if this were all to occur, you’ll be considered to be in the partial block. Now, let’s get to the holy grail of badness.

Holy Grail of badness?! What the heck?

Oh come on. Don’t tell you’ve never heard of the holy grail of badness?

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Yeah Chris? That’s a cup.

Whatever. Look the holy grail of badness is basically what I like to call the full out block. It’s as bad as it can get. It’s where you have no way of contacting of your ex-boyfriend but you can’t contact him through Facebook, through text messages, through just phone calls. You’re blocked everywhere imaginable. It’s a bad place to be and that’s why from this point on, we’re going to be operating under an assumption. The assumption, you’re in the midst of the holy grail of badness.

(HUMMING SKIT)

Dude, enough with cup!

Alright, fine. I won’t do the cup anymore…

Anyways, here is what I’m trying to get at. We’re going to be operating under an assumption and the assumption is that you’re in a full out block.

So, basically from this point on in the video, I’m going to be teaching you how to get out of the worst case scenario of full out block. I find a lot of women wonder why. Why would my ex-boyfriend block me? Of all the people in the world!

Let me tell you.

Anger.

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You’re annoying him.

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It hurts him too much to look at your picture.

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Out of spite.

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And finally the simple fact that he just maybe wants to get over you.

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Now, ignoring that last one. What you can you do if you were in a full out block butyour ex-boyfriend, you think, still has feelings for you?

Glad you asked.

There are three basic strategies that you can employ to get your ex-boyfriend to unblock you. But before we get into that I feel I should give you a bit of a disclaimer here. If you’re blocked, there’s no way around it. It’s a bad situation to be in. In fact, I would say it definitely lowers your chances of success. Now, that doesn’t mean you can’t have success. You just need to change your mindset of that. Try not to look at this entire process as “Oh, if he doesn’t contact me or if I don’t get him to unblock me, I’ve lost everything and the world is ending!”

Whoa. You’re not serious. The world is really not ending right?

No, you idiot.

Look, the world’s not ending if your ex-boyfriend doesn’t contact you and the world’s not ending if you don’t get him back. A lot of women fail at this entire process of trying to get an ex- boyfriend back because they enter it with the mindset that they have something to lose. I don’t understand this mindset because if you went through a breakup, you’ve kind of already lost everything. So, what I like to tell women is enter this with the mindset that you have nothing to lose. The odds are in your favor if you have that mindset because it’s sort of like an armor. It’s not going to hurt you if things don’t go your way. And if they do go your way well, hey great risks come with great rewards sometimes but, enough talk. Let’s get right down to it. Here are my three strategies for getting an ex-boyfriend to unblock you.

Strategy One- Do Nothing/No Contact

Please don’t tell me that fooled you. Did you check your audio or your phone or your computer?

Well anyways, that little skip was supposed to signify the no contact rule. Now, you’re maybe wondering, what does the no contact rule have to do with getting you ex to unblock you? Well, I’ve been doing this a long time and I’ve seen a lot of situations particularly those wherein a man has blocked a woman. For any of the reason I’ve said before, here’s what I found to be the case.

Often times is the woman does nothing. Yes, doing nothing. He’ll unblock her. So, that’s why I recommend to do the no contact rule. Right now, the situation is out of your control. Your ex-boyfriend pretty much has all the power. He can choose to unblock you or choose to block you or again if he unblocked you or choose to continue blocking you. So, rather than fret and try to scramble right off the bat. I think you’d do the no contact rule. Really work on yourself during the no contact rule. Try to get your mind off him. Have an active no contact rule.

You cannot be serious. That’s your advice, do nothing?

Chill. Chill. That’s not the only advice.

Strategy Two: Use Social Media To Your Advantage

Hmm. Alright. Social media. Just going to post something up right now.

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It’s true!

In one of my other videos, I cited a study about social media in which a graduate candidate- a graduate studies candidate interviewed something like 200 people and determined that 88% of them after a break up check their exes Facebook profile. So, that got me thinking.

Well, that’s pretty much a 90% chance that your ex-boyfriend is going to come strolling around your Facebook profile, why not use it to our advantage?

Now, I know what you’re thinking. “Hey dummy. We’re blocked. Everywhere. How is he going to see our Facebook profile?” You know.. there’s this funny thing called friends and friends often have Facebook profiles and friends often want to help out their other friends.

So, it’s not all that impossible that he can go up to his friend Austin and say, “Hey, Austin. I’m kind of curious to see what Cassie—”

Because you know, I hope your name is Cassie.”—I want to see what Cassie’s up to.”

“Oh, sure man. Just come on my Facebook profile. We can see. I’m friends with her.”

It happens.

So, why not take advantage of that opportunity? Why not post something on Facebook that will catch his eye. That will make him want to talk to you. Now, as for what to post. That’s completely up to you. I recommend going by my site, Ex Boyfriend Recovery for ideas. I do in depth explanations of what you can do on Facebook to catch his eye and get him to text you. But without a doubt, the method that I’m about to teach you next is probably my most successful when it comes to getting a man to unblock you.

Strategy Three: The Good News/Bad News Friend Tactic

Hey Chris! I got some good and I got some bad news.

What’s the good news?

You’re awesome!

I totally know. Alright, what’s the bad news?

You’re also totally conceited.

Ah the good news, bad news best friend strategy. It’s kind of a mouthful to say but here’s the premise of it. You’re going to be telling your ex-boyfriend’s best friend something shocking.

Something so shocking that he’ll have no choice but to tell his friend, your ex-boyfriend, what you told him. Ideally, if you make this shocking enough, your ex-boyfriend will unblock you to talk to you about it. Let me give you an example. We’re going to do a little bit of a role play here and what we’re playing is going to be you. Basically we’re going to pretend that you are in the midst of text messaging your ex-boyfriend’s best friend in the hopes that you will deliver something so shocking to him that he’s going to message your ex and your ex will unblock you to talk to you about it. Now, you’re maybe wondering.

What kind of news should I deliver?

Should the news be bad or good? Well, either one can work but I tend to think always leaving a

good feeling will always trumps leaving the bad feeling.

Let me give you an example. Let’s say that you tell your ex-boyfriend’s best friend that you got a limb chopped off or something. That’s pretty shocking bad news. Okay? Now, let’s also pretend that you ran into Brad Pitt. That’s shocking. Everyone wants to hear that. You ran into Brad Pitt and you have a picture.

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Anyways, you ran into Brad Pitt and you have a picture and you send this picture to your ex-boyfriend’s best friend. That’s pretty shocking. He will most likely tell your ex-boyfriend about it and hopefully if the news is shocking enough or interesting enough, your ex will unblock you to talk to you about it.

That’s the premise.

Now, what should this text message look like?

I’m glad you asked. You know I like to think of text messaging kind of like a game of poker. You never really want to tip your opponent off on what kind of hand you have. You want to bluff. Well, text messaging an ex- boyfriend or an ex-boyfriend’s best friend in this case, it will be a little like playing poker. You never really want to let your ex-boyfriend’s best friend know what your true motive is. You want everything to sound as natural as possible.

So, how do you do that? Well, take a look at this text message. This is ideal type of text message that you want to send your ex-boyfriend’s friend. It’s very natural looking. Nothing really seems forced. It’s just sort of like, “Hey, look who I ran into. Brad Pitt. Here’s a picture.”

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Again, that’s one handsome devil.

So one last thing that I want to leave you with before this video ends. The only way that the good news, bad news method works, is if the news you go over is so shocking that it forces your ex- boyfriend to unblock you. That’s the only way it works. Now, does it have a 100% success rate?

Absolutely not.

Nothing does but it’s going to yield you more success than if you sat on your butt and did nothing.

Think about that.

Hey, thanks for watching this video. I really had a fun time filming it. Unfortunately, my wife couldn’t be in it today due to obligations. So, I’m stuck doing all the skits and I want to leave you with this message.

If you want to learn more about getting your ex-boyfriend back, please visit my website. www.exboyfriendrecovery.com. If you want your question answered, I’m making an active effort to answer every single question that you have in the comments section of YouTube.

Please, please, please ask me questions. I would love to answer them and also please subscribe to the channel.

Thanks guys.

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Shane
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What if all his friends hate me as well? And, I unfriended his friends because of all the surrounding issues. Actually one of his so called best friend was actually the real reason why we broke up. How am i going to do the good/bad news?

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

that means youi’re not going to use that tactic.. That’s ok. You can still use the other ones..

Shane
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What if all his friends hate me as well? And, i unfriended his friends because of all the surrounding issues. One of his so called best friends was actually the real reason why we broke up. How am i going to do the good/bad news?

Shane
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What if all his friends hate me as well? And, I unfriended his friends because of all the surrounding issues. Actually one of his so called best friend was actually the real reason why we broke up. How am i going to do the good/bad news?

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

that means youi’re not going to use that tactic.. That’s ok. You can still use the other ones..

Shane
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What if all his friends hate me as well? And, i unfriended his friends because of all the surrounding issues. One of his so called best friends was actually the real reason why we broke up. How am i going to do the good/bad news?

Lucy
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Hi, I was in an LDR for 2 years. We broke up 2 months agoe night and I flipped and called him over and over until he blocked me. It’s weird because THAT SAME DAY he said that he would love me until the day he died and that he cared a lot about me. I tried the 30 day rule but obviously that won’t work because he blocked me. He doesn’t have social media, so I can’t post anything for him to see. The only thing that he had was snapchat, which he unfriended me on (I don’t know… Read more »
Lucy
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Hi, I was in an LDR for 2 years. We broke up 2 months agoe night and I flipped and called him over and over until he blocked me. It’s weird because THAT SAME DAY he said that he would love me until the day he died and that he cared a lot about me. I tried the 30 day rule but obviously that won’t work because he blocked me. He doesn’t have social media, so I can’t post anything for him to see. The only thing that he had was snapchat, which he unfriended me on (I don’t know… Read more »
Akanksha
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Hey!!!! This is Akanksha…..i had my break up 3 months back….i had my realtionship for almost 9 months….nd after my breakup…..i did stupid things that my ex blocked me from fb…..nd unfriended me from fb……nd i applied no contact after dat…..nd after a month of no contact he blocked me from snapchat……nd we went on a trip with our mutual frnds.. nd he blocked me from fb on the trip itself……i thought things would improve through the no contact….but he never talked to me on the trip for 10 days….i looked the best….i enjoyed myself at the trip….but nothing helped….instead… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Akanksha,

Does he know you want him back?

Akanksha
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Hey!!!! This is Akanksha…..i had my break up 3 months back….i had my realtionship for almost 9 months….nd after my breakup…..i did stupid things that my ex blocked me from fb…..nd unfriended me from fb……nd i applied no contact after dat…..nd after a month of no contact he blocked me from snapchat……nd we went on a trip with our mutual frnds.. nd he blocked me from fb on the trip itself……i thought things would improve through the no contact….but he never talked to me on the trip for 10 days….i looked the best….i enjoyed myself at the trip….but nothing helped….instead… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Akanksha,

Does he know you want him back?

Chanel
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So here’s the thing we are not Facebook friends and I’m not really into social media. Would it still me weird to reach out via Facebook. I think I might try texting first. I know this is way too early to be thinking of.

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

It would really be weird.. unless that’s your only way of initiating contact.

Chanel
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So here’s the thing we are not Facebook friends and I’m not really into social media. Would it still me weird to reach out via Facebook. I think I might try texting first. I know this is way too early to be thinking of.

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

It would really be weird.. unless that’s your only way of initiating contact.

Chanel
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Hi Amor,

So I read the article you suggested and did not reach out for his birthday. I’m doing my best to use this time and improve myself. Do you think I have a shot at getting him back. I’m still blocked on whatsapp but I haven’t tried to text Him as I’m in NC. But what if I’m still blocked after the 45 days should I try to reach out through Facebook or his work cell.

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Chanel,

Facebook is better but for now just keep improving yourself and being active in posting.. And check this one too:
EBR 002: What To Do If You Have No Way Of Talking To Your Ex

Chanel
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Hi Amor,

So I read the article you suggested and did not reach out for his birthday. I’m doing my best to use this time and improve myself. Do you think I have a shot at getting him back. I’m still blocked on whatsapp but I haven’t tried to text Him as I’m in NC. But what if I’m still blocked after the 45 days should I try to reach out through Facebook or his work cell.

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Chanel,

Facebook is better but for now just keep improving yourself and being active in posting.. And check this one too:
EBR 002: What To Do If You Have No Way Of Talking To Your Ex

Chanel
Guest
Hi recovery team, My ex and I have been dating for almost 3 years. We got into a huge argument a few days ago through text about him going away for his birthday day and not telling me. In which he just stopped responding to me. We broke up one time before where he did the same thing there was no break up conversation he just cut off all communication. But today I noticed he blocked me on whatsapp. It’s only been a few days and I figured he would get over the argument I sent two text messages nothing… Read more »
Chanel
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Hi recovery team, My ex and I have been dating for almost 3 years. We got into a huge argument a few days ago through text about him going away for his birthday day and not telling me. In which he just stopped responding to me. We broke up one time before where he did the same thing there was no break up conversation he just cut off all communication. But today I noticed he blocked me on whatsapp. It’s only been a few days and I figured he would get over the argument I sent two text messages nothing… Read more »
Sarah
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Hello! I have commented on here a few times about my ex and how he helped me through a hard time in my life but then broke up with me in August and then he started talking to me again in September. Well, I’m so I’m still confused and even more hurt. From September all the way through the beginning of November, he would call me on his way home from work, and about 4 out of the 7 days of the week he’d come over and we’d go for a run. He even bought new running shoes so we… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Sarah,

I think you need to move on.. More probably he was just friendly before because he was still used to having you around..

Sarah
Guest
Hello! I have commented on here a few times about my ex and how he helped me through a hard time in my life but then broke up with me in August and then he started talking to me again in September. Well, I’m so I’m still confused and even more hurt. From September all the way through the beginning of November, he would call me on his way home from work, and about 4 out of the 7 days of the week he’d come over and we’d go for a run. He even bought new running shoes so we… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Sarah,

I think you need to move on.. More probably he was just friendly before because he was still used to having you around..

Sarah b
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My ex and I were dating for around 6 weeks. We’re both single parents, he’s 31 and I’m 29. Everything from day dot was perfect. He’d say all these beautiful things, was a total gentleman and when we were together he’d always have his hands all over me telling me how sexy I was. The kids got along great too. But then out of nowhere he shut down and started ignoring me. After a few texts of me asking what was wrong he said he thought he was ready for a relationship after being in recovery (he’s a recovering drug… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Sarah,
Looks like it went too fast for him..

Sarah b
Guest
My ex and I were dating for around 6 weeks. We’re both single parents, he’s 31 and I’m 29. Everything from day dot was perfect. He’d say all these beautiful things, was a total gentleman and when we were together he’d always have his hands all over me telling me how sexy I was. The kids got along great too. But then out of nowhere he shut down and started ignoring me. After a few texts of me asking what was wrong he said he thought he was ready for a relationship after being in recovery (he’s a recovering drug… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Sarah,
Looks like it went too fast for him..

Question
Guest
Me and my ex had a bad break up started a litte over a month ago and I haven’t talked to him in 15 days .. he changed his number and haven’t contacted me . I made a WhatsApp yesterday . He still uses his old one with his old number because when I click on his old contact it shows he’s been online . I wrote him a simple “hey” . He’s been online but hasn’t opened the message because it still shows two grey check marks instead of blue .. but he didn’t block me like I expected… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

If you’re in the no contact rule, you shouldn’t contact him in any way.. sending even just hey is breaking the no contact rule.

Question
Guest
Me and my ex had a bad break up started a litte over a month ago and I haven’t talked to him in 15 days .. he changed his number and haven’t contacted me . I made a WhatsApp yesterday . He still uses his old one with his old number because when I click on his old contact it shows he’s been online . I wrote him a simple “hey” . He’s been online but hasn’t opened the message because it still shows two grey check marks instead of blue .. but he didn’t block me like I expected… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

If you’re in the no contact rule, you shouldn’t contact him in any way.. sending even just hey is breaking the no contact rule.

Sarah
Guest
Hello! I commented on here on August 27 about my exboyfriend blocking me on instagram. It was a rather long post about it, and you so kindly responded. I never thought I’d even ever hear from him again. Well, after you responded about healing myself, and doing the no contact, I listened to everything you said. I joined a rugby team, changed up my apartment, and started my job at his family’s insurance company. I didn’t contact him for about two weeks. On around September 18, I went to a college football game and he ended up being there too.… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Sarah,

You cant avoid getting hurt in any kind of relationship.. But restart nc, stick to at least 30 days and check this one:
EBR 032: What To Do If You Work With Your Ex Boyfriend

Sarah
Guest
Hello! I commented on here on August 27 about my exboyfriend blocking me on instagram. It was a rather long post about it, and you so kindly responded. I never thought I’d even ever hear from him again. Well, after you responded about healing myself, and doing the no contact, I listened to everything you said. I joined a rugby team, changed up my apartment, and started my job at his family’s insurance company. I didn’t contact him for about two weeks. On around September 18, I went to a college football game and he ended up being there too.… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Sarah,

You cant avoid getting hurt in any kind of relationship.. But restart nc, stick to at least 30 days and check this one:
EBR 032: What To Do If You Work With Your Ex Boyfriend

Sam
Guest
Hello. I have a very unique situation in that my ex-boyfriend reached out to me through a dating website not knowing it was me. I’m a very private person, and I removed my face, and apparently he didn’t recognize me. We had a terrible breakup and I ended up having a mental breakdown after, and begged him back many times. We were together for 2 years although it was bumpy with a lot of fighting etc. The fighting was over nonsense though. Do you need any other info to help with advice? I feel like this is a unique situation… Read more »
Sam
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Forgot to add that the breakup was so bad that he blocked me from everything.

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

HI Sam,

when and why did you break up? Have you done the no contact period?

Sam
Guest
Hello. I have a very unique situation in that my ex-boyfriend reached out to me through a dating website not knowing it was me. I’m a very private person, and I removed my face, and apparently he didn’t recognize me. We had a terrible breakup and I ended up having a mental breakdown after, and begged him back many times. We were together for 2 years although it was bumpy with a lot of fighting etc. The fighting was over nonsense though. Do you need any other info to help with advice? I feel like this is a unique situation… Read more »
Sam
Guest

Forgot to add that the breakup was so bad that he blocked me from everything.

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

HI Sam,

when and why did you break up? Have you done the no contact period?

EMILY
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I am Emily here from Malaysia. I have actually sent my problem to the Contact Us but there is no respond there. I just wish you can give me some clue that what I should do to move on or wait him. My ex broke up with me on 29 March 2017 with our relationship almost a year. He got a new gf 28yo on the April. He is 33 and I am 19 that graduating next year. So basically the reason he want to break up with me is because he said we have different path and he does… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

HI Emily,
have you checked this one:
EBR 032: What To Do If You Work With Your Ex Boyfriend

EMILY
Guest
I am Emily here from Malaysia. I have actually sent my problem to the Contact Us but there is no respond there. I just wish you can give me some clue that what I should do to move on or wait him. My ex broke up with me on 29 March 2017 with our relationship almost a year. He got a new gf 28yo on the April. He is 33 and I am 19 that graduating next year. So basically the reason he want to break up with me is because he said we have different path and he does… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

HI Emily,
have you checked this one:
EBR 032: What To Do If You Work With Your Ex Boyfriend

Sarah
Guest
So my boyfriend and I dated for a year. Things started out great, but my mother had a huge mental breakdown, and this happened about a month into dating my ex. I hated being home because my mothers health was getting worse, so my ex would help me any chance he got. Picking me up, letting me stay at his family home, etc . He was amazing and his mom also helped out when my mother threw out all of my clothes, refused to give me insurance info, etc. In December, my mom decided to go back with my abusive… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

HI Sarah,

Start a 30 days nc first.. focus in healing and improving yourself and in posting, don’t chase.. and then continue doing that after nc, while slowly rebuilding rapport with him. That will help increase your chances.

Sarah
Guest

Than you so much for responding. I am going to start the 30 day NC today. Why do you think he allowed me to keep everything though, and why do you think he blocked me on instagram when he doesn’t even use it? He follows me on snapchat and Facebook and twitter, still. I know I shouldn’t be dwelling, but it’s all very confusing.

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

It can mean your posts still affect him and maybe he’s being kind because he knows you need those things more than him

Sarah
Guest
So my boyfriend and I dated for a year. Things started out great, but my mother had a huge mental breakdown, and this happened about a month into dating my ex. I hated being home because my mothers health was getting worse, so my ex would help me any chance he got. Picking me up, letting me stay at his family home, etc . He was amazing and his mom also helped out when my mother threw out all of my clothes, refused to give me insurance info, etc. In December, my mom decided to go back with my abusive… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

HI Sarah,

Start a 30 days nc first.. focus in healing and improving yourself and in posting, don’t chase.. and then continue doing that after nc, while slowly rebuilding rapport with him. That will help increase your chances.

Sarah
Guest

Than you so much for responding. I am going to start the 30 day NC today. Why do you think he allowed me to keep everything though, and why do you think he blocked me on instagram when he doesn’t even use it? He follows me on snapchat and Facebook and twitter, still. I know I shouldn’t be dwelling, but it’s all very confusing.

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

It can mean your posts still affect him and maybe he’s being kind because he knows you need those things more than him

Quiana
Guest
My bf of 3 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago. We’ve been on, and off for those years, because of trust issues and have a history of fighting. We lived together, and about a month ago we got into a fight, and I kicked him out forcing him to go back to his mom’s. I realized a day later I made a huge mistake, and begged him to come back. He did, but he was distant and different which made me overly annoying pestering him with constant relationship talks, and finally 2 weeks ago he broke up with… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

HI quiana,

no contact is for you to improve.. not to change somebody else’s mind.. but I think you have a chance. It’s just that living together has been emotionally draining for the both of you.If you do get back together, I think it would be better not to live together.Check this one:
EBR 060: “Dating Yourself” During No Contact With Veronica Grant

Quiana
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My bf of 3 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago. We’ve been on, and off for those years, because of trust issues and have a history of fighting. We lived together, and about a month ago we got into a fight, and I kicked him out forcing him to go back to his mom’s. I realized a day later I made a huge mistake, and begged him to come back. He did, but he was distant and different which made me overly annoying pestering him with constant relationship talks, and finally 2 weeks ago he broke up with… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

HI quiana,

no contact is for you to improve.. not to change somebody else’s mind.. but I think you have a chance. It’s just that living together has been emotionally draining for the both of you.If you do get back together, I think it would be better not to live together.Check this one:
EBR 060: “Dating Yourself” During No Contact With Veronica Grant

Eryn
Guest
Hi, my boyfriend and I broke up. We’ve been together for 10 years and 10 months. He broke up with me because he said he was no longer happy and he thinks he is falling for another girl. We broke up 2 weeks ago. I never beg or gnat. I let him go easily and even wish him well and happiness. I still want to get him back so I decided to use NC. I am now on my Day 7 NC. But I realized now that he just blocked me on facebook(my old account). I have new account by… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Eryn,

make your posts public in your new account. and yes, that’s a good sign that he blocked because he might be missing you.

Eryn
Guest
Hi, my boyfriend and I broke up. We’ve been together for 10 years and 10 months. He broke up with me because he said he was no longer happy and he thinks he is falling for another girl. We broke up 2 weeks ago. I never beg or gnat. I let him go easily and even wish him well and happiness. I still want to get him back so I decided to use NC. I am now on my Day 7 NC. But I realized now that he just blocked me on facebook(my old account). I have new account by… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Eryn,

make your posts public in your new account. and yes, that’s a good sign that he blocked because he might be missing you.

Claudia
Guest
Well I think things is getting serious right now because my boyfriend has a full out block on me. He unfriended me on Facebook and Snapchat, he blocked me from Instagram, Whatsapp. But in fact we were just having a “minor”( what I Thought) fight like bad things have happened in my life and I tried to share with him but he did not comfort me and send cold messages that infuriates me. Then all of a sudden he asked for a break up and just blocked me. Well at this moment it is day 3 of NC, but I… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

do you want to try the no contact rule?

Claudia
Guest
Well I think things is getting serious right now because my boyfriend has a full out block on me. He unfriended me on Facebook and Snapchat, he blocked me from Instagram, Whatsapp. But in fact we were just having a “minor”( what I Thought) fight like bad things have happened in my life and I tried to share with him but he did not comfort me and send cold messages that infuriates me. Then all of a sudden he asked for a break up and just blocked me. Well at this moment it is day 3 of NC, but I… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

do you want to try the no contact rule?

Guest
Guest
Hi Chris My ex broke up wid me for almost 5 months ago. Actually i was a very possessive girlfriend. He also blocked me on whatsapp . Then i went on no contact. N den he unblocked me. And recently i started talking wid him. But he told me dat he has moved on. But i told him dat i haven’t. And it was my mistake dat i also told him somthin really hurtful about the breakup. And he told me not to contact him anymore and blocked me on whatsapp n fb too. I dont kno wat ro do… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Restart nc, imprOve yourself and don’t rush in building rapport

Guest
Guest
Hi Chris My ex broke up wid me for almost 5 months ago. Actually i was a very possessive girlfriend. He also blocked me on whatsapp . Then i went on no contact. N den he unblocked me. And recently i started talking wid him. But he told me dat he has moved on. But i told him dat i haven’t. And it was my mistake dat i also told him somthin really hurtful about the breakup. And he told me not to contact him anymore and blocked me on whatsapp n fb too. I dont kno wat ro do… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Restart nc, imprOve yourself and don’t rush in building rapport

Guest
Guest
Hi Chris… My ex boyfriend broke up with me 5 months ago. He told me that I was very possessive and controlling. And he also blocked me on what’s app. Then I went for no contact. N he unblocked me after 3 months. So I jst randomly started talking with him. He was very friendly. He told me that he has moved on. N I told that I haven’t. And I also told somethin hurtful about the breakup. So he got angry n told me not to contact him anymore. N blocked me on fb n what’s app. But I… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Restart nc, imprOve yourself and don’t rush in building rapport

Guest
Guest
Hi Chris My ex broke up wid me for almost 5 months ago. Actually i was a very possessive girlfriend. He also blocked me on whatsapp . Then i went on no contact. N den he unblocked me. And recently i started talking wid him. But he told me dat he has moved on. But i told him dat i haven’t. And it was my mistake dat i also told him somthin really hurtful about the breakup. And he told me not to contact him anymore and blocked me on whatsapp n fb too. I dont kno wat ro do… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Restart nc, imprOve yourself and don’t rush in building rapport

Guest
Guest
Hi Chris My ex broke up wid me for almost 5 months ago. Actually i was a very possessive girlfriend. He also blocked me on whatsapp . Then i went on no contact. N den he unblocked me. And recently i started talking wid him. But he told me dat he has moved on. But i told him dat i haven’t. And it was my mistake dat i also told him somthin really hurtful about the breakup. And he told me not to contact him anymore and blocked me on whatsapp n fb too. I dont kno wat ro do… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Restart nc, imprOve yourself and don’t rush in building rapport

Guest
Guest
Hi Chris… My ex boyfriend broke up with me 5 months ago. He told me that I was very possessive and controlling. And he also blocked me on what’s app. Then I went for no contact. N he unblocked me after 3 months. So I jst randomly started talking with him. He was very friendly. He told me that he has moved on. N I told that I haven’t. And I also told somethin hurtful about the breakup. So he got angry n told me not to contact him anymore. N blocked me on fb n what’s app. But I… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Restart nc, imprOve yourself and don’t rush in building rapport

Berry
Guest

Okay… thanks :c

Berry
Guest
All the school is talking about us and there are “teams” like my friends are saying we both did things wrong when we dated and there are his friends who say i was too annoying and he did good to leave… a friend of mine wanted to know my ex’s version and talked to him and then came after to tell me what he told her and he said “i broke up because she was annoying and it pissed me off she would say she would change but never did and everytime i left she would say it again”. when… Read more »
Berry
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Okay… thanks :c

Berry
Guest
All the school is talking about us and there are “teams” like my friends are saying we both did things wrong when we dated and there are his friends who say i was too annoying and he did good to leave… a friend of mine wanted to know my ex’s version and talked to him and then came after to tell me what he told her and he said “i broke up because she was annoying and it pissed me off she would say she would change but never did and everytime i left she would say it again”. when… Read more »
Berry
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My one year boyfriend (and first love for the two of us) and I broke up many times… At least 7 times now. We both have different problems because of our family and we are easily stressed or anxious. He is the one leaving every time, coming back saying it’s stupid, because he loved me and bad moments happen, we just have to work to make things better and move on together, “you make me so happy when things are okay, why leave for a sad moment?”. But he would return on his words a day or even an hour… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Let’s say he’s really done.. then act as if you are moving on too.. get him interested through your improvements

Berry
Guest
My one year boyfriend (and first love for the two of us) and I broke up many times… At least 7 times now. We both have different problems because of our family and we are easily stressed or anxious. He is the one leaving every time, coming back saying it’s stupid, because he loved me and bad moments happen, we just have to work to make things better and move on together, “you make me so happy when things are okay, why leave for a sad moment?”. But he would return on his words a day or even an hour… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Let’s say he’s really done.. then act as if you are moving on too.. get him interested through your improvements

Soojin
Guest

Thanks Amor.
So you mean do I need send a clean slate email then 30days no contact again?
But I sent a begging email after 2days we broke up and afeter that I didn’t anything. Still need to do it again? Thanks so much for your advise 🙂

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

yes, say that you just want to thank him for everything and you understand what happened now, and hope that he has a great life ahead

Soojin
Guest

Thanks Amor.
So you mean do I need send a clean slate email then 30days no contact again?
But I sent a begging email after 2days we broke up and afeter that I didn’t anything. Still need to do it again? Thanks so much for your advise 🙂

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

yes, say that you just want to thank him for everything and you understand what happened now, and hope that he has a great life ahead

Soojin
Guest
I am in the middle of the no-contact rule with my ex-boyfriend and have been for 3 weeks. It was a messy break up and he was very mad and I kept calling so he blocked me. The last email I sent him was me apologising and that I don’t want to break up and still love him. I told him to give it some time. After three weeks of the no contact rule he hasn’t contacted me. Should I send him a clean slate email and start the no contact rule again? Do I still need to do 30days… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Soojin,

I think you should because you begged.. and then yes, restart a 30 day nc..

Soojin
Guest
I am in the middle of the no-contact rule with my ex-boyfriend and have been for 3 weeks. It was a messy break up and he was very mad and I kept calling so he blocked me. The last email I sent him was me apologising and that I don’t want to break up and still love him. I told him to give it some time. After three weeks of the no contact rule he hasn’t contacted me. Should I send him a clean slate email and start the no contact rule again? Do I still need to do 30days… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Soojin,

I think you should because you begged.. and then yes, restart a 30 day nc..

Samantha
Guest

I called him 14 times while I didnt know he was hanging with his friend. He said he would block me so I went over to his place unannounced. He was super mad and called me crazy. He full out blocked me. Did I ruin my chances of him ever thinking im not crazy, or for him ever unblocking me, or also getting him back?

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Samantha,

its not yet too late to change and improve in no contact period..

Samantha
Guest

I called him 14 times while I didnt know he was hanging with his friend. He said he would block me so I went over to his place unannounced. He was super mad and called me crazy. He full out blocked me. Did I ruin my chances of him ever thinking im not crazy, or for him ever unblocking me, or also getting him back?

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Samantha,

its not yet too late to change and improve in no contact period..