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604 thoughts on “Your Ex Boyfriend Blocked You… What Now? (Video)”

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    Berry

    April 16, 2017 at 9:31 pm

    Okay… thanks :c

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      Berry

      April 21, 2017 at 5:47 pm

      All the school is talking about us and there are “teams” like my friends are saying we both did things wrong when we dated and there are his friends who say i was too annoying and he did good to leave… a friend of mine wanted to know my ex’s version and talked to him and then came after to tell me what he told her and he said “i broke up because she was annoying and it pissed me off she would say she would change but never did and everytime i left she would say it again”. when someone mentions me to him he gets really upset and say “she’s a bitch” and “i don’t care about her anymore”.
      what his friends say is true i wasnt a patient/attentive/caring gf especially at the end of our relationship… and i understand he got fed up with my promises of change leading no where. i saw my therapist only once a month when i was dating him because he would say “you dont need it you can change by yourself” but i never managed make big changes… im seeing my therapist again now and i wont stop like before… but he’s really pissed and doesn’t believe in me anymore. :c like i said he left mulitple times when we dated for the same reason and even during this last (and final) break-up he had a bit of hope but then it disappeared when i said one small bad thing and he left for real…
      now im working on improving myself (like i should have during our relationship…) but i feel like he will never be interested again because i let him down so many times… he’s hurt i didnt try to fix things… i really love him but i wasnt a good person 🙁 he started smoking again and gets in trouble with all his teachers now btw… like he used to before we dated… and only hang out with his bff who hates me because he wanted to date me but then lost interest and i got clingy when he changed his mind :((((

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    Berry

    April 16, 2017 at 3:42 pm

    My one year boyfriend (and first love for the two of us) and I broke up many times… At least 7 times now. We both have different problems because of our family and we are easily stressed or anxious. He is the one leaving every time, coming back saying it’s stupid, because he loved me and bad moments happen, we just have to work to make things better and move on together, “you make me so happy when things are okay, why leave for a sad moment?”. But he would return on his words a day or even an hour after, saying he doesn’t love me and that he’s just staying to not make me sad. It happened again 2 days ago, he left, then came back 2 days after saying he just wants to enjoy those holidays we’ve been waiting for for so long (we had 2 weeks of tests non-stop). Then he left again at the end of the day. We were resting on his bed (we spent the day out buying stuff to prepare the holidays and we both cried a lot because when we got back together earlier we both told a lot to each other, but at the end of the conversation it was just relief and joy for both of us), and I noticed he had removed all the things I bought him from his room. I asked him where he put it and if he wanted to put them back with me one day (a stupid sentence I realize now). His mood changed completely. He was all tender and happy before and now he had dead eyes and a cold voice. He said “I don’t love you anymore, that’s why I removed everything, now leave”. It was as if he was someone else and it’s not the first time it happens but it stills got me :c. I asked him if he had lied all day, he replied yes. Then he gave me my stuff without a glance. I was so shocked and angry I asked to see where the stuff I gave him were. I tore a paper fox into pieces out of anger (another bad decision…) (he said “don’t do this in front of me or in my house”…), then we proceeded to choose which one to keep and which to trash. He kept the photos, the plushes, flower with my perfume and a matching bracelet. I said “it was lovely being with you… i wish you the best” and tried to kiss him on the cheek but he threw me out of the house. The day after he sent a text asking if he could pass by to get back one of his plush (a childhood one). So he came. He only looked at me when i arrived he looked sad, i put the things in his bag and then he left as if I wasn’t there with a bored “thanks”. Then I called his mum for work and asked her how he was, and said i thought abt apologizing to him. She asked why and told her the story since she asked… The day later i help a friend with homeworks and she calls him to ask questions abt the homeworks… he’s very bored and she called a second time, i had to explain what we needed in the second call it was very awkward. He has blocked me on facebook, but unfriended/unfollowed on the other things where he is active.
    A week later, i saw him in a programming class. I went to see him at the end, he didnt want to talk and was really annoyed but i pushed a bit i wanted to understand why… he said “youve been a pain for 5 months you never listened now im done. live your life i will live mine”… i apologized he said he didnt care. i said i would come by to give a gift to her mum to say thank her for the work she found me n he yelled “dont talk to her” and i said “it has nothing to do with you gimme a break. its my professonial life sorry it involves your mum.” he kept saying “leave her alone”, i kept responding “it has nothing with you” and i pushed him :'(. then he said “i dont care about my dad why would i care abt my mum” and i was like wtf… “why are you telling me you dont want me to see her then?”. he said “i dont want you to contact her” again and i got really angry and hold him by the collar and told him “dont interfere in my work. you arent the center of the world” and he responded “you arent scaring me” i said “its not my intention. i just want you to let me talk to your mum abt work only”. then i pulled back. he said “if i wanted to talk to you i have your number that i blocked so i wont find it” i said “i wanted to talk because i cared about you” and he responded “i dont care about you. fucking leave.” i walked away but turned back and said “dont give me order im not your dog” and left saying he was a prick… i wanted to cry during the whole thing.
    I’m going NC now but do I have a chance? Or is he really done…

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      April 16, 2017 at 5:21 pm

      Let’s say he’s really done.. then act as if you are moving on too.. get him interested through your improvements

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    Soojin

    March 30, 2017 at 2:56 am

    Thanks Amor.
    So you mean do I need send a clean slate email then 30days no contact again?
    But I sent a begging email after 2days we broke up and afeter that I didn’t anything. Still need to do it again? Thanks so much for your advise 🙂

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      March 30, 2017 at 6:20 pm

      yes, say that you just want to thank him for everything and you understand what happened now, and hope that he has a great life ahead

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    Soojin

    March 27, 2017 at 7:56 am

    I am in the middle of the no-contact rule with my ex-boyfriend and have been for 3 weeks. It was a messy break up and he was very mad and I kept calling so he blocked me. The last email I sent him was me apologising and that I don’t want to break up and still love him. I told him to give it some time. After three weeks of the no contact rule he hasn’t contacted me. Should I send him a clean slate email and start the no contact rule again? Do I still need to do 30days or 45days? Thank you

    Thanks, looking forward to your answer as soon as possible.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      March 28, 2017 at 4:28 pm

      Hi Soojin,

      I think you should because you begged.. and then yes, restart a 30 day nc..

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    Samantha

    March 25, 2017 at 8:23 pm

    I called him 14 times while I didnt know he was hanging with his friend. He said he would block me so I went over to his place unannounced. He was super mad and called me crazy. He full out blocked me. Did I ruin my chances of him ever thinking im not crazy, or for him ever unblocking me, or also getting him back?

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      March 26, 2017 at 2:14 pm

      Hi Samantha,

      its not yet too late to change and improve in no contact period..

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    Ana

    March 23, 2017 at 7:18 am

    So I did 45 days of NC with my ex after he blocked me on everything and said I’d never hear from him again.

    At 30 days I sent a really nice email apologizing for my part and making it clear that I’d like to try to make things work. No response.

    Two weeks later, I sent another saying something along the lines of, “I don’t know if you got my last email, but I’d still like to meet up.”

    Huzzah! He responded. He said he had come by my apartment earlier in the day but I was out. His email was friendly. He said we should meet up this Sunday as he’s away with his family for this week but will be back.

    So we have plans to meet.

    But I’ve noticed, he still has me blocked on everything but email. Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, and phone are all blocked.

    I asked him to text me what time he wants to meet, but rather than text me, he sent an email. So I assumed he deleted my number and I sent it to him in another email and said I also wanted to ask if he was seeing someone because then I feel it would be inappropriate for us to meet up.

    No response yet. I would assume he’s not dating anyone because it would be out of character for him to want to see an ex while he’s dating. Plus, I saw him on Tinder a week ago.

    But my mind is still going wild.

    I can’t understand why he wouldn’t unblock me if he wants to see me. Perhaps he’s being cautious?

    And how should I proceed when we meet? I’ve asked him to come over a little earlier so we can chat and he agreed and said he’d see how much time he has when he gets home.

    I’m worried that he’s going to come over and tell me he just wants to be friends, but I think it’s pretty obvious from my email that that’s not where I stand.

    So I wrote out a letter explaining that I would like things to work out and the boundaries if we do start over. When he comes over, I was going to scope out the situation and then let him read it.

    But I wish I could get inside of his head…why am I still blocked?

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      March 26, 2017 at 6:43 am

      Hi Ana,

      you’re rushing it.. It he doesn’t want to get back together, telling him that that’s what you what will either friendzone you or he will avoid you.. have you met?

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    Ana

    March 23, 2017 at 7:17 am

    So I did 45 days of NC with my ex after he blocked me on everything and said I’d never hear from him again.

    At 30 days I sent a really nice email apologizing for my part and making it clear that I’d like to try to make things work. No response.

    Two weeks later, I sent another saying something along the lines of, “I don’t know if you got my last email, but I’d still like to meet up.”

    Huzzah! He responded. He said he had come by my apartment earlier in the day but I was out. His email was friendly. He said we should meet up this Sunday as he’s away with his family for this week but will be back.

    So we have plans to meet.

    But I’ve noticed, he still has me blocked on everything but email. Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, and phone are all blocked.

    I asked him to text me what time he wants to meet, but rather than text me, he sent an email. So I assumed he deleted my number and I sent it to him in another email and said I also wanted to ask if he was seeing someone because then I feel it would be inappropriate for us to meet up.

    No response yet. I would assume he’s not dating anyone because it would be out of character for him to want to see an ex while he’s dating. Plus, I saw him on Tinder a week ago.

    But my mind is still going wild.

    I can’t understand why he wouldn’t unblock me if he wants to see me. Perhaps he’s being cautious?

    And how should I proceed when we meet? I’ve asked him to come over a little earlier so we can chat and he agreed and said he’d see how much time he has when he gets home.

    I’m worried that he’s going to come over and tell me he just wants to be friends, but I think it’s pretty obvious from my email that that’s not where I stand.

    So I wrote out a letter explaining that I would like things to work out and the boundaries if we do start over. When he comes over, I was going to scope out the situation and then let him read it.

    But I wish I could get inside of his head…why am I still blocked?

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      March 26, 2017 at 6:41 am

      Hi Ana,

      you’re rushing it.. It he doesn’t want to get back together, telling him that that’s what you what will either friendzone you or he will avoid you.. have you met?

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    sanjukta

    March 5, 2017 at 7:46 am

    Hi… me and my exboyfriend just broken up 2months ago… after breakup also we share good bond… we spend time with each other..we used to talk… everything was almost good.. But suddenly one of my friend said me that my exboyfriend is double standard he was saying all bad bad things about me to his friends and public… after hearing this i got so furious that i blame him for everything i told him hurtfull things that effected him badly… after 2days we had fight again i keep on convincing him that am sorry for hurting him i didnt mean it.. but he is like cant get over my words.. i drop msgs after msgs calls aftr calls but he started avoiding me.. he said he cant forgive me and he dnt want to talk anymore… than he blocked me from phone whatsaap instagram facebook messenger… only he didnt block in my facebook app thats why i can see his post and he can see mine.. but i cnt text him or call me… he clossed all the door for me.. he hates me he said…. what should i do now? I really love him hard…. wont he never talk to me again?wont he never unblocked me again? Pleaseee help me out…. am in pain i cant bear it 3days alrdy gone he blocked me

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      March 7, 2017 at 5:14 am

      Hi Sanjukta,

      do you want to try the advice above?

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    Mariena

    February 26, 2017 at 4:38 am

    My ex and I broke up after a fight this past December. A few days later I tried to apologize but he ignored me so did to do the No Contact Rule. After 30 days he still ignored me so I waited another 30 days. Now he has me completely blocked. We don’t have any mutual friends and I have no way of contacting him except showing up on his door step. At this point should I just give up? I’ve tried dating improving myself but I can’t get my mind off of him. I feel like I’ll never get over him. I have no idea if he’s dating again and I’m almost ready to just go over to his place and beg for him to come back. Do you think this would be a something worth trying?

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      Mariena

      February 27, 2017 at 8:29 pm

      So you are saying I should wait another 45 days and then try contacting him one last time? I will give it one more try but before I begin, can I tell him one last thing such as I’ll give him all the space he needs? I can still get in touch with him through e-mail.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 28, 2017 at 6:11 pm

      I mean you’re already in nc now because you’re blocked right? This no contact will be 45 days at least.Don’t email him. Just live life. You would sound like you’re trying to convince if you further email him since you’re already block.

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      Mariena

      February 27, 2017 at 12:42 am

      Around the time the 1st NC ended, he was going for a promotion at his job so I reminded how well he did while preparing (helped him prepare) and wished him good luck. After the 2nd NC, I congratulated him on getting the promotion. I only posted a few updates and pictures of my own journey to self improvement such as doing volunteer work and learning better ways to deal with stress. I should also mention that a few days after we met, his brother passed away. I’m wondering if he might have associated me with that tragedy.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 27, 2017 at 3:32 pm

      can be.. but it depends on how he views you at that time too. Were you a confidant, somebody he always wanted to see during the dark times of his life or somebody that came along at that time amd he tried to use unintentionally as a rebound from the hurt?

      I think you need to veer away from job topics next time and this time, as a last approach do 45 days

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      Mariena

      February 26, 2017 at 4:41 am

      We dated for a year by the way

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 26, 2017 at 7:24 pm

      Hi Mariena,

      if he blocked you, the last thing he wants is for you to chase. The more you do nc, the less it can help, but how much did you improve in the past two nc? Were you actively posting in social media? What was the first text you sent after the first nc?

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    RedJay

    February 21, 2017 at 3:35 am

    Hi Team Recovery,
    First of all I want to say thank you for the Recovery book. It was helpful and in a way funny to read. It helped me understand certain aspects of why I been acting so odd due to running emotions. To make it short a month ago he said it’s better to say Goodbye, since he doesn’t want to give me hope. We been in a long distance relationship for 6 months. This is or first horrible fight and we split up in December. We talked on and off on January, then I came to this book and started to begin my NC on February. I’m on my 17th day. Yesterday a mutual friend like an art piece I made and he seen it on Instagram. I been focusing a lot on my art and healing. It has been so hard, cause everything inside me screams that I miss him. He hasn’t send my stuff back. Then I come to the following his friends Dog had an operation. I said to her, poor Dog. I hope he gets better soon. My ex blocked me on all social media. It hurts and I try to analyse why. What do I need to do? I’m not going to break my NC, how tempting it is. I’m on 17 days and for me it has been a roller coaster of emotions. I like some advice and prospective.

    Thank you very much.
    RedJay

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 21, 2017 at 8:59 pm

      HI Redjay,

      it can still be a good sign, because that can mean he’s still hurting to see your posts.. but right now, try new things too. Widen world and make new friends..

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    RedJay

    February 20, 2017 at 8:39 pm

    Hi Team Recovery,
    First of all I want to say thank you for the Recovery book. It was helpful and in a way funny to read. It helped me understand certain aspects of why I been acting so odd due to running emotions. To make it short a month ago he said it’s better to say Goodbye, since he doesn’t want to give me hope. We been in a long distance relationship for 6 months. This is or first horrible fight and we split up in December. We talked on and off on January, then I came to this book and started to begin my NC on February. I’m on my 17th day. Yesterday a mutual friend like an art piece I made and he seen it on Instagram. I been focusing a lot on my art and healing. It has been so hard, cause everything inside me screams that I miss him. He hasn’t send my stuff back. Then I come to the following his friends Dog had an operation. I said to her, poor Dog. I hope he gets better soon. My ex blocked me on all social media. It hurts and I try to analyse why. What do I need to do? I’m not going to break my NC, how tempting it is. I’m on 17 days and for me it has been a roller coaster of emotions. I like some advice and prospective. Thank you very much.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 21, 2017 at 8:58 pm

      HI Redjay,

      it can still be a good sign, because that can mean he’s still hurting to see your posts.. but right now, try new things too. Widen world and make new friends..

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    Hannah

    February 19, 2017 at 5:57 pm

    So I broke up with my ex. We were in ldr for 1 and 3 months. He said he doesn’t love me anymore. We broke up in a good way. He even asked me to be still friend. I still love him so much and want him back. So I start no contact. And I’m in NC for 4 days now. It is the longest time we didn’t talk. But this morning I just know that he blocked me on whatsapp and I’m sure about it. Why he blocked me? I never beg him or annoy him. We broke up in a good way. I just don’t know the reason why he blocked me, it pissed me off actually but I think I should not think about it and focus on my self. Do you know what’s the reason he did that? I’m confused

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      Hannah

      March 5, 2017 at 5:23 am

      So finally at my 10th day of NC he text me on snapchat and said “hey” which of course I ignored. Why he blocked my whatsapp and still haven’t unblocked it now, but keep me on other applications. I’m confused. And what do you think after he texted me hey that time? Thanks you, need your perspective amor.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      March 7, 2017 at 5:03 am

      dont read much into it.. if you’re not using snapchat always, maybe he just used that to get a reaction, like him texting hey..

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      Hannah

      February 23, 2017 at 3:27 pm

      Is there any possibilities that he try to forget me? Deep inside my heart don’t want it, but I know there’s nothing I can do anymore. He’s always keep everything on his mind and never let it out. And I’m afraid he will deny his feeling towards me.. Can you explain what’s on men’s head at this time? Thank you amor

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 23, 2017 at 9:41 pm

      if he’s affected that means there’s still care. It’s not by human nature to just forget somebody instantly. It takes time. And don’t focus on the negative, it will not help. Whether you get him back, you improved yourself. He lost somebody, you gained a better version of yourself.

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      Hannah

      February 21, 2017 at 2:24 pm

      Hi amor, thanks for reply.
      What do you mean a good sign?

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 21, 2017 at 11:54 pm

      it can be a good sign that he blocked you because that can mean it still hurts to see your posts..

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 20, 2017 at 11:03 pm

      Hi Hannah,

      can be good sign, maybe to prevent himself from checking you..

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    Rosie

    January 22, 2017 at 11:40 pm

    My ex and I broke up back in December. We got back together for a week and then he ended things again.

    He told me he didn’t have feelings for me and that he just wanted to be alone. We saw each other again and he asked me if he could still text me sometimes and if when I returned home in 3 months, he could see me.

    For about a week we were texting, I would get anxious and text him about the condition of our relationship and if he still wanted to talk. He told me I was pushing him away and to give him a few days to think.

    I waited 3 days and then texted him a link to a song. We got to talking about how I was doing in therapy and how he was with his depression. He was cold and told me that he hung out with new people, he didn’t seem like himself and I told him I was beginning to feel a little different about him.

    He then told me that he was looking into seeing other people. This is after he told me that we broke up because he needed time to work on his self esteem and he wasn’t interested in a relationship.

    I was mad and I told him how I felt. I told him I hated him. He told me he was sorry and said he would always love me.

    The next day I texted him and apologized for saying I hated him. He accepted my apology. Then he blocked me on everything. I now have no means of communicating with him.

    This is the fourth day and it hurts. A few weeks ago when he blocked me, he unblocked me a few days later. Now he says he has no choice but to move on.

    I feel like I ruined it! I’m going to wait 30 days and try to get in contact through a friend if he hasn’t unblocked me.

    I’m not sure what else I can do. He told me he wanted to see other people and move on, I think it’s a possibility he just said that because he knows it’s the only thing that would make me go away.

    To me, it doesn’t make any sense why he would still say I was his best girlfriend, that I’m special to him and he still loves me, but that he wants to date other people?

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      Rosie

      January 23, 2017 at 6:18 pm

      I used to be the UG for him!

      In some ways I think I still am, but I feel like I tarnished that by asking multiple times to try our relationship again.

      I’m not sure how to prove to him that I’m the UG again if he’s blocked me on everything and thinks our breakup is final.

      And I won’t be in the same state as him for another month!
      I’m afraid he’ll find a UG by then to replace me 🙁

      Although, he has really high standards, I’m worried about rebounds.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 24, 2017 at 1:01 pm

      just stop asking him.. and go on in your life.. You have memories. So even if he finds a rebound, you still have an edge, especially if you’re going to be better than the girl he met.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 23, 2017 at 3:46 pm

      Hi Rosie,

      I think what he meant is that he loves you as a friend.. dont just wait.. be active and aim to be the ungettable.girl

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    Sam

    December 23, 2016 at 5:26 pm

    Hi Amor.

    I’m having trouble tonight. My ex has blocked me and I found him active on a dating site. Is there any point in me carrying on with no contact. He broke up with me because he said he didn’t think it was love…

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 28, 2016 at 9:25 am

      Hi Sam,

      If the other choice is to move on, that will be your decision. If you want to chase, don’t.

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    amber

    December 6, 2016 at 10:33 am

    Well my ex was blowing cold and hot, and things went to a head when he got me flowers one night only to flip back later. I called him toxic to me and he blocked me on all channels, we have no mutual friends and his stuff is still with me. I tried texting his best friend to pass his best friend his items but the best friend haven’t read anything yet (FB message request).

    I don’t really want him back but i am upset why he blocked me like that. Does he want me clearly out of his life and move on?

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 10, 2016 at 11:40 am

      Hi Amber,

      he probably did that out of emotion because he was pissed.

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    Donna

    October 24, 2016 at 1:05 am

    Amor,
    I know it’s been a while, but I finally wrote a private message to his role playing account today. I was going to send him a private message on Facebook, but since he has never replied on Facebook to me, I figured that would not be the best route to go.

    I still can’t bring myself to go on Instagram in fear of seeing his account and the pictures of him and his rebound girl.

    What would you or Chris say to me reopening my other Twitter account? It doesn’t seem like I have much of any options to reconnecting to my man.

    My weekend hasn’t been all too good since I found out that he has been near my hometown this weekend for a convention and meanwhile, I have moved several states away and had no way of being at the convention anyways. I saw a picture of him at the convention and he looks sad and like he has lost a lot of weight since the last time I saw him, and he was already trim and healthy back then. Does he miss me? I don’t know. Is he mad that I’m not there and he thinks I moved on? I don’t know. I’m really trying to work on myself and trying to use the NC effectively. It’s all really frustrating to me.

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      Donna

      October 26, 2016 at 9:57 pm

      Truthfully, I don’t think I’ve changed negatively. If I did “change” it was me getting upset that he blocked me. Other than that, I wasn’t a clingy person. I had my fulltime job to keep me busy and growing into a better person. Then when he blocked me, it made me wonder if I didn’t do something because I was giving him the space he needed. Usually a man has a good reason why he blocked a girl. But he doesn’t have a good reason because I did nothing wrong. All I know is a friend of mine told me another girl, who I never met in person said something to him about me (I don’t know what was said) on Twitter and he believed it to some extent obviously.
      Will Chris descuss this subject of if your ex hears/reads rumors and believes them and blocks you without asking if it’s true? Should I just send Chris a voice mail and ask him? This whole mess is definitely not what I would call a normal situation.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 28, 2016 at 5:25 pm

      Whatever the rumor is, if it’s not true, it will show in how you live your life.. So, either you maintain yourself or you keep.. We don’t have a specific podcast or blog post about a bf believing rumors yet, so, thank you! I’m going to suggest that. If you want,yes, you can send a voice mail.

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      Donna

      October 26, 2016 at 7:26 pm

      I agree with that logic. I went back onto Instagram and left a comment on his picture with his daughter, but he answered back to his friend who commented before me. So I’m assuming he is ignoring me on purpose because he girlfriend is insecure… and I think he might be going through a midlife crisis. I’m just hoping that someday he will be ready to talk to me and we can resolve whatever it is that made him want to block me.

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      Donna

      October 25, 2016 at 5:31 pm

      Well that’s the problem. I don’t know for sure 100% that the person behind the role play account is him or not since a friend of mine told me he denied it and said it was a coincidence. But he could be just hiding.

      I just don’t want my heart to be broken any more than it already has. I’m still wary of contacting him on my separate account. He is still making these comments on his Instagram pictures meant for his girlfriend, but it just screams that he is trying to make me and his ex fiancée jealous and angry.

      Plus, if he really misses me, why wouldn’t he unblock me on his main Twitter account?And wouldn’t he have tried to contact me on Facebook too instead of ignoring my messages from last year?

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 26, 2016 at 7:10 pm

      If he really is the guy in the role playing account, that explains why he hasn’t unblocked you,.. he’s playing safe.. He’s trying to gauge, how you are and if you really changed.

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      Donna

      October 24, 2016 at 3:57 am

      Hi Amor,

      I got a reply from him a few minutes later and I waited until now to answer him back. Hopefully I don’t seem too eager. He didn’t answer my question but he did ask me how I am doing. I told him I’m doing well, keeping the message positive, I told him about a couple things going on in my life and left the message on a high note.

      I hoping that if this really is him, that this conversation will bring us closer to reconnecting again. If not, at least it will give me a sense of confidence that I need. Hopefully some day in the future he will unblock me and I can actually talk to him.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 25, 2016 at 4:45 pm

      Hi donna,

      that’s good that he answered you.. And yes, it’s ok to reopen your Twitter account.. if he looked like he missed you, then that’s good.. because that means he would want to talk to you

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    Ace

    October 21, 2016 at 5:23 pm

    Ok so after a couple failed attempt at contacting me my ex blocked me from all his social media a couple days after he last tried to contact me. So I have a couple questions:
    1. Is this good or bad?
    2. Should I continue the social media aspect of no contact, since he can’t see my posts?
    3.I was wondering if I should extend the no contact period to 45 days since he is clearly emotional right now, I’m currently 24 days no contact.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 23, 2016 at 10:49 am

      as long as your posts are public, he will see them.. it depends on why he blocked you.. If he’s just pissed, just let him cool down.. he’ll probably unblock you once he realizes it was an emotional move..If you’re still blocked at day 30, yes, extend to 45 days

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    First and ONLY gf going on 8yrs

    October 20, 2016 at 6:55 pm

    Okay.. So what if we have played no contact before. Not by reading it. But he used it on me. And choose when he would return not matter what I said. So I forced myself to date someone after a yr and a half of us being appart but after 5 yrs of dating. The reason we broke up I was his first everything and he wanted to experience other things bf settling down. We broke up the new guy and me. I realized why did I push him away. Because he wanted me back and tried. Months later I bumped into him 3 times. 2 times saw me and left third time I said hi. We started vaguely talking. And would sleep together. He says hes never comming back, he doesn’t love me. I am used and gross bc the guy was older then me by 8 yrs. And he still hasnt even been on a date. Well, January he blocked me. But two months later nessaged a friend of mine thought he found me in a dating site wasnt me. But we started emailing. He unblocks me then will reblock me when he leaves. He says things like I know I’m breaking my own rules. So now what?

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 22, 2016 at 3:31 pm

      Hi,

      sorry I have to clear something out, you’ve been broken up for 5 years now? And he said he will come back to you someday when he’s done having fun?

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    Kayla

    October 17, 2016 at 5:13 pm

    Me and my boyfriend have been on and off for 2 years. The last time we got back together was the best our relationship had ever been. But one day he just decided that he didn’t need a relationship and that he needed to better himself. Which I have a lot of reasons to believe it is untrue. At first after we broke up I constantly blew up his phone and then he blocked me on Facebook and my number but we were talking on snapchat every now and then for about a week. Two weeks ago he unblocked my number and on Facebook and was texting me being really sweet and trying to see me, but last Tuesday we kind of got into an argument. The last thing I said was a paragraph about how I felt and that he can do what ever he wants and that I can find a way to be happy with out him. He blocked me on everything. Facebook, snapchat and my number. I’ve tried to contact him in other ways but he will not talk to me. I’m not sure exactly what I did because things were actually going good and I don’t think I said anything to him to make him this mad at me. He’s never done anything like this and he’s never ignored me likes this. It’s been about a month since the break up and almost a week since the blocking. I don’t know what to do and I’m very upset because he’s never went this long without speaking to me. I feel like no matter what I do he won’t come back

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 18, 2016 at 5:46 pm

      Hi Kayla,

      start the count of no contact period after this and then do 45 days..that way you could give him space while you’re also improving yourself..

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    Kris

    June 26, 2016 at 4:52 pm

    I’m not blocked on social media. He just unfriended me on everything for the reason that he thinks I have been purposely ignoring him that it pissed him off. I was trying to do NC so I AM purposely ignoring him. it’s like we’re playing a game of hide and seek, he texts me and if I dont respond right away, he would check my snap chat to see what I’ve been up to. So obviously I cant say that Im not on my phone and didnt see his message. That’s what pissed him off he thinks I’m lying to him. Really wanna do active NC but I fail and would respond when he would text me that he’s upset that he thinks I’m ignoring him and I would always try to reason out that.. “I didnt see his text right away”. cause I would only usually reply like the next day or when he starts texting me upset already. Anyways, I knew that he unfriended me after he texted me that he’ll leave me alone. So I kinda got scared and texted him back. But I didnt confront him about the unfriending, instead he admitted that he unfriended me because of the fact that I am purposely ignoring him and he doesnt want to see my posts just to find out that I’m lying to him that “I didnt see his message right away”. So now I’m kind of upset that he unfriended me but I try not to show him that and told him I’m okay with it cause it’s his social media anyway, I’m just thinking now is that a bad thing that he unfriended me? He still texts me almost everyday and even asks to hang out. I’m just concerned as to what does his behavior mean.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      June 27, 2016 at 9:51 am

      You have to be strong in no contact because the more you restart the less it’s effect. You should be strong in it because you have more of the reason to do it since he knows how much you love him and that you’re just there available when he needs you.

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