I can’t tell you how many clients I work with who literally tell me their ex has blocked them on everything.

If you find yourself in this situation then rest assured that you have come to the right place.

Today I am going to pull back the curtains and show you how to get your ex to unblock you. I am going to do this by showing you success stories of women who’ve been unblocked by their exes.

Also, if you read this article in it’s entirety I am going to tell you the story of what one of my clients had to do to get unblocked by her ex.

What she did was so brilliant that I’ve started recommending it to anyone within earshot.

Let’s begin!

Help! My Ex Blocked Me On Everything

There are really three things that I’d like to cover in this article.

  1. Understanding the difference between a partial block and a full out block.
  2. What success stories can teach us about getting an ex to unblock you
  3. What one of my clients had to do to get her ex to unblock her

Seems pretty straightforward, right?

It’s not.

These three topics will give us a lot to unpack.

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Tip #1: The Partial Block Vs. The Full Out Block

Believe it or not but there are two types of categories that being blocked can be divided into.

  1. The Partial Block
  2. The Full Out Block

It always shocks me how many people fail to understand which of these categories they fall into.

Here’s a quick rundown of what each of these mean.

The Partial Block = A situation where your ex has blocked you ALMOST everywhere.

To date, these are the most common ways people communicate with their exes.

  • Texting
  • Phone Calls
  • Facebook Messanger
  • Instagram
  • Snapchat
  • WhatsApp
  • Twitter
  • Tinder
  • Email

And I’m probably forgetting a big “social media platform” but I think you get the picture.

“The partial block” assumes that your ex has blocked you on almost every single platform but they’ve left one small way of getting in contact.

I’d estimate that close to 80% of the clients I work with fall into the category.

The second category is a little more difficult to deal with.

The Full Out Block: Takes a situation where your ex has blocked you EVERYWHERE

Scary, right?

But perhaps nothing is as frightening as what I’d like to talk to you about next.

False Positives With Partial Blocks

If you didn’t already know, all of the clients I work with get access to a special private support group.

(They get extra goodies essentially. )

To date, there are a little over 2,000 members in the group.

Each has gone through a breakup and are there to support you throughout your journey.

Anyways, a few weeks ago I stumbled across this really interesting comment from one of my members,

Essentially what she was saying is that she was curious how the iPhone handled “blocked messages.”

So, she had a friend block her and then she proceeded to send a message to her friend to see how the message behaved.

Predictably, her friend didn’t receive the message.

Unpredictably, her iPhone considered the message “delivered.”

You might be familiar with this language here when you send successful messages.

Turns out you can’t rely on this 100% of the time.

So, how are you supposed to determine if your ex has blocked you via text message.

Honestly, my best piece of advice here is to combine two concepts.

  1. Time
  2. Responsiveness

If a lot of time goes by with your ex not being responsive at all then it is probably a clear indicator that you are blocked.

What is a good time frame to go on?

Honestly, it depends on a lot of factors.

I’d say trust your gut.

Tip #2: What Successes Teach Us About Getting Unblocked

Above I mentioned that I have this special support group for my clients.

Perhaps one of the biggest assets of having a group like that is I get to communicate with people using my program all at once.

I also get to see a lot of success stories.

So, in preparation for this article I decided to look through the group in the last year for success stories when it came to getting unblocked.

My only goal was to determine if I could find any kind of consistency or through line I could use to teach you.

In all, I was able to find seven unblocking success stories.

Unblocking Success Story #1

Lesson Learned = Her ex admitted to unblocking her from time to time to check on her. This might indicate that exes seem to put up a “cool” front so that they look fine on the outside when they aren’t on the inside.

Unblocking Success Story #2: 

Lesson Learned= Be patient apparently.

Unblocking Success Story #3:

Lesson Learned= This particular person has something really interesting to say. Her ex blocked her on Facebook but that didn’t stop her from going out and having a good time. Upon our advice she posted the pictures on Facebook and a week later she gets unblocked.

This would seem to indicate that even if you are blocked your ex still pays attention to your photos.

Unblocking Success Story #4: 

Lesson Learned: This person did something interesting. She determined that she was blocked pretty much everywhere except email. So, if you were paying attention above you’d notice that she would be categorized as a “partial block”

After a few months of communicating through email unblocking became natural.

Unblocking Success Story #5: 

Lesson Learned: This one was inconclusive because she didn’t provide enough data.

Unblocking Success Story #6: 

Lesson Learned: Again, this one isn’t conclusive from an “unblocking” standpoint but she did have something interesting to say from her historical experience when it came to dating.

In her experience exes tend to block you because they are “lashing out.”

She also seems to imply that getting an ex to unblock you is simply a matter of riding it out.

Unblocking Success Story #7: 

Lesson Learned: This woman seems to come down on the side of patience. She states that it is usually only a matter of time before you are unblocked.

Recap Of Lessons Learned

If you are anything like me then you are probably a fiend for connivence and want all of what I just jotted down in one simple place for you to glance at.

Consider this to be your “unblocking” cheat sheet.

  • Exes have admitted to “unblocking” you temporarily to see what you are up to
  • They will pay attention to you on Facebook even when they have you blocked
  • Posting pictures of you going out and having a good time is a good idea
  • If you are in a “partial block” make sure you use your other means of communication
  • One of the primary reasons exes will block you is because they are “lashing out”
  • Patience seemed to be important
  • If you want long enough without doing anything “crazy” your ex can unblock you

Tip #3: The Brilliant Tactic One Of My Clients Used To Get Unblocked

I can’t take credit for this particular tactic even though I’d like to.

For this one I’ll have to nod to my client and thank her for letting me recommend it to you.

Here’s the background.

My client was in a situation where she was in a “partial block.”

She was able to communicate with her ex via text messages but she was blocked completely on Facebook.

Unsure of how to start a conversation with him on how to get him to “unblock her” she decided to do something brilliant.

Her ex was a big fan of the Miami Dolphins.

For those of you overseas that is a football team.

Anyways, Let’s consider her ex a Miami Dolphins super fan.

She happened to be at one of the games and took a bunch of pictures with friends.

Naturally she posted the photos on Facebook and was sure that he’d love to see them. She was literally about to send the pictures manually over text message when she got an idea.

She sent him this text,

This subtly confronted the “blocking” issue and since he was such a super fan he was forced to unblock her to see the pictures.

You see, the brilliant part of this strategy doesn’t lie in the execution but the carrot.

The only reason this worked for her was because she tempted her ex with something she knew he was passionate about.

This wouldn’t have worked if she tried to entice him with ballerina pictures.

The greater the carrot the greater the chances of being unblocked become.

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    February 9, 2021 at 9:45 am

    Hello, so my ex and I broke up and he blocked me after 2 weeks he unblocked me and textes me «  I have unblocked you lol » so I replied with «  it’s good you are back to your senses «  and he blocked me again. I got angry and sent him an email telling him never to unblock me and that’s he is so childish and that I hate him. It’s been two weeks and he hasn’t unblocked me. I feel hurt

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    January 7, 2021 at 3:25 am

    I need help so me and my ex broke up a week ago and we deleted each other from social media. Only 3 days later he adds me back social media and messages me that he misses me and loves me he regrets kicking me out and not wanting to talk to me when I wanted to talk and we talked for two days of us talking about what went wrong with our relationship and wanted to get back together and we were happy that we were talking again but he wanted long distance because his family didn’t want us to get back together and wouldn’t help him if we were to but I didn’t want to be kept a secret and a few months later he would bring me back home. The thing is I didn’t want to kept a secret we were high school sweethearts and been together for a little over 4 1/2 years and i wanted to come back home but his only answer to that is idk I just don’t know what I want but I gave you a choice and I didn’t want to wait so long for him. The thing with his family now they don’t like me he lied that I cheated I admit I am in the wrong one night on Christmas Eve I blacked out from drinking and I was comforting a aunts boyfriend because he was crying and so I was rubbing his back to comfort him and I never knew he kissed me on the cheek and was playing with my hair and my ex knows I hate my hair being played with but the thing is my ex didn’t do anything he just watched and let his family hate me knowing I didn’t know what was going on with my surroundings he was giving up on me and so on New Year’s Eve we got into a argument which was about I forgot to say give a hug and say hi to uncle(his dad) but I said hi to everyone else and they left to the store and he had to argue with me in front of his cousins telling me I’m so wrong for doing that so we went back home so I can be by myself home so he can cool off with his family and in the heat of the moment I told him I’m done with his family and our relationship you never defend me or anything you let them step all over me while I’m crying driving home and he was telling me he didn’t want me to go and wanted to think about our relationship and I agreed to and we kissed on New Year’s Eve and I told him I’d see him tomorrow after I got off work and a few hours later he texts me I’m a liar and I cheated on him and it doesn’t help he’s drinking and his family was feeding him lies about me and they don’t really like me. So I decided to tell him I’m going to leave for the weekend and I’ll come back on Sunday he didn’t believe all he did was throw my money, took my phone and Apple Watch, and tried taking my debit card which I’m stiff expected to get my paycheck soon, and he told me to leave and your not coming back and he told me we should break up and I left with my mom 3 hours away to let him cool down. Now fast forward now today he wanted me to come home and was going to tell his aunt to tell her what he wants which was me coming back home but I never got a text for 20 minutes and he texts me that he doesn’t know what he wants and I should move on from me and he went back to long distance and I told him I want to come home and all he tells me we should just be friends or even friends with benefits he just wants what best for us and he tells me he’s sorry that he texted me he just felt bad for me and next thing he blocks me from everything to forgive himself out like idk what happened to him he told me he loved and miss me being with him Nd than after his phone call with his aunt he turns on me to keep his family happy and I decided to block him as well to keep space and I know it’s a lot to read I need help he loves/misses me and regrets what Happened but now he just changed his mind all of a sudden

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    January 6, 2021 at 11:01 am

    I would like to tell a little about my story.
    So my ‘boyfriend’ and i were 6 years together. It all started when i was 11 years old. He wanted to be more than best friends.. I didn’t want to risk losing our friendship so we didn’t move in on it.. We stayed best friends.. Once i was 14 years old i realized we both love each other way to much to not become a couple.. So we kissed.. When i was 18 years old we moved in together. We had financial troubles and he got in a depression.
    Now we moved to a smaller town and he went tried taking medication for his depression. I tried to take care of him.. I’m 20 years old now and we both love each other so much…
    But he broke up with me. He thinks i’ll be happier without him and he needs to find himself again.. He stopped taking the medication and doesn’t even get out of bed now..

    We are broken up for a little more than a month now. He sais he misses me and it hurts way to much to see or talk to me… He had to block me on social media to try and move on…

    I don’t understand why we just can’t be together as we love each other so much…
    I’m following the NC and it isn’t hard because ofc i’m blocked on fb and instagram, i don’t know about my number but i want to give him space.. So yeah i can feel we’ll meet again but for now i guess i need to let him go.

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      January 6, 2021 at 9:07 pm

      Hi Febe, so it is normal for childhood sweethearts to hit a rough patch and come together again this usually happens as you both grow up different stages, you just need to understand that you need to do what is going to help you right now and that is going to be spending time with your friends, family and enjoying your life. He needs this time to feel like himself again, maybe even see who he is as an young adult. There is always a chance you can get back together, but for now stick with your No contact work on yourself in that time and reach out after 45 days, if you want to.

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    October 8, 2020 at 6:41 pm


    Literally my ex blocked on on venmo (?) and unfriended me on snapchat after six months of no contact. I had recently venmoed a guy I’d been casually dating and that’s the only thing I could think might cause this. Does this mean he was watching my venmo? I don’t understand why he did this when he still follows me on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter. Any chance you guys know what’s going on?


    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      October 21, 2020 at 7:48 pm

      Hi Emmie I would say that if he noticed an interaction with you and another man then yes there is a chance this is why he did it, but he would likely do the same if he seen you on another media. It is clearly and emotional reaction to the thought of you being with another guy

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    Tabitha Coetzee

    June 30, 2020 at 9:03 pm

    Hey Chris and team

    What if it is after 2 months of no contact, then there was a reason to initiate contact, but even if you gave the option he could reblock you on WhatsApp again, you didn’t give him reason to and had a polite conversation then got reblock Ed and only unblocked when you had reached out via other avenues to try and ask a question.. And now I’m at the point I just said I was there for him and wrote a nice message and promised to leave him be and hoped we both could heal and arrive at the point where we could talk like friends again. Currently my profile picture is not even a picture of me.

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    June 27, 2020 at 10:18 am

    Hi Chris and team

    What to do if he unblocks you if you needed to ask something and have civil convo only to reblock you even after rmonths… And more than once? Does that mean he is still not over me?

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      June 27, 2020 at 9:16 pm

      Hi Tabitha, if you are in no contact then oyu do not reach out – unless you share children or bills (rent for example) there is no excuse to breaking NC. Blocking and unblocking means that he is struggling seeing your profile from time to time, but is unblocking you as he wants to also know what you are doing. So be sure your social media is looking good and positive

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    June 4, 2020 at 4:54 pm

    So me and my ex were dating for six months and we recently broke up about three weeks ago. We were doing all right the first five months before quarantine/lockdown happened and that’s when the tiny arguments started happening. He said he needed space so I gave him space. I texted him a week after and we became friends again. Until couple days ago I asked him a question about a guy and he accused me of having him in my phone and that I was talking to him. He had blocked him on my other account but not my actual account. He said that if I’m so worried about him I should get with him instead. that’s when he told me he doesn’t want to go through this anymore and that he’s done with me for good. After that I tried to explain myself. I’ve sent many text messages but still no response. He has also blocked me on all social media and I’m pretty sure my number as well. Do you think he’s really done with me for good? I want to try the no contact rule but I’m afraid he’s never going to unblock and text me or talk to me ever again. what do I do?

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      June 7, 2020 at 12:39 pm

      Hey Ghazish, lock down has affected many people in many different ways including new relationships. So keep in mind you are not alone right now. You need to complete a 30 day minimum no contact where you work on your Holy Trinity and work to become Ungettable. Then use the articles that Chris has written to compose your first reach out text to get your exes attention. While you are blocked, be sure that your social media shows that you are in a positive mindset and doing well so that he can see you are happy with or without him.

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    June 4, 2020 at 10:59 am

    My ex abruptly left me about 2 weeks ago, while I was having a depression, claiming she needed time for herself. I was already in a bad place after losing my job and I really couldn’t take the pressure of losing my girl too at the same time so I excessively messaged her then left. I came back to no response so I messaged again. The next day, still no response at all so I called her a bunch of times to get one and was subsequently blocked. I can’t call, text, dm, all I can do is email and she never answers me when I do. I’ve tried everything possible to contact her because just before the breakup she was fully able to call me babe and tell me she loves me so I dont understand how someone can do something like that. It wasn’t like I didn’t listen, I expected her to at least come to me and say okay I need some time for myself especially since she put me through breakups 4 times before and we’ve only been together for 6 months. Yet still I love her so much and I cant get her out of my head. Truth be told I don’t really want to and idk what to do. Will someone please help.

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      June 7, 2020 at 8:24 pm

      Hey Keegan, so while you feel you dont want her out of your head. Right now you do need to put her to the back of your mind while you focus on yourself. You need to work on your Holy Trinity and working to be the best version of yourself. Working on your mental health is going to be key in getting your ex back if she found it difficult to deal with being depended on in the relationship.

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    JorNyece Cox

    June 2, 2020 at 8:07 pm

    I recently just broke up with my boyfriend a week ago we had been going through a rough patch for a while and we were contantly happy one minute and arguing and mad the next. It all came crumbling down when told me to change my wegdes becasue it made him feel like less of a man to have his girl friend taller than him. He took me back home and said I needed to go change my shoes or we couldnt hangout, i tried to compromise with him but he only wanted his way. He eventually told me to get out of his car twice and I turned to him and told him I loved him and that I couldnt do this anymore and left his car. I sent me some negative messages soon after, to which I did not respond. He then blocked me on everything. The next day I tried to message him to let him know that I would always love him and wanted us to stay friends, but he had blocked my number too.

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    JorNyece Cox

    June 2, 2020 at 7:47 pm

    I broke up with my boyfriend last week, we had been in an in and out rough patch for a while and it all blew up when he told me to change my shoes because he said it made him feel less of a man because I was a little taller than him with wedges and then told me to get out of his car twice. I told him that I loved him but I couldn’t do this anymore and broke it off. He sent a few negative messages after and then blocked me on everything. I wanted to let him know that I will always love him and I hope we would be friends because we had a great friendship in our relationship. I feel so sad because I loss my best friend.

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    May 31, 2020 at 8:58 am

    My ex told me he was going to use apps to talk to women, he said I would get in the way and confuse things and then he told me he wasnt going to contact me anymore. I went into NC and then about 11 days later he blocked me on facebook. I dont know why or what I’ve done. Do I continue my NC or start again? I havent tried to contact him. I’m just a bit worried hes using facebook mesager to contact other women, when before he was heavily using WhatsApp and thats stopped. I just dont know what to do :-(.

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      June 7, 2020 at 8:49 pm

      Hi Jane, I would suggest that you follow a 45 day NC to work on yourself. You need to focus on the Ungettable girl information and get yourself on the dating apps talking to guys. The way your ex has behaved is very disrespectful way to end things with you and that is not acceptable. During your NC I want you to work on what you want from a relationship. And what you want in a man. Then you keep that list to compare when you meet people and if they do not meet those expectations then you do not accept less for yourself!

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    May 22, 2020 at 7:03 am

    Me and my boyfriend broke up last week. We had been arguing a lot lately and this seems to be the final straw for him. I went down his phone and found that he had cheated on me early in the relationship, and I was willing to forgive and forget as it was 2 years ago and we had only been together 2 months, but he ended it as it’s the second time I looked down his phone. He has lied to me in the past about where he is on nights out and he claimed it was to avoid arguments & he would normally be at his friends house. After 2 days of emailing And talking about it all, I have now cut off conversation and doing the no contact rule. He has told me he will never trust me (even though he cheated), but had apologised for what he has done. He’s a very angry person and has told me he’s struggling and is very low with trying to move on, but he’s adamant that it’s what he wants to do. I can be childish too at times and it’s one of the things I’m working on myself. We always had a very loving conversation and he had some immaturities too with his lifestyle, but we clicked so well. Do you think no contact could really work for me? Or does it sound pretty adamant that he’s done? I’m scared he’s going to meet someone new or go bad to behaving like a lad in bars and clubs and sleeping with random girls…

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      May 29, 2020 at 10:19 pm

      Hi Alice so there is a chance that following the program can work, but its more than just No Contact, its a step by step program. So I would suggest while you are completing your No Contact you read some more articles about this process. With how your ex has treated you and has cheated on you, I would say him not being able to trust you to not go through his phone, you not trusting him when he goes out. Is a sign that this relationship is not healthy. So I would spend some time working on yourself, your self esteem and confidence. Read and work on your Holy Trinity

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    May 20, 2020 at 10:04 pm

    Hello my ex left me 3 days ago for her ex and blocked me on everyting and said I was going nowhere in life and I just don’t know how to take this I wanna talk to her I wanna reach out and work this out

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      May 20, 2020 at 10:15 pm

      Hi Nic you will need to complete a 30 day No Contact before attempting to reach out

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    May 19, 2020 at 3:36 am

    My ex an I broke up last week and she blocked me on pretty much everything. Instagram, phone, even Venmo! Her and I were best friends before we started dating and this has been a pattern of
    Hers when we fight or argue, to shut me out, block me so she “can’t be in pain seeing me” (from what she says) and then reaches out months later. Idk if this will happen again this time around but I miss her like hell and want to give her that space but also don’t want to let go

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    May 17, 2020 at 4:23 pm

    My boyfriend and I broke up four months ago. Although I wouldn’t leave him alone to begin with he never responded to my messages but he didn’t block me. I have had no contact whatsoever for one month and only one neutral text sent in the last 2 months, but then 4 days ago he blocked me on WhatsApp but nowhere else. I’m just curious as to the timing of this because it seems very random and why he would actually go through the effort of blocking me because although minimal it certainly takes more effort than just not clicking on my story (which would have been the only thing he saw of me) when I was leaving him alone.

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    May 10, 2020 at 4:29 pm

    Hey Chris, need your help pls… I broke up with my ex 2 months ago and he blocked me after we broke up. But that was partial block so I reached out and he unblock me then we agreed to be fwb. Since then I have been acting like a crazy needy gf. I texted him all the time and he just ignored my message and I getting more crazy after he ignored the texts. He is acting real cold and he blocked me on everything two weeks ago. I installed a social media app which he will be able to see me joining the app. I wasn’t know he is using that app until I install it and he didn’t block me on that. I behave myself and doing no contact rule since the day he blocked me on everything. I wasn’t sure what should I do the next. Pls advice me T.T

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      May 20, 2020 at 2:09 pm

      Hey Min, so the issues is you agreed to friends with benefits… this means you dont get to behave like a girlfriend. If you want a relationship with him then you need to start the program where you do not give him any benefits while hes not your boyfriend. Work on your emotional control during your NC and make sure that when he reaches out to you, you ignore him for at least 30 days before you move on to the texting phase

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    May 10, 2020 at 1:24 pm


    So basically we were together for 11 months ended up moving in together but started arguing over money ect he has blamed me for everything since the break up but after a week of me doing no contact since break up he asked me to meet we ended up sleeping together and twice, he was being so cold and told me who knows in a few months we might start talking again, but then we had another argument and he said we were never ever getting back together and he has me now blocked on everything, is there anything I can do I love him with all of my heart and I am in the middle of counselling to sort my half of the problem as I was needy and relied on him for comfort all of the time.
    Please help

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      May 20, 2020 at 2:55 pm

      Hi Anna you need to complete a 30 day NC again and when you start talking to your ex again you need to avoid sleeping with him until you are back together. It sounds as if your ex still likes you but you are clashing in some way. Spend some time learning about communicating in relationships and see if this helps you express yourself differently. However this does not mean that he will be spending time improving himself so you may see that you continue to clash when spending time together

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    May 8, 2020 at 9:35 am

    My ex broke up with me 2 months back as he was thinking his freedom was being taken. Then later we started talking again and things were getting back to normal. He was even thinking to come back together when I fought with one of his female friends and he didn’t like that. It was out of jealousy. I said sorry. After 2 days he blocked me from everywhere as I was pleading him to come back together. Well he unblocked me the next day. But since then we have not talked. He does see my Stories on IG sometimes. Its been 4 days since this. What should I do?

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      May 12, 2020 at 9:55 pm

      Hi Shanaya, I would suggest that you follow a second No Contact for 30 days. And then reach out again, I would avoid any drama as you do not want it to relate you to hostile arguments

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    May 5, 2020 at 11:28 am

    Hey, we dated for 6 months and we had some misunderstandings.we work together but she blocked me on Facebook , text and calls but do communicate through whatsapp. I still love her and she knows that. She ask for favors atimes but she tells me she is not taking any advantage. For the last one and a half months during weekends she comes to my place. We share same bed but never had any intimacy with her.She behaves cold and hot.i still love her but she does not want to understand for the mistakes I did.please help me.

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      May 5, 2020 at 10:41 pm

      Hey there Kai, so if she is asking you for favours she knows that you are willing to do what she asks because you want to be with her. So you need to stop this and you need to start your No Contact period. This should be for at least 30 days maybe 45 if you feel that you are not emotionally in control by the time you are supposed to reach out to her starting the texting phase

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    March 31, 2020 at 9:14 am

    My ex BF decided to block me off his Phone and Instagram, but he kept my connection via LinkedIn. In fact he usually has his LinkedIn account in private mode, yet he checked my account same day of blocking me in other platforms with his LinkedIn account showing. I don’t understand why he did that as if sending a msg that “I am checking your account “! Before blocking me, he said it was too much drama for it’s worth and he has no time for that! Anyway, the day I saw him checking my LinkedIn, I sent him couple msgs explaining my points and said I wanted to be with someone who appreciates my kindness not a coward who just blocks people easily. Then I removed off my connections. Don’t know what to do, I feel so bad and miss him a lot.

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