We are going to do something a little bit different with this article.
Something I haven’t done since I last wrote an article about, The Ungettable Girl.
Instead of talking about what to do in this situation or what to do in that situation I want to talk about what qualities you can exhibit that are more likely to increase your chances of re-attracting your ex.
In other words, I am going to pull back the curtain and give you ultimate insight into the mind of the man.
But this begs the question.
How do I know that exhibiting this exact behavior will work?
How can I guarantee that I am just not making it up off the top of my head?
When I research these articles I generally have a gauntlet that I often put my ideas through.
Here’s a picture of my gauntlet,
You will notice that there are three parts to this gauntlet,
- My Thoughts
- My Research
- What I Have Seen
Basically when I get an idea I try to pick it apart in any way that I can.
I will give you an example.
Let’s take the a basic principle “ex recovery” principle like the no contact rule and run it through the gauntlet.
Gauntlet Test One: My Thoughts
I always like to test things against myself because I am a man. Therefore, I know how most of them think. So, sometimes simply asking,
“Would this work on me?”
Is enough of a test for me to tell if an idea is good or bad.
So, would it?
Would a strategy like the no contact rule work on me?
Well, it may very well be the most popular strategy that I talk about on Ex Boyfriend Recovery so of course it would!
But doing the “self test” alone isn’t enough to determine if an idea is good enough to put on this site. Nope, there are two more tests that the gauntlet will throw at it to determine if it’s an idea worth pursuing.
Gauntlet Test Two: My Research
What are others who have dedicated their lives to relationships saying about it?
Do they like it?
Are they iffy about it?
These are all very important things to consider before giving the “go ahead” on an idea.
For example, let’s say that I thought the no contact rule would work on myself (test one) but when I did my research all the experts out there were arguing against it (which they really aren’t.)
Well, that’s cause for alarm and may make me want to think twice about endorsing an idea.
Of course, there are those rare cases where experts are completely wrong.
Which is why test three comes in handy.
Gauntlet Test Three: What I Have Seen
Ex Boyfriend Recovery is a big site.
Oh, who am I kidding.
This is a BIG A** site.
Meaning that every single month close to 600,000 women stop by here. Now, I am no math wiz but when you add the numbers up that means that over 7.2 million people come to this website every single year.
That’s a lot of people.
And you want to know what advantage there is to having that many people visit the site?
A lot of people try things without you even recommending it.
And since we have formed a really amazing community here at EBR a lot of those people inform us on whether or not an idea worked or failed.
So, with a strategy like the no contact rule we have found that over 70% of our successes (meaning a woman got her boyfriend back) utilized NC. Therefore, we know that it’s an effective strategy.
The whole idea behind the gauntlet is to put every idea through a test so that we aren’t wasting your time.
Now, it may seem like I just wasted three minutes of your life explaining this whole “gauntlet” idea but the truth is that there is a method to my madness.
This entire page is dedicated to teaching you about what qualities an ex boyfriend is drawn to in his ex girlfriend. Therefore, I am going to be showing you A LOT of qualities/ideas.
However, instead of expecting you to follow me blindly I am going to peel back the layers and let you in on what I found via the gauntlet tests. In other words, I am going to show you all of my findings in addition to letting you in on the qualities that attract men.
Geez… Has anyone ever told you that you are very impatient?
Ok, let’s begin.