Today I’m going to show you how I came up with the six definitive signs that can help you identify if your ex is waiting for you.
First things first, let’s get the signs out of the way,
- You’ll Notice An Increase In Communication
- You’ll Notice A Change Of Tone In Communication
- They’ll Usually Apologize For Past Behavior
- They’ll Express Regret (Or Say They Miss You)
- You’ll Notice They’ll Initiate Meetups
- They’ll Show Signs Of Jealousy
Now, before you click off or roll your eyes stating that this article is just like the thousands of others out there.
It’s not, because the real trick is how I came up with this list.
I spent hours re-listening to three specific success story interviews I conducted (the three most recent ones as of the writing of this article.)
And essentially what I did was list out all of the “warning signs” that their exes exhibited right before they were about to come back.
Then from there I looked at each case and saw which ones were repeated throughout all three success stories and that’s how I came up with the list of signs that an ex is waiting for you.
It’s based on ACTUAL data.
Not the BS conjecture I see so often listed on the internet.
And it’s for this reason that before I spend an hour writing about the six signs above I’d like to show you each success story case individually so you can see everything I’m seeing.
Only after we’ve finished that will I dive in to the six.
My Notes On The Signs Chris’s Ex Was Waiting Around For Her
First things first, click the link below to listen to my interview with Jane,
Here’s a brief summary of her situation if you don’t have the time to listen,
Chris was in a relationship with her boyfriend for about a year. They broke up due right after what seemed like a great vacation, after which her ex-boyfriend blocked her on all social media platforms. Despite this, Chris decided to try and get him back. She followed the advice from our program, which included a “No Contact Rule” for 30 days, during which she focused on improving herself.
Chris managed to get her ex-boyfriend to unblock her and start talking to her again.
They even met up a few times.
However, during this process, Chris realized that she had grown as a person and that her ex-boyfriend was not the right person for her. She decided to end things for good and focus on herself.
Pretty awesome, right?
But here’s the good stuff.
Turns out there were six signs leading up to Chris’s ask showing interest again,
- Unblocking and Reaching Out: The first sign was when he unblocked Chris on social media and reached out to her. This showed that he was open to communication again.
- Apologizing for Past Behavior: He apologized for his past behavior, which could be seen as a sign of regret and a desire to make amends.
- Expressing Jealousy: When Chris started dating someone else, her ex-boyfriend expressed jealousy. This could indicate that he still had feelings for her.
- Wanting to Meet Up: He asked to meet up with Chris, which could be seen as a sign that he was interested in rekindling their relationship.
- Expressing Regret: He expressed regret over their breakup, which could be seen as a sign that he missed their relationship.
- Showing Emotional Vulnerability: He opened up about his feelings and showed emotional vulnerability, which could be seen as a sign that he was willing to work on their relationship.
Alright, so that’s Chris’s situation.
Now lets move on to our next success story, Nina.
My Notes On The Signs Nina’s Ex Was Waiting Around For Her
Just to ensure I’m showing my work don’t forget to click on the link below to actually listen to my interview with Nina,
Here’s a quick summary of her situation,
Nina had two significant relationships, both of which ended but were later rekindled using our Ex Boyfriend Recovery process.
In her first relationship with a man we’ll just call “Ex #1”, they broke up due to Ex #1’s commitment issues. Nina used the Ex Boyfriend Recovery process to understand her mistakes and improve herself. Ex #1 noticed these changes and they eventually got back together. Unfortunately it didn’t last and pretty quickly afterwards they went through a breakup again.
After her relationship with Ex #1 ended again, Nina started dating a man we’ll call “Ex #2.” They had a good relationship, but it ended due to Ex #2’s personal issues. Nina used the Ex Boyfriend Recovery process again, focusing on her own personal growth. Ex #2 noticed her improvements and they rekindled their relationship.
In both cases, Nina was able to use the Ex Boyfriend Recovery process to understand her mistakes, improve herself, and eventually rekindle her relationships.
What is super unique about Nina’s success story is the fact that she had two exes that she got back which means we have double the data points for our model.
Here were the major warning signs that both these guys were waiting around for her during the breakup,
- He started reaching out to her more frequently.
- He began expressing regret about their breakup.
- He started showing more interest in her life and well-being.
- He was more open to communication and was initiating it himself.
- He started showing signs of jealousy when Sarah mentioned other men.
- He also began reaching out to her more frequently.
- He started expressing his feelings and regrets about their past relationship.
- He showed signs of jealousy when Sarah mentioned other men.
- He was more open to communication and was initiating it himself.
Already, if you looked closely enough, you can see some warning signs repeating themselves.
Both men start reaching out more frequently.
Both are more open to communication.
But our data compilation isn’t over yet. We still have another success story.
My Notes On The Signs Stacia’s Ex Was Waiting Around For Her
Once again, I encourage you to actually listen to the success stories,
Stacia was in a relationship with a man who ended up ghosting her, meaning he suddenly stopped all communication without explanation. This left Stacia feeling confused and hurt. Despite this, she decided to try and get him back.
She followed the advice from the Ex Boyfriend Recovery program. Yes, that means she did a no contact period. During this period, she focused on improving herself and her own life. After the no contact period, SHE reached out to her ex, who responded positively.
Over time, their communication increased, and her ex started showing signs of interest again. He apologized for ghosting her, admitted to missing her, and expressed regret for ending the relationship. Eventually, they decided to meet up, and their relationship was rekindled.
Stacia’s story is a testament to the power of personal growth and self-improvement in the process of getting an ex back, even in situations where the ex had initially cut off all contact.
- Increased Communication: After a period of no contact, her ex-boyfriend started reaching out to her more frequently. This was a significant change from his previous behavior of ghosting her.
- Interest in Her Life: He began showing interest in her life and activities, asking her questions about what she was doing and how she was feeling.
- Apologizing for Past Behavior: He apologized for his past behavior, acknowledging that he had made mistakes in their relationship.
- Openness about His Feelings: He started opening up about his feelings, which was a change from his previous tendency to avoid discussing emotions.
- Desire to Meet in Person: He expressed a desire to meet her in person, suggesting that he was interested in rekindling their relationship.
- Revealing His Vulnerabilities: He revealed his vulnerabilities and insecurities to her, indicating a level of trust and openness that wasn’t present before.
The Six Most Common Signs Your Ex Is Waiting For You (Based On Success Stories)
So, when you look at the numbers there are very clear signs that keep popping up among all the success stories.
- Increased Communication: In all three stories, the exes started reaching out more frequently. This was a change from the previous period of no contact or reduced contact.
- Change in Tone of Communication: The exes’ messages became more positive over time. They started to show more interest and engagement in the conversations.
- Apology for Past Behavior: The exes apologized for their past behavior, which can be seen as a sign of regret and a desire to make amends.
- Expressing Misses and Regrets: The exes admitted to missing the women and regretting the decision to end the relationship.
- Initiating Meetings: The exes showed a desire to meet in person, which can be a strong indication of wanting to reconnect on a deeper level.
- Showing Signs of Jealousy: In Nina’s case, both of her exes showed signs of jealousy when she mentioned other men. This could indicate that they still had feelings for her.