How To Know If Your Ex Boyfriend Still Loves You

 Ex-Boyfriend-Recovery-PRO

There are many different “signs” that you can look for to know if your ex boyfriend still loves you. This page is going to take an in-depth look at each specific sign and give you an idea on how to proceed if you decide you want your ex boyfriend back. First though, I would be a fool if I didn’t point out that there isn’t an exact science to this. What I mean, is that since we are dealing with a male human being things can be a bit…. unpredictable. So, there may be some rare cases where your ex could exhibit many of the signs below and yet he still might not be interested in you. Don’t worry though, everything that is on this page has been thoroughly researched and is a compilation of many of the best relationship experts advice and findings. While I can’t guarantee anything, I think it is a safe bet to assume that if your ex is doing the things below he is probably interested in you.

Two Things You Have To Do First

things

Before we get down to the nitty gritty on how to determine if your ex still likes you there are two things that I need you to accomplish. The first is relatively simple, the second one… not so much.

  1. I want you to take some time and figure out if you have a legitimate reason for wanting your ex boyfriend back. As a general rule, couples who get back together after a break up tend to have really good reasons for doing so. Oh, and I think it is important to mention that couples who successfully reunite with legitimate reasons last longer! Still confused? Don’t be I actually wrote a huge post that defines what a good reason is and will even give you some examples here.
  2. Secondly, I need you to adopt a No Contact Rule. Experts agree that in order to put yourself in a good position to win back your ex boyfriend you need to cut yourself off from them for at least a month. Make no mistake about it, it will be among the hardest things you have ever done. There will be a constant temptation to call them, email them or text them. Whatever happens make sure you DO NOT DO IT.

Now, I bet you are wondering what any of this has to do with figuring out if your ex boyfriend still misses you, I assure you it is really important.

The Signs That Your Ex Boyfriend Still Likes You

he loves me

Ok, no matter who broke up with who, how bad the break up was or how much you think he hates you I can assure you one thing… he is thinking about you. Did you know that 81% of people still think about their exes too much? What’s worse is that nearly 90% of facebook users still look up their ex. So, I think it is safe to assume that you on your exes mind more than you think you are. The real question is, is he thinking positive or negative things about you? At least that is what you are wondering. Obviously, you want your ex to be thinking very positive thoughts when it comes to you as it will make getting him back a lot easier. With that being said, even if your ex thinks you are the antichrist there are certain things you can do to change his mind. Besides, right after a breakup both parties are angry at each other so there isn’t much positive karma going around.

That is where the no contact rule comes in play. I can pretty much guarantee that your ex won’t be having any positive love thoughts about you a few days after your breakup (especially if YOU broke up with him.) By implementing a no contact rule you are doing two things.

  1. First, you are giving him and you time to calm down and get your wits about you.
  2. Secondly, he is going to wonder why you haven’t tried to call or text him to check up (like he thinks you are supposed to do)

Which leads us to our first sign…

Sign 1- If He Calls, Texts or Messages You

texting

We already know that he is thinking about you but if he actually takes the time to text message you or call you then you should feel really good about yourself because he is definitely showing interest. Now, I am not going to sit here and tell you that all your troubles are over and you can run back into his arms and the world will rejoice. Let’s be honest here, just because he text messaged you doesn’t mean that he wants you back but it is definitely a sign pointing in the right direction. If you are staying true to the NC Rule (No Contact Rule) then you greatly increase your chances of having him contact you in some way. The only thing is you can’t contact him back which is explained if you visit the no contact page.

Sign 2- Does He Keep An Eye On You?

im-watching-you

While you are supposed to be avoiding your ex both physically and mentally for 30 days there are certain cases where it is impossible to do so. If you notice that your boyfriend keeps popping up in places that you frequent then this is a definite sign that he still has feelings for you. Now, I do feel it is important to mention that sometimes it can just be a coincidence that they are at the same place that you are. However, I would say  that if you notice them “being around” at least three times then that is a definite pattern.

Sign 3- Do You Get A Reaction?

react

As you know, I am pushing the NC rule pretty darn hard. However, I am not naive. I know how relationships work and I know that the majority of women reading this will not be able to hold out for 30 days. So, in the event that you break down one of the best ways you can determine if he still has those deep feelings for you is watching how he reacts when he sees you. This can be a little tricky to determine but I will go ahead and give you some things to watch for.

  • Does his face light up?
  • Does he sneak looks at you when he thinks your not looking?
  • If he talks really fast that is a good sign as well.
  • Looking into your eyes for a long period of time is a good sign too.

Sign 4- Does He Keep In Touch With Friends & Family?

family

Ex boyfriends who are possibly interested in getting back together will keep in touch with your friends or family. This sign especially rings true if you are deep into your no contact. If you aren’t picking up your phone they are going to reach out to friends or family to see how you are. If you want them back then this is a very good sign. Of course, there are some cases where an ex will keep in touch with your family just to annoy you but you can usually tell in those cases.

Sign 5- Touching

200264715-001

I may lose some man points for this but one of my favorite movies to watch is Hitch (where Will Smith basically plays a love doctor.) There is a scene at the beginning of the movie where he points out that one of the signs that a woman will show, if she is interested in a guy, is touching. Well, the same can be applied to men. If you see your ex and he is maintaining some type of physical contact like touching your arm, hand, knee, leg that is a really good sign.

What To Do After You Have Figured Out He Still Loves You

So, he showed some of the signs above eh? Well, now you have a decision to make. Do you want to try and get him back or do you want to move on? Since this is a website specifically for women who want to get their ex boyfriends back I can tell you that there is so much information on this site for FREE that you will be blown away. However, not all of the information is going to give you 100% of everything you need. It is for that reason that I am highly recommending you to check out Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO. It is really a true “step by step” method to winning back your ex boyfriends heart. Other than that I hope you enjoy this site and find everything you are looking for.

 

Learn How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back
Put your email address in the box to the right to follow along day by day as I show two women (Sarah and Kai) exactly what they need to do to get their ex boyfriends back.
761 Responses to How To Know If Your Ex Boyfriend Still Loves You
  1. TMM
    July 22, 2014 | 4:27 pm

    I study abroad so we had a long distance relationship for a year then a week before I came back to my country we broke up because of me. I thought I didnt love him anymore so I acted so stupid. As soon as I got back to my country I knew that I was so stupid but he clearly showed that he not interested in me anymore. He started to seek for another girl. Half a month later,we talk again, we started texting frequently, we hang out 3 times and we still make out. He hugged me today he said he is sorry that he made me said, I told him it was totally my fault. I hate that he keeps repeat that we are like bro and sister. When we talked he talked about some other girls, I just keep silent and looking away then he noticed and asked what i was thinking. I want to get him back in my life so bad. I know he doesnt want to be in a long distance relationship anymore and i am leaving in 50 days. What can I do now?

    • admin
      July 24, 2014 | 2:02 pm

      What caused you to think you didn’t love him anymore?

  2. Lolita
    July 21, 2014 | 8:41 pm

    Hey ya

    So bacisally I deleted my FB and changed numbers, so it is impossible for him to reach ME directly. after 10 days NC He did write me a handwritten letter but again was blaming me, but did let me know i could always call him and he would always answer me and he is hurt (he dumped me for another but is blaming me by lying) he tried to make me indirectly contact him through my mom and tried calling on Skype the same day. I’ve been in NC. Today he sends my mom a text reminding her of MY doctor’s appointement because he used to drive me. Is that all good sign because it’s only been 2 weeks of NC, I don’t understand him.

    • admin
      July 22, 2014 | 2:27 pm

      I wish you wouldn’t have deleted your facebook.

  3. Giannah
    July 13, 2014 | 10:21 am

    Hello , My Name Gigi and I Was With My Ex For 4 Months and I broke up with him close around the 4 of July So This Is Recently and He Lives Down The Street From Me But When He’s Walking Be Himself I’ll Look At Me 2 Times Then Just Keep Walk & When He’s With People He Try Not To Look at Me But I Wanted To Try To Be Honest And Tell Him How I Feel But If He’s Trying To Ignore Me I don’t Know How’s That’s Gonna work Because if I try To Talk to Him And He Still Ignore Me & Keeps Walking Then I Don’t Know But Me And His Older Brother Don’t Get Along So I Think He Told Me Ex Not To Talk To Me & He Listens But I Think He Shouldn’t But After we Broke Up We Hugged & Kissed Then The Next Day Is Wen He Start ignoring me But I Wanna Know Do You Think He’s Still Thinking Of me or Still likes me?

    Please Help?

    • admin
      July 14, 2014 | 3:08 pm

      I am sure there are feelings in there somewhere.

  4. Andy M
    July 9, 2014 | 8:12 pm

    Hi, short story I was away working in another country for 4 months and i had an affair. He broke up with me recentlym though he found out like 1 year ago. He says he is dissapointed, angry and no longer wants ti be with me. He started going out with girls and hooking up with several ones. However if I call, he answers; if i text, he writes back; he would even call me for some random stuff. He has refused to give me my stuff back and even offered to help me with some stuff.

    I live in a different city now. I flew to see him to tell him the truth, “all of it!” He seemed in shocked, we talked, he said he was hurt. I told him I am sorry, he thinks I am only sorry because he caught me. I’ve been giving thought to everything and I regret so much my past action. I told him to look me in the eyes, so he could see how sorry I was, he kissed me and we spend a wonderful weekend. I left and 2 days later it was hell again. I’m not expecting for forgivness, I just want an opportunity to work things out.

    After that, he went on a date with a girl,I got super jealous and he said we shouls stop talking beacuse he feels bad I’m sad. I stopped calling him and then he starts calling for random stuff (he could text, we didn’t have to talk). I told him I had to go to the city for a checkup. He ignored me. Then he would call me and make comments about thusrday (day I’ll be arriving in town) and stuff we could do. Other day he would be angry as hell and hate my guts and say he doesn’t want to talk to me anymore.

    I told him I knew i made a mistake (HUGE ONE), i went lookig for him to be honest (for a change) and that I was willing to fight for our relationship. He said it was a waste of time, that he felt fine “hooking up with other girls”, that going back together had no purpose.

    I told him I was here because he lets me be here, i said i was not calling him back, that i was arriving on thursday and that he better be home. Next day he called and asked what time i was arriving to pick me up at the airport.

    My drama is so confusing…I dont know what to do. NC RULE?

    • Andy M
      July 9, 2014 | 9:13 pm

      One more thing, during the weekend i went to see him, he took me to family lunches and behaved really sweet.

    • admin
      July 10, 2014 | 2:24 pm

      I don’t think he ever got over the affair…

      Yes NC.

  5. miranda padilla
    July 8, 2014 | 11:25 pm

    my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 yearsfrom our very first date it was so easy to be myself around him I what down all my walls completely and I knew I loved him that night we dated for 2 weeks before we made it official boyfriend and girlfriend he told me he love me only 5 days into a relationship. We love you too other so much at that time we are living with her parents and we would see you job there every single night it got to the point where in a relationship we never spent more than a week apart then I you’re in a half into it we decided to get an apartment together because he got kicked out of his dads house for reasons that is dad was just a bad person and his mom was moving out of her current house and into a smaller condo so we thought it would be okay to me live together and it was going well until I lost my job in november and I couldn’t keep a good job down and I lost my car and I was so negative all the time and I was finding every way to just be mad at him and not of this was his fault I was such a bad person that he got to the point where’s he didn’t want to do this anymore and we almost broke up I asked for another chance and he said okay and from that point on I did everything I could show him how much I appreciate him because I always took him for granted I never thought he would leave me because that’s how nice of a guy he was.are we use words ending in 4 months and I thought we were at a point where we could start looking for a house so we did and we found 1 and today I was supposed to put a deposit down on the house he told me when the lease was up for our apartment that you was going to move back in with his mom I didn’t argue with him because I knew that would be the best for him and I was going to be okay with it but then he said he didn’t know what he wants after we moved out ford sample he didn’t know is he wanted to continue dating me or not. Then it came out that he doesn’t want to date me anymore that we would be happier apart and I told him how much I love him and I absolutely no it won’t be true guys won’t be happier without himI don’t know what he is so afraid of but he is set on leaving and sticking with the breakup I don’t know what to do I’ve never felt this feeling with anyone else if someone has any opinions on what I could do that would be helpful because I am an emotional wreck right now

    • admin
      July 9, 2014 | 2:21 pm

      I would recommend the no contact rule for you right now.

      • miranda padilla
        July 9, 2014 | 8:14 pm

        Wow. Sorry I didn’t realize how misstyped that came out.
        once i move out i will do that no contact thing. And i have hope that he’ll miss me after that.
        But i don’t understand how we are so great together and we barley argue how he can just let go so easily. That hurts the most. I have no hate toward him cause i want him to be happy. But i hurt so bad cause he can just let go. Do you have any opinions as to what he could be thinking with doing this? (Mind you I’ve known him since freshman year of high school, he’s always been a quiet person always to himself. So i know he’s not gonna go looking for someone else. Him and i are both the same in that aspect)
        I just wanna understand cause he won’t help me understand.

  6. tori
    July 8, 2014 | 4:32 pm

    So, my ex and I have a baby together. He’s had a gf for a few months who apparently lives with him now. I am not comfortable leaving our son with him because I do not know this woman, what I do know is not flattering and she does not even have her own kids…and for some reason he thinks it’s ok for us to all hang out when he sees his son. He’ll invite us over or to outings with her there…it’s weird and very uncomfortable. My question is, am I better off sucking it up and continuing to act as if it’s cool and just hang with them and be polite or should I tell him it makes me uncomfortable?

    • admin
      July 9, 2014 | 2:14 pm

      Your ex is an idiot… Very insensitive to your concerns.

      There is a child involved here so your child trumps everything.

  7. admin
    July 3, 2014 | 1:07 am

    Are you fully divorced or just seperated at this time?

    • admin
      July 7, 2014 | 5:20 pm

      I see, but now he has a new girlfriend?

      • admin
        July 8, 2014 | 2:24 pm

        Sounds like hes going through some weird mid life crisis huh?

    • admin
      July 7, 2014 | 5:21 pm

      May I ask the age of the new girlfriend? Do you know? Tell me about her.

    • admin
      July 7, 2014 | 5:27 pm

      Or they can implode… Wait until they have their first fight and see how they handle adversity.

      Most couples can’t communicate properly and its all downhill from there.

  8. Amanda
    June 19, 2014 | 12:18 am

    My boyfriend broke up with kme because I was basically an emotional wreck. I was jealous, clingy, judgemental, mean, insecure, had no self esteem, no confidence, shy and I found it difficult to trust him. He didn’t doa nything; was just me because I let my emotions control me. When he decided to break up with me, I took a 2 week trip to visit family and friends. I’m ashamed to admit this but during my trip, we fought over the phone and also through Facebook messages. I regret that and if I had known about NC then, I would’ve started right after the break up. Anyway, it’s been over a month now since I last saw him. There have been times I tried to apologize for what happened, told him I was working on self improvement but he didn’t want to believe me. He wants.to believe that I haven’t changed. I’m currently on day 4, almost on day 5 of NC. I’m really skeptical at this point because I’ve been with him for almost 5 years and when he said it was over, I lost all hope. I still think about him everyday. Now, I do believe I can go the full 30 days without contact. “So far, so good.” I think. I still have a long way to go though. I bought your system and I feel emotionally stable. The only thing that worries me if my ex leaving me for good but I can’t bring myself to believe that. This is the most difficult thing I’ve never done but I have faith that I fan do this. I’ve never been in a heartbreaking situation like this before. I’ve never loved this deep before and I’ve never known true love till I met my ex. He’s THE ONE for me, I just know it. I just have to have faith that he’ll come back. I can’t afford to quit. Gollowing your guidance has really opened my eyes. Thanks! :) I’ll update you on my progress. Oh and we had an honest, healthy, loving, passionate, caring relationship. We supported each other, loved each other deeply and cared for each other A LOT. We also were very honest witt each other. I miss him every single dat.

    • admin
      June 20, 2014 | 7:36 pm

      Well, I am glad you at least notice you have some flaws (we all have flaws don’t beat yourself up.)

      Why do you think you were clingy and insecure though?

  9. Meagan
    June 18, 2014 | 10:08 pm

    Hello.
    A year ago my ex left me and I can honestly admit he had good reason to. I won’t go into details of that but I can assure you that it left us both in silence to one another for 6 months.
    I finally got the courage to message him after so long and he replied a few days later. Since the initial email, we started sending each other YouTube videos and pictures of things we both like.

    We are now talking on viber, just last week he informed me about his father’s illness and asked me to pray for him. He even calls me “dear” sometimes.

    What I’m wondering is if I should open up and tell him that I truly miss him. The only problem is that we both live in separate countries. I have been planning a trip to his country in the spring and debating on whether to admit my love for him when I get there or should I do it now? Doing something like that over text or phone to me seems inpersonal, but do I want to miss the chance of getting him back now?

    I could use some guidance for this situation. And I would deeply appreciate some advice.

    Thank you kindly.

    • admin
      June 20, 2014 | 7:29 pm

      I think the reason you broke up is kind of important to know…

  10. Sarah
    June 18, 2014 | 11:12 am

    Hi Chris,you have been such a comfort and I am going through a terrible time.We split 11 weeks ago.He says it is because of an incident where he found I was texting a very old ex when we split a year and half ago.I think he just lost attraction for me,we had money worries.He is adamant we won’t get back together.I didn’t do NC but he always text about random stuff and keeps in touch with my daughter.When we were texting a week ago I said I had to go into town which I did half an hour later-lo and behold who was coming up the high street!I asked if he wanted to go for coffee, we did and it was fine until the relationship came up.He said he couldn’t trust me etc.When I went to leave he stalled me and asked me to go into the shop with him where he was showing off saying he was having great time, got a job now lots of money,lost weight.We saw each other after that and it turned sad, I did try to convince him to come back, he pretty much said never never. He has text twice since, once to ask why my daughters phone was off (she said it wasnt) and when he got hold of her he asked her to ask me about a toothbrush charger!Then he text the next day asking if I had some photos. I feel like these are excuses and I have not responded (doing NC) I am so confused and wondering do I take his no never as gospel or still hold out hope? I have lost weight,whitening my teeth and joined a gym, I even look better a week after I saw him :) please help me

  11. J
    June 15, 2014 | 2:04 pm

    I posted a comment about four days ago and when I check I’m apparently STILL waiting for my comment to be moderated. But it seems other’s comments are posted instantly. What’s up?

Leave a Reply

Wanting to leave an <em>phasis on your comment?


three × = 12

Trackback URL http://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/how-to-know-if-your-ex-boyfriend-still-loves-you/trackback/