What Are Your Chances of Getting Your ExBoyfriend Back

What You Should Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Breaks Up With You Again

One of my all time favorite interviews was with Buffy,


Actually, when I refrence the interview with Buffy I am talking about a girl who is widely known in our Facebook Support Group, Sarah Michelle Stevens!

You see, Sarah Michelle ended up getting her ex boyfriend back after he told her all sorts of ridiculous things like,

I don’t love you anymore…

We aren’t meant to be…


You get the picture.

Here is the original interview in case you are interested: Watch The Original Interview Here

Well, a few weeks ago I recently conducted a follow up interview with Sarah Michelle to see how she was doing and most importantly, if she was still with the ex boyfriend that she fought so hard to get back.

What ensued afterwards was one of the best interviews I have ever conducted.

Let me just put it this way, I think this woman is the true “ex whisperer.”

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Watch The Interview

What We Talk About In The Interview

  • We catch up on Buffys situation
  • What to do when your ex boyfriend breaks up with you again
  • How to use jealousy effectively
  • How to handle an ex who is begging for you back

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Written by EBR Teamate

Chris Seiter

7 thoughts on “What You Should Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Breaks Up With You Again”

  1. Nath

    October 9, 2017 at 9:30 am

    Hello Amor,

    Thank you for your reply. I think you are right, I have decided to move on as best as I can. If I still feel like reaching out to him in some time, I will do at least 45 days of NC.. The thing is that I would just like to reestablish a friendly contact without pushing him further away – I’m not even expecting us to get back together, just talk – normally.
    I have no idea how to do that. I feel like texting him or calling him will just look weird. He told me to leave him alone, and I have no good reason to contact him anymore. And he blocked me on Messenger. Don’t know if the phone is blocked too, but that is a possibility. So how can I reach out to him in a safe way? That will look as natural and casual as possible. Because I think a text message is just screaming “desperate”, and make him think that I still want him back.
    What do you think?

    Best regards,

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 10, 2017 at 2:24 pm

      Set a limit on until when you would wait for him to initiate..

  2. Nath

    October 7, 2017 at 8:26 pm

    And how do I turn the power balance in my favor? Because obviously he keeps leaving me (or threatens me to do so), because he knows where he has me… He knows that I keep waiting and wanting him back.

    Really need some tips….

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 8, 2017 at 11:35 pm

      Hi Nath,

      Then don’t do it.. For me you should move on.. If you don’t want to, set your life up with new routines that doesn’t involve him even if you get him back…have your own life.. Do at least 45 days nc.. And then after that, initiate contact and slowly rebuild rapport while maintaining your new routine

  3. Nath

    October 7, 2017 at 8:19 pm

    So I have kind of the similar situation. My ex broke up with me the second time. We have been together for 1,5 year. He’s 24, I’m 21. We have had a lot of fighting in our relationship, which have lead to break ups. During every major fight my ex used to threaten me with leaving (he usually regretted that in minutes..)

    The first time my ex broke up with me, I followed 30 days of NC, used text messages to rebuild attraction etc etc. I was the one who had to reach out first. Basically I followed the tips on how this website. And I got him back… We were together for 4 more months. Went on vacation, and right after the vacation he broke up AGAIN during a MAJOR fight. The reason for the break up was of course the all of the fighting. And yes, that shatters everything, but I still love him… and would so like to make it work, maybe I should just move on???
    The second break up was about a month ago. I tried to reach out to him again this time to get some of my stuff back. I got it back. But he no longer wants to talk to me, he blocked me on messenger. He says he is very angry with me, I think it’s because I handled the break up pretty bad. I begged, pleaded (turned into that psycho-desperate ex, haha… oops.) And when I reached out to him this time after NC, altough I tried to get a hold of myself I only made myself look desperate again. I sent a lot of txt messages, tried to call (he didn’t pick up).
    He also told me, that he no longer loves me (maybe to push me away?)
    So I’m not surprised he blocked me on Messenger. I don’t know if he blocked my phone nr, didn’t try to call. I know that the more I push, the more opposite the outcome.. just couldn’t control my emotions.

    It’s been 10 days since I was blocked on messenger. I haven’t reached out since and have no intention to fuck it further up. My question is; how do I get him back again? Do I even have a chance? I think I will do 60 days of no contact, work on myself, think things through. But how should I establish contact again?
    Obviously the strategy I used the first time, is not working (no surprise) -he can see right through all of my intentions. And I would really like to make it work this time. Don’t wanna put myself through a third break up, if i end up getting him back again. Need advice on how to get him back -how long NC? And what is the best way to reach out to him?

    Best regards,

  4. Anon

    October 5, 2017 at 12:01 pm

    I know a lot of the success stories include an ex who still had emotional attachment to you. If ex had been distancing himself gradually to the point of seeing you as only a friend and you now accept the blame for what has happened and not seeing the signs. Is he really over it? Personally I care so deeply about this person and am willing to do anything to get him back caring about me. I don’t see any hope though, could you please advise me? He started texting girls romantically the day after the breakup and now has one he is infatuated with

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 6, 2017 at 9:20 pm

      why not try the no contact rule? Listen to this one too:
      EBR 003: Does Having Your Own Life Help You Get Your Ex Back?

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