Ahh.. Jealousy! Making Your Ex Boyfriend Jealous

Make no mistake about it, jealousy is a very powerful emotion and using it to awaken your ex boyfriend to what you really have to offer can be a winning ex back strategy!

If it is used correctly, it can be the driving force behind getting your ex boyfriend back. There is just one problem, most people have no idea how to deploy jealousy correctly.

Some girls go overboard.

They want to know how to make their ex boyfriend jealous over text or on whats app.  Or they want to learn how to stimulate those jealousy rages so that he never forgets just how special she is.

There is nothing wrong with those tactics. But sometimes, if you try to turn up the jealous envy in your ex boyfriend’s heart too fast and too soon, it can turn back against you.

Then we have the other side of this equation.

The broken hearted girlfriend may know little about how to drop  jealousy breadcrumbs.  She may leave her ex little or nothing to chase.  Remember a lot of what we are talking about operates on a subconscious level.

Think of it as learning how to properly plant little jealousy thoughts in your ex boyfriend’s mind such that it affects how he values you.  Right now, your value most likely isn’t high enough.  That has to change.

Do You Have An Ex Back Strategy Which Capitalizes on Your Boyfriend’s Jealousy?

So if you are not asking yourself questions like how to make your ex boyfriend jealous on Facebook or how you go about making him tantalizingly jealous on Snapchat, then you need to reconsider your ex recovery plan.

But there must be a balance.  And there can’t be a shortage of ideas and ways to make your ex bf obsess about you in his mind.

A few well placed jealousy traps, used in small, but steady doses can do you wonders when you are showing your ex that you have so much more value than he has given you credit for.

So let’s jump start this conversation and take you through 15 ways you can get your ex bf thinking about you with envy in his heart.  Think of it as leaving your ex a bread crumb trail.

You want him to pick up each one and let it activate those jealousy and possessive nerve centers of his mind such that he must have you back.

15 Novel Ways To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Jealous Out of His Mind!

So let’s say your are in a hurry to make your man jealous.  I mean you really want to get in his head.  Well first of all, let me warn you that it is unwise to use jealous in any way that is hurried or not well thought out.  But, if you are following all of the steps I teach in Ex Boyfriend Recovery Pro, there will come a time where you can use jealousy to your advantage.  Here are 14 ways!

1. Using Pictures and Images of Yourself To Make Him Yearn For You

A picture can speak a thousand words. Imagine if your ex boyfriend sees a photo image of you, looking riveting and quite beautiful, and lingering in the frame of the picture is this very subtle suggestion that you are in the company of another man.

Such pictures can even be produced quite easily these days. It just takes some creativity.  Imagine posing for a pic and in the background is a guy just soaking you up, enjoying your form and figure.  Presumably, you don’t know this person, he just got caught up in the frame, but the message is clear.  Another guy finds you very attractive as you pose and your ex, when he see this photo may be a little unnerved.

2. Produce a Video That Tells Your Story of Being the Ungettable Girl

These days, it is so easy to produce a video.  If a picture speaks a thousand words, imagine how many Chapters a video can fill up.

What you want to do is create videos which you can post on Youtube or Facebook or Snapchat that shows you in your everyday life looking happy, beautiful, and fulfilled.

Such images can create feelings of envy in your ex boyfriend.  But imagine the kind of jealousy strings you can pull in his heart if your video is depicting you as the center of some fun, with some other girls and guys involved.  To become the Ungettable Girl for your ex boyfriend, you want to look and dress the part in order to amplify your attractiveness.   Imagine his thoughts as he is reminded that you are not currently available to him and that he can’t be part of this life of yours given the breakup status.

3. Going on Dates That Your Ex Boyfriend Eventually Learns About

So how do you get those jealousy juices flowing in your ex boyfriend.  Well, he needs to see that he has some direct competition if he wants to win your back.  And trust me, in most of these break up situations, guys get second thoughts about their decision to end things.

Your value can shoot straight on up when he sees you in the company of another guy.  But you have to be smart in how you play this.  The more you are seen hanging all over someone else or looking far too interested in this new found romance, that pushes your value down.  You don’t want your ex boyfriend thinking of you as someone who is slutty or loose.  But to the contrary, if you show class and elegance, giving full respect to your prior relationship, this increases your personal power and increases his jealousy in all the right ways.

4. Using Rumors To Your Advantage

Rumors, after a breakup, can cut both ways.  In this case, you want rumors to work to your advantage. You want your ex boyfriend to feel pangs of jealousy and feeling like he made a mistake to let you go.  So leverage that by creating a favorable rumor about you that finds its way back to your ex bf.  These rumors that can go floating over to your ex can be about something you presumably said or sightings of you with a potential lover.  How much you churn the rumor mill is highly variable depending on your situation.

5. Tap Into Your Ex Boyfriend’s Circle of Friends

So let’s say one of your ex boyfriend’s friends happens to be somebody you know.   If you trust this person, you can enlist them as a confederate to help you with dropping little breadcrumbs of information that get back to your ex.  A whisper in the ear or an off hand remark can go a long ways.  Its not one big bold thing that will turn this around, it’s lots of little things that add up to create this sense that your are a real “catch”.

6.  Dress and Make-up

If you are trying to create this image of yourself as an “Ungettable Girl”, then you will want to look your best for those moments when you want your ex bf to see you.  Men are visual creatures and showing them something that makes you look stunning or sultry can arouse his passion.  This strategy dovetails with the principle of psychological reactance which essentially says that your ex boyfriend values more that which he use to have, but no longer can control or possess.   And if your value increases in his eyes, yet he cannot get access to you, it just amps up jealousy and desire.

7. Intercepted Note or Letter

Sometimes it pays to be cunning.  And while I don’t like little forms of deceit, sometimes you do things to drive your messaging.  So imagine if your ex boyfriend intercepts or comes into possession a letter or note you had previously written (before the breakup) about his special qualities and other nice things.  To the extent you can drum up some guilt which can play to your advantage.

8. A Declaration That You Have Begun Seeing Somebody New

Sometimes the best path to take is a more aggressive posture, ramping up your ex boyfriend’s jealousy by making him aware that you are officially dating someone new.  This is usually a tactic you employ after others have been tried, but produced no or minimal results.  The upside is that this immediately raises your value and profile.  The downside is if not handled deftly, it can have a negative effect and ramp up resentment and animosity.

9. Asking Your Ex Boyfriend For Advice About Men

Small pangs of jealous can rise up under the most innocent of situations.  Imagine you are having a cordial conversation with your ex boyfriend and then you ask him for advice on a particular guy you might “casually” be interested in.  Notice how I mentioned the word “casual”.  That is how you want to approach it.  You don’t want to be too forward, rather you want him to know, “innocently – like”, that another guy has made an overture and your are unsure how to take it.

10. The Casual Ex Bf Walk Up Episode

With this tactic you are going to figure out in advance where your ex is going to be and then make sure you are there as well.  For example, you hear he is going to the movies, a party, or some event.  Use this opportunity to bump into him, acting surprised to see him.  Look radiant and happy.  Acknowledge him and be super nice, then end the conversation on the high note when things are getting really interesting.

The message you are sending is “look at me, I am beautiful and well adjusted and am nice to you and not stuck on you”.  Your ex bf likes the chase, just as any other guy. So show him what he is missing out on.

11. Showing Up At Some Event With a Guy On Your Arm

So this tactic is a combination of a couple of others.  It is a more aggressive way of creating some ex bf jealousy.  Again, you are going to go or be at some place where you know in advance he will be there too.  Take a casual date with you. Don’t overplay the the situation.  You don’t want your date holding your hand or hugging or kissing you or anything like that.

Nor do you want to rub it in your ex boyfriend’s face by walking up to him and openly flirting with your date in his presence.  It is much better to be a bit reserved and enjoy yourself and let your ex absorb just how lovely you look, envious of who is in your company.

12. Arranging For Some Other Guy or Girl to Compliment Your Looks

In this case you are trying to drum up interest by collaborating with a friend who is going to be part of your little conspiracy of compliments.  What I mean is that your confederate will be taking your ex boyfriend to the side or making a side comment, telling him how “hot” or “stunning” you look.  When others see value in you, it enhances your ex boyfriend’s measure of your value and attractiveness.

13.  The Accidental Phone Call or Text

So what is happening here is you are dropping another little breadcrumb ….another little piece of you that your ex can enjoy only for a moment.  It could be a phone call, but when he answers, you apologize for mis-dialing.  Wish him well, then compliment him for being “so sweet” to even take the call.  Then end the conversation.

An inadvertent text could be a message to him, supposedly intended for another person, in which you reveal something interesting about what you are about to do.  Send the message, then wait 5 minutes with a follow-up text explaining you mistakenly sent the text to him by accident.  Except you didn’t.  It’s the content of the text that is intended to build some attraction or curiosity.

14. Use Your Snapchat Stories To Portray Yourself In Refreshing and Enticing Ways

The use of Snapchat’s story feature to snag back your ex boyfriend is a slam dunk idea if you are both using the platform.  Build stories using videos, pics, and text to enhance your image and reinforce how well you are doing.  Leave little cliff hangers at the end of each new snap.

Your ex boyfriend will only have 24 hours to get the payoff of seeing what your latest snap was about  before that part of your Snapchat story disappears or falls off. Through this approach, you end up building a sense of urgency.  And by using a cliff hanger end of the latest snap, you end up drawing him back to see the next featured snap.

15. Use Instagram Stories To Build Your Ex Boyfriend’s Interest in How Your Day is Unfolding

So if you or your ex don’t have a Snapchat account, then consider using use your Instagram account to tell your story. Instagram also allows you to tell your Stories as a means of drawing in your ex boyfriend.  Again, the idea is to leave these little Snaps or Instagram photo or video threads to update what is going on in your life.

There are endless ways you can take advantage of this social media platform to arouse your ex boyfriends curiosity and fascination with your every day life.  Remember, men are very visual, so give him something that will get him dwelling on the beautiful you.

Are You Ready To Get Into the Nuts And Bolts Of  How To Stir Your Ex Boyfriend’s Jealous Thoughts!

I was reading a relationship article about jealousy the other day from a pretty well known relationship coach.

His article basically went on to say that you should never use jealousy to try to get your ex back. The truth is, he is talking about using jealousy in the wrong way.  If you use jealousy in a smart and tactical way, it is almost guaranteed to trigger the previous romantic feelings your ex may still retain for you.

So I wanted to create a resource where women and men could come and get top quality advice on getting their exes back. This Ex Back Jealousy Guide that you are about to read below is meant to empower you with some actionable strategies.

The truth of the matter is that the amount of free information that actually works is a rare, but I think I have done a pretty good job of leading the way in that regard.

So take advantage of some of these principles to better your chances at ex recovery.

What This Updated Jealousy Ex Bf Guide Is All About

I want you to view this page as the “ultimate Guide” in making your ex boyfriend jealous.  Consider it a deeper dive into this topic than the 15 tactics I discussed above.

Now, I can’t guarantee that these 5 Core Ex Boyfriend Jealousy Strategies on this page will make him jealous because let’s be honest, your boyfriend is a very unique human being (as we all are) and most human beings are impossible to control.

But with that being said, I have seen many of the Strategies outlined on this page work for many of the women I have advised. Here are the 5 Key Jealousy Principles that we will be covering today:

  • Using The No Contact Rule To Enhance Jealousy
  • Building Rapport With Your Ex Bf in a Strategic Way
  • Showing You Can Manage The Balance Of Personal Power
  • Using Specific Text Messages To Create Jealousy.
  • Mastering The Date Meet Up


The Power Of Jealousy During the After Breakup Period


Most men aren’t as complicated as you would believe.

A married friend of mine once told me a little about the psychology behind a mans thinking and I happen to agree with him. It goes like this, most men forget how good they have it when they have been dating or married for an extended period of time.

This usually means that the man will ignore his woman and her needs. Here is the kicker though, if a couple like the one I am describing (a man who is comfortable and not tending to his woman’s needs) goes out to a bar and the woman starts flirting with other guys the dynamic will completely change.

The “comfortable” man will no longer be so comfortable. All kinds of thoughts will be going through his head: anger, worry, jealousy, insecurity. The man will feel the need to protect his “property” and while he may be initially angry, if you play your cards right his behavior will completely change and you will start getting the attention your deserve.

The end lesson here:

Women have ultimate power over men!

Now, the “mock” situation I talked about above doesn’t apply to your situation perfectly (since your boyfriend is now your ex) but I guarantee that if you play your cards right, leveraging  those possessive and “protective” feelings still resident in your ex boyfriend’s mind is a winning strategy.

A Word…

Before you even attempt to make your ex jealous, let’s talk a little about what you want your ultimate goal to be.

If you want to make your ex boyfriend jealous for the sake of making him jealous, then I don’t think this is the page for you.

I wrote this page with the intention of helping women use jealousy to win back their exes. So, if you want to make him jealous in the right way to bring out his possessive,  protective and romantic side, then dig right into this Guide!

That is really what you are trying to accomplish here, right?  You don’t want to make him jealous to rub it in his face. You want to make him jealous to remind him of what he is missing out on.

The 5 Steps of Your Ex Boyfriend Jealousy Game Plan

What I am going to do now is talk about each of these 5 Core Strategies in detail. But first, take a look at the graphic below to understand your ex back jealousy game plan!

jealousy plan

Step 1: Using The No Contact Rule To Help You Create Jealousy in Your Ex Boyfriend’s Mind

The no contact rule is a must if you want to make your ex jealous. In fact, it is essential if you want to get your ex boyfriend back. I don’t want to go into too much detail here about it because I have done multiple in-depth posts about it already like this one. However, I will give you a short synopsis of how the no contact rule is supposed to work.

The No Contact Rule- You are not allowed to contact your ex in any way after the breakup for a minimum of 30 days.

Tactic 1: Allowing Your Ex Boyfriend’s Jealousy to Slowly Flourish During the No Contact Period

Alright, now that you have an idea of what the no contact rule is I am going to talk a little bit about the things you can do during the no contact period that can make your ex jealous. Ideally, after a breakup, you need to give your ex some space (which is kind of what the no contact rule is for.) However, I don’t want to give you the impression that you are going to sit around during these 30 days of no contact and count your fingers and twiddle your thumbs. You are not going to make your ex very jealous that way.

Instead, I am going to ask you to do a few things.

Tactic 2: Proactively Triggering Jealousy in Your Ex Boyfriend’s Mind By Working On Being Beautiful

I get a lot of emails every single day (random fact- I have 49 unanswered emails in my inbox just from today) and one of the most common mistakes I see from women is the fact that they don’t do anything at all during the no contact period. Here is how it usually goes.  They tell me that they can’t wait to start the no contact period.  Then two days later they email me back saying something like:

“Well, I broke NC and texted him.”


Here is the problem I have with this. When I ask women “what did you do during those two days?” they usually tell me that they didn’t do anything out of the ordinary.  Though, maybe they cried more. Or worried about their Ex more.  Or reflect on whether all this was going to work.


Look, if you want to make your ex boyfriend jealous, I seriously want you to spend those 30 days NOT thinking about him. I know that is hard to do.  But that is one goal you want to set for yourself.

I want you to go down the checklist I am about to provide and address all of the things on it.

Disclaimer: Some of the things on this list WILL make you uncomfortable, but I am not in the business of being nice for the sake of being nice. I am trying to give you advice that will help make your ex jealous and hopefully put you in a position to where you can get him back!

  • Get in the best shape of your life.
  • If you have acne, I want you to get medicine to treat it
  • If you are uncomfortable with your teeth (they are bad), I want you to go and get them attended to.
  • I want you to go out with your friends and have a lot of fun. Take pictures, lots of pictures they will come in handy later.
  • Buy the sexiest outfit ever (not too revealing though. OK…maybe a little revealing!)
  • Get a sexy haircut. I want you to look at yourself in the mirror after this haircut and go “OMG, I look like a goddess.”
  • I want you to date yourself.  That is right.  It’s time to remind yourself that you are your own best friend.  So treat yourself to some special things.  It’s been tough on you lately, so pick yourself up.

Tactic 3: Using Facebook, Instagram, and/or  Snapchat To Arouse  Your Ex Boyfriend’s Jealousy

facebook your doing it wrong

Disclaimer: This method will only work if you are still friends with your ex on Facebook. If you are no longer friends with him then don’t try to friend him… yet.

It’s amazing how big Facebook has gotten. I can remember back when I was in high school no one was talking about Facebook. All the rage was with MySpace. Funny how quickly that changed though. Anyways, I am going to give you the Facebook breakup jealousy rules now. I have found that the rules I am about to describe are the most effective at making your ex a little jealous.

  • After the breakup get rid of 95% of the pictures with you and your ex boyfriend. Pick out maybe one or two that your really like and keep them (you don’t want your ex to think he doesn’t have a chance at all to get back with you.)
  • Remember when I told you to take lots of pictures of you having fun with friends? Post those pictures.
  • If you have taken any pictures with guys while you were out having fun post those too. DO NOT post a picture of you kissing a guy. Trust me, this will hurt your chances of getting your ex back big time.
  • If your ex “likes” one of your photos or status updates do not do anything, just let it be.
  • Do not “like” any of your ex boyfriends updates or pictures. Just leave him be for now.

Tactic 4: A Little Dating Action During No Contact Can Drive Your Ex Boyfriend into a Jealous Fit

dating bear

If you are an avid reader of this site then you may be aware that I am very much in favor of going out on a date with someone new during the no contact period. Actually, if you reference the “Ex Boyfriend Jealousy Plan” above you will notice that I put “Dating” as the last little bubble. When I said dating in the bubble above I meant dating other people. I am actually talking about it in this section because I believe that going out on a date (even if you have no intention of actually dating the person) is best to do during the no contact period.

Now, I will say that this is a completely optional step but it can be very effective. Especially if your ex boyfriend catches wind of it. I want you to take a moment and imagine how you have felt when, in your previous relationships you caught wind that your ex went out on a date with a new girl. Now, imagine your ex feeling that very emotion. Sure, he could be angry, even sad, but I promise you at the end of the day he is going to question why he ever let you go.

Step 2: Building Rapport With Your Boyfriend Supports Your Jealousy Strategy


Now, if you followed my no contact advice above perfectly then I would imagine your ex has already gotten jealous but in the case that he hasn’t, don’t worry, we haven’t even gotten to the best stuff but we are about to! Eventually your no contact period of 30 days is going to end. The question is, what are you supposed to do then? Well, now it is time to open communication with your ex via text messaging. Why text messaging, well I wrote a whole article on it here.

Now, I am aware that you are looking for an exact step by step method for what you need to say to your ex but I am not going to get into that here because this page is supposed to only be about the ways you can make your ex jealous (I actually put together a guide about how you can use texting to get your ex back already.) What I will do is give you a few ground rules that you need to follow when contacting your ex.

  • You should aim to be in control of the conversation at all times.
  • If he doesn’t respond then DO NOT text him again. Wait a few days and try again.
  • Patience really is a virtue. You need to be very patient and realize that this is not going to happen overnight.
  • If you get angry or upset simply bow out of the conversation.
  • Don’t try to fix your broken relationship over a text message, it won’t work.
  • Don’t ask to meet up with your ex boyfriend.
  • Do not use texting as a booty call (you’d be surprised.)

(If you want more tips on how to text your ex I recommend picking up “The Texting Bible.”

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Step 3: Show You Are In Control Of The Conversation To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Desire You More

control freak

This is so important that I gave it it’s very own section.

(I even talk about it in The Texting Bible.)

Showing that you have control of the conversation is very important for a number of reasons. Combined with other tactics, by managing and wrestling control of the communications, you underscore that you are someone of value and when you do that, your efforts to create some feelings of jealousy are made all the more effective.

In college, I began to notice a pattern between the girls I liked and the girls I didn’t like anymore. You see, I will admit that I am a little complicated. I can see a pretty girl and like her immediately. However, if she doesn’t challenge me, intellectually or emotionally, I will lose interest. One thing that I noticed between the girls that held my interest and the ones that didn’t was that girls who allowed me to be in control of the conversation didn’t interest me as much.

For me, and most other guys, it is a case of “Oh, I can have her anytime I want because I can tell she is trying too hard to get me.” Of course, the flip scenario goes like this. A girl who dominated the conversation literally can have men wrapped around her finger. I am not afraid to admit that I have been reduced to feeling pathetic by some girls because they felt they “could have me” anytime they wanted. I have named the phenomenon I described her as being “ungettable”

The “Ungettable” Persona- A type of persona that a girl can display. She basically has so much confidence that she reduces a guy into thinking that he can’t get her which really turns 85% of guys on. Achieving this persona is essential if you want to get your ex boyfriend back.

Achieving the ungettable persona is not easy. However, one thing that all “ungettable” girls have in common is that they dominate any conversation they are in with the opposite sex. So, I suppose the question now becomes, how do you dominate a texting conversation?

Well, luckily for you I have been on the receiving end of quite a few ungettable girls so I can tell you some of the tactics that they were able to use on me that proved to be pretty effective.

Step 4: Mastering Your Texting Skills Can Make Your Boyfriend Jealous, Envious, and Even Possessive

Learning how to maximize your texting skills such that your ex boyfriend is hanging on the edge of his seat waiting to hear from you and worrying about whether this “New You” has been snatched away from you is a way to increase your value in his eyes.  Let’s look at some jealousy building texting tactics.  And remember, you don’t want to go overboard here.  Less is often more when we are creating little jealousy traps.

What you are trying to achieve is creating some tension, dropping some little seeds of doubt to remind him that you are somebody of value, worthy of many other guys’ attention.   This is what creates what I call, your “Ungettable Girl Status”, which is something your ex boyfriend will both envy and be attracted to.

Tactic 1: Ungettable Texting Dominance Underscoring Your Value

The example below is an exact conversation I had with an unnamed “ungettable” girl. Notice how in this particular conversation she ended everything with a simple “hahahaha” and never responded to my texts after that. Now, this tactic was risky and only really worked on me because I clearly had feelings for the girl. Nevertheless, I was the one putting more effort into the conversation which meant she was in control.

jealousy text

Tactic 2: Ungettable Texting Dominance (What Not To Do When Creating an Ex Boyfriend Jealousy Trap)

I wanted to include this example, even though it is personally very embarrassing to me. Remember, I am just going through my phone in the last six months and pulling out conversations with girls who I really really really liked. A couple of things to note: this girl was probably the most attractive girl I have ever met. She came up and asked to dance with me at a local bar. Anyways, she dominated the conversation so much that I literally felt like I had no chance so I just gave up even though I really liked her. So, this is kind of an example of what NOT to do.

example 2 not to do

There is a lot more to the story but as you can see she dominated the very first conversation we had. I really liked her so I texted her the next day but I could never find my groove. I always felt like I wasn’t good enough and she would simply bow out of the conversations whenever she would like.

Tactic 3: Bowing Out Of The Conversations By Not Responding Makes Your Ex Boyfriend Hunger For You

This is a pretty effective way to establish control. However, if you do it too much the guy will think he doesn’t have a chance with you. That was what happened above. So, I say if you are going to use this tactic make sure you use it sparingly. You don’t want your efforts to stir up some desire on his end, turn into resentment.  Admittedly, this is a bit of a balance act, but you know your boyfriend best and can gauge just how far you can take it.

Tactic 4: Ungettable Texting Dominance By Shifting the Personal Power Balance

I think that this example is really the perfect way to “control” the conversation. This is another example out of my phone with a girl who I liked once upon a time. I actually sat next to her in a college class and we developed a friendship. Once again, she wasn’t too beautiful but she definitely had the “ungettable” persona. Now, I want to note a couple of things: Notice how she had me hooked in the conversation. Also, the way she ended the conversation first was perfect. She sent the last two texts really closely together so I didn’t even have time to respond before she “had to go.”

example 3

Tactic 5: Unleash Your Full Arsenal of Jealousy Texts

(For more jealousy text messages I recommend picking up The Texting Bible.)

Since we are on the subject of texting lets talk a little about the most important type of text if you want to make your ex boyfriend jealous, the jealousy texts. Using jealousy via a text message is a subtle art. In a way, you want to make your ex aware that you are out having fun with other guys that aren’t him but it won’t go over too well if you straight up text him “hey I was out on a date last night and I did blah blah blah.” Yeaaa…. you need to be really subtle at the way you work jealousy into your text messages. I am going to give you two really clever examples below that demonstrate this point. Now, there are thousands of ways to work jealousy into a text message but you are going to have to get creative because I am just going to give you these two examples (I am getting a little tired of writing to be honest haha.)

A. Romantic Movie

The romantic movie jealousy text I can’t take credit for. A guy named Michael Fiore really came up with it but I actually think it is really clever. Basically, you text your ex that you went to see a romantic movie with a friend (you don’t specify if the friend is male or female.) The fact that the words romantic and friend are placed so close together in the text will make your ex boyfriend wonder a little bit.

romantic movie text

B. Was That You?

This is another text that I can’t take credit for. Again, Mr. Fiore deserves all the credit. Basically, in this text your are going to send your ex boyfriend a message saying something like “was that you at (place you frequent) last night.” If you want to get really aggressive with it you can add in “if it was, you looked really good ;)”

jealousy (did I see you at)

Step 5: It’s Time To Initiate Your Dating Challenge To Your Ex Boyfriend

The final step in this 5 part Ex Boyfriend Strategy Series is really less of a formal challenge to your ex boyfriend to ask you on a date, but rather if you have played all your cards right, your ex will be falling all over himself to ask you out before some other dud gets his hands on you.  Such is the power of dropping all of these little jealousy breadcrumb.

In effect, you are implementing all these tactics on your ex boyfriend’s subconscious mind.  He cannot avoid thinking about these things he sees, hears, and reads about.  it is your ex boyfriend’s active imagination you are banking on.

You want him to crave you, but that won’t happen unless you leave him all sorts of little clues (breadcrumbs) about how ungettable you are, how other’s find you so attractive, and how he so underestimated your true value.

When all these things come together, your ex boyfriend’s jealousy will be heightend and he unconsicoulsy he will find himself obsessing about you.  So once you arrive at the dating stage of the 5 part Jealousy plan, remember, your work is not over.

And Ungettable Girl is always building value and sometimes using little tricks to get her boyfriend to realize she is special and not to be take for granted.

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Chris Seiter