The Male Mind During The No Contact Rule- What Is He Thinking?

4,271 thoughts on “The Male Mind During The No Contact Rule”

Claire

April 23, 2014 at 1:22 pm

Hi Chris, me and my boyfriend had been together 1 year and half. Around 3 weeks ago he ended the relationship as he said his feelings had faded and he no longer loved me. he said he’d tried to get them back but they had gone ( this had happened somewhere is the space of 3 months). Is this possible to happen? Had this happened to you?

Initially I didn’t contact him for around 5 days but after seeing things on Facebook that indicated he was sad- I contacted him. But after a few days of initiating convos I sensed he was uncomfortable talking to me. So iv cut contact again. I’m now on day 8 of no contact. However we were due to go to an awards event to pick up his award next Tuesday which he had said I could still go to if I could handle it.I have decided I’m not going to go as this is mayb not the best idea. however, I have not told him this as I am in no contact. I know he’ll message soon so I’m assuming I should just respond saying something along the lines of Iv decided not to come
And have a nice time-only if he messages of course. Would this be the correct thing to do??

Also although iv read the article, things have stayed civil. There is no aftertaste as such. But I’m worried as I can see the attention he is gettin from girls on Facebook now that he is single. If he’s getting all this attention-is he really going to be giving me a second thought?..or even given the opportunity to feel lonely and miss me?
Thank you in advance for your help.
Eve

April 23, 2014 at 7:28 am

Is this NC rule working for a secret relationship too?
I am a secret gf of a guy whom has a gf by his own and he broke up with me last week because i told him to finally make a decision, it has been over than 2y (Please don’t jugde us, it was really a complicated situation incl domestic violence, etc). and as i knew it from a long time.. he choosed her. i don’t regret to know him, he is a coward but not a jerk. deep inside me I hope he will contact me, not to get back, because I don’t even want to be with him anymore. but i wish he show me for d last that he cares. do you think this NC works for this kind a situation? it has been 1 week without any contact, and honestly i am still waiting. i wont do the first step as a sign that i respect his decision and as well he broke up with me.

admin

April 23, 2014 at 4:07 pm

Yes it can work but why are you two a secret?
eve

April 24, 2014 at 6:35 am

Because we both have our partners. yesterday I was overwhelming with my sadness, so I sent him something, he replied as cold as stone and he didn’t care at all, he just said he put his mind into something else, the week was soooo hard but he didn’t want to be controlled anymore by me, the door is closed between me and him, he said. he showed me one more time, that I was wrong.. from the beginning on, I was tooo naïve to think that he was my knight with a white horse. he is nothing but an ordinary jerk, I take it back that before I thought he is everything but a jerk, eventually he proofed me otherwise. he is an ultimate coward, from sad, I am now mad, disappointed but in a weird way relief. what’s wrong with me?

Sara

April 22, 2014 at 8:59 pm

My boyfriend and I were together for a year and a half. We were fighting constantly over the smallest things and had a lot of blowouts and would always say maybe we needed to break up and didn’t, a little over a week ago things came to an extreme we were both drunk and things got pretty bad lets just say our worst blow out yet which might have caused some permenant damage because his parents got involved and now look at me badly. He broke up with me a few days later after he cooled off and said he still had feelings for me but did not want to be in a relationship with me or anyone else right now.. And that it was unhealthy and that he thought a lot about it and we have differences etc, I told him how much I cared about him and we ended thigs off on a better note and he wanted us to be “friends” he texted me the next day and a few times after talking about shows we watch etc but was very bland when my responses were a little more wordier. Should I keep this friend act going or is it not going anywhere? Would no contact even help as this point or is it beyond repair? Last night I picked up the rest of my things and he seemed pretty emotionless I know he still has feelings but I feel like what I did night have been the last straw for him?

admin

April 23, 2014 at 3:43 pm

NC is there for a reason haha.
Sara

April 22, 2014 at 9:01 pm

And I realized how much I Actually really do care about him and love him. Now that it’s over I know Things would be different if we got back together but I’m just wondering if there’s a Chance or if he Is just trying to be nice to me and not hurt my feelings with friend card

kay

April 22, 2014 at 8:32 pm

Hi Chris u beautiful mind u! I love your page!
Could/should i break NC to wish my ex a happy birthday?
See, huge personal drama caused my ex to lose his perception of me as an “ungettable girl”. Since he started using Limited Contact on me I started chasing him, thus completely abdicating my throne as “ungettable queen”! Lol but get this, in terms of looks he’s a 5 and I’m 9.5 (kinda vain i know). But believe me, my frog prince makes up for his looks in many, many other ways!
So for 3 days i totally ignored him – and in those 3 days he kept messaging me to see how i was doing. On the 3rd day i eventually caved when he baited me with sex (I’m sorry but it’s been 3 months!) When i responded in the affirmative, he just left me hanging! That bastard! Then he went right back to ignoring me, taking me for granted – he has even been insensitive and told me i need to get an …ummm t-o-y (sorrt)or even another boy! :(….but this dude is confusing me Cuz a few days after this he was bragging one of my neighbours that i was “his girl”! But y wont he treat me like his girl? I know he has trust issues with me and can be very insecure but i had to put my foot down!
I’m now on day 5 of my second attempt at NC. My ex has been silent for those 5 days until today, when i posted a pic on whatsapp of a 5 star luxury
Luxury resort (I’m going there in 2 weeks to get more pics!) I wanted to give him the impression that k had spent the Easter weekend there. Sure enough,he broke his silence today to ask me where that place was? And of course i ignored him….i know many girls are chasing him Cuz he has money but i don’t really care about that. I just don’t wanna be playing silly games u know? I really do miss fun with him 🙁 penny for your thoughts? Does he deserve a full 30 day lock-off or can i wish him a happy birthday in 4 days? He needs to always be in control though and i just need him to let me have my way with him! Thank u Chris-san!

admin

April 23, 2014 at 3:40 pm

Nope no breaking NC not even for a birthday.

30 day NC definitely. Take him out of control and watch how he goes crazy.

R

April 22, 2014 at 11:10 am

Ok so I tried no contact and was doing wonderfully, then this weekend I was out and he called. Becasue I was a little drunk and I’ve deleted his number I didn’t realise who it was when he called. I answered. He was drunk, and ringing me just to speak to the only person he wanted to talk to on his birthday… It had just turned 12 and was his birthday. I told him I was too drunk to talk to him and if he wanted to talk to me to call me when we were both sober. Unfortunately becasue as I’ve said I was on holiday and out getting happily merry we exchanged a couple of text messages, however when he started saying you always know go to make me smile I decided to stop replying. He also called me again just ‘check I’d gotten home and to ask if I was alone’ Needless to say he didn’t ring me the next day and I deleted his missed calls, number and messages. However, yesterday he commented on my Facebook. My friends instant reaction was to message me and ask me what sarcastic reply I wanted them to use. I told them nothing. It doesn’t concern them. Also Silence is a killer. I know I’ve broken no contact as I’m only three weeks in. I need to know what to do as he is reaching out and I don’t know how to make the next move. He was in Madrid when he called me with his friends, I assumed he’d be having far too much fun to think about me out there. I’m not a lush by the way I was out having fun with my friends on holiday. Help please!
Sarah0000

April 22, 2014 at 10:11 am

PLEASE HELP…….My boyfriend of 5 years was becoming more and more distant towards me. I decided to leave our home together and got a place of my own 10months ago. We didn’t use the NC rule and carried on trying to patch things up. I spent every other night at his house and the time we spent together was amazing until 4 days ago I went out and saw him. He didn’t acknowledge me at all until I wallked over to chat. He was ok. We laughed. But when I left he didn’t say anything. He then txt me when he got home saying he was home. When I went back to my own house I txt asking why he was so distant with me and why was he not showing any interest. I woke up with a txt saying that he loved me but no longer was in love with me. And that he couldnt go on anymore. He added at the end that he didn’t know if he was working too hard (7 days a week) but it’s day 4 and I’m scared he won’t contact me at all. We had plans together. (I’m 23 and he’s 25) and soo many good memories. Will he contact me? I’d say he is “clueless” hurting, broke hearted, gutted, lonely and probably thinking about me 24/7. I was his first and he was mine. What should I do???

admin

April 22, 2014 at 4:59 pm

Well I will tell you one thing. The chances are high that the two of you will get in touch in the future. Most exes do talk again at one time.

erica

April 17, 2014 at 9:27 pm

The first time í did the no contact from your last
email í didnt finish it, í gave in but now after fully
understanding the men mind, im going to go threw it. Í been with this guy for 3 years until he
broke up with me yet off and on we see each other. So yes o feel like he thinks im always going to be there especially when he needs me so yes im really going to go therw it all the way this time. And thank u for your advice in which its very much so on point….
Casey

April 15, 2014 at 11:47 pm

hey… ive read your article and it was interesting… but important question… okay yes im on no contact rule… but what should I do if we contact during the no contact process… I mean we see each other every Friday because of a training thing we do… so im still confuse when I see him in that training period. What am I suppose to do… ignore him? or at least say hi how things ive been great?? HELP PLEASE
NADIA PALI

April 15, 2014 at 8:11 pm

I FORGOT TO ADD TO MY PREVIOUS REPLY THAT WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 4 YEARS BUT WE SPEND SOME TIME TOGETHER AS WE ARE RESIDENT IN DIFFERENT COUNTRIES..
NADIA PALI

April 15, 2014 at 8:07 pm

THANKS CHRIS FOR AILL YOUR GREAT ADVISES AND SUPPORT..
DURING MY NO CONTACT TIME HE BLOCKED ME ON FACEBOOK AND WHATSAP.. I DID NOT SAY OR DO NOTHING .. AFTER A WEEK HE ASKED HIS COUSIN TO BLOCK ME AS WELL.. I ASKED HIS COUSIN WHY ? HE SAID YOUR EX ASKED ME TO BLOCK ME TOO.. AND I HEARD FROM A FRIEND THAT HE IS GETTING ENGAGED WITH ANOTHER GIRL NEXT MONTH !!!! WHERE THIS WOULD TAKE ME… IS HE DOING ALL THIS BECAUSE HE STILL WANT ME OR WHAT ?? THANKS

admin

April 16, 2014 at 4:14 pm

YOU SHOULD READ MY GUIDE ON BLOCKING…

ALSO I LOVE HOW WE ARE YELLING AT EACH OTHER IN ALL CAPS.

daniela

April 15, 2014 at 4:07 pm

My ex boyfriend and I are were in a relationship for about 3 1/2 years and for 1 1/2 we were long distance. After so many fights, and thinking he was withdrawing from the relationship and also not knowing where the relationship was heading I decided to break up with him. I did the no contact rule for 60 days and he also didn’t try to contact me, until I saw he erased something important from our gmail account and that’s when I was upset and decided to contact him, but my friend calmed me down and told me to not assume things before talking to him. Finally we started texting and he apologize and he said he really didn’t mean to erased it. He also said he loved and miss me so much and regret letting me go, and after reading all those texts, I end up telling I missed him n love him too. Two days later we talked on the phone and I was hoping this time he was going to step up and fix things and give me the commitment I deserve, but instead we end up on the same predicament, he wanted to move out and I wanted to get married. He knows that’s very important to me, and I guess he’s not willing to go that far, even though through out the whole relationship he tells me that he wants me to be his wife, and I feel he does want to marry me but changes his mind, or something is holding him back. After that conversation he just said well talk tomorrow, but he didn’t call or text for a week, until last night he said he heard a song on the radio few times and was thinking about me and just said good night baby. I haven’t even answer, because I just don’t know what to do, I don’t want to play mind games, or get hurt but I do want him back. (By the way we are both 24 years old, and he already has a career job and his happy with it while Im working and going to school). I would really appreciate if you give me an advice. Thanks

admin

April 16, 2014 at 4:07 pm

Are you two still long distance?
daniela

April 18, 2014 at 2:37 pm

Yes we still in a long distance, he found a great career job so it doesn’t seem hes moving from his city anytime soon. I also have to mention that at the beginning of the conversation he try to convince to see him but I just wasn’t sure because I felt we were going to end up sleeping together and not solve anything. I have also told him that I didn’t want our conversations to be an everyday thing and act like friends. At this point I know I made two mistakes but I don’t know how to fix it or attract him again, the only I did so far is text him again and said that I was reading a book and wanted to share a quote with him, but he hasn’t replied, I guess is because I took 24 hrs to replied his text. I really appreciate if you give me some ideas of how to go from here and bring him back or how to make him ask me to see him again?. Thank you
daniela

April 22, 2014 at 8:18 pm

Hey I just wanted to touch base again, he actually replied to my text 24 hrs later just like I did but that’s it, he hasn’t initiated contact again. Should I just let him be, or is there anything I can do to attract him again?!.. Help please!!
admin

April 23, 2014 at 3:39 pm

Let him be for a little while before you try again.

Haha32

April 15, 2014 at 3:52 pm

I broke up with my boyfriend simply he pushed me to do so cuz apparently he was denying that he was thinking of a break up due to distance we had. He cried a lot when I said let’s break up and he said he has hopes and he doesn’t wanna lose me. But suddenly on skype he said he doesn’t see me in his future because we are two different personalities. That got me super sad. We talked one last time after break-up and talked about our feelings and thought it was a mutual break-up to pursue our own individual dreams and careers. I sent him couple crazy texts before the last talk simply I got a gift package from him and a love letter he sent 4 days before we broke up but I got them after we did. So I said in my texts maybe we are rushing and maybe we should give a second chance because I cant believe everything changed from love letter to’not seeing me in his future’ in 4 days. Anyways, in skype and in an email he said, he thinks it is the right decision because neither his feelings nor distance shows t will work out. I am totally clueless what he meant exactly when I think of all the things happened. Anyways, we are in no contact rule since 10 days and I have no urge to call him and whenever I think of him I either go out, read something or write journal to suppress my urge. I believe I can do no contact rule but I am wondering how it affects him in 30 days and if he doesn’t write me at all (should I take the first step?) I want him in the mornings, it is becoming really hard sometimes during the day without skyping with him or his texts, but sometimes I don’t even think of him. I am not sure but I guess I want him back. Anyways. During no contact rule it is his mother’s birthday, and I am planning to send her a text. Should I do that? Or leave it? Does it break NC rule? Please give me some hints.Thanks

Haha32

April 19, 2014 at 9:54 pm

SOMEONE PLEASE ANSWER ME!
admin

April 20, 2014 at 3:49 am

I am here!!! Whats up?
Haha32

April 21, 2014 at 1:00 am

I just need an answer if I should talk to his mother or not to celebrate the bday. I had talked to his sister and his best friend after we split but i am not sure if i should stop contacting his family or friends totally for no contact rule. it has been more than two weeks i have no info or contact from him. and honestly i miss him terribly but just remembering good days. I dont need him to live, but would be nice to have him. not sure of my feelings. am i still in shock? or what? i dont wanna accept that i am better off without him. why can i not accept my true feelings and deny them?(this is my first time almost admitting… and not to myself but to a stranger(
admin

April 21, 2014 at 4:07 pm

You can talk to his mother its just him you don’t want to talk to during NC.

Jane

April 15, 2014 at 12:55 pm

My ex boyfriend broke up with me June 2013 while he living out of the country for half a year. Right after he broke up with me, he cut all ties completely with me. I tried messaging and tried talking to him but I never got a response. I finally gave up all attempts at communicating with him. Weeks went by and I finally heard something from him. I had bought a plane ticket to surprise him for our anniversary but didn’t let him know this during the time we were together nor while or after he was breaking up with me. He must have found out through friends that I was still deciding to go and visit the country but that I was going to do it on my own and without letting him know. Once he found this out, he decided to have something to do with me again and wanted to share the experience with me and after a couple of weeks of talking to one another, I decided to give in and allow him and I to spend my vacation together, even though we technically still were not together. The 7 weeks I was there, it was amazing and that was the best times we had ever shared with each other in the 2 years that we had been together. We didn’t argue, we didn’t fight, and the problems that had been present before, didn’t seem to have been any issue while I was there. His reasoning behind breaking up with me was because he had felt that he needed to find himself and to try and figure out his future and his own life; to find his own way I guess you could say because he felt like he couldn’t do that while being in a relationship. He wanted his space, he wanted his freedom, and he just wanted to be himself without any obligations or responsibilities that come along in a relationship. Once I left the country, things got shaky afterwards and we started to drift apart. He finally moved back home two weeks after I left but everything was different and everything had changed. He became increasingly distant and withdrawn and even though he wanted to still see and talk to me, he still didn’t want to have a relationship with me. Of course, after all the times that we had just shared with each other, I fought against it. Then I just finally gave up and quick communicating and removed myself out of his life for a few weeks. He tried calling, texting, and making plans with me, but I ignored every attempt. After a few weeks of trying on his part, he ended up showing at my house because he wanted to talk to me. I let him in where he decided to pour out his heart to me and tell me how much he loved me, how much he missed me, and how he wanted to spend more time with me. I was a bit hesitant because of what previously happened but I decided to give it a shot and take things slowly, or at least I thought I would. As the weeks progressed, we started spending more and more time together. He started being loving, affectionate, compassionate, and doing many things for me. We were finally starting to rekindle the romance between each other that had once been there. Things had finally started looking up and I was remaining positive until one day I had found out that him and a girl from his past (ex fling) had had a conversation between each other, which he did tell me about. I respected him telling me the truth but I always had this inclination that there was always more than just a “fling” between them two. I know I should have kept my cool but I couldn’t control the jealousy and insecurities that had decided to show up. I knew that because we technically had not made it official that we were back together, that at any moment in time, he could do whatever he wanted to do and there would be nothing wrong with that. That incident had caused problems between us but we were able to move past that and continue to move forward with each other. A couple of months had gone by and I hadn’t brought up the relationship talk and we started getting along and things seemed to have been going fine, or so I had thought. Once again the romance, the affection, the love, the time spent together had increased. A couple of nights ago, after a great weekend with each other, he sat me down and told me that we needed to talk. He told me that even though he loves me very much and deeply cares about me, that he is no longer “in love” with me anymore and that his feelings have changed for me. He told me that he considers me to be his best friend but that he doesn’t see me as anything more than that anymore. He said he still wants to be friends and still wants to spend time with me and hang out, but that he was tired of having a “psuedo-relationship” because being in a relationship wasn’t something that he still wanted. He still felt like he needed to venture out into the world to find himself and create a prosper future for himself and as long as we were together or acting like we were together, he wouldn’t be able to truly find himself and individuality.
So this is where I am stuck. I have no idea what to do anymore and I haven’t made contact with him since this incident occurred. He did message me yesterday but I ignored it and didn’t receive anything else from him for the remaining day and night. I still love him very much and I still want us to be together again one day and work things out but of course, it has to be a two way street. What I am left sitting here wondering, is if it is too late for things to be rekindled between him and I or if I should just let him go and move on? And will the ‘No Contact Rule” work in a situation like this? I know it is possible for people’s feelings to come and go and I know it is possible for people to fall back in love with one another but I don’t know the right way in going about mending things. If you could please give me some insight and some help, it would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
astronaut18

April 15, 2014 at 8:28 am

Hey Chris,
im an avid reader of your site coz its given me all the encouragement to push harder with NC..and its been goin gr8. currently at day28.. my exbf texted me twice..one on day 26 (sayin hello and how was i doin)and on day 27 (which was weird bcoz we ran into each other but he didnt see me SEE him) but he texted me (2nd time) that he saw mw.
i didnt reply at all.. coz im still in NC..and im scared if i ignore and he will think that ive moved on and he forgets me or if i reply even when NC is over..im givin my cards up too easy and too soon? and i think about the “what now” after ive replied… takin it he is extremely stubborn (it shows)..i didnt expext him to text the 2nd time after me not replyin 2 d 1st one.

im confused..but im glad ur site has made me strong with NC. please help me. thx
Jennifer

April 15, 2014 at 6:51 am

He broke up with me about 2 weeks ago. He told me he wasn’t going to date anyone and that there was no one else. Since then, I have been maintaining NC. I have been hanging out with my family and friends, improving myself, exercising, and even went on one date. A friend of mine suggested that I add an app called Tinder, which allows you to “like” other people. If the other person also likes you back, you can message with them. Anyway, the reason for me adding this app was to get my mind off my ex. I actually freaked out when I found out that my ex was using this app, when I saw his picture on Tinder, and that he had logged in a few hours before! Why would he be using Tinder, especially after only 2 weeks of breaking up with me? Has he moved on?
Taylor

April 15, 2014 at 3:43 am

I feel my situation is a little different in that I was never in a relationship with this guy to begin with. He would keep saying we were “friends” even though his actions spoke of more than that. I had feelings for him, and on more than one occasion, I told him the truth about how I felt. But he would always respond and say we were “just friends” and continue flirting with me. I finally told him last week that it was too hard for me to be around him when I had feelings for him and he claimed not to even though everything else screamed that he did. So I’ve placed distance between us and it is now my 8th day of the “no contact” rule. I’m doing relatively well. I just wonder about this particular situation….he never wanted to commit in the first place, so how does the “no contact” rule work in a situation like this? Does he even care? Since I am just his “friend,” maybe he doesn’t even care that I have initiated the “no contact rule.” He is also a very stubborn person so I wouldn’t be surprised if he never contacts me. What do you think he is thinking?
Lisa Robbins

April 14, 2014 at 7:30 pm

Please help. Over 4 years together, 6 months engaged, wonderful relationship, sensitive guy, fought but not big time, he said I was negative and I am a med students so I have been stressed a lot. I constantly insulted myself, so yes “how can he love me if I can’t love myself” bs. He left and I texted for 2 days desperately, then I managed radio silence till he came to pick up his stuff a week and half later. I knew no contact was the right thing but when he left I felt he was gone for good and I left a kind note when he came and picked up his things from our shared apartment, he responded with a kind text. Then I responded to the text with an angry one-liner “I don’t know who you are. Goodbye” Now I know I can pull off no contact, but really at this point is he gone? He says he needs space but he didn’t take just an overnight bag, he came by and got everything. I feel like we had a rough 2 months but he may come around and realize we had it all. Any chance in a couple months I will hear from him. I am just trying to get on with my life now but still… oh but still…
Kaliahs momma

April 14, 2014 at 6:32 pm

My boyfriend and I were together for 2years. I got pregnant 3 months into our relationship and miscarried at10 weeks almost exactly a year later we became pregnant again. He went to every appointment and was excited to be a father again, he has 4 other kids with 2 exs he isn’t able to see, well 6weeks before or daughters due date he broke up with me, said he’d been holding on to things from my past that he can’t shake and that I want marriage etc, and he didn’t so he feels bs holding me back. And that I deserve better. Well I moved to Texas to give him space to really think about what he said, and he’s still in phoenix, with our dog. I have been trying NC and failing. We’ve lived together since day1 playing house, and he calls or texts about his the baby due any moment now , calls about our dog and finances , documents… It’s always something. I was playing wifey with all responsibilities, and I want my daughter’s father back, I don’t want to bring her into this world with a broken family. He’s stubborn every thing he says it’s right even when it’s obviously not. But with baby in the way and him having our dog. I don’t know how to do NC without him feeling left out of our daughters life, ps he still paying our car note instead and cell plus I still have access to our joint account. I fear to much NC and he’ll stop helping. Advice????

admin

April 15, 2014 at 4:10 pm

Have you read: https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/get-your-boyfriend-back-if-you-have-a-child-together/

Maxine

April 14, 2014 at 4:19 am

My ex texted me one evening just after the NC period “just to see how I am doing”. When I responded the next afternoon saying “I am doing fine, and you?” he never responded back.

Why would he do this?

admin

April 14, 2014 at 5:36 pm

Probably to test to see if youd respond.

Sophie

April 13, 2014 at 8:47 pm

I don’t even know what to do anymore been broken up a month today 🙁 the first three weeks I tried begging for him back but now I haven’t spoke to him for 8 days an applying the no contact rule but every single day through this month I have cried my eyes out 🙁 I know he is expecting me to text him but I know I can’t 🙁

admin

April 14, 2014 at 5:20 pm

Just finish out the NC.

But the problem right now is actually you. You need to get yourself back on track. Put yourself in the right mindset to get him back.
Sophie

April 14, 2014 at 5:27 pm

I will. I’m going to try my best I hope it works 🙁
Sophie

April 15, 2014 at 3:31 pm

Chris!! I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your website and all the effort you have gone through! As you could tell I’ve been a bit of a desperate MESS! but after listening to what you have said and reading…pretty much EVERY page on here (how sad!!) haha I’ve realised…I’ve decided I’m not going to contact him. He broke up with me and right now he doesn’t want to talk to me he wants his space. If he wants to talk to me he has my number he knows I love him and he knows how much I want us to work out but I’m not doing the chasing anymore. Of course I still want to be with him but it’s not happening right now and he may not ever want it again, so I need to learn to live without him I’m even looking to go to Paris soon as I’ve always wanted to go there 🙂 I always wanted to go with Stefan but looks unlikely now lol I hope he changes his mind but I can’t hold onto that I HAVEEEEE to give him his space, it’s hard but hey I’ve already gone ten days, I’m sure I can stick it out! 🙂

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