Should You Unfriend An Ex If You Want Them Back

Ah, it’s the age old question of unfriending an ex after a breakup on Facebook.

Should you do it?

Or

Should you not do it?

Well, that’s what we are going to explore today.

Now, I want to start off by saying that you aren’t alone in asking this question. In fact, I must get this question or a form of this question every single day in my private support group helping women through breakups.

No seriously…

Check it out,

Pretty crazy, right?

And these were queries just from the last two days (like I said this is a question that gets asked every single day.)

But you know the thing that really struck me about these people asking these questions.

It’s the fact that most of them were on the other end of the spectrum when it came to unfriending on Facebook.

Rather than being able to ponder what to do about unfriending their ex after the breakup their ex boyfriend had initiated a preemptive strike and unfriended them first.

So, while I was going to just focus this article on whether you should unfriend your ex on Facebook I decided to also include what to do if HE unfriends you.

In other words, this article is going to have two parts,

Part 1: Should You Unfriend Your Ex Boyfriend On Facebook Or Other Social Media After A Breakup

 

Part 2: What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Unfriends You First

Are you ready to jump in?

Yes?

Let’s go!

Part One: Should You Unfriend Your Ex On Facebook Or Other Social Media?

Well, ultimately this is a question that depends on your overall goals with your ex.

The way I see it is that when it comes to a breakup with an ex you have two choices,

  1. You can choose to try to get them back
  2. You can choose to try to move on and get over them

Now, I am not going to lie to you.

Most of the women who end up on this site are definitely in the “I want him back category” whereas a small segment just want to “move on.”

However, every once in a while you will get someone who straddles the line of wanting him back and wanting to move on.

Have you ever seen those swinging pendulums?

They just swing back and forth between a fixed point.

Well, that’s how I kind of view those women who swing back and forth between wanting their ex back and then cursing him and wanting to get over him.

It’s my experience that these are the types of women who have the most difficult time with the breakup because they can’t ever seem to make up their minds on what they want.

Now, you may be sitting there and wondering why I am bringing this up.

Well, it’s because in order for this article to be very helpful for you, you need to have your mind made up on what you want.

Unfriending an ex makes a very bold statement but if you go back and forth between unfriending him and then refriending him you are going to kill any progress you can potentially make.

Get it?

So, let’s cut right to the heart of the matter.

If You Decide That You Want Your Ex Back Should You Unfriend Them?

What I am about to say may very well be the most important thing I say regarding Facebook and other social media when it comes to reconnecting with an ex.

Facebook and social media is a weapon and you definitely need to be using it to raise your chances of success.

Studies have found that on average 90% of people will check an exes Facebook after a breakup.

In other words, there is a 90% chance that your ex will come snooping eventually and you need to make sure that when he does he sees you having the time of your life.

Now, lets hit the pause button and talk about the importance of this for a moment.

Why is it important that he sees you having the time of your life?

Well, I have long been a believer that men have this very strange belief that if THEY broke up with you then they think that it makes them better than you for some reason.

They can literally convince themselves that this is you after a breakup,

They think that you are crying over them and eating ice cream in a corner.

So, when they hop on Facebook to see that you are actually having the time of your life,

It does something interesting to their perception of you.

Instead of thinking of you as this weak woman who can’t get over a breakup they start to realize that maybe they didn’t mean as much to you as they originally thought.

If there is one universal truth about men it’s the fact that we all want to feel wanted by woman.

Take that away from us and we become like putty in your hands.

Now, lets switch gears for a moment and answer a pretty big question.

If You Decide You Don’t Want Your Ex Back Should You Unfriend Them?

There is no easy way to say this so I am just going to spit it out.

Getting over an ex isn’t as easy as you think.

How do I know?

Well, I understand the body chemistry behind it.

But before I get to that I have a question to ask you,

Do you think that it is easy for a cocaine addict to kick the habit completely?

Usually not.

I mean, I have heard some crazy stories about addicts robbing their own families just so they can find money for a “fix.”

Now you may be sitting there and wondering why I am bringing up such an “off limits” subject since it has nothing to do with a breakup.

Well… not so fast.

Did you know that the part of the brain that becomes active when you are going through a severe heartbreak is the same part of the brain that becomes active when a drug addict is going through withdrawal?

In other words, you are experiencing a lot of the same physical manifestations that you would if you had a drug problem.

Now, I have been doing this a very long time (half a decade to be exact) and I have found that the best way to get over a breakup is to limit your temptations.

We live in a world where we can literally check up on our ex in a matter of seconds through Facebook.

And even though checking up on our exes through Facebook seems like a small thing (and it is) it can balloon into a big thing that can prevent you from getting over him because you are engaging in your addiction.

Now I am going to say something shocking to you.

Are you ready?

I don’t think you should unfriend your ex on Facebook.

I THINK YOU SHOULD BLOCK HIM!

This way you limit his avenues to talk to you and it’s a way that you can stop yourself from constantly getting addicted to seeing what he is up to.

Part 2: What Should You Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Unfriends You First

And now we switch gears and start talking about what the heck to do if your ex boyfriend unfriends you on Facebook.

Before we get into the nitty gritty I do have one little statement to make,

Going forward I am just going to operate under the assumption that you want your ex back.

After all, if you really were trying to get over your ex you wouldn’t care at all if he unfriended you, would you?

Ok, so the biggest mistake I see women making now-a-days when this happens is that they react in a crazy way.

Take one of the questions I posted above at the beginning of the article,

(Side Note: This is a real comment from a woman in our Private Support Group.)

This is a prime example of reacting in a crazy way.

Think about it for a moment.

Your ex boyfriend unfriends you and you are so hurt by it that you directly confront him to ask him way.

Does this seem like desperate behavior to you?

The answer is YES!

Look, in these kinds of circumstances it’s important to not react.

However, it’s also important to immediately set a goal.

And in this case your goal is to get your ex to “refriend you”

So, how do you make him do that?

Well, I am a big believer in the rungs of the ladder approach to getting an ex back.

You see, a surefire way to ruin your chances of getting your ex back is to try to do everything all at once.

Re-connection rarely happens that way.

Instead, a smarter approach is to slowly but surely work your way up the re-connection ladder.

So, maybe it looks a little something like this,

(For a more complete look at our process for getting an ex boyfriend back check out Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO.)

Do you see how it works.

In little bite sized steps you slowly work your way towards getting your ex to to become your friend again on Facebook or other social media platforms.

Now, I know you are probably sitting there thinking,

Ya, I get it but how do I ask him?

Honestly I don’t think you have to.

It’s all a matter of timing.

Consider this for a moment.

Lets say that your ex boyfriend unfriended you yesterday and you were to immediately try to refriend him the very next day.

What are the chances that he would accept your friend request?

Probably very low, right?

Now let’s say that it’s two months later and you and your ex have been flirting a lot recently.

So, you decide to send him a friend request.

What are the chances that he would accept it now?

Much higher, right?

Timing matters when you try to get him to refriend you.

Now, would that be the exact way I would go about recommending one of my clients to send a friend request to an ex?

No…

I’d probably recommend them to qualify the friend request.

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How To Qualify A Friend Request To An Ex

What I am about to teach you here is really ninja so listen up.

No, not like that.

It’s important that you don’t friend request an ex out of the blue. That is very weird and bound to get ignored.

Instead, what you want to do is qualify the friend request so that it makes complete sense to him when you send it.

Imagine that the two of you are texting back and forth and you text him this,

After sending that text you wait for exactly three minutes and then you text him this,

Now, the genius behind this method is that you are the one leading him into doing it.

Of course, this method will only work if you time it properly.

In other words, you can’t try this method if you aren’t in a good place with him. If he still hates your guts then forget it you need to first work on getting him to not hate your guts.

The other catch is that this method only works if you have something super interesting to share.

In the example I decided to choose something funny because that is what would appeal to me but it works even better if it appeals to his interests.

For example, if you know that your ex is really into movies and his favorite movie just announced a sequel then it might be a good idea to send him something around that.

Generally the better your “bait” is it’ll start a new conversation in a new medium and it can be exciting for both of you!

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So unsure
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My break up devastated me. I knew it was coming because I had asked for a couple weeks of space and a few days later he told me he didn’t want to prolong it anymore. I didn’t want to break up although I know it was for the best at the time. I still don’t want to lose him (it’s been almost 4 months since our break up) but I knew for my own sanity I needed to get rid of him on all social media which I did within the first month. We have since contacted each other, had… Read more »
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EBR Team Member: Amor

How long did you do nc, how active were you in improving yourself and in posting in social media?

So unsure
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My break up devastated me. I knew it was coming because I had asked for a couple weeks of space and a few days later he told me he didn’t want to prolong it anymore. I didn’t want to break up although I know it was for the best at the time. I still don’t want to lose him (it’s been almost 4 months since our break up) but I knew for my own sanity I needed to get rid of him on all social media which I did within the first month. We have since contacted each other, had… Read more »
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How long did you do nc, how active were you in improving yourself and in posting in social media?

Carrie Houston
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My ex unfriended me on FB and umfollowed me on ig three days after we broke up. I still follow him on ig and he still has all the pics of us up looking happy and cute. Should I unfollow him or just leave it as is. I do want him back,but I’m afraid to see a post of his as it will likely be painful. I have left my account public and am posting only normal happy pics of me living life, and looking good

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Carrie,

Nope, you don’t need to unfollow him.

Carrie Houston
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My ex unfriended me on FB and umfollowed me on ig three days after we broke up. I still follow him on ig and he still has all the pics of us up looking happy and cute. Should I unfollow him or just leave it as is. I do want him back,but I’m afraid to see a post of his as it will likely be painful. I have left my account public and am posting only normal happy pics of me living life, and looking good

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Carrie,

Nope, you don’t need to unfollow him.

Laura
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I was going through NC and still had my ex on social media. In all honesty having him on my social media was hurting me in my recovery process so I unfriended him on everything, facebook, snapchat, twitter instagram, and the next morning he unfollowed me on instagram. my problem is I still want him back but I was genuinely hurting seeing his face on my phone. Should I re-add him or just leave it as is?

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

HI Laura,

nope, just make your posts public.

Laura
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I was going through NC and still had my ex on social media. In all honesty having him on my social media was hurting me in my recovery process so I unfriended him on everything, facebook, snapchat, twitter instagram, and the next morning he unfollowed me on instagram. my problem is I still want him back but I was genuinely hurting seeing his face on my phone. Should I re-add him or just leave it as is?

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

HI Laura,

nope, just make your posts public.

Kat
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Me and my ex broke up a little over two weeks ago. We dated for three years and it was a long distance relationship. I love him more than anything and the reason we broke up is because he couldn’t handle the distance anymore but he said that in the future if we are in the same place then we will work it out. I have been miserable. I have been trying to get my life back but I feel trapped because of those words that gave me some hope. Two days after we broke up I humiliated myself and… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

HI Kat,

Try to go through the process first but do posts that doesn’t disappear like fb or Instagram and make them public.

Kat
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Me and my ex broke up a little over two weeks ago. We dated for three years and it was a long distance relationship. I love him more than anything and the reason we broke up is because he couldn’t handle the distance anymore but he said that in the future if we are in the same place then we will work it out. I have been miserable. I have been trying to get my life back but I feel trapped because of those words that gave me some hope. Two days after we broke up I humiliated myself and… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

HI Kat,

Try to go through the process first but do posts that doesn’t disappear like fb or Instagram and make them public.

kara
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if i want to move on and block him on instagram, is it sound desperate for me? or maybe he will think that i’m sad because of him so i block him?

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Kara,

If you want to move on, whatever he thinks doesn’t matter anymore.. Just do what you want to do.

kara
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if i want to move on and block him on instagram, is it sound desperate for me? or maybe he will think that i’m sad because of him so i block him?

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Kara,

If you want to move on, whatever he thinks doesn’t matter anymore.. Just do what you want to do.

Leica
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Ok, so I screwed up really bad…After an argument with an ex (for which I apologized) and a long pleasant conversation on the phone, I woke up the next morning to notice that I had been unfriended on FB and blocked on his phone (I called him to ask if everything was okay, because I was blindsided by the sudden unfriending) and found out that he had blocked me on his phone. Anyway, being the adult that I am since we are both in our 30s, I called him from my other number, to fix things and see if we… Read more »
Leica
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Ok, so I screwed up really bad…After an argument with an ex (for which I apologized) and a long pleasant conversation on the phone, I woke up the next morning to notice that I had been unfriended on FB and blocked on his phone (I called him to ask if everything was okay, because I was blindsided by the sudden unfriending) and found out that he had blocked me on his phone. Anyway, being the adult that I am since we are both in our 30s, I called him from my other number, to fix things and see if we… Read more »
Diane
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What if you met someone online and had a connection and liked each other . Somewhere along the way it got complicated, work scheduling and stress made communication go wacky and it lead to the other person saying bye. We were suppose to meet but with all this due stress in life he called it off. We spoke and video chatted on fb messenger for the time we talked. Is this way more difficult to try to reconnect with this person versus someone who had an official relationship that was long distance?

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Diane,

Yes, it will be harder..how active are you in improving yourself and in posting? Check this too:
“Can I Text My Ex On His Birthday?” Let’s End This Discussion Right Now

Diane
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What if you met someone online and had a connection and liked each other . Somewhere along the way it got complicated, work scheduling and stress made communication go wacky and it lead to the other person saying bye. We were suppose to meet but with all this due stress in life he called it off. We spoke and video chatted on fb messenger for the time we talked. Is this way more difficult to try to reconnect with this person versus someone who had an official relationship that was long distance?

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Diane,

Yes, it will be harder..how active are you in improving yourself and in posting? Check this too:
“Can I Text My Ex On His Birthday?” Let’s End This Discussion Right Now

Raven
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My situation is a little more confusing. My ex and I were together 2 1/2 years and he would always tell me I was the best girlfriend he ever had and was his first for many things in his life. He would always say I was his everything and he loved me more than anything. We talked about moving in together once we graduate college in May and talked about a Disney trip in the summer and a cruise with his family in October. But 3 weeks ago out of the blue, he started to pull away and would sleep… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Raven,

That’s good that you’re active in improving yourself but you have to post in sites where posts lasts.. So, that when he gets curious, he has something to see.. He probably removed you in snapchat to stop himself from watching it..

Raven
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My situation is a little more confusing. My ex and I were together 2 1/2 years and he would always tell me I was the best girlfriend he ever had and was his first for many things in his life. He would always say I was his everything and he loved me more than anything. We talked about moving in together once we graduate college in May and talked about a Disney trip in the summer and a cruise with his family in October. But 3 weeks ago out of the blue, he started to pull away and would sleep… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Raven,

That’s good that you’re active in improving yourself but you have to post in sites where posts lasts.. So, that when he gets curious, he has something to see.. He probably removed you in snapchat to stop himself from watching it..

Nina
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Ok so i met this guy through instagram…he came on very strong very fast and i freaked out…he wanted me to cut all others off and just see him…while i really liked and was attracted to him i was scared to say yes. He pressed me for a week or so to decide and i didn’t i kept calming up at the thought of committing i had been single so long i suddenly realized that i was used to being just me. IN any event he quickly shifted gears and acted resentful and even passive aggressive…we kept talking but he… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Nina,

Don’t block him..start nc and do at least 30 days

Nina
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Ok so i met this guy through instagram…he came on very strong very fast and i freaked out…he wanted me to cut all others off and just see him…while i really liked and was attracted to him i was scared to say yes. He pressed me for a week or so to decide and i didn’t i kept calming up at the thought of committing i had been single so long i suddenly realized that i was used to being just me. IN any event he quickly shifted gears and acted resentful and even passive aggressive…we kept talking but he… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Nina,

Don’t block him..start nc and do at least 30 days

Melody Harmony
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Knew him for 5 years. Gave him a chance after 3 years. He said the love word first. He stopped making me a priority (last time he did this….I told him I didn’t like it). After 31 days. He came back…and I let him back. After 8 months he didn’t make me a priority again. We are in an LDR. He came in or layover. Didn’t give me a heads up about when he had to go back to the airport. But he wanted to see me. Mind you I have lost 30 lbs and am a hella sexier. He… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Melody,

don’t delete him.. if he uses snapchat more, then that helps him not view your posts..

Melody Harmony
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Knew him for 5 years. Gave him a chance after 3 years. He said the love word first. He stopped making me a priority (last time he did this….I told him I didn’t like it). After 31 days. He came back…and I let him back. After 8 months he didn’t make me a priority again. We are in an LDR. He came in or layover. Didn’t give me a heads up about when he had to go back to the airport. But he wanted to see me. Mind you I have lost 30 lbs and am a hella sexier. He… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Melody,

don’t delete him.. if he uses snapchat more, then that helps him not view your posts..

Lisa
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My ex blocked my number but still kept me on Snapchat. He opened my message on Snapchat but never answered. I have now cut contact with him and stopped reaching out. Should I block him on Snapchat or leave him on there as a friend so he can see my posts and how well I am doing without him?

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Lisa,

Dont block him and make your posts in thr sites that you’re blocked, public.

Lisa
Guest

My ex blocked my number but still kept me on Snapchat. He opened my message on Snapchat but never answered. I have now cut contact with him and stopped reaching out. Should I block him on Snapchat or leave him on there as a friend so he can see my posts and how well I am doing without him?

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Lisa,

Dont block him and make your posts in thr sites that you’re blocked, public.

D
Guest
I blocked my ex on social media, because I was so upset he cheated on me, and wanted to continue to pursue the girl he cheated on me with (they are both rebounding from long relationships)! We have dated for 9 years. I want him back. I am in NC period right now. I gave him my ring back and told him to not contact me. (I wanted to scare him, since I have never said that before) He told me to reach out to me if I needed anything because he still loves and cares for me. Was blocking… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

She’s a grass is greener.. You should unblock him..

D
Guest
Thank you. Like i said I didn’t block him on one, but I noticed he did unfriend me on that one and all of my close friends. Does that mean he is trying to hide his new relationship because he is happier? Or just figures I deserve better and doesn’t want me to see what he is doing so I can move on. Also, how long does Grass is greener last? Will he regret this? It seems like he totally just wanted to block out or entire 9 year relationship and was not sincere about apologizing that he did all… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

It’s more because he doesn’t want you to chase.. It depends if you change or not and if the other girl changes too

D
Guest
I am going to focus on myself and bring me back to a happier place and move on without fully moving on. The love me and him shared was undeniable, everyone wanted us to get married/so did we, we had a very unique relationship and have been through a lot together and always came out strong. Things got tough in the relationship, and I was going through one of the hardest times in my life and depression took over me the past few months. It seemed like he became insecure with how I was acting and thats why he wanted… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Follow hin later when you’ve already built rapport.. Check this:
How To Properly Start A Conversation With Your Ex After No Contact

D
Guest
ok thanks. what are your thoughts about this girl? ik it is a grass is greener. but i was going through the hardest time in my life, and instead of him being there for me he started hanging out with the wrong crowd and started seeing her (family friend) now since we have broken up he is bringing her around family/friends immediately, since they know her and has introduced her to others. she is requesting all his family and friends on social. she just turned 19, he is 24. and she also cheated on her boyfriend of 4 years with… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Stop focusing in the other girl..focus in yourself and what impact or effect you leave when he sees or talks to you

D
Guest

What should i do if i see him at a mutual friend event? what if he brings her?

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Just be civil and polite

D
Guest
Ok so a mutual friend ran into him and said that he said he still thinks about me a lot and lets his new girl know about it and she “gets it” because we were together for so long. but things are going well with the GIG/rebound girl. Everyone has been telling him she is just using him but he doesn’t think so as she is driving him around/paying for stuff. All he talks about is materialistic things about her and not her as a person so definitely still in the honeymoon phase. He also said she shows him her… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

You can initiate after 30 days, but if you feel that you’re not ready, it’s ok to extend to 45.

D
Guest
I blocked my ex on social media, because I was so upset he cheated on me, and wanted to continue to pursue the girl he cheated on me with (they are both rebounding from long relationships)! We have dated for 9 years. I want him back. I am in NC period right now. I gave him my ring back and told him to not contact me. (I wanted to scare him, since I have never said that before) He told me to reach out to me if I needed anything because he still loves and cares for me. Was blocking… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

She’s a grass is greener.. You should unblock him..

D
Guest
Thank you. Like i said I didn’t block him on one, but I noticed he did unfriend me on that one and all of my close friends. Does that mean he is trying to hide his new relationship because he is happier? Or just figures I deserve better and doesn’t want me to see what he is doing so I can move on. Also, how long does Grass is greener last? Will he regret this? It seems like he totally just wanted to block out or entire 9 year relationship and was not sincere about apologizing that he did all… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

It’s more because he doesn’t want you to chase.. It depends if you change or not and if the other girl changes too

D
Guest
I am going to focus on myself and bring me back to a happier place and move on without fully moving on. The love me and him shared was undeniable, everyone wanted us to get married/so did we, we had a very unique relationship and have been through a lot together and always came out strong. Things got tough in the relationship, and I was going through one of the hardest times in my life and depression took over me the past few months. It seemed like he became insecure with how I was acting and thats why he wanted… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Follow hin later when you’ve already built rapport.. Check this:
How To Properly Start A Conversation With Your Ex After No Contact

D
Guest
ok thanks. what are your thoughts about this girl? ik it is a grass is greener. but i was going through the hardest time in my life, and instead of him being there for me he started hanging out with the wrong crowd and started seeing her (family friend) now since we have broken up he is bringing her around family/friends immediately, since they know her and has introduced her to others. she is requesting all his family and friends on social. she just turned 19, he is 24. and she also cheated on her boyfriend of 4 years with… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Stop focusing in the other girl..focus in yourself and what impact or effect you leave when he sees or talks to you

D
Guest

What should i do if i see him at a mutual friend event? what if he brings her?

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Just be civil and polite

D
Guest
Ok so a mutual friend ran into him and said that he said he still thinks about me a lot and lets his new girl know about it and she “gets it” because we were together for so long. but things are going well with the GIG/rebound girl. Everyone has been telling him she is just using him but he doesn’t think so as she is driving him around/paying for stuff. All he talks about is materialistic things about her and not her as a person so definitely still in the honeymoon phase. He also said she shows him her… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

You can initiate after 30 days, but if you feel that you’re not ready, it’s ok to extend to 45.

Jennifer
Guest

What if i already unfriend him? We had a huge aguement i was so upset that it was over.

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

make your posts public and then add hiim back later on when you’ve rebuilt enough rapport

Jennifer
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What if i already unfriend him? We had a huge aguement i was so upset that it was over.

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

make your posts public and then add hiim back later on when you’ve rebuilt enough rapport

Daisy
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Hi Chris / Amor, I’ve been on here quite a few times over the years… have found it really helpful! I’m just stuck in a bit of a rut right now and really unsure what to do next. I was seeing a guy for 6 months (but we were unofficial) over a year ago. It was the best time I’ve ever had in my life and everything felt so magical when I was with him – even random things in my life seemed so much brighter, even when he wasn’t there. He just made me & everything in my life… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

for me you should move on.. when he said he thinks you like him too much that means you’re chasing and he doesn’t see you as an ungettable girl.. he has to think you are first.. improve yourself first and if you want chance, dont rush things..

Daisy
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Hi Chris / Amor, I’ve been on here quite a few times over the years… have found it really helpful! I’m just stuck in a bit of a rut right now and really unsure what to do next. I was seeing a guy for 6 months (but we were unofficial) over a year ago. It was the best time I’ve ever had in my life and everything felt so magical when I was with him – even random things in my life seemed so much brighter, even when he wasn’t there. He just made me & everything in my life… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

for me you should move on.. when he said he thinks you like him too much that means you’re chasing and he doesn’t see you as an ungettable girl.. he has to think you are first.. improve yourself first and if you want chance, dont rush things..

bubblegum
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I want to share my experience. I some time visiting this site and I love it has helped me so much in growing as a person so I wanted to thank everyone who works on this site cause thanks to all of you my life has changed for good … So now the experience I want to share is kinda ironic my ex full blocked me in everyway he deleted all social medias, changed his phone number and also told me to never contact so we’ll I decide to go for a forever NC rule lol I mean no option… Read more »
bubblegum
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Sorry for the grammar lol is my phone

bubblegum
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I want to share my experience. I some time visiting this site and I love it has helped me so much in growing as a person so I wanted to thank everyone who works on this site cause thanks to all of you my life has changed for good … So now the experience I want to share is kinda ironic my ex full blocked me in everyway he deleted all social medias, changed his phone number and also told me to never contact so we’ll I decide to go for a forever NC rule lol I mean no option… Read more »
bubblegum
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Sorry for the grammar lol is my phone

Marlene
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My ex is dating my best friend. He said he’s still attracted to me and that he is dating someone who is boring to him and that he will dump her… I told her because we tell each other everything and I didn’t know that she is that girl. She told me later that she is seing him but they are not official and he hides her from everyone- she is very jelous and hurt by the fact he was madly in love with me and he is very cold to her. She thinks it’s some kind of revenge to… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor
Marlene
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My ex is dating my best friend. He said he’s still attracted to me and that he is dating someone who is boring to him and that he will dump her… I told her because we tell each other everything and I didn’t know that she is that girl. She told me later that she is seing him but they are not official and he hides her from everyone- she is very jelous and hurt by the fact he was madly in love with me and he is very cold to her. She thinks it’s some kind of revenge to… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor