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133 thoughts on “My Ex Blocked Me On Everything”

  1. Alex

    March 4, 2020 at 10:07 pm

    My ex broke up with me this January because I cheated on him about a year ago (did not hook up with the guy, just spoke to him), and kind of remained in contact with him until August of 2019 (they were sporadic texts, mostly just catching up). These texts happened every few months. I have no feelings for the other guy, he’s literally like my friend.

    He messaged me around Christmas time and my ex boyfriend (Mike) saw it, freaked out, but then we continued our day. Then, I secretly unblocked Jake and told him to stop messaging me, then he texted me again a few days later with the screenshot of the dm and my boyfriend saw it. He broke up with me.

    Since January we’ve been on and off. I have been trying to make it up to him, but he literally will forgive me, then get angry again. He claims he just wants space, but when I give it to him, he comes to me and sends mixed signals.

    I was also acting kind of crazy because he was driving me crazy with the whole yes or no debacle. I spent the night at his place and we cuddled and kissed all night, as soon as I got home Mike messaged me saying he can’t do it anymore and of course I’m spooked. How does he say he doesn’t want to be in a relationship when he shows me otherwise? I went back to his place and called him a coward for not having the courage to just say it to my face.

    This time he dumped me for good I guess because he literally blocked me on everything except the astrology app I made him download that we can message each other with. I asked him if I could message him in a month to catch up and see how things are going after the space.

    But today I just found out I’m pregnant, since I’m blocked and I cannot go to his place because he would probably call the cops on me, should I just email him or message him on the astrology app? I don’t even know how he is going to respond to this. I definitely feel like he should have a right to know, I’m aware of my options and I don’t know what to do right now.

    Any advice ?

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      March 7, 2020 at 8:11 pm

      Hi Alex, yes you need to find a way to let him know you need to speak to him urgently, if he does not respond then send a email explaining that you are expecting

  2. Ciara

    February 23, 2020 at 4:16 pm

    We broke up long time ago. We stayed friends, we used to get in an argument from time to time because I wasn’t accepting the idea of breaking up, so he stops talking to me for a month or more. Those argument kept happening for a year and a half. But he always come back when I text him that I am feeling bad about something happened to me at work or anything else. And lately we stopped arguing but he keeps on vanishing from time to time saying he is busy. Until the last time, I did nothing wrong, I was replying on his Whatsapp message to discover he had me blocked. Why did he block me?

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      February 28, 2020 at 8:45 pm

      Hi Ciara, usually blocking someone would be an emotional reaction of making sure that they can not hear from you while they are feeling bad. Your ex will unblock you eventually. Use this time to complete a No Contact

  3. Georgina

    February 21, 2020 at 12:30 am

    I was with an Irish guy for a year- I am in Australia which is where we met. I met him on bumble and we hit it off- but soon after we met i realized he smoked weed every night (a joint a day), and after 6 pm, speaking to him was almost a wasted energy because he would just ignore me or respond with minimal words and then tell me he was too high to think about things. When I went to America last year he got so jealous and ended things for a few hours because he thought I had found someone else because I hadn’t responded (I had no wifi). I clarified that I was only wanting him and he was super happy until I got back and then we spent a solid week together and he was wonderful.

    I also realized that he didn’t want to integrate at all in my life. He has no real family or friends here (aside from his gross stoner housemates that literally brag about using women for money) and I have very wonderful, down to earth friends who were so excited to meet him. They aren’t high maintenance and so lovely-I’m not just saying that; they’re so accepting and easy. He told me “I have no interest in meeting your friends.” One friend made a ‘games night’ specifically for him with a small amount of close friends and his kind of food, to get to know him. He went to that but it was so hard to deal with because a few of them including him got stoned off weed and he just turned antisocial and texted me that he wanted to leave after a couple of hours of chatting to my friends. So we left. In the car home he said “well thats me for 6 months! I dont need to see them again for a while.” he said it laughing, but I think he was serious because he avoided social situations like the plague. I asked him to come to a halloween party and he straight out said no, he didnt want to. I felt unwanted and like my life was not good enough for him after that. He said my friends aren’t his kind of people- his friends are tax- evading, stoner men who use women for money and visas! And he said his housemates arent ‘his kind of people’ either, but hangs out with them because he has nobody else.

    When we first started, for maybe 2 months, he spoke a lot about his ex (showed me photos of her saying “whoops thought that was my sister” almost like he was trying to make me insecure) until I told him that it was strange to speak so much about another woman and he stopped, but I still felt like the other woman living in another woman’s shadow. he used to tell me (when he was drunk) that I was too good for him and that he didn’t want to lose me to another guy, but now he doesnt compliment me ever andsays things that hurt me and says he is joking- like that my bum is flat. When I retort “at least im not going balled (I said this once)” he said “wow now I know your true colours, I was only joking but you were serious!” I thought he was serious.

    I flew home to nsw (We met in aus and he was on a working visa) maybe 5 months after we met last year (8 months ago) and invited him to meet my mum (my best friend and mother), he told me it was too soon.

    Fast forward a few months: August last year (so 7 months ago) I went through his phone briefly because we had gone away for a weekend hiking and he had told me that he was a good guy- loyal, honest and trustworthy. He told me his ex was paranoid that he had been cheating and for that reason I could look in his phone if I ever felt the need. I didn’t feel the need but I did it i guess partly because I liked the idea that I could? I had barely looked at even his Whatsapp messages before I came across Alice. Their message history was effing HUGE. But I scrolled up a little and I read that she had said “I’ll stop annoying you now you have a girlfriend” (she knew about me because I had told him that he needed to add me on facebook as his gf because after 6 months thats kind of fair). His response to the message he sent was “that’s okay alice, you’re not annoying me. How are your boobs these days?” and she then sent him a full frontal photo of her boobs to him . I confronted him and he broke up with me on the spot and accused me of not trusting him and overreacting. We got back together a week later (me begging). I saw him at his house. He told me I was being ridiculous, that he and the girl had been friends for over 10 years, had never touched let alone had sex and that they were like brother and sister.
    Never mind the fact that during the conversation he was LITERALLY lying in the fetal position in the bed- I was trying to have a mature conversation about the trust violation and how he could help me through it because I wanted to be with him.

    I found out a few months later that she wasn’t just a best friend. She was an ex he was with for 2 years. And he had lied for MONTHS and had repeated that they were like brother and sister and had never ever touched. They obviously definitely had had sex as they were together for so long. She cheated on him and that’s why they ended. That lie was the most shocking- he was so happy to let me squirm in my gut feelings that something wasn’t right. But I didnt believe him- I spent so much energy trying to convince myself that I was crazy.

    This last year I have spent about 20-30 hours on his visa- calling his immigration lawyer and speaking about how to get him through the loop holes because he didn’t have enough financial evidence- so I faked a lot of it for him, rewriting his work references and editing his payment summary support letters to keep him in the clear. It was exhausting. While I was doing all of this, he was often curled up in the fetal position with a pillow covering his head, repeating “it’s too hard I feel like my head is going to pop.” He barely did ANYTHING for his visa and I did it all because I believed him to be good.

    I have organized weekends away camping and hiking and he has always said thank you but he’s never reciprocated. He’s always asked me if I love him but he’s never told me that he loves me. Whenever he asks me I tell him I do and he says “prove it.” And I have to do wacky things like handstands and stuff that I can’t do, to prove it. I asked him a few times to stop calling me names (always calls me annoying in jest) especially annoying and he said “but annoying is the perfect word to describe you Manelle.”

    In total he has broken up with me 5 times and comes back within a few weeks. I recently broke up with him (2 weeks ago after I took him camping for the first time) because he has started calling me annoying, a dickhead etc. for no reason other than that I asked him how his day was or if I’m with him, I ask for a cuddle.

    I’m so angry because I finally found the courage to leave a couple of weeks ago and he turned it around and made it sound like he wanted to end things with me.

    From the beginning he would end things when he didn’t want to do something that meant a lot to me like wanting him to meet my friends (he has hardly any here so what’s the problem? Wouldn’t you want to connect with people if you’re in a diff country?).

    Nothing seems to excite him- Christmas, his birthday, Easter. nothing.

    He’s now blocked me on everything because when I ended things, a week or so later (last night) I asked him if he ever loved me (as I said, he often asked if I loved him and I would tell him I did but never asked in return). He told me it was over and that he doesnt want to be with me and wont answer the question. I messaged him and he blocked me. then I messaged on instagram and he blocked me. then messenger and he blocked me.

    I tried so hard to make him happy and he always promised that when he got his visa he would be more relaxed and treat me better.

    I complimented him often- when we first met he told me he thought I was way too good for him so I tried to make him feel secure with me. And I just feel used and discarded.

    I feel so worthless. With every defence or problem we had, I would blame it on the visa. A whole year I made these concessions and told myself (and him) that things would settle after the visa. I can’t even tell you how often we cried about the visa and he told me “we need to get the visa done because we can be together.” I believed it. 2 days after the visa came through (the week I ended up cracking and told him it was over because of how he was treating me all the time), he was mean to me towards me- told me he wanted to cut back on our days during the week together, wasn’t affectionate and still refused to make us friends on ANY social media. I cracked and ended it and then I tried to he’s said “it’s over you ended it.”

    I am so sad. I gave my all and now I’m feeling so drained and used. He’s reaping all the benefits of getting a visa here- to be with someone else. And he’s going to do all of things I wanted to do with him, with her.

    For the past 6 months he’s refused to have me on social media. I think after break up number 3 he deleted me from everything- even Snapchat that I don’t hardly use and ever since has said he will only add me again when I stop “being so obsessed” with social media. He is always on Instagram scrolling- much more than me.

    I’ve told him that having me on his accounts will prove to me that he is choosing me- after the ex girlfriends (he has spoken to 2 that I know of), I thought that was reasonable. I never caused a huge fight over it but it was something that meant the girls back in Ireland waiting for him, would go away. But I know it’s his job to stay away from women who send men photos of their boobs when he has a girlfriend- a girlfriend who was doing is visa so he would stay in her country

    He said recently that he’s not getting back together because I spoke to one of his housemates about my worry that he might be depressed. He’s very private and it humiliated him. The housemate isn’t very nice- he’s always been so nice to me but he’s not a very trustworthy person- but I’ve now learned that he really isn’t and went straight to my ex and told him I accused him of being depressed etc. That’s my biggest mistake- along with being too needy he said. I regret it so much. Zero respect for his boundaries.
    But I also know I was good- we did loads of things purely to get him out of his stoner house with his loser stoner housemates like camping and weekends away. I was always suggesting day trips and hikes. Now I just feel like he barely wanted to do anything and I was just trying to push him to be happy here. But I just pushed him away.

    I just thought I could be better and he would see I’m good enough and that I love him. I also believed that his various reactions to things- breaking up with me if there was an issue- like when I found out the boob girl was his long term ex from 10 years ago and they meet up and things when they’re single, he broke up with me. Then I’d desperately beg for him back and he would come back and the issue was void and was barely spoken about.

    I want him back despite all of this. I do hope he settles down and moves out on his own away from the stoner men and cuts back on smoking… and misses me and wants me back. But I think I have absolutely ruined my chances by talking to the housemate and being too needy. Please help.

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      February 27, 2020 at 9:47 pm

      Hi Georgina, so reading your post I honestly hope that you realise your worth and that he is not worth your time!!! He has done some things that are manipulative to make you feel insecure, he lies, he keeps other girls such as his exes as options clearly so that he does not need to be single for long and comes back to you when he feels that he has no other options! Read some articles about being Ungettable so that you can work on your self esteem and I really hope that you realise you deserve better than what this relationship gave you!

  4. Stephanie

    February 10, 2020 at 12:45 am

    This guy is not really an ex, but I need some insight. We dated years ago and he broke up with me because he couldn’t handle a long distance relationship. We remained friends over the years. Last year we happened to both be on vacation in the same state and we ended up hooking up one night. Oops. Several months later we made plans to meet up again for a weekend. He texted me that he was getting back with his ex and we couldn’t meet or talk as much as we had been. I respected that and stepped away. I few weeks ago he texted me that he and the ex weren’t going to work out, but he realized he couldn’t commit to anyone. However, he still wanted to meet up with me for a weekend. Over the past few days, he’s been texting that he loves me. Last night I messaged him that I couldn’t meet up with him because I just don’t think it’s healthy. He said he loves me and misses me and respects my decision. The next thing I know, he’s blocked me on Facebook and unfollowed me on IG. What gives?!

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      February 12, 2020 at 9:32 pm

      Hey Stephanie, more than likely because you were not willing to give him what he wanted he has blocked you. It is immature but it is a reaction to someone who doesnt like being told “No”

  5. Davon Wright

    January 29, 2020 at 10:16 am

    Mine is kinda weird. So the reason we broke up was that we were fighting to much. Though I never really saw it as a fight because I would try to defuse the situation. When she broke up with me she told me that she could never see herself with me again let alone talk to me ever again. Also there is this guy she fell in love with the day she broke up with me and they’ve been dating ever since. I can not contact her as I’ve been blocked on everything. I tried for so long to take my mind off of her and move which has been successful up until lately. I find myself thinking about her and the relationship we had and began missing it entirely. The only way I have to say something to her is through this app call Tellonym. Her boyfriend has access to all her accounts so if I tried contacting her through one of her friends I’d get shot down. I don’t know what to do. I don’t know want to try to get back with her soon I just want to have a conversation with her again but I know it’s not possible. I have so many things I want to tell her but I can’t because of the situation I’m in.

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      February 5, 2020 at 9:24 pm

      Hey Davon, I suggest that you work on getting over your ex and the break up focusing on how to get over that will take some time and casually date for some time. Wanting a conversation with your ex right now is only to try and make you feel better, honestly it wont give you the satisfaction that you hoped for.

  6. Konrad

    January 20, 2020 at 9:53 pm


    My story is actually quite interesting one.
    My gf broke up via text with me literally a week before we went together on a trip to Hawaii(together with her family, with whom we were staying in the one room). As we currently live in different countries she’s decided that this is the easiest way of breaking up(the reason is that according to her she wasn’t “able to get along with me and she won’t be able” which wasn’t really true as we were talking with each other 24/7). The trip was fine however she had a “strategy” of not talking to me at all during those 16 days as she said that she thinks that this is “easier” and I am a quite talkative guy myself, so had to talk to her family. I was trying to even bring her fresh flowers, trying to impress her etc during the trip- no luck. One day I had an argument with her just because I’ve seen that she’s been texting constantly other guy on IG even though she told me that she is not trying with anyone else, so told her that I hate when someone is lying to me and trying to BS me(in front of her parents knowing how good she is in swiping everything under a carpet, as they didn’t really know that we broke up or at least how we did). That day I couldn’t get back to our room as her parents locked it out so in the end got security guards involved. Anyway I had a serious conversation the next day with her and her family on what happened that night and apologized for my behavior right away plus said thank you for the trip and how they’ve been treating me over the past 2 years(as we’ve been together for 2y). Since then trip was again quite good and even invited them all out for like a farewell dinner to say thank you again for a trip.
    After the trip had to collect my stuff from hers and initiated the No Contact (started on 15th of December).
    During no contact I’ve noticed that she blocked me on FB(around Christmas period) and later Instagram and phone(around New Year’s).
    I was trying to initiate the contact last week on Friday with “Elephant in the Room” kind of message however as mentioned my number is blocked(however I’ve noticed that potentially I’m still unblocked on WhatsApp- but we’ve never used it as a medium).
    What the next step should I do to at least start talking to her?

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      January 22, 2020 at 8:57 pm

      Hey Konrad, make sure you go at least a full 30 days of no contact, no reaching out or responding, no social media interaction and then reach out via text, one that Chris suggests to hook their attention and work yourself up the value ladder gaining attraction as you go

  7. Nina

    January 5, 2020 at 7:07 am

    My ex blocked me fully on fb after I confronted him about suddendly ignoring me after texting me all month (he contacted first).

    A week after he blocked me a mutual friend showed me his changed profile picture of him and another girl (who I believe he started to talking to before we broke up who might have been someone he dated several years ago). And how there is I love yours written under the profile picture on his and her page.

    I’m really confused. Me and him have been pretty much on and off the whole year… I did fall in love with him and I admitted that to him, but everyone keeps telling me I should move on. That he never cared to begin with. Maybe they are right, but a small part of me keeps hoping that he’ll come back and stay… (There is more to this but I don’t wanna go into major detail on here.)

    And the coming and going is really confusing. After we broke up the last time he contacted me twice once two weeks after and then again almost two months later, both times he acted more sexually (which is common for him) but when I asked if that’s all he wanted or if he knew what he wanted with me he said he didnt yet.

    Any advice?

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      January 8, 2020 at 4:48 pm

      Hi Nina, I would suggest that you take a look at his pattern of reaching out to you when he wants to speak sexually. If he is single and messages you in that way, I would say hes feeling lonely and wants to chat to someone he knows will talk to him in that manner. If you hear from him again I suggest you ignore him, and allow him some time to see that you are not available to him when he decides. Start dating casually and post subtle hints that you are dating someone. Allow mutual friends to know you are dating but not met anyone special yet. That way he is going to know you are not willing to be a back up plan for when he is not with someone else. If you want him back, then you are going to have to work the Ungettable girl work and understand what it takes to do the being there method and apply this to your life

  8. Kathy

    January 1, 2020 at 4:45 pm

    I noticed my ex unblocked me on Instagram. When he ended things with me he blocked me which I can understand some people do this in a break up so I wasn’t fussed. But I noticed his unblocked me which I found very strange we’ve not spoken in 3 months as we had a big bust up. So last night as it was New Years I decided I’ll unblock him off WhatsApp. Shale I leave it for a while and see if he reaches out to me? He owes me apology for his actions not sure id get one but would be nice and civil to get one in order for us to move on properly. I don’t want to think about getting back together or anything as don’t that would happen but perhaps just be friends what do you think about this??

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      January 3, 2020 at 5:27 am

      Hi Kathy, so yeah you can unblock him, but dont expect an apology or wait for one. When we do that we work ourselves up and expect something that may not come. You need to just tell yourself to accept what happened and move past it as it is out of your control how your ex behaves towards you

  9. Cam

    December 27, 2019 at 3:13 pm

    Please help me :\ So I had been speaking with this guy online for the past 2.5-3 years. It may sound odd, but we ended up getting very close within the last year and he mentioned that he viewed me as someone he could be in a relationship with. Within the last few months, our interactions have been a lot more “lovey-dovey,” we were not official, but pretty much acting like boyfriend/girlfriend. We both declared that we were not talking to anyone else. Unfortunately, I also started to feel like I was being treated as a low priority in his life and asked if we could speak a bit more often.

    I understood that he was in school, but it felt like he never thought to talk to me more when he actually did have time on his hands (i.e. holiday breaks, weekends). The first time I brought it up, he seemed receptive to it and actually thanked me for being straightforward. I noticed that things weren’t really changing though so I brought the same issue up maybe two more times. He was very dismissive of my feelings both these times and even accused me of wanting to talk 24/7 and being jealous of his friends and family. I told him over and over that this was not true, but it seemed like he just wouldn’t let go of the idea.

    Our last argument about this issue was on Sunday. I did not want it to turn into an argument, but he was very dismissive again which upset me. I did take things a little further this time & said that maybe I should start treating him like a low priority as well. I also told him to “have a good day,” but he had also left during an argument once before. So basically the argument did not seem very different than normal and we usually end up coming back together to resolve things. Fyi, he has been visiting family this week for the holidays. There was no communication from Sunday afternoon right up until Christmas night. I decided to wish him a Merry Xmas & let him know that I’m not mad and I don’t want to fight. I received nothing back. Another Fyi, we were planning to meet for the first time the next day (Thursday).

    When I woke up on Thursday, I texted him trying to figure out what would be going on for our meeting that day. I received nothing back. I decided to do a little investigation and eventually realized that I was blocked on his phone, as well as on KiK. I will admit that I went into panic mode, as he had never blocked me before. I did call his phone on private so that I could leave a voicemail. It wasn’t a very angry voicemail, just me saying how shocked I am that he would essentially just ghost me especially when we had plans to meet up very soon. I then found a way to get my texts to his phone. Again, I know it’s bad, but I just couldn’t believe what was happening. He finally answered me saying that he made up his mind and wasn’t interested in any kind of relationship with me. He also said that I should stop trying to contact him.

    I am just confused by the suddenness of him blocking me. We were completely fine last week, then had this argument on Sunday and he must have blocked me sometime within the last few days. I don’t know what to do. Should I stay hopeful that he will make a return since we were speaking pretty much every single day up until Sunday? I am just hurt that he would blow me off with no explanation, knowing that we were set to meet for the first time on Thursday.

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      January 4, 2020 at 9:54 pm

      If you are blocked, then there is not a lot you can do until you are unblocked. In the mean time working on yourself and learning to be Ungettable in the mean time will be an advantage for you

  10. Erin

    December 26, 2019 at 2:48 am

    So I had a partial block, was blocked on Instagram (he admitted he couldn’t see me so happy) and then after we slept together he blocked me on phone. So I gave it a few days and messaged him on s Facebook and now I’m blocked on everything. Yes I know sleeping with him was a mistake, but now I don’t know what to do.

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      December 29, 2019 at 10:53 pm

      Hey Erin, so you’re forced into a full No Contact where you can focus on yourself and your emotional control. Eventually your ex will unblock you but you need to be the Ungettable girl before he does that so focus on you for the time being, date if you feel up to it too

  11. C.J

    December 9, 2019 at 12:41 am

    Recently found out the guy i had been dating for about 3 months had a girlfriend (over 18months) back home. We met on Tinder. Not only did he lie to me about having a GF but he made it seem that because he was leaving town and with a lot of stuff going on with his work and his ex-wife he didn’t feel he could manage a LDR. I now know that is not the real reason he was not wanting a relationship and that infact he was never even available. Despite him saying they were on a break and not together when i met him, and that he liked me etc etc.

    When i found out I battled with what to do, when i confronted him about the GF he was still saying they were not together, upon advice from friends I told the GF he had not been faithful. I didn’t get into specifics with her as I didn’t feel it would help going over too many details. She confronted him. His mother also contacted me after the GF told her as she didn’t believe her son would do such a thing.

    He was so annoyed i found out about the GF and that I then said anything to her. I know I could have kept it to myself but I feel like the GF deserved to have the information and do as she desired with it. He was saying they were on a break when we were dating but as far as the GF knew they were fine. I was told by the Mother that they have been together some time and taken breaks over that time as he is not in Love with her. He shouldn’t have done this to either of us. When i found out (little over a week ago) he said he is wanting to work it out with her although he doesnt know if they will as they have a lot of issues. The last message he sent before blocking me said they will work it out and to not speak to him anymore.

    I am heartbroken. I was falling in Love with this guy and believed him to be genuine the entire time with real feelings for me. I now feel like the entire relationship was a lie. I know i should move on amd not care but I cant help but feel I lost something special. Just needing some advice.

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      December 14, 2019 at 9:41 pm

      Hi CJ, what advice is it you are looking for? If you want to get him back then you need to read the information given on this website how to get an ex back when you are long distance

  12. Leigh

    December 2, 2019 at 3:18 pm

    My boyfriend left me 3 months ago after a 3 yr relationship. We tried being friends about a month ago but he ended it because we got in an argument. I would do anything to get him back and it’s been so hard without him. He has blocked me on everything. Is there any chance for us to get back together at all? He’s come back in the past but it’s never lasted this long. He was my best friend. Am I wasting my time hoping for him to come back? Is it pointless at this point?

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      December 4, 2019 at 9:06 pm

      Hey Leigh, so if you want to get your ex back you need to read and follow this program with all you have. Starting with No Contact. Where you ignore your ex for 30 days and you do not reach out, or reply to him if he reaches out to you. The fact he has blocked you everywhere will be a sign that he is not ready to speak with you because of your arrangements. So spend some time working on yourself and how to communicate without it turning into arguments

  13. Allie

    November 21, 2019 at 11:16 pm

    I saw my ex for the last time a week ago. We sat down face to face, we were exchanging the last of our stuff.
    I thought it was going to be a friendly meeting but I was blind sighted by him telling me he’s going to block me on all social media and does not want me in his life anymore ever.
    What do I do? I just want him back

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      November 24, 2019 at 12:07 am

      Hi Allie that is a hurtful situation but you need to start your No Contact journey aiming for around 45 days where you work on yourself even though he has blocked you it will give you a chance to re cultivate your life so that you can show him how happy and better off you are without him in it. Chris has posted about studies that have been done where 88% of exes will use mutual friends pages to spy on exes when they want to know how they are doing, so make sure you are showing on social media all the interesting things you are doing. Human beings are naturally curious creatures so in time he will want to reach out to you, it is all just going to be about timing. So make sure you are doing the work to become Ungettable

  14. Danny

    November 14, 2019 at 10:38 pm

    My girlfriend has me blocked everywhere, we were talking and last night it went bad, she accused me of texting the guy she cheated with from another phone and all sorts of stuff , saying the number came back to my phone etc, I didn’t do it at all, but now I am blocked and she says that we are done , help I love her more than anything

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      November 14, 2019 at 11:43 pm

      Hi Danny, so the first thing you are going to have to do, is complete a NC and head over the the website exgirlfriendrecovery.com and read some articles that apply to you as some information does differ. Good Luck 🙂

  15. Joanne Rogan

    November 11, 2019 at 2:30 pm

    My partner blocked me after I confronted them wit h why they cheating on me for 3 months instead of telling me it was over ?…I found out from receiving a text that was obviously not.meant for me..So they continued telling me how much they love me during this time of cheating.We were together a year….I’m totally bewildered ..I gave my annoyance about it to them and instead of apology I get blocked????

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      November 12, 2019 at 8:37 pm

      Hi Joanne, that would be the cowards way out, you are much better off without someone like that

  16. T.

    November 8, 2019 at 5:02 pm

    I have been in an on-off relationship with my ex. He took me for granted and I was the one investing 95% – I broke it off twice but always got back together because he reached out to me again. The thing that made me leave for good now is that after 1 year of dating his family still had no idea. This was too much next to other hurtful things and I ended it, blocked him completely (no WhatsApp, calls or texts possible – I don’t have social media) and deleted his nbr. Of course I was angry at a point but in this case I don’t think it was an immature thing to do – it is self protection. I need him out of my life in order to finally be able to move on after these 3.5 years of on-off… And I told him that I didn’t do it to hurt him but for myself to find the loving, affectionate, serious relationship I desire which he apparently doesn’t want. And if I won’t delete him out of my life for now I will not get over us and be open for sth new. That I loved him and cared for him but I don’t want to be with him like the way things are now. Then I walked away. Extremely painful experience. The worst part: He never thought it necessary – although knowing that he hurt me – to actually at least reach out to apologize… And this gives me even more confidence that I did the right thing of literally deleting him.

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    October 15, 2019 at 2:16 am

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  18. Maggie

    October 11, 2019 at 8:45 pm

    Chris. I have been blocked for over a year everywhere. Found out from his daughter that he has a girlfriend and only wants to be with her. And he has health issues. And the daughter wants me to leave her and her family alone. And they don’t need help. Will he ever contact me? I’m really having a hard time moving on. He is somewhat of a narcissist. But I also begged and pleaded with him.

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      October 12, 2019 at 7:39 am

      Hi Maggie, Im so sorry that they dont want your help or want you to be involved but you have to respect their decision and focus on how to move on and be happy without them in your life for now. I know its a hard thing to hear, but when its been over a year and he has no interest in speaking to you still it may be time to try to move on. He may contact you when he feels better, or is single again. But I wouldn’t wait around for him, live your life and be happy the rest will fall into place

  19. Anon

    October 11, 2019 at 11:12 am

    Hello, so I completed my NC about a week ago. He didn’t try to contact me in the meantime and after. Instead, he blocked me everywhere and still has me blocked. I previously did not have a Facebook account. I opened one a day ago. and he has already blocked me there as well. I don’t know what to do or what that means. Does he hate me so much that he will block me everywhere he finds me? Will he never unblock me? I cannot be the one to reach out because the way things ended, if I reach out it will look like I am accepting things the way they were before and also, I will feel like I have lost my dignity since he blocked me everywhere possible. PS, we see each other every working day because we have the same classes but he never tries to talk.

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      October 11, 2019 at 7:12 pm

      Hi Anon, so yes eventually he may block you, usually we say if the hard block lasts more than 6 months its not a great sign. During this time you need to work on you and become ungettable so when he gets curious about you, you will appear amazing in his eyes instead of the person he thinks you are today.

  20. Ilse

    September 3, 2019 at 1:23 am

    So basically ive been with this guy for 9 months and in the beginning he was so obsessed with me he even cried when i told him to leave me alone and we had this stupid thing where he would read a book and i would give him something in return . i know this was kinda messed up but he seemed to be enjoying himself reading and also fighting for me so we kept going. Then like a month ago he stopped reading and told me he thinks we need a break( he was in holiday) and i agreed but then we got back toghetter and then broke up and then got back toghetter again and finally i asked him for a week off so we can both see what our priorities were and really consider if we loved each other ( maybe i should also mention that we’re pretty young -16 , but please dont ignore this just cuz of that). 4 days after our 1 week of no contact he texted me telling me he is sad and that we need to talk because if not he will break up with me cuz he cant do this anymore. I imaturely rejected a few of his calls thinking that he will come after me like he usually did whem we didnt talk and then the secodn day he told me its over and please dont try to text me again and then he blocked me only on whatsapp . i texted him on messages a day after , asking him if he wants to talk about it and he called me instantly and we talked for like an hour in which he said that i have like 1 percent chance of getting him back and after that we remained “friends” but the moment i said something mean he would get really annoyed and block me again.he did that after like 3 days of “friendship” and i didnt go looking for him but he unblocked me by himself like 3 days after, texted me , deleted what he said and then asked me after a few hours how im doing and he kept the conversatiom going for like 2 hours and he texted me again a few times and even asked why i wasnt texting him. He also asked me if i would date him again(out of curiosity he said )but i said that i woudnt want to hurt him . then i said something that offended him again and he told me im stupid(i didnt get angry cuz i also called him a pig accidentally) so i left like 3 messages he sent on seen and 3 hours later he blocked me and said i have mental problems .
    Tonight he was complaining to his friends about me saying how bad i am and how he loved me so much and i made the relationship toxic and his best friend also sent me pictures of him holding hands with a girl that rejected him just so they make me jealous.
    His friends got involved and a big stupid argument ensued which ended up with him telling me to get lost ( i also told him this before ).
    Although this whole situation seems so immature and dramatic (he can be quite dramatic at times but i got used to it.) i stil have this stupid feeling he will come back but maybe its just me hoping. But if he asks me to be friends again i cant do it because its mentally draining me and depressing me. In the end , because i told my best friend how i felt she took the problem in her own hands and asked him not to text me ever again and to block me everywhere , which he said he.s more than happy to do. Whats ironic is that he is now doing most things on your site , and making me value him much more than i ever did before. In fact , after like a few months in which i wasnt really interested i started liking him more and more , and now its not really the fact that i cant imagine myself without him because i can. I know what his faults are and i just want him back with his faults and everything so we can help each other with out defects and somehow be part of each other.s lives. I cant say if i love him because i dont really know what love is but i know that in my whole life i.ve never been so hurt as i have been these couple of weeks and im usually a person who doesnt give a damn. Now if he were to come back a few days ago i would have told him i need some time to heal which is true but now i just want him back. I didnt try to call him to resolve things because he kept repeating he moved on so i didnt see the point of telling him how awful he made me feel , somerhing he doesnt know aboutm shoudl i give him time to heal after all the arguments and toxicity occuring in the last month( we were in summer holiday and probably bored) and just wait for him (because i can wait as long as its needed ) to come back to me , or do i not have any chance with him . i do feel a bit like he has a right to feel angry but i think he.s now taking it a bit too far , but after all so did i like a few months ago and he just insistently didnt give up on me . Should i let time heal both of us and do its magic, or is he actually totally over me as he keeps repeating? Also despite the fact that we are 16, i swear i do think i love him now , because i know the difference between obsession , infatuation and love

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