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    Dawn

    November 27, 2017 at 9:25 pm

    Can NC work with someone I was never exclusive with? We had a bit of a fling over the past few months but I recently overheard him and a friend talking about the other women he texted the night before. Even though we weren’t dating, I was heartbroken to hear that. We are friends and have been for a while but hooked up a couple times recently (also having great conversations) and I have started to fall for him. We have many mutual friends so see each other regularly without setting up dates. I confronted him and told him I felt he was giving me mixed signals. He acted like he didn’t know what I was talking about so I said that even though he can text whomever he wants, it was hurtful to hear about it because of the time we’ve spent together. He said he’s just having fun, nothing serious. He also said he didn’t text me that night because he didn’t want me to think he just saw me as a booty call and that he likes me. But he is sticking to ‘I can’t do anything serious because I feel lost’. He broke up with his ex about 7 months ago (about 3 months before I started expressing my interest in him) and they continued to sleep together up until August until she found another boyfriend (although I cannot be certain they aren’t still sleeping together). He and I slept together for the first time in September. Then again a couple weeks ago. Our text conversation ended with me saying ‘it’s my fault. I knew you weren’t interested in me but I chose to ignore it’. That was 4 days ago and he hasn’t responded. But since then he has liked 2 of my social media posts and was touchy, talkative and flirty with me yesterday when we were playing volleyball in the same gym (not the same court). I’m really confused because he now knows I’m not looking to be a casual thing to him and that I don’t appreciate the mixed signals yet he continues to act the same as before all the while ignoring my last text. I have the EBR Pro but after reading through a lot of it am not convinced it will work in this situation. He is obviously dating other women even though I feel I may have been a ‘front runner’ since he doesn’t engage much in other people’s social media posts other than mine. I also am wondering how I can do NC when we have many of the same friends and play volleyball in the same league. We see each other there and at get togethers regularly. Yesterday I acted disengaged as much as possible (he continued to carry the conversation) but I don’t know if this is the right approach.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 28, 2017 at 3:59 pm

      Hi Dawn,

      It’s not a guarantee to work in any situation, but it helps increase your chances.

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    November 23, 2017 at 8:20 am

    My ex just broke up with me yesterday night. We had our first major argument that has been ongoing for nearly 3 months. It was due to our different beliefs pertaining to our wedding in 2 years time when our house is ready and many small aspects came up to his mind. He felt that I have been taking him for granted for the past 6 years we have been together and he’s tired of everything. He has a bad habit of keeping things to himself, so he felt frustrated for all the times that he has been giving in to me until he just couldn’t take it anymore. The other problem was because he confided in his colleague about us and crushed on her after she showed care and concern to him. He told me that he stopped after realizing it was wrong. I forgave him but he couldn’t forgive himself for hurting me. And now he broke up with me because he is tired of himself and doesn’t want to try to mend things up anymore. He made me confused by hugging and kissing me before telling me that it’s better for me because he didn’t want to see me trying so hard for the relationship when he’s not trying at all. He said he didn’t want to waste my time anymore. He’s a very negative person and just want to shut everyone out. He said if we’re meant to be, we will be together again next time. I don’t know what to do anymore.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 24, 2017 at 12:40 pm

      Hi,

      Do you want to try the no contact rule?

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    Niña

    November 22, 2017 at 4:17 pm

    I had 7 months realtionship with my ex and it lasted last july i was hurt of his decision but i accept it. It was fine without him about 4 months already after that we had not communicate with each other but this october he suddenly contact me asking me if im fine hows my life and thats where we continue communicating i know i had i feeling that he is not serious with me of all his action i just wanna know how to forget him just like what i did back after we broke up i just want to get him off my life and move on.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 24, 2017 at 11:22 am

      Hi Niña,

      If you really want to continue moving on you just have to stop talking to him..

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    Niña

    November 22, 2017 at 4:08 pm

    Hi! my ex bf and i ended our relationship last july i was on the stage of moving on for about 4 months already. But suddenly he contacts me and message me out of nowhere now we are communicating with each other and i think this is a bad idea but i cant help myself to reply to his messages i just want to get him off my life and continue what i had started before after our break up.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 24, 2017 at 11:22 am

      Hi Niña,

      If you really want to continue moving on you just have to stop talking to him..

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    Anonymous

    November 21, 2017 at 5:48 pm

    Update: he posted a picture of him with a girl n he’s with her so i no longer need him in my life. NC Rule for the rest of my life. Thanks team for the support.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 23, 2017 at 1:37 am

      Ok, we understand..You’re welcome..

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    Anonymous

    November 21, 2017 at 10:44 am

    So, I’ve a gut feeling that he’s with someone else. Im on NC period, its my 20th Day n i wanna contact him once it’s over but there’s a part of me which says I shouldn’t contact him and leave him with whoever he is as I’m hurt and he doesn’t even care to contact me.
    Just after 3-4 days of breakup i felt like he’s looking for some girl on Facebook to get her as he was used to the regular schedule of talking to me n now that im gone he’s probably after someone else to fill the void.

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    Sarah

    November 20, 2017 at 9:36 pm

    Hi, thank you for this post. I am new here and am considering getting started on this journey. My boyfriend and i first got together in August of 2015. We kissed when I was still with my previous bf and broke up with him to be with my current ex. Me and my ex were kind of just messing around somewhat casually for the first 5 months or so because he was still guarded from his last relationship and he has a hard time with commitment. In January of 2016 we started officially dating and were together for just over a year before I ended things in March 2017. I have had a hard time with depression and anxiety, especially anxiety, since before I met him. It took a toll on me with him and I kind of lost my way with everything. I knew that I was too dependent on him and I needed to learn who I was and be able to stand on my own if we were ever going to make it. My mind had spiraled and there was just a lot of things going on in my mind that I wasn’t facing and decided to do it on my own. I broke up with him to be a better person on my own but I didn’t do a great job explaining myself about all of this during the breakup. I never was good at talking about my thoughts because, as most mentally people are, they think they’re being dramatic and no one would understand. He was pretty shocked and it’s all kind of a blur now. I had some demons to face, like needing to get past my past cheating that I still hadn’t forgiven myself for. Or learning that being independent is the way for us to survive. Learning to stand up for myself. Learning to love myself so that I can appreciate when someone else does. Things like that. Anyway, I had hoped I could get myself to a place where we could try again, but I never told him that for fear that that would be unfair and put him in a place of having to wait on me – and what if i did so and came out of this not wanting to be with him anymore? So I just let it be. 8 months later and I’m very very much improved and still have strong feelings of wanting to be with him forever. At 6 months post break up (sept), me and him sleep together and it completely solidified things for me. I was ready to tell him how i’d be feeling and what had been going on all this time in my head and my heart. I definitely approached it poorly because I wish i had thought about reasons he’d want to say no and squash them from the beginning (like being scared that I’d just leave again when things got hard, etc because even though he didn’t explicitly say it, I know that deep down it is a huge thing holding him back, and I didn’t blame him). Anyway, I spoke with him and explained myself and asked him to think about it and he got back to me a week later with the basic excuses (our old problems would come up, if we were meant to be we wouldn’t have broken up in the first place, i’m not in a place for a relationship), but as much as I tried to push him to tell me if it was truly over or not, he couldn’t tell me definitively that it would never happen again…just not now (his commitment issues again creeping up a little). In our second discussion, I also made mention of a girl I thought he had been spending time with so I could say that I wasn’t trying to impose myself but that i hadn’t wanted to say anything until I was ready and as I continued talking, he cut me off to assure me that the girl was just a friend and had been visiting. I took him at face value and believed him, because there was no reason for him to lie. He can be with someone, we aren’t dating. I just found out about a week ago that there was definitely more going on with this girl so I had lunch with him last week to clarify everything. We talked through a lot of things and I can tell that deep down his feelings for me are still there and that he is just scared. So I think it might just take some time for him to figure it out and some convincing on my part. What I don’t want to do is convince him so hard that I’m desperate or annoying. I know he needs to figure it out himself but I think he needs a little push and maybe a little manipulation 😉  This article really helped me though, because you’re right when you say it’s new and shiny and that it will wear off. When it does I want to be ready. Do you think I’m completely naive to still believe that we are meant to be? I absolutely know that I do not want to give up on him or me or us ever again, so I’m determined to make this work this time. I have a hard time being patient, but I’m going to try NC. We work together and have a solid friendship though, so it will be tough…but necessary. We haven’t been without contact for long periods of time these whole last 8 months. I have made huge strides on my own already but there’s so much more room for improvement and look forward to where I’ll be in a month. I just don’t want to lose sight of the bigger picture plan. Thanks for your help.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 23, 2017 at 12:23 am

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    Danielle

    November 19, 2017 at 10:23 pm

    So I am very seriously considering EBR, with that being said I have not come across anything that fits my situation to a tee. Chris and I have been together for 9 years and I am currently still living in his house while I finish school. He states that I can stay as long as I need/want and I appreciate that tremendously. With that said, he moved in with a woman he had met earlier this year on a singles website and the cheating was discovered by me around March. When I confronted him he denied it and used his best gas lighting techniques which caused me to contact the other woman. She knew nothing about me living with him and was obviously told that he had been single for quite some time. Fast forward to these last several months and she took him back and he moved in with her after we had a big argument. At first I was not too upset to see him go, I was angry with the lies and cheating and was happy to not have to look at his face for a while. In the last few months we have talked, and he seems to look for any excuse to come by the house or to contact me…I allow this. At this point we have discussed his confusion during this time and he states that he feels very confused and was just unhappy when he met her due to lack of communication and sex b/n us. I could agree with everything said but do not condone cheating by any means, with that said, I feel I can forgive it. He does vent to me about his new gf and while he likes many things about her he states that the long term will go nowhere due to some other habits and 4 children (he has no kids and my son is in college) in her home and constant bickering. He has asked to come home stating that he realizes that it is over b/n them, however, we have not actually discussed getting back together officially. He had spent the night here one evening after we had been with his mother at the hospital near by and his gf lives an hour from our house, he was exhausted and did not want to drive. Without asking he just came to our room and got into bed with me and we held each other all night. In the morning I could tell that neither one of us regretted that or felt guilty and he made a point to come back into the house after initially leaving and grabbing me and kissing me. I must admit…it had been a while since I felt that type of passion with him and I decided right then and there that I want him back. He is still at her home but has brought most everything back to our house (clothes etc…). I know he is feeling guilty about her especially with her kids who have gotten used to him being there. She uses the kids to make him feel guilty at times. I’m leery of everything and while I would love to try again, I want this to be his decision being that there is another woman involved. What can you recommend for me to read/do? I was doing fine with the way things were but this recent closeness has me spinning I must admit…and I’m craving him again. Thank you in advance for all of your guidance.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 21, 2017 at 7:05 pm

      Hi Danielle,

      Move out to another place.. Honestly, continuing to live in his house after knowing he cheated and now that he’s staying with her is not good for your image.. It looks like you just allow him hurting you and opening the door for him to use you because you don’t respect yourself to walk out.. Yes he’s showing signs that he’s going back but what happens when he gets bored again? Start with moving out first.. Find a way. Ask around school, friends or relatives if they know a cheap place you can rent or be a room mate with and then do the no contact rule..

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    Madonna

    November 19, 2017 at 11:45 am

    Hi,
    My boyfriend has stopped talking to me suddenly. He’s not responding to my texts or phone calls. We are LDR and I ususally go see him every year. We are in relation for 7 years, 1 year in the same city and 6 years in different countries (he had to travel to continue his studies). From a year ago he started to ignore me for days and I’m the one who keeps talking and asking about him, and every time we fight for the same thing (why are you not contacting me?? And ignoring me??) So now he stopped completely talking to me and without any reasons. I’m scared that he would have met someone else. I really want him back I love him so much. I did the best to make our relationship works. I know he loves me, a lot, but he has changed lately so I’m worried. What to do??? I want him back. When he stopped talking to me 6 weeks ago we were talking normally and even laughing on WhatsApp then he stopped responding, I kept calling him and texting him for 3 days but then I stopped cause I saw him active on Skype and whatsapp, he even till now did not open my what’sapp mags. I’m active on social media and I keep posting pictures of Myself.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 20, 2017 at 10:15 pm

      Hi Madonna

      Check this one:
      What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Ghosted You

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    michelle

    November 19, 2017 at 12:04 am

    Well me and my now ex boyfriend. Have been dating for 4 years .. we broke up about a week and a half ago..I broke up with him but I just wanted him to show me more attention and show me that he care …he started talking to this girl a day after we broke up .. they been talking for 4 days . Well now a week a half. and he has moved in with her , went to New Orleans with her and she even let’s him drive her car everywhere, cooks for him and everything…we have a daughter together and I’m 5 months pregnant by him… I’ve begged him to come back and everything … He says he doesn’t have feelings for her but that he only started talking to her because I broke up with him .. and that if I never would have broke up with him this would have never happened but I was just in my feelings… But he says he doesn’t want to just stop talking to her .. because he doesn’t want to hurt her feelings…. He’s 20…she’s 28… he told me I should move on and we can be friends….. Idk what to do .. I’m trying the 30 day no contact rule and hoping he will start to miss me and come back….I wish I would have never broke up with him and kicked him out. But I was just in my feelings I need some advice will they last? Is he in a rebound realtionship?

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 20, 2017 at 5:34 pm

      Hi Michelle,

      Can be.. Either he’s just her or he’s just using your break up as an excuse because he wanted to do something with her in the first place.. Check this one:
      How To Get Your Ex Back When You Have A Child With Them

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    Lina

    November 18, 2017 at 7:28 pm

    Hi Amor,
    I have been trying to focus on myself and working out and spending time with others but I find its very hard for me even 2 months later. It doesnt help either that i see all these things on social media because we are still friends and all. He met this woman like a month after we broke up and they just seem to really click and be getting closer and closer. I thought i could deal with the breakup om its own at first but this has just added to my sadness and Im not sure what to do anymore. Please help me.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 20, 2017 at 3:09 pm

      Hi Lina,
      Unfriend him so you won’t see his posts and see a therapist to help you move on

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    Lynn

    November 18, 2017 at 7:24 pm

    Thank you Amor. I know and I try to act cool with him, always. But…how could I possibly win him back if he doesn’t see me? This is my only chance to see him and if he doesn’t… I know that it is easier for him not feeling too much because without meeting again in person, this is “unreal”. He can’t feel the benefits of a relationship with me. And he hates LDR so if he doesn’t spend time with me again, his wall is going to be there. And he could meet another girl and completly forget me… I am scared.
    These months I have given big steps in the proccess but with his moving I feel that everything is in the sqare zero again, more difficult than ever, even if he admitted that if he weren’t moving we could have another chance and when he comes back…But I don’t know when will he come back. So I must fight with what I have and I don’t know what to do…

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 20, 2017 at 5:45 am

      You’re right and that’s the truth but it has to be two ways.. He has to want to see you too.. Right now, if he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you and he thinks that that’s one of your ways to get him back, he will not go.. And the more you feel desperate about it, the more it will show.. That’s why the more important thing to do right now is to have good conversations because that can help making him want to see you in person.. If he doesn’t, you have to accept that you have to move on…

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    Rebekah

    November 18, 2017 at 9:12 am

    Hi! I am on Day 12 of 2nd break up. My focus is still slightly on my ex as I’ve wondered about things and if I will ever see him again which is natural but I’ve been trying to focus on myself. I am working out more, going to work every day, focusing on my mental health issue as I suffer with anxiety, taking medication, starting a course which I determined to go to and attempting to socialise a bit more. I’m also hoping to get counciling. Although I’m doing all this I have my down moments and think about him, let myself get emotional and then try and get on. As I said I’m on day 12 of 2nd break up. Going back to first break up.. I went into nc for 21 days, he reached out around day 18/19 and I sent my first text then after I finished. Looking back on it I think I should have stuck longer so he’d value me and realise things. We got back together quite quickly once he had got really emotional wanting me back.. so we had got back for 6 months and things slowly went back downhill. From his point of view I was to blame and from mine his but I also could see my issues and insecurities from my mental health etc. I wasn’t good at controlling my emotions but he made that very difficult for me, he wouldn’t communicate, would ignore me and not speak to me properly for days. I would ‘complain’ and I had trust issues with him too. In some senses I should have left but I loved him. I would tell him what I didn’t like and he’d change it for awhile then revert back to how he was and instead of leaving I just would be angry with him and plead with him to do things differently. He would be angry and say horrible things and wanted a calmer girlfriend.. as I have anxiety I struggle and get panic attacks. Have lack of motivation to do things some days and wanted his support he couldn’t give! I still believe I deserve more than what he was giving to me and I had hoped he’d be the guy but I realise I can’t force that and have to focus on building myself. I still love him and still wonder if I’ll hear from him again and what I should do if I do hear off him. I think I could only take him back if he was more of a man to me and soothed my anxieties not made them worse. Any advice is welcome 🙂

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 20, 2017 at 5:18 am

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    Anonymous

    November 18, 2017 at 4:08 am

    And should i delete his contact?
    He never saw any of my stories I uploaded on WhatsApp since our breakup till date but today morning i saw his name in viewers list of one of the pics I uploaded. It was just a motivational pic to workout!
    Should i leave it as it is for him to see the stories or should I remove him from the list?
    I doubt he’ll see my stories ever again.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 20, 2017 at 4:47 am

      Yep you should leave it..and post more in sites where posts lasts..just make them public if you’re not friends there

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    tanya

    November 18, 2017 at 2:58 am

    Hello! Here is my situation:

    33 days since breakup, 7 days of arguing, 8 days of limited contact, 18 days of NC. He supposedly left town.

    Broke NC today. Texted him a photo of construction down the street which we joked about.

    Me: They finally made some progress on that building. Hope you’re doing well 🙂
    Him: Starting to look nice. Though I’d be lying if I said I didn’t know already. I hope that you’re doing well.
    Me: I’d be lying if I said I haven’t been spending my morning at ** Park (significant location and the place where we last saw each other after the breakup)
    Him: probably would have seen you there if that was really the case

    He already has trust issues and our relationship ended over me talking to another man (no sex).

    Any advice?

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 20, 2017 at 3:31 am

      Hi Tanya,

      That was the reason of the break up? How active were you in improving yourself and in posting? Check this one:
      This Is How To Make Him Trust You Again

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    Lynn

    November 17, 2017 at 9:45 pm

    UPDATE: well, he responded. We exchanged like 7-8 texts each, he was nice and a little bit flirty, less than other time but with the usual tone… But…I see him soo happy in social media. Happy and…different. Last two weeks he have changed, he is still boasting about his nights out (he never was like that, he barely went partying, he used to tell that that stage had ended years ago, even before meeting me…and the break up is not recent, during these months he has been living his calm life just like before, even his first month in his new city) and… I don’t know. I am afraid he met another or something… I don’t know. I need him to accept meeting me in two weeks but I don’t know. It seems that the more I play the UG, the more he brags about his life and it hurts me because I am scared…

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 18, 2017 at 2:50 am

      You have to be open that he will not meet you, and if he doesn’t you have to accept it because the more you think that you “need” him to meet you, the more you will act desperate.

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    Lynn

    November 17, 2017 at 5:08 pm

    I posted in another posts. Sum up: I was in the “friends” stage wth my ex, after NC and building rapport with texting, very slowly but fine, balance about initiating, once a wee or so we texted each other…we lived in different cities but near…but a month and a half ago he moved across the country. Just before, he admitted that he has missed me, I told him that we deserved another chance and he told me that he wasn’t moving away forever and when he came back we could have that conversation again, but that he was very happy to hear what I said to him. He moved and I went NC, it doesn’t work as well as the first time. He is extremely happy with his new life (he moved for the adventure of trying to live by himself) and almost everyday post in social media how perfect his life is. He barely text, once each every two weeks, kinda… Two weeks ago he texted me and told me that he was thinkinking about me and looking at my pictures. And the…nothing. I texted him last week, he ignored me (he even left it unread until yesterday). I had send it a picture of something that reminded me to him (we used to do this since the first NC ended, that’s how we started to get closer). So after a week, yesterday I texted him again, just saying “I need your advice…”, just that, trying to get him interesting. Nothing. He is living his new life, going out (even before dating me, he didn’t like partying, he was in another phase, more quiet and happy just staying home watching movies or spending time with his family. I did have waaay more social life) and everything is perfect for him. So…he is forgetting me. I keep playing the UG, posting about my social life and everytime we text, I am positive, light and fun. We were kinda flirty too… But now… I am afraid he is moving on for good.
    As I told in another post, in two weeks I am going to his new city to visit friends and I need to see him, I need him to see me (we didn’t see each other since before the break up, he avoided it) but before telling him, I wanted to build more rapport but…if he started ignoring me these two weeks, just after saying me that (that he was thinking about me and looking and my pictures), I don’t know what to do. NC is not possible: I am going in two weeks and that would be my only chance to meet, and last NC didn’t work as well as the first one.

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    Anonymous

    November 17, 2017 at 11:57 am

    I am on my 17th day of NC rule. He’s posting love statuses on his WhatsApp. He’s too available on social media, be it Facebook & WhatsApp. I don’t know whether it’s just to show me or he is actually with some other girl. After 2-3 days of our breakup i felt like he’s looking for some other. Our relationship was 11 months long.
    Now I’m wondering whther I should text him after NC or not! As i still love him but if he would have cared about me he would have texted me till now instead of looking for other girl. I guess it’s a new girl from his workplace. I am not sure though, but he’s showing like he’s with someone else.
    Please help me what should i do? And also, should I delete his number as looking at his love statuses n constant online status kills me as I couldn’t help myself from checking his profile???
    As per some people, he looks normal, no sad feeling or traces of breakup. Its like i wanna talk to him after NC but knowing the fact that he might be with someone else kills me.
    Also im active in posting on Facebook about my improvements as im working out on myself n posting pictures.
    I am focusing on every aspect of life but eventually out of nowhere it just hit me.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 18, 2017 at 2:46 am

      You can extend to 45 days if you want to…

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    Angelica L Graham

    November 17, 2017 at 12:23 am

    My ex and I broke up a lil over a month ago. I did beg at first, but stopped and only asked him questions about why when he would communicate with me. He had blocked me on FB but has since unblocked me. The only times we communicate now is when he messages me, like wanting to borrow my tent and air mattress for a trip that we had planned that he took another girl on. He started seeing her 2 weeks after we broke up. So what led to the break up was me questioning him about why he didnt want to get married and didnt believe in it. A couple of days after our disagreement, we dont really fight, he told me that he needed to let me go so that I could find someone that had the same beliefs as me and could give me what I wanted. But during one of our talks he said that he felt that our relationship was only temporary and that I never saw a future with him. Which I told him was crazy as I was wanting more and that he had been my future. I have been sticking to the no contact except when it comes to issues like today he asked for me to put his stuff on the porch and he would come by to pick up tonight after work. I just told him that I could do it sunday morning before I went out of town. No more responses. I know he is seeing someone. But what hurts is that not only did he cut me out of his life saying it was to painfull to see what I was up to but he did my family as well that loved him. HELP

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 18, 2017 at 2:39 am

      Hi Angelica,

      his stuff should be the last favor or issue you should talking to him about.. if you could have someone else give it, better.. Restart the count of nc after that.. be active in improving yourself and in posting.

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    Zia Correa

    November 16, 2017 at 10:40 pm

    I have bought the pro system and I’m a member of the fb grp. I stopped reading the first book because I don’t see my situation in it. My bd mother made him breakup with me 6 weeks ago. She said it was either her or I. He has what’s called mother enmeshement syndrome, psychologist Dr. Kenneth Adams has written a couple of books about this. He’s a college student who is financially dependent on his parents so when this happened he made her block me from all social media and didn’t let him come home for 3 weeks. I had forced NC until he came back and I drove to his house to see if I could fix the situation (begged and pleaded). He said he was in love with me before he left but now no longer. I found out 2 wks ago he’s dating an OW that could be my twin. I stopes reading the material because the catalyst if the breakup was his mother. Before he left we where looking at wedding rings and he old me our relationship was the best it had ever been. He couldn’t stop telling me how much he loved me the last night we spent together. Disclaimer he also has been diagnosed with ADHD which could be complicating things even further. I need your guidance and help.

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      EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 18, 2017 at 2:37 am

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