I want you to close your eyes and imagine something.
I know it sounds super goofy but just bear with me for a moment.
Me: Do you have them closed?
You: Yes Chris…
Ok, close your eyes and imagine a perfect version of yourself.
A version of yourself that not just interests your ex boyfriend (which is what this entire article/video is about) but captivates him. Every word you mutter gives him meaning.
Every glance you cast his way sends shivers down his spine.
Hell, every time he closes his eyes the only woman he sees is you.
Does this sound too good to be true?
Well, that’s probably because for most women it is.
But you’re not most women.
No, you are special because you are a member of this site and one thing that has been proven consistently over time is that members of this site are given the tools to captivate their ex boyfriends.
And that’s what I am going to do for you.
I am going to give you four tools that you can use, right here, right now to make your ex boyfriend interested in you.
My Four Step Method For Making An Ex Boyfriend Interested In You
So, What Exactly Are These Four Steps?
Oh! Hello There!
So, you want to learn how to make your ex boyfriend interested in you.
Well, you came to the right place.
Hey there! Chris Seiter here from Ex Boyfriend Recovery and today I’m going to teach you my simple four step method for fascinating your ex boyfriend and making him interested in you so you can rebuild the attraction that you need to rebuild in order to get him back.
Now, I realized some of you maybe sitting there thinking:
“Yeah, Chris we already know like everything we need to know about like rebuilding attraction and everything like that.”
Well, if that’s truly the case then why are you here? The truth is I’m going to give you a really simple four step game plan that can work on not just your ex boyfriend but any man out there.
The four steps are as follows:
Step 1: Preparation
Now, I’m not going to lie to you. Preparation is key not only in getting your ex boyfriend back but in learning how to re-attract him.
Mark Twain once said,
“It usually takes me a good three weeks for a good impromptu speech.”
Preparation is key in order to re-attract or interest your ex boyfriend. One of the biggest mistakes that I see women continually make on Ex Boyfriend Recovery is not having a plan. And what’s worse is the women who do have a plan, don’t stick to it.
So, make sure that if you want to re-attract your ex, that you have a solid game plan in place.
Luckily for you, that’s what this video/article is for.
Step 2: Slight of hand
Now, I can see how it would be easy to confuse this with the simple card trick or something like that but that doesn’t have anything to do with what I’m about to teach you. Politicians often use slight of hand when they’re asked very difficult questions that get them off topic.
For example, let’s pretend that good old Mark Twain asks me a very difficult question.
Mark Twain: “So, my dear old chap. What’s the square root of 55 hahaha?!”
Me: “You know Mark, that is an excellent question. It reminded me of this crazy story I heard the other day where this clown was walking down the street and…”
Now, do you see what I did there?
I took the really bad Mark Twain impersonator’s question and deflected it into something that I wanted to talk about.
This is conversational slight of hand.
In other words, I take a question that has nothing to do with what I want to talk about and flip it over to talk about what I want to talk about.
I basically answered the question I wished I was asked.
Now, you maybe sitting there wondering,
“Well, how does that even apply to rebuilding attraction or keeping my ex boyfriend interested in me?”
Well, it will make sense later but first we have to cover the next two steps of the “fascinate” game plan.
Step 3: Aikido
Aikido is a Japanese martial arts that really revolves around three factors.
Factor 1: Decide your own mood. You can always be in a good mood when you are talking to your ex.
Factor 2: Redirect anything negative to become positive. It sounds a lot like step 2 which was the conversational slight of hand.
Factor 3: Remain calm at all times.
So, what I’ve done now is given you three very confusing steps.
Be prepared, master conversational slight of hand and Aikido but what do these have to do with getting your ex back or re-attracting him?
Well, that’s where step four comes into play.
Step 4: Logic and Rhetoric
You see, the ancient Greek philosophers really had it right.
They determined that expert communication really revolves around two things: logic and rhetoric.
But what is logic and rhetoric?
Well, logic is essentially getting the facts right.
Saying something and getting it right but rhetoric goes into so much more detail. It’s essentially telling the facts in such a convincing manner that it has a maximum impact.
Take a movie like the Titanic for example. Can you imagine if I just walked up on stage and said this?
“Uhm, so, uh, yeah The Titanic. Uh, ship went out to sea. Hit an ice berg and people died.”
Pretty boring right? Well with the rehetoric, we essentially take those same facts but tell them in a much more convincing manner like this:
“Oh my god! Jack save me! I’m drowning!”
“Hmm.. you know what? After second thought, I think I’ll pass on saving you Rose. If I save you, I might die an icy death at the bottom of the ocean. So, see ya!”
Wait, that’s not how that movie went…
Now, do you see how much more powerful it is to combine redirect and logic as opposed to just relying on logic?
Of course there is still one problem. We really haven’t combined all 4 steps yet.
I mean what the heck is going on? Why would you need to prepare when essentially all you really need to understand is logic and redirect? Or in other words how to be really good at rhetoric?
Combining The Four Steps
Well, here’s what I want you to do.
Take out a pen and paper right now.
We’re going to start with step one. I want you to prepare as much as possible.
Prepare a story and figure out the facts you want to tell with the story and then figure out how to get the most out of those facts from maximum value. In other words, tell a story that combines logic and rhetoric.
Prepare it before hand.
Of course, that’s where step two comes in.
Nothing ever goes according to plan. Especially when you prepare ahead of time. You have to understand that you have to have contingency plans. And that’s where conversational slight of hand can come into play. There’s no guarantee that you’re going to get the perfect segway into talking about the story that you want to talk about but with conversational slight of hand or basically answering the question that you wished you were asked, you can have that perfect segway to tell this amazing story that combines logic and redirect.
But then how does step three come into play? -Aikido.
Well, the task is daunting enough.
You understand that nothing will go according to plan a 100% of the time and you have your contingency for that–the conversational slight of hand.
Well, now it’s time to become zen. To become one with yourself, to remain calm and understand that you are going to turn any negative thing that happens into a positive thing.
Once you combine all four of these things: preparation, aikido, logic, rhetoric and finally conversational slight of hand, you’re not only going to have the tools to fascinate your ex boyfriend. You’re going to have the tool to fascinate any man in the world.
What’s up? I’m Chris Seiter’s dark side or “suave” side, I guess you could say.
Anyways, he asked me to come out here to plug his dumb website www.exboyfriendrecovery.com.
Apparently he’s got some quiz he wants you to take there. It can like tell you your chance of getting your ex back.
Anyways, yeah, so check that out when you get a chance and peace out!