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422 thoughts on “This Will Make Him Call You Or Answer The Phone”

  1. R

    September 26, 2016 at 8:15 pm

    My ex doesn’t like texting. He didn’t respond to my texts after no contact period. But today when I called him after 3 months he picked up the phone immediately! Well I controlled the start and ending point of the conversation but I wonder a 10 minutes long conversation would make him to call me back?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      September 28, 2016 at 7:56 am

      Hi R,

      If he doesn’t like texting, then just stick to calls. One call wouldn’t make him want to call back.. You have to build rapport and attraction. Once he’s interested again in you, there’s a higher chance that he will initiate the calls again.

  2. E

    July 10, 2016 at 12:58 am

    Hi, my ex boyfriend broke up with me 6 months ago because he felt affection for me but was not in love anymore. We live very far from each other so it was a LDR and we met about twice a year for 1-2 months each time. After the break up we decided to stay friends and kept writing about once a week and video called with Skype about once a month. We also met a few times while I was in our home town for a month and he told me he had a nice time with me but didn’t feel in love. For the last month, I’ve been doing NC and he wrote to me after approximately 30-35 days to tell me his grandmother, who I felt was like my own and he knew it, had died. I answered telling him my condolences and then we chatted shortly. I don’t have problems getting him to write back or call, I just don’t know how to get his love back, can you give me tips to connect again on an emotional level?

    1. E

      September 1, 2016 at 1:17 pm

      We now chat on messenger about 2-3x a week and skype every two weeks and he is very friendly but it just feels like we are friends now. He tells me about his failing flirting techniques and that his job stresses him because he feels incompetent for the job. So do you think he friendzoned me? When we were together we were best friends too so I’m just confused on how to get him to love me again and keeping that complicity.

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      September 1, 2016 at 3:04 pm

      he’s going to if it’s like that.. you should read this article: EBR 012: How To Get Out Of The “Friend Zone” With Your Ex Boyfriend

    3. E

      July 16, 2016 at 2:18 am

      Yes, write as in text, or on Skype. We also sometimes video call on skype. When we do, he seems more friendly and more fluent than when we text. He never says no when I ask him if he wants to Skype, but the idea never comes from him. Is this a better way to build rapport? I don’t know how often is better, I don’t want to annoy him so I usually ask him about once a month. He always used to be the one chasing me, I don’t want to chase him to much but I still want to build rapport because we both have fun when we are or talk together.

    4. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 16, 2016 at 6:01 pm

      yes, it’s time to move on more to skyping.. hmmm.. it doesn’t have to be everyday but if it is that’s good too.. the quality is more important.. try to talk about something you can continue on the next time or something he might want to ask an update about

    5. E

      July 15, 2016 at 12:56 pm

      Thanks! And should I keep writing to him about once a week? At the end of a conversation he always wished me a nice week until I did one month NC. And I am not sure if he sees my posts on Facebook anymore, he used to like them all stil a few months ago, but now he hasn’t commented anything in a while. So how often should I write to him ( when I do he writes back and we have a fluent conversation) ?

    6. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 15, 2016 at 6:43 pm

      write as in text right? If it’s just once per week, you wouldn’t be able to build rapport with that.. with texting style, listen to this one: EBR 022- How To Text Your Ex Boyfriend

    7. E

      July 14, 2016 at 10:02 am

      Thank you! I’ve read the articles and this is exactly what I needed: I used to be an ungettable girl when I first me him and he still kept chasing me during the first 2 years when we were together and then stopped so the last year together felt like we were an old couple. The problem is when I don’t first write to him, he won’t write to me by himself and since we are long distance, I don’t know how to have him chase me again. When I was in my home town a few months ago, he texted me every time after we had seen each other to thank me for the fun day together that he had fun with me and that he enjoys being friends with me. Since I am back here, he never contacts me first excepted when his grandma died. Since he broke up with me because he didn’t feel in love with me anymore, is there a way he can chase me again?

    8. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 14, 2016 at 8:16 pm

      Sorry, I’ll sound like a broken record.. but it’s really just aiming to be the ungettable girl again and being active in social media so he can see it

    9. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 10, 2016 at 8:16 pm

  3. Lisa

    July 10, 2016 at 12:20 am

    I sent a long story that didn’t get posted. I read all the advice & I know I can’t write him it’s urgent or he will run farther. But it is. And I can’t prime a call with any of the style of texts because he blocked me. Can you please read the reply i sent a few days ago. I would be eternally grateful.

    1. Lisa

      July 11, 2016 at 4:45 am

      Amor, this wasn’t hormone based. I am not pregnant now. I have frozen embryos. He knows I don’t want him to father a child. He supported me the whole round, but broke up saying he wanted me to find someone who shared my dream. I think he thought I had hesitation during the process he wouldn’t have broken up with me. I don’t think you saw that the stuff the appeared psycho occured because he has bipolar & due to something he did, I was scared he had an episode & was in jeopardy. Otherwise the 1st & main problem wouldn’t have occured. He failed to communicate his feelings as it was all mixed signals. May 1 made me dinner & said excited to go to concert in 3 weeks, but then me offering a nice gesture a few days later upset him because he thought it was too many texts & I had other motives when I was really trying to be nice because I knew he was depressed & wanted to help since he did so many nice me during the ivf. Bipolar people are very paranoid, I’ve read everything about the disease & relationships. I didn’t want to stay in the relationship to feel loved, I felt he was the one & most in sync I’ve ever been with a man. He thought ther was a chance the ivf coukd fail & deep down I think he hoped it would because he cared about me & wanted to be with. Me minus a kid. I did the no contact after our brief friendship period & after he sent the nasty letter, I waited a month to send one explaining that I would’ve never done anythjng to jeopardize the friendship but he didn’t communicate well. After we drank the nt of his bday dinner he said he only wanted to catch up every 2 months for a concert & dinner, but then we still hung out twice week for 2 weeks. If he communicated that we shouldn’t talk for 3 weeks till the concert, I would’ve left him alone but he didn’t communicate so I had no clue my texts upset him. I wish there was some way to get him to talk to me.

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 12, 2016 at 8:46 am

      well, that’s good..at least you only have yourself to look after to for now.. Since he is bipolar, it’s more reason for you to do active no contact. Because even if he is the bipolar one, you’re the only one who kept reaching out..

    3. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 10, 2016 at 8:13 pm

      Hi lisa,

      it was actually posted.. And I had a frank reply to it.. so brace yourself but hear me out.. it’s for the better.. I’ll paste it here:

      Hi Lisa,

      I just want to make sure. is the ivf successful and are you pregnant now?

      You need to be in therapy for your depression..

      I’m not sure if you did those because of hormones or because you are insecure and the relationship ended in honeymoon period..

      but either way, stop chasing him.. I don’t like being harsh, especially if you’re pregnant but you need to read back on your comment..

      You looked like a psycho obssessed stalking ex girlfriend which can be because of hormones but even if it’s that, you have to be aware now that you have stop being like that ok?

      Love yourself. A child or a partner is the best companion in life and a we all need core relationships but you need to learn to get love from yourself because it’s not true love if you just want to stay in the relationship just to feel loved..

      and to add to that that means you have to do nc but it has to be a long one..maybe even in the span of your pregnancy and just focus in it first.. and after they’re newly born too.. coz if he sense you’re still trying to contact him with your growing belly, he might think you’re just wanting a father to your child

  4. Mugie

    June 16, 2016 at 12:49 am

    Well we have been dating for 2 months
    After the break up i didnt contact him for 2 months
    Ten days ago he blocked me on Facebook
    And i still don’t know the reason why we broke up
    It’s like my chances are so weak

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      June 17, 2016 at 12:21 pm

      Hi Mugie,

      I know you haven’t talked to each other..but you haven’t started being active in improving yourself too right? so that’s your agenda during nc..be active in social media even if he blocked you..just don’t caption that it’s for him or moving on.. make it a casual post

  5. Ei Thaw

    May 16, 2016 at 5:40 am

    I want to make a call to my one sided love person.But I don’t dare.I’m afraid if he won’t reply me well.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 19, 2016 at 9:07 am

      Hi Ei Thaw,

      Have you done the no contact?

  6. Joe

    April 22, 2016 at 7:31 pm

    ok so YES I MADE SOME MISTAKES since the break up. I was almost a text gnat… but not quite… (like really close) I only texted once every couple of weeks. Right after the breakup I asked if we could still be friends (and he said yes we can, but right now he was going though a lot of things and needed to focus on things (little did I know that everything that was going on was right around the time of breakup, and is part of the reason we broke up, not why he said)
    Anyway, he called me a few days later, I answered. I replied back with a you sound tired message wanna talk. …yep nothing from him…. a couple weeks later I texted him asking why I was on his ignore list…yep insert snappy response from him.
    A couple weeks later he calls again… I answer yet again.. he’s apologizing for being an asshole earlier, and saying yes he wants to be friends (this is a very long term thing for both of us) I again stupidly text him the next day, thanking him for the call. Telling him what I believe friends to be, and that he could tell me what it means to him.
    a few days later… FB picture.. he looks so tired… so what do I do… text him to see how he’s doing, and to see if everything Is ok. Saying if he wanted to talk he knew where I was. Easter…. my text to him… I know I’m still on your ignore list….insert unhappy text from him.
    A few days later, I texted an apology saying I was being a jerk! no response…
    A few days later he calls me.. wishing me luck on some interviews I had coming up
    Yep you guessed it… I texted him the next day… this time it WAS SO LONG!!! yep I got the arrow beside the text…)
    A week or so later he calls to congratulate me on my new job, we chatted he smiled and laughed, I smiled and laughed.
    Then guess what… I didn’t text him 🙂 YAY ME!!!!
    basically he’s going through some things, major things, and needs his space. He’s been telling me silently all along that he needs his space, but in my hurt I couldn’t hear them.
    My question to you, is I know I screwed up, and I’m doing NC now and working on ME (yes for the first time In like 16 years, its all about me) , like completely clean this time, no FB instagram, Twitter, nothing.. (is there a support group for Social Media Withdrawal ***yep going crazy here ***;)…) Is it too late for this to work? Did I screw up too badly to get him back? (yes I guess I’m feeling a little down today 🙂

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      April 23, 2016 at 2:03 pm

      Hi Joe,

      you’re 16? that’s good that you’re focusing in yourself.. I’m assuming he’s a teen too.. take it slow.. build your own life, use nc as a start for it…you should have your own life apart from your bf whatever your age is.. and both of you are just starting to have a bigger world..enjoy that because someday instead of just having time to have to have fun, you would only spend most of it for your responsibilities

  7. s

    March 5, 2016 at 7:54 pm

    last saturday my ex boyfriend told me if I want we coul see each other and I told him that when I was free I would tell to him so this friday I called him and I asked him if he wanted to see me this sunday. H esaid that he would tell me. Tonight he said me that he can’t tomorrow and if I want that we coul see each other after my university degree (that will be the 16thof march), when I will be more free. ( I think that is only an excuse naturally) so I said him that he could tell me when is free this week so I can tell him whwn we could see each other and I made another question about his work. He answered only about the work so I told him” let me know” (for the date)! What to do? Only waiting for an answer… I wanted to see him also to invite him to my university degree… even if he will not come at all… Now what to text him? or I have to do other things? I don’t want to show him neediness but I would like to see him this week before my graduation and to invite him also in person

    1. S

      March 17, 2016 at 7:40 pm

      OK… and what can I do so? only say thanks to him and wait or anything else?

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      March 19, 2016 at 7:15 am

      Oh sorry.. I meant initiate convos only for the meant time instead of meet up

    3. S

      March 17, 2016 at 5:32 pm

      yesterday I get graduated and today my ex boyfriend has finally send me a text and he said that he was sorry because he has not listened to my thesis yesterday ( last week I invited him but he has not answered to me) and that he wanted only to make me his congratulations. How can I start a conversation? how can I convince him at least to see each other one time?

    4. EBR Team Member: Amor

      March 17, 2016 at 6:08 pm

      Don’t rush, if he’s not engaging in talks, it’s less likely that he would meet up because there’s no rapport. What did you reply to that?

    5. s

      March 11, 2016 at 7:44 pm

      yesterday I wrote him a text about a film and I asked how’s going work just to open conversation and he don’t answered, today I wrote him to invite him to my graduation but he didn’t answered anymore. I feel like I regressed with him. On weeks ago he answered to me and now not even an answer. What to do? I have to no contact him for a while? or text him anything? I don’t know…

    6. EBR Team Member: Amor

      March 12, 2016 at 12:52 pm

      Yes..stop for a week before trying again, if he still doesn’t respond..either you try after two weeks or try to move on

    7. EBR Team Member: Amor

      March 6, 2016 at 6:51 am

      you can send one open invite, then do other things 🙂

  8. Alyssa

    March 4, 2016 at 2:42 pm


    I’ve been reading other people’s stories on here for about an hour an a half, looking for one that sounded like mine. I can’t seem to find anything similar to my situation. My ex and I were together for about 2 years. Everything was amazing at first. Eventually, we started arguing. He was jealous and insecure. He didn’t like it when I would go out with my friends and things of that nature – saying that I cared about them more than I cared about him. I broke up with him the first time (after a year) because I couldn’t deal with his controlling behaviors (I’ve had controlling bf’s in the past). After a week I gave in and we got back together. About 6 months later we broke up again (mutual), got back together, broke up again (mutual) and then got back together – within a 6 month time period. I was sick of the back and forth so the last time we got back together I decided that it was going to be all or nothing. After months of negotiating with myself about whether I wanted to be him or not, I decided that I didn’t put all this effort into our relationship for nothing, and that I was willing to do anything to make it work. What I didn’t realize is that his feelings were not the same as mine. That was about two months ago. I could tell things were different between us, but I didn’t let it bother me. Then I just couldn’t fight my feelings anymore, I started wondering why he was acting so distance. Was there someone else? After two years of never going through his phone (he went through mine) I went on his social media and found numerous messages to girls, one in particular that he was asking to meet up with while I was out of town. I confronted him, and his reaction was that of typical cheater. He of course denied it, and then began blaming me for the demise of our relationship (innocent texts in my phone, dancing on guys when i was drunk) and then something that really stuck with me that he said within the first 10 minutes of our 8 hour long confrontation – “Well, we we’re gonna break up anyways”. I feel like he gave up on us and on me. I feel like he stopped loving me 6 months ago and that’s when he started cheating. I’m devastated because I ALWAYS trusted him and I truly didn’t believe he would do something that would intentionally destroy me. His half-ass apologies kept beginning with “Im sorry, BUT you…”. They don’t feel real. It doesn’t seem like he thinks he did something wrong. I was expecting him to overtaken with guilt and beg for forgiveness (what he has done almost every other time I’ve been upset with him), but he wasn’t. Our three day long, on going conversation ended in a text message telling me that he loved me, but he was busy at work and had to go. That was exactly two weeks ago. I am trying my very best to do my own thing while partaking in NC. I started working out, and I have a lot of fun activities planned in the next few weeks.

    I don’t even know if I want to be with him anymore, but I do feel like I eventually need to talk to him. I know its cliche, but I need some kind of apology, or some kind of “closure” so that I know I’m not so unloveable and worthless that he could just drop at any point in time and never talk to me again. I feel stupid for not seeing the signs, and guilty for only thinking about my feelings and never his. I know he felt unappreciated, I didn’t mean to make him feel that way. I love him and I miss him, and I just don’t know how to move on without knowing that he misses me too, and that he is actually sorry for what he did.

    Thank you for your time,


    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      March 5, 2016 at 8:06 am

      Hi Alyssa,
      I don’t think you lacked effort..you even said you were putting the work.. the best time to do that is after bc of course.. at least by that time you’re more emotionally ready to reconnect and if ever he wants to be back with you.. take everything slow becauese then it will be a cycle again.. let him make th effort for you

  9. s

    March 4, 2016 at 9:45 am

    Today I called my ex we talk about ten minutes about school and work. I told him that he wanted we could see each other this sunday because he had alrealdy asked me to go out one week ago and I told him that I couldn’t. He said that he will tell me if he can go out with me this sunday. I tried to drive the conversation but he closed him the conversation:/

  10. Angel

    February 29, 2016 at 5:45 am

    Hi! My boyfriend suddenly told me lastnight that we aren’t suited for each other and then blocked me on whatsapp only. He’d do this to me everyitme he is sad about his kids from his previous relationship. He felt I deserve someone who doesn’t have issues and rubbish. I really like him a lot! We’re on LDR and been together for more than 2 years now. Lastweek, he just told me that im the best thing that ever happened to him and that I am the most patient woman he ever met. And just last night he suddenly messaged me on whatsapp and then blocked me. When he does that, I would normally try to contact him through facebook or international sms or email or international call. But lastnight and today, I decided to just read a new pocketbook Ive been wanting to read. Will this make him feel I don’t like him anymore? Should I contact him or wait ‘til he contacts me? He has depression that’s why Im worried about him.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      March 1, 2016 at 8:40 am

      Hi Angel,

      First,what do you really want to happen? Do you want to move in but make sure he’s okay or you want to still be with him but you want the cycle to stop?

  11. rachel

    February 26, 2016 at 9:29 pm

    Hi, I’ve finished 30days no contact. He’s not contacted me and I’m still blocked on whatsapp etc. I thought I would call him out of the blue and say I passed his favourite restaurant as I can’t text him cos I think he’s also blocked me on there. What do you think I should do?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 27, 2016 at 9:23 am

      Hi Rachel,

      I don’t think you can call him if you’re blocked in texting and also it’s better to wait until you’re unblocked in social media, and then once you knew you’re un blocked there, don’t message right ahead..because he may think you’re just waiting for him to unblock you and he may get annoyed .

  12. Girl

    February 26, 2016 at 6:24 pm

    I’ve followed all of your advice to a T, which has taken a good amount of patience and work. It’s paying off slowly but surely! We had a phone call the other day that I had intended to only last for 5 minutes for the matter at hand, and then a while longer for a quick catch up, but when I tried to end the conversation to ‘leave him wanting more’, he pulled the classic starting a whole new conversation after I had started to say my goodbyes. We ended up on the phone for an hour, and while it was all positive, I feel like I messed up by not enforcing the end of the conversation better. I haven’t heard from him since, and while there’s a chance it’s because he’s been busy, is there also a chance he’s pulling away after that?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 27, 2016 at 8:36 am

      Hi Girl,

      if it was positive, I don’t think you messed it up..

  13. Hillary

    November 2, 2015 at 9:49 pm

    I am so sore over a recent break up. I have never connected with a man like this before. He broke up with me because he said he was not ready for the next level. It has been over two months since we last spoke. I can’t stop thinking about him. I have been working on stabilizing my emotions and working on myself but I am shocked at how the pain of losing him is still present. I don’t want to have to get over him completely but I cannot bring myself to initiate contact. I am afraid if he blows me off it’ll rip me to shreads. I don’t want to let too much time pass before I reconnect with him because I believe there is a reason I still have this knot in my throat every time I think of him. If he doesn’t feel the same way then I’d rather brave the sadness until I’m finally over it. I can’t help but want to know if there is anything in the future left of us. Please help, I feel paralyzed by all the do’s and don’ts.

  14. Jackie

    October 25, 2015 at 4:32 pm

    Hi Chris, I’m curious about your take on this. My ex and I broke up about 4 months ago. I’ve exercised iron restraint (I haven’t initiated any contact). There’s been very little exchange between us. He sent an apology text to which I responded briefly and civilly (“OK, thanks”), and about 2 weeks ago, he called me from his home phone but didn’t say anything. I did pick up, but only said ‘hello’. The phone call intrigues me – it’s more difficult to ‘butt-dial’ from a home phone. I did not call him because I feel that if he had something he wants to say, he will call again and speak, and the circumstances behind our break-up (his unwillingness to commit) suggest to me that I should stay strong.

    My thoughts are that he could have been trying to bait me into contacting him, wanted me to think about him (mission accomplished!), was hoping to leave me a voicemail and lost his nerve to speak when I picked up, or maybe was trying to delete my number off of his speed dial and accidentally called instead. Any thoughts you might have from a man’s point of view would be appreciated. Thanks!

  15. Mehnaz

    October 18, 2015 at 6:56 pm

    Hey i wanted to tell what if i brokeup with him? Which was a foolish idea 🙁 and now i want him back. We were in LDR for 3years. And brokeup one month ago but still we were talking as friends. I realized it was a huge mistake. I cried and told him everything to get back with me but nothing worked. He tells me to move on cz he moved on and never coming back cz he is interested in someone new now which is very shocking and hurtful for me.i made him call me but he tells me if he keeps Calling me i won’t be able to forget him. But i dont wanna forget him ever.What should i do?? Am doing the no contact rule now its so difficult.

  16. Lala

    October 6, 2015 at 4:10 pm

    My bf broke up with me 2 days ago and we been together for 9 months, he says i not respectful and i don’t listen to him when he talks to me. He says i am an embarrassment when we go out, for example if we go somewhere and someone gets taken care of before us, ill show my display of unacceptance because we were in fact there first and he gets upset that i spoke how i felt. He broke up with me after a petty argument and says im too emotional and i don’t listen. I called and texted him at least 20 times saying i was sorry but no response i feel really hurt. Idk what to do or how to get him back.

  17. Pihu

    September 20, 2015 at 6:04 pm

    Hey Chris!
    I’ve become an admirer of your work and if I wasn’t smitten with my ex right now, I would have been in love with you! I literally rub my hands in excitement whenever the ‘good part’ of an article begins.
    I had written my query in another post but it never got moderated. . so here is a gist:
    My old boyfriend and I broke up around 3 years ago. No contact after the final goodbye. I had too big an ego and so I never called him. I tried to move and sadly got into a relationship with another man who wasn’t really great. Now, after two years of this not so good relationship, I break up with him and begin to wonder if my old boyfriend would like to meet me. I stumble upon your website, keep my ego aside and text him.
    The moment he realizes its me, he calls and we chat for about half an hour, remembering the old times. Now, he asks me to meet him the very next day and I do. Everything was going perfect, he was smiling, touching and really listening when I mention my boyfriend (and not mention the breakup). Suddenly his smile fades and his eyes lose their shine. Oops! I think and the meeting ends abruptly !

    He doesn’t call me after that. When I call him up and tell him that I had broken up with this guy, he doesn’t react at all.
    He leaves town as he is working somewhere else and promises to meet me when he comes next time.

    I text him in between and get a neutral response after hours. I then text again a few days later, he is friendly but not interested. So, I send him a stupid e mail telling him that he didn’t have to react in an ungentlemanly way (i don’t even know if its a word). And he replies that I can call him if I wanna mess up my life some more.

    I didn’t get it, but I don’t ask him. Then he again sends a mail saying sorry for the previous one, it was some goof up and he didn’t send it ( ha ha )

    But now, the question: Should I call him up again? or just wait for him to call me ?

    I would really appreciate a reply or I would use the ‘blackmail’ tactic 😉

    1. Chris Seiter

      October 2, 2015 at 4:32 pm

      Well, you want to know what I think.

      I definitely think you moved too fast to the phone call.

  18. niloo

    September 20, 2015 at 11:37 am

    so i guess im becoming a gnat here haha.posted so many comment all moderating and not posted or answered but i really need help. i went on 24 day no contact rule i text my ex trying to remind him some god memories he didnt answer texted him a day after again no answer.texted after two weeks again no answer i guess nothing works any more, plz help

  19. Denise

    September 6, 2015 at 11:12 pm

    I am in the Facebook blocked category. I might have even made my way to the iPhone blocking as well. My goal is to make him eat his words of never wanting to get back together by making him come to me, then deciding when to take his call and when not too. He needs to jump and work for it because he didn’t want to in the beginning and now i will give him a reason to but it won’t come easy for him. Chris can you help?? I’m ready to get some grease on my elbows.

    1. Chris Seiter

      September 12, 2015 at 1:50 am

      I like your attitude.

      Ok, what do we have left in our arsenal to get his attention?

  20. Cristina

    August 29, 2015 at 11:48 pm

    Hi Chris,

    My boyfriend asked for a break over a month ago. I am not sure why since his reasons seemed to change every time we spoke. I was really taken by surprise because he had always been really in love with me and had been pushing for us to get married and start a family. Anyways, I was crushed and spent the month making all the obvious mistakes like crying, pleading, etc. During the break he still texted me from time to time saying he missed me, but he still broke up with me after the month ended.

    Two days after he broke up I started NC. Since then he has texted me every single day even though I don’t answer any messages. I am now on day 11 of NC. He says he really misses me, he sends me pictures of the two of us together, he invites me to the movies, he sends me links to things I like saying I know you like this or I know this is your favorite, he begs me to at least let him know I’m ok. I really want to believe that he wants me back, why else would he still be texting me every day even though I dont answer? He texted I miss you even if you don’t believe me, he said I am sorry for hurting you, but he also said he missed me before and still broke up with me.

    I really want to break NC, although I know I probably shouldn’t. I’m just so confused. I love him and I want him back.

    What do you think?

    1. jabulile

      September 12, 2015 at 6:58 am

      Hi Chris I have a problem I was single for 8 months I find somebody we dated thinking he is the one so a sleep with him 3 times we usually see each other at work when h is at home his network I bad so I couldn’t get hold of him I understanded that but after I told him he just came sleep with me and go he got angry and never com back or answer my calls,responding my messages I love him a can’t forget him he is always in my mind I think I gave home hard Time maybe h needed more time to srt his stuff with life Cs h as ready to move to the new place Bcs of the ntwrk where h stays.please help me I just want him to here me out love me Bcs I say what I say Bcs the time I spend with him was too small.I’m trying to understand if did he ever loved me or he just wanted to slice the cake .

    2. jabulile

      September 12, 2015 at 6:39 am

      What is NC

    3. Chris Seiter

      October 2, 2015 at 4:56 pm

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