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157 thoughts on “Why Do Men Break Up With You Without An Explanation?”

  1. Eliza

    January 12, 2018 at 8:02 pm

    I think this website have all the excuses to don’t move forward, it is really wrong to make a plan to win someone back, someone should chose to be with you, you don’t need a plan or anything. Best advice MOVE ON !!! You don’t deserve this, why would you want to be with someone without the bravery or empathy to talk to you like a normal mature person, be free!! Lots of great guys out there. You should focus your effort in self love and understanding of the situation to move forward. Don’t make the same mistake twice.

  2. m

    December 18, 2017 at 9:07 am

    hi, I was in relationship with this guy for 7months, before that datd him for 4 months. we fought last two months, he tried, I tried but because of my insecurities , I blew it. now he doesnot want to be in a relationship. he is going through a rough patch , want to focus on himself. how to get him back. I have begged and pleaded, still answer is no

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 20, 2017 at 7:36 pm

  3. m

    December 18, 2017 at 9:03 am

    hi ,
    I have been into a 8 month relationship with this guy, I proposed him . he was very sweet and caring frst , then after some months , I got insecure , I never met his frnds formally , though he said they know about me. two three months back our fights got worse. we used to fight for small things, I told him about my insecurities , he said he couldnot help me , I will only have to overcome them. he used to help frst , now heis also going through a rough patch in his life. he ended it and is saying he cannot be in the relationship now. I have tried , begged but to no effect. he said , he doesnot want to cut me off his life, we can talk if we want to . but he doesnot reply to my texts. what to do

  4. Madri

    December 6, 2017 at 1:36 pm

    Hi, my ex and I have been dating for 5 years, everything was going well and we were happy, or at least I was. His behavior changed for about a week and he started to avoid me then he broke up with me saying he’s unhappy and this is all he could think that would make it better. After a few days he said he made a mistake and just needed space, in the meantime I should go out with friends and do things I like. I did that and ran into him one night when I was out with friends. He didn’t say anything and then texted me the next day saying we should break up because he is not the man for me. He’s seen how happy I was when I was out with friends and felt that I should focus on my self improvement. I am now at day 4 of the no contact rule, why did he break up with me? Will he come back?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 11, 2017 at 4:31 am

      Hi Madri,

      Did he meet somebody else, or did something new?

  5. Emma

    December 1, 2017 at 10:22 am


    My boyfriend and I had been together almost 4 years, we were looking to buy a house together actually was in the process of buying, all of a sudden he went into a deep depression and lost himself and had become boring as he was working lots of hours to get the deposit for the house, out of the blew the other week he ended it saying his feelings have changed for me and he doesn’t love me anymore. Is this actually the case or has he just lost himself within the relationship? Will he come back to me after having no contact for a certain amount of time?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 4, 2017 at 6:34 am

      Hi Emma,

      it’s not a guarantee to work in any situation but it increases your chances.. maybe he got overwhelmed realizing the weight of responsibility in paying a house..

  6. katey

    November 21, 2017 at 5:58 pm

    Hi. Me and my boyfriend have been on an on/off relationship. We had an argument on thr 3rd of November and we haven’t spoken since. I’ve learnt from this happening in the past it’s better not to contact him. Will going NC make him reply to me? Never gone this long without talking to him and he’s usually text me by now. I’m worried he’s ghosting me and we’re splitting up for good. Please help me!!

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 24, 2017 at 1:09 am

      Hi Katey,

      it helps increase your chances, but it’s not a guarantee.. how active are you in improving yourself and in posting?

  7. KATHY

    October 30, 2017 at 6:44 am

    Hi, I want to know if my ex still love me and really mean what he said. We broke up two weeks ago. His reason was I am not fit to be with him in the future and honestly I didnt know why. But after he texed me that he inboxed me and said that He couldn’t live with his decisions. Should I reply or move on?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 1, 2017 at 3:23 pm

      Hi Kathy,

      Do you want to try the no contact rule?

  8. S

    July 20, 2017 at 3:48 am

    My bf and I dated for almost 2 years. We were in the on and off relationship.

    We had a fight last week, and he just stopped replying. It wasn’t a big fight, we had worse fights and we still moved pass it. But this time, its been 9 days. I texted him on day 2 about the dinner plan we had, day 3 to apologise, day 4 to tell him he can go if he wants, i just need a proper closure, just drop me a text, i dont need reasons/explanation either. but nothing, no reply at all. Is that considered ghosting?

    I’ve been doing no contact since then, trying to keep myself busy with work and gym, talk to my friends when i need distractions, at the same time waiting for his reply. I dont know if we are considered broken up now, Im willing to let him go, I just need a closure.

    Do I do no contact for 30 days anyway? What if he texts me this week/next week and pretend like nothing happened?

    1. S

      August 3, 2017 at 3:19 am

      Thanks for the reply Amor,

      On NC day 3 now, trying to change and improve and been posting! : )

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      August 5, 2017 at 7:12 pm

      That’s good!

    3. S

      August 1, 2017 at 4:57 am

      Thanks for replying me Amor.
      I’m feeling really confused now.
      I broke NC on day 14 to ask for closure, hoping I would feel better and I can move on.
      But I ended up with all the blames, and i started begging for 2 days. He replied me but mainly to tell me that he’s done and I’ve been a horrible gf. Now I feel even worse. and I regretted breaking NC. I was already half way through, only half way to go.
      I’ve stopped texting him as of yesterday. What should I do now, and what are my chances of getting him back. Pls advice, thanks.

    4. EBR Team Member: Amor

      August 1, 2017 at 5:06 pm

      You need to restart 30 days.. Your chances increase and depend on you.. If you change and improve..and be active in posting

    5. S

      July 31, 2017 at 4:20 am

      I broke no contact on day 14, to ask for a closure.
      Spent the whole day trying to apologise and convince him otherwise, but he said he’s done.
      But I can tell he’s doing it to spite me.
      What do I do now? restart NC for 30 days?

    6. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 31, 2017 at 4:41 pm


    7. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 23, 2017 at 6:41 pm

      Yup that’s ghosting and yes, stick to at least 30 days

  9. Vivi

    July 13, 2017 at 7:10 pm

    What do you do if your in a on/off again relationship. And he breaks up with you because the last break up hurted him too much to forgive you?

    1. Vivi

      July 14, 2017 at 11:46 pm

      Well just so you know we were also engaged and have been throughout this on and off relationship. But no I’ve never cheated on him before ( although he does think that it is possible that I WOULD cheat on him; he actually broke up with me the first time because of that ). And what’s different the last break up was I was actually successfull in the NC for 45 days. I’ve done NC for like 30 days, but in the middle I’d re-friend him on fb and appearantly you can’t even do that. But I truly don’t know exactly why he was extra hurt that time.

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 18, 2017 at 2:10 pm

      okay.. do this one the proper way.. straight 45 days with no adding him, liking nor commenting back, no texting nor replying.. Make it look like you’re really moving on.. just don’t post anything that’s too forward with somebody else.

    3. Vivi

      July 14, 2017 at 3:31 pm

      Also before he broke up with me our last conversation he admitted to me that he loves me a lot and was a lil afraid to lose me. So I’m a little confused to why he even broke up with me.

    4. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 14, 2017 at 7:31 pm

      So, he broke up with you now because the break up before this still hurts him? Why? What happened in that break up? Did you cheat? Did he lose trust in you because of something else?

    5. Vivi

      July 14, 2017 at 3:29 pm

      A few times, but the last one he was extremely angry and saying a bunch of hurtful things including ‘ I’m nothing to him ‘ and saying he was seeing some. ( he’s never done that before to me ) so I can only guess he said those things because he was hurt. After that I successfully did the 45 day no contact. And afterwards he responded and we got back together, but a couple weeks later this all happened. I don’t know what to do.

    6. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 14, 2017 at 9:08 am

      How many times have you broken up?

  10. emily

    July 12, 2017 at 3:58 pm

    Hi, I want to know if my ex bf doesn’t reply my text (even doesn’t open it) on snapchat. Should I text him again? If yes how days or weeks to text him again?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 14, 2017 at 1:51 pm

      Initiate again after a week.. If he still doesn’t reply, initiate after two weeks. If he still doesn’t reply that means you have to move on

  11. Nicole

    July 12, 2017 at 3:26 pm

    Hi! First off I would like to Thank the EBR team! You are amazing and your posts really make me think differently about things… I see everything clearer and open minded thanks to you guys.

    In the beginning of June my ex broke up with me… basically with the fake it´s not you it´s me , you deserve better blah blah blah, I begged and pleaded for a few days only to find out he was immediately interested already in another girl (hopefully a rebound). I started no contact. During no contact, he asked my friend about me , how I was doing.. within 25 days of no contact he asked me for his phone charger back. I didn´t respond, sent it through my friend. He received it was angry, called me…Didn´t answer. At the end of the day I decided to call back …then HE didn´t answer. Four days later, this monday he called me, I answered…he said I didn´t have to send it through my friend I could have given it to him myself… I told him I was busy… After that he made some small talk with me, asked about my family etc. He kept it short and so did I maybe 3 minute conversation.

    My question is… What should I do now? Give him the silent treatment again? Build Rapport? I don´t know what is going on with the other girl if it didn´t work out or is working out… What do you think? Is he starting to miss me? I want to believe so, but he is very stubborn, I don´t know… I´ll take any advice I can get and would love to keep everyone updated!

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 14, 2017 at 12:15 pm

      You should start to initiate and slowly build rapport

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