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He Broke Up With You And Now You Want Him Back

There is no way around it, when someone breaks up with you, it sucks. Sometimes the blow can be softened if you had a feeling a breakup was coming soon but if you were completely caught off guard then your ego definitely took a pretty big blow :/. Nevertheless, the world isn’t over and you can definitely salvage the situation. This page is going to focus on what steps you can take to get your ex boyfriend back if he broke up with you. Now, I want to give you a little notice here, I am not one of those people that is going to fill your head up with all sorts of lies saying that the methods talked about on this page are guaranteed to have him crawling back to you. All I will say is this, if you follow the advice on this page your chances of getting him back will increase dramatically.

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 Do You Have A Legitimate Reason?

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If you want this to work then you better have a legitimate reason for wanting to get back together with your ex. I can tell you I have heard a lot of stories from women wanting to get back with their exes except when I ask them “Well, what is your biggest reason for wanting to get back together with your ex boyfriend?” they can’t come up with anything legitimate to tell me. Responses like:

  • “I miss him”
  • “He is the best I will ever date”
  • “I don’t want to be alone”

are NOT good enough. Trust me, if you don’t have a truly legitimate reason for wanting to be back with your ex boyfriend then I can assure you that you won’t get the happy ending that you are searching for (and for the record when I talk about a happy ending I mean having a long lasting HEALTHY relationship.) Now, the things that I talk about throughout this website will work on someone, even if you don’t have a legit reason, but almost always couples that reunite without a good reason don’t have a very healthy or long relationship. I want you to have a healthy and long relationship so that is why I am preaching this so much.

By now I am hoping that you are screaming at your computer “CHRIS, WHAT IS A LEGITIMATE REASON?” Well, there are a lot of legit and non-legit reasons to want to get back with an ex. I wrote an entire page covering them here: Legitimate Reasons To Get Back With Your Ex Boyfriend.

Alright, enough of this nonsense, lets get to the good stuff what do ya say?

Common Reasons He May Have Broken Up With You


As I am sure you have already figured out, men are quite complicated when it comes to relationships. There is a whole list of reasons that he may have potentially given you for the break up. Right now I don’t want you to worry about that, that is my job. What I am going to do for you is take the most common reasons that men use for a break up and tell you what they really mean. Now, I do feel it is important to mention that even though some of these reasons may be hard to face, it doesn’t mean all hope is lost, in fact, I think you will be fired up and ready to get him back after I break these down for you. Let’s take a look at the most common reasons:

  • The “it’s not you, it’s me” Excuse.
  • You don’t appreciate me
  • I don’t want to talk about it (Silence…..)
  • You Cheated On Them

The “It’s Not You, It’s Me” Excuse

its not you its me

Ah, the oldest excuse in the book. There are two big things you need to realize about someone who gave you this reason. First off, most of the time they are lying to you about the real reason why they wanted to breakup. Secondly, they weren’t specific about anything that you did that caused the breakup essentially leaving you in limbo land to wonder what went wrong. Off the top of my head here are some of the REAL reasons why they wanted to breakup:

  • They did not find you physically or emotionally attractive but cared enough about your feelings to not tell you to your face.
  • Some men have short attention spans and can get bored really fast. It is entirely possible that he just got really bored with the relationship and wanted to move on.
  • His emotional and sexual wants and desires weren’t met by you. Yup, some men are real jerks just because you won’t sleep with them.

I know it may seem hopeless now but I actually have good news for you if your ex gave you the “it’s not you, it’s me excuse” but first, there are a few things that you are going to have to do. Take out a sheet of paper and list all the real reasons that you can come up with that would make him break up with you. Here is the good news, the fact that your ex cared enough to lie to you, to spare your feelings, is not a negative thing, it’s actually a positive.

You Didn’t Appreciate Him

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Unlike the reason above, this is a legitimate excuse for a guy to use. Here is the deal, if you were constantly nagging your ex or criticizing him there will eventually be a point where he can’t take it anymore. No one likes to be criticized every step of the way. In fact, nothing is a bigger turnoff to a man than a woman pointing out everything he is doing wrong. Men like to be admired and appreciated. Every time you nag or criticize him (to a great extent) you are hurting your mans confidence and lowering your value in his eyes. The good news in this case is that this is something you can fix since you control what you say. Take some time and really work on being less judgmental of him.

Lets Just Drop It (Silent Treatment)

dont wannt talk about it

I will say that out of all the reasons I listed on this page this one gave me the most trouble. The only thing I can think of, if your ex gives you this reason, is that he is really angry about something that he refuses to talk about it. I will admit, this reason is really tough to deal with because your ex boyfriend isn’t communicating with you at all. In any case, this one is going to require you to do some deeper digging internally.

You Cheated On Them

A very popular topic here on our site except usually people ask about it if they were the ones who were cheated on. In this case, we are flipping the coin and looking at how you can recover if YOU were the one who cheated on them. Cheating is kind of tricky, there is a lot to go into but I don’t think this is the page is the proper place to do so, I can tell you that usually women cheat for emotional reasons. Perhaps your relationship with your ex wasn’t good, was going downhill or he wasn’t giving you something that you needed. Whatever the case, think really hard about if you want to get back with a person that literally numbed you enough that you cheated on them. I have found that a lot of times women who cheated on their boyfriends and then wanted them back do so because they didn’t realize how good they had it with their ex boyfriend until they see how bad the relationship is with their new boyfriend.

If you are in that category, don’t worry, you can still get your ex boyfriend back. However, I want to ask you to consult the list of legitimate reasons before you go through with anything. If you consult the list and decide you still want your ex boyfriend back just realize that it is not going to be easy. You hurt this person and you are going to have to work extremely hard to gain back their trust. It’s possible, its just going to be really hard.

The Steps To Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back

Getting your ex boyfriend back is a very complicated subject that few are willing to dive into, luckily, I am one of those few. Here is the deal though, I am not going to give you the exact steps to getting your ex back on this page. I already created a mega page that does just that. This baby is 10,000 words long, took me a month to finish and I am confident enough to say that it is the most comprehensive “get your ex boyfriend back” free guide that is currently in existence. Yup, I am that confident. Anyways, if you want the exact way to get a boyfriend back please visit the following page: How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back


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Chris Seiter

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1,235 thoughts on “He Broke Up With You And Now You Want Him Back”

  1. Jen

    February 13, 2018 at 5:38 pm

    My boyfriend broke up with me 2 days ago. We had a fight the day before about him not showing enough effort in our relationship. He agreed and said he would try harder. The next day he was suppose to hang out with me and my friends for a picnic. He never showed up. I called about 5 times and had no response. I left an angry text message saying “ I’m tired of you doing this to me. Don’t even bother showing yourself to me this week. Bye.” After that, around 5 hours lates, he texted we need to talk. I called him and he said he wanted to break up with me. He said he didn’t love me romantically anymore but he still cared for me as a person. He also said that I was right that he wasn’t trying anymore. He than said he could come over and break up with me in person if that would make me feel better. I said no because than I would try to win him back. He said that’s not going to happen. He then said he would return my stuff later this week and we hung up. We’ve been together for 3 years. We haven’t been in contact since the breakup. I want to ask him to be together again when he returns my things but I don’t know if he wants to. I feel like he broke up with me because we fought. Please help. Can I win him back?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 18, 2018 at 10:53 am

      Hi Jen,

      You can try the nc rule but dont tell him and dont tell him again that you’re trying to win him back

  2. Jaz

    January 26, 2018 at 2:21 pm

    Hi there,
    My boyfriend dumped me exactly one week ago from today. Basically I’ve had real bad anxiety and depression my whole life but I had it under control when we met and got together. After sometime together my whole world fell apart, I lost my job, car, living situation and I went in a fast downward spiral. It began to affect our relationship, but he put up with so much. He moved me in, let me use his car took me to my new job everyday even tho it was out of his way, loved me etc. Now I won’t say I was a monster , Because our love was there and it was real, and our goodm moments were great. However, I had a lot of down moments. I began to get insecure, I thought I wasn’t enough for him, noting merrited the thoughts I had but I always accused him of talking to someone else or not wanting me, and when he would try to telle other wise I say he’s lying and shut down. This happens for a while, and for a couple of months I promised I was going to change…. I tried I really did but it’s a process, you know. It didn’t happen fast enough. Well last week, I was at my friend’s house and he was at a bar and just because he didn’t answer me I went off and called him a liar about talking to someone else. Then I got drunk and hid my relationship status on social media, and started posting things online that most would post after a break up . I woke up the next day and saw he hid his relationship status and my heart dropped. I called to try and fix it but he told me he wasn’t sure what he wanted because he’s tired of waiting on me to change when it’s clear I’m not going to. We hung up, not on a bad note he just said he wasn’t sure but he loved me and hung up. Well he didn’t text me all night and I got the idea to do a grand gesture and show up at his job when he got off to let him know I wanted to work it out. (I had to get dropped off since no car) when he saw me he was mad that I did t it unannounced because he had a long day and just wanted to go to bed. That response hurt my feelings and I pushed for him to talk and we started arguing and I don’t remember what but I called him a liar about something and he ended it right then and there. He said I make him feel like crap, and we only worry about my issues with no concern for his ( I tried but he doesn’t open up, while I wear my heart on my sleeve) I begged and we both cried but he didn’t change his mind.
    Like I said it’s been a week and I haven’t heard from him, nor have I tried to contact him. I blocked him, but I told him it wasn’t going to be out of anger it was for my own sanity. It’s only been a week, but I’m trying so hard to win him back. I have a car, that’s not in running order yet but it’s an easy fix, got a job, stopped drinking, lost ten pounds already by not eating the first three days then clean eating and exercise, I made new social media accounts to show him that I’m starting from scratch, I’m not posting any more of that “man hater” or negative posts, and I didn’t add any guys who he’s mentioned “liking” my pictures too soon… So I’m trying to build my case to at least give me a chance of trying.
    My question is should I contact him or wait for him to contact me? When should I unblock him (I blocked him on my new pages too, so I don’t check his stuff all day…even tho I still do lol)
    I’m not sure if we should get back together all day but I want him to know that my intention is to try again in a few months or so, if he just needs time. I loved this man like like I’ve never felt and my fear of losing him was my demise. Now that I relized that I can lose him if I don’t change, and now that I’ve had time away and began to evaluate our situation and see my areas of necessary changes, I more than anything want to work it out. I’m already proving to myself I can, but I want him to give me the chance of proving it to him. I just don’t want to miss my chance. Should I give him more time, til i contact him – wait til I’m a bit more together? Should I wait for him? Or should I at least tell him my intentions and carry on our separate ways until the time is right again?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 30, 2018 at 12:29 pm

      Hi Jaz
      You dont have to add him back but you have to unblock him.. And if he doesn’t contact you after a week more, initiate contact..if he’s still set on breaking up, start the nc rule.

  3. Richa Kumar

    January 26, 2018 at 12:25 pm

    So my boyfriend and I met 4 years back at our workplace. We started as being the best of friends. A year later he proposed but I softly refused as I never felt anything for him. He very gracefully accepted it and took a step. As he was obviously sad he decided to make new friends. Slowly the distance started increasing. It is probably this time when I realised that I love him and started missing his presence. A couple of months later we got together. But over the next year I was absolutely stupid. I became insecure of 2 of his female friends and till date I believe they were not good for him. Anyway after an year of argument over petty issues he broke up with last September. I could see he was not happy and I was devasted by his decision. After a 2 week break and after apologising to him we guys got back together. I promised him I would never repeat any of the mistakes and I would do anything to make us work. But once we got back together I realised he had become less patient to my issues. He was so so frustrated with all the previous arguments that he made an opinion about me. No matter how hard I tried to convience him he only saw the old insecure girl who likes arguments. To be honest I have really changed. Since September I have not argued with him. Not even once have I raised by voice. I even went to the extent to apologising to his friends (whom I still don’t like as I believe in vibes). I know I am insecure person but I am it stupid. 2 of his female friends are really weird. Anyway since September till 10 January i did everything I could to save this relationship. But in these 4 months he has broken up with me multiple times over silly issues. The only mistake I believe have made is trying to convince him repeatedly to be with me and sending some extremely terrible texts. He broke up with me for a final time on 10 January and blocked me. After 4 years I have realized that I need to give him some space and I cannot force someone to be with me. So this when I told me to stay way from him forever I have not tried a single time to get in touch with him. It’s been 16 days since our last contact. I miss him a lot but I also know I can’t force him. Do u believe the no contact will work? Because if it does not I am sure that I will not contact him.. it’s not my arrogance but it’s the fear of him talking back rudely. Meanwhile I am trying to be happy and I am… have given a few interviews to change the current job. Also please note that we both are not on social media and since we work in different projects we don’t get to see each other

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 29, 2018 at 11:53 am

      Hi Richa,

      it’s not guaranteed to work in any situation, but it helps increase your chances. Even if he’s not in social media, you have to be active in posting, you just have to make your posts public.

  4. Swara

    January 25, 2018 at 4:52 pm

    I don’t know is it a strong relationship or not.. we were met in facebook he were proposed me…I was said him “yes”.. we used to talk about our marriage. . Our future together…and I hope he loved me truely.. but I really loved him from deep of my heart…and I never wanted him to let him go.. I never wanted to lose him… he always said he loves me.. and he do… but after suffering 6 months… he started ignoring me… without any reasons… even he never blocked me.. yea he blocked me on whatsapp… but he left a way to contact to him.. but on that contach he’s not replying me anymore.. he always ignoring me… I messaged him like a crazy gul.. and I really need him back tell me plz how to let him back.. i need him… we’ve not talking from 6 months.. I mean I tried to contact him so many times.. but he even not replying me.. but my all messages are always seen…
    Please someone help me… even if it’s LDR I truely love him even if he not…
    Plz somebody help me.. 🙁

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 25, 2018 at 9:48 pm

  5. tiruworq

    January 23, 2018 at 1:15 pm

    last time i wrote to you after i did no contact he didnt respond to me but now after no contact (from oct to Dec.)and 23 days later I got
    a positive reply from him and i texted him again
    like “happy
    Christmas” but no respond and after a days again I
    messaged to him and after three days later he call me and he said he was disappointed about a message that I texted him on Christmas day he said the
    message was very short and he said why i didn’t
    call him on that day rather than text and i said that you ignore my
    calls that why am not calling you. his
    birthday day is after 3 days and what can I do next

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 24, 2018 at 1:10 pm

      Why did you broke up? And what did he say when you said that?

  6. tiruworq

    January 1, 2018 at 2:39 am

    I broke with my boyfriend before six
    months after long relationship means five years
    he is 27 and am 28. we live in distant to work
    and only met to holiday and to break.we had no
    any sex history during those years I said to him
    sex must be after marriage and he said ok
    .before a year I said to him i don’t want him
    anymore but not from my bottom but the reason
    was we were in distant specially I was working in
    harsh environment plus and community and i was
    always want him in my side means I was always
    waiting my boyfriend to visit me but he was
    always busy this was the reason. and his friend
    call me and ask why i became like this and i
    understood my fault and I was calling to him but
    he was ignoring me and one day he was picking
    my calls and we were talk and regret each other
    and i back to my family to searching job and
    within two months we dated only two days but I
    need more date with him but he was busy and I
    was going to his work place and asking him why
    ignoring my calls and he said that he need clear
    cut I said why and we’re plan to date and to talk
    about it but we didn’t met. As he said now he
    was waiting my calls first but I was trying but he
    ignoring me after that I always messaged to him
    but no respond and again I was going to his work
    place with gifts he was surprised and dated to
    the next day and we did and I was asking why he
    was ignoring my calls he said he don’t want me
    any more he need freedom without stress and
    expose him self new hobbies like smoking
    cigarette ,drunk alcohol and chewing stimulate
    plants and i did no contact to 30 days and i did
    text to him no respond and what can I do next

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 2, 2018 at 6:30 pm

      Hi Tiruworq,

      When did you do nc?

  7. Cherry Raymonds

    October 3, 2017 at 12:26 am

    I can’t cope with the pain of my break up. Can’t eat or sleep, I feel depressed. Can’t sleep without the sleeping pills. And to make things worse I think I’m getting addicted to them. How can I make myself feel better and sleep better?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 3, 2017 at 9:44 pm

      Hi Cherry,

      It would be better to have professional help from a licensed counselor..

  8. Debra

    August 25, 2017 at 1:07 am

    My wife and I were in a long distance relationship for almost two years. Through a lot of outside negative things that were happening two friends of mine died, I had surgery my job tanked and his daughter got killed in a car accident. It was a lot of stress not to mention the stress of the long-distance. But we fought a lot we had different political viewpoints we poured a lot about that. He ended up breaking up with me by text and basically said that he’s going to date someone in his area and he recommends that I do the same. I did do the no contact for 37 days but I did text them to send my things back several times finally after two months he sent my things back. We talked on the phone but it didn’t go well we ended up in an argument. He’s seeing this other woman now for 3 months and I’m freaking out that I’ll never get him back and I miss him terribly. I don’t know what to do I can stop the no contact again but I don’t know how to start a conversation or text him once that no contact is done. Also I don’t think this is a rebound relationship which is making me very nervous and I’m too afraid to let too much time go by

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      EBR Team Member: Amor

      August 26, 2017 at 12:14 pm

  9. Neenu

    August 19, 2017 at 3:03 am

    He is brokeup with me with no valid reason .I agree to his decision. After 14days of no contact rule I send him a message. That is my marriage is fixed you must come .then his rply was just an emoji.he don’t care for me what can I do

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      EBR Team Member: Amor

      August 19, 2017 at 9:01 pm

      Hi Neenu,

      That’s not a proper first no contact, and basing from that, I’m assuming you didn’t improve yourself and were not active in posting right? Check this one:
      Using The No Contact Rule With Brad Browning

  10. Sarah

    August 10, 2017 at 6:08 pm

    Hi Amor, How active I am in improving myself? I think like 50% active. And in posting I was like very active which is i’m not usually active in posting.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      EBR Team Member: Amor

      August 11, 2017 at 2:02 pm

      that’s good. Focus on that. Improve the health, wealth and relationships aspects of you life and keep being active in posting. Honestly, it looked like he got bored of the relationship.

    2. Sarah

      August 11, 2017 at 4:12 pm

      Yes yes I think so too. Maybe he is bored with me. Well couldn’t help it either. Right now I’m trying to focus on myself to be a bettter person. I will contact you once the nc rules has been over. Thank you, Amor. 🙂

    3. EBR Team Member: Amor

      EBR Team Member: Amor

      August 11, 2017 at 5:10 pm

      Ok, that’s good. You’re welcome!

  11. Sarah

    August 10, 2017 at 12:45 pm

    So I met my ex boyfriend two years ago because my friend introduce him to me. Everything was perfect and we started dating 9 months ago. But the 9 months period he has to leave to studies so we practically LDR. During LDR there was no problem at all, yes we actually fight but its not ruining our relationship. And then he was back for holiday last month. During the first two weeks everything was okay. But then suddenly he grow distant. I keep quiet for 5 days and then i couldn’t take it anymore. So i asked him. And he said, “i don’t know. I couldn’t go back to my old self.” and he is literally pushing me to break up with him which is I don’t want to because i still love him very much. He said okay let’s try again slowly. But he still doesn’t change after a week and it drove me crazy. I asked him if he wanted to be with me again he said no. So i broke up with him. I am in no contact rules for 2 weeks now. The last thing i heard from my friend that he still loves me but he said if he continue to be my boyfriend he will only hurt me. So what should i do?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      EBR Team Member: Amor

      August 10, 2017 at 5:23 pm

      Hi Sarah,

      how active are you in improving yourself and in posting?

    2. Sarah

      August 10, 2017 at 6:14 pm

      Hi amor. How active I am in improving myself? I think it’s like 50%. And in posting I am like very active which is I am not usually active in posting.

    3. EBR Team Member: Amor

      EBR Team Member: Amor

      August 11, 2017 at 2:02 pm

      that’s good. Focus on that. Improve the health, wealth and relationships aspects of you life and keep being active in posting. Honestly, it looked like he got bored of the relationship.

  12. Andrea

    July 13, 2017 at 11:36 pm

    If he broke up with me and If he used the it’s not you, it’s me line on me… do I move on or do I still use the no contact time… and contact him once it’s over

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 14, 2017 at 1:56 pm

      Try the nc process first.. Improve yourself, be active in posting and then slowly build rapport after..if it doesn’t work, then move on..

  13. Sara

    July 9, 2017 at 6:36 am

    Hi, Amor
    I know I’ve been commenting a lot on the post…
    I just, you know, I know I shouldn’t but I think too much about why he left, what I could have done wrong…It’s hard to know what was his reason because he told a lot of reasons and they just weren’t like “real”, I feel they weren’t. It was more like a “it’s not you, it’s me” and I’ve been thinking and I know it’s not true, I feel I made so many mistakes and I wasn’t as good girlfriend as I thought I was. I’m improving, and I know what to change, but even with all my past mistakes, would he take me back?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 9, 2017 at 7:40 pm

      The question is, how are you now? If you were in his position, would you be interested?

  14. Lala

    June 21, 2017 at 4:33 pm

    My boyfriend and I started our relationship long distance. We’d fight sometimes just because of the distance. How we wanted to be together but couldn’t. We managed to see each other once a month. We worked these past few months to get everything lined up for him to move to my state so we could finally be together. June 1st I flew up to meet him and we started our drive down. We had small fights along the way but managed to get through them bc we were about to be together in the same state. After being here a week we went out. It was getting late and he started talking to these guys. I told him I was tired and he said 5 mins. One of the guys brought back another round of beers. I told him I was going outside. I sat in my car trying to rest my eyes. 15 mins later I went in and told him I was leaving. He asked how he was getting home. I said I don’t know, Uber, but I’m leaving now. He left with me but didn’t say a word. We showed up to his places and he waved for me to leave. The next day he showed up at my parents house and broke up with me. He said it’s always my way or the highway just like it was at the bar. I chased him in the rain and begged for him to talk to me but he was recording our conversation and refused to say anything other than please move and I’m done being in a relationship with you. We had talked about kids and so on together. I’m just confused with how he could let this all go like it’s nothing when we fought so hard to get in the same stateess than 5 miles from each other. He returned my calls, texts, or emails in over a week.

    1. Lala

      June 21, 2017 at 4:35 pm

      Sorry he *hasnt returned any of my calls or texts or emails

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      EBR Team Member: Amor

      June 23, 2017 at 5:26 pm

      Look like he got tired.. Are you going to try the advice above?

  15. Jane

    June 15, 2017 at 3:50 am

    My ex bf broke up with me and chose someone else. Right now im the 1st week of no contact period. But for the next days, I think he will already bring the girl back to our old place (I moved out) and I just imagine so many things that will happen. To prevent this, I think of staying at the same area, just the next unit so that he will be ashamed of bringing th girl there. But I will still surely not talk to him. Is it the right decision?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      EBR Team Member: Amor

      June 17, 2017 at 6:39 am

      Nope.. don’t let your life decisions depend on trying to stop him on what he’s going to do with his..

  16. Aishwarya

    May 13, 2017 at 5:45 am

    Hi.. Me n my ex were dating for 1.5 years…Everything went well for the first year.. Then v were in LDR and he lives with his parents… Since his family is too orthodox we never got time to talk… Eventually we never spoke to each other over days.. I kept nagging and asking him to come back and meet me… He said he doesnt like to break up but he feels it wont work out… I really love him a lot…wat do i do abt this??
    Pls help me

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 13, 2017 at 2:50 pm

  17. Laura

    April 17, 2017 at 4:02 pm

    i was friends with my ex for a few years before i fell in love with him, then we went on 2 dates and he said that he didn’t want to go on anymore dates with me. Six months later we became boyfriend and girlfriend. We dated for over a year and a month ago he broke up with me, He called me to explain his issues with the relationship and i didn’t know that at the time and i got so scared that i din’t know what to say. he said he was acting like a tv bf for me and i don’t want that i love him for him and i would do anything to make him happy. My friends told me recently that he thought i was obsessed with him but i know that i am really not. a week after the breakup i called him to apologize for all the mistakes i made and he said “what do you want” and i said “i want you to forgive me and i hope we can still be friends” and he said that he forgives me and that we can. Two days after that phone call one of my friends told me that he said he will never get back together with me. After that i started the no contact period and i haven’t contacted him in three weeks and the 30 days will be over in about 1 week. What should i do to get him back? what should i do to prove i’m not obsessed? what should i do with everything he got me i’ve been hiding them but i don’t know how long i should keep hiding them?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      EBR Team Member: Amor

      April 22, 2017 at 3:42 pm

      Restart the no contact period and click this link:
      The Ungettable Girl