I don’t know why but it seems like so many women out there like to challenge the fact that I recommend that they contact their ex after the no contact rule first.
You’d think I would have asked them to sacrifice their first born with all the crazy looks I get.
Kelly was certainly in that group of people who thought that “A MAN” should always contact first.
Oh, perhaps I should back up a second and explain the fact that Kelly is in the Private Facebook Group so my team and I helped her out a lot with her situation. And for the most part she was excellent at implementing the advice we gave her.
There was just one “itty bitty” bump in the road.
She refused to text her ex first…
Here’s what she had to say about the whole thing,
And then I started battling with myself. I went back out and started looking other sites and they’re like don’t you ever text first.
It was at this point that my team and I calmly explained to her all of the benefits of texting first,
- How you can approach the conversation with a plan
- How you can come at it from a position of strength
- How he’s probably dying to hear from you.
And guess what?
All of what we had told her was confirmed when she got him back.
This is Kelly’s story.
Oh and by the way. If you want to read an awesome book I wrote on this topic, go check out “The No Contact Rule Book“!