This Is How You Know If Your Ex Still Loves You

There are many different “signs” that you can look for to know if your ex boyfriend still loves you. This page is going to take an in-depth look at each specific sign and give you an idea on how to proceed if you decide you want your ex boyfriend back. First though, I would be a fool if I didn’t point out that there isn’t an exact science to this. What I mean, is that since we are dealing with a male human being things can be a bit…. unpredictable. So, there may be some rare cases where your ex could exhibit many of the signs below and yet he still might not be interested in you. Don’t worry though, everything that is on this page has been thoroughly researched and is a compilation of many of the best relationship experts advice and findings. While I can’t guarantee anything, I think it is a safe bet to assume that if your ex is doing the things below he is probably interested in you.

Two Things You Have To Do First

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Before we get down to the nitty gritty on how to determine if your ex still likes you there are two things that I need you to accomplish. The first is relatively simple, the second one… not so much.

  1. I want you to take some time and figure out if you have a legitimate reason for wanting your ex boyfriend back. As a general rule, couples who get back together after a break up tend to have really good reasons for doing so. Oh, and I think it is important to mention that couples who successfully reunite with legitimate reasons last longer! Still confused? Don’t be I actually wrote a huge post that defines what a good reason is and will even give you some examples here.
  2. Secondly, I need you to adopt a No Contact Rule. Experts agree that in order to put yourself in a good position to win back your ex boyfriend you need to cut yourself off from them for at least a month. Make no mistake about it, it will be among the hardest things you have ever done. There will be a constant temptation to call them, email them or text them. Whatever happens make sure you DO NOT DO IT.

(If you want more in-depth help with these two things you can find it here.)

Now, I bet you are wondering what any of this has to do with figuring out if your ex boyfriend still misses you, I assure you it is really important.

The Signs That Your Ex Boyfriend Still Likes You

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Ok, no matter who broke up with who, how bad the break up was or how much you think he hates you I can assure you one thing… he is thinking about you. Did you know that 81% of people still think about their exes too much? What’s worse is that nearly 90% of Facebook users still look up their ex. So, I think it is safe to assume that you on your exes mind more than you think you are. The real question is, is he thinking positive or negative things about you? At least that is what you are wondering. Obviously, you want your ex to be thinking very positive thoughts when it comes to you as it will make getting him back a lot easier. With that being said, even if your ex thinks you are the anti-christ there are certain things you can do to change his mind. Besides, right after a breakup both parties are angry at each other so there isn’t much positive karma going around is there?

That is where the no contact rule comes in play. I can pretty much guarantee that your ex won’t be having any positive love thoughts about you a few days after your breakup (especially if YOU broke up with him.) By implementing a no contact rule you are doing two things.

  1. First, you are giving him and you time to calm down and get your wits about you.
  2. Secondly, he is going to wonder why you haven’t tried to call or text him to check up (like he thinks you are supposed to do)

Which leads us to our first sign…

Sign 1- If He Calls, Texts or Messages You

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We already know that he is thinking about you but if he actually takes the time to text message you or call you then you should feel really good about yourself because he is definitely showing interest. Now, I am not going to sit here and tell you that all your troubles are over and you can run back into his arms and the world will rejoice. Let’s be honest here, just because he text messaged you doesn’t mean that he wants you back but it is definitely a sign pointing in the right direction. If you are staying true to the NC Rule (No Contact Rule) then you greatly increase your chances of having him contact you in some way. The only thing is you can’t contact him back which is explained if you read my book, Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO.

Sign 2- Does He Keep An Eye On You?

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While you are supposed to be avoiding your ex both physically and mentally for 30 days there are certain cases where it is impossible to do so. If you notice that your boyfriend keeps popping up in places that you frequent then this is a definite sign that he still has feelings for you. Now, I do feel it is important to mention that sometimes it can just be a coincidence that they are at the same place that you are. However, I would say  that if you notice them “being around” at least three times then that is a definite pattern.

Sign 3- Do You Get A Reaction?

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As you know, I am pushing the NC rule pretty darn hard. However, I am not naive. I know how relationships work and I know that the majority of women reading this will not be able to hold out for 30 days. So, in the event that you break down one of the best ways you can determine if he still has those deep feelings for you is watching how he reacts when he sees you. This can be a little tricky to determine but I will go ahead and give you some things to watch for.

  • Does his face light up?
  • Does he sneak looks at you when he thinks your not looking?
  • If he talks really fast that is a good sign as well.
  • Looking into your eyes for a long period of time is a good sign too.

Sign 4- Does He Keep In Touch With Friends & Family?

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Ex boyfriends who are possibly interested in getting back together will keep in touch with your friends or family. This sign especially rings true if you are deep into your no contact. If you aren’t picking up your phone they are going to reach out to friends or family to see how you are. If you want them back then this is a very good sign. Of course, there are some cases where an ex will keep in touch with your family just to annoy you but you can usually tell in those cases.

Sign 5- Touching

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I may lose some man points for this but one of my favorite movies to watch is Hitch (where Will Smith basically plays a love doctor.) There is a scene at the beginning of the movie where he points out that one of the signs that a woman will show, if she is interested in a guy, is touching. Well, the same can be applied to men. If you see your ex and he is maintaining some type of physical contact like touching your arm, hand, knee, leg that is a really good sign.

What To Do After You Have Figured Out He Still Loves You

So, he showed some of the signs above eh? Well, now you have a decision to make. Do you want to try and get him back or do you want to move on? Since this is a website specifically for women who want to get their ex boyfriends back I can tell you that there is so much information on this site for FREE that you will be blown away. However, not all of the information is going to give you 100% of everything you need. It is for that reason that I am highly recommending you to check out Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO. It is really a true “step by step” method to winning back your ex boyfriends heart. Other than that I hope you enjoy this site and find everything you are looking for.

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Chris Seiter

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Andrea
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Hi, Could you please help with my situation, i dont really know what to do 🙁 we broked up about 3 months ago. I did all the don’t, and I have failed to do NC several times because he kept playing hot and cold. He texts me once a week since our break up. Only when he feels like it, he flirts with me, reminds me of old things, even drunk texts, but when I text him first, or try to mention about our memories together, he acts like I am anoying him and he doesn’t want to talk. We… Read more »
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Hi Andrea,

There’s a chance nc can still help if you really stick to it.

Andrea
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Hi, Could you please help with my situation, i dont really know what to do 🙁 we broked up about 3 months ago. I did all the don’t, and I have failed to do NC several times because he kept playing hot and cold. He texts me once a week since our break up. Only when he feels like it, he flirts with me, reminds me of old things, even drunk texts, but when I text him first, or try to mention about our memories together, he acts like I am anoying him and he doesn’t want to talk. We… Read more »
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Hi Andrea,

There’s a chance nc can still help if you really stick to it.

Ley
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January 15,2018 11:52 PM It was already 10 days after our break up. Our relationship lasted of 13 months and 4 days to be exact and we have a long distance relationship. On January 5, 2018, I was just checking him if he was ok that time since I observed that he was very cold at me . And he told me that he wanted to break up with me since he doesn’t loves me anymore about two months ago and it sucks cause it feels like I am betrayed. I ask him many questions and he was just asking… Read more »
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Ley
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January 15,2018 11:52 PM It was already 10 days after our break up. Our relationship lasted of 13 months and 4 days to be exact and we have a long distance relationship. On January 5, 2018, I was just checking him if he was ok that time since I observed that he was very cold at me . And he told me that he wanted to break up with me since he doesn’t loves me anymore about two months ago and it sucks cause it feels like I am betrayed. I ask him many questions and he was just asking… Read more »
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Caitlin
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My ex boyfriend checks up on me once or twice a month since our relationship ended. We met in college and dated six months after being good friends. We dated for 3 years before I ended it one year ago since my family thought he was using me for citizenship. He is from France but I never believed he’d do that. Nevertheless my family wanted us to be over. He wanted to meet up one last time so we did in April 2017. He did all of those signs ^^^ and we got back together but only lasted 2 months.… Read more »
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Caitlin
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My ex boyfriend checks up on me once or twice a month since our relationship ended. We met in college and dated six months after being good friends. We dated for 3 years before I ended it one year ago since my family thought he was using me for citizenship. He is from France but I never believed he’d do that. Nevertheless my family wanted us to be over. He wanted to meet up one last time so we did in April 2017. He did all of those signs ^^^ and we got back together but only lasted 2 months.… Read more »
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Caitlin
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Im very confused on what to do about my ex boyfriend. We first met in college where he discovered my own free tutoring service. We became friends which became a relationship 6 months later. We were in a relationship for almost 3 years which involved helping him move to a new college after I graduated. I decided to end it because my family thinks he was only using me to gain citizenship (he is from France) After we had broken up, he asked me to come visit his new college and he did all those signs ^^^ and we got… Read more »
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Caitlin
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Im very confused on what to do about my ex boyfriend. We first met in college where he discovered my own free tutoring service. We became friends which became a relationship 6 months later. We were in a relationship for almost 3 years which involved helping him move to a new college after I graduated. I decided to end it because my family thinks he was only using me to gain citizenship (he is from France) After we had broken up, he asked me to come visit his new college and he did all those signs ^^^ and we got… Read more »
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Lisa
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My ex boyfriend cheated on me in a drunk one night stand.. We broke up about 4 months ago.. Since then we have kept incontact, he said he is glad we are still friends, and is glad that we are still close, I have tried to do the no contact and lasted over a week, he just told me the other day he is finding it hard to get over me and move on, The other night we had dinner and had a great time, we went back to his place and watched a movie and cuddled on his bed..… Read more »
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Hi Lisa,

are you currently friends with benefits with him?

Lisa
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My ex boyfriend cheated on me in a drunk one night stand.. We broke up about 4 months ago.. Since then we have kept incontact, he said he is glad we are still friends, and is glad that we are still close, I have tried to do the no contact and lasted over a week, he just told me the other day he is finding it hard to get over me and move on, The other night we had dinner and had a great time, we went back to his place and watched a movie and cuddled on his bed..… Read more »
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Hi Lisa,

are you currently friends with benefits with him?

Leea
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Hi! my bf and i broke on d day dat we r supposed to celebrate our first aniversary. Prior to dat we had a fight and it triggers all. actualy, we had a secret and ldr relationship. that’s why it’s secret bcoz im afraid dat my parents will not support our relationship since he’s not a proffesional ;( . but i rily do love him.. going back, the fight started 3rd week of july, although we fixed it aftr dat, he’s treatment for me is not d same anymor. until our anvrsary came august first week.. dat was also d… Read more »
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Hi Leea,

Restart nc.. Be active in improving yourself and in posting and then continue doing that after nc while slowly rebuilding rapport with him.. Take this as a restart

Leea
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Hi! my bf and i broke on d day dat we r supposed to celebrate our first aniversary. Prior to dat we had a fight and it triggers all. actualy, we had a secret and ldr relationship. that’s why it’s secret bcoz im afraid dat my parents will not support our relationship since he’s not a proffesional ;( . but i rily do love him.. going back, the fight started 3rd week of july, although we fixed it aftr dat, he’s treatment for me is not d same anymor. until our anvrsary came august first week.. dat was also d… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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Hi Leea,

Restart nc.. Be active in improving yourself and in posting and then continue doing that after nc while slowly rebuilding rapport with him.. Take this as a restart

Jen
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I broke up with my boyfriend 8 months ago. It was a great relationship never yelled and always talked things out. We helped each other with everything… although he stole from me. I talked to his family about it apparently he does that to everyone, right after the break up I went with my ex, and stopped answering his phone calls. Although as soon as i went with my ex,, I rememberd how my boyfriend treated me and realized my ex treated me really bad, so i broke up with him and a month later i found out i was… Read more »
Jen
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I broke up with my boyfriend 8 months ago. It was a great relationship never yelled and always talked things out. We helped each other with everything… although he stole from me. I talked to his family about it apparently he does that to everyone, right after the break up I went with my ex, and stopped answering his phone calls. Although as soon as i went with my ex,, I rememberd how my boyfriend treated me and realized my ex treated me really bad, so i broke up with him and a month later i found out i was… Read more »
Victoria Chan
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Hi there,

I am about to meet my bf and he will be ending the relationship as he has already made the move to remove all the stuff we had on social media and has said over text that he cannot do this anymore. We have not spoken for todays since he has said this. Should I still meet him and what should I do or say if I do to keep him from breaking up?

Thanks.

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Have you met?

Victoria Chan
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Hi there,

I am about to meet my bf and he will be ending the relationship as he has already made the move to remove all the stuff we had on social media and has said over text that he cannot do this anymore. We have not spoken for todays since he has said this. Should I still meet him and what should I do or say if I do to keep him from breaking up?

Thanks.

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Have you met?

Grace
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My boyfriend of 2.5 yrs broke up with me out of the blue two weeks ago. We are both 27 years old, have both been in long term relationships before, and we thought very carefully about being together. Our relationship and our friendship is amazing, we he a connection like I never imagined possible. Only three weeks ago he was talking about having children together and our future. He has recently been through multiple stressful situations, to the point where he began to become depressed and was prescribed some medication. That was a few months ago. When I spoke to… Read more »
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Have you talked again? If you’re going to do nc, dont announce it nor tell it to him..

Grace
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My boyfriend of 2.5 yrs broke up with me out of the blue two weeks ago. We are both 27 years old, have both been in long term relationships before, and we thought very carefully about being together. Our relationship and our friendship is amazing, we he a connection like I never imagined possible. Only three weeks ago he was talking about having children together and our future. He has recently been through multiple stressful situations, to the point where he began to become depressed and was prescribed some medication. That was a few months ago. When I spoke to… Read more »
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Have you talked again? If you’re going to do nc, dont announce it nor tell it to him..

Samantha
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Hi guys! I came across this site after a breakup which I believe was with the love of my life. Anyway, I need some insight. We have been together almost 2 and a half years and we had it made. We had a beautiful wonderful relationship and we became such good friends too! He was such a sweetheart, he called and texted me everyday, planned dates, said one day he wanted to marry me…. he took us wine tasting for our last anniversary and missed super bowl Sunday to go wine tasting with me. Just a genuinely good guy! For… Read more »
Samantha
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*said I WAS busy so he didn’t call but I think he will today for the plans we have

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did he call? If you’re going to do nc, do at least 30 days.

Samantha
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Hi guys! I came across this site after a breakup which I believe was with the love of my life. Anyway, I need some insight. We have been together almost 2 and a half years and we had it made. We had a beautiful wonderful relationship and we became such good friends too! He was such a sweetheart, he called and texted me everyday, planned dates, said one day he wanted to marry me…. he took us wine tasting for our last anniversary and missed super bowl Sunday to go wine tasting with me. Just a genuinely good guy! For… Read more »
Samantha
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*said I WAS busy so he didn’t call but I think he will today for the plans we have

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did he call? If you’re going to do nc, do at least 30 days.

KAY
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broke up for 2 months, and met up a couple of times, and what seems more like booty call to me, so is he still interested in me or is he just wanting what to satisfied himself? did NC for 3 weeks previously. do i have to do it again?

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did you mean you slept with him?

KAY
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broke up for 2 months, and met up a couple of times, and what seems more like booty call to me, so is he still interested in me or is he just wanting what to satisfied himself? did NC for 3 weeks previously. do i have to do it again?

EBR Team Member: Amor
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did you mean you slept with him?

Gianne B. Joseph
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Hi,Me and my boyfriend broke up last December.I can give you the specific details if you wanted to,and I’m really need your help Ex Recovery Team…And even I wanted to purchase your product by the way,I really can’t purchase it because I don’t have any money,or any credit card,so I’m only reading some articles on your website,or watching some videos too of Brad Browning 🙂 .After our break up,of course I’m still shock and being emotional. And Because I didn’t know that there is a certain things to do to get your ex back like No contact.By my instinct,I began… Read more »
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You’re already friendzoned..the only thing that can really help increase your chances is nc..and the only one that can help is yourself.. It would be better if he thinks you don’t want him..because that means you’re not chasing anymore

Gianne B. Joseph
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Hi,Me and my boyfriend broke up last December.I can give you the specific details if you wanted to,and I’m really need your help Ex Recovery Team…And even I wanted to purchase your product by the way,I really can’t purchase it because I don’t have any money,or any credit card,so I’m only reading some articles on your website,or watching some videos too of Brad Browning 🙂 .After our break up,of course I’m still shock and being emotional. And Because I didn’t know that there is a certain things to do to get your ex back like No contact.By my instinct,I began… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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You’re already friendzoned..the only thing that can really help increase your chances is nc..and the only one that can help is yourself.. It would be better if he thinks you don’t want him..because that means you’re not chasing anymore

Gianne B. Joseph
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Hi,I have a question.Can I still get my ex back?(By the way,he’s the one who broke up with me)You see,we broke up last December and yet until today we still talk to each other.But the problem is…I didn’t start the no contact period after our break up because I didn’t know that and yeah common after a breakup,is that someone begans to begged,plead and such,right?I really do that stupid mistake.We still talk to each other,positive talk and messages.But here’s the thing too,sometimes he also give me the “cold” treatment whenever I’m kinda needy (which is wrong)and whenever he recalls the… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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You’re already friendzoned..the only thing that can really help increase your chances is nc..and the only one that can help is yourself.. It would be better if he thinks you don’t want him..because that means you’re not chasing anymore

Gianne B. Joseph
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Hi,I have a question.Can I still get my ex back?(By the way,he’s the one who broke up with me)You see,we broke up last December and yet until today we still talk to each other.But the problem is…I didn’t start the no contact period after our break up because I didn’t know that and yeah common after a breakup,is that someone begans to begged,plead and such,right?I really do that stupid mistake.We still talk to each other,positive talk and messages.But here’s the thing too,sometimes he also give me the “cold” treatment whenever I’m kinda needy (which is wrong)and whenever he recalls the… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

You’re already friendzoned..the only thing that can really help increase your chances is nc..and the only one that can help is yourself.. It would be better if he thinks you don’t want him..because that means you’re not chasing anymore

Sally
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We broke up nearly 8months ago. We didn’t quarrel. He was ill since a long time and slowly he stopped contact. After 4months he met me and proposed to get back. I was really angry and didn’t agree, yet I loved him so much. He never tried a 2nd time. I decided to move on. Eventually I met someone else and got into a relationship. Although I couldn’t really love him. Yet I thought with time things would get easier and I would fall in love with him. But sometimes whenever I meet my ex at college I couldn’t resist… Read more »
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be in a relationship because you want to be in a relationship with that person.. you’re already hurting him by staying even if you dont love him

Sally
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We broke up nearly 8months ago. We didn’t quarrel. He was ill since a long time and slowly he stopped contact. After 4months he met me and proposed to get back. I was really angry and didn’t agree, yet I loved him so much. He never tried a 2nd time. I decided to move on. Eventually I met someone else and got into a relationship. Although I couldn’t really love him. Yet I thought with time things would get easier and I would fall in love with him. But sometimes whenever I meet my ex at college I couldn’t resist… Read more »
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be in a relationship because you want to be in a relationship with that person.. you’re already hurting him by staying even if you dont love him

Kiki
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Hey my boyfriend and I were togheter for 4 months our relationship was so perfect, but unfortunately I got pregnant and since were are only 20 somethings we decided not to keep it, he supported me very well. But 2 months later and then last week we had a fight, following day he went to a friend and didn’t return and said he needed time and doesn’t want to be in a relationship right now but I can see that he still loves me, what do I do? Where did it went wrong?

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

what was the fight about? are you going to do the no contact rule?

Kiki
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Hey my boyfriend and I were togheter for 4 months our relationship was so perfect, but unfortunately I got pregnant and since were are only 20 somethings we decided not to keep it, he supported me very well. But 2 months later and then last week we had a fight, following day he went to a friend and didn’t return and said he needed time and doesn’t want to be in a relationship right now but I can see that he still loves me, what do I do? Where did it went wrong?

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

what was the fight about? are you going to do the no contact rule?

Gina
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Hi! My bf and i broke up two months ago.I tried to follow the program and did 15 days no contact, he contacted me, we talked sometimes and then he agreed to fly to ny to see me. I saw him where he lives the following week.When we see each other is like nothing has changed but he still refuses to get back together even though he claims he still loves me.He is breaking the relationship off because he has to focus on his career plus the long distance and age difference doesn’t help. I admit I cried a lot… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Gina,

this time do a 45 day one, and make it seem that you’re moving on and then slowly build rapport after

Gina
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Hi! My bf and i broke up two months ago.I tried to follow the program and did 15 days no contact, he contacted me, we talked sometimes and then he agreed to fly to ny to see me. I saw him where he lives the following week.When we see each other is like nothing has changed but he still refuses to get back together even though he claims he still loves me.He is breaking the relationship off because he has to focus on his career plus the long distance and age difference doesn’t help. I admit I cried a lot… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Gina,

this time do a 45 day one, and make it seem that you’re moving on and then slowly build rapport after

N
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So I’m stuck. I’ve been exclusively dating a guy for more than a year. We had been fighting for the last few months due to his commitment issues (ie. he wanted to do all the relationship things but not be official). So I told him this wasn’t serving him and seemed to be stressing him out so I would fall back. He proceeded to ask “so because I don’t want a relationship you are done with me?” to which I told him I wanted people who were intentional with having me in their space – why do all the relationship… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor
N
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So I’m stuck. I’ve been exclusively dating a guy for more than a year. We had been fighting for the last few months due to his commitment issues (ie. he wanted to do all the relationship things but not be official). So I told him this wasn’t serving him and seemed to be stressing him out so I would fall back. He proceeded to ask “so because I don’t want a relationship you are done with me?” to which I told him I wanted people who were intentional with having me in their space – why do all the relationship… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor
Kelly
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My boyfriend and I broke up a week ago. We were together for a year, and we both go to college. We spent a lot of time together, basically everyday. We were best friends. Throughout our entire relationship, I know I was very clingy and wanted a lot of attention from him. I picked a lot of stupid fights so he would give me attention, and with each fight I picked he gradually lost patience. He broke up with me a month ago because I couldn’t stop picking fights, and we got back together after a day. I had told… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Kelly,

since you go to school together, approach it like this one:
EBR 032: What To Do If You Work With Your Ex Boyfriend

Kelly
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My boyfriend and I broke up a week ago. We were together for a year, and we both go to college. We spent a lot of time together, basically everyday. We were best friends. Throughout our entire relationship, I know I was very clingy and wanted a lot of attention from him. I picked a lot of stupid fights so he would give me attention, and with each fight I picked he gradually lost patience. He broke up with me a month ago because I couldn’t stop picking fights, and we got back together after a day. I had told… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Kelly,

since you go to school together, approach it like this one:
EBR 032: What To Do If You Work With Your Ex Boyfriend

Susie
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Hi, Me and my ex boyfriend work in a mall and he works oppsite me, so we see eachother everyday for long period of time. We was going out for 2 months and then one day we planned to go out. I was getting ready and I left my house ready to go and pick him up since he didnt have a car. Just last minute when im already on my way to pick him, he cancelled which made me so angry. He kept apologizing and the next day he called me a few times i declined them all. The… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Susie,

there can still be feelings, why not build rapport slowly now?

Susie
Guest
Hi, Me and my ex boyfriend work in a mall and he works oppsite me, so we see eachother everyday for long period of time. We was going out for 2 months and then one day we planned to go out. I was getting ready and I left my house ready to go and pick him up since he didnt have a car. Just last minute when im already on my way to pick him, he cancelled which made me so angry. He kept apologizing and the next day he called me a few times i declined them all. The… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Susie,

there can still be feelings, why not build rapport slowly now?

Mady
Guest

Me and my boyfriend broke up couple days ago because my parents didn’t want us together anymore he has always told me your the only one I ever want and I couldn’t see myself with out you people at school says he talks about me that he still cares but doesn’t want to be with me I catch him staring at me sometimes but he won’t talk I don’t know what to do ? Do you think he still cares ?

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Mady,

how old are you both?

Mady
Guest

I’m 17 he’s 16

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

ok, he probably still cares but what about your parents now? Are you going to talk to them?

Mady
Guest

Hi I’m mady recently my boyfriend broke up with me because our parents didn’t want us together anymore and they were pushing for us too break up he always has said that he couldn’t see himself with out me and that I was his one and only but at school he tells his friends that he still likes me but doesn’t want to get back together but sometimes I notice he stares at me and I’m so confused what does that mean and what should I do ? I really want to be with him still.

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Mady,

how old are you both?

Mady
Guest

Me and my boyfriend broke up couple days ago because my parents didn’t want us together anymore he has always told me your the only one I ever want and I couldn’t see myself with out you people at school says he talks about me that he still cares but doesn’t want to be with me I catch him staring at me sometimes but he won’t talk I don’t know what to do ? Do you think he still cares ?

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Mady,

how old are you both?

Mady
Guest

I’m 17 he’s 16

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

ok, he probably still cares but what about your parents now? Are you going to talk to them?

Mady
Guest

Hi I’m mady recently my boyfriend broke up with me because our parents didn’t want us together anymore and they were pushing for us too break up he always has said that he couldn’t see himself with out me and that I was his one and only but at school he tells his friends that he still likes me but doesn’t want to get back together but sometimes I notice he stares at me and I’m so confused what does that mean and what should I do ? I really want to be with him still.

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Mady,

how old are you both?

Maria Sanchez
Guest
my ex boyfriend and i broke up 2 days ago he contacted me last night on the phone, he alwasy looks at me when he thinks im not watching he also tuches me on my arm he likes to pick on me alot he still hangs around me and my fiends who are also his ex’s 3 of them counteing me thats 4 but anyways he is alays near us he only picks on me thoe which i dont mind if he dose i find it cute but i do like my ex still and i wanna get him back… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Maria,

do you want to try the no contact rule?

Maria Sanchez
Guest
my ex boyfriend and i broke up 2 days ago he contacted me last night on the phone, he alwasy looks at me when he thinks im not watching he also tuches me on my arm he likes to pick on me alot he still hangs around me and my fiends who are also his ex’s 3 of them counteing me thats 4 but anyways he is alays near us he only picks on me thoe which i dont mind if he dose i find it cute but i do like my ex still and i wanna get him back… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Maria,

do you want to try the no contact rule?

Brianna
Guest
Hello, My ex and I dated for 6months but broke up with me because he said he did not have feelings for me anymore. For some background, we were long distance for a month because I moved to college. I then returned back home which is closer to where he lives. He later came back to me and said he was simply afraid and under a lot of stress which caused the breakup. So I took him back. During the two months of talking once again and trying to get back together I was having a difficult time. I couldn’t… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Brianna,

how much did you improve in the past 30 days and were you active in posting in social media? if not, restart the count and do that first. If yes, initiate contact and slowly rebuild rapport

Brianna
Guest
Hello, I appreciate you replying. I have become involved in school, I have currently been accepted into two honors program, going to church frequently and taking a photography class to keep me busy and it’s what I absolutely love to do. I just began hanging out with friends. I am more independent and not so emotional. We passed by eachother today at school, however we did not acknowledge each other. He seemed to be with a female but I didn’t think much of it, they seemed like friends maybe. I temporary disabled my Instagram to keep myself from alaways checking… Read more »
Brianna
Guest

Not to mention, when the first breakup occurred he unfollowed me from Instagram… I have a private account & blocked me on Snapchat. He also doesn’t use Facebook..i do have his sister on Snapchat And his best friend on Instagram but that’s it.

Brianna
Guest

He doesn’t use social media basically…

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

hmm.. yeah you have to reactivate Instagram.. what about Facebook, and then just make your posts public? Because he has to see something if he gets curious about you.

Brianna
Guest

Okay I will reactive my account!
How would I know it’s not a hopeless situation?

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

It’s hard to say from now. You’ll know more once you started the texting phase..

Brianna
Guest
Hello, My ex and I dated for 6months but broke up with me because he said he did not have feelings for me anymore. For some background, we were long distance for a month because I moved to college. I then returned back home which is closer to where he lives. He later came back to me and said he was simply afraid and under a lot of stress which caused the breakup. So I took him back. During the two months of talking once again and trying to get back together I was having a difficult time. I couldn’t… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Brianna,

how much did you improve in the past 30 days and were you active in posting in social media? if not, restart the count and do that first. If yes, initiate contact and slowly rebuild rapport

Brianna
Guest
Hello, I appreciate you replying. I have become involved in school, I have currently been accepted into two honors program, going to church frequently and taking a photography class to keep me busy and it’s what I absolutely love to do. I just began hanging out with friends. I am more independent and not so emotional. We passed by eachother today at school, however we did not acknowledge each other. He seemed to be with a female but I didn’t think much of it, they seemed like friends maybe. I temporary disabled my Instagram to keep myself from alaways checking… Read more »
Brianna
Guest

Not to mention, when the first breakup occurred he unfollowed me from Instagram… I have a private account & blocked me on Snapchat. He also doesn’t use Facebook..i do have his sister on Snapchat And his best friend on Instagram but that’s it.

Brianna
Guest

He doesn’t use social media basically…

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

hmm.. yeah you have to reactivate Instagram.. what about Facebook, and then just make your posts public? Because he has to see something if he gets curious about you.

Brianna
Guest

Okay I will reactive my account!
How would I know it’s not a hopeless situation?

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

It’s hard to say from now. You’ll know more once you started the texting phase..

Cherry Jude
Guest

Hi I have a friend who fell in love with another guy they were both married and they knew they cannot continue the relationship because it is forbidden so they broke up still in love. They no longer communicate but the last time they spoke they still loved each other. My girlfriend is heartbroken but she knows she cannot continue and does not want to contact him she is wondering if he feels the same way. Do you think he still loves her? Both of them cried during their break up.

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Cherry,

maybe, but truth is, it wont matter if they can’t be together.. And it’s also a guage of her non negotiables.. if she doesn’t want to be involved with a married guy, she has to move on and go back to rekindling her marriage.. if she’s not really happy with her marriage, she has to find the courage to stand up on her own…

Cherry Jude
Guest

Hi I have a friend who fell in love with another guy they were both married and they knew they cannot continue the relationship because it is forbidden so they broke up still in love. They no longer communicate but the last time they spoke they still loved each other. My girlfriend is heartbroken but she knows she cannot continue and does not want to contact him she is wondering if he feels the same way. Do you think he still loves her? Both of them cried during their break up.

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Cherry,

maybe, but truth is, it wont matter if they can’t be together.. And it’s also a guage of her non negotiables.. if she doesn’t want to be involved with a married guy, she has to move on and go back to rekindling her marriage.. if she’s not really happy with her marriage, she has to find the courage to stand up on her own…

Bella
Guest
Hi. I broke up with my boyfriend after in 2 years relationship. He was the one who broke up with me, 4 months ago. He said that he doesn’t love me anymore. After break up, I was begging him and did every stupid things to get him back. I didn’t find this site yet. And then I try NC for a month at December. I contacted him again new year, and we were in touch again. We met couple times, and sometimes he was the one who initial the meeting. We had sex, but not all the time when we… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Bella,

that’s probably the reason why he’s distant now.. I think you should restart nc and then do 45 days..focus in moving on without fully moving on and then after it, dont sleep with him.
Take it slow, maintain your new routine while rebuilding rapport.

Bella
Guest
Hi. I broke up with my boyfriend after in 2 years relationship. He was the one who broke up with me, 4 months ago. He said that he doesn’t love me anymore. After break up, I was begging him and did every stupid things to get him back. I didn’t find this site yet. And then I try NC for a month at December. I contacted him again new year, and we were in touch again. We met couple times, and sometimes he was the one who initial the meeting. We had sex, but not all the time when we… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Bella,

that’s probably the reason why he’s distant now.. I think you should restart nc and then do 45 days..focus in moving on without fully moving on and then after it, dont sleep with him.
Take it slow, maintain your new routine while rebuilding rapport.