He Broke Up With You And Now You Want Him Back

There is no way around it, when someone breaks up with you, it sucks. Sometimes the blow can be softened if you had a feeling a breakup was coming soon but if you were completely caught off guard then your ego definitely took a pretty big blow :/. Nevertheless, the world isn’t over and you can definitely salvage the situation. This page is going to focus on what steps you can take to get your ex boyfriend back if he broke up with you. Now, I want to give you a little notice here, I am not one of those people that is going to fill your head up with all sorts of lies saying that the methods talked about on this page are guaranteed to have him crawling back to you. All I will say is this, if you follow the advice on this page your chances of getting him back will increase dramatically.

 Do You Have A Legitimate Reason?

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If you want this to work then you better have a legitimate reason for wanting to get back together with your ex. I can tell you I have heard a lot of stories from women wanting to get back with their exes except when I ask them “Well, what is your biggest reason for wanting to get back together with your ex boyfriend?” they can’t come up with anything legitimate to tell me. Responses like:

  • “I miss him”
  • “He is the best I will ever date”
  • “I don’t want to be alone”

are NOT good enough. Trust me, if you don’t have a truly legitimate reason for wanting to be back with your ex boyfriend then I can assure you that you won’t get the happy ending that you are searching for (and for the record when I talk about a happy ending I mean having a long lasting HEALTHY relationship.) Now, the things that I talk about throughout this website will work on someone, even if you don’t have a legit reason, but almost always couples that reunite without a good reason don’t have a very healthy or long relationship. I want you to have a healthy and long relationship so that is why I am preaching this so much.

By now I am hoping that you are screaming at your computer “CHRIS, WHAT IS A LEGITIMATE REASON?” Well, there are a lot of legit and non-legit reasons to want to get back with an ex. I wrote an entire page covering them here: Legitimate Reasons To Get Back With Your Ex Boyfriend.

Alright, enough of this nonsense, lets get to the good stuff what do ya say?

Common Reasons He May Have Broken Up With You

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As I am sure you have already figured out, men are quite complicated when it comes to relationships. There is a whole list of reasons that he may have potentially given you for the break up. Right now I don’t want you to worry about that, that is my job. What I am going to do for you is take the most common reasons that men use for a break up and tell you what they really mean. Now, I do feel it is important to mention that even though some of these reasons may be hard to face, it doesn’t mean all hope is lost, in fact, I think you will be fired up and ready to get him back after I break these down for you. Let’s take a look at the most common reasons:

  • The “it’s not you, it’s me” Excuse.
  • You don’t appreciate me
  • I don’t want to talk about it (Silence…..)
  • You Cheated On Them

The “It’s Not You, It’s Me” Excuse

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Ah, the oldest excuse in the book. There are two big things you need to realize about someone who gave you this reason. First off, most of the time they are lying to you about the real reason why they wanted to breakup. Secondly, they weren’t specific about anything that you did that caused the breakup essentially leaving you in limbo land to wonder what went wrong. Off the top of my head here are some of the REAL reasons why they wanted to breakup:

  • They did not find you physically or emotionally attractive but cared enough about your feelings to not tell you to your face.
  • Some men have short attention spans and can get bored really fast. It is entirely possible that he just got really bored with the relationship and wanted to move on.
  • His emotional and sexual wants and desires weren’t met by you. Yup, some men are real jerks just because you won’t sleep with them.

I know it may seem hopeless now but I actually have good news for you if your ex gave you the “it’s not you, it’s me excuse” but first, there are a few things that you are going to have to do. Take out a sheet of paper and list all the real reasons that you can come up with that would make him break up with you. Here is the good news, the fact that your ex cared enough to lie to you, to spare your feelings, is not a negative thing, it’s actually a positive.

You Didn’t Appreciate Him

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Unlike the reason above, this is a legitimate excuse for a guy to use. Here is the deal, if you were constantly nagging your ex or criticizing him there will eventually be a point where he can’t take it anymore. No one likes to be criticized every step of the way. In fact, nothing is a bigger turnoff to a man than a woman pointing out everything he is doing wrong. Men like to be admired and appreciated. Every time you nag or criticize him (to a great extent) you are hurting your mans confidence and lowering your value in his eyes. The good news in this case is that this is something you can fix since you control what you say. Take some time and really work on being less judgmental of him.

Lets Just Drop It (Silent Treatment)

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I will say that out of all the reasons I listed on this page this one gave me the most trouble. The only thing I can think of, if your ex gives you this reason, is that he is really angry about something that he refuses to talk about it. I will admit, this reason is really tough to deal with because your ex boyfriend isn’t communicating with you at all. In any case, this one is going to require you to do some deeper digging internally.

You Cheated On Them

A very popular topic here on our site except usually people ask about it if they were the ones who were cheated on. In this case, we are flipping the coin and looking at how you can recover if YOU were the one who cheated on them. Cheating is kind of tricky, there is a lot to go into but I don’t think this is the page is the proper place to do so, I can tell you that usually women cheat for emotional reasons. Perhaps your relationship with your ex wasn’t good, was going downhill or he wasn’t giving you something that you needed. Whatever the case, think really hard about if you want to get back with a person that literally numbed you enough that you cheated on them. I have found that a lot of times women who cheated on their boyfriends and then wanted them back do so because they didn’t realize how good they had it with their ex boyfriend until they see how bad the relationship is with their new boyfriend.

If you are in that category, don’t worry, you can still get your ex boyfriend back. However, I want to ask you to consult the list of legitimate reasons before you go through with anything. If you consult the list and decide you still want your ex boyfriend back just realize that it is not going to be easy. You hurt this person and you are going to have to work extremely hard to gain back their trust. It’s possible, its just going to be really hard.

The Steps To Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back

Getting your ex boyfriend back is a very complicated subject that few are willing to dive into, luckily, I am one of those few. Here is the deal though, I am not going to give you the exact steps to getting your ex back on this page. I already created a mega page that does just that. This baby is 10,000 words long, took me a month to finish and I am confident enough to say that it is the most comprehensive “get your ex boyfriend back” free guide that is currently in existence. Yup, I am that confident. Anyways, if you want the exact way to get a boyfriend back please visit the following page: How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

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Chris Seiter

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Ann
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My boyfriend for 1 1/2 years broke up with me yesterday. Were always fighting and seems like we didnt understand each others point. I nag, I beg, I keep on asking him to all the thoughts i have in mind. I called him last night he answered and he keeps replying to my message. He said he can tell to my face straight that its done its not working anymore because of our endless fight. His birthday is coming in a few days i planned my surprise and arranged my gifts as well. I dont know what will i do… Read more »
Ann
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My boyfriend for 1 1/2 years broke up with me yesterday. Were always fighting and seems like we didnt understand each others point. I nag, I beg, I keep on asking him to all the thoughts i have in mind. I called him last night he answered and he keeps replying to my message. He said he can tell to my face straight that its done its not working anymore because of our endless fight. His birthday is coming in a few days i planned my surprise and arranged my gifts as well. I dont know what will i do… Read more »
Alexandra
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hi my boyfriend of 15 months broke up with me december 30th and blocked me on everything. We used to be engaged and just the day before we got into this arguement and he told me to leave him alone because he needed time to think if he wanted to be in a relationship with me and later that day i went to his job to buy something and he pulled me to the side ad said he didnt want to end things because he loves me to much and doesnt see himself with anyone but me and all he… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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Hi Alexandra,

He sounds like a toxic person.. For me you should move on but if you don’t want to, try the nc rule.

Alexandra
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hi my boyfriend of 15 months broke up with me december 30th and blocked me on everything. We used to be engaged and just the day before we got into this arguement and he told me to leave him alone because he needed time to think if he wanted to be in a relationship with me and later that day i went to his job to buy something and he pulled me to the side ad said he didnt want to end things because he loves me to much and doesnt see himself with anyone but me and all he… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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Hi Alexandra,

He sounds like a toxic person.. For me you should move on but if you don’t want to, try the nc rule.

Cat
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hi, my long distance boyfriend (he’s in USA, I’m in Ireland) of 7 months boyfriend broke up with me 3 days ago via text because I didn’t say goodnight to him, which he took as me cheating. I forgot to say it once before a week ago and he said its always a “reoccuring” thing, which it isnt, it happened twice. We try to Facetime every night and we talk throughout the day, but he says i dont say goodmorning to him, even though i’m continuing on the conversation from the night previously, I just don’t say the words “good… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Cat,

I’m sorry..what do you mean that you won’t bother him? You’re not going to talk to him? Because if you’re just going there to be ignored, don’t go.

Cat
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hi, my long distance boyfriend (he’s in USA, I’m in Ireland) of 7 months boyfriend broke up with me 3 days ago via text because I didn’t say goodnight to him, which he took as me cheating. I forgot to say it once before a week ago and he said its always a “reoccuring” thing, which it isnt, it happened twice. We try to Facetime every night and we talk throughout the day, but he says i dont say goodmorning to him, even though i’m continuing on the conversation from the night previously, I just don’t say the words “good… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Cat,

I’m sorry..what do you mean that you won’t bother him? You’re not going to talk to him? Because if you’re just going there to be ignored, don’t go.

Jen
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My boyfriend broke up with me 2 days ago. We had a fight the day before about him not showing enough effort in our relationship. He agreed and said he would try harder. The next day he was suppose to hang out with me and my friends for a picnic. He never showed up. I called about 5 times and had no response. I left an angry text message saying “ I’m tired of you doing this to me. Don’t even bother showing yourself to me this week. Bye.” After that, around 5 hours lates, he texted we need to… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Jen,

You can try the nc rule but dont tell him and dont tell him again that you’re trying to win him back

Jen
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My boyfriend broke up with me 2 days ago. We had a fight the day before about him not showing enough effort in our relationship. He agreed and said he would try harder. The next day he was suppose to hang out with me and my friends for a picnic. He never showed up. I called about 5 times and had no response. I left an angry text message saying ” I’m tired of you doing this to me. Don’t even bother showing yourself to me this week. Bye.” After that, around 5 hours lates, he texted we need to… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Jen,

You can try the nc rule but dont tell him and dont tell him again that you’re trying to win him back

Jaz
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Hi there, My boyfriend dumped me exactly one week ago from today. Basically I’ve had real bad anxiety and depression my whole life but I had it under control when we met and got together. After sometime together my whole world fell apart, I lost my job, car, living situation and I went in a fast downward spiral. It began to affect our relationship, but he put up with so much. He moved me in, let me use his car took me to my new job everyday even tho it was out of his way, loved me etc. Now I… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Jaz
You dont have to add him back but you have to unblock him.. And if he doesn’t contact you after a week more, initiate contact..if he’s still set on breaking up, start the nc rule.

Richa Kumar
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Hi So my boyfriend and I met 4 years back at our workplace. We started as being the best of friends. A year later he proposed but I softly refused as I never felt anything for him. He very gracefully accepted it and took a step. As he was obviously sad he decided to make new friends. Slowly the distance started increasing. It is probably this time when I realised that I love him and started missing his presence. A couple of months later we got together. But over the next year I was absolutely stupid. I became insecure of… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Richa,

it’s not guaranteed to work in any situation, but it helps increase your chances. Even if he’s not in social media, you have to be active in posting, you just have to make your posts public.

Jaz
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Hi there, My boyfriend dumped me exactly one week ago from today. Basically I’ve had real bad anxiety and depression my whole life but I had it under control when we met and got together. After sometime together my whole world fell apart, I lost my job, car, living situation and I went in a fast downward spiral. It began to affect our relationship, but he put up with so much. He moved me in, let me use his car took me to my new job everyday even tho it was out of his way, loved me etc. Now I… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Jaz
You dont have to add him back but you have to unblock him.. And if he doesn’t contact you after a week more, initiate contact..if he’s still set on breaking up, start the nc rule.

Richa Kumar
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Hi So my boyfriend and I met 4 years back at our workplace. We started as being the best of friends. A year later he proposed but I softly refused as I never felt anything for him. He very gracefully accepted it and took a step. As he was obviously sad he decided to make new friends. Slowly the distance started increasing. It is probably this time when I realised that I love him and started missing his presence. A couple of months later we got together. But over the next year I was absolutely stupid. I became insecure of… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Richa,

it’s not guaranteed to work in any situation, but it helps increase your chances. Even if he’s not in social media, you have to be active in posting, you just have to make your posts public.

Swara
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I don’t know is it a strong relationship or not.. we were met in facebook he were proposed me…I was said him “yes”.. we used to talk about our marriage. . Our future together…and I hope he loved me truely.. but I really loved him from deep of my heart…and I never wanted him to let him go.. I never wanted to lose him… he always said he loves me.. and he do… but after suffering 6 months… he started ignoring me… without any reasons… even he never blocked me.. yea he blocked me on whatsapp… but he left a… Read more »
Swara
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I don’t know is it a strong relationship or not.. we were met in facebook he were proposed me…I was said him “yes”.. we used to talk about our marriage. . Our future together…and I hope he loved me truely.. but I really loved him from deep of my heart…and I never wanted him to let him go.. I never wanted to lose him… he always said he loves me.. and he do… but after suffering 6 months… he started ignoring me… without any reasons… even he never blocked me.. yea he blocked me on whatsapp… but he left a… Read more »
tiruworq
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last time i wrote to you after i did no contact he didnt respond to me but now after no contact (from oct to Dec.)and 23 days later I got a positive reply from him and i texted him again like “happy Christmas” but no respond and after a days again I messaged to him and after three days later he call me and he said he was disappointed about a message that I texted him on Christmas day he said the message was very short and he said why i didn’t call him on that day rather than text… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Why did you broke up? And what did he say when you said that?

tiruworq
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last time i wrote to you after i did no contact he didnt respond to me but now after no contact (from oct to Dec.)and 23 days later I got a positive reply from him and i texted him again like “happy Christmas” but no respond and after a days again I messaged to him and after three days later he call me and he said he was disappointed about a message that I texted him on Christmas day he said the message was very short and he said why i didn’t call him on that day rather than text… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Why did you broke up? And what did he say when you said that?

tiruworq
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I broke with my boyfriend before six months after long relationship means five years he is 27 and am 28. we live in distant to work and only met to holiday and to break.we had no any sex history during those years I said to him sex must be after marriage and he said ok .before a year I said to him i don’t want him anymore but not from my bottom but the reason was we were in distant specially I was working in harsh environment plus and community and i was always want him in my side means… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Tiruworq,

When did you do nc?

tiruworq
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I broke with my boyfriend before six months after long relationship means five years he is 27 and am 28. we live in distant to work and only met to holiday and to break.we had no any sex history during those years I said to him sex must be after marriage and he said ok .before a year I said to him i don’t want him anymore but not from my bottom but the reason was we were in distant specially I was working in harsh environment plus and community and i was always want him in my side means… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Tiruworq,

When did you do nc?

Cherry Raymonds
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I can’t cope with the pain of my break up. Can’t eat or sleep, I feel depressed. Can’t sleep without the sleeping pills. And to make things worse I think I’m getting addicted to them. How can I make myself feel better and sleep better?

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Cherry,

It would be better to have professional help from a licensed counselor..

Cherry Raymonds
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I can’t cope with the pain of my break up. Can’t eat or sleep, I feel depressed. Can’t sleep without the sleeping pills. And to make things worse I think I’m getting addicted to them. How can I make myself feel better and sleep better?

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Cherry,

It would be better to have professional help from a licensed counselor..

Debra
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My wife and I were in a long distance relationship for almost two years. Through a lot of outside negative things that were happening two friends of mine died, I had surgery my job tanked and his daughter got killed in a car accident. It was a lot of stress not to mention the stress of the long-distance. But we fought a lot we had different political viewpoints we poured a lot about that. He ended up breaking up with me by text and basically said that he’s going to date someone in his area and he recommends that I… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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Debra
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My wife and I were in a long distance relationship for almost two years. Through a lot of outside negative things that were happening two friends of mine died, I had surgery my job tanked and his daughter got killed in a car accident. It was a lot of stress not to mention the stress of the long-distance. But we fought a lot we had different political viewpoints we poured a lot about that. He ended up breaking up with me by text and basically said that he’s going to date someone in his area and he recommends that I… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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Neenu
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He is brokeup with me with no valid reason .I agree to his decision. After 14days of no contact rule I send him a message. That is my marriage is fixed you must come .then his rply was just an emoji.he don’t care for me what can I do

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Neenu,

That’s not a proper first no contact, and basing from that, I’m assuming you didn’t improve yourself and were not active in posting right? Check this one:
Using The No Contact Rule With Brad Browning

Neenu
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He is brokeup with me with no valid reason .I agree to his decision. After 14days of no contact rule I send him a message. That is my marriage is fixed you must come .then his rply was just an emoji.he don’t care for me what can I do

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Neenu,

That’s not a proper first no contact, and basing from that, I’m assuming you didn’t improve yourself and were not active in posting right? Check this one:
Using The No Contact Rule With Brad Browning

Sarah
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Hi Amor, How active I am in improving myself? I think like 50% active. And in posting I was like very active which is i’m not usually active in posting.

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

that’s good. Focus on that. Improve the health, wealth and relationships aspects of you life and keep being active in posting. Honestly, it looked like he got bored of the relationship.

Sarah
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Yes yes I think so too. Maybe he is bored with me. Well couldn’t help it either. Right now I’m trying to focus on myself to be a bettter person. I will contact you once the nc rules has been over. Thank you, Amor. 🙂

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Ok, that’s good. You’re welcome!

Sarah
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Hi Amor, How active I am in improving myself? I think like 50% active. And in posting I was like very active which is i’m not usually active in posting.

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

that’s good. Focus on that. Improve the health, wealth and relationships aspects of you life and keep being active in posting. Honestly, it looked like he got bored of the relationship.

Sarah
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Yes yes I think so too. Maybe he is bored with me. Well couldn’t help it either. Right now I’m trying to focus on myself to be a bettter person. I will contact you once the nc rules has been over. Thank you, Amor. 🙂

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Ok, that’s good. You’re welcome!

Sarah
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So I met my ex boyfriend two years ago because my friend introduce him to me. Everything was perfect and we started dating 9 months ago. But the 9 months period he has to leave to studies so we practically LDR. During LDR there was no problem at all, yes we actually fight but its not ruining our relationship. And then he was back for holiday last month. During the first two weeks everything was okay. But then suddenly he grow distant. I keep quiet for 5 days and then i couldn’t take it anymore. So i asked him. And… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Sarah,

how active are you in improving yourself and in posting?

Sarah
Guest

Hi amor. How active I am in improving myself? I think it’s like 50%. And in posting I am like very active which is I am not usually active in posting.

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

that’s good. Focus on that. Improve the health, wealth and relationships aspects of you life and keep being active in posting. Honestly, it looked like he got bored of the relationship.

Sarah
Guest
So I met my ex boyfriend two years ago because my friend introduce him to me. Everything was perfect and we started dating 9 months ago. But the 9 months period he has to leave to studies so we practically LDR. During LDR there was no problem at all, yes we actually fight but its not ruining our relationship. And then he was back for holiday last month. During the first two weeks everything was okay. But then suddenly he grow distant. I keep quiet for 5 days and then i couldn’t take it anymore. So i asked him. And… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Sarah,

how active are you in improving yourself and in posting?

Sarah
Guest

Hi amor. How active I am in improving myself? I think it’s like 50%. And in posting I am like very active which is I am not usually active in posting.

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

that’s good. Focus on that. Improve the health, wealth and relationships aspects of you life and keep being active in posting. Honestly, it looked like he got bored of the relationship.

Andrea
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If he broke up with me and If he used the it’s not you, it’s me line on me… do I move on or do I still use the no contact time… and contact him once it’s over

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Try the nc process first.. Improve yourself, be active in posting and then slowly build rapport after..if it doesn’t work, then move on..

Andrea
Guest

If he broke up with me and If he used the it’s not you, it’s me line on me… do I move on or do I still use the no contact time… and contact him once it’s over

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Try the nc process first.. Improve yourself, be active in posting and then slowly build rapport after..if it doesn’t work, then move on..

Sara
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Hi, Amor I know I’ve been commenting a lot on the post… I just, you know, I know I shouldn’t but I think too much about why he left, what I could have done wrong…It’s hard to know what was his reason because he told a lot of reasons and they just weren’t like “real”, I feel they weren’t. It was more like a “it’s not you, it’s me” and I’ve been thinking and I know it’s not true, I feel I made so many mistakes and I wasn’t as good girlfriend as I thought I was. I’m improving, and… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

The question is, how are you now? If you were in his position, would you be interested?

Sara
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Hi, Amor I know I’ve been commenting a lot on the post… I just, you know, I know I shouldn’t but I think too much about why he left, what I could have done wrong…It’s hard to know what was his reason because he told a lot of reasons and they just weren’t like “real”, I feel they weren’t. It was more like a “it’s not you, it’s me” and I’ve been thinking and I know it’s not true, I feel I made so many mistakes and I wasn’t as good girlfriend as I thought I was. I’m improving, and… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

The question is, how are you now? If you were in his position, would you be interested?

Lala
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My boyfriend and I started our relationship long distance. We’d fight sometimes just because of the distance. How we wanted to be together but couldn’t. We managed to see each other once a month. We worked these past few months to get everything lined up for him to move to my state so we could finally be together. June 1st I flew up to meet him and we started our drive down. We had small fights along the way but managed to get through them bc we were about to be together in the same state. After being here a… Read more »
Lala
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Sorry he *hasnt returned any of my calls or texts or emails

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Look like he got tired.. Are you going to try the advice above?

Lala
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My boyfriend and I started our relationship long distance. We’d fight sometimes just because of the distance. How we wanted to be together but couldn’t. We managed to see each other once a month. We worked these past few months to get everything lined up for him to move to my state so we could finally be together. June 1st I flew up to meet him and we started our drive down. We had small fights along the way but managed to get through them bc we were about to be together in the same state. After being here a… Read more »
Lala
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Sorry he *hasnt returned any of my calls or texts or emails

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Look like he got tired.. Are you going to try the advice above?

Jane
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My ex bf broke up with me and chose someone else. Right now im the 1st week of no contact period. But for the next days, I think he will already bring the girl back to our old place (I moved out) and I just imagine so many things that will happen. To prevent this, I think of staying at the same area, just the next unit so that he will be ashamed of bringing th girl there. But I will still surely not talk to him. Is it the right decision?

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Nope.. don’t let your life decisions depend on trying to stop him on what he’s going to do with his..

Jane
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My ex bf broke up with me and chose someone else. Right now im the 1st week of no contact period. But for the next days, I think he will already bring the girl back to our old place (I moved out) and I just imagine so many things that will happen. To prevent this, I think of staying at the same area, just the next unit so that he will be ashamed of bringing th girl there. But I will still surely not talk to him. Is it the right decision?

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Nope.. don’t let your life decisions depend on trying to stop him on what he’s going to do with his..

Aishwarya
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Hi.. Me n my ex were dating for 1.5 years…Everything went well for the first year.. Then v were in LDR and he lives with his parents… Since his family is too orthodox we never got time to talk… Eventually we never spoke to each other over days.. I kept nagging and asking him to come back and meet me… He said he doesnt like to break up but he feels it wont work out… I really love him a lot…wat do i do abt this??
Pls help me

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EBR Team Member: Amor
Aishwarya
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Hi.. Me n my ex were dating for 1.5 years…Everything went well for the first year.. Then v were in LDR and he lives with his parents… Since his family is too orthodox we never got time to talk… Eventually we never spoke to each other over days.. I kept nagging and asking him to come back and meet me… He said he doesnt like to break up but he feels it wont work out… I really love him a lot…wat do i do abt this??
Pls help me

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EBR Team Member: Amor
Laura
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i was friends with my ex for a few years before i fell in love with him, then we went on 2 dates and he said that he didn’t want to go on anymore dates with me. Six months later we became boyfriend and girlfriend. We dated for over a year and a month ago he broke up with me, He called me to explain his issues with the relationship and i didn’t know that at the time and i got so scared that i din’t know what to say. he said he was acting like a tv bf for… Read more »
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Restart the no contact period and click this link:
The Ungettable Girl

Laura
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i was friends with my ex for a few years before i fell in love with him, then we went on 2 dates and he said that he didn’t want to go on anymore dates with me. Six months later we became boyfriend and girlfriend. We dated for over a year and a month ago he broke up with me, He called me to explain his issues with the relationship and i didn’t know that at the time and i got so scared that i din’t know what to say. he said he was acting like a tv bf for… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Restart the no contact period and click this link:
The Ungettable Girl

Blake
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I had been dating a guy for about 7 months. We never really made it “official” because from the very beginning he told me he didn’t want a relationship. I said it was fine because at that time it was. But as time went on I met his whole family, when his sister had her baby I was invited me to go meet his new little nephew ect. We were practically official but neither one of brought it up. Everything was fine, we never fought always had fun. Then I got blindsided.. out of no where last month he said… Read more »
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Try to finish the no contact rule first..date others, improve yourself and be active in posting

Blake
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I had been dating a guy for about 7 months. We never really made it “official” because from the very beginning he told me he didn’t want a relationship. I said it was fine because at that time it was. But as time went on I met his whole family, when his sister had her baby I was invited me to go meet his new little nephew ect. We were practically official but neither one of brought it up. Everything was fine, we never fought always had fun. Then I got blindsided.. out of no where last month he said… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Try to finish the no contact rule first..date others, improve yourself and be active in posting

Pauline
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My boyfriend of 14 months broke up with me 8 weeks ago. he was the love of my life. I believed I was his. I haven’t done the no contact. Today he told me he is no longer in love with me. Can no contact still work after this long time has passed. I feel like part of me has been amputated. I want our relationship to be amazing like it was again. Please give me the best advice. I promise to follow any and all.

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

there’s no guarantee that it will. It can only help increase your chances. Try at least 30 days, be active in improving yourself and in posting in social media.

Pauline
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My boyfriend of 14 months broke up with me 8 weeks ago. he was the love of my life. I believed I was his. I haven’t done the no contact. Today he told me he is no longer in love with me. Can no contact still work after this long time has passed. I feel like part of me has been amputated. I want our relationship to be amazing like it was again. Please give me the best advice. I promise to follow any and all.

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

there’s no guarantee that it will. It can only help increase your chances. Try at least 30 days, be active in improving yourself and in posting in social media.

Lyn
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Hello, My boyfriend and I were dating for 3 years and we’re currently in the early mid 20’s. This is the first serious relationship for both of us. He was the best, he took care of me and was always there when I needed him. Recently he got sick when I was preparing for my cousin’s birthday party, and I thought he was just making up excuses not to come, but only to find out he was really sick (emotionally). He said that I should find someone else that can give me commitment as he doesn’t see himself committing in… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi lyn,

do you want to try the advice above?

Lyn
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Hello, My boyfriend and I were dating for 3 years and we’re currently in the early mid 20’s. This is the first serious relationship for both of us. He was the best, he took care of me and was always there when I needed him. Recently he got sick when I was preparing for my cousin’s birthday party, and I thought he was just making up excuses not to come, but only to find out he was really sick (emotionally). He said that I should find someone else that can give me commitment as he doesn’t see himself committing in… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi lyn,

do you want to try the advice above?

Claire
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Hi, My boyfriend of 2 years (3 if you count a previous attempt) broke up with me over a month ago. I already broke the NC rule a couple of times before I even saw this, so is there really a point in waiting another month? Will it have the same impact? We were super good before it, but we had a disagreement and I became naggy and jealous and he switched off and became spiteful, and that lasted about a week until we split up. So the reason was an emotional clash, which if you ask me wasn’t a… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Claire,
Restart the no contact rule, and don’t just be silent and wait. Be active in improving yourself and healing and in posting in social media.

Claire
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Hi, My boyfriend of 2 years (3 if you count a previous attempt) broke up with me over a month ago. I already broke the NC rule a couple of times before I even saw this, so is there really a point in waiting another month? Will it have the same impact? We were super good before it, but we had a disagreement and I became naggy and jealous and he switched off and became spiteful, and that lasted about a week until we split up. So the reason was an emotional clash, which if you ask me wasn’t a… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Claire,
Restart the no contact rule, and don’t just be silent and wait. Be active in improving yourself and healing and in posting in social media.

Sweetu
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Hello dear, My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me because he received a bad news from his home country regarding his mom condition that she will only live for 6 months because of breast cancer.Upon receiving the news he immediately booked a ticket and decided to breakup with me coz he chose his mom over our relationship which is understandable.He immediately resigned to his job and went home to his country and he said he wanted to spend much time with his mom.But i begged that he can still come back to me if he will settle his… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Sweetu,

It looks like he just wants to focus on his mom now instead of maintaining a relationship or trying to maintain communication with you while taking care of his mom too.. If I were you, I would take the back seat and let him.. That doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you but right now, he has to give all his time and love for his mom

Sweetu
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Hello dear, My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me because he received a bad news from his home country regarding his mom condition that she will only live for 6 months because of breast cancer.Upon receiving the news he immediately booked a ticket and decided to breakup with me coz he chose his mom over our relationship which is understandable.He immediately resigned to his job and went home to his country and he said he wanted to spend much time with his mom.But i begged that he can still come back to me if he will settle his… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Sweetu,

It looks like he just wants to focus on his mom now instead of maintaining a relationship or trying to maintain communication with you while taking care of his mom too.. If I were you, I would take the back seat and let him.. That doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you but right now, he has to give all his time and love for his mom