What Makes An Ex Boyfriend Change His Mind About The Breakup?

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BellaB

November 4, 2017 at 7:44 am

please help me
i have posted several times but i dont think ive gotten through
my ex left out 7mo old daughter and i almost 3 mos ago
he blames me for everything
we are amidst a custody type battle through the court
we were together for 2 yrs
NC 30 days. he has not reached out to me. i am still in love with him despite this. idk if he has a rebound. idk if he is missing me. i want to save my family. is there anything i can do?

EBR Team Member: Amor

November 5, 2017 at 6:09 am

Hi Bella,

I answered your previous comment in another blog post.. I’m only wondering why is he angry?

Kelly Popov

October 28, 2017 at 11:57 pm

My boyfriend and I of 2 1/2 years, just broke up yesterday. We have almost broke up a couple times before this. Mostly it has been my fault. I have major trust issues and smothered him. One of the times he was messaging another woman inappropriatly and I found out. He has never done that before nor has he had any contact with her st all since. He had apologized and he doesn’t know why he did it. He is actually an amazing man when it comes down to it.

We live together and I have a young daughter (7 yrs old) that calls him Dad. He said that we can stay until we figure things out and find a place to live. Also, he has said that I will never lose him as a friend and he loves both my daughter and I dearly. I did ask him to reconsider and give me another chance and he said “No, you are not going to change my mind.”

How do I do the NC rule when we live together, but at the same time be the woman that no one else can compare to. I have decided that even though I feel incredibly broke I am going to agree with him and look for a new place to live. As well as in the mean time only let him see me being happy and positive.

How do I implant the NC rule though? Do I just limit what I say yo him? Let him contact me first and not be so quick to respond?

I know the both of us can work out together, but we both need time.

EBR Team Member: Amor

October 31, 2017 at 7:45 pm

Hi Kelly,

Check this one:
EBR 027: What To Do If You Live With Your Ex Boyfriend

Tia S

September 23, 2017 at 8:48 am

My boyfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago. For the first week, he asked for space. I tried to give it to him but still text every second day to apologise and beg. He said he appreciated these but needed time to think. We eventually met up and it went perfectly but he said he couldn’t risk getting back together and doing it all again. We decided to meet up weekly (his decision) and see how things go but before the first meetup he cancelled and said he didnt want to get back together. He said me talking to him made him feel like he was being made decide too quickly. He claims the meetups were only so i wouldnt get hutt but i think it was because he couldnt make up his mind. The reason we broke ip was because of argument. I admit the arguments were my fault for the most part and this has been such a wakeup call so i know it wouldnt go back to that. I took him for granted. When he ended it he said he still loved me and he wished it could just be like that day we met up all the time, because it was perfect. I tried to tell him that it would be but he says he cant go back to arguing like that and he cant see it being any other way. He also said he has no interest in other girls he just needs time alone to do his own thing without thinking about how it will affect us. Yet, he’s put up pictures with another girl on nights out and i know he’s kissed someone else. He said he missed me during the break but it felt peaceful and he didnt have to watch his back for an argument. How do i show him that it wouldnt be like that again? Ive been doing no contact for 2 weeks now but i dont think he’ll contact me first. He told me that he cant change his mind because hell just be giving in again like he always used to give in to the arguments and let me “win”. He’d be too stubborn to contact i think.

EBR Team Member: Amor

September 27, 2017 at 8:58 pm

Hi Tia,

are you going to do the no contact rule?

Kay-C

August 22, 2017 at 4:37 pm

Hi,
Me and my boyfriend broke up a few days ago, I did the classic crying and begging for that day and the morning after. Then I proceeded to do the no contact period but only for a day and a half/ two days and I stopped and sent him a paragraph about how I think we’re good for each other and reminded him of three of our best memories which encorporated the three best things he loved about me. I haven’t spoke to him since. Which I heard would help get rid of the negative feelings he has of me currently and of our relationship.

I am going to do NC again for 21-30 days.

My ex and I had a good relationship. I was his longest and most stable relationship as his other exes cheated on him and honestly treated him so badly. Though he seemed more upset about those breakups than he does with me (he would always post about them online, idk if that’s cause he still wants to get back together or not?). I was loving and caring and all the other things you could want in a girlfriend. But then we started arguing over little things and granted I’ll admit a large majority of it was my fault. I did things to annoy him to get a reaction but I never knew it was that bad. I’d never know how to properly communicate in arguments.

Before him I was with my other ex for almost two years and it was a pretty abusive relationship on his part.

Me and my ex were talking for about a month or two before we met up and then started going out, we lasted four and a half months.

On top of a lot of small arguments, he was going through a lot, him and his mum fell out (her blaming him for his dad leaving and things of that nature), and he recently dropped out of military college and starts normal college in September (I’m from the UK so things are a little different here). And he said he wanted time to be alone, not to be single and get with other people but to just be alone without stress or hassle but he says he still loves me and he did show it when he broke up with me over text as he was upset and said it hurt him that he needs to be alone but still loves me. Though he always posts pictures of himself shirtless and asked people to “talk” trying to make me jealous, which I don’t get.

I know how to change and I believe this was a real waking call and I have tried my hardest to change. And although I haven’t changed completely, I believe I have worked on all my faults and flaws within the relationship very well and I only really have a little more work to do (like put it into a relationship).

We still have each other on social media and he is always one of the first to view my stories.

We were a good couple, we motivated each other, we had a lot in common but a lot not in common so we had things to do outside of the relationship, though we did take interest in each other’s interests. We were passionate and always put each other first. And not to sound big headed, I was the best, most attractive girlfriend he’s had with the best personality.

The question is, how do I make him miss me? How do I show him I’ve changed? and get over the fear of him leaving again provided we get back together (not getting my hopes up though).

Thank you.

Tia S

September 23, 2017 at 8:35 am

Can you please tell me how this went as Im in almost the exact same situation at the moment!
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 22, 2017 at 10:24 pm

Hi Kay C,

check this one:
The “How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Miss You” Video

Annie

August 10, 2017 at 5:51 am

I treated him so well. He only broke up with me because of GIGS / new long distance circumstances. I’m really confident he won’t find anyone better his whole life! He even told me I’m a catch! I think the problem is he got more successful recently so he thinks he should explore other options/ grass is greener. It’s just frustrating because I think he might not even start dating for a while so I think it may be a slow process of realizing there’s not anyone better – he may be willing to search for years and we were already together for 5 and I’m about to turn 30. He was my first love. I think it may just be too late when he realizes I’m the best I guess what is meant to be will be! (Also I’m certain he will move back on a year or two max so it won’t be long distance for much longer)
Jellyhearts

August 8, 2017 at 3:58 pm

Hello, what if he feels numb after breaking up with me. Does it mean that the relationship is not salvageable? Because all I’m reading is that he would feel angry or hurt but if he’s feeling nothing say 2 weeks into the break up, does it mean it’s not worth pursuing no contact and then changing his perception?

EBR Team Member: Amor

August 9, 2017 at 3:20 pm

no contact is not for changing the other person’s mind.. It’s for you. To heal, improve and be rational.

SadMommy

August 1, 2017 at 12:27 am

My bf broke up with me 2 months ago,and it has not been easy for me.. I am currently 5 months pregnant with his daughter,and we have another daughter together as well. Long story short he says he is fed up with me,I have pushed him the point of no return. Is it too late for me? I miss him, and idk if I should be doing the NC rule of trying to convince him with the examples shown above….help please 🙁

EBR Team Member: Amor

August 1, 2017 at 4:53 pm

Hi,

Check this one:
Here’s How To Get Your “Baby Daddy” Back

Andrea

July 7, 2017 at 12:03 am

Hi Mora,

Well, my world came crashing down again as Tim broke up me with again, this time in person (May 7th on the phone). We had been back together for a month after I did NC and he persuaded me to get back with him saying breaking up with me was a mistake. I had done everything I could this time: been confident, didn’t chase him, gave him all the space he wanted, even encouraged him to be with his kids when he was. I was blindsided. There was no fight at all. We had big holiday plans over the 4th but he texted me to come over to my house Sunday night. I thought he just wanted to see me.

He said on paper we were perfect including the sex (which was the best I’ve ever had BTW, he didn’t say that part), music, both UGA graduates, love classic cars, play golf, want the same things, etc BUT “something is missing.” He said I’ve haven’t done anything wrong, I’m awesome, we have so much fun, etc.

Did I mention I was blindsided? He even mentioned that I wasn’t pressuring him to marry but he wants to remarry. The past month has been great. Guess we got back together too fast. I told him that I was especially blindsided because I’ve never broken up with anyone I love and was shocked that he could do that when he insists he still loves me. I also told him that I think it takes time to (as in like a year to decide if someone is right to marry IMO).How could he let us go again???

I told him that I can’t believe that he’s willing to never see me again, text me again, speak to me again, forever this time. I told him I can’t go through this again. I also told him that everything in my body and heart is telling me that this is a mistake. We talked for 2 hours and it was THE hardest thing in my life to let him go for the last time knowing I will never see him again. He was also one of my best friends.

I don’t how to do anything right now except write this email. My dad passed away 3 years ago today at 64 and this just adds to it.

I’m 48, he’s 52, he’s been divorced 5 years. I cannot go through this ever again I don’t even know how to process this. PLEASE help me!

EBR Team Member: Amor

July 9, 2017 at 4:42 pm

Try the nc for the last time.. Do at least 45 days and this time stick to your new routine even after nc while slowly building rapport

BB

June 9, 2017 at 3:32 am

We have “known” each other for almost 10 years, online. We have never met in real life and that was about to change, or should change, in the next few months because we live on 2 sides of the world. Things started changing around New Year. We started speaking more (or I should say I started texting back more). Finally, we got to see each other on Skype for the first time ever, after 1-2 months of intensive texting and about 10 years of “friendship”.. and finally, the I love yous were exchanged. But suddenly, almost 4 months later, he decided we should just be friends. He loves me, he says. He has never felt this way about anyone in his life, he says. The distance, too much emotions, he says, do not make him feel okay. His whole life is a mess, his emotions are a mess, he says. We tried talking for a full week, in which he tried to convince me we should just be friends. He messaged me last Sunday, told me how I am extremely important in his life, he needed time to try to fix his life and ended the message with “I love you”. That day I already decided I would start the NC. I did expect the usual “good morning, have a great day” message I had been getting for years, but I didn’t get it this time. He didn’t log on whatsapp for 3 days. Yesterday he did. Today he did. But he is not messaging me. And this is the first time in a long, long time we don’t speak at all. This is the first time ever he is not reaching out to me, which I find weird because when we were “just friends” he would text me frequently.

I am really confused with his actions… He texts me frequently for years – always first – we fall in love, we Skype every day for about 4 months, he says he wants to be friends, tells me I matter, he loves me and abruptly stops messaging completely. And my questions might sound stupid but – is it possible he really is hurting much due to distance? Should I just give him about 2-3 weeks and try to play a “friend” (in spite of the fact that we can never be the friends we were), while at the same time implementing all those mind playing games? Or should I wait for the whole NC period to end? Is there any hope at all?

EBR Team Member: Amor

June 13, 2017 at 5:13 pm

10 years and he didn’t save up to see you? You should move on.. Actions speak louder.. He can say one thing but his actions prove he’s not serious

Jessica

June 5, 2017 at 4:13 pm

We broke up a few weeks ago on very good terms. We both just need space. I was doing NC but drunk texted in a very typical situation the other night after my friends told me he should have treated me better. I repeated those things to him and said that I was moving on. I also posted photos of me with my guy friends to Facebook to make him jealous but have since taken them down. I still want to get back together. He said “so are you just not going to say anything?” after I did not say anything for a day. What do I reply?

EBR Team Member: Amor

June 7, 2017 at 5:15 pm

You told him you’re moving on right? so, you mean you’re starting the no contact period, if yes, dont reply.

Jacqui

May 19, 2017 at 9:08 pm

My ex and I dated for just over a year and have been broken up for 2 months. He asked for space and so I gave that to him, he came back around in 2 days. We have been hanging out everyday pretty much since the breakup, as if we were dating and there have been times where his emotions have overcome his logic, asking to be exclusive and holding my hand in public, telling me that if I keep doing this, we would get back together. I was staying at his all last week and then on the final night he turned to me and said we had to stop this. He wanted to stop seeing each other everyday and properly break up. He said he wanted minimal contact. I felt as if I was getting to close to getting him back. He says he wants to make being friends work (we are in the same friendship group) and that he’s here to look after me as I’m going through a hard time with my personal life. He calls me everyday, replies as normal, but refuses to be romantic. I’m not sure what to do. He told me he didn’t want to get back together and that hanging out with me was fun.

EBR Team Member: Amor

May 19, 2017 at 11:10 pm

I’m assuming you haven’t done the no contact rule.. are you going to do it?

Rose

May 15, 2017 at 8:28 pm

Me & my boyfriend broke up 3 months ago. We broke up for a week and got back together for a week. Then he broke up again. He was very cold but confused. He had a lot going in his life as well as myself. There was clearly miscommunication. In the last three months there has been on and off communication. We also went to college together so we saw each other often (semester just ended a week ago) after the break up I chased after him. I was worried he was going through things and just pushing me away. He told me he didn’t know if we’d ever get back together. The Times we talked he had no self confidence. The last time we talked went well. We cleared the air and agreed to be friends. But our families were feuding at that time and it made everything awkward. They were all talking about me o I sent a message in a group to veryone confronting the issue. Then I blocked everyone. Looking back it was more embarrassing for me and my ex nd I.wish I didn’t send that message. We dated for a year and he was the Man I could spend the rest of my life with. All contact has been cut off in the last week. I don’t have to see him at school anymore & I blocked him on Facebook. He lives a mile from me but i try to avoid driving past his house. I still Care for him. He is going to meet his birth mom in two weeks. That was part of what he was going through. Idk if he is going to come back to me? I feel like I acted emotionally crazy by texting him and stopping him to talk multiple times. In this time I’ve been working on myself and doing things that make me happy. I’ve had several guys ask me out & chase me. Beside the typical”looking for a booty call” guys I’ve had 5 men I know (i went to college with nd we were friends) friend me on snapchat & Facebook, and start texting me just this past week alone. I went to Wal-Mart yesterday, as soon as I park and get out I get stopped by a guy. I think this attention bothers my boyfriend/now ex. Until we broke up I’d never text guys.back. I usually didn’t even accept there friend request. And the guys that stopped me in town, I’d tell them I have a boyfriend. A friend of mine has fallen in love with me but i am not ready for that. I am mostly scared that I will hurt him because I know if my ex comes back, it’s him I want. But I’m also falling for him. I don’t know what to do.

EBR Team Member: Amor

May 17, 2017 at 12:06 pm

Hi Rose,

unblock him and then do at least 30 days of nc

Carla

May 15, 2017 at 12:03 pm

Hello Amor,

I broke up with my boyfriend on April 2th this year. He told me he is appreciate me too much as a friend but he can not say the same about our relationship.He wanted to keep me as a friend but I didn’t agree.I stopped talking to him and after 3 weeks he started to write me.I didn’t asnwer then he came to my work to invite me for lunch.I refuse him.After all this he wanted to speak to me and ask me to meet.At that time I was sure we will not come back together and is better to forget him so I accepeted theshort meeting just to tell him all this, that I am ok and I am sure now it is better in this way.In that moment he told me he wants me to be his wife and to think about all this because he was doing a mistake.I kept my resistance to all this and after few days I was starting to miss him al lot.I met him 1 week later by concidence we talk and then I started to tell him that I am happy to see him.He was teling me the same. Next day he invite me to lunch, and in the next days for all week.But that’s all he is not speaking too much , don’t touch me and I feel we are in the same point.Now I feel tired of all this and disperate.I opened my heart to him but he doesn’t want to speak about us.What should I do at this point?

Thanks!

Carla

May 16, 2017 at 6:21 am

Hello Amor,
Thanks you for reply. I asked him why he wants to meet just for short time.He said we have time to meet more and we will see.I also asked him if he changed his mind concerning what he said to me to reconsider my decision and to come back to him.He reply that no, he didn’t changed his mind….but we will see this is all he can say.Also he is write me every day to tell me at least good morning but just to say something.Please advice me what to do, in few days it will be his birthday.I really don’t know what to do.
Thank you!
EBR Team Member: Amor

May 17, 2017 at 7:03 pm

dont ask again if he wants to come back together..you’re going to look like you’re chasing.. keep composure and be fun when you meet and leave at the high point
EBR Team Member: Amor

May 15, 2017 at 4:48 pm

have you asked him what his purpose of meeting you?

Wren

May 9, 2017 at 5:57 pm

My boyfriend of almost 6 years ended things with me because he said he has been unhappy for a few years. We went through a small and short rough patch in our freshmen year of college. We met in high school and we are both 23. We are both pursuing fields in medicine. His demeanor didn’t change until I got into nursing school in the place where he wanted to go to medical school. I do not understand why he would stay in a relationship for so long if he was so unhappy. We have been through college together and many family issues: his parents keeping their divorce a secret and me having to tell him about the divorce, his mother getting remarried, dad being silly, and issues with my family as well. He said he felt manipulated into staying in the relationship. Even if I was guilty of that, which I may have been, he stayed in it and I just want him back in my life. I feel like this is a quarter life crisis he is having and he is pushing everyone that cares about him away. He says he does not care about me in a romantic way anymore and I find that to be false because he certainly didn’t feel that way when he slept with me when we broke up. He told me to move on, but he cannot tell me how to feel about anything. He won’t tell me how he feels about me and I am not sure why. I am close with his sister and mom. He asks his mom how I’m doing and she just says that I’m okay. She said he doesn’t seem sad, just reserved. What does that mean? Is there any chance he is sad at all? Why did he drag this out for so long if he was unhappy for so long? Is there any hope of him coming around? I just need a sign showing me that he is thinking about coming around.

EBR Team Member: Amor

May 11, 2017 at 7:13 pm

Hi Wren,

instead of hoping for a sign, be proactive because you can only control yourself.. try the no contact rule for at least 30 days.. heal and improve and be active in posting…dont talk to his relatives about him

Wren

May 9, 2017 at 5:51 pm

My boyfriend of almost 6 years ended things with me because he said he has been unhappy for a few years. We went through a small and short rough patch in our freshmen year of college. We met in high school and we are both 23. We are both pursuing fields in medicine. His demeanor didn’t change until I got into nursing school in the place where he wanted to go to medical school. I do not understand why he would stay in a relationship for so long if he was so unhappy. We have been through college together and many family issues: his parents keeping their divorce a secret and me having to tell him about the divorce, his mother getting remarried, dad being silly, and issues with my family as well. He said he felt manipulated into staying in the relationship. Even if I was guilty of that, which I may have been, he stayed in it and I just want him back in my life. I feel like this is a quarter life crisis he is having and he is pushing everyone that cares about him away. He says he does not care about me in a romantic way anymore and I find that to be false because he certainly didn’t feel that way when he slept with me when we broke up. He told me to move on, but he cannot tell me how to feel about anything. He won’t tell me how he feels about me and I am not sure why. Why did he drag this out for so long if he was unhappy for so long? Is there any hope of him coming around?

EBR Team Member: Amor

May 11, 2017 at 7:14 pm

Hi Wren,

instead of hoping for a sign, be proactive because you can only control yourself.. try the no contact rule for at least 30 days.. heal and improve and be active in posting…dont talk to his relatives about him

Allison

April 28, 2017 at 6:54 pm

Hi,

My boyfriend broke up with me a little over three weeks ago. We dated for over four years, and had talked extensively about a future together. I am older (25) than he (23), and I have been working to minimize the age gap for quite some time. He is in a 6 year pharmacy program, and will graduate in 2018. I will be working full time for two years by that point. We have worked through various issues, including one brief break up 2 years ago, throughout our relationship. We had been struggling some recently due to his battle with depression and anxiety. I had gone out of my way and bent over backwards to help him with these issues, but I could only do so much. It really is up to him to address these issues and work through them. However, I always planned to be by his side, even when things weren’t the best. Our interests differ, but we agree on almost everything, he makes me happy, and I love him immensely. He broke up with me so he could work on “making himself happy as an individual.” He doesn’t want to have to lean on someone else for his happiness. However, for the next year he will be on pharmacy rotations and I wouldn’t be able to see him much anyway – so he would have his space to be independent, and he would have me for love and support. I started no contact, but ended up reaching out to him. So, I’m starting no contact again. He says he is not interested in a relationship right now because he needs to focus on himself, and he doesn’t want me to wait around for him. He apologizes but says that he thinks “this is best right now.” He’s regularly talked about how I’m “too good for him” and that I’m “the best thing in his life.” I do think I need to take some time for myself, but I want to know if he could come around and change his mind about the relationship. I’m worried about him going this alone, and I’m worried he will feel worse about himself if he struggles or fails. I do want to spend the rest of my life with him, but I am having difficulty giving him the space he wants right now.

EBR Team Member: Amor

April 30, 2017 at 11:32 am

he’s the one who asked for space.. if he’s not suicidal, it would be better if you do the nc rule.

April

April 23, 2017 at 3:44 pm

My ex and me have been broken up for 4 months now. I restarted the no contact cause well I’m psycho and hacked into his Facebook and saw he was messaging girls and talking crap about me to his one friend playing the victim also saying that he is completely over me and saying that I still like him. Ew. So I’m two weeks in no contact but his roommates (mutual friends since we did all live together before I moved out last month) invited me over for there sons 1st birthday. So there might be a chance I will run into him there. Should I go? Also can someone really get over someone after 4 months ?

EBR Team Member: Amor

April 29, 2017 at 7:34 pm

you can go, just be casual with him.. Some can move on after that but most of the time it takes a longer time.

Monica

April 14, 2017 at 7:56 pm

Hi! I would love some insights!

My boyfriend and I had a rough period after I found at (accidentally) that he was lying to me and flirting with other women. I kept doubts after finding that the first time, so, the second time I checked his phone. I found more evidence of his behavior with other women, but specially with one. He accepted he was interested in her, but he wanted to be with me. One day, I observed his instagram activity in my newsfeed and I saw how he liked pics of sexy women. After the “fights” we had, I sent to him a sexy pic and flirty text, trying to recover the spark and the playful tone of our relationship, and he hardly answered with a simple message. I felt hurt. So, when I saw his like activity, I told him “you don’t say anything about my pic and don’t follow with the game but you liked this”, and he get pissed. After that he started to become more and more distant, kinda blaming me for being a stalker and a controlling person, but I just wanted the reassurance he didn’t gave me after finding out about his intentions with other women. He proposed to go to therapy, but he doesn’t talk to me since then, it’s been a month. We had exchange around five texts and four phone calls in the whole, and usually it’s me starting them. Last time we talked on the phone, he said he was waiting to get paid to go to therapy, but he doesn’t tell me when. Also, I’m pregnant, and he knows it, but he keeps having this bad image of me, about being controlling and crazy, and that’s not true, I was just feeling insecure about his feelings for me. I don’t know what to expect of all this. I tried to prove that I’m not the woman he thinks. It really hurts me that it seems that this image he made about me erased everything that was amazing in our relationship: playful, funny, passionate, happy, etc. He even told me once that he felt the deepest connection with me, that he never felt that way, that he was able to be himself with me, etc. And I felt it was true. Now, I don’t know if we are still together, if that therapy will happen, and if it happens, if it will be for him to say he does not want this anymore. What can I do?

EBR Team Member: Amor

April 16, 2017 at 11:17 am

agree with him.. if you really want to prove that you’re not insecure and controlling don’t chase him.. do the no contact rule and start having your own life.. it’s ok to talk to him about doctor appointments but other than that focus in healing and improving

Marry

February 11, 2017 at 7:07 am

I broke up with my bf 3 weeks ago of fighting due to lack of communication.. after 10 days of nc i sent him a message saying sorry for being empulsive and he also say sorry and we agree on talking in person regarding our break up.. should i wait for the time he come back to our town to talk in person? I just confuse after that he dont message me anymore but he is always active in facebook but not message me..

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 12, 2017 at 6:38 pm

Hi Marry,

when is he going back?

Hannah

February 5, 2017 at 5:30 pm

My boyfriend is being distant with me for more than a month now. We were in a long distance distance relationship. We did and managed it very well in the past 1 year and 2 months. But suddenly he became distance. I was really confused. We didn’t talk for 2 weeks and then he said to me that he had a depression problem about work and I tried to understand him by giving him time and hope that he wont push me away as I said I will always support him no matter what happened. And then day by day he become more distant, he likes to ignore my text more. He never want to talk over phone. So I just can talk to him by text. And then he when I ask why he ignoring me, he said things won’t work out. He said he didn’t see our future. So he want a break up. But we manage to call it off somehow. And now, after 2 weeks, I was really hurtful by how he treat me and ignoring me. I do really care about him and want to have a talks and good communication with him. But he don’t want to have talk to me. I assume it’s still because of his problems back then that still holding back and assume that he’s not him right now and I keep saying to myself to become mpre patient. I love him so much. I never had a thought to leave him no matter how hard things happened. And today, he tested and said that he thinks we need to break up. I suggest to discuss it over phone, but still he haven’t respond. What should I do? I don’t wanna give up on him. I love him so much. Is he acting lile this because he still can’t get out the problem he had? He is not a talker person amd prefer to keep the problem on his mind. So he don’t like to let out the feelings out. He said he stil love me.

Should I let him go? If he asked to? I still love him so much

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 5, 2017 at 10:37 pm

Hi Hannah,

I think you should check this:
How To Prevent A Breakup With Your Boyfriend When You Know It’s Coming

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