I’m an idiot!
We have been doing these videos for about half a year now and I am ashamed to admit that we haven’t been giving you the best quality that we possibly can. You see, I was trying to go for that super clean “white background” look but it ended up just looking like this,
Pretty crappy, right?
I mean, that’s not even white. It’s more like this whittish grey. Turns out the fix to make it have that super white feel was as simple as editing it post shoot in an editing software.
Check out the gigantic difference,
Pretty massive difference, right?
Well, from this point on all of our videos should begin to have a more professional look and feel to them. So, that’s good news for you, right?
Anyways, today’s video is all about mistakes. Particularly the most common mistakes that I see women making when trying to get their ex boyfriends back. Check it out!
The other week I was searching the web and I came across the most peculiar story. Apparently a woman was arrested for texting and calling her ex boyfriend in total of 77,000 times. The story got me thinking, “What are some of the most common mistakes that women make when trying to get their ex boyfriends back?” Well, that’s what this video’s about.
Alright, today we’re going to be covering the top 5 mistakes that women make when trying to get their ex boyfriends back. Aright, so what I’d like to do is cover the top 5 mistakes that women tend to make when trying to get their ex boyfriends back. The first mistake is coming in with no plan. The second mistake is being too desperate or needy. The third mistake: gnatting. The fourth mistake is moving too fast and finally the fifth mistake is trying to get an ex boyfriend back in a pretty helpless situation.
So, what I’d like to do now is go right through it with the first mistake: trying to get your ex boyfriend back with no plan.
Mistake #1: Not Having A Plan
One of the things I love to teach women to do on ex boyfriend recovery is trying to get an ex boyfriend back within a plan, within a template. Now, you don’t have to stick to that plan a hundred percent of the time because getting an ex boyfriend back is kind of a complex process. There’s no one plan that you have to stick to a hundred percent of the time. Nevertheless, I have found that having a plan when it comes to getting your ex boyfriend back, raises your chances exponentially. Take a wedding for example, you wouldn’t just go try to get a wedding–a ring–throw in a wedding. You have to have a plan. In fact sometimes, you have to hire wedding planners, same principles applies here. You’re going to fall flat on your face if you try to “wing” trying to get an ex boyfriend back. On the other hand, if you have a plan, well it’s going to raise your chances exponentially. Okay, next up is desperation and neediness.
Mistake #2: Desperation/Neediness
It’s often said that neediness is the opposite of attraction. Therefore, if you are needy towards your ex boyfriend, he’s less likely to find you attractive. One of my wife and I’s favorite shows to watch is The Bachelor. We watch it for “research” purposes of course. But we noticed there was a contestant on there, Lace, and she was really desperate and needy towards the bachelor when she was trying to win his affection. Now, at first he thought it was cute and liked it. But after a while, he didn’t like it so much, in fact he found it annoying and he found it unattractive and she got kicked off. Now the last thing you want to do is be desperate, needy and annoying to your ex boyfriend because I guarantee you, if you’re desperate and needy to a point that’s crazy, he’s going to find you annoying and trying to get him back, it’s not going to work if you’re approaching this from a position of weakness. You need to approach this from a position of strength, from a position of attraction.
Mistake #3: Gnatting
Now, you may be wondering what gnatting is. Gnatting is actually an acronym for GNAT-Going Nuts At Texting. I see a lot of situations everyday on ex boyfriend recovery and one of the situations that keeps popping up even now is, women who go a little crazy when it comes to texting and calling their ex boyfriends. I’ve been trying to find a way to put it for women to make them understand how annoying this is and I thought what better way to explain this than having a bunch of gnats fly around your head. Think about it. You’re walking down the street one day, when all of a sudden a bunch of gnats fly around your head and no matter how many times you swat at the gnats to make them go away, they don’t. They just keep buzzing around. You swat they buzz. Nothing gets them to go away. You run around, they follow you, you swat again, they buzz around. Well in this analogy, you’re the gnat and you’re ex boyfriend is trying to swat to get you away. Let’ me give you another example, this is what a gnat looks like when it comes to texting. Do not do this to your ex boyfriend. Trust me. It won’t work out.
Mistake #4: Moving too fast
Moving too fast is a huge mistake. I want you to imagine something for me. Imagine that you have a blind date next week. Well, a week passes and you go along this blind date and you meet this guy for the first time. Pretty good looking guy but he asks you to marry him. Would you say yes? No, of course not. There’s a process to getting married. It takes time. Well, getting your ex back works the same way. There’s a process to getting your ex back and if you move too fast, too soon, you’re going to shoot yourself in the foot and ruin any chance you’ll have of getting him back.
Mistake #5: Trying to get him back in a helpless situation
One of the fun aspects of my job is that I get to see a lot of interesting situations. A lot of interesting relationships, and the one that always sticks to my mind is, a woman who came to ex boyfriend recovery and she wanted her ex boyfriend back more than anything. The problem is, her ex boyfriend was engaged and was about to be married. Well, to me, I kept telling her, this is a pointless situation and you should probably move on but she just went havoc. She just kept trying to get her ex boyfriend back and pretty soon, it got to the point where her ex boyfriend had to file a restraining order against her. The point I’m trying to make here is you shouldn’t waste your time trying to get your ex boyfriend in a pointless situation, a situation where you really have no hope. Now, this bags an interesting question, what kind of chance do you have in your particular situation? Well, that’s why I want to encourage you to visit my website: www.exboyfriendrecovery.com . On there, you’ll be able to find countless articles of me talking about your situation. In fact, we’re even going to have a quiz really soon. That gives you an in depth report on what kind of chance you have in your particular situation.
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