By Chris Seiter

Updated on August 3rd, 2021

What an action packed next few weeks we have in store for you.

Not only are we hitting overdrive with our content production (have you noticed how many podcasts I have been doing lately?) but we are going to doing a live webinar soon. I have never done anything like this before but I can’t be more pumped (considering I have been prepping for it for about a month and a half.)

One of the coolest things about this webinar isn’t only the fact that I will be able to reach a mass audience at once but you will be able to ask me questions live.


In other words, I am going to be answering a lot of questions. In fact, I am going to make it a priority to stay on the webinar extra long to make sure that everyone feels involved.

BUT the thing I am most excited about is my presentation.

Here… I am going to give you a quick peek into what it’s about,

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It’s going to be a lot of fun and I am dying to hear what you think of me doing something like this. In fact, you will notice, if you listen to the podcast, that I mention it there and I asked you to tell me what you thought in the comments section of this article.

So, what do you think?

Today’s episode features a woman with a very unique name, China!

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The Situation China Is In

  • She broke up with her ex boyfriend on July 4th…
  • She started the no contact rule right away
  • Initially he was very unresponsive when it came to the breakup
  • However, on Facebook he began doing things as an attempt to make her jealous
  • China wonders, “If you don’t care that I walked out of your life why would you try to make me jealous on Facebook

What We Talk About In This Episode?

  • The No Contact Rule
  • Psychological Reactance
  • The Law of Scarcity
  • What Her Exes “Facebook Shenanigans” Really Mean
  • What China Should Do Going Forward

Important Links Mentioned In This Episode


Download The Transcript For Episode 50 Here

A Few Final Words

Before I leave you today I just want to ask you a bit of a favor. In this episode I mentioned that soon we are going to be doing live webinars and live coaching. I am dying to hear your thoughts on this.

So, if you could please tell me what you think of these ideas in the comments section of the website it would be greatly appreciated!



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15 thoughts on “EBR 050: He’s Trying To Make Me Jealous… What Does It Mean?”

  1. Advice

    October 3, 2021 at 10:32 pm

    I have my ex on Instagram. Lately he’s been frequently posting stories spending time with another girl he’s seeing. I think he’s trying to make me jealous because I have been trying to get over it but when I see the posts they get to me. Is it ok to stop watching his stories all together without hurting my chances of getting back together in the future? I want to emotionally be over him but still keep doors open for the future.

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      October 4, 2021 at 8:52 pm

      Hey there, so if you are following this program then you shouldn’t be watching his stories in the first place.

  2. Sarah

    August 12, 2016 at 3:01 pm

    I am doing NC almost 3 weeks now. BTW, we are in the same group of friends but he approached me as more than friend since the beginning. He came to see me at my place once during the 1st week of NC. He just teased me as usual and asked how I was. But I kept conversation neutral and short.
    After that day, we haven’t texted each other. I avoided seeing him at school. I think he noticed it.

    Now He set up one of our friend’s BD party.( basically it’s his friend that I knew and hung out with sometimes).
    And he invited me in the friends’ group message.
    The problem is ..later, he added a girl, a short term exchange student, whom he flirted with at front of my face
    when we had fight 3 weeks ago. I’m not sure whether they’re hanging out together or not because he is a friendly type of guy. However, that girl approaches him a lot! So it’s my girl sense! Anyway, I don’t know because I’m in my NC.
    And I don’t think she’s a good competitor with me because she’ll leave this country in less than a month.

    I don’t know why he decided to add that girl to the group. He wants me and her to be in the same party?
    I refused to go because I’m not sure that he may play dirty trick on me by rubbing in my face. I ignored his group text but I texted another friend instead that I’m not going. Is he’s trying to hurt me? Or making me jealous? Or he’s just being friendly?
    Or he thinks I’m already moved on so he can just bring two girls in the same place?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      August 12, 2016 at 4:10 pm

      Hi Sarah

      I think he just invited her because they’re friends too and maybe he does think it can be a chance to make you jealous

  3. Sarah

    August 11, 2016 at 12:43 pm

    We are in the same group of friends. I know this guy for about 6 months. We are more than friend but not in a relationship. He confessed to me that he likes me (more than friend) but He’s fear of losing our friendship. He told me if it didn’t work, he can’t bear that we don’t talk again. He can’t lose me from his life! That what he said.

    We had fight 3 weeks ago because I acted needy. I complained to him why he didn’t ask me out or why he didn’t ask me to go to gym together etc. He was obviously mad at me. He told his friend that he likes me less than before. That’s the point that he lose interest at me and even refused to go have dinner with me.

    He flirted with a new girl who is an exchange student at our university at front of me. It was so obvious that he laughed at her joke but ignored when I tried to talk to him. Other friends could tell that too!

    After that I started doing No contact right away. His friend came to talk to me. I said I’m sick of this and I’m moving on. I hope we could be friends like before eventually. I continued No contact.
    He came to see me once at my place to bring some snacks to me during first week of NC.
    He teased and talked like nothing happened. Didn’t mention about our fight or the fact that his feeling has changed.
    I kept conversation short and neutral. I avoided seeing him at school and I think he noticed that. He didn’t text me since then.

    Now is my 3rd week of no contact, he added me in the group message with other friends that he wants to set up BD party for one of our friend. Later he added that girl he was fitting with to the group! I mean she’ll stay in this country for less than a month. I don’t know that he went out with her or not during my NC. Or he’s just friendly? But I don’t understand why he tried to put her and me in the same party?
    I def. not going to that party because I suspected that he may ignore me and flirt with her at front of me again.
    Is he trying to make me jealous? Why won’t he leave me alone?

  4. Erisa

    July 27, 2016 at 2:54 pm

    I would like to know how can I make my ex jealous on whatsapp? It´s been 4 months now since we don´t contact each other!!!
    Thanks guys

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 29, 2016 at 6:48 am

      Hi Erisa,

      go out and date others and then post your pics

  5. Confused

    July 25, 2016 at 11:38 pm

    Okay, so my ex and I broke up after three years together, kept on talking for several months after that, and then I decided to start a no contact, which has now ended.
    I believe that during the no contact he would try to make me jealous by posting pictures with this girl I never quite liked (and that he said he wanted to try things with, however he would also tell me how annoying she was or how it didn’t feel as special as it did with me) but then he would change them. Then we started texting.. which I am having trouble with.. I just can’t get him to start a conversation.
    A week ago I asked him about his profile pic in whatsapp, since he didn’t have one.. and then he uploaded one with her.
    I have re-added him to snapchat and this past saturday he posted out of the blue a picture with her (my friend, who had him on snapchat before I did, told me this was extremely unsual).
    During that week we hadn’t really talked, so I think that perhaps he was trying to get my attention… but I am not really sure.

    1. Is he trying to make me jealous?
    2. Why would he try to do that?
    3. How can I make him be a little bit more engaging.. he said he was happy we were speaking again, but he hasn’t started the conversation… and he used to do that before I started NC.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 28, 2016 at 1:15 pm

      Hi Confused

      yeah he may have been making you jealous but regarding your texts.. are you having a good conversation with him? is it positive? is it something that is fun that is engaging enough that he would want to continue?

  6. What is going on?

    July 23, 2016 at 8:54 pm

    Hello. My ex and I have been broken up for about a month give or take a few days. I did do the no contact rule on him. We are expecting our first son together. We both do have children from a previous relationship. He blocked me on fbook since we broke up which isn’t a big deal to me. He does have a new girlfriend but hasn’t changed his relationship to being a relationship with this female. Anyway, he said he in the future he does see us getting back together and working on things this was on Sunday. On Tuesday he went crazy, I assume he was around his girlfriend because he said a lot of hurtful things claiming the whole 8-9 months we were together he never loved me and that now he doesn’t think the baby is his even tho it is and he knows it. Because on Monday he said he is really excited to have a son finally. Then he claims he is crazy about his girlfriend but not in love with her and that their will be a time I will meet her. Then on Thursday he tried to FaceTime me again. I didn’t answer. It’s like he is trying to make me jealous and etc or look for a reaction. I was wondering what should I do to get him back and be a family again? I know he probably is just saying mean things because he is around his girlfriend. I feel like their relationship won’t last and that it is a rebound.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 26, 2016 at 8:17 am

      Hi What is going on,

      she may be a rebound or a grass is greener syndrome.. but I think you have to restart limited no contact.
      he can talk to you about the child but do not respond regarding other messages, don’t engage in a fight if he starts..focus in your health right now and happiness for you and your baby

  7. Overthinking

    July 23, 2016 at 2:31 pm

    Sounds like a great idea with the webinar and live coaching, however would this be more based for people whom are in North America, due to the different time zone from the reading comments on this website, possibly not everyone can be there for the live aspect, who wishes to be.
    I mean I would have questions that would be along the lines of this podcast, including body language from photos posted.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 23, 2016 at 2:56 pm

      Hi Overthinking,

      thank you for inquiring but with webinars, from my experience everybody with internet access can join..and yes, the challenge is the time difference.. that means you may have to stay up late if he’s doing it in the morning and your time zone is.m opposite of his

  8. Jen

    July 23, 2016 at 4:03 am

    Great podcast Chris! How much are you charging for the webinar and live coaching?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 23, 2016 at 1:49 pm

      Hi Jen! Thank you for listening! i think the live coaching is in the webinar.. I’m not sure yet but the webinar is freeee!! 😉