What Your Ex Says Vs. What They Mean- The Comprehensive Guide

909 thoughts on “What Your Ex Boyfriend Says Vs. What He Really Means”

Alicia

February 18, 2016 at 6:04 am

I am so confused. My boyfriend dumped me out of nowhere almost 2 months ago. He said that he was going through too much in his life with his work, kids, and custody issues and couldn’t put me through all of that. He said that he didn’t want to lose me out of his life but couldn’t be in a relationship. I have spent every day crying over this man. We go through phases of talking then silence, then talking. He still has my apartment key, and hasn’t given it back even when asked. Then I found that he had rejoined a dating site and I got mad and told him not to talk to me anymore. I didn’t mean it and apologized. After spilling my guts about not getting over him we are back to talking. Then he asks me if I want to hook up out of nowhere. Tells me that he is setting ground rules and that it’s “only sex”. Then proceeds to ask if I will make him dinner and what a great cook I am. When he came over he wanted to hold hands. When he left he was making sure I was okay with him leaving because he didn’t want me to be mad at him. This man is hands down the love of my life but I have no clue what he means about anything! Help!

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 18, 2016 at 3:00 pm

Hi Alicia,

he is the love your life but it doesn’t mean you have to lower your values right? Let him prove to you first that he really loves you because he probably knows that you love him more than he loves you.. So, let him earn you..

Clarissa

February 17, 2016 at 8:06 am

Hi, I am in a on and off relationship and I got into a fight with my ex boyfriend and he got mad at me because he felt as if I didn’t appreciate him because I got mad at him for something silly on the day he bought me food and we watched a movie together. We didn’t speak for a two days and I was puzzled if we were still in a relationship and that led to another fight and he claimed to have mixed feelings and that really upset me and made want to end the relationship to which I did and he got very mad and said hurtful things to me and then the next day I realized I made a huge mistake and wanted him back and he didn’t want to take me back and claimed I threw him under the bus like all his ex girlfriends and as much as he wanted to get back together with me he couldn’t because he wouldn’t love me the same 🙁 and he kept saying I’m sorry I hope you understand and I respected his decision and apologized for what I had done to him to which he lastly replied “Later” and I’m not entirely sure if he meant this? Do I have a chance or is this really over for me? I haven’t tried to reach out to him because I am pretty sure he needs a lot of time and space to overcome the pain.

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 18, 2016 at 8:24 am

I think he’s just angry… let him cool off first.. and then talk

Mary

February 14, 2016 at 2:34 pm

He says ‘were to different and better off as friends’ I told him he was being dramatic. He says maybe. Then we spoke everyday for 2 weeks. I asked if he was ready to work things out he said hes not sure and thinks maybe we should be friends. I told him never to speak to me again (out of anger and rejection). He blocked me on everything and sent a message saying hes had enough of me. This was first week of Jan. I texted loads and no reply. Now what? DId he mean it? i feel like he did cos hes blocked me. aka doesnt want to be friends either.

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 15, 2016 at 11:18 am

Hi Mary,

I think he just got annoyed..
One tip too, don’t ask.. make him want to go back with you the ungettable girl way…

Nicky

February 10, 2016 at 11:14 am

Hi Amor, Chris.

I am sorry in advance, I really need some thought on this situation. It hurts so much I cannot bear it anymore.

We started this summer – 4 months before my uni student visa expiration. He damped me four times, explaining this with the fact that I would be soon leaving, and he couldn’t bear that. Every time this would crash me, but I would agree. And every time he would come back by his own initiative. I believed that he loved me so much, that every time he was trying to do the right thing and save us from more suffering, but couldn’t.

After I had left the country, and was ready to let go, he started actively texting me. We would often skype, flirt, sext. Then suddenly in the beginning of January he called me and said, if we made it through the year (he’d get a job after his masters ending summer 2016), he would propose. Which felt so absolutely amazing, I couldn’t even dream of it, but also somewhat strange, because we’ve never had it easy in our relationship. Can I underline please, that I had never ever even hinted on getting married? But I was so deeply in love, that I concentrated only on the ‘amazing’ part. He was meant to come in April to my whereabouts. I was living for this April meeting.

Then, less than a month later, he broke up with me. Again. For the fifth time, lol. Saying that he thought I was too in love with him (again, he was the one to _always_ initiate), and he really didn’t feel the same way (implying that he never had). Again with tons of “never wanted to hurt you” bullshit. And, direct quote: “I cannot take responsibility for you taking it SO literally”, talking about the proposition. This time it was too much, so I said him all the “I will never forgive you”, “You’ve hurt me far too much” and “I hate you”. Meaning it, although I feel shattered, sick and so very lonely.

Yesterday… Yesterday he sent me a message again. A funny picture from the Internet.

Does he have no empathy at all, or is he simply enjoying hurting me?

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 11, 2016 at 10:13 am

Nope, it’s the chase.. have you noticed, everytime you’re ready to move on or moving on, he goea back but when he’s sure you’re just there, he lets go because maybe he’s pressured or he’s bored. But that doesn’t mean it’s all your fault. Two people should work for the relationship, breaking up should not be a solution when he’s bored or pressured

Jana

February 8, 2016 at 1:55 am

What does “I love you, but I’m not in love with you” mean?

Jana

February 8, 2016 at 10:10 am

I truly appreciate your response, and I’m hoping you might have some advice for me. I’ve been in a complicated on again and off again relationship for 11 years. We have a deep connection and just can’t seem to let each other go. About two weeks ago, I got the “I love you but I’m not in love with you” line and that he can’t give me what I want and I should try to meet someone who can. Then he went on and on about how I make his life better, that I make him feel better, that when he needs someone, it’s me that he wants, that my hands are the only ones he wants touching him, etc. He is constantly contradicting himself, and it’s so confusing. He also has a habit of disappearing on me, which I have repeatedly told him hurts me more than anything. The last time I saw him was Jan 8th, then he disappeared again except for a few exchanged texts here and there. On Jan 25th, I basically told him that I’m done when my response to one of his texts about how we should both let go was “Ok. Take care.” After that, I started the No Contact Rule, and I am now on day 13. It has been very difficult, but I’ve stayed strong and focused on improving myself. On Jan 30th I got a “how are u doing” text. I did not respond. He sent another text on Feb 5th about how I must hate him now but he wishes me well. Again, I didn’t respond. About an hour later he texted “Sorry to bother you. You will never hear from me again. Take care.” Now I’m wondering if he’s really gone for good and it’s making me very anxious. I’ve never ignored him this long and I’ve always been available to him. This is a first for me, and his last text has me worried. So, amy advice that you can give me would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
EBR Team Member: Amor

February 9, 2016 at 6:36 am

I don’t think so. I think he misses you and once you contact him again after nc, there’s a good chance he’ll be happy to reply.
EBR Team Member: Amor

February 8, 2016 at 7:38 am

HI Jana,

It means the feeling of desire is not there anymore. Do you remember what you feel when you’re “falling” in love. There’s a saying that, it’s easy to fall in love but it’s hard to stay in love. That also means there’s no variety in the relationship anymore. It short either the couple got complacent or boring.

Naomi

February 7, 2016 at 10:43 pm

Hi,
My ex and I broke up about a week ago. We were having this fight because we weren’t spending much time together. He came over to my house to try and make up to me but I was way too upset to even see him so I refused to come down. I think because of this he got really angry and went home and texted me saying that he “no longer loved me anymore” and that “he lost feelings for me,” which I don’t understand because he literally texted me that day and said that he “loved me so much” and that he cared for me. So why all of a sudden the feelings changed? He’s now blocked me on everything and I’ve texted his friends asking for them to ask him why all of a sudden he decided to break up with me, but now I found out that he thinks that I’m “annoying him.” I need some help please, I’m heartbroken. 🙁

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 8, 2016 at 9:14 am

Hi Naomi,

you said it yourself. He’s angry. He acted out of anger. And the act of texting his friends and asking him about it aggravated it. For now, you have to stay silent until he’s anger subsides and he unblocks you. Don’t beg him..Be productive because he will cool down eventually.

Anna

February 4, 2016 at 12:25 pm

Good morning,
Great read but I do have a few questions that if someone could help me out with would be great. Long story short. My ex and I are in our mid 20’s. We have been best friends for years and last year he told me he had feelings and wanted to date. At first he was very sweet and loving, planned a future, and told me a bunch of nice things. Well I became depressed over work and in return he started to become depressed. I however got help and have been getting better. For 8 months he did not get any help, seemed cold, careless and constantly would break up with me and we would just fight and say nasty things because I was giving my all and he was not. Recently, he decided to get some help but asked for space and said he would contact me when he was ready. I clearly have an issue with giving space, and he told me things were too damaged and cannot be fixed and we are not getting back together. This was after an argument we had the previous night, we spit so much venom at one another, and I said I hate you don’t talk to me again out of pure heartache. He said I am not good for him right now and he feels like I can do better. He said there is no chance in the immediate future, which he described as 6 months.

My question is, what do I do. Did I ruin everything? Even if I do no contact he said we’re two totally different people than we were before and I am too emotional and he is far less emotional. I’ve never been in this situation and I do not know what to do. We currently work together as well. He said he does not hate me and will contact me if his feelings change but he does not know if they will. I don’t know if he is saying this all out of anger or really means it. Help please. I pretty much did everything wrong and begged and stuff. What is my best course of action.

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 5, 2016 at 6:02 am

Hi Anna,
if he said that after an argument, he probably didn’t mean it. Are you doing no contact? If so, you need to check this out. EBR 009: The No Contact Rule If You Work With Your Ex

Shawn

January 28, 2016 at 8:42 pm

Hi Chris,
My boyfriend recently broke up with me. We were together the night before and everything was going perfect and it was amazing to be with him like usual. He came in and gave me a hug and kiss and was super excited. We went to a party with some friends and he was happy at first and then started becoming a little down. When I noticed I asked him about it, but he never said what was bothering him. Finally, he left and went to the car to have a cigarette. A few minutes later I decided to go talk to him cause it was making me a little upset. We sat in the car and just talk a little bit. I ask him if he is happy. He says he doesn’t know why but “he doesn’t think he likes me as much as I like him.” He was always the one though that was trying to get my attention and told me how special I was and looked at me and couldn’t keep his eyes off of me. The next day, I texted him and told him that if he didn’t like me, he should be honest with me. He never texted me back and so I texted him again a few hours later and asked him if I could come see him shortly. He texted me back and said “I am sorry Shawn, but I don’t think we will work out. My feelings are off and on and I can’t do relationships.” It hurt so much. I texted him the next day and asked if he hurt even a little bit. He said “Of course I do.” I don’t understand why he believes he doesn’t like me as much as I like him when his emotions for me were so high even the night before he broke up with me. “His feelings faded” supposedly. Can you please help me?

Thanks!

Pearl

February 3, 2016 at 2:01 pm

I have the same thing happened to me last Monday. We were dating eachother for 7 months, he was telling me he misses me every night in good night text and we have exchanged L words alot. Even when we were together the last time (we went away 3 days weekend), he was telling me he loves me. Over the sudden he said he is not ready for a serious relationship and he doesnt’ want the responsibility of love. My heart is broken.
EBR Team Member: Amor

January 29, 2016 at 12:39 pm

HI Shawn,

All of this happened within three days? And when did this happen? Is it this week?

Neni

January 28, 2016 at 1:11 pm

I used to date someone who is my colleague and who is divorcing, but since his divorce is taking too much time and I am suffering from missing him and wanting him around, so he decided that we cannot go in the relationship due to his situation but also he was too hard on me and told me lot of tough things (like we don’t get along and that there are lot of differences between us although he did not tell me what kind of differences when I asked him). The thing is that he does not want me out of his life and he does not want a normal colleague relationship. He wants to keep the contact because, as he claims, no one knows what can happen in the future. When I informed him that I don’t want him in my life anymore (since he was too hard on me), he refused and said he wants me to be around and to still care for him and treat him in a special way (like keep on hugging him and kissing him when we meet).
Until today his divorce did not end but he is still so kind with me and he treats me in a special way than other girls. When I am around he behaves very kindly (like he holds me or kisses me). We are still friends just like the way we started before dating each others since we are initially colleagues at work.
Last week I saw him in a restaurant with a girl, I was not aware he was there so he called on me and before leaving he also approached and kissed me in front of the lady who was with him.
I am trying to decipher his behavior and can’t really tell and I don’t know if you can help
Thank you

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 29, 2016 at 9:49 am

Hi Neni,

So, basically he wants to do the same thing a couple does without the fights and discussions. Well, this is where communication and your standards come in because maybe, he doesn’t want the pressure when you miss him but he has to be fair too. Just asking him about it and then allowing him not to follow through with your standards will not change anything. If you want all this sweetness with a confirmation that you’re back together, you to talk to him. If he doesn’t want to get back but keep this kind of behaviour,then you have to decide. It’s either you allow or not.

Joy

January 28, 2016 at 12:26 pm

How can we email you? I want to tell my concerns privately.

Joy

January 29, 2016 at 2:36 am

I’ve send an email. Hope you’ll be able to read at ASAP 🙂
EBR Team Member: Amor

January 28, 2016 at 1:10 pm

Hi Joy,
you can send it at [email protected]

Brooke

January 28, 2016 at 2:34 am

My ex broke up with me out of the blue, just days after talking about a future together. I went NC for 6 weeks and reached out to him and he responded neutrally but said he wasn’t doing well. I told him I missed him and hoped to be at least friends again and he messaged me saying he hasn’t moved on or anything, but he just can’t talk to me right now. It’s been 3 weeks. Should I ever try to reach out again or just leave it up to him?

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 28, 2016 at 9:32 am

Hi Brooke,

I think he sensed that you want him back. If you try again, instead of asking if you can be friends, just work on it.

Golden

January 27, 2016 at 9:20 am

I’m 9 yrs older then my ex, we were together for 7yrs. He left me a month ago. I did the begging thing and all the other thing you shouldn’t do. He calls me every day all day while he’s at work, but when he gets to his mothers house I get nothing. He says I’m his best friend, and yes we were still having sex. The other day I asked him if he still loved me and he said he did but not as a lover. He called me today and I told him I need some time to find myself. to learn how to make myself happy. Please help me I think I messed up by telling him these things. I have started the NC rule but I’m afraid it’s to late.

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 27, 2016 at 3:30 pm

Hi Golden,
Nope, its’ not too late. Make this no contact period productive okay? Make it worth it. Improve yourself and find happiness apart from him.

Jessica

January 23, 2016 at 7:32 am

Hi,
Me and my ex broke up almost 2 weeks ago. We had an argument because he had a plan with me that day and he just disappeared out of nowhere leaving me hanging that day. Then, at the end of the day he msg me back and told me everything that happened on that day like as if he didn’t plan anything with me that day. So ya, we had a fight about that. But that’s not the first time we argue about that matter. My ex has this attitude that he will forgot to msg the person if he will cancel on them, and he always comes late every single time. Literally ALL THE TIME. He said that’s just the way he is and all of his friends that I meet knows him as like that. And ofcourse I am the GF, i was expecting he would be a little more considerate and more attentive when it comes to me right. But i was just fooling myself LOL. Never happened. So anyway, we didn’t talk for like a week after the argument then after that we just decided to end things. Then today, he msg me asking hows my grandma doing, blah blah. But, ya, when he msg me i missed him even more to the point that i actually said i want him back. I couldn’t keep my shit all together so I just give up. Then he said it’s obvious that we’re not meant for each other because he said he doesn’t fit with my standards. He said i don’t like him being late, and making me wait all the time. blah blah. That i deserved better. He said i need someone who’s always on time, and won’t keep me wating. I kept on saying that it doesn’t matter to me anymore(but idk, i think im just getting carried away by the moment coz he’s pulling away, so i want it even more). Anyway, everything was so fucked up, and i just don’t know what to feel anymore. Any comments?

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 23, 2016 at 2:54 pm

Hi Jessica,

He actually has a point, will you stick to your standards and let a person walk away? or you lose your standards for a person to stay? For me, I stick to my standards but of course it also depends on what the standard is.

Meemoo

January 22, 2016 at 5:04 pm

Hey Chris. I would really appreciate if you reply here. My ex broke up with me 3 months ago. Its been an off and on Relationship. I implemented NC and he texted me many times. I didnt break it. It was all good. But when we met I got emotional and I started crying and thats when things got bad. He told me that his old ex is so weird and he doesnt like her and all and he wont talk to her and then next week he was tagging her in her posts that I got so upset taht when he texted me I told him that “We shouldnt talk anymore. I wish you well in life, Goodbye’ Then I went into NC again saying he misses me. I didnt reply. He Now sent me a text where he said that he has written a song for me. In that song He is describing himself that he is very hurt and lost in my dreams and that I have hurt him so much. He is accusing me that Ive hurt him alot. What does that mean? What should I do? Should I reply or continue my NC? Can I get him back?

Meemoo

January 24, 2016 at 7:47 pm

Yes I can absolutely. But Do I have any chance? Can I get him back stil? What do I do? Should I continue my NC? Please Help.
EBR Team Member: Amor

January 25, 2016 at 12:09 pm

If he misses you, then you have a chance.It’s better if you finish NC because if he’s accusing you, you won’t have a proper conversation with him even if you’re not emotional
Meemoo

January 22, 2016 at 5:05 pm

*texted me manytimes saying he misses me
EBR Team Member: Amor

January 23, 2016 at 11:32 am

Hi Meemo,
The question is can you talk to him without being emotional?

Ryanne

January 5, 2016 at 2:20 pm

My I guess ex now broke up with me because we had both been dealing with stress and he said that we’re too different and he said I didn’t accept him for who he was. These are reasons I was given in a 1 hour period. I honestly didn’t think we were that different. He’s overseas serving. I fought for 2 days and after that stopped trying to contact him. I’m his first love, the first girl he’s brought home, and first girl he’s made out with. We’re both 19. I asked if we could be together again after the deployment and he said no. He just said I was a amazing woman and would meet someone great cause I have good judgement. I’ve been doing no contact for 2 days now I guess. He was just separated from his sister for the first Christmas ever and I was too blind to see it bothered him. I really want him back. I made him mad before the break up and he said he had been thinking about it for awhile. What do I do?

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 18, 2016 at 10:15 pm

Hi Ryanne,
Give him time by doing the nc. talk to him again after that when he’s emotions are clear

Bhavya

December 30, 2015 at 10:23 pm

I just had my first break up 4 days ago. I got talking to him a year ago, we were in the relationship for 6 months. We became friends debating about intellectual stuff (like Quantum Physics), we had different viewpoints and it was fun talking to him. There was constant bickering, but we talked for hours, days together.. We hung out for the first time when he wanted me to help him wrap a present for his teacher who was leaving. When we parted after that, there was something we both felt, never talked about it. His friends pushed him to date me because they said we were perfect together, and to prove them wrong, he asked me out for a movie two days later. We met at the mall, although the movie couldn’t happen (no tickets), so we hung around instead. His favorite teacher had left for another city that day, he was upset. Things were a little subdued between us (less debating), but he got discussing us about the pros and cons of dating each other. The only con was that he was moving for college, and it’d be a long-distance thing. When we were about to leave the restaurant, for some reason, I said he couldn’t lift me up. To prove me wrong, when out of the restaurant, he suddenly lifted me off my feet. I blushed, he looked at me and smiled, I screamed for him to put me down. Later that day, he did it twice again, he squeezed be between his arms, stuck close to me, was goofy, all the signs of showing he was into me. We decided later that night to be together, but be open to any other ‘fits’ that might come our way. We weren’t in love then. It was the first relationship for both of us. Before he left for college, we had an official date and we kissed. The kiss was enough to connect our souls, felt heavenly. We soon fell in love. Things were smooth even though we were long-distance. There were arguments too. I’m temperamental, he’s arrogant, we both are impatient and stubborn. Nevertheless, we were deep in love.

There were more dates. We craved each other, we made commitments, got too intimate, breathed, caressed, cherished each other. He wrote letters to me, explaining how much he loved me, how we were destined to be together, how he saw the ‘wife’ in me, how we were already like a married couple, how we were the ‘one’ for each other etc. He was always truthful about everything. He can’t lie about such stuff. He hates infidelity. All that was fine, but there was the cycle of rows and patch-ups. The 14th of November was a date, and I didn’t see that ‘look’ in his eyes, felt disconnected to him. We had our moments, but it didn’t feel as good as before. I got insecure, and right after the date (he was leaving for the airport), I texted him that it was over. He was devasted, miserable throughout his flight. I was broken…got home, and I realized how badly I was in love with him, how I couldn’t do without him. I texted him about it, he still loved me, we got back together after a long discussion. My insecurities kept growing. I was guilty about what I’d done. I thought he deserved better than me, I told him so. He said I could give him what I thought he deserved, and that he’d stay. I went into a phase of stress-induced-depression after that. I was irritable, went without food and sleep for weeks, worked like a machine. It wrecked him. He was too worried about my condition. He felt chained, helpless because we were miles apart. At times he thought he was responsible for my condition, I assured him otherwise, yet he wasn’t really convinced. We had more arguments. The 3rd of December arrived. It was my birthday, he called up to wish me. He seemed distant again, I was rude, brash, asked him why he’d called up instead of thanking him. He hung up on me, he was too hurt and disturbed. The next day he told me he wasn’t feeling like before. He had been through a lot because of me, and he said it was all his fault instead. I felt more guilty, asked him to take a break if needed, maybe even break up if it made him feel better. I was more concerned about him well-being than mine. We lost communication for days after that. He was getting busier with time. One day he texted that he didn’t feel for me anymore, and we were done. I didn’t believe it because what we had was beyond special, it was real, pure love, and feelings like that never could die. He was advised to give it another shot, and he did so (apparently). That night we had a conversation like older times, he told me he was seriously missing me. Things could have taken a different turn then, but I started feeling suffocated after that. I needed to vent out, I’d suffered a lot too. I needed him to listen to me, to answer me, but he was too busy. He was torn between work and the relationship. This seemed already doomed, he put in everything he had into his work. It was decided even before we started that our priority would be work, considering that we’re too young. Our relationship remained ignored during these days. I was getting impatient, insecure, and even more suffocated. I was making wild assumptions about him, texting him all the rubbish on earth, he was as it is too stressed out. He got done with his work and we met on the 24th when he finally told me that he had no feelings for me and that it was over. Whatever I did, tried, nothing worked. I still believe we can get back together if the love was real (I believe it was), but he says that when things like this end for him, they’re final, and that no probabilities exist for us to get back together. I can’t help but see how real everything was, and it was destiny, we never felt this way before. I love him unconditionally and hope he’ll realize this love and come back to me. He doesn’t even want to remain friends anymore, he’s cut off all communication from me, and I can’t do anything about it. I know the love was real, but I don’t really know what happens next. He says he doesn’t (and can’t) feel for me anymore, but even he’s having a difficult time moving on. He said he doesn’t miss ‘us’ but does have our memories and is reminded of them. Every single thing that he thought was true before has turned into the negative now. He wants to get over me completely, but I think that’s not what is supposed to be, considering how deep we were in love. I know I should do nothing about it now, but please tell me if it was real, and if I can expect him to come back? Everyone is probably hating on me, and yes, I made mistakes, but please remember that he didn’t communicate enough with me. He never told me about his problems and stuff… Like I was kept in complete darkness about it, and suddenly things lost their gravity. He went to his friends for advice, but never tried to discuss things with me. But love doesn’t die that easy…. or does it?

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 18, 2016 at 9:37 am

Hi Bhavya

True love doesn’t. Don’t think about what other people think, it can only bring sadness to you. Have no contact for a while to give each other space and time to think

Katherine

December 27, 2015 at 12:47 am

My ex left me for another girl we were long distancing like canada and LA and i don’t know what to do! he said that we’ll never get back together and they are currently living together …help
Ash

December 18, 2015 at 2:23 am

Hi there, I broke up with my ex and he said some nasty things to his friend about me. How he hated fucked me. How he wanted to go on a trip and wanted his friend to be his wingman. We had just made up when said these things. I’m just learning about them now. Should I be mad that he disrespected me when we broke up? You talk about guys saying things like I hate you, never talk to me again. But what do I do when he talks about potentially cheating when he’s mad? Or maybe he thought he weren’t made up then? I’m not sure what to do at this point. What’s your guy advice on this?
Camille

December 14, 2015 at 7:14 am

I don’t know if this is similar to the lines you mentioned, but my boyfriend (or ex? idk our relationship has been on the rocks for 2 weeks now) told me just last night “i don’t know what to feel right now/i have no feelings for you now. stop messaging me on viber, i just can’t block you here so i’m forced to read your messages.” after sending him countless messages. he’s an aggressive man and seems to have anger issues. but we havent been talking and seeing for 2 weeks now. what should i do…

Chris Seiter

January 16, 2016 at 10:40 pm

Hi Camille,

I am super sorry this is a late response. I totally understand if you are upset with my turnaround. I was getting overwhelmed at the sheer number of comments but have since hired people to help me out.

Anyways, how long have you been in the no contact rule? I think this might be an ideal strategy for you to enter into.

Also, I took a look at your website. I really liked the look of it. I was wondering if you would be interested in featuring Ex Boyfriend Recovery on it?

Carolina

December 12, 2015 at 4:47 pm

My boyfriend cheated on me and I broke up with him. A couple days later he came by and I ended up telling him I was going out with a guy I met while we were together, but never did anything about it until now. He got upset and said I was just like him and walked out.

I felt guilty and didn’t want him thinking I was just like him so I called him and said I lied and made it up, to hurt him like he did me. He told me that was even more messed up and doesn’t want anything to do with me.

I hate ending things on that note, even though he did cheat on me. Does he mean it? Should I give it time to reach out?

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