What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You On (The Phone, Facebook, WhatsApp, Etc)

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rachel

September 9, 2016 at 1:27 pm

So me and my ex broke up 2 months ago. It has been chaos ever since. He is alwys angry msging me claiming that i have slept with this guy and that. He has a long list of guys that he has made up in his mind that i have slept with. I have tried explaining to him countless times but he doesnt seem to be working. I even read the article that states if i have been falsely accused of cheating.
I have tried everything, i followed that article and not spoken to him for more than a week but i alwys ended up replying to him because of his angry msgs daily.
I got really fedup and i knew where he was working ysterday, i showed up and he wsnt pleased. We had a huge fight, with him walking away and me following him and him throwing his phone and asking me to leave but i didnt. I begged him to make it work with me but he kept refusing and saying he hasnt had feelings for me in a long time even when we were together. It was very hurtful, it ended up with him getting into his car and driving away.
I went home all numb and he continued angry msging me in the middle of the night, he sent me a video of him cutting up our picture together, That really HURT !
He is really angry at me and no matter what i do, he just keeps getting angry at me. He seems so adamant on never getting back together, he is at a point where he hates me ! He has been extremely angry at me for 2 months straight and after last night it got way worst ! Again he deleted my number in front of my face and he has blocked me everywhere including whatsapp now.
What should i do ? Please advice.

EBR Team Member: Amor

September 10, 2016 at 11:52 am

Hi Rachel,

stop feeding the fire Rachel.. I know you’ll keep doing what you want to do and I understand that and I also think that’s the only way that can help you realize that the more you answer, the more you show up, the more you beg, the more it will make him angry or take advantage of that power by continuing to be angry at you.

You basically keep on reacting to him and it’s making him feel good. Take the high road. Ignore and improve yourself. Learn to live life that he’s the only who’s angry.

You’ve explained. That’s enough. Don’t lower your value by continuing to chase him.

Stop reacting to him.. It’s like you keep riding the worst ride in the carnival and expecting it to make you feel better the next time you ride it.

Killian

September 9, 2016 at 12:06 am

So, I had been with my (ex) bf for 9 months and two days ago we got fight and broke up. We were in long distance at that moment. He was very busy at work, thats what he always said to me. He could of worked for 12 hrs or even more. What bothered me was his activities I knew was just work, work, be home, sleep, work, sleep or when he was free he would do shopping (alone). I thought suspiciously that it was impossible he didn’t have time or didnt want to go out with friends on weekend or after worked. And he would of fallen asleep on me oftentimes so we didnt talk much on his workdays. I started questioning if he had lost interest or he was really busy but it seemed ridiculous. Other people I knew who were busy workin still had time to do other activity such hangin out or else. I couldn’t stop being suspicious, it made me kinda feel insecure. And as now we breakin up he blocked me on facebook and whatsapp. And (my bad) I stalked and found that he added a new girl on FB. It honestly made me noticing that whenever I been blocked by him, he would of always added new girl which I didn’t know or never been told who they were. I know this cause we had been on and of and whenever we finally been friend again on fb, I could see he always had new girl friends. I once asked him and then he got mad and said “cant I have new friend? don’t start picking fight.” and reversed situation about me adding new friends and how he wouldnt know what I talked about with them. I’ve been wondering why should he add those people when he blocked me and seemed non active in fb when we were just fine. And do you think it’s okay if I contact one of his friends to ask about him? Do I have to just make a no contact rule? Please help. I dont wonna torture myself by drowing in an extreme insecurity.

Killian

September 12, 2016 at 2:53 am

Ah, too late though. I had already been under rage and nagged him when he unblocked me on whatsapp and questioned him about that girl. He told me he was stupid he added her because he was mad at me and sad cause of our fight. But he didn’t explain it clearly there was some inconsistencies in his story which made me think he lied. But the last time we spoke on whatsapp, he told me that his phone drown into water and he might not be able to text me there and i guess his phone was dead cause I didnt hear any from him for a day. Then yesterday he suddenly unblocked me and messaged me on facebook said his phone screen was black he just could of heard my mssgs, so it indicated he hadnt read the nagging ones. He said he missed me but I ignored him, cause i was hanging out with my cousins. He kept sending me random messages to get my respond, though. And he got nothing so he sent friend request and I accepted without replying his chat yet. But till now I still haven’t talked to him yet or go online on fb. What should I do? I’m kinda worried what if he knew I had sent those mssgs nagging? Should I tell him I was being rude yesterday thru mssgs? Should I continue ignoring him or reply him on FB chat? I’m blank dont know what to do I don’t want to falsely take a wrong response.
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 13, 2016 at 6:03 pm

Ok.. the thing is, you’ve been going back and forth.. If he says, he wants to talk things out, you can break nc.. I think he can let go of the nagging texts because of your silence, because he would think you’ve just had enough and you both need a breather.
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 10, 2016 at 9:16 am

Hi Killian,

don’t contact his friends.. That’s good that you don’t want to drown in insecurity. Keep that mind. Take control of what you can control. Improve yourself and don’t nag him.

Maybe he adds those girls to feel good because he feels bad after fighting with you, and in a way it acts as revenge..

I think you should do at least 30 days of nc..

Lydia

September 7, 2016 at 3:01 pm

What if my ex and I reconciled, broke up again and then I found out he blocked me on Facebook before we had another falling out. Once we broke it off again, he blocked me via Whatsapp (actually he had changed his number and just stopped talking to me via the app). This past weekend, I see that he’s unblocked me from Facebook. What would be his reason for that? I have no way to contact him, and I’m not messaging him through FB.

Lydia

September 11, 2016 at 9:36 pm

Here is our timeline: Met in May 2015. He fell hard for me, told me I was perfect, and wanted to plan an overseas trip with me. 2 months later, after we spent nearly everyday together, I tag him in a picture on Facebook; it was the day of his birthday, and we were spending the day together as usual. After that, not 1 but TWO women contacted me (his ex and at-the-time girlfriend). Needless to say it ended. A year after the devastation, we got back together June 1, 2016. (btw: I knew that I was always on his mind because he kept opening an email communication I sent, literally 400+ times he opened this email. I would always get alerts that he opened it (via Sidekick) after I would post Instagram/FB pics of me at events or during holidays. In June when we reconciled, it was the same situation, him texting/calling me all the time, UNTIL August 12th, I posted a pic of him on Instagram (he is not on Intagram btw). He freaked out, cursed me out (btw I had posted a pic of him on his bday this year and he said nothing). Honestly, I am upset that he is monitoring my social media posts, and acted as if we weren’t back to dating each other; he was the one taking me out to dinners and courting me again. I just feel like he wants to be a player, although he doesn’t like to see me involved with someone else. Even still, I was unblocked from FB last week, but we aren’t friends on there obviously. We haven’t spoken for 30 days. What should be my next step?
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 13, 2016 at 3:02 pm

Oh no. The only reason I can think of why he got mad is because he doesn’t want other girls too see.. Basically that’s what you’re thinking too right? The question is, once you start talking to him again,are you ready to take things slow? And I think you should read this one first: How To Get Your Boyfriend Back If He’s “A Player”
Lydia

September 11, 2016 at 3:47 pm

He is a cheater. I think he blocked me because he got into something with his other ex, although he was taking me out on dates still. I am the one who told him to stop messaging me after the fight. This was via WhatsApp. He told me not to worry about him ever messaging me again. Just last Sunday, even though I don’t have his new number, I saw that he unblocked me on Facebook. Then, on Thursday, he deactivated his account. By Friday, he reactivated his account, and I have remained unblocked. I have refrained from speaking to him for 30 days now.

To answer your question, yes things did move too fast when we got back together. We fell into the same routine.
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 8, 2016 at 2:11 pm

Hi Lydia,

it’s hard to just from that. Did you fight again? Did everything move too fast when you went back together?

Angela

September 6, 2016 at 9:47 am

Me and my bf broke up 4 days ago we were together for 2 yrs we were even pregnant at one stage(miscarriage) I thought we were happy than I found out he was seeing his ex gf behind my back so I tried to break it off but I love him so I took him back on the promise he would never speak to her again 3 months later I find out he’s still with her so break up with him again 3 weeks later he comes to my house breaks my security door so I open the main door and he proposes marriage I say no and ask him to leave he goes and cuts his writs rings me I have to go to his house because I’m so worried I take him back because I love him.
another 3 months goes by and I find out once again he’s back with her I ring her I find out she knew nothing about us being together at all we both break up with him but I think she will take him back because I want him back as well he basically told me I’m way to crazy for him and wished me all the best.
He’s since chanel his number.
Will he contact me again.

EBR Team Member: Amor

September 7, 2016 at 7:09 am

Hi Angela,

I think you need to listen to this. Click it:
EBR 056: My Ex Boyfriend Cheated On Me Multiple Times… What Do I Do?

Tara

September 6, 2016 at 2:31 am

Hi.
I met who I thought was a soul mate (he said the same of me) He really fell hard, and so did I. Unfortunately, it seemed the timing was wrong, I wasn’t ready for a true relationship and he was still separating from his wife. Long story short, our love turned into turmoil and we fought a lot . Finally last dec I broke it off bc of all the fighting. The same afternoon I broke up with him he deleted his FB, and insta and blocked my number. I tried to reach ouch a couple months later (using *67) and he hung up on me. I gave up after that. For a man that said he was so in love with me, Imconfused on why it was so easy to block me?? 9 mos later all internet outlets are still deleted and I’m blocked. Will there ever be contact?? At this point, I love him very much still, but forcing myself to move on BcI have been erased from his life… What do u think he’s think and why the drastic delete all social media forever???

Tara

September 8, 2016 at 7:50 pm

Well, Imonlu blocked by phone. He has deleted! all his social media, so even though I’m posting how fun my year has been, he’s not see it- bc he doesn’t have any social media. So that won’t work…
I’ll read article- thanks!
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 9, 2016 at 6:41 pm

as long as you’re posts are public, he can still see that through a different account.. so continue to be active
Tara

September 7, 2016 at 2:26 pm

I would love to re-establish communication, but do not know how at this point. I’ve done a lot of growth this year, and really felt like we were right for eachother but the timing was not ready…. How should I go about trying to gain contact? (And no, his friends I didn’t get that close to yet, so I couldn’t go through them)
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 8, 2016 at 1:10 pm

Ok, even if you’re blocked continue to be active in social media. The best you can do is to not let him think that you’re going to accuse or attack him. This article is more detailed on the possible reasons on why he ghosted you and what you can do about it.
What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Ghosted You
Tara

September 7, 2016 at 2:10 pm

As far as I no, no. The divorce finalized as we were dating…. I’ve just never had a man completely disappear– he didn’t just block he deleted all social media outlets.
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 7, 2016 at 5:07 am

Hi Tara,

did he get back with his wife? Or maybe he himself, is not ready for a relationship now.

Merina

September 5, 2016 at 11:08 pm

Hi, The situation is that I had a long distance relationship boyfriend, we talked for a a year, and then he said his feelings changed I asked why and he said that cheating (I sent a friend picture in underwear) and other stuff, he said he don’t want me anymore and he blocked me from3 apps we use to use to communicate which are kik, whatsap and skype, also Facebook (because we r in different countries so we don’t text just with our numbers we need the apps). He first started answering between hours :/ finally he told he don’t want me then blocked me on 3 apps except for whatsap y was insisting there but he said the same so a week back he just blocked me from there too… I want him back all this time make realized about my mistakes but idk what to do, I was thinking in send him a letter for his bday something simple.
What else I can do ? 🙁

Merina

September 6, 2016 at 9:50 pm

Hi, i tried To contact him And etc But Then he blocked me Then i found This awesome article. I just read that article you said. And this happened like a week ago so yes I have to wait at least 30 days maybe more but my doubt is if I should send him a card for his bday his bday is in the ends of October and I was wondering if I should or no, because I want to say happybday to him it’s an important day. Thank you.
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 7, 2016 at 10:52 am

Hi Merina,

listen to this one too about birthdays: EBR 057: Birthdays And The No Contact Rule
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 6, 2016 at 6:11 pm

Hi Merina,

Do you want to follow what’s advised above? And you need to read this article too. Click it.
Fix Your Relationship If You Cheated On Your Ex Boyfriend Before Its Too Late (Video)

spice girl

September 5, 2016 at 1:46 am

my ex unblocked finally after six weeks from blocking me . But he didnt talk to me .is this his way of showing that he is over me? Im on the fourth week on my second NC

spice girl

October 19, 2016 at 7:18 am

we talked again . And i said that its not fair being cold just coz i refused something. He said it s ok but that he waited years and it is tiring him. The distance and the no sex thing. I said that i cant be that way with him since i m not sure of his commitement . And this because we have never met. I suggest that we should be just friends and for his ” needs ” he may date others, if he is still available when we meet than we ll see. The thing is i wanna start this relashionship on good basics. Not dragging this on and off thing. Now whats the best thing to do? Going into nc or keeping short conversation with him since we are on friendly terms?
EBR Team Member: Amor

October 20, 2016 at 4:00 pm

You mean like a restart with no sexting? Just start talking about other things and don’t initiate sexting.. if he does, play it and open a different topic..
spice girl

October 18, 2016 at 4:46 pm

hi Amor. I’m updating again since i want people to learn from my mistakes. Applying your advices everything went well. He said he liked me. And wants to be only with me. We planned how and when we gonna meet. Our discussion were very romantic and away from anything sexual since i made it clear i wont be that way. But somehow after few weeks we start sexting . Thats when things went wrong . He was so romantic after that and expressed his commitement in many ways. But then we had a small argument that s when he said to me that i ll be angry and run after him again. I didnt like the way he thinks about me but we somehow made up. Than he said how he likes me and how he has been waiting so much for me.and that he is a guy and has ‘need’ but that he is ok with what i can give him no matter how little. Later i tried to make up for him by sexting again. Even asked him for a shirtless picture to boost his ego.but he asked the same from me i didnt want to so he said our relashionshop isnt equal and that i m leading him. Then gave me the silence treatment. I felt used and i told him that i wont accept being treated like a slut . He didnt say anything after that no matter what i said . I said that this time i wont run after him. Now i just want to move on please help . I even booked the ticket to meet him in his country. Not sure if i should meet him if i go there in a couple of months. Since i ve never met him.
spice girl

October 7, 2016 at 8:26 pm

That is a good one haha 😀 thank you. About his feeling he didnt specify. He just said when i told that i need to go that he gives me all the feeling that he has right now and want me to keep them for our next talk .
spice girl

October 7, 2016 at 4:39 am

Hi Amor. So we texted again and this time he said he missed me and missed talking to me . I had a nice short conversation with him but tried to keep it short. He mentionned in the end his feelings . That scares me since he was moving too fast again and i wanna take things slow as u adviced me to do. But i just don t seem to know the right things to say. And i m restraining myself to not speak about the way he blocked me before and his behaviour toward me in the past. What should i do?
EBR Team Member: Amor

October 7, 2016 at 4:20 pm

what was his feelings? use humor when you’re trying to convey your standards, so that you don’t come across as being a snob.. like if he’s sexual, tell him that, “I know, you miss the boyfriend privelages.. hmmm.. the boyfriend pass might be a little expensive hehehe
spice girl

October 5, 2016 at 10:12 pm

Hi Amor
so to update my situation i exchanged texts with him for few days trying to make them as interesting as i cam. Sometimes he is positive and engaging. Other times he is less. Just when i decided to stop texting to not fall into the neediness trap again he initiated conversation with me for the first time. It was a nice few text but i sensed that he was trying to turn it into a sexual one. I excused myself and left the conversation before it turns out that way. I ve had enough of being treated as an easy woman. My question is how can i turn the convesation not being sexual instead of running. Or let him know i m not that easy woman i used to be before in a classy way ?
spice girl

September 28, 2016 at 8:58 pm

Thank you Amor
I completed the nc periode. Then contacted him two times now. I got positive response in both time. I didnt expect that !
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 30, 2016 at 4:21 pm

That’s very good!
spice girl

September 19, 2016 at 11:05 am

Ok i see. Thank you so much Amor. Honestly i haven t improved as much as i expected during this nc periode. Manly when it comes to career and dating. I m willing to be more disciplined into improvement . Should i complete my 45 nc periode anyway?
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 21, 2016 at 1:29 pm

yeah it would be better if you would
spice girl

September 15, 2016 at 1:56 am

we are both 27 and we have been in ldr on and off relashionship for two years , we were supposed to meet last month for the first time, this was my first relashionship since i wasnt interested in dating before, i m really confused about what to do, we had few argument during this time and the last one was because he was distant and cold and i was needy , i wasnt the ungettable girl , he even forgot about my birthday and didnt feel sorry about it , sometimes he say i m too perfect for him and the next day just treat me like i dont exist, would you share some thoughts with me ?
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 18, 2016 at 11:26 am

I think he’s not serious with you.. Two years and you didn’t meet? And with how he treats you, it’s like you’re just his online gf.. How much have you improved during you nc? And if you are going to talk to him again, take it slow.. Treat it as a restart. That you’re just friends.
spice girl

September 15, 2016 at 1:45 am

Hi Amor
I allready posted a comment few weeks ago when i was still blocked . I just don t find it now. You gave me a nice advice by that time which helped me very well thank you so much
Spice girl

September 10, 2016 at 9:38 pm

Do I still have a chance? Honestly I don’t wanna be do one who reaches first since he was taking me for granted and was disrespectful to me, the thing is it is always me who does the first step , so he is pretty sure I ll do that again, ,last time i apologized for my part of the argument but he just didn’t answer me , I finished 4 week of NC should I go for 45 days and see what happened ?
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 12, 2016 at 10:44 am

I wish I can assure you, but I can’t. Maybe if you can give me more info about why you broke up, how long your relationship were, how old you were, maybe after that I can make a safer guess.
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 6, 2016 at 7:59 am

Hi Spice Girl,

it’s hard to tell it from just.. coz it might show that he’s trusting you’re not going to push it anymore and he is open to being friends again soon

Annie

September 4, 2016 at 3:47 pm

Hi Amor!
He blocked me everywhere, unfriended my friends, then deleted his old account to create a new one with limited friends. At first I was so happy that he didn’t block me again, that I could reach out to him after NC was done, but then again, me being blocked. I know i should give up. I’m seeing someone new now, but all my thoughts and feelings are still for only him. Still crying everyday after all this time… I’m so hopeless. Would you mind sharing some thought?

Annie

September 5, 2016 at 4:30 pm

Thanks for your opinion.
What is the next step I should do then? Just let time go by and see?
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 6, 2016 at 2:44 pm

yes, set a time limit on until when you would wait for him to unblock you. If it’s a month or two and if he does, don’t message him right away, give it more time, so that it doesn’t seem like you’re just waiting for him.
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 5, 2016 at 3:50 pm

Hi Annie,
the only probably reason he would do that is to avoid you chasing him. There’s still a thought in his mind that you would try to win him back..

ANON

September 3, 2016 at 5:56 pm

Hello EBR team,
So I met this guy more than a month ago. We hit it off really well. We were hanging out for a week straight.
The chemistry was extremely high, that we liked each other a lot. Then we had to go back to school (we’re only 10 mins away), and got pretty busy.
I texted him the other week whether he wanted to hang out, then he said he felt guilty that he would not have time for me and that if it’s okay if I could wait till he settles in school. Then he removed me from his snaps, but I did not ask cuz I figured he needed space.
Then yesterday, he texted me and told me he misses me and wanted to see me. So we met. I figured he was so stress and tired. Like his eyes were red, he lost weight and his skin got so dried. But I thought it would be fine and we sort of had fun. Before I went home, I asked him about the snapchat thing, and he got hesitated… When I got back home, he texted me that we should never hang out again, and that he wanted to cut it off. He said he sees no more sparks between us, and said could be his current state of mind. He said he’d get so stress and busy and inviting me over at his convenience would mean using me and he feels guilty. He then blocked me from everything and said if he didn’t do so, he will keep stalking me and that annoys him. I don’t know what to do about this… I am willing to give him space, but cutting off like this is unbearable. It’s so unfair.
PS: It’s his first few weeks in his dream grad school, and it is very overwhelming and it won’t get better until next year.

I don’t know how to react to this.

ANON

September 10, 2016 at 10:55 pm

yes finally did. And the reply was sort of bitter. He just can’t handle this relationship. I guess it’s time to move on. He kept mentioning you’re special and all but I have no time for this.
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 12, 2016 at 12:44 pm

Ok, at least you’ve already started moving on through no contact..
ANON

September 9, 2016 at 10:47 pm

Hi Amor,
I have been thinking and wanting to shoot him an email. I felt like everything happened too fast and we did not communicate well. I don’t think my feelings should be left unsaid as he did not know what my stand was like. I wrote a one page-isa email indicating what happened that I did not understand as well as explaining my feelings. No confrontation, just expressing my stance.
Would that be okay? I can’t do NC when everything was decided by him. I didn’t have a say or fully comprehend :/
I can paste my email here if you’d like to read.
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 10, 2016 at 5:01 pm

go ahead anon..i dont want you to regret not telling him what you fe
ANON

September 5, 2016 at 6:09 am

Hello Amor,
He said we can’t be friend anymore. He said he can’t be friend with someone he had feelings for. But I don’t understand, I don’t get why this has to be so harsh. I am not sure if things will ever going to change. Whether he will ever unblock me and sort things out with me.
Should I catch up with him through email? Or I should be on NC rule until he does so himself?
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 6, 2016 at 10:05 am

Maybe he’s telling the truth or he just really wants to focus in his studies now..that means it would be better to just go nc until he reaches out to you
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 4, 2016 at 6:21 pm

Hi Anon,

Things will not change until next year? Woah.. I do think he needs to focus in his studies right now, and he’s having a hard time trying to balance time with you.. to be honest, he needs to settle in his school first.. he has to find a way to get accustomed to the ways things are, and letting him be for now is the only way you can help him.. I know it’s confusing but when he said he has to stop stalking you, that means he thinks of you. That’s good news but it’s just not the right time for him

angel

September 1, 2016 at 6:05 am

I was officially engaged with a boy..but he broke up after 10 months saying I am very uncontrollable and I fight a lot.
I am extremely panic and suspicious.
and all this is true.
I begged and cried a lot that I will work on myself.
and I sincerely tried.
I apologized continuously for 1 year..
but he is saying he and his family members cannot belive me.
he says he loves me..but he cannot trust me.
and his whole family is extremely against me.

what should I do??
I have changed lot in myself..
I use to keep silence.
I don’t suspect,don’t fight,i don’t say any bad words to anyone.
but then too he don’t trust me.
in this past 1 year after our break up he came 4 times to me saying he loves me..and he will marry me..but after 1 month he says he cannot marry me because his parents are still not agree.
every time he says the same.
I always say please come to me when your parents are agreed..
but he don’t listen my that part.
according to him..I am foolish and mentally disturbed.

EBR Team Member: Amor

September 1, 2016 at 2:15 pm

Hi Angel,

how old are you both? and when was the latest time he broke up with you?

Ready to sort this out

August 31, 2016 at 10:13 am

I need some advice. We split up 5 weeks ago.. he told me he didn’t love me enough. Prior to tht we spent lots of time together but he had spent a few months trying to sort his head as hed left his job and didn’t know what to do with himself. We had been together a year and got on really well. Rarely argued and found each other a calming influence on the other life. I managed 2 weeks on no contact and then it all went downhill… I hadn’t eaten or slept properly and was on night shifts and when tired and emotional I texted him. I poured everything out about how much stuff id been through and how I missed his friendship and told him I just didn’t want to be here anymore. He contacted my mum and we sat down to talk and I aired all the concerns off my chest. I apologized to him and he seemed to be understanding and I continued to try and keep myself busy. A week later again I did found out he was on tinder after telling me he needed to be alone for a while. Again I lost my mind and same thing happened again, only this was worse I told him I was going to hurt myself and made him believe that. I lied and he found out and now he is so angry with me. I asked for forgiveness but he says I have lied too much and he cannot forgive me right now. He says I have made him angry and hes not an angry person at all. He has blocked me from facebook and after I sent him a message saying that I would rather have lost and loved than never to have loved at all and that I wouldn’t want to be as alone as he is (he has no friends. This is not an over exaggeration either. No friends at all) he has now blocked me on whatsapp, I think I have finally accepted that it is over and im ready to deal with these feelings and get on with my life but I do worry about him and hate that he is so angry with me. Id like to know what to do in the future (im prepared for no contact now if only because I have no other choice) to try and repair the damage so that there could be an amicable friendship because I really am not sure right now if I want him back or not but I do feel as though we could be good friends to each other. I cannot bare the thought of someone feeling like I am a psycho or a liar purely because I acted on hurt feelings and emotions that don’t normally consume me. I had an out of body experience where I didn’t recognize the person acting the way she was and now that I feel clearer and regretful I need to understand how to make some of it right.
Can you help at all?

Ready to sort this out

September 5, 2016 at 11:57 am

Do you think I should send a letter to apologise?
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 6, 2016 at 11:45 am

nope..
Ready to change

September 2, 2016 at 10:13 am

We have no mutual meets or friends and he’s blocked everything… how will I let him see that genuine change if there is no areas in common?
I am seeking someone to talk my issues out and am ready to move forward. But it’s hards knowing I’ve caused so much distress.
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 2, 2016 at 6:03 pm

continue in being active in social media even if you’re blocked.. coz there’s still a possibility that he will be curious.. especially when you stop chasing him.
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 31, 2016 at 3:28 pm

Hi Ready to sort this out,

let time do it’s thing.. if he sees your genuine change then he might take a chance on being friends again

Angry lday

August 28, 2016 at 9:19 am

Hi amor, so iwent with my cousin. And he is in san diego like i said. And he rrunk texted me. Saying “i hate thinking about you when im drunk, sorry i know you dont want to hear from me… ugh… sigh forget i said anything”… i am not replying tonight. But should ireply in the am? Or in a few days? And should i say “ok” or should i say “ok if you want me to” ? Help udk how navigate this

Angry lday

August 31, 2016 at 5:56 pm

Thank you Amor you have been so much help. Sigh yeah who knows what type relationship he has woth this girl and i hipe none really. I’m praying he doesnt poat anything with her. But i will contact again today and ask how he is doing and how his son is doing, hopefully he continues the convo… wish me luck.
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 1, 2016 at 11:58 am

YOu’re welcome! Good luck!
Angry lday

August 31, 2016 at 3:14 pm

Yes, i have kept them up. I think he texted me cus he saw pics of me out with my cousin. I have been doing dance classes, hanging out with my friends, i joined dating site and went on a date etc. Should i ask him how he is doing? He doesnt ask me he just gives me neutral response the last two texts i initiated. I don’t know how to get to want to engage. I did get that drunk text.. which i guess is negative but i took as positive cus at least he thinks of me. I need help, how do i get him to engage in conversation?
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 31, 2016 at 5:09 pm

For me it’s positive too.. it’s just that if he is thinking of you but he wants to have problems with his relationship now, he would really be distant to stop starting a problem with his current relationship…

but if he constantly sees that you’re just being friendly because you’re not asking him to come back and just living life, then he would more likely be enagiging to talk
Angry lday

August 30, 2016 at 5:21 pm

Well i replied the next day and just said no worries and changed the subject about a singer we bith liked passing away. He gave me a nuetral response and i just commented “lol ok” and that was it. Ive read the texting bible and im have a hard time creating a conversation longer than two texts. And well obviously whe he finally messaged me it was a drunk negative text, though im not going to lie i got excited and took it positively, like at least you think about me. Lol how can i create a longer conversation? I dont know if he was with this girl this past weekend and the long weekend is coming up so she might go to see him im assuming sonce he went out of town last week and he needs to spend time with his son, which then means she will meet his son if she hasnt already. I really want to get myself more present in his mind this week before the weekend. Help please.
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 31, 2016 at 2:00 pm

how are your activities? did you continue them? DId you continue being active in social media now?
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 30, 2016 at 1:10 pm

be light always.. use humor.. use that topic to start a text. like “hey! it’s nice to hear from you! or more like read from you haha! how’s San diego?”

Ash

August 26, 2016 at 4:26 pm

My ex of 6 years and I broke up a little over a month ago. We were fighting a lot and he said he was resentful and not in love with me anymore. Shortly after the breakup I started using an App that we had both used years before (a weight loss app). A week or so after I started using it, it started to show up on my newsfeed (we were friends in the app) that he was using it as well. We both continued to use the App for about 15 days and then suddenly I noticed that he removed me as a friend on there. What does this mean?? I am not blocked from anywhere else.

Angry lday

September 1, 2016 at 8:36 pm

Um i think i messed up. We actually got a convo going but i think i left it going too much. I hope not. Im not responding now. But we spoke a lol yesterday very nice and i cut it off. But then i text him at midnight while i was out dancing he responded at 1:30am asking why i wasnt dancing… i responded at 9am why wasnt he. So he explained he thought he saw me at the club. He knows it wasnt me… but i came back woth witty remark of perhaps it was me… he just sent an lol and i continue the witty banter by say it was an imitator not the og me… he laughed. And said he thought it was me and i said “you forgot what i look like already” he said no not at all… and then he text that its weird cus the friend of girl look like my friend i was out with also… to which i replied “sounds like wistful thinking” he said”lol whi knows” then he said the only reason he didnt think it was me was cus the girl didn’t dance. I replied youre right its giveaway, im not the type to just look cute at club, i have to be in pain to not dance and get sweaty” and he replied “yes i know”….. so that was alot of back and forth. And now im scared i did too much too soon? Text count is him 13 texts to my 10texts. And yesterday was 8texts each of us. Did i play this wrong? Did i send too many texts? I havent replied and there isnt anything to reply to. Should i text tomorrow or wait till after the weekend?
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 2, 2016 at 2:07 pm

That was a good convo.. Try again this weekend
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 30, 2016 at 10:32 am

Hi Ash,

that’s good because that means he’s still affected by seeing your progress

Angry lday

August 25, 2016 at 10:25 pm

Hi,
So i texted again. If you remember on the 17 i sent my 1st text after nc and he reaponded well and friendly. My 2nd was 2 days later on 19th but he did not respond you said it wasnt interesting enough. So today i sent another one about his fave band being in coceet. He responded and said thanks, i said your welcom and that was it. I wanted to ask how he was but didnt know if i should since i sent a “your welcom text”. And i just went on his fb we arent friends but its public and he posted mood to heart broken. I know its not about me. I also noticed that i sent him message like 5mins after he posted do you think he thought i saw it prior to sending him the text? And i am actively reading texting bible, but im not sure how to build rapport? So far he has mainly been non responsive or nuetral? How can i get him to ask me how i am doing? Or should I ask? I know he is ging t SD and maybe with that girl this weekend. Should i text this weekend again or wait till he gets back? Or text him tomorrow?

Angry lday

September 20, 2016 at 7:08 pm

Yes, he is just not into me… and just wants sex. And im pretty sure told me about the song so i can think he is thinking of me since Thursday dancing that song he supposedly never heard… well im not messaging him today. We’ll see if he is inclined to go dancing tomorrow like he suggested last week.
Angry lday

September 20, 2016 at 1:34 am

Wow ralk about mixed messages. Or just me reading too much into things. So he messaged me random, talking about weather in my city, i asked he said he was in town but already heading but that he had to come back later. I said lmk when you do. He did and said some bout he would hate to live here again not directly telling he was in my city. We had a lil convo where he slipped in a song we dnaced to last thursday that he had never heard it and he hasnt stopped listening to. I said yeah its a great son… i asked if he was headint back and he said yes! So twice he came to town and twice he didnt want to see but made sure i knew he was hereand that he didnt want to see me… he said he got done woth his errand later thab he thought and he still had stuff to do back at work. We live an hr away from each other. So yeah if he really wanted to see me he would have made time. Sigh am i reading too much into it? I mean what would ten mins take away? Its said if they really want to spend time they would make time. I did say wow ok, and its cool no need to expalin, he asked why wow ok and i said nithing and lol he just said ok,b i then said have a safe drive. I know i should not have shown my irritation but i tried to cut back on it and not say why it bothered me. But he also said he has been listening to that song since we danced it… he did this all time since we met, he wpuld say to let me know he was thinking of me. Mixed mesagges or just me being over analytical?
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 20, 2016 at 10:36 am

Let’s say that it’s still a good sign that he informed you. Because that means he’s not scared that you would expect him to see you. But it’s just that he’s not that into you, to really make time for you. But it’s still a good sign that he informed you
Angry lday

September 19, 2016 at 5:40 pm

So should i ask about this girl? I know she still has it on her ig page those relationship emoji and his name next to it. Im not sure if he is still thinking of coming this Wednesday dancing since he said he couldn’t last Wednesday and since we saw each other last Thursday and well you know what happened. Anyway, if he does come should i bring it up when he tries to kiss me? Luke should i ask why he says he is not in relationship but she thinks they are? And should i tell him how u feel about who the person is? And i didnt message him at all yesterday and he didnimessage me either. Idk if i should message him today or do what the article on “of i slept with bf” says to do. I know we didnt have sex but i slept at gis place and there was heavy makeout session woth petting again not sex though. But i do feel its all he wants and since he doesn’t see that girl often i feel he is talking to her daily and he said he had expenditures which i think means he is saving to go see her and spend a weekend wit her smh…i need help. Im trying to follow the texting bible and ex pro but idk. Should i bring her up to make sure he understands that im not going to be the other woman and to not lie about what it is with this other girl?
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 19, 2016 at 6:46 pm

When children try to cover up their mistakes, they tend to say they didn’t do it. It looks like that when you try to say you’re not the other girl. If it is really not an issue, if it doesn’t bother you, that means you won’t care to talk about it. If you are trying to be the ungettable girl, you have to avoid looking the like the jealous girl. If it really needs to be talked about, that means you have to do it personally. So that you can choose the best time and mood.
Angry lday

September 18, 2016 at 7:43 pm

So we messaged back abd forth yesterday but it was mainly me asking questions and seeing how his son was. He said he was has a lot of expenditures i asked if ut was him getting a car he not yet, so i have a feeling he is saving ti gi and see that other girl, she still has him on her ig profile like if he is her bf. e has nothing of her and remember like i said on Thursday he made sure i knew that other girl ruth was just a friend and that he had talk to her about me in this time of break up. I feel our convo yesterday was just me trying to keep is going. He fell asleep and and said something in response to a comment i made but i really just thought we were done with the convo. He said he hasn’t been sleeping weel for a while now and i asled why he said he didnt know i said i think he does and asked again with a funny emoji he laughed and said no that he didn’t know, not that he wont tell me. I think he knows and just wont tell me. I said ok ill give him some tea i drink see if it helps. And that was it. I didnt say good night neother did he. He mever says good morning or goodnight actually. I feel he is not interested in me and just wants sex. Im not giving into that. I feel wheb we are togther he is all about me but i think because of sex. I really need to get out of this and become the ungettavle girl. And get him to chase me? I feel like since he doesnt see that girl often cus she lives so far he wants her more again she os very pretty. Sogh how do i get him to chase me, text me more interesred in me? I reread text bible and idk how to apply some of the things in there,NV like getting him to want more?
Angry lday

September 17, 2016 at 10:42 pm

Also i think he is going to see that girl, she still has his name on her ig but he made sure i knew jis froend was a frirnd. He has not brought up that girk that lives far but i yhink je is making olans with her. He said he wasnt going to see his fave band because he had a lot going on i asked what he said he meant he had a lot of expenditures… when he did that with me it was cus we made plans to go out of town. So how should i get him to talk to me more? Like how do i get him to tell me about his stuff?
Angry lday

September 17, 2016 at 6:22 pm

Thanks. I guess im just having a hard time because he doesnt initiate convo alot. We spoke thursday and i asked if he was going to this celebration at a club and he said yeah and if i was going to go and i said i didnt know. He said he hasn’t asked his friends but i said im sure they would go. He said he would ask his friend ruth i said there you go 🙂 he then replied she is just a friend that its wasnt like that he is not in relationship that he didnt want me to think that… i said i dont need an explanation. He said he wanted to ask me but felt awkward. I was like if he really wanted me to go he would ask. So he did and i went. It was a lil awkward at first. I met his friend ruth and he proceeded to tell me she know who i am. That he talked to her about me so if she is extra nice its cus of that. I didnt say much and he just said she helped him putting things into perspective… idk what he means by that and i didnt ask cus i didnt want to talk about us in a club. He was treating me as a friend until we started dancing, thats our thing. He started holding my hand and locking fingers and holding really tight and when we hugged again long lingering… we eventually started making out. I did go home with him. I told i was not having sex with him and i did not have sex with him. But we did play, no sex though. It was mainly him all over me trying i guess and getting real hot and heavy and then pushing him off. We fell sleep hugging each other…. ok so next day i left. He kissed me. He texted to see if made it ok and we flroted a lil. Then nothing whole day till evening and it was one text. I texted a lil and then he sent a message saying one of our fave artist would be at this club far from him not so much from me. I said i knew and if he was going he said prob not cus it was too far for him to drive back, that club is closer to that girl though. So should i asl if he wants to go with me? And have i lost value cus i slept with him again no sex though?
Angry lday

September 15, 2016 at 7:02 pm

Ok so im doing a bad job. He messaged me, asked me how was my night, i made him wait a cpl hours before responding. We talked mainly me asking questions and he didn’t ask me. I just divulged about work and then i ended it by saying that he is busy so ill talk to him later. Not sure when i should message again or about what. Or how to get him to chase! Im doing my best to follow the text bible and ex pro but i feel like i suck…
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 17, 2016 at 2:18 pm

use your gut feel.. if he’s messaging make the most of it and make it fun.. and then if he didn’t rest a day.. Be interested in him.. remember, you’re the one who wants to build rapport. So, expecting him to be more interested at you would really be disappointing if he doesn’t. If your activities are what interests him, he would really ask but if not, he wouldn’t.
Angry lday

September 15, 2016 at 2:32 pm

So i messaged him last night just saying “too bad you couldn’t come, but then again im sure you are well entertained. Have fun , be safe”. I know it was bad ugh. Well he didn’t message me at all yesterday or day before. And did not even look at mesage i sent last night. Im not going to message till perhaps sat but idk what to send. Any ideas?
Angry lday

September 14, 2016 at 3:28 pm

Should i message him tonight to try and see what it is that he is doing and get him to think of me?
Angry lday

September 13, 2016 at 3:39 pm

So i feel like im chasing him. He is being flirty and responding to texts. But yesterday he messaged me in reponse to a text i sent him the day before. I invited him to dance and wednesday and he just said “i dont think i want to watch you dance with other guys, plus o can’t this Wednesday ” he did say why he couldn’t. I just said replied why would i dance with other men and he said cus im going to dance…. i just said im inviting him… and then he said next week and i said it won’t be the type of music we dance to… he said lame, and i just said no worries and ended the convo. I can’t help but wonder if he is going out with this girl. Sigh…. oh he did insinuate that he isn’t worried about anyone finding his texts in regards to the night we sexted, bht he started it off with sigh, and i know it waseamt for me to feel bad cus im assuming he is in relationship. But again o feel im chasing, i initiated noce conversation twoce yesterday he only did once and kinda cus it was in response to something from night before….. how do i get him to initiate and chase me? Should i go a gew days without messaging. Him?
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 14, 2016 at 3:10 pm

Oh, not initiate flirty texts for now.. Yup rest for a few days.. End the convo in a way that he would like to talk about it again in the next day..
Angry lday

September 12, 2016 at 10:01 pm

Thank you so much. And just clarify, i shouldn’t initiate texts altogether or i shouldn’t initiate flirty texts?
Angry lday

September 12, 2016 at 5:50 am

So he met up with me and my friend after show we went to. And everything was good we talked laughed and danced. Then the drink kicked in and we made out. He said he missed me, i looked beautiful as always, and then i went home and somehow we sexted! I know bad! Today he responded to texts and was flirty also but i initiated it. So how do i rectify this mistake?
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 12, 2016 at 8:52 am

yep..dont bring the other girl up.. even if it’s not a date, use the meet ups to build up more rapport.. dont sleep with him.. and just cut back on initiating flirty texts..flirt back but use humor to sway the topic away from it and to convey that you’re not in it to be friends with benefits..

like, I know, I know I was great! that’s part of perks of being my bf..vip experience only hahaha! in fairness, dont worry you performed more than on what’s expected 😉
Angry lday

September 10, 2016 at 4:16 pm

So this isnt a date, and would be 1st time we see each other. Should i cancel? My friend will be with me, he is meeting at a reggae club after the show. Whatt should i do? I dont want to make mistake of moving too fast, technicaly in lasts days of texting i text more giving him power and try take back. I know dancing was always an attraction with us, should i see him or cancel?
Angry lday

September 10, 2016 at 3:30 pm

You are right i am al over place. She will not be there and he still hasnt said he is in relationship with her. He sent me a message about his son again yesterday saying his son heard the song “we dont talk anymore ” and said it should be our song cus we dont talk. I replied saying son is smart and i miss his son, also tried to make conversation but he never replied back…. also that girl will not be there today. I will be going to concert with friend and meet him after. And i would never apologize to her…. so you are saying don’t bring her up? Just focus on being pleasant?
Angry lday

September 10, 2016 at 6:02 am

Should i cancel? If not how do i make him attracted to me and make him focus on me and nkt think of this other girl?
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 10, 2016 at 1:26 pm

okay.. you’re all over the place now girl… Relax.. and stop thinking about the other girl.. YOu can’t control her. DOn’t apologize to her as well.. It might make your ex when you start talking to her.

Don’t over think, don’t worry, and don’t over apologize.. Review this video and follow what’s advised there:
What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Moves On To A New Girl (Video)
Angry lday

September 9, 2016 at 10:37 pm

He replied, just said to let him know when im out the show…. did i screw up and rush yhis meet out of fear ?
Angry lday

September 9, 2016 at 9:16 pm

It did send. So i told him i would be near him if he wanted to meet up. He hasnt answered. If he doesnt respond or say no what should i do? Did i rish this from a lil panic? How do i cirrect this? And did i mess up my opportunity? If he says yes what should i do? Act wear? Sigh i need help.
Angry lday

September 9, 2016 at 9:05 pm

Ok last night we texted a lil and i initiated. I was a lil tipsy. I said sorry for being late he said no need. Then i said “smh, if you knew you’d know” then texted “night” and he just said ” ok that confusing. what you talkint bout”. Then he said “wow, sigh ok whatever night” so he got a lil upset or frustrated. I apologized today and he said no worries…. from my other message i saw that girl add his name again plus this emogi and the blue heart. Not the other emogi as i said this had to happen last night or today, remember she removed had removed his name sunday or monday. So i guess i panic, and i texted ” i just dont want to cause you any issues” i then change subjuect and said i always remember him when i see bad paint job on car (he paints cars) he replied “lol” and i then sent him a funny thing on messenger but he didnt reply, i then messaged him saying i would be in his area tomorrow but it didnt send. Should i send again
Angry lday

September 9, 2016 at 7:34 pm

Ok, so this girl had taken off his name from her ig a few days ago, im assuming when my ex tagged me on a video of his son. And now she put it back on with the emogi of the man and women woth heart in between and his name on there again…. he hasnt put anything on his things. And i really want to say im sorry for texting so late or something like that , i didnt want to cause any issue with you girl…. should i? Should i tell him ill he out near him tomorrow? I need help.
Angry lday

September 8, 2016 at 9:43 pm

Ugh, so i have already sent him two things that would interest him , he responds but nuetral. How do i get more? Or should I back off? Yesterday he sent me video of him dancing..
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 9, 2016 at 2:23 pm

That’s a positive message.. you could have given better reply though.. and I think you should use topics that are about him..
Angry lday

September 8, 2016 at 1:15 pm

So idk how to gauge this. Im trying to follow text bible but its hard. He iniated contact by send me a video of him dancing to rihana “you needed me” i played as if i was busy n would look later. Bout hr later i replied with great job, i always like how he dance and 1 of my fave songs. He replied “yeah i would assume you be into song” i said that i always enjoyed watching you dance…. i fugure perfect time for compliment text. Then i sent him a text saying i gifted myself a skydiving pass he said cool, i said i scared and that i didnt know what i qas thinking he said “lol i get it” that was it. Later in day i sent him a pic of me, tried to do it not sexy but a lil enticing nothing overly too much the pic was to show that i was really sweaty after dance and i caption “love hate with dance” he said its good i became active and it upset me a lil but i kept my cool n said i had started in april when physical therapy said i could… he said cool i said lol. We were together then, i would tell him i was working out so it pissed me off he knew i had started exercise. Ok then i sent a pic of machine i do for back, he asked if it was worse i said no and and explained how it was. He said as long as its progress, thats was that. The i sent a video of a prank and i saw him doing it he said yeah he would. I said that was wrong he said but funny, this exchange was at midnight, i said night have fun be safe (assuming he was out dancing ) he didnt say he wasn’t out just replied at 1:30am “night”. So i think he was trying to brag again with dancing video and wanting a compliment but then it felt like i kept trying to make conversation and he wasnt into keeping it going…. idk how get him more involved. I like he initiated today but it was with video. What should i try? Oh and this past monday he had tagged me on his son video on ig and i noticed yesterday that girl took his name and the heart off her ig profile… i know he is still liking her pics and they still talk, probably him initiating…. how do u get him more focsed on me?
Angry lday

September 6, 2016 at 10:08 pm

Thank you so much for all your help! He messaged me a lot yesterday i think he even tried to make me jealous. We mainly spoke of his son. And dancing came up and he said “ive been able to practice with other women also since they let me lead”… hontong tht i never let him lead and is getting better at dancing what we loved to dance. I just replied i thoight i was good that we all need to lwarn more. He then said he os sure i am dancing and learning with people who live by me. I said i was learning but that i was never bad at. Then i think he was fishing for a compliment, cus he said “sorry for hindering you dancing… you did dance different with other guys”. Now here is whereim not sure if i said the right thing. I said “no ever hinder me i hinder myself” he said sorry i said “well you did by hurting my back during sex”… he laughed and said “sorry for hurting your back, i just wanted you so bad that i couldn’t control how intense i got”.. i replied its fine i like so i endured… and he said didn’t seem like it, i said i know he is lying now… i quickly said “ill let you go i don’t want to get you in trouble ” he said “why would i, perhaps its you didnt know im sorry ” i laughet and said no, he said why im assuming he isnt in any relationship that i know him better then that and said “if you really knew you’d know” i just well a lil bird told me he said “i don’t you as the type to listen to others” i said it was more then words… and. Changed subject quick, but he said he driving back from vegas with his son so he text me when he got back and he did text me that his son really misses me and isaid i know me too. And juat a cpl texts today, nothing deep like yesterday or day before. So i thinki messed up a lil by bringing ul the other girl and by not ending convo on a high note. I was thinking of not initiating texts for the rest of today and tomorrow and hopefully he will, and also trying to incorporate old feelings memory texts like its says in text bible, what do you think? Or should iback off for a more days?
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 7, 2016 at 10:56 am

nope, it was a good talk.. yeah you can rest from initiating today and tomorrow.
Angry lday

September 5, 2016 at 3:52 am

Wow, i just read what the song mean and its really messed up. I feel like such a fool. Why in world would he be so disrespectful? The rapper is pretty much talking bout a bunch of exes. Which is fin whatever but its so wrong. Pretty much saying you lost what you had ti the ex, that she wishes she had what the new one has, calling her a hoe, that he flips her off. That the ex messed up and is pathetic enough to try come around, that he flaunts the new girl , to stay focused on the new girl…… wtf am i doing? Why am i trying with someone who would post that about someone he said he loved, he said he is the man he is today cus of her? I get he broke up with me but why be so mean? And then in the texts be chill?
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 6, 2016 at 7:00 am

Let’s say that is really directed from you, then it’s more probably a reaction of what his current girl might have said. Just don’t follow through that thought. Yeah, rest for a week or two, be active in your life
Angry lday

September 5, 2016 at 12:15 am

Thanks… im sorry i know im being a gnat on here and i truly appreciate everything. But something happened. My friend accidently hit follow on the girl he is seeing ig yesterday…. she has unfollowed her already cus i noticed it and told her to unfollow. Im sure this girl told my ex and i know this girl accpted her request because she saw it was my friend. Sigh… so now this girl knows i know about her. Also my ex sent me a text today about a concert by his house, like i told him about hos band, i said cool thanks he said your welcome.that was at 1pm. Then at 3pm he posted an very disrespectful rap called “addicted to my ex” whic lyrics say im addicted to flexin onmy old h**s, hand me down arent worth more than my clothes…. it goes on to say ” im ight f**k but keep on down low, flex on her every time she text hold up bitch” it says “she say i aint shit but she on my dick shut up bitch” goes to say “i would never go back to her unless she sucks me like dracula, listen im tellin ya” and song says that he take his new girl to all old places he used take the ex, the he stick middle finger to the ex…. the sang says alot of disrespectful stuff. And im like wtf. Is this direcred at me? I really have not done anything to make him post this rude ass song. And im thinking if maybe the girl told him about my friend following her? He posted that song 2 hrs after send me the text about the singer i like being in concert next to his house. Should i not twxt him at all for the whole week? I even feel disguted. Not to mention the girl is now being more active in his posts
Angry lday

September 4, 2016 at 4:42 pm

So for some odd reason i drunk text him a random question at 2am… then i said sorry for text soo late that i know he doesn’t want to hear from me. He replied positive, said lol answered and said thats random. I said yes sorry wont bother you, he “well not bothering bot OK be safe wherever you are” i said you too wherever you are good night, he replied goodnight….. so i think when i go out im not going to take my phone. I am becoming reckless. So since this wasnt exactly good on my part you think i should wait to text again. But how long for this type of mess up?
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 4, 2016 at 6:53 pm

relax.. he didnt react negatively.. he even kind of wanted to know where you were.. I’m not saying you should repeat it but you have nothing to worry about it.. back to normal 😉
Angry lday

September 3, 2016 at 6:30 pm

Im going a lil crazy thinking he might be with that girl this weekend. I know he posted “feeling broken” on thursday night and hasnt posted anything else on fb or ig. I know he probably is on snap but i cant see that… should i hint that i know he is with her? Like should i slip something about maybe like not wanting to upset his gf? Or not mention her at all?
Angry lday

September 2, 2016 at 2:23 pm

Sorry correction he post his mood “felling broken ” his comment was “taking to the moon”….. last week was just moon “felling broken “…. agaij i thought was about that girl but she still has his name on her ig….
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 2, 2016 at 6:15 pm

Try Sunday.. so, that’ you don’t overdo it..
Angry lday

September 2, 2016 at 2:18 pm

Ugh i messed up! I saw he posted he felt heart broken again and that “talking to the moon” around 11pm. He posted that last week also, i thought it was about that girl but idk because she still has his name on her pig profile … but i thought let me send him something idk why…..i sent him a video to show his son pretty late, he only responded once with 2 texts, i replied and he didn’t ugh! Should i leave him alone the whole weekend or still text this weekend but perhaps Sunday instead?
Angry lday

August 27, 2016 at 3:45 pm

Oh and you said ne perceptive if he doesnt want to talk, do you mean if i feel he doesnt want to talk to just leave convo or to get the hint and move on and not try to get him back anymore?
Angry lday

August 27, 2016 at 3:42 pm

Thanks for responding. I haven’t text yet cus i know he is in sd with his friend for friends bday. Im pretty sure that girl is there so i dont want my text to backfire and make them closer. So my question next week im going to implement start of tide. Should i ne sending a “first comtact” type text again? And if he responds positive / nuetral should i further convo by asking how he is? How do i create a convo?
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 27, 2016 at 1:30 pm

he’s not going to ask about you.. first because he has already moved on, 2nd because he doesnt to cause a fight if the new girl sees he’s asking how you are, and 3rd he may not be sure yet if you’ve really moved on because of your history and he doesnt see you dating others..

it’s ok to text tomorrow and the next day, just set your expectation that it would really take time and be perceptive if he reacts like he doesnt want to talk to you

Tania

August 24, 2016 at 9:33 am

I will just quote Chris writing on this subject:
“I don’t care if I get him back or not but I am going to become so incredible that when he is on his deathbed and looking back at his life he will say to himself, I made a mistake letting her go.”
This is my mindset at the moment and I’ll continue so. He did not block me on FB, he just unfriended me today, 3 months after the break up. I remember his vacations would start this week so I’m pretty sure he unfriended me when he had some free time to check his social media.
anonymous

August 22, 2016 at 6:56 pm

Hi, my ex has blocked my calls, texts, FB messages… everything except maybe email (I haven’t tried yet). I’m really surprised because I did NC for 45 days so I didn’t think he would block me on anything at all. It’s nearing 2 months since the breakup. I want to send him something that will make him think of unblocking me without sounding like I’m begging him or resulting in pushing him over the edge to completely delete me from Facebook. Should I be apologizing in the email? He also still has a few things that I’d like to get back from him… should I bring it up in the email or should I wait for another time to do this?

EBR Team Member: Amor

August 23, 2016 at 4:57 pm

Hi Anonymous,

dont apologize.. hmm..why did you break up?

Roudy

July 23, 2016 at 11:30 am

Hi,

I have been with my boyfriend 8 years
I was tired of waiting for the propsal so i had a fight with which ened on the break up
It was not our first break up and he expressed on the last time that he can’t tolerate this behavior anymore
So this time he blocked me everywhere except on snap chat but I guess he is that familiar with.
We didn’t live together or anything but the marriage talk was always there but nothing happened more than the talk.
Given the number of years we where together our finances were involved too.
I have been doing the NC for a week now and i am still blocked, however i need to get my money back
He never took my mobey but i used his card to pay for some air tickets then I requested a refund
The refund was taking too long abd he had to pay the card so i ened up paying the money to him.
Now i found out that the refund was done to his card.
What shall I do?
I want him and i want the money back

EBR Team Member: Amor

July 23, 2016 at 2:26 pm

hi Roudy,

you can contact him for the money.. but talk only about the money.. and do it calmly so he would respond

Angry lday

July 21, 2016 at 12:06 pm

So my ex blcked me from face book. This is pretty much full block. Idk if he blocked my texts. And i guess i could send him ig messages but not sure necausw we stop following each other there. He also unfriended my cousin, we are together on vaca at momemt. He also posted on fb that “there nothing like woman being kitchen with her motherearning to cook #mexicanwoman ” iam not mexican which he liked at one point. And i think he did this in respond to a repost i did about i was choosing me, that im not here to please anyone else in anymore but to just be the person i am whether make someone angry or not. I wasnt even think of him when i reposted but i can see why he would think that or get angry. Sigh so i guess i have messed up all chnaces and not only that but he is being a dick and throwing low blows on fb. He put that about want the woman to cook which he stated as reason for break up and not marrying. Which i told him i was that just cus he didnt see me in kitchen didnt mean i was cooking oh not to mentiin i would cook for him when i had the chance. And then a post about “if you want your girl to loose weight break up with her and you see how fast she hits the gym” right after ihad posted i was at gym. Now he still has another cousin of mine plus a cpl of friends on fb. None the less im not sure if i even have a chance at this point. This is complete blocked! Sorry to bug so much.

Angry lday

July 23, 2016 at 4:46 am

I havent all ive done ate happy things about my trip. But the things he posts o. Fb that seriously hurts and i want him to admit for his wrong doing and apolgize. I dont know hoe to
EBR Team Member: Amor

July 23, 2016 at 1:58 pm

you can’t… we can’t control others..especially if he’d doing it to hurt you and he doesn’t feel that ehat he’s doing is wrong.. it’s either you forgive him or distance your self from him until you feel less negative towards him
EBR Team Member: Amor

July 22, 2016 at 12:27 pm

it’s ok. just comment to get that out of your chest! let him be.. don’t respond or post other things that relates to his posts..

Samantha

July 18, 2016 at 4:37 pm

My ex and I have been broken up for 6 mts with no contact and just started hanging out again 2mts ago. He was briefly dating a girl in between who broke up with him before we started talking. Listened to all the advice, things were going perfect, never asked where things were going and wasn’t pushy. Out of no where after hanging out Sunday, he texts me and tells me he doesn’t want to hurt me but has to focus on himself right now. I didn’t respond and haven’t seen him since. I just creeped him today only to find I’ve been blocked on all social media by both him and the girl he was seeing. What does this mean and should I go back into NC? Is it possible they’ve gotten back together?

EBR Team Member: Amor

July 19, 2016 at 9:06 pm

Hi Samantha,

looks like it… they got back together and now one or both of them sees you as a threat to the relationship.. did you contnue the activities to improve yourself during nc even after nc?

EBR Team Member: Amor

July 16, 2016 at 3:51 pm

actually he said it straight that he was just not attracted to you anymore.. it sucks but at least he was transparent with it

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