What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You On (The Phone, Facebook, WhatsApp, Etc)

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calleen

August 12, 2017 at 7:41 pm

I’ve have been trying to get ahold or you and your team Chris I’ve been watching you videos and need some more advice to getting my boyfriend back its a long story would really like the help. Please I’ve been reading all you blogs. Would really like to talk to you more please I really want him back I’ve done some things and I need your advice on if I messed up bad enough.

calleen

October 17, 2017 at 2:37 pm

After 2 weeks if he doesn’t reply or is negative, and I move on does that mean there isn’t any other chance for us ?
EBR Team Member: Amor

October 17, 2017 at 10:04 pm

It’s not a never..
calleen

October 16, 2017 at 5:39 pm

I texted him sat I said ” have a good day its beautiful out” he said who is this, I said” calleen he said ok. I said is that okay, how is hunting going? I heard you got a buck that’s awesome!! I’ve been looking at some bows so I can start next year and he never replied. And don’t start rapport why not ? What should I do ??
EBR Team Member: Amor

October 17, 2017 at 12:19 am

Because you’re still emotional.. Anger and hurt gets in the way.. Rest for two weeks…if he doesn’t reply or it’s negative, that mans you have to move on..
calleen

October 15, 2017 at 5:06 pm

Slowly building rapport like over the next couple weeks or how do you mean for that? Please help I don’t want to push to making this to the point where I can’t get it back
EBR Team Member: Amor

October 15, 2017 at 8:14 pm

How did you know he deleted your number? If you’re that emotional, don’t start building rapport..
calleen

October 14, 2017 at 5:25 pm

Hes deleted my number amor I tried to text him today he just said OK after I put my name. Is there even hope
calleen

October 14, 2017 at 2:42 am

Amor, I need your help I got a bill in the mail this is the third one We see each other once a month for bill thought he’s calmed down he has but still is mad. I had his best friends girlfriend tell me he switched the bill into his name called they never said anything to me. Not sure what to do haven’t got dishes back how can I handle this and what can I do I still love him should I give him more time I thought things were getting a little better and him calming down more but what does that mean? If he gives dishes back what will this mean will I even have a chance to get him again or is he so mad that his mind won’t be changed for a couple more months.?? Help please amor
EBR Team Member: Amor

October 14, 2017 at 12:01 pm

If you’re done with nc, you should slowly start building rapport
calleen

September 28, 2017 at 2:38 am

He loves hunting, cooking, family I really don’t know how to start it off I guess I mean I’ve read what the blogs said I just don’t know if I’m doing it right or if it’ll push him away more if I text him about it. I don’t want to say the wrong thing thru text and have him push farther away
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 29, 2017 at 12:34 am

there’s no other better move than what you’ll choose because you’re the one who knows him.. if it doesn’t work after 3 tries, you have to move on.
calleen

September 23, 2017 at 12:52 am

Amor, will give more advice on what I can do I got ahold of him about bill again he hasn’t changed anything and I’ve been giving him space And I have another week until NC is over I’ve tried to think of a subject to talk about but nothing I can relate to. Please help
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 27, 2017 at 4:36 pm

List his interests, and use that as topic.. Things that he always loves talking about.
calleen

September 18, 2017 at 1:27 am

I feel like I’ve improved in the last month I’ve finally gave him space and understood what I was doing, and staying positive and giving him the time to calm down
calleen

September 15, 2017 at 5:15 pm

Improving is a big thing I know I needed to work on what I’ve done and give him space, what other things should I be focusing on so I can improve more?
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 17, 2017 at 7:09 pm

if you’re improving the wealth, health and relationships aspects of your life, just keep doing it and enjoy!
calleen

September 14, 2017 at 3:32 pm

He still has my dishes and the power bill is still in both our names haven’t heard anything I’d think that if you wanted to be done, those would be back also right amor?
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 15, 2017 at 4:20 pm

There is a chance but don’t base it just on those things..
calleen

September 13, 2017 at 11:31 pm

Yes amor the first message. But I do have hope on getting this back with what’s happening and how things are going I have a lot more advantage over this right?
calleen

September 8, 2017 at 4:16 pm

Thank you amor, I’ll keep improving and just putting it to the side and stay positive. What if he doesn’t say anything back though when its time to try?
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 13, 2017 at 11:41 am

You mean the first contact message? We only recommend 3 tries.. First contact, if he doesn’t reply wait a week before sending the sevond first contact message..if he still doesn’t reply again, initiate for the last time after two weeks
calleen

September 6, 2017 at 4:51 pm

Amor I have a couple more weeks until my 45 days are up will you give me some advice on what I should do to get to sending a message and building up to talking to him. I don’t want to say the wrong thing and make things worse
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 7, 2017 at 7:50 pm

focus in yourself for now.. after that nc, check this one:
How To Properly Start A Conversation With Your Ex After No Contact
calleen

September 4, 2017 at 5:10 pm

Like me running and riding horses I dont do it because of the attention I do both those because I like how I feel I feel better I’m stronger and my self esteem is higher. Running isn’t something I use to do but riding is just never took the time and now I am .
calleen

September 3, 2017 at 4:31 am

I’ve been doing a little bit of what the blog had talked about not a lot but some and I’m still being strong about NC. I haven’t talked to him and haven’t seen him, have just been improving me. Please keep pushing me to working this out and giving me steps its really helpful amor.
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 3, 2017 at 8:57 pm

do new things that improve your skills and stick to it even after nc.
calleen

August 30, 2017 at 4:41 am

Amor, am I doing things right I mean can you give me maybe steps to helping me get thru NC
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 31, 2017 at 7:02 pm

Yup you’re doing it right in being active..Check this ones:
EBR 060: “Dating Yourself” During No Contact With Veronica Grant

How To Make It Through No Contact Period
Calleen

August 28, 2017 at 2:47 pm

I’ve started wlking and running to improve me and its been great I do it everyday! My mind set has changed since I turned to you and the team and since I’ve started working out. I still am holding on to hope I know we can make it thru this we’ve made it thru every other fight but we always got thru it we do need to work on communication, that’s why we would fight.
calleen

August 27, 2017 at 2:52 pm

Like do things like running or walking and working out a little I started doing something you’ve never done and it seems to be helping me a lot its helping me see that i can achieve anything I put my mind to and I think thats why I haven’t gave up on this with Alex. But the past is the past right if I want this to work I need to look past that and put it behind me I can’t change it but I’m glad there’s still a chance I haven’t texted him at all. I’m glad there’s still a chance you’ll help me with the steps to improve and get this back! You’ve been helping me greatly
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 28, 2017 at 1:26 pm

Yup, that’s the right mindset
calleen

August 25, 2017 at 3:03 pm

Amor its been 3 months without taking space, I mean there is still a way right with NC give space now and take it easy and be the ungettable girl. Some people do take more time then others right?
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 26, 2017 at 12:08 pm

not really pretend to move on but really, genuinely start to move on. Prepare your life, your new routine in a way that if you don’t get him back it’s alright. It will hurt but you will carry on. Yeah, there’s still a chance, the more important thing is you stick to nc now and be really active improving yourself even after nc while slowly rebuilding rapport.
Calleen

August 25, 2017 at 12:14 am

Ungettable girl and make it seem like I’m moving on (pretend) but be happy and just show I’m doing better and moved on right?
calleen

August 24, 2017 at 10:06 pm

So don’t push anymore then I have and just be nice and look pretty and just space. Should I do do or say anything else amor?
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 24, 2017 at 11:35 pm

Just calm down and don’t over think. Move on without totally moving on and keep in mind in being the ungettable girl.
calleen

August 23, 2017 at 1:36 am

Will I have to start my NC over again amor? Is there anything I should do to try to say I’m making me a better person smile, be nice? Anything I should say correct to not say the wrong thing ?
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 24, 2017 at 9:51 pm

No need to restart if you’re talking about the thing you’re going to exchange. No feelings nor relationship talk. Don’t say nor explain that you’re improving yourself. Just be civil and look your best.
calleen

August 22, 2017 at 9:20 pm

I’ll do 45 only because he’s very upset with me and I did I just talked to him about that and he seemed okay to me after he sent back okay I quit texting him. He is coming to get it from me on Friday from work and just say have a good day and walk with a smile but is that okay to do or should I leave my car unlocked and just tell h to get it? I don’t want to push him anymore
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 22, 2017 at 10:30 pm

it’s ok to meet him, just make it short and only about that.
calleen

August 21, 2017 at 4:25 pm

Amor I got the our power bill sent to me if I text him about it will I have to start my NC over again since he’s mad I don’t want him to think I’m trying to be in his space I just was going to text him and tell him about bill and see what he says and let it go and not text back I just don’t want to make a mistake
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 22, 2017 at 9:06 pm

you can do 30 days, it’s ok to extend to 45 days if you feel you need to and yes, it’s good that he didn’t block you. And yes, it’s ok to talk to him about the bill, just only make it about it.
calleen

August 20, 2017 at 8:06 am

Him not blocking my number is good right ?! I mean its not completely done and never getting back together?! I know he’s said things out of anger I believe he did, he’s very upset with me but I’ve been sticking with him and trying to show him that I do care.
calleen

August 20, 2017 at 8:02 am

Thank you amor! I will log back into Facebook and start posting pictures and being happy but still work on me should I focus on 45 days instead of 30 for NC ?! And that sounds great I hope to hear from him thank you!
calleen

August 19, 2017 at 1:18 am

Should I start posting pictures on Facebook at this moment I am logged out of Facebook because he blocked me on that and Snapchat. But hasn’t blocked my number that’s good right ? Thank you for sending my email I really would like a coaching call so he can talk to me more about it!
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 19, 2017 at 8:56 pm

Yep, that’s good..Keep posting in Facebook even if you’re blocked, just make them public.. Ok, I’ll update Chris that you haven’t received an email yet..
calleen

August 19, 2017 at 1:14 am

Thank you amor, working on keeping busy and my.mind off it everything. And no I didn’t get an email I can’t find it
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 18, 2017 at 6:39 pm

Chris said he had just sent an email to you regarding the coaching call, please confirm if you did or did not receive it in the email you used in this comment.
calleen

August 18, 2017 at 4:11 pm

Best advice would just keep busy and try to when I do think about it just go and keep busy?! And yes same email thank you!!
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 18, 2017 at 5:48 pm

yes, because you can only control yourself. That’s why you need to be active in posting because that’s your indirect way of showing you’re moving on, doesn’t care and getting better than ever.. 🙂 ok, I’ll double check your email with Chris. Thank you! He’ll get in touch with you in that email.
calleen

August 18, 2017 at 2:22 pm

I sent my email amor, I would really like to get more advice on what I can do to fix this please help! Thank you
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 18, 2017 at 3:12 pm

Sadness will not really be gone when you’re improving yourself.. You just have to continue it no matter what you feel.. Is this the same email address you used in the email?
calleen

August 17, 2017 at 5:33 pm

Amor I did send the email! Thank you for helping me please help me get this back!
calleen

August 17, 2017 at 4:05 pm

I have been everyday I’ll get days where I want to cry, but I’ve reached out for counseling and being put on anixety meds. It has been working some days are better then others. Is there any advice that might help for putting it off to the side and improving in myself I find that a part is still holding on when I put it to the side to improve?!! And yes please I’d love to talk to him it would be wonderful to have more advice on this I would like more steps and see if I’m doing something wrong thank you amor!!
calleen

August 16, 2017 at 2:35 pm

Anything that will help amor, I would really like more advice about what I can do to get this back he means a lot to me. I have been on NC for 3 weeks almost 4 and I am giving him spave . we have been split up for 3 months and never took space for those 3 months. We were together for a 1 year and 2 months. I really would like to talk my stories long and not sure if its easier to email anyway.
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 17, 2017 at 3:19 pm

Be active ib improving yourself. I’ll forward your email to Chris if you want to avail the coaching call..
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 13, 2017 at 7:23 pm

Hi Calleen,

I’m not sure if you saw my reply to your previous post but do you mean you want a coaching call with Chris?

Mari

August 6, 2017 at 9:36 pm

I was dating this guy for just about 4 years (Nov is our anniversary) he was not just my ex bf he was my ex fiancé because he had proposed to me about 5 months of being together and 1 year of knowing each other. The first 2 1/2 years were great and then in 2016 he went through my phone because he tried to break up with me and he thought I seemed okay with it because I seemed not to care but I only acted that way because I was angry. He saw my conversation with a friend(male) who I have known for 10 years + . After that things between him and I got rough and trust issues came about. The thing is, I can be an oblivious person and failed to realized that although he was texting me inappropriately, I didn’t see it that way because he was my friend and I always disregarded what he said. (Present me talking: I realized that I hurt him in ways because I put myself in his shoes and told myself I wouldn’t of liked it either) although my conversations with him were just friendly on my behalf, my loyalty for this man was 110%. In June he was accepted to join the Police academy, which meant his focus was strictly on his career. I helped him throughout the whole process, from the moment it started to the moment it ended. I did things not many women would not do for anyone in todays world because they were all selfless acts I gave him my support, ran errands, cooked, cleaned his room etc.. Yes I did want to go out with I’m but he couldn’t or chose not to so eventually id go out with friends, besides it was summer. He then began to have issues about my going out with guys/girls and by Nov we broke up. I was devastated didn’t know how to feel, my emotions were everything ( I suffer from anxiety and that has lead me to a very emotional state in my life where I felt depressed and didn’t care to live, I know sounds very depressing. Build up from growing up has made me this way, family issues, losing my father, etc.) He knew this! We kept in touch, I focused on myself, college, working two jobs, my friends and family. Eventually he saw that and we managed to work things out that time. We were sort of together again in January and things seemed fine and back to normal. Keep in mind we did argue a little but nothing out of this world. I still felt that he didn’t trust me completely. In June he went to my graduation and then a week from there I got us a two night stay at the Harrah’s Resort in AC, paid by me. We had such a good time but on our last day he felt as if I didn’t care about his needs, he wanted to leave early so he can get a haircut, mind you he was off the next day, I simply wanted to enjoy every minute of it since his job seems to complicate vacations. That day we argued and he picked the fight, he even blamed me for the GPS re routing me and when we got home we didn’t really speak. I decided to go get taco bells and he asked with who and I told him just me. On my way there I called a friend to make my walk feel less and she said hey I want taco bells too so lets meet up, we can take it to eat at my house and I waited for her. She finally came and I got in her car and we went through the drive thru and I’m getting ready to call him but he calls me first instead. We fight, he calls me a liar the whole day was bad after that. Then late June came and things felt weird so I decided to have a serious conversation with him and he took the way out and basically dumped me. He said he didn’t want kids anymore or saw a future with me and I Just couldn’t understand how? We had just made a list of our big plans for the summer and have been planning to move out and also take a trip to Mexico in October. If you love me so much and you tell me all the time then how is this possible??? He told me he was tired, tired of the relationship scene. I couldn’t understand the actual reason because there were so many excuses or rather say, reasons being thrown at me. I just could not process correctly because of my emotions. After the break up I stood over the whole week ( I practically lived with him and his mom ) until my trip to Maryland came. I was happy seeing him all those days even though we weren’t together. I told him all about my plans and how I was going to hit the gym hard this summer and he said why is it that you wanna do this now that were not together and I said I tried doing the gym with you like we used to before but something always came up. Anyways I was just throwing that out there. When I came back from Maryland on the 4th of July I was sad all of a sudden. Him and I shared locations on our iPhone My friend app so when I saw that he was out by the water, I got upset because for the past 3 years he never wanted to do anything and now he has his car I was confused and bothered. (He always told me wait until I get my car and we will do so much) but now what? Anyways I tried the NC but failed because I was venting my understanding of the relationship and what I was going to miss in one of my notes that I shared with him but didn’t think he would even read it. He did, he never text me about it. One day at work I was having some true anxiety where I didn’t want to feel this pain of such heartbreak and all my thoughts were so negative I wanted to be out of this world. My boss (a man) said just text him what’s the worse he can say ( I regret listening because all my girls said don’t contact him) I he said some horrible things about how has happy and doing really well, he also said he doesn’t mean to sound selfish but he didnt throw anything away he only walked out of what was causing him unhappiness and that I need to stop writing in the notes its only causing me pain, he’s tired of repeating himself because hearing it again is only going to cause me more pain, what don’t I understand that he doesn’t want to talk to me again because it will always be the same thing! He said all of this when all I simply texted was a hi and asked was how are you? I didn’t bother to reply to last two messages, but prior to his first respond about him being happy I told him that I miss him and I’m miserable and how could he throw it all away. A week later I went out with my girl and her and I saw him with another girl holding hands by the movies he even kissed her. I was in my fav restaurant sitting in the bench deciding what I was going to do and they both walked him and he looked at me and I starred at him right in the eyes and no words were exchanged. I was ANGRY!! but I held my composure in the most mature way possible. How can you do that after 4 years? Engaged? I cant even picture being with another man or even kissing anyone still. I had already removed him from my Instagram the day I went to get my things from his house(which was a few days after I came back from MD) thinking id get closure but I really didn’t because after seeing with that girl I needed to know more. I told my friend tell him I have things in his house I want and he told her he would let her know the following when he was off but he never did. Yes I have been creeping on IG and I Know who the girl is and I saw him take her our again. I know what I am doing is not healthy but I don’t have any closure. He has me blocked on IG and X box(that I got for him) My FB is deactivated so there’s nothing going on there. I don’t understand any of his actions, I have spoken to male friends, mutual friends. I have good days and bad days but I’m disappointed in him, he says I’m stuck and to move on with my life and be happy and that we went as far as we could and he went as far as he could go. During the break up he said it was about him moving forward not moving on, so why is he investing time on this girl? Instead of investing it on himself to be better? I hate that she’s in his life enjoying everything with him after I made an impact in his life, in his career. EVERYONE knows how I feel for him, what I did for him and that he broke my heart and he left a stain in it too. How can he be so cold when he told me once before in October in this sincerely heart felt letter that he’s madly in love with me??? We just needed work. But he’s clearly giving up, I made changes and noticed them so why is he giving up on us when we have so much potential to be great and grow? He said this was a new chapter and he looks forward to growing. Is he confused or hurt or not ready to commit? No one is perfect and maybe he’s seeking that in someone else to fill the void… I hate all of this and I wish I could track back time to fix my mistakes but all I can do is move forward and work on myself to be better.
De

August 2, 2017 at 8:16 pm

Hi .i have no contact with my ex bf for a month 2weeks ago he blocked me from one of his number and a faw days ago he block me on whatsapp.and just he check my last time with one of his number…i dont know text him or not…i wanna say i know thats easy for u to forget me…and something like this but i dont know should i or not
De

July 31, 2017 at 8:53 am

My ex block me while no contact rule.i didnt talk with him 4weeks
One week ago he block me in telegram
And yesterday he block me on whatsapp
But he has onther number to check my last seen
What should i do inshoulfld wait him to unblock me or text him other number?

De

August 2, 2017 at 8:20 pm

I change my pic in whatsapp and he blocked me..
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 5, 2017 at 6:52 pm

Nope..dont say that..even if you’re blocked, how active were you in postinf in facebook and instagram?
EBR Team Member: Amor

July 31, 2017 at 5:00 pm

First, even if you’re blocked, how active were you in improving yourself and in posting?

Tina

July 24, 2017 at 11:03 pm

Hi, my situation is rather strange and I have never been blocked before so I’m quite stunned. I developed an inappropriate crush and me and my married boss became very close. I’ve never cheated and doubt I ever would but I trusted him and over 1 year and a half I fall for him. I don’t even know how it became so intense I think maybe because my mum became ill and he was a great support to me. I told him I wanted to leave my job and he talked me out of it and then things went pear shaped. I found myself obsessing over him and getting jealous of his wife not in a weird way but he noticed that it bothered me. I would come off and on social media to avoid seeing pictures and I would get upset that I couldn’t progress in any way. I felt trapped in my career and personal life. One day he blocked my messages on FB but didn’t unfriend me and I was heartbroken that he did this. I immediately blocked him from my FB and sent him an email asking why. He gave me the reasons that was at home and didn’t want to discuss work as he was stressed at work. At the time I was so upset I cut him off. Nothing was the same after that and I left my job a few months later. I was heartbroken about the whole thing and probably still am. Luckily I left for a big job opportunity and am doing amazingly well in my new job. I had spoken to him a few times but just came across as vulnerable and he asked me what I was paranoid about recently I said that you will cut me off completely. A mutal friend was experiencing problems at home and I told her to meet with him they did met and he asked about me etc and I ended some of my stuff from him. As a courtesy I thanked him for giving my work stuff to our mutal friend and the response was quite shocking. He blocked me from Twitter this was our only private messaging site left and I was so angry and upset. I emailed him and instead of acting angry or upset I stated that I was aware I had been blocked and that it was fine but that I hope I hadn’t offended him as that wasn’t my intention. I got a reply saying basically that he hopes I’m well and thank you for the present however he can’t except it and that he thinks I should concentrate on my relationship and move on. I did the unexpected and didn’t reply. That was a month ago. We are both managers and owners, I have no doubt our paths will cross again but a part of me if deeply embarrassed and ashamed of what he might think of me. We talked all the time early morning till late at night and it was Clear we had feelings for each other however he said he had never cheated and he wouldn’t feel great if he did. All the staff commented on us at the Christmas do and I had fallen for him so much. He always seemed like he cared and generally interested in my life, I told him everything. His wife just recently had a baby and I think I was a phase. The whole cross boundaries makes me feel disappointed in myself , a part of me feels used and stupid I don’t know if he ever really felt the same. The fact that I feel he doesn’t ever want to see or speak to me again is my worse fear and he knows that, what do I do that was so bad?.. I was nothing but honest and leaving the company because of my feelings and the position it could put him in was the best thing to do. I would never have done anything to harm him. I just don’t understand why? I have no intention of contacting him but my friend who works with him has also distant herself from me and said today that he has asked about me and how I am etc?.. Why would he do that.

Tina

July 28, 2017 at 7:51 pm

What do I do if I see him again?
EBR Team Member: Amor

July 30, 2017 at 7:56 pm

Just be civil with him..
EBR Team Member: Amor

July 25, 2017 at 6:14 pm

Hi Tina

if he do has feelings for you and he doesn’t want to ruin his marriage, he’s doing the right thing of cutting contact with you but that doesn’t mean he lost feelings that’s why he got curious and asked about you.

Lisa Abby

July 24, 2017 at 2:54 am

Hi. I was dating this guy on and off for about 5 years. In the beginning of our relationship I cheated on him, we broke up but moved past it. We recently got back together about a year ago but things were different. We weren’t exactly “dating”. He said he just didn’t feel the need to put the name on it and it annoyed him how important it was to me. He would get angry at me anytime that I talked about him to other people, and he would get very angry if I would post about him on social media. (No he was not cheating on me, he is a very blunt guy and if he was cheating, I believe he would just come out and say it. We broke up about 2 weeks ago. He said that he was unhappy in the relationship. I am glad for the breakup because I needed to realize that I could be independent but within a day or 2 he already had a new girlfriend. This is completely different. She comments under his social media pictures, and she even posted pictures and a video of him he bringing her 2 bouquets of roses. It is like he is an entirely different man with her. I attempted the No contact rule but failed at about 9 days in when he liked my picture on instagram. We spoke and he came over to my house, and we had sex. He immediately said he regretted it because he really liked this girl and she was really nice. I was distraught and cried a little bit but we then decided to be friends. He then decided he couldnt be my friend after I made it seem like I was talking to a new guy. My ex told me he realized he treated me wrong when he was with me and does not want to do the same with her. He has been friends with this girl for the last 5 years, but not so much that I even knew of her. He said there is a chance of us getting back together in the far future if things with her do not work out and if we still want each other. I later became emotional, and texted him some not so nice things where he responded that he truly wants the best for me and can see that he is not part of that right now so he told me to leave him alone. He has me now blocked on his phone. He does not have me blocked on Instagram (which is the social media that we both frequently use). What does this all mean and what steps should I be taking? I know that I should initiate No contact which I am but is there anything else? How can I make him realize that I have changed and am no longer that desperate needy girl? Do you think this new relationship with this girl is a rebound since he had sex with me? He said she is not.

Lisa Abby

August 3, 2017 at 9:08 pm

I’m worried that won’t work though. I’m blocked so he can’t even see my page. That’s how it works on instagram. He blocked me because he says it’s too hard for him to see me and he needs to get over me. He is a very stubborn guy and I don’t think he will check up on me. I’m worried she isn’t a rebound because he bought her flowers and commented under her instagram pictures (which he never did with me) but at the same time he cheated on her 3 times with me. I was thinking of maybe in 3 weeks I would stop by his job(he works at Wendy’s) to get food with a friend. All I can think about is him and this new girlfriend. What do you think?
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 6, 2017 at 6:02 am

It’s better to have posts if he gets curious or uses other ways like a friend..than not having something to see there..
Lisa Abby

August 1, 2017 at 10:52 pm

Here is the issue now. I made it known that I was talking/flirting with another guy on social media. He told me that it hurt him a lot and didn’t really like seeing it. He ended up blocking my instagram as well. Now, not only is my instagram blocked but also my phone number. I understand he blocked my instagram because of how much it hurt but now he wont be able to see me being “The Ungettable Girl”. He came over today because their was some drama with his girlfriend and accusations that he wanted me to clear up. I didn’t like the last terms we left it on (me blubbering crying about how he could hurt me like that) so today I made it known that I am happy we are apart for now and maybe one day we can be together again when the time is right. He was asking whether I want him and timelines and such.. I know he doesn’t want me back right now but I think he does eventually. We ended up having casual sex ( he still has a girlfriend) and afterwards he was asking questions like if I am upset and what my opinion is on what happen. (I was really upset the last time we had sex). So I played it off really calmly and was like it was sex, thats all. Im not upset about it. He asked me maybe at least 10 times how I felt about it. He said that he didn’t want to be hurt about it because he is staying with his girlfriend. He seemed kind of offended that I didn’t have any feelings about it. This time I am really going to do NCR because I feel like its good I left it on good terms on my behalf. What I need to know is what I should do since I am blocked? I could still contact him through facebook but I dont post on there and he never uses it. He knows I could still contact him but also, do you think this girl is really a rebound? I don’t understand why he would have sex with me when he has a girlfriend.
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 3, 2017 at 6:36 pm

Yup, she’s more likely a rebound..and with what happened, there’s a big probabality he’ll be curious, so post and make them public but dont post something too forward like kissing, or saying you’re seeing somebody else…improve yourself, and post those activities that you do or a selfie or what you ate,etc..

Sometimes a hint of jealousy is ok, like being with a group of guys and girls in the pic where he doesn’t know the guys.. That way, it’s obvious you’re not outright dating but seeing new people in your life can make him see the possibility if he doesn’t act quick
EBR Team Member: Amor

July 25, 2017 at 5:46 pm

Your posts are your indirect of showing it. So, make them public. Because even if you’re blocked, he will eventually get curious on why you stopped chasing. So, you’re posts will show that you’re moving on and having your own life. Check this one:
The Ungettable Girl

Ally

July 21, 2017 at 1:44 am

Hai,
I survived 30 days of no contact. My ex bf texted me 3 times during the no contact which i totally ignored. He contacted two of my bestfriend during that period and even flirt with them but nothing happen. His bestfriend also contacted me during that period and ask about us pretending he didnt know a thing. So 2 days ago i texted him on whatsapp as my 1st text after the no contact. My text sound like this: “omg! u wouldnt believe who i just bumped into..” he read it but he didnt respond. yesterday i learned he blocked me from whatsapp. im actually still ongoing my holiday and will only be back next week. since we are living in different countries, i might pay him a visit in the next two weeks, but i dont know. the reason that we broke up is because i decided to move away and start a different direction towards my life. he agreed at first but he decided he couldnt go through with it with me being away from him. so now i dont know what to do. i might moved back to be closer with him if there is a chance with us. but m not sure right now because i dont know whats going on with his head.

EBR Team Member: Amor

July 25, 2017 at 11:37 am

Since he didn’t reply..try again with a different style and topic after 2 weeks instead of showing up..if he still doesn’t reply, that means you have to move on

Aly

July 20, 2017 at 9:56 pm

Hai,
I survived 30 days of no contact. My ex bf texted me 3 times during the no contact which i totally ignored. He contacted two of my bestfriend during that period and even flirt with them but nothing happen. His bestfriend also contacted me during that period and ask about us pretending he didnt know a thing. So 2 days ago i texted him on whatsapp as my 1st text after the no contact. My text sound like this: “omg! u wouldnt believe who i just bumped into..” he read it but he didnt respond. yesterday i learned he blocked me from whatsapp. im actually still ongoing my holiday and will only be back next week. since we are living in different countries, i might pay him a visit in the next two weeks, but i dont know. the reason that we broke up is because i decided to move away and start a different direction towards my life. he agreed at first but he decided he couldnt go through with it with me being away from him. so now i dont know what to do. i might moved back to be closer with him if there is a chance with us. but m not sure right now because i dont know whats going on with his head.

EBR Team Member: Amor

July 25, 2017 at 11:18 am

Since he didn’t reply..try again with a different style and topic after 2 weeks instead of showing up..if he still doesn’t reply, that means you have to move on

Kirsty

July 12, 2017 at 9:09 am

Hi!
My ex dumped me at the end of May, and we’d been together for 2 years, but after this we did stay in contact and yes we slept together a handful of times, the last being last week and we actually had dinner together and he said himself it was quite romantic. Unfortunately on Monday evening I found out he’d been taking another girl to the cinema and chatting with her all the time etc, and he states that they are just friends but I just think, okay just friends for now, as I know full well this girl has shown an avid interest in him, she even did when he and I were together. I asked him all about it and in the end he blocked me on everything, whatsapp, snapchat even as far as to remove me as a friend on Xbox, and I have completely come off Facebook now but I know he blocked me when he had the chance too. I am almost sure this is a rebound but I’m fairly confused about how he feels towards me?

Kirsty

July 19, 2017 at 8:55 am

Hi Amor, if at some point we do get back in contact, and he has feelings for her or they are together, then I have to just let that be and be the ungettable girl but still be present in his life, right now no contact is working wonders just for my own confidence and self esteem, wealth and happiness.
EBR Team Member: Amor

July 19, 2017 at 12:46 pm

yep, that’s right.. Have you checked this one?
How To Win Back An Ex Who Is With Someone Else
EBR Team Member: Amor

July 14, 2017 at 1:45 pm

Let’s say he has feelings for her, what’s your plan?

Holly Fischer

July 8, 2017 at 7:53 am

My ex boyfriend broke up with me four weeks ago. I implemented no contact; however there are some critical issues with this. I work with him and see him daily. He is already dating a woman also from our workplace. I see them together all the time and it kills me. I have not contacted him at work. I found out a week ago I am pregnant with his child. I sent a text of the paperwork to him and he replied “not really sure what to say to that”. That’s it. I few days later I attempted to text him ultrasound pics because I felt he didn’t believe me. I was blocked. He did not block me on Facebook but unfriended me. His new girlfriend blocked me. Why I’m not sure. I have nothing to do with her. I sent him an email with the ultrasound pics. No response. Not sure if he’s blocked me there. I blocked him on Snapchat and Messenger. I put all kinds of positive things on my Facebook in case he checked but after today I blocked him. I sent another email letting him know I had a dr appt today for the baby. He did not respond. One of our mutual friends text him about it and he did not respond to her. Everyone at work knows I’m pregnant with his child and that he was already involved in his new relationship before we broke up. The child was conceived the night we broke up.

Any suggestions on how to get him to accept responsibility for our child? I unfortunately still love him despite how much he’s hurt me and want him back but I’m afraid he is extremely angry with me and doesn’t want this to affect his new relationship.

EBR Team Member: Amor

July 9, 2017 at 7:18 pm

Hi holly,
Check this one:
Here’s How To Get Your “Baby Daddy” Back

Kassie

July 5, 2017 at 2:36 pm

My ex didn’t respond to texts for a day and I sensed he blocked me on his phone. I’m not sure at what point he blocked me. It may have been after I regrettably said I felt he didn’t love me because he was having an easier time post-breakup than I was. Or, it may have been after I told him (the next day, after no responses from him) that I was ready to say goodbye and wanted a chance to talk with him as a final conversation to give us closure. Now that he’s shut me out, I’m struggling to know what to do. Is he playing a mind game with me by leaving without saying goodbye? Why did he block me, because he was upset (likely) or because he discarded me as soon as I said I was ready to say goodbye? I also have no idea what to do now. I was thinking NC for 21 days. But at this point, im just wanting for him to at least say goodbye to me. We were together 6 years, and I can’t believe he would just walk away without saying goodbye. Please help give me some idea how to cope with this. Thanks

Kassie

July 7, 2017 at 2:02 am

What if I believe he truly is done with me and I’m fighting for closure (he never said goodbye)? Should I do NC if all I want is closure in the form of a goodbye?
EBR Team Member: Amor

July 9, 2017 at 4:48 pm

Closure to move on? If that’s the case just send your goodbye message and move on.. You have to take control and give yourself the closure in thar form whether he answers back or not
EBR Team Member: Amor

July 5, 2017 at 6:40 pm

Hi Kassie,

Do you want to try the advice above?

Carolyn

July 5, 2017 at 2:08 pm

I met this guy on-line and we hit off really well. Went out a few times. I posted a picture of him on my Facebook and he got upset and called me and said that I am unwilling to be open. I have been talking to this guy that i met on-line. We had a fight last week. Over the weekend we talked and he said right now there is no us. I need to be done angry with you. Then he said Let’s be friends and see where it leads but i can’t promise you that it will be anything more than that? Should i just give up on this guy and move on? Or should i take it one day at time?
So he unblocked on me on his phone. We talked for a little bit and i said I would like another chance for us. His respond was right now there is no chance for us. I need to stop being angry with you.
He said when i get my results back that i have a slight chance. He said Friends for now and when it changes ill let you know. So is he already telling me that it will not lead to anything more than just friendship? Or is he saying to go slow and let it takes its course?

Carolyn

July 5, 2017 at 7:16 pm

This has been going on for a few days, He unblocked me on Friday and we have talked twice since then, We knew each other a week before he blocked me and went crazy. What should I do?
EBR Team Member: Amor

July 6, 2017 at 7:17 pm

well, it looks like he’s about to string you along.. so set a limit until when you would be building rapport. And dont to him again if you have a chance or not. It sounds like chasing
EBR Team Member: Amor

July 5, 2017 at 4:15 pm

How long has this been going on?

Fatima

July 3, 2017 at 5:10 am

Hi
My ex or two years broke up with me last week Sunday
He sent a break up text and I responded to which I received no reply

I then immediately went into NC but neither of us spoke to each other and then five days later I saw that he had blocked me on whatsapp which is our main form of texting

Do I block him back or wait
What do I do

EBR Team Member: Amor

July 5, 2017 at 1:37 pm

nope..be active in improving yourself, and in posting even if you’re blocked

Nicole

July 2, 2017 at 6:47 pm

Why would he randomly block me on Facebook, exactly 1 year after the breakup? I have not interacted nor attempted to interact with him for 11 months and do not ever want to speak to him again. I’m just curious why he would do this.

EBR Team Member: Amor

July 4, 2017 at 9:01 pm

Maybe he’s in a nee relationship, and that’s what the girl wanted..for him to block his exes..

Confused

July 2, 2017 at 12:48 am

So my ex and I dated for 1 year and 2 months. We were both each others’ first love. Everyday, he would constantly talk about how he wants to marry me. The breakup was pretty messy. In my eyes, it happened completely out of the blue. He said he needs to find himself and is not ready for marriage. Additionally, he used me for sex the entire week right before breaking up with me which I am having trouble forgiving him for. Anyways, 1 month after the breakup, I asked 7 questions via Facebook Messenger in an attempt to get closure. He answered none of my questions, responded with a very nasty message, and proceeded to block me on Facebook for the next 5 months. I started blocking him in December, 2016 and have had him blocked since. Anyways, he unblocked me on his birthday in February and I have been unblocked until today. Exactly one year ago today we broke up with each other, but he also blocked me on Facebook again today. Since we are the same major in college, of course we have to see each other every single day. Since our last communication with each other in August, 2016 there has been no interaction nor any attempts on my behalf to interact with him. I never want him back after what he did to me and can now only think negatively of him. The thing I am confused about is why he would just randomly block me on Facebook, 1 year after a breakup, when I have made no attempts at all to contact him or anything.

EBR Team Member: Amor

July 4, 2017 at 9:01 pm

Maybe he’s in a nee relationship, and that’s what the girl wanted..for him to block his exes..

Confused

July 2, 2017 at 12:39 am

So my ex and I dated each other for 1 year and 2 months. We were both each other’s first love and he constantly talked about marrying me every single day. The breakup was because he said needs to find himself and doesn’t feel a spark anymore. It was very messy because it happened out of the blue and he essentially used me for sex the entire week before the breakup. One month later I asked him 7 questions via Facebook Messenger in an attempt to get some closure as to what happened. He answered none of my questions and proceeded to write me a very nasty message and blocked me from Messenger. Since we are both the same major in college, of course we have to see each other everyday. I’ve had him blocked since December, 2016. He unblocked me on his birthday in February and kept me unblocked until today. Today, exactly one year after the breakup occured, he blocks me on Messenger. What I don’t understand is why would he randomly block me like that? Ever since our last communication in August, 2016 there has been no interaction or attempt at interaction with him on my part. And I never want him back, I’m just confused as to why he would do this.

EBR Team Member: Amor

July 4, 2017 at 9:01 pm

Maybe he’s in a nee relationship, and that’s what the girl wanted..for him to block his exes..

dla

June 18, 2017 at 10:31 pm

So basically, my ex and I have been split for a week. After the split i was fairly obsessed and messaged him on facebook and text messages demanding to know a reason for the break up, he did briefly explain but it still doesn’t make sense to me. After messaging him, he didnt ever reply. Now he has blocked me from messaging on facebook (we’re still friends of facebook and can see his posts but cannot message) and has also blocked my mobile phone number so i cant text or call him. I’m going to go a while not contacting him, but when i feel its been enough time, how would i contact him if im still blocked??

EBR Team Member: Amor

June 22, 2017 at 2:25 pm

HI dla,

Check this one:
EBR 002: What To Do If You Have No Way Of Talking To Your Ex

Aly

June 7, 2017 at 3:16 pm

hai amor, i didnt know what happen to my previous comment that i send in few days ago. but me and my ex bf broke up few weeks ago, after we had some arguments, i had been a away from him for almost 2 months now, so tomorrow morning m flying to see him, i wanted to apologize, tell him that i love him and i miss him, because he has been blocking me from whatsapp 2 weeks now, in which it is the only communication medium we had the entire time i was away, btw i was the one who initiate the break up, i was angry at the time, but didn’t know he is going to actually go through with it, ge did say he missed me and he loved me so much but it was for the best of both of us. i want him back, i am following my instinct, am i doing this right?plz help.

Aly

June 19, 2017 at 3:36 am

Hai amor,
So i went to see him that day, i waited at his house as he just finish work. i went to see him, he was abit shocked that i was there. so i start saying the things that needs to be said, i didnt beg. he said he waited for me all day on the 5th of june, as initially i told him i’m coming back on the 5th before he totally blocked me. and he also said he is seeing someone now and he is going to see her on the same day i arrived. so i said my goodbyes and wish him well. not long after he texted me and told me that he broke up with her and he didn’t want to see her anymore. so i came back to see him at his house. we made up and got back together again. what happen was, on that night i found out he went to see her, he lied to me, he said he was going out alone, but he actually went to see her. so i asked him about it, he said yes he did went to see her, because the girl he was seeing was not happy with him, and he said he needs to sort things out. so i let it go as that. one time i read the girl text to him, and she did sound quite irritated that he is ignoring her. so i did not ask him anymore about that as i feel that he chose me over her and he also did told me that i am better than the girl. so i just leave it as that. i didn’t want to ask further about the girl. i spend a week there with him and he spend 1 day outing with his friends. on which i promised i wont bother him for 1 day, but i ended up texting and calling him repeatedly until he ignores all communication. he later said he was pissed at me for not trusting him. i mean of course i dont trust him fully right now, he lied to me before, why wouldn’t he lie to me now. we totally got trust issues. so after a week went by, i went back to my country for the holidays and i promised to come back to be with him after few weeks, everything was okay. we texted eachother often, and suddenly the next day he went ghost on me, he never reply my text and ignores my calls, i see him online but he never reply, he was on his offday, so he couldn’t have been buzy, so my thought would be he must be seeing that girl since i am not around to catch him. so he went ghost on me for 1 whole day and only send me a text after 38hours of non reply.i was furious and upset. yes maybe he needed space and i was being too needy and clingy, but it does not give him the right to treat me that way. Despite i didnt reply his text, he still texting me often, telling that he is on his way to work and etc, like the usual text he sends me. i know he knows i am ignoring him on purpose, its been 3 days of no-contact with him. my question is, is appropriate for me to use the no contact if we are still together? i will be coming back to see him in 3 weeks time, he knows that.
EBR Team Member: Amor

June 22, 2017 at 2:32 pm

It’s ok to cool down for a few days but dont do a total nc.. and let him invest more..after you going there in 3 weeks.. why not let him initiate more
EBR Team Member: Amor

June 7, 2017 at 5:20 pm

You’re already heading there, the best you can do is not beg..

aly

June 5, 2017 at 6:36 pm

hi amor, my recent ex bf blocked me on whatsapp and i feel so sick about it. we were doing so well before this, we have been together for 18months now. we had an amazing time together. but just recently i moved out of the country and told him about it, he was okay when we discussed it and in our mind it wouldn’t change a thing because we loved each other. its been almost 2 months i left him, i am currently in the middle east travelling, i recently had a tantrum because i had a hard time speaking on the phone with him, that eventually i ask for the split. he kept quiet for awhile, when i cooled off we talked about it and he said maybe it is best that we go our own ways because he didn’t want to hurt me.initially on the break up text, that i texted him, i said loving him hurt me badly. so he said he missed me and he loved me so much(which he rarely say,maybe once in a blue moon), but that its the best for us.my reply was just ok.then we didn’t contact each other for 5days, but on the 6th day i try contacting him again, i said i will go and see him as soon as i am going back, he disapproved and said he didn’t want to see me and hurt me, and he thinks its best we stopped contacting eachother.i love him and i miss him every single day.but maybe the idea of me going away really taken toll on us, he felt as if i left him for good.now its been almost 2 weeks he blocked me on whatsapp,maybe i kind of annoys him for wanting to break up but i am flying to see him in a few days, i dont know if its a good idea or not but i think its best i try my last shot at this, its going to be quite a surprise for him.i am not sure if its going to make a positive or negative impact on us, but i am willing to give it a try.i know we are meant for eachother, just the long distance is not working out for us.btw we are not from the same country, just neighbouring.i am a nomad, i travel often, he knows it, maybe he kind of hoping that i will stick around in his country, which i have been for the past 18months,the initial plan was only 6months.so tell me am i doing this right?

EBR Team Member: Amor

June 7, 2017 at 5:20 pm

You’re already heading there, the best you can do is not beg..

Gabrielle

June 4, 2017 at 8:15 pm

Well, I had asked my ex to block me when we first broke up to keep me from contacting him. He blocked me on everything except email. I emailed him twice then I went NC for over 30 days. Still never heard from him. I wrote him a letter and today went to text him and I’m still blocked. Guess there’s my answer nothing, left to do at this point.

EBR Team Member: Amor

June 7, 2017 at 2:48 pm

did you mean you contacted him during nc? when did you do nc, how much did you improve yourself, and how active were you in posting in social media?

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