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2,942 thoughts on “Signs Your Ex Is In A Rebound Relationship (The Definitive Guide)”

  1. Amy

    November 6, 2016 at 9:16 am

    My boyfriend of nearly 2 years suddenly broke up with me saying he couldn’t deal with my insecurities and his own issues. Find out the next day he is in a relationship with another girl that he met 1 year prior but stopped talking to because I asked him to. He had always said he wanted to marry me and that he loved me the day of the break up. I’m so confused and hurt. 🙁

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 7, 2016 at 3:19 pm

      Hi Amy,

      I think she’s a grass is greener case.. Read this one:
      The Grass is Greener Syndrome For Ex Boyfriends

  2. Sarah Smith

    November 4, 2016 at 1:27 am

    Hello! My boyfriend and I got together in April, and broke up after two weeks. It was just too soon for us, but we still had really good memories and stayed great friends. At the end of August, we got back together again. We dated for a month, and then we broke up in late September due to him being really busy, but again we had pretty good memories. We still stayed good friends. However, literally four days after the breakup he tells me about this new girl that he met and how he’s interested. This was pretty annoying to me as I had still not moved on yet and suddenly he has this new girl in his eye. Him and this other girl got together a couple weeks after he told me about her, less than a month after mine and his breakup. Would this be considered a rebound relationship most likely? Also, what should I do? I’m still not over him and I want him to be happy because we’re still friends but it just hurts to see him with this new girl.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 5, 2016 at 11:40 pm

      Hi Sarah,

      how old are you both? How long did you know him before the first time you got together? It depends on when he met her.. if he met her after your break up, she can be a rebound.

  3. Chelle

    November 2, 2016 at 4:18 pm

    Hi, My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago and he started seeing this girl right after I moved out. We were together just over a year and had such a deep loving relationship.. someone he loved had died years before and he had never been able to get over that until me or date anyone. We had the most incredible connection (his and my view) since I left and even while he was seeing her.. he would come see me and text me and tell me he loves me and how the only time he can be himself is when he is with me. He tried to come see me again Sunday but I refused and told him I was not going to continue to be the other woman that its painful to only see him or talk to him once a week and honestly I thought maybe he wasn’t seeing her anymore. The very next day he sent me a pic of her sitting with her hand on his leg with a ring on her ring finger. I don’t know this girl I don’t know if she may possibly be married and he was sending me that to make me think he asked her to marry him or if he really did. He said he paid 6000 for it and it was either an expensive mistake or the best decision that he would know in a few years. I don’t believe for one second he paid that for it which leads me to believe he is trying to get some crazy reaction from me over it. He and I were going to get married in June of next year.. he hadn’t bought me a ring yet but he picked the date and we were planning it. Then he decided he couldn’t live with something that happened almost 25 yrs ago in my first marriage. I am totally blown away by all of this. I don’t understand why he would keep trying with me and missing me and telling me he loves me and then turn right around the next day and ask her to marry him. None of it makes sense.. although I love him so much I am constantly trying rationalize everything. He still loves me.. that’s why he couldn’t and wouldn’t stay away. When we broke up he threw away every single thing in his house that reminded him of me. We loved everything the same.. we knew each other so well. We were best friends. I think he is jumping into this because she is a good woman (from what he says) and just so he doesn’t have to deal with the pain of not having “US”. Also she is not someone he just met.. He knew her from years ago I guess she is one of his ex wifes friends.

    1. Chelle

      November 2, 2016 at 5:09 pm

      I forgot that when he sent me the pic and comment about the ring.. I waited a few hours before responding. Then said Congratulations I hope y’all are happy forever and a day.

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 3, 2016 at 4:32 pm

      Hi Chelle,

      real love is not like that.. he just shows how coward he is to face being alone

  4. Catherine

    October 31, 2016 at 3:59 pm

    Hi Amor,

    My ex boyfriend and I broke up almost 7 months ago (April.) We dated for 2 years and lived together for 1. Those 2 years were filled with great memories, lots of fun, vacations, our families hanging out together, etc. Of course towards the end we bickered more and stuff but normal relationship arguments, nothing catastrophic, no cheating, etc. He said he loved me and that I was his best friend, even said maybe we should try and work on this, but he was confused about marriage and knew that’s where the relationship was headed.
    I ran into him back in June and he told me “Just so you know, I’m not out talking to girls or looking for girls, I’m just hanging out with my friends.” I believed him. Fast forward to the beginning of September and he was on a date with a girl at the same bar as me and WENT UP TO MY PARENTS WITH HER TO SAY HI. My dad was like “whose this?” He didn’t say anything, then she introduced herself. Anyway, I called him out for it and lied and said it was his friends girlfriend and they just happened to walk into the bar together. So anyway, now I just found out that he’s actually been dating this girl since JUNE (when he said he wasn’t looking to date) Also only TWO MONTHS after we broke up! (started calling her his girlfriend last month.) Why would he lie to me and how can he move on so quickly? I’d like to think it’s a rebound, I know he’s not very emotionally mature even at age 29, BUT now they have been together for 4 months, I’m a little worried it’s more than a rebound. What are your thoughts?? Thanks!

    1. Catherine

      November 1, 2016 at 4:07 pm

      Thanks Amor. I know the break up was difficult for him and he’s definitely just filling a void because he doesn’t know how to express or deal with his emotions and doesn’t want to be alone. (one major downfall in our relationship) So now what? Do I just move on?

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 2, 2016 at 6:46 pm

      it would be better i you choose to move on but if you still want to try, the best you can do is to move like you’re moving on. have your own life, so that it can increase your chance of him thinking that marriage right now, is not what you would prioritize..

    3. EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 1, 2016 at 1:44 pm

      Hi Catherine,

      more likely she’s rebound.. but he may still stick with her if he doesnt want commitment because thats what he sees you want

  5. Amy smear

    October 28, 2016 at 9:27 pm

    My boyfriend now ex broke up with me after a year and a half , right before he broke it off with me everything seemed to be fine , he even had plans to take me out the day before he broke up with me ……he wanted to surprise me …we for sure had our issues but what couple doesn’t? We got into a huge fight about something really dumb and he broke it off with me and started seeing someone els but he was already talking to her wile we were together. They were ” best friends” I thought it was kind of off how often they were making each other…he convinced me she meant nothing and he had no feelings for her but obviously if he is already seeing her right after we split he did. I’m just so confused because he told me he wanted kids with me and that he loved me and that he coulnt think of us ever splitting up blah blah blah. What my question is …..is it a rebound if him and this new girl he’s with had already been talking for half the time we were together or does he just not have feelings for me anymore and fell in love with her ? And is it a rebound if he liked her wile he was with me ?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 31, 2016 at 3:50 pm

      Hi amy,

      more like a grass is greener syndrome.. read this one:
      The Grass is Greener Syndrome For Ex Boyfriends

  6. Johnny

    October 27, 2016 at 5:30 am

    My girlfriend of one year and I broke up a month ago. I just found out that within one week she started dating an ex convict. He was incarcerated for 5 years and is on patrol. For context…im a Dr. Also this guy loves motorcycle and going fast, all things she claims to hate in the past.

    Our breakup was very emotional and she has stated repeated that I pushed her away and wouldn’t give her time to think. I agree. Post breakup I apologized, told her I love her and would do anything to have her back in my life. She says we can’t pretend to be same people. If it’s meant to be then it’s meant to be. But now she has to do herself, including her career and dating others.

    What is going on? I fear I’ve lost her forever in this. But I feel like she’s going to cause herself so much heartache and pain because of the type of guy she’s dating. What is this??? What do I do? I love her.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 28, 2016 at 7:49 pm

      Hello,

      Ok, enough with the chasing now.. And given her choice of guy now, it would be easier for you to show that you’re the better one by improving yourself.. Start with the no contact rule of 45 days, (because of all the chasing done) it’s not a punishment, it’s just to help you reverse and change your image in her mind.

  7. Jasmine

    October 25, 2016 at 1:02 pm

    Ok so me and my Ex boyfriend was together for two years we been threw hell in back with our relationship we lost two kids this year lost one in feb and lost one in oct….. on sept 3 2016 we got into a real bad car accident where I had to be in the hospital for three days. After staying in the hospital I moved back to Slidell,La to get back on my feet, we tried the long distance because it was nothing but 45 minutes away but it got frustrating because both of us didn’t have no car… so he decides to block me from all my Facebook accounts except for one.. he also in a. New relationship with another girl and we haven’t been apart for more than a month and 3 weeks…. is he considered to. Be in a REBOUND RELATIONSHIP?…he say he still have feelings for me and love me but he wants Me to get back on my feet??? HELP I NEED TO KNOW SOMETHING SO I WONT GO INTO PANIC MODE

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 26, 2016 at 6:46 pm

      Hi Jasmine,

      You need to go into therapy… yes, the other girl is more likely a rebound.. when did you break up?

  8. Mai

    October 21, 2016 at 2:15 am

    Hi,

    I so confused right know. It’s been 7 months since me and my ex boyfriend broke up but I still love him. We’re been in a happy relationship for almost 5 years and then he cheating on me.

    The new girl and my ex dated for almost 3 months and they broke because the new girl is a jealous and controlling one. In that 3 months we contacted me maybe 3-4 times talking about politics, work, other people but never about our recent break up.

    After they broke up, we start seeing and dating again. I really feel that he is still into me but he also told me that he is not ready to jump into a new relationship. But he want us to do the things only a couple do like sleeping together, kissing, having sex etc… I agreed with the set up cause I really love him. We been in that set up for 4 months no commitment. He kept on telling me that we just enjoy the moment that he just need to resolve some issues in his self and he will be ready to be in a relationship again next year. I know somethings that i been needy and begging that we should be in a relationship again that we must put a label in what ever we have but he kept telling me that i must trust him. I’m also mad at him cause I know he and his ex are still communicating without my knowlegde. He is also texting and messaging random girls he meet online. Then last Oct. 1, he stop texting and talking to me. I really felt that he jump into another relationship with a random girl he meet online. Then last Oct. 6, my instinct was right my ex is in a new relationship with a new girl and tell me that he was sorry for what he did to me. And he also told me than we doesn’t love me anymore that he tried but the feeling are gone. But he still want us to be friends cause i’m the only true friend he had. We still text and communicate specially if he need some help but her new girlfriend don’t know that we are communicating.

    I don’t want to ruin there relationship but I still have a feeling for my ex and he keep in touch with me. I fell that he was so in love with her new girlfriend but why is he still communicating with me? Why is he nice to me? Is this relationship a rebound? or he just ready want to be friendly with me? can exes be friends?

    1. Mai

      October 26, 2016 at 12:45 am

      Thanks for the reply Amor!! I really learned a lot in your website..

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 27, 2016 at 6:59 pm

      You’re welcome Mai! THank you too!

    3. Mai

      October 23, 2016 at 10:45 am

      Thanks Amor for the feedback!!! I will follow your advice and start to improve my self… Do you think my ex and I still have a chance to be together after everything that happened?

    4. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 24, 2016 at 11:23 pm

      there is because unconsciously, he will be comparing the both of you

    5. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 22, 2016 at 5:23 pm

      Hi Mai,

      not if you still have feelings for each other, and honestly, it might be because he wants to keep using you as his friend with benefits.. If you really dont want to ruin their relationship, stop talking to him..

  9. Nik

    October 18, 2016 at 4:20 pm

    My ex and I dated for 1yr…I ended things after a huge fight because he was being extremely verbally abusive.. after the break up he and I kept contact everyday because I still love him and he even stated the same even said that he missed me and he was breaking…he told me hiw he had been drinking more and do drugs to help ease the pain…I found out just 3days after our break up he met someone new..he then began messaging me nasty messeges calling me a cheater and a liar and wvwn went as far as to send me a pic of his new gf in his bed….I have been told they fight all the time. He hasn’t sent me a messege since last Sunday..he is also living with her now because he lost his job and his apartment…is she a rebound or is it more? I do love him with all my heart…and miss him every day.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 20, 2016 at 3:23 pm

      Hi Nik,

      looks like a rebound.. but if he’s being that abusive, I suggest you move on from him..

  10. Crys

    October 15, 2016 at 8:05 pm

    Hi there,

    So my ex and I of 2 years broke up just over 2 weeks ago. Within a week and a half I found out he’s already seeing someone else….(someone his dad’s gf set him up with). I feel like that’s WAY too soon and not to mention..he had told me he loved me when we broke up and a week prior told me he was going to marry me. It’s a long story but essentially we were trying to work through some things and were ready for two different things (I wanted to be serious again and he was scared…essentially). Even the night before I found out he was seeing her, he sent me two pictures of his radio where he was listening to songs I used to sing to him. So he was missing me. When I found out about the girl…I did exactly the opposite of what I should have. I called him and left him a very angry voicemail and then texted him telling him I didnt want him in my life (which isn’t true..well..for the old him. I dont know who this new guy is). I ended up apologizing for being vicious a few days later. I was clear that I wasn’t apologizing for being mad..because that’s justified…but just for being viciuos. Well, the same day I sent it..later on I found out that this weekend he took this girl to a city near by for a long weekend. It was a city that he and I had been talking about doing a long weekend in for the last 2 months. I was hurt, needless to say. And who goes on trips with someone they’ve only been talking to for 2 weeks?? That’s strange from both sides. I know from close sources that he wasn’t talking to this girl while we were dating so I’m just confused and wondering how likely it will be that this lasts? Everything I’m reading says this is a true blue rebound..but I guess I just need to hear advice from someone who knows the specific story. I know ultimately I shouldnt care because I broke up with him…but it kills me him saying he was going to marry me one day..then saying he wasnt ready to commit..then seeing him start dating someone immediately after us…what is going on?

    Thanks for everything you guys do. Seriously.

    Crys

    1. Crys

      October 18, 2016 at 6:04 pm

      I wish I could send you all chocolates. haha You guys have been so helpful for me for so many different topics. Thank you again for your time! <33 And tell Chris thank you for creating this site and being so open with his knowledge. It says a lot for his character and has done a lot for my heart. =)

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 20, 2016 at 4:29 pm

      Thank you too Crys! I’ll definitely tell this to Chris!

    3. Crys

      October 17, 2016 at 2:30 pm

      We never really argued or anything and had a really great relationship. He just afraid from what he tells me. So I guess what I’m really asking is what are the chances it will actually work with them?

    4. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 18, 2016 at 5:21 pm

      I think they dont have a great chance once the honeymoon period ends.. Especially if you kept improving yourself..Because you said you had a great relationship, and you had two years together, so he wont help it to compare her to you

    5. Crys

      October 15, 2016 at 8:25 pm

      and i do realize it could be a grass is greener..but even this. Is it likely to last?

    6. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 16, 2016 at 7:31 pm

      HI Crys,

      Yes, it’s mostly rebound.. But it can be a grass is greener at the same time.. Because he might be thinking she’s better than you.. There’s not concrete timeline.. But the more they spend time together, the more their bond grows.. but it can also mean the honeymoon period can end sooner..

  11. Jessica

    October 14, 2016 at 7:53 am

    So my ex is a girl… but people are alike in general so I’ve been reading a lot of articles on this site. Me and my ex were together a year and a half and engaged unofficially for a year and 3 months and officially for 2 and a half months. She left me and was in a new relationship within 2 and a half months. It’s with someone who she used to “hate” my ex and I still talk a lot and I know she still loves and cares for me. She says her and her new gf are gonna be together forever and they are moving very quickly. But I believe her new gf is jealous of me and of my friendship with my ex. Do you think this is a rebound? They have been together for 2 months now.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 14, 2016 at 4:37 pm

      Hi Jessica,

      looks like a grass is greenery syndrome. Check this one:
      The Grass is Greener Syndrome For Ex Boyfriends

  12. Dee

    October 8, 2016 at 3:45 pm

    I have been with my on/off partner for 19 years. Very close to his family and children. We have had a break before when he started seeing his neighbour. Then she ended it with him after 3 weeks. So we started seeing each other again….had a holiday etc etc. Then he started acting distant again and noticed he was going over to the neighbour chatting etc. He finished it with me and i have heard he is back with the neighbour. Surprise surpries….. Even thou he denies it. So i would say it is a rebound wouldn’t you ?? How do you see that lasting ??

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 10, 2016 at 5:05 pm

      Hi Dee,

      it’s not a rebound.. it’s a grass is greener syndrome.. check this one:
      The Grass is Greener Syndrome For Ex Boyfriends

  13. Mary Garza

    October 5, 2016 at 7:51 pm

    it’s been a year since my ex and I broke up and we’ve been flirting back and forth to the point of chances of getting back together but every time that happened, he would say, “I’m talking to someone new” and 2 months later, he started talking to me again. Last summer, he would invite me to go over to his place and again, we flirted and to the point in planning a trip together. If it was like we were before we started dating. When I finally accepted his offer he asked me, “why are do you want to come over” and I was in shocked. So he decided for us not to talk again and I just let him be…couple of weeks later, he messaged me wishing me a Happy Birthday. Not even a month later, he got into a new relationship and messaged me again asking how was I doing 2 months into his relationship. I don’t know if it’s a rebound or not but I just don’t understand him. He starts the whole flirting and then blames it on me…then he message me again. Why doesn’t he just leave me alone?
    -Mary

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 7, 2016 at 4:06 pm

      HI Mary,

      the question is, are you still going to give him another chance if he contacts you next time?

  14. Jane

    October 4, 2016 at 7:59 pm

    So I started talking to this guy around 4 months ago. It was great and he was great. We started dating a month in. We would talk on the phone for hours and texted every day. A few days ago he started acting weird. He just became distant.He met my family and friends and they all loved him. A month ago after school began again he said we should go on a break because he was having family issues, and he wanted to get back on his feet. So gladly I said okay because I knew that we needed it. We haven’t talked since then.I do miss him and I have the urge to text him every day but I know that I should give him his space, this was all last month. He even said not forever and I do love him more than he knows. At the beginning of last month I learned that he was talking to one of my friends and that they have been talking for a while. And that same friend had asked me herself if I and my ex were still together or talking even when the whole school pretty much knew. Knowing that they were talking made my heart hurt because I did believe that he loved me. A good friend of mine let me know that they had been doing things around school, and hang out in the same places we used to. The girl he’s with now has even texted me, saying she’s sorry, and that she didn’t mean to hurt me, because she considers me a friend. I do love him, but would she be a rebound? Because they’re already doing things that took us a while to reach, and we still have not spoken.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 6, 2016 at 9:37 pm

      Hi Jane,

      I don’t think she’s a rebound.. I think she’s a grass is greener case. check this one:
      The Grass is Greener Syndrome For Ex Boyfriends

  15. AM

    October 4, 2016 at 3:06 am

    Chris Seiter! Thank you!!! You are everything you claim you are. You don’t know it, but you’ve been helping me almost a year and I just grin at how much you have helped me & my family get back together and have changed my life, yes into a very exciting one & changed my families life into a family that will last! You are amazing at what you do! Thanks again.

    1. AM

      October 4, 2016 at 3:08 am

      I also bought your book!

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 6, 2016 at 10:53 am

      Thank you AM! I’m going to forward this to Chris 🙂

  16. Sarah

    September 30, 2016 at 1:33 pm

    Hi,

    So basically my boyfriend and I just broke up like 2 almost 3 months ago. And now, he and my friend started liking each other?? We’ve been dating for half a year, and its just, he told me once that in order for him to move on, he needs to force him self to like another girl. I’m not sure if this is a rebound or not? But my friends have been telling me that it is, because he wants to move on.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 1, 2016 at 3:03 pm

      Hi Sarah,

      yeah, it can be a rebound..

  17. Sugar

    September 27, 2016 at 7:20 pm

    So my boyfriend (now ex) and I got into an argument in June because we would get in like tiny fights that didn’t even matter, and he said I got angry a lot with him. We ended up working things out and it was all good. I think the stress of him being in a full time job, and me trying to take classes and such played a part in that..The next 2-3 weeks were fine, but then another girl entered the picture that I never got a good vibe for. He said nothing was going on between them, but he would always invite her over to his parties and everything. Eventually I got tired of being upset that she was always there and told him to choose between us, and of course he picked me. Yet again, everything was fine for 2-3 weeks, but then he started inviting her again, and I told him I would give her a chance to be my friend, as well to see if she really acted this way towards everyone, because it always seemed like she flirted with him. I agree she kind of does do it to every guy she is with, but it just bugged me that she was doing it to my boyfriend. Well on August 29, we talked things out and what we were going to work on and everything, and things were going good until the next day, I had a stressful day of work and school, and in the middle of it all, I got a text from this girls sister about him possibly cheating and all of that. So when I got off of work I just went off, not thinking before I did so. Well he said he needed to think about this once again, and ended up breaking up with me on August 31. He was still calling me babe until the minute he broke up with me. And we were talking about getting back together, and he was still saying that he loved me and everything. And we did have a serious conversation about cheating, and there was none of that and I do believe that because I have multiple sources, and I believe him as well. Well, I asked if he liked this girl now, and he said “I don’t know, we have a lot in common, and she’s pretty cool, and I don’t know if things will develop from there” and still on September 9, someone asked if he still loved me, and he said he did, but it was too much to handle right now, so I stopped talking to him on September 10 and have been in no contact since, (17 days). Tomorrow marks 4 weeks since we broke up, and he asked that girl out on Friday. And I read somewhere on this site that it is actually pretty common that a rebound relationship takes place about 3 weeks after. September 18 was supposed to be our 2.5 year anniversary, but apparently he took her out on a date that weekend too. We also share some mutual friends, and they said that whenever my name gets brought up, he acts mad. This other girl and I are not very similar at all, she’s kind of crazy, whereas I’m more relaxed (for the most part), and one of my close friends from his school thinks we’re complete opposites. Him and his new girlfriend are posting pictures online and everything, and like using emojis and things to act like they are so happy together. But apparently (through our mutual friends), a few of his guy friends are upset with him, because a lot of girls and guys don’t like them two together, think he’s moving too fast, and they don’t really like the girl he is with, whereas when we were dating, if I wasn’t with him, they would always ask where I was, hoping I would come. I still really care for him, and still love him a lot too. I’m just not sure what to do, and was wondering if you could give me advice?

    1. Sugar

      September 30, 2016 at 7:20 pm

      Update: him and his new girlfriend both blocked me on all social media. I also plan on staying in no contact longer than original, probably until the end of October or so. Do you think I should still contact him then too?

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 3, 2016 at 1:04 pm

      If you’re still blocked by that time then you should extend more but if you’re unblocked, then you can initiate.. Just make sure, that you will make it seem you’re moving on during and after no contact.

    3. Sugar

      September 28, 2016 at 7:32 pm

      I feel like I have improved, my attitude has been a lot better, and I’ve been a much more positive person, especially in these last two weeks.

    4. EBR Team Member: Amor

      September 30, 2016 at 2:18 pm

      That’s good. Continue doing that while building rapport with him but just take it slow. Don’t be too forward because he has a girlfriend. He has to think you’re just being friendly.
      Check this one:
      What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Moves On To A New Girl (Video)

    5. EBR Team Member: Amor

      September 28, 2016 at 6:44 pm

      Hi Sugar,

      The question is, how much have you improved?

  18. WhyMe

    September 27, 2016 at 6:00 pm

    My husband has started dating someone and we are still married. We got into a big fight and the cops were called, which separated us. There has been no contact except him texting when he is not suppose to. To see when he can see our daughter. I have not made any contact with him and very hurt as he started seeing this women less than a few weeks and it seems to be moving very fast quickly. I really don’t know what to do. My mind tells me it is a rebound relationship but how could he do this after 9 years together. Do you have any insight?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      September 28, 2016 at 6:16 pm

      Hi Why Me,

      So, when did you actually break up? If you want, you can try minimal contact. That means you only talk about your child and nothing else. And you just focus in improving yourself and really making it seem that you’ve accepted the situation and moved on and then after that, slowly build rapport and attractions by being friendly..You should read this one:
      How To Get Your Ex Husband Back
      Get Your Boyfriend Back If You Have A Child Together

      You said women? Yeah, that probably means those were just rebounds.. Was the fight the only reason you broke up or because the relationship has been toxic for a while now?

  19. LEXY

    September 27, 2016 at 5:20 pm

    I was with my boyfriend for almost two years, and he even admitted during the breakup speech that it was the best two years of his life. The day BEFORE we broke up everything was perfectly normal. It was his birthday, I bought him a present and we did the usual physical interactions in relationships. We even talked about our future and we agreed on almost all of them. The next day, when he broke up with me, was entirely the same. Until the end of the day when he broke up with me for no apparent reason. He even asked me if I still wanted to go to homecoming with him. Now, I’m fairly certain that he’s been thinking about the rebound relationship before we even broke up. He has been flirting with this girl for a good month ever since he’s met her. But, here’s the funny part. A FEW HOURS LATER I found out from my good friend that he had asked the girl he has been flirting with to homecoming right then and there. Now, four days later, they are dating. I am very certain that they are in a rebound, but that quick? Is it normal for guys to get over it in two seconds and the relationship will still be “just be a rebound”? What do you think?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      September 28, 2016 at 6:09 pm

      Hi Lexy,

      it’s not a rebound. It’s a grass is greener syndrome. He has been flirting with her for a month already. Read this one:
      The Grass is Greener Syndrome For Ex Boyfriends

  20. EBR Team Member: Amor

    September 27, 2016 at 2:16 pm

    I know it hurts but sometimes that also means he was still affected by you which means he still has feelings. So just brush it off.. It doesn’t mean he will stop checking your posts.. He can check it through a different account.

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