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604 thoughts on “Your Ex Boyfriend Blocked You… What Now? (Video)”

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    Konfused

    January 20, 2016 at 9:04 pm

    Hi,
    This is a bit off topic but I was wondering how crucial the time frame is for reasons an ex might come back. I know there is an article similar to what I’m talking about where you say the longer/medium timeline is usually more successful. However in my experience (only exes who were after sex) came back in the medium time. I guess what I am trying to ask is, isn’t it more likely that an exes motivation for contacting you later rather than sooner proves their intentions aren’t genuine? It’s been six weeks, nothing. I guess he must’ve found better..

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      Konfused

      January 21, 2016 at 6:51 pm

      But he hasn’t contacted me, so I feel that is a bad sign.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 21, 2016 at 12:01 pm

      H Konfused,

      Hmm.. nope, because even after a very long time, if he contacted you, that means he’s still thinking of you. If it’s sooner, that’s just normal.

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    kim

    January 18, 2016 at 8:20 pm

    Hi me and my ex broke up a year ago and he still send me messages that he miss me and things like that but in the same time he doesn’t want us to get back together because of the distance he lives in Germany and i am in Asia so i decided to tell him that we will stop talking because i cant move on and it seems to me that he did and after that he started to send me messages every two days and i answered his last message after a day from he sent it , i answered because i cant ignore someone like this and now he ignored my message , i mean why he just couldn’t respect my choice and why he ignored me i don’t understand what does he want . can you tell me some advice what should i do ?

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 18, 2016 at 9:38 pm

      Hi Kim,
      what do you v really want? make it clear to him and be firm about it

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    Liu Fei

    January 18, 2016 at 2:51 pm

    Sorry about my bad English grammar.
    This is my story and I need your help because I really really want to get my true love back…
    Me and my ex have been together for two years. He is a pilot. He is the best man ever. He loved me the best way he could….
    But 1 months ago, he broke up with me. These are his reasons :
    + His father doesn’t like me anyway. He sees no future with me!
    + I didn’t spend much time as he wants. And didn’t care about him
    + He was so tired after all
    + He didn’t love me anymore

    I were to clingy , needy, texted him like a thousand message over and over , promised I will change bla bla bla ( Oh I wish I know your website before those stupid things ) . You know, those things never WORK!

    and just one week after our break up, he has a new girlfriend, I know that he texted her for one or two months before broke up with me !!!! But she is a flight attendant. She lives in a different country and just come back there 5-6 times / year ( maybe ). So now , he broke up with me to be in a long distance relationship with another girl ?!
    He bloked me on phone / facebook / viber ….
    I thought it’s a full out of block but it’s not! He may forget block me on whatsapp
    In his last birthday , 5 days , I sent him a birthday wish on whatsapp and he even pretended not see this mess. I got no response….
    I tried to forget him, moving on, everything an “Over a relation” website told me….
    But NO!
    I miss him, SO MUCH! I miss every single memories…..
    Is there anything I can do to make this thing better ?
    Thank you.
    Again, sorry about my grammar….

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 18, 2016 at 8:16 pm

      H Liu Fei
      your grammar is good . I understood you perfectly. Honestly, the thing about pilots is they’re are known to be Playboys. they’re constantly surrounded with beautiful women but because of that , sometimes they just think of them as a short time relationship too. because they’re you’re easy to get, they’re also easy to forget.
      if you want to get him back , start working on yourself as the ungettable girl. you might enjoy the process have time to think about what your standards are

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    worried

    January 18, 2016 at 9:59 am

    Me and my now ex have been together for a bit over the year, he has his flaws and I have mine but new years he had enough and broke up because he could not handle my depression any longer. I only contacted him to sort out living (he lived with me) and tried to stay clear most of the time over the past 2 weeks that he still lived with me (moving out today). He keeps saying he doesn’t want to give mixed signals and he doesn’t love me anymore etc but his looks and some actions seem to differ. He was very upset when i started packing his belongings to help him move and he wondered where I was when wasn’t home. Yet as soon as he knew he said again remember we are over don’t hope…

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      Worried

      January 19, 2016 at 10:18 am

      He finally did move out yesterday but when I came home he left things like his toothbrush, his bedsheet and his underwear, all of which in plain sight where they used to be but texted oh i probably forgot stuff just put it in a box and we’ll do that later.
      I don’t get it, I mean the bedsheet was clearly his and he knew that, why leave the toothbrush?
      I am now doing the NC for my own sake and his but I will eventually have to give him that stuff back and some he left in storage. This is so confusing

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      Worried

      January 18, 2016 at 10:54 am

      I forgot to post the question:( He is emotionally blocking me but his actions are confusing. What do I do?

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 18, 2016 at 9:44 pm

      For me let him be until he becomes clear or take the opportunity ever time he tries to be friendly

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    Konfused

    January 18, 2016 at 9:33 am

    Hi Chris,

    Decided to give up on my ex cos after 6 weeks NC and nothing it just was getting stupid. I do miss him still, but I’m done chasing. If you read my other comments I had tried hard for a while. I am getting ready to put myself out there and date again.

    I was wondering if you could put up an article about tricks/ways to make any man pursue you. I got asked out and basically only responded to this guy every few hrs, then he says he missed me…we haven’t even met in person we are talking on a dating site. Apart from being unavailable what subtle things can you do to be the standout?which is hard on a dating site..

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 18, 2016 at 10:14 am

      HI Konfused,

      hmm.. the obvious one is being on your best look. Others can be projecting happiness and empathy

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    Sick&Tired

    January 18, 2016 at 5:53 am

    Don’t know if you remember me Chris I was dating my Sons teacher..to give a quick run through we fell quick we dated a few months were together everyday, planning a life together..problem was he felt He had to raise me due to my lack of experience in relationships. We broke up in Nov officially we were going to work on thinngs I became a text knat and pushed him away..he unfriended me and blocked me from his phone..he unblocked me contacted me Dec 26 we had a fight a couple days later a misunderstanding I didn’t argue etc Im not sure if he blocked me from his phone but today out of nowhere because we havent texted or talked since Dec26 he COMPLETELY BLOCKED ME FROM FACEBOOK…before I was unfriended now BLOCKED WHY????!! IVE READ YOUR BOOKS, I DONT talk to his friends do I start no contact again n wait for a parent teacher con or some school meeting & look drop dead gorgeous in hopes he’ll realize after a month or so he misses me? What do I need to do?? Thanks Chris &Amor in advance..

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      Sick&Tired

      January 18, 2016 at 6:23 pm

      I want to know why do you guys think he blocked me completely out of nowhere? We hadn’t talked since before the new year and I haven’t tried reaching out? I was unfriended but NOT BLOCKED?! I ONLY KNEW because sometimes Id see the things that were public but Im not seeing anything at all its likd he doesn’t exist so yea blocked? Why woukd he do that? Is he trying to get over me or iz the breakup finally hitting him? Its driving me insane hes taking it this far?

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 18, 2016 at 7:34 pm

      He’s the only one who knows why but
      you can check this out to give you possible reasons why. Your Ex boyfriend blocked you…what now?

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      Sick&Tired

      January 18, 2016 at 1:19 pm

      Thank you. .I’ll keep you guys updated

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 18, 2016 at 8:51 am

      Hi Sick and tired,
      first is, no contact period is more for your betterment so you can regain your self esteem apart from him. And also for the negative feelings to subside and the both of you a chance to talk things clearly and of course, one of the benefits also is for him to see you in better light. so yeah, go with the steps of no contact period

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    ladoo

    January 18, 2016 at 4:36 am

    In August I got out of my 4 month relationship with my ex for some stupid/unclear reasons. One of them being “I don’t feel the same way you feel” which I now know is a total lie because for the past 4 months (after our breakup) he has been so flirty. He would go from friendly to flirty to ignoring me. It was a terrible cycle which would result in me sending paragraphs asking him why he was acting like this and to stop lying to himself. I wanted to talk things out and even if it couldn’t work at least it would be closure. But whenever I would ask he would ignore it or change the subject and the same behaviors would repeat itself. Now it’s 2016 and I decided I was done because I was emotionally drained. I unfriended/blocked him on my social media. It’s been 2 weeks and I’m so anxious. I want him to talk to me. He has my number and email which isn’t blocked. I only did it for my well-being because this cycle and nothing being clear was almost torture. Can you please give me any advice?

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      ladoo

      January 18, 2016 at 5:47 pm

      Thanks for answering! I just don’t know if it’s worth talking to him after NC if he’s not being clear and flirting when he feels like it. I hope he will contact me. Thank you 🙂

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 18, 2016 at 7:39 pm

      you’re welcome! 🙂

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 18, 2016 at 10:19 am

      Hi Iadoo,
      If he wants to talk, he will contact you. As for you, you can initiate contact after NC period if you still want to be with him

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    rachel

    January 17, 2016 at 8:24 pm

    I asked my ex bf to get back with me. He said he needed time and was confused. We continued speaking everyday for 2 weeks. I pushed him for an answer he said lets continue being friends and speaking everyday. I got mad cos i felt like i had been led on. He said he had enough and has blocked me on whatsapp and deleted me off fb and instagram. I’m on 2 weeks of no contact. Do I have a chance after the full no contact?

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 18, 2016 at 9:23 am

      Hi Rachel,

      We can’t guarantee it will work 100% but there is always a chance. No contact helps raise it

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    Stella

    January 17, 2016 at 6:26 pm

    What if it is the simple fact that he just maybe wants to get over me?
    What if he hasn’t hasn’t blocked me, but seems to have put me on the restricted list where I can’t see a large portion of his activities?

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    Orange

    January 17, 2016 at 5:53 am

    That makes a lot of sense, I will definitely try that once the NC rule period is over 😀
    Honestly, thank you so much for your help. It’s awesome that you are a new member of the website!!

    Thank you so much,
    Sincerely,
    Orange 😛

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 17, 2016 at 7:39 am

      Thank you too Orange! and you’re welcome!

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    EBR Team Member: Amor

    January 16, 2016 at 10:27 pm

    Hi Orange,

    From his reaction yes. You still have the upper hand if you do that and you’re not offending him. It also shows him you have a life apart from him. Just be careful of how you do it. Make sure it sounds more cliffhanger text than asking for permission text or being too cautious text.
    Like, “Girls are here!Fun time!” is different from, “Girls are here, just catching a movie ok?”, do you get it? 🙂

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    Yuna Braska

    January 16, 2016 at 10:02 am

    HAHAHA OMG CHRIS DID YOU JUST HUM THE THEME FROM FINAL FANTASY X IN THE HOLY GRAIL PART?

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      Chris Seiter

      January 16, 2016 at 3:47 pm

      Heck ya!

      You picked up on that huh.

      A little of my inner nerd coming out.

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    EBR Team Member: Amor

    January 16, 2016 at 7:55 am

    My pleasure Orange,

    I hope you don’t mind my question. Did you just stop replying but didn’t mention that you were doing other things? Like, “BRB in a couple of hours. Gotta do my chores!” If that’s the case then use that kind of cliffhanger text, at least he knows you’re doing something that’s why you’re not replying. Another thing is, a person who’s truly over somebody doesn’t angry. I’m not sure what he truly feels for you. It can be love overridden by anger or he’s just annoyed but the bottom line is, he’s still affected. If he turns aggressive in social then it’s better that you’re blocked. It can even help you go through NC period easier.

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    EBR Team Member: Amor

    January 16, 2016 at 4:32 am

    Hello Orange,

    We’re doing our best to help, so thank you too Orange! It’s funny he hasn’t noticed the same pattern after you’ve used NC thrice but it’s good it works everytime. I think what lacks is consistency ‘coz the NC works but then after that, when he gets angry you can’t help but react to it which is normal when you’re not used to separating yourself from the situation and the feelings of others. So, don’t feel bad. I’m wondering how you’re cutting the conversation. Why does he get mad? From what you said, anger seems to be the reason of your fights. Is it because he gets angry easily because of his jealousy or he just really gets angry easily? And why do you think it’s for sure that he’s over you? Lastly, If he’s always angry, I think you need to remind yourself that whatever hurtful words he said when he’s angry, naturally it’s the anger talking not him. If he’s like that, he needs to work on that.

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    Konfused

    January 15, 2016 at 10:00 pm

    Hi,

    What do we do if Facebook is not an option because he deleted it, you deleted his number but not sure he deleted yours? We weren’t together long enough to have mutual friends. How can he check up on me now?

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      Konfused

      January 16, 2016 at 12:28 pm

      6 weeks(not long I know)

    2. Chris Seiter

      Chris Seiter

      January 16, 2016 at 12:52 am

      How long were you together exactly?

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