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1,518 thoughts on “Making Your Ex Boyfriend Speak To You Again”

  1. Kayla

    December 19, 2017 at 10:46 pm

    We haven’t really spoken and he is super mad at me. we broke up near the start of june. I’ve been trying to prove I’m not a liar and someone is saying rumors to him and probably getting mad at me further. I don’t know if he is hurt over the breakup or angry at the situation itself.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 20, 2017 at 9:31 pm

      nobody gets used to being hurt… he’s more probably having an ego boost every time you try to prove yourself.. he might be doing it intentionally or not, bottomline is, you need to stop doing it and to focus in improving yourself.

  2. Kayla

    December 19, 2017 at 10:42 pm

    He has shown he still likes me though. Do you think maybe it’s because he used to getting hurt? If that is the case, how do I get him away from that barrier guarding himself?

  3. Kayla

    December 17, 2017 at 7:15 am

    My ex thinks I’m a liar for mixing up my stories, doesn’t care about anyone else, make up stories and cover things up by playing the victim and he said he is out of giving me chances and doesn’t believe anything I say. How do I get him to want me back? What is going inside his head?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 19, 2017 at 6:49 pm

      why?what did you say and when did you last talk? and when did you break up?

  4. Natalie

    December 15, 2017 at 11:25 pm

    Sorry to repost again but I’ve looked my best and he is staring at me. He is hot and cold towards me and I think he is hurting me on purpose. Is this a good thing? Because if he wants to get back together, why doesn’t he?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 19, 2017 at 6:49 pm

      because he probably doesn’t.. that’s why the goal is to take this as a restart and act as if he’s somebody that is not interested with you.. so, goal is attracting him.

  5. Erica

    December 15, 2017 at 6:34 am

    My ex friend is spreading lies about me to my ex. How do I get him to believe me over her?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 15, 2017 at 6:05 pm

      if your actions or posts show otherwise, then you have nothing to worry.. and you’re not supposed to know what he knows because that would mean you’re either asking around about him or social media stalking him.

  6. Stirling

    December 14, 2017 at 2:52 pm

    Sorry, to repost again, but I don’t see my comment below or tell if anyone has responded.

    Hi there,

    My ex and I have been broken up for about five months. We first met in April and by the end of the month we were a couple. Things we fine, we went on two dates, and then my parents decided that we had to have a chaperone or be with a group. My ex is older than me and did not like the rules, it was something he was not used to. But we did meet up a few times to see each other. After the breakup, (we dated two months) my ex still flirts with me and checked in on me. But at the time he said that I was not ready to date and we were not getting back together, but he had feelings for me. Then things started to change in September when he made a comment to a friend about hurting me, I asked what he meant by that and he said that his experience would hurt me and that I Should be with someone I can share more with. I was confused and told him that it did not matter what happened in his past we can do things together. I must have said too much, because he didn’t respond to my texts. I asked him about it and he said there was no need to talk about it. I felt like he was blowing me off. At some point he told me that he just wanted to be friends and I was a nice person. We exchanged mean things to one another and stopped talking for three weeks. That was out first fight over text message. In October I wished him Happy Birthday and another week went by. The next week we talked over the weekend via text and I asked to meet up, he said that he was talking to someone and that was not a good idea. Once again we talked about our breakup and how I felt it was unfair that we could not fix out problems and he moved on to someone else. It seemed to finally end. However I was still asking questions and he was getting annoyed with them. After some more texting back and forth, he finally admitted that we should stop talking, because I was not getting over the breakup, as well as ” what are your intentions?’ ” it will be better in the long run”, “he’s not the guy for me”, ” I want to be more than friends and he can’t do that”, ” I’m gonna make someone happy one day”, ” I’m not gonna be your boyfriend”. He did say sorry for hurting me, it was not his intentions. We haven’t talked in a month and I know he has blocked my number, because before he would respond to me but now nothing. Can you break this all down for me? What should I do now?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 14, 2017 at 6:55 pm

      Hi Stirling,

      how old are you both? It looks like he has moved on, and you haven’t and he wants you to.

  7. Unknown

    December 14, 2017 at 3:05 am

    I have the physical attraction back I think… he keeps staring at me when he sees me. How do I get my ex talking again if he acts hot and cold and is angry with me? He wouldn’t talk to me in anyway unless it’s in person. But he’s busy hanging out with my ex friends. Would I consider this a good thing?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 14, 2017 at 4:30 pm

      You shouldn’t talk to him during nc, so just let him be.. Let him stare and ogle..

  8. Anonymous

    December 13, 2017 at 9:00 pm

    I always look good when I go out. How do I get the emotional attraction going if we won’t talk to me?

  9. Anonymous

    December 13, 2017 at 2:34 am

    I’ve looked my best and he is staring at me. He is hot and cold towards me and I think he is hurting me on purpose. Is this a good thing? Because if he wants to get back together, why doesn’t he? Doesn’t he want to hang out because he is angry? If he is, why? How do I get him back if he acts like he hates my guts?

  10. Anonymous

    December 13, 2017 at 2:33 am

    I’ve looked my best and he is staring at me. He is hot and cold towards me and I think he is hurting me on purpose. Is this a good thing? Because if he wants to get back together, why doesn’t he?

  11. Anonymous

    December 11, 2017 at 8:25 pm

    Yes I have done NC but I keep bumping into him and I always am a total mess when I see him because I know that my ex friends are spreading lies about me and I don’t know what to do to make sure he sees the real me and that I have changed a lot. I don’t know what to say to him that will show him that I’m not the person my ex friends make me out to be.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 13, 2017 at 1:24 am

      You don’t have to say anything.. just look your best whenever you go out..

  12. Sanya Varma

    December 10, 2017 at 2:43 am

    My ex broke up with me on Monday because we got in a fight and I said that if wants to leave he can, and he did. I regret everything I said and I met with him on Wednesday and apologized profusely, and he said he’d think about it. He got back to me a day later and said that he doesn’t want anything to do with me and I ended up begging and pleading and the conversation ended with him telling me to leave him alone. What do I do? I love him and want to work on myself but he doesn’t believe I can. I haven’t spoken to him since but we used to share each other’s location and he hasn’t removed me from that or any other social media.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 12, 2017 at 2:15 am

  13. Anonymous

    December 8, 2017 at 7:50 pm

    My ex and I broke up seven months ago, and he started hanging out with my friends a few weeks afterwards. I’m dealing with a very dire situation where my ex friend replied to the breakup text for me and he thought it was me. There are still signs he wants to be with me but he doesn’t. I have a feeling he is using my friends because they’re no longer my own as they all hang out without me because they think I’m a liar and cannot be trusted. My ex is the only one who believes I’m nothing like that but he still pulls away anyway. He can still agree to hang out but only in person. He’s hot and cold to me. He barely replies to any of my messages. I am afraid to write messages to him because my ex friend will just reply to him again and my ex friends have crushes on him so they are trying to pull him away from me.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 11, 2017 at 11:16 am

      Hi Anonymous,
      Do you want to start nc?

  14. P

    December 1, 2017 at 7:03 am

    I regret breaking up with my ex. I love him and want him back, but he is ignoring meh, he is in relationship with someone else. It has been one month we brokeup. He most of the times does not reply meh..does not recieve my phone call..what to do,how to make him talk to me?n how to get him back??help plz

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 4, 2017 at 5:10 am

      Hi P,

      It’s a very small chance because you never met him and the relationship was very short… You can still try the nc rule if you want bit frankly for me, you should move on..

  15. P

    December 1, 2017 at 6:56 am

    It has been one month that we broke up. I told him to breakup with me if he cant accept me the way i am. Actually our realationship was only for 15days ,but we got too close..but we never meet. I proposed him..,but he msgd meh first in facebook. I trusted him ,,like seeing his love and care, but he had a problem with my attitude,ego and my nature and told me one day little rudely that m grown up n i need to change my habits..but i told i cant,i m d way i am,i cnt chnge for anyone,but he treated me very well when i was with him, he was very good. I told him to breakup. After that i begged him ,i m sorry ,i was wrong but he did not accept, n lied he dont have whatsapp,,dn blkd mh in facebook,,i somhw mngd to talk to him and then he unblkd me in facebook. Now i text him frequently bt he does not reply most of the times,,does not recieve my phone call . He is ignoring me a loot..and i got to know that he have a gf now. N he knwed that girl from before,were freinds.and after we brokeup he met thar girl..i saw her pic in facebook with him. I love him a loot, want him back..but he dont want to talk to me at all,how to get him back,,make him talk to meh,,???plz help..m dying

  16. Victoria Norton

    November 5, 2017 at 4:34 pm

    my ex’s name is Ian and we were dating for a couple months when on halloween he told me that we were both in different spots in our lives. he’s going into the navy in about a month and i’m dealing with family problems and he thought that a break would benefit us but then later that night he realized that in a relationship you help each other through everything and begged me to take him back so i did because i love him. the next day we were together and he was crying begging me not to leave him and promising it won’t happen again but then the next morning he told me that we shouldn’t be together because i don’t know how to give him space (but he was the one who would always ask me to stay at his house for days upon days) i cried every time i had to leave so i could stay another night (when i actually wanted to go anywhere but my house) and i made a pregnancy joke saying i’d rather be pregnant and end up living in his parents basement than stay in my house (but we’ve always made jokes about pregnancy) yes the joke was wrong but i apologized to his mom and she accepted my apology but he’s completed iced me out. he told me we should stop talking and part ways but i still feel like things between us aren’t over yet. what do i do ?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 6, 2017 at 7:53 pm

      Hi Victoria,

      do you want to try the no contact rule?

  17. R

    October 26, 2017 at 5:53 am

    I was supposed to spend the night at my boyfriend ‘s but he was in bad mood so I decided to go home plus I wanted to go and help out my family who need my help. He got mad that I decided to leave and told me not to contact him anymore. Now I really want to make peace with him but he said he will not answer the calls. Please help.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 29, 2017 at 10:59 am

      HI R,

      how are you now?

  18. Bella

    October 25, 2017 at 8:38 am

    my boyfriend of 2 years left me almost 3 months ago. he left in a rage and left me and our daughter with basically nothing. 3 weeks later he came back every few days to see our baby and be rude to me. so i filed for child support a month ago. i have not seen or heard from him since. i still love him and hope he will stop blaming me for everything. i have not contacted him in 3 weeks. he blocked me on Facebook although i was never on his friend list. where do i go from here?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 28, 2017 at 7:23 pm

      Hi Bella,

      Why is he angry?

  19. Tate

    October 22, 2017 at 8:42 am

    My bf and i have been tgt 8 months. We have been fighting for the most of it. We both have been tired. 2 weeks ago, we had a huge fight. After that he ignored my texts and calls for 1 week. After 1 week, i stopped conntacting him.and sent him a text saying I know i had work to improve on and that I am very much still in the relationship. He texted me 2 days later. He has not removed our profile pic of us and he wont tell me if hes breaking up with me. We met ystd and i brougt it up again. He got very upset and said he has too many things on his mind and he doesnt want to think about it. He said he wants to focus on himself and asked me to do the things I want. I asked if we were breaking up and he still wouldnt answer. The pic of us is still his profile pic. And i saw that he has not changed his wallpaper of us. What do I do? People are telling me to just break up. But I feel like i deserve this after the big fight.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 24, 2017 at 4:21 pm

  20. Caitlin

    October 2, 2017 at 3:01 pm

    Me and this boy have been dating for a year and 3 months and we hit the stage where we thought both of us didn’t care but we still lives eachother we deceived to go on a break for 2 weeks and it’s been 4 days and I can’t cope, I send streak on snapchat to all of my friends and he just opens it and blanks me and I never message him and he never messaged me and I’m dying and I don’t want to message him because I know I will regret it, HELP ME

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 2, 2017 at 10:27 pm

      Hi Catlin,

      I know you’re not in the nc rule but you can still check this one:
      How To Make It Through No Contact Period

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