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1,519 thoughts on “Signs My Ex Wants Me Back”

  1. Linda

    April 5, 2018 at 1:53 pm

    He broke up with me aroudn 4 months ago, said he doesn’t see any future for us together. We’ve been on-and-off talking, initially he was initiating most of the contact… And then he started delaynig replies, he would reply 3 day later, week later, two weeks – each time still asking questions to keep the conversation going. I seriously don’t know what to think lol. During the time he would delay replies I finally decided to do no contact – 3 weeks. Too short?? Then I finally replied to his message and he took again a few days to reply. In last one he ended up sending me a selfie of him, and casually mention he would hope to see me while I’m around. I’m super confused!!!! I replied after a few hours but he’s probably going to take another few days to get back to me anyway lol I dont know what to do, if i hsould to another longer no contact?

    1. Chris Seiter

      April 6, 2018 at 12:03 am

      I’d love to see these conversations…. Because they sound kind of bland to me. My guess is that not enough excitement was built? Is that a fair assessment?

    2. Linda

      April 7, 2018 at 8:35 am

      Well, I definitely dont feel comfortable putting them here.
      Hm, I guess so! I guess for me at least it’s hard to work on building that excitement when the other side seems so… unresponsive in general. Is there something you would suggest? Give it a break for some time? Continue, but trying to work on more excitement?

    3. Chris Seiter

      April 7, 2018 at 9:37 pm

      So, one of the biggest issues I see women having across the board is the fact that they tend to not realize that men have egos the size of the sun. This means that the second the conversation turns away from us we can get bored. So, try to keep the conversation all about things he’s interested in at first.

    4. Linda

      April 9, 2018 at 12:47 pm

      Thank you! I’ll try to do that!

  2. Genevieve

    April 5, 2018 at 4:26 am

    I’m in a bit of a confusing situation. I’m in the texting phase with my ex of 5 months, and when we first started talking again his texts were positive. He wanted to know how I was doing,and was responding right away. After that day, his responses became neutral (1-2 worded texts) and he would take ages to respond. I waited 5 days to text him again. Now I got him to respond positively lately, but he still takes a long time to answer. We use Facebook Messenger, and I know one of his pet peeves is when somebody doesn’t respond soon enough. He hates that kind of thing, so he is usually quick to respond to texts. But for me now, he waits at least 30 minutes to hours, sometimes even overnight! His texts are positive and seems interested in the topics (I use his interests), but I can see that he gets on Messenger and doesn’t read my messages until later. He did once read one right away, then waited 3 hours to answer. I feel that he is doing this on purpose, and I can’t do the “abruptly ending the conversation” method because of this.
    What do you think he is doing, and how do I go about this?

    1. Chris Seiter

      April 5, 2018 at 11:50 pm

      One way to solve this problem is to actually talk to him on the phone where he can’t run away haha

    2. Genevieve

      April 8, 2018 at 6:34 pm

      Unfortunately that didn’t work either. He is uncomfortable with phone conversations, and never typically answers them. Should I give it several days to contact him again? I think I may have to change the topics of interest… I guess you can say he is a narcissist as he is extremely intelligent and works out a lot to maintain his buff figure. He always used to ask me every time I would see him, “Babe! Did I get bigger?” I always found that adorable, but it also seems to be a very insecure part of him as he used to be skinny and lanky.
      Another insecurity of his was his career, as he changed his career paths 3 times in a panic during college. He thought I wasn’t supportive of his new choice of business career, or that I didn’t care that much which was why he dumped me. That wasn’t true, I was just worried about him running away from another dream of his, but he took it the wrong way and broke up with me in a hurry.
      Should I use body building and business as my new topics? Even though they are the sources of his insecurities?

    3. Chris Seiter

      April 11, 2018 at 1:51 am

      Guys like compliments, so yes, if you connect it with a compliment.

  3. Sylvie

    April 4, 2018 at 4:47 am

    Hey Chris,

    What if my ex and I haven’t talked for 4 months ( i’ve done complete no contact on him), and I’m not seeing any of these 7 signs from him, is all hope lost?

    As mentioned I’ve completely cut off contact with him about 4 months now, but he does like or react to things I post on facebook. I have posted photos of hobbies here and there, but my social media game is still very weak – i dont post often enough and not enough photos of myself.
    I need a game plan. Should I continue no contact and post more on social media or should i contact him now? I dont want to bruise my ego/look weak by having to be the one who initiaties contact first.

    What’s your opinion?

    1. Chris Seiter

      April 5, 2018 at 10:53 pm

      Not necessarily, these 7 signs are pretty darn comprehensive but that’s assuming that you pulling the right levers to get them there.

      I also think you might have to get over the hang up about reaching out first. Remember, what matters more is who ends the conversation now who starts it.

  4. Rochelle

    April 3, 2018 at 11:59 pm

    Hi there! The NC works. 3 weeks of no contact with my ex since March 7, 2018. He first texted me with hi how are you, take the best of care, drive safely, he missed me. Do not be afraid to do this. It works and now we are back together.

    1. Chris Seiter

      April 4, 2018 at 12:33 am

      I’ve been telling people this for YEARS!!!! Hahah I am so happy for you would you like to be featured on our podcast?

  5. Megan Sharp

    April 3, 2018 at 11:01 pm

    My husband and I separated around 3 months ago. Been together for 10yrs, maffieed for 7. We have 3 kids together. You had moved onto someone else even got her name tattooed on himself. (He has my name too but took 5yrs together for him to get it. He had only been with her a few weeks)
    He has slept over, he has been the one ask if it’s ok and we have had sex together at least one week since we split. He has done the mood swings. One minute he is flirty with me, he is laughing with me then with a flick of the switch I’m his punching bag. He has done the jealousy thing when he knows I have been talking to other guys (I stupid have left my phone lying around so he can see who texted on my lock screen) he will text me randomly or ring to see how the kids are. Some text messages he sends has a ‘x’ at the end of it.
    He tell me to move on but I vowed to myself that until I have divorce papers in my hands I won’t. Yes I’m “single” but I still have my vowels and if I moved on, to me it would be as if I am cheating on my husband.
    I have known this man for 10yrs and I know how he acts and what he does, but he has also changed as person. He’s not the man I fell in love with but there is something there when I see him that I can’t let go of. I can be so angry with him almostto the point of hating him but as soon I see him I get instant butterflies.
    He is stubborn and can never give me a straight answer to the questions that I have for him.
    Am I going down a road that will end in heartbreak if I keep hanging onto?? Or should I just count my loses and move on??

    1. Chris Seiter

      April 4, 2018 at 12:49 am

      Hey Megan,

      Man you are in a tough situation. Sorry that this is happening to you.

      My mindset is always to do everything you can before giving up on a situation. Wht have we tried so far?

    2. Megan Sharp

      April 4, 2018 at 1:16 am

      I have changed a lot about myself, the things he told me that made him walk out. I did the no contact…it was really working. He would text me out of the blue and it would start a general conversation. But I got sucked into quickly and that rule went out the window. I am making my plans for the future and trying to move on but then something holds me back. I still have my plans but I think I imagine them without him and it just gets me down.
      He sends me mixed signals all the time. He gets close, like he wants to come home or gets old feelings back, then pulls away. I know this because he does this to his birth Mum (his Nanna raised him, who he calls his Mum)
      Anybody that knows him, knows he is acting so out of character that no body knows who he is anymore. Not even me.

    3. Chris Seiter

      April 5, 2018 at 10:41 pm

      One thing that you might benefit from is my research on the 11 levers of love. Basically it’s everything that you are supposed to do to make someone fall in love with you. If you’d like I might be able to attach a document for you to read in the comments. Let me know if you are interested.

  6. Samiya

    March 16, 2018 at 9:12 pm

    I’m just tooo shattered I had breakup 5 days ago its because I talk to soo rudely with my bf I hurt him he said me we are but I know he was angry where ever I msg him he block me from every where than today I got request from his friend like on Instagram I didn’t acclt it than I saw we chat he put privacy like I’m unable too see his pictures I want him back pls help

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      March 17, 2018 at 4:43 pm

      Hi Samiya,

      How many times have you broken up?

  7. Galu

    March 13, 2018 at 10:23 am

    We dated for 9 mnths, were even thinking about marriage.. but I hurt him subconsciously by taking too long to say yes, and asking him repeatedly about his finances and gradually he started withdrawing. And sensing that I started fighting. He then said that he needs to step back, needs space.he started talking bare minimum but had sex with me a few times. After a month he said he loves me but cant see a future due to my temper tantrums. He said he will b in my life, he shall call, meet and talk to me, but we both are not suitable for each other in the long run. He still cares about me. After he said this I fought a lot, and now aftef 20 days I hav started the no contact rule saying I need to think. He says he appreciates it.

  8. Mitali

    February 26, 2018 at 11:35 am

    Can it happen that maybe while you are thinking so much about how to get him back and have already started doing the nc. And he even reaches out within a week but then goes silent and you suddenly notice him posting a lot or trying to get u jealous or catch your attention. I’m just curious that maybe while you’re following tricks to get him back. What if he’s doing same for u and you both get disappointed as both of you are doing nc and no one would reach out first? What are your views on it. I know this is a pretty weird and absurd question still. Please share your views.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 27, 2018 at 2:24 pm

      Hi Mitali,

      if he’s doing nc, that means he’s trying to get you back but I think you meant, that he’s just trying to make you jealous.. Yes, that happens.

  9. Lucy

    February 25, 2018 at 1:44 pm

    Hi, my ex is so on and off constantly. He breaks up with me, then for one reason or another I end up contacting him (when I’m upset, and/or drunk). We then carry on contact and then he begs for my forgiveness. Says he’s going to be better for me treat me right etc, talking about marriage and the future! We then have an argument he ignores me, shuts off and ends things again. For the first time when he did this I just basically said “right okay” and left it instead of begging. I saw him on a night out and he was claiming I am a horrible negative person and I’ve turned him into a bad person. He also denied that we had been seeing each other again and has made me feel like I’m going insane. He acts like he hates my like absolutely despises me and I can’t figure out why. He’s also blocked me off everything and says he doesn’t ever want to talk to me again. I haven’t been contacting him at all, but feel like that is not working as I feel like he just hates me and has so much anger. Even though 8 days ago he was talking about weddings/ wanting to spend time with me/ he loves me etc. I’m not sure how to take all this, could really do with some advice.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 27, 2018 at 12:30 pm

  10. SV

    February 25, 2018 at 11:42 am

    Hey guys,

    A little background, after 1.5 years my ex broke up with me. Things went pretty bad the last two months and he said he dont see it going anywhere. We were in ldr and we commute between continents. So our last days I went to him, and he was insanely angry over everything.

    Main anger was my ex before him and the rest are build ups i guess.

    He said he still wants to talk to me but he needs time, I took the opportunity to do NC, and was working on myself. I was pretty suprised with myself, I mean I grieve but it wasnt as bad as breakups before, I guess I really love him and I want to be a better version of myself.

    Slightly more than a month I remember contemplating on breaking the NC but was bit nervous about what to say – till I accidentally slipped and sent him a cow emoji (also a inside joke about how Im always hungry) and he surprisingly replies. Since then I decided to build rapport via text – except he takes forever to reply, but he still replies.

    I guess untill last week (its been almost 3 months since the breakup now) where I wasnt sure if he was going to reply or not. His pace are a couple of days. I read somewhere that he’s probably on reactance and its probably best to address the elephant in thw room. So i sent him a text saying i understand why he left, that im sorry and im not pressuring him to do anything. He replies almost immidiately saying he’s still furious and he underestimated himself, and he is furious of the idea of talking to me and he thinks itll take a long time.

    Does this fall into the anger category that he cares too much hence he’s furious? Do I still have a chance? Any advice on where to go from here?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 27, 2018 at 9:35 am

      if he’s still angry, apologize and then stop initiating. Either do last nc, or set a limit on until when you would wait for him initiate to start building rapport again.

  11. Charlotte

    February 17, 2018 at 3:17 pm

    My partner of 12 and a half years left on New Years Day telling me that he doesn’t want me anymore, that there’s nothing there and that he can’t be bothered to try work things out with me. For the first two weeks he was back and forth, wanted to work things out, then he didn’t, then he did but then he said he “wouldn’t let it work”.
    He cried his heart out when he packed all of his belongings two weeks later and apologised – he told me he isn’t sure if it’s the right thing but thinks it is in the long run. I could see he was forcing himself to go.
    He would text me and call me sometimes still to say night or ask how I’m doing and would text my daughter who he brought up if I didn’t text him back straight away.
    He’s been out drinking every single night since he left and his friends are telling him the grass is greener on the other side.
    I’m really worried about him.
    I saw him a couple of weeks ago for the first time in three weeks and he was really tearful and tried to kiss me. Told me he wanted to take me upstairs but that it would “mess with his head.” He went to kiss me again, so passionately and we ended up upstairs.
    I then saw him again this last week and he was crying at one point saying he did love me and he still does and almost admitted that he regrets leaving but then completely flipped and told me everything that was wrong with me, that he doesn’t love me and it’s all my fault anyway, if I’d just done everything he asked. I did everything for this guy and I do mean everything. I stopped giving him sex as much as he would come home from work and just ignore me, be on his phone all night, like I was invisible. All I asked for was his time and attention and I never got it. I did everything else for him. He said last week that he knows it would be easier for him to come home as he had his arse wiped for him and just expected it but doesn’t know why.
    He left because he said he is bored and unhappy with his whole life and it’s my fault. He’s been out every single day with his only single friend drinking, and said he is still bored and unhappy but no unhappier than before. He said he feels really unsettled and doesn’t like not having structure or routine. He misses being with me and just sitting with me and cuddling me.
    People are telling me he’s out trying to get other women but he gets so upset when he finds out about this and tells me I should know him better than that after all this time. I think he’s telling the truth but know his friends are pressuring him to go out there and meet new women.
    I’m so, so, so confused. I know he is too but I said to him that I know no matter how much he loves and misses me, he will never come back as he has too much face to lose with his friends now.
    Please help. Any advice would be so very much appreciated right now.
    Thank you 🙂

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 20, 2018 at 11:43 am

      Hi Charlotte,

      Do you want to try the nc rule?

  12. Lyree

    February 13, 2018 at 6:59 pm

    Boyfriend of 7 years broke up with me a few months ago. The last month together he was acting like a total stranger. We never really fought, had good communication, until our last month together. We have seen each other a few times since and everytime I see him he seems like he has moved on and is emotionless towards me. He has told me that I am a great, unique person, and that he wont be able to find anyone like me again but he doesnt want to be in the relationship and that I should move on. I am working on myself but I dont know if I should let him go ?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 18, 2018 at 11:26 am

      Hi Lyree,

      It looks like he has moved on.. If you want, you can try this one:
      The Best Way To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Interested In You Again

  13. Vero

    February 9, 2018 at 4:24 pm

    Hey, my boyfriend and me broke up last year on Christmas. I made very little mistakes and I initiated NC on the 31 December. He told me he lost feelings but didn’t know why…but I was so important to him, he made a request to stay friends, which I refused. We go to school together and are sitting together 3 times a week. He never initiated contact but rather starts talking to me, when I talk to my friends. So, he interferes in my conversations most of the times, when he is nearby. But I told him, as I initiated NC, that I want no contact and I need time for myself. So, maybe he tries not to initiate contact but tries to talk to me by interfering. Maybe he fears to be rejected? Once, so seemed to be upset and he was jealous, you could tell by his look, because I was driving someone else home. But most of the time, he is friendly. I am afraid, that he only wants me as a friend and I am afraid to be put into the friend zone… I am very cold to him during the NC, by the way. Since the 31 December, he never texted me but as I said, since school started, he interferes in my conversations.

    What would you say?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 12, 2018 at 11:40 pm

      Hi Vero,

      Approach nc like this one:
      EBR 009: The No Contact Rule If You Work With Your Ex

  14. April

    February 6, 2018 at 7:10 pm

    Hi, a week ago my boyfriend of about 5 months broke up with me because he found out about an indiscretion that I had had early on in the relationship. I feel truly and utterly terrible about what I did, and as much as I’ve apologized I know he isn’t really buying my apologies. I knew that he had had a bad experience with multiple girls in the past cheating on him, but I truly didn’t believe that the relationship was anything serious at first (this had happened in the first few weeks of us dating). He says that the relationship was established by that point, but he and I had never ever had a conversation about it. I’d also like to point out that during the entire 5 month relationship he and I had only had sex maybe twice, with him having “troubles” any of the other times we attempted intercourse. This coupled with the fact that at the beginning I wasn’t sure where the relationship was, I had made my mistake. Again, I reiterated the fact that I feel terrible and would never never do that again.

    At first he was furious. Told me how much I had betrayed him and just generally slinging insults at me and making me feel bad about what I had done (months prior). He had also gone onto my facebook account (which i foolishly left logged in on his computer) and read all my messages. A couple of threads made him angry as I had discussed a lot of my relationship problems with my friend and he felt that we were making fun of him and talking inappropriately. I explained that at the time, I was feeling lousy and my friend (a natural jokester) would say something funny (albeit mean spirited) just to try to make me feel better. Of course, that doesn’t excuse any of what was said, but the context was different than what he read into.

    After a few days he calmed down and started talking to me like a human being again, apologized for being a dick, told me he missed me and “us,” and then immediately segued into sending my dirty pictures, sending me dirty texts, etc. I played along. Now he is telling me that he wants to maintain a physical relationship, but he isn’t sure about anything relating to an actual relationship. Today he told me about a new promotion he just got at his job that he had been trying for really hard. I told him I was proud. We are supposed to meet and talk sometime this week.

    My question is: do you think I have a chance at getting him back? Or is he just biding him time until he finds someone new or when he’s feeling better about himself?


    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 8, 2018 at 12:27 pm

      Hi April,

      looks like he wants to be friends with benefits with you.. have you take our quiz?

  15. Nikki

    January 21, 2018 at 4:15 am

    I broke up with my boyfriend due to things I was overthinking and because I felt our relationship wasn’t growing and I immediately regretted it. I texted him in the next two days saying that I did feel like that but I felt bad for not talking to him about the issues I was keeping bottled up and I would give him another chance and he said what I said was right and that we should find relationships where we can grow. He unfollowed me on everything a couple weeks in and now I want to get back with him. He’s a very low key person and never expresses what he is feeling, for example before we got together, I was extremely confused if he liked me or not bc he shuts off his emotions so he acts like he’s always ok and manly. But when we were in the relationship, he was actually extremely sweet. I can’t tell if he’s hiding his emotions again, like rejecting our relationship 2 days after- although that could just be his pride kicking in, and he liked my instagram photo before unfollowing me, and when I asked to talk to him while returning his stuff he seemed like his normal self (acting happy) and confirmed that we were friends after asking him. What do I do?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 21, 2018 at 3:26 pm

      Hi Nikki,

      Take back being friends.. Tell him being friends is not workable right now then thank him for everything..and then start the nc rule..

  16. Imogen

    January 14, 2018 at 9:24 pm

    Hi, my boyfriend of two years broke up with me at the end of November with distance being an issue in our relationship. He was never ok with being long distance and always hated when we were apart, so I knew after living together for a year, being apart suddenly would be very difficult for us to cope with. When we met to break up he was absolutely devastated and crying and kept saying how he wanted me in his life and wanted to be friends with me and he sent me a text afterwards saying he’d always care a lot about me and always be there for me. Whilst we were together he was always very much more in love with me and needy in the relationship than I was. I’m not very open with my feelings due to the fear of getting hurt and I didn’t feel the need to publicise our relationship all over social media. 5 weeks after we broke up he met a girl and started seeing her straight away, she then flew back to Australia after they’d known each other for 2 weeks, but they’re already posting couple pictures and stuff on Instagram and constantly tagging each other in stuff on facebook. Since hes met her hes been a completely different person towards me, he’s been rude, telling me he doesnt want a friendship with me anymore hes moved on so I need to get a grip and get over it, and that he cares more about her than he does about me. Its hurting me that he could move on so quickly with someone he doesn’t even know and say all these things to me when he doesn’t even know this girl. He told me he had a great 2 years with me, and the person I know was so deeply in love with me I just can’t fathom how hes moved on so quickly. The person I knew would never hurt me like this, hes changed so much since hes met her and I feel like our whole relationship was a lie now after him telling me he doesn’t like being single. I just need advice as to whether you think he has truly moved on or do you think hes just convinced himself he has and using this new person, who is nothing like me in terms of expressing feelings as she is much more like him, to distract himself from our break up?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 14, 2018 at 10:50 pm

      Hi Imogen,

      she could be a rebound but check this one:
      EBR 015: How To Get A Long Distance Boyfriend Back If He Has A New Girlfriend

  17. Jamielee sweeney

    January 13, 2018 at 9:33 pm

    Help, my boyfriend ended the relationship on Thursday night after a stupid argument over Ikea and me not dropping the argument. We just celebrated out one year anniversary of being together at the weekend and we where planning a holiday at the start of the week. After our argument he left the house and didn’t speak to me all Thursdays and then text on Thursday night saying it was over. I woke up on Friday morning to his fb pictures being deleted, unfrieneded on fb and all my family unfriended and tonight he’s posted a status about snap chat inviting people to add him… I’m confused I understand I he’s falling out of love with me – but why the bitterness and nasty ness plus making the break up so public so quickly please can I have you’re advice !

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 15, 2018 at 12:10 pm

      Hi Jamieless, .

      either he’s just acting out of emotion or he’s using what happened as an excuse for breaking up with you.

  18. Heather

    January 4, 2018 at 8:36 pm

    My ex fiancé and I a month ago he never really broke up with me. I the reason behind the so called break up and he is blaming me because I lied about my friend who I dated in the past was having issues with his current ex. Which I was mutual friends with both of them. Not even a day after I leave he started a relationship with our roommate and my best friend girlfriend. She not a good person and she lies to him a lot. They moved into a separate place. And I tried begging him for him to come back. I love him with all my heart. But the night he left they slept together and he keeps denying he cheated on me.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 6, 2018 at 12:17 am

      Hi Heather,

      do you want to try the no contact rule?

  19. Lizbet

    January 1, 2018 at 6:17 pm

    My boyfriend and I had become platonic friends the last year or so of a 10.5 year relationship. He kept calling me his girlfriend and signing his emails ” I love you” etc although I did not return that sentiment; I didn’t want to lead him on. He started seeing someone and did not tell me about it. She stopped seeing him because he kept on talking about me. Finally he called me, told me about her, and wanted me to call her to tell her what a great loyal guy he was and that he loved her!. I got upset, not that he had a girlfriend, but he lied to me about it and tried to manipulate me into helping him with her. So we ended our friendship on a not great note. I did correspond with his new girlfriend, she seemed really nice.
    Fast forward about 6 months and he has contacted me to meet and talk. I observed the NC rule for a couple of months then sent him a couple of pretty angry emails. I cooled off, left a telephone message that I wished them both well. Apparently they have broken up and here he is. He implies that I was the one that drove us apart, and that if I feel I must talk to him here is my chance.
    I am really surprised that I am still angry, and want to tell him to go to hell to his face. I’ve lost 25 lbs, continued all my regular activities, and feel strong and good. I am unsure what to do. What I don’t want is him back the way we were. I should walk away??

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 4, 2018 at 7:43 pm

      Hi Lizbet,

      Did you mean you want him to change? And if he does, you’ll get back with him? If yes, start slowly rebuilding rapport so that you’ll know if he changed or not

  20. Sophie

    December 31, 2017 at 10:48 pm

    My ex and I were together for 4 and a half years, we lived together renting for 3 years and then moved into my parents with our 3 dogs to save for a mortgage. About 2 months ago he said he was unhappy and wasn’t sure if he knew if he wanted to be with me anymore, we talked and it turned out he was struggling to live in such a family environment with my mum and dad as he doesn’t speak to his and felt like he had no space. We talked and I thought things would be ok and we would get through this as long as we saved. Two weeks ago we had an argument as I asked him for a lift to an Xmas work party and he had a go at me for asking and that i expected a lift and that he was busy and had already made plans to go and look at new car with his mates, I asked him if he was happy still and a few other things he said yes and then I said I was quite hurt he wouldn’t give me a lift and that i felt he was distant and he laughed at me and thought it was funny i was upset, I asked him to leave as I was upset and he assumed it was over. We didn’t speak for a few days and then I called him and said can we speak and he told me he was busy and couldn’t so i asked him if he was trying to tell me it was over and he said it was, the only thing he asked about what was going to happen with the dogs – I’ve taken them he never took responsibilty.. I just can’t help but think why he was unhappy or what I did wrong. Also a factor that i don’t think helped his decision was getting a financed car at 35k+ and modifying it for an extra 6k maxing out credit cards, I was planning for our future and I did absolutely everything for him as did my family. I love him so much, but he never gave me a valid reason why he left and I don’t want to let him go but I want him to come back to me – I have not contacted him for over a week now but I just feel he is happier without me even though he has lost everything!!

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 2, 2018 at 6:01 pm

      Hi Sophie,

      He’s in a grass is greener.. Has he packed all of his items?

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