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2,553 thoughts on “What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You”

  1. marcia

    February 15, 2020 at 10:24 pm

    Dear Chris, dear Shaunna,

    One surprise after the other! After 1 full week of being unblocked on messenger by my ex, he now blocked me back again!

    I didn’t try to reach out to him, in that week that I was unblocked, but I was just posting facebook stories of posh places that I visited (but he never viewed any of my stories). What does this mean I wonder! Could he be obsessed, or just making fun of me? I wish there was a way to find out…

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      February 16, 2020 at 9:12 am

      Hey Marcia, so he isn’t making fun of you, he may have unblocked you to see if you would reach out to him and when you didnt he was disappointed especially when he sees that you are posting stories etc, try not to worry about this action though it is more common than you think and usually is a result that he is feeling angry/ emotional about the break up. You will be unblocked again soon

  2. Becky

    February 11, 2020 at 1:54 am

    Got a situation where everything was going good.
    His got a family member who was in hospital all week. I played cool girl was sweet didn’t harrass him checked up on him brought groceries for the house etc.
    He sent me a msg saying good night sweet dreams babe etc.
    Saturday came around and I responded to the text saying good morning and how is your family member .
    Didn’t hear from him. Called him later on in the day he picked up and had an attitude towards me.
    I slightly cracked it and told him all I’ve done was see how you are and not give me attitude
    Said I’ll speak to him later when his less moody.
    Sent him a text telling him to not let out his anger on me.
    He didn’t respond – wrote him a message how I feel like his shutting me out for no reason and his not consistent. He responds back – if you don’t like it then don’t bother with me. Which then pisssed me off so I said k. Take care wish u all the best.
    Next day I was calm explained how it pissed me off the way he disregarded me when all I was doing was explaining why I was so upset then all he wrote was your better off with out me take care then BLOCKED
    Me being annoyed reached out with different numbers to call him. Msg him off my friends numbers trying to make it right he was responding back being so resentful.
    I let him talk to me like crap for 3-4 days then I told him he cannot speak to people like this.
    He says take care wish u welll
    Left it since. Haven’t bothered – he still has me blocked. Been 5 days. How can someone switch up so suddenly?

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      February 17, 2020 at 8:12 pm

      Hi Becky it is odd that he would change that quickly but if he family member is close to him and they are seriously unwell that could explain the anger he has and has no where to direct it sadly you got the blunt of it. I suggest that you avoid reaching out to your ex again until 45 days has passed or he makes the effort to get in touch with you an apologise for his attitude

  3. marcia

    February 8, 2020 at 10:28 am

    Dear Chris, dear Shaunna,

    I can’t believe it… my ex he unblocked me today on messenger. I was blocked for around 2 months, this being his new year ”blocking punishment”. This must be the 5th time he blocks/unblocks me in 3 years. Of course I stayed indifferent, and didn’t message him anything.

    So, as you said, he likely isn’t married, otherwise why all this messing me around? Does this look like a pattern to you? Turning the chat on / off every 2 months or so!

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      February 8, 2020 at 4:32 pm

      Yes it seems odd to be doing it ever two months or so. Make sure you DO NOT reach out but put some stories on your messenger feed to see if he does view any. That way you know he unblocks you when you are on his mind. Do something you know he would have loved to do (example would be surging)

  4. Beth

    January 24, 2020 at 9:30 pm

    Hi. So my situation is a little more complicated. There is this guy I’ve been talking to a few months who has liked me ever since we started hanging out but I didn’t return the same feelings. However, now the tables have turned and I like him. Lately we’ve been fighting a lot. He said he’s not ready for a relationship and things are different now. But he gives mixed singles because the other day when we were with his family he told them that he didn’t think he would be getting into another relationship. I’ve met his family and when we’re around friends he’ll cater to me as his gf. He’s not afraid of showing me off and treated me well. He blocked me yesterday. I wasn’t an angel and am not gonna lie, i get jealous a lot and that has caused him a lot of distress. I recently found out he had slept with this girl years again who is still in his friend group and I felt uncomfortable about it so I told m to block her. He lied about it and I found out and went off. He told me goodbye and blocked me and then went on ig to message the group chat we had with other fiends about going to Hawaii and asked them what are the plans and right after asking removed me from the convo so I couldn’t answer. I feel always and I don’t want to harass him more.

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      January 25, 2020 at 9:32 am

      Hey Beth, so it sounds like you have put “relationship” obligations on him to which he didn’t want thats why he said he did not want a relationship, for example telling him to block a girl friend when you are not actually girlfriend and boyfriend anyway. Showing jealousy to a lot of guys is a big turn off so you need to work on that for future reference. I suggest that you focus on yourself for 30 days with a no contact regards to the ex and just be with your friends without mentioning him or what has happened. The more indifferent you seem to the situation the better the outcome is for you

  5. marcia

    January 20, 2020 at 11:30 pm

    Dear Chris, Dear Shaunna,

    Happy New Year to you both! Here I am to attest that Saunna you were right when you said my ex ”is not likely playing games, rather this was a failed attempt of communication”. If this was a game, he would have continued. I think he is not free to receive messages from me, that was why he opened my chat for 30′ in secret mode and then, after I did not reply, he blocked me to go back to his cave.

    I think he got married, because I read (from another facebook account, as he has blocked me from seeing his wall) that a friend wrote to him ”happy new year my friend and enjoy your family”. But which family exactly does he mean? His mum is a widow. His brother is married. He lives alone since last year. So I think something changed in his life, perhaps he impregnated a girl and he suddenly had to marry her…. If he now has his own family, then this message makes sense.

    This can explain why he ignored me for a full year, and now decided to block me from messaging him on FB, if he is married. This will explain the times when he had also blocked me in the past during Christmas and disappeared at the summer holidays. Obviously he was busy with an official girlfriend at those times – whom he now likely married, while I was just believing his silly excuses ”oh, probably I blocked you by mistake”. We all know, you need to press several buttons to block someone. It doesn’t happen by mistake!

    I hope I am wrong, but until the opposite is proven, to end my misery, I will assume he is married, and will officially declare him void. What a vauge story ending, with just darkness….

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      January 22, 2020 at 7:47 pm

      Hi Marcia, I am really sorry, but lets not assume just know that right now he has blocked you he is doing it so that you can not message him for some reason. I would assume girlfriend no wife as there would be proof of her on his social media as a wife I am sure there would be at least a photo of him suited up. Keep working on being Ungettable and remind yourself that you deserve better that what he is giving you!

  6. Hani

    January 16, 2020 at 1:01 pm

    I have long distance relationship with a guy for a year. I had observed his behaviour. He always blocked me after argument. Sometimes, the reason was silly like I fall asleep and he kept calling for couple times (our time difference = 6hours). I always find a way to contact him back and say sorry.
    Last week, I had enough. I give him the power to manipulate and abuse me. I decided to let him be. Once I am strong enough, I will contact him again to let him go for good.

  7. Lynn

    January 6, 2020 at 10:22 am

    We lived together for 3 years and after an argument he moved out, however it really wasnt a move as he was at home 5 days a week still, spending the other 2 at his parents. As time went on, I believe he started seeing people from Tinder, but was still at home 3-4 nights a week. At christmas he took a vacation with me and my family, but would mention, I was single or he loved me but couldnt be with me because I was mean.
    I would like to point out that we had no arguments during the time he left in the end of Oct to the vacation because I was so timid mainly because just saying hi could have him blow up. I tried no contact but he kept coming home and I didnt know how to handle.
    We return from vacation and hes gone MIA for 2 days, no answering texts, phone not at parents etc. Day 3 he shows up and spends the next 2 nights at my house. I asked if he had a girlfriend before sleeping with him and he denied it. The thing is, I knew he was lying, I knew who he was seeing. He had spent the night with her 4 times since meeting her 2.5 weeks ago.
    We want out Friday night, I got drunk and finally let it all go. I said some horrible things to him and fb messaged her and told her about both of us. He came to my house the next AM and asked why I did it and I said I felt it was fair she knew since he was being deceitful. A few hours later I packed up all of his things and took them to his house, rang the door bell and left. He answered the door and asked me to come in. I did and he told me it was over between them, he felt bad I ruined it for him cuz he loved her but he also loved me. I apologized cuz thats not the kind of person I wanna be. He said he doesnt know if he can ever look at me again. I left. I am blocked on phone, whats ap, Facebook, snapchat. I am not blocked on instagram but I dont know if thats just cuz he forgot.
    I am indefinitely going NC and I am not sure what I want, he broke alot of trust but we have been together 6 years. What are your thoughts on this?

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      January 11, 2020 at 12:59 am

      Hey Lynn so I suggest if you want to get this person back then it going to take some time and patience on your part. Maybe read about the Ungettable girl information and work that into your lifestyle so that you end up becoming the absolute best version of yourself. And when your ex unblocks you (which usually does happen after 3-6 months) he will then look at you and wonder if he made the right choice walking away. When that happens it is up to you to show that you are not the same person he left, you know your worth and you will not just drop everything to reply to him either, you go slow and you follow this program

  8. Mary

    January 5, 2020 at 7:00 am

    We were seeing eachother and we had a verbal argument over the chat.
    He blocked me on both the chats we were using:WhatsApp and telegram. So yes he did go out of his way to block me …but I think is really exagerated…as I was adding some positivity in his life. Until the night before we were chatting fine and laughing etc..

  9. KK

    January 5, 2020 at 6:24 am

    I caught my boyfriend of 2 months in a white lie. Imo a lie is a lie no matter how small. I went crazy. I started questioning everything he’s ever said to me. He kept apologizing and apologizing. Saying he wanted to fight for us and that he loved me. I let my anger get the best of me. I said the words “We are done.” I felt terrible and immediately took those words back. You and I both know that you can’t take words back. I apologized and apologized. I also said I wanted to work it out. Silence. Next day I apologized again in a long message. He blocked my number. 3 days later, he broke up with me via text that sounded like his mom texting instead of him and wished me the best. He blocked me back but this time total blockout. I couldn’t say anything due to his block. I am devastated. So 3 days after that I sent his hat back with a mutual friend along with a letter which was probably a no no but I felt like I should have let him know I was trying to work it out. I said I missed him and wanted him back but I wished him the best and maybe down the road we can try again. I know now I shouldn’t sent the letter probably. He may not have read it but it was for my closure but I miss him dearly. I don’t know what to do. It was our first fight and he just shut down and didn’t communicate. I blame myself. Your help is greatly appreciated. I feel like crap for saying those words but it’s too late to take back. You think he’ll ever come back? Thank you!

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      January 8, 2020 at 4:44 pm

      Hey KK so there is no way to tell you that he definitely will or wont come back, but you can start following the program and attempt to reach out to him, if you are in a total block then all you can do is work on becoming ungettable until you are able to see or speak to your ex again

  10. Keisha

    January 3, 2020 at 5:36 am

    Hi, I have an ex or guy I’ve been talking to for a year heavy. Met his parents and all. Around May we got into an huge argument soon as I left from visiting him and meeting his parents and we wanted a break. During the break we were still conversing daily. Then around July he decided to end the break fully and not get back “together” but we were still talking and texting. Flirting and everything. He left for bootcamp and while he was away his texting was scarce. But we still communicated and flirted a bit. When he officially graduates from camp he proceeds to tell me he’s talking to someone and it is serious. That he didn’t want to hurt me. I also found out a little before he told me he was talking to the individual. Then he proceeds to tell me that he told me to move on after the second break up but continued to talk to me and flirt so I thought that something was still there and that we may get back “together”. In the end I wished him luck on his new relationship but I also went off in a way of maturity. I didn’t curse, nor call him out of his name. Just immature for talking to me while still talking to her. Anyways after him responding to my long message that he agrees. He’ll work on it and thanks. 10 days later after me not texting back he blocks me from all social media’s. But I’m still able to text him. My messages are delivering but he’s not responding. Though of course he’s with someone else at the moment. He always stated that he would never block people. Even to the point that he still keeps all the females he’s talked to in the past on his social media’s. So why block me? And why after 10days? I didn’t speak harsh on him nor go off on social media. Just posted regular stuff on the daily. And of course I miss him and would love for us to get in contact again I just want a hint on why me? And why after 10days? And why only social media and not text messages? And is it crazy to still want him back even though I know he’s with someone else now and that our relationship wasn’t always perfect?

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      January 3, 2020 at 6:12 am

      Hey Keisha, so I cant really tell you why hes blocked you now, I can tell you though that if you are living your life and social media is portraying you as a happy person he may have struggled with the idea of that you are happy with out him. Or the other woman he is with has asked him to block you as they see you as a threat to their relationship. If you want this person back then you need to spend a little bit of time in No contact so that hte new relationship has time to pass the honeymoon phase, gives you time to work on yourself some more and also read about the being there method. Which I think you are doing with out even putting in the real work yet if they have blocked you from the start

  11. Kathy

    January 2, 2020 at 6:25 pm

    I noticed my ex has unblocked me on Instagram. He blocked me when he ended things with me.
    It’s been 3 months since we’ve spoken. We had a big row so I decided to block him on WhatsApp as I felt really hurt by his actions one night. I decided to unblock him on WhatsApp due to noticing he had unblocked me on Instagram. Shale I wait to see if he reaches out? Or shale I reach out? What do you think is wise?
    I’m not planning on getting back with him just want to be civil and perhaps talk. I think we do care for eachother still. I don’t want to get my hopes up.

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      January 3, 2020 at 1:27 am

      Hi Kathy, so I would make sure you have spent at least 30 days in No Contact before you reach out and when you do make sure it is a text like what Chris suggests, one which is going to hook his interests and make him want to talk to you

  12. Kassandra

    December 29, 2019 at 12:25 pm

    Hi Shaunna,
    I had to come back here to let you know that he unblocked me on WhatsApp! Friday was my 45th day of NC. I decided to just write a short email. I had a nice anecdote to tell about a recent work situation that he could relate to. I wrote on Friday afternoon. He replied that same evening at a time I know he usually writes/checks emails.

    Strangely enough, he half-asked / half-told me he’d unblock me on WhatsApp. It seems he’s not sure if I want to talk to him. I didn’t want to jump onto the possibility of chatting to him just because he unblocked me, so I waited until Saturday afternoon to reply to his email. I don’t know if that’s the right move, but I gave him an indication that it’s okay to chat on WhatsApp.

    He signed his email off in such a cordial manner (English isn’t his native language) that I don’t know what it means. He’s usually way more informal, even when he was clearly angry and hurt. Does that mean he’s just being very careful?

    Anyway, one thing a 45-day NC taught me is to not be impulsive, not to panick and to just let things sit for a while.

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      December 29, 2019 at 10:46 pm

      This is good to hear Kassandra, he is open to talking with you now go slow and let him see you are not going to chase him down or hassle him to talk to you. And do not bring up the past, you can now message him friendly every few days but make sure you are the one who ends the conversation not him, even if you just stop replying now and again. And always at the best part of the conversation. Look at Chris’ articles and videos about how to end a conversation first, how to deal with texting an ex

  13. Jill

    December 25, 2019 at 8:58 am

    Hi,

    My ex of 2 almost 3 years broke up with me through text the morning he was supposed to fly home ( we were doing long distance for school) . He then blocked me on Instagram, facebook, snapchat and whatsapp. Since I was shocked (he was normal the night before), I wrote him an email, my only way of contacting him. He replied with vague factors. I replied once more explaining and never got another response. I haven’t talked/messaged him since. Its been just over a week. But recently, I realized he unblocked me on Instagram, Facebook and whatsapp. But because of their systems, i have been unfriended as well. I plan to do the NC for at least 30 days but what do you think is going on in his mind? Should I friend him again after the NC??

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      December 29, 2019 at 7:04 pm

      Hi Jill, no do not refriend him after a No Contact just reach out through text with a message that Chris suggests in his videos and articles

  14. marcia

    December 23, 2019 at 5:38 pm

    Hello to the diamond Chris Seiter team!!!

    My ex, he just blocked me again on messenger. Given the fact he did that just 3 days before Christmas, I quess this is his Christmas gift to me.

    He was ignoring my messages for 1 year (but he was secretly reading them) then he replied suddenly with a ”hello” 2 weeks ago, and after an hour he pressed again ”ignore messages”.

    So now he pressed ”block messages” and I can’t write to him anything. Seeing this change, I think this is a game, but how can I know for sure? It could be that he wants to be undisturbed to be with his current girlfriend (or whatever) during Christmas. Actually he had blocked me again at Christmas 2 years ago for a full week (while we were seeing each other), and then had defended himself ”I dont know what happenned, I didn’t block you”. And I was patient, giving him the benefit of the doubt. But now it happens again at Christmas, so that means he was a liar also before, doesn’t it? And at another incident he had said ”give me your mobile number again, as it seems to have been erased, I don’t know how this happened”. But I am sure this was a lie, he had deleted my number, for whatever reason. He seems a very fishy person. I don’t understand, if he doesn’t want to have anything to do with me, why not unfriend me and block me comptelely, then get on with his life or get married or do whatever he likes?

    What’s the best way I wonder to punish someone who is clearly playing games… I sadly haven’t done any work on getting ungettable, I didn’t feel like it, and was only resorting on eating chocolates, but perhaps I should work on myself. I can wait on him and play the game for 10 years, I don’t mind. I am still single and can’t find a good man to be worth to be serious about. There was another one that came along, but he seemed the same kind of jerk, wanting to come to my house instead of a 3rd date, so I turned him down right at the start.

    Merry Christmas to you all and many thanks for all the comfort and ideas you are providing us with! You are really saving us and I thank God you exist!!!!

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      December 23, 2019 at 7:06 pm

      Im sorry hes playing mind games with you and you need to ignore him and give him the silent treatment instead of replying to him Merry Christmas to you too Marica, have a lovely one and forget about childish games 😉

  15. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

    December 22, 2019 at 5:56 pm

    Hi Shree, its hard going through a break up but you do need to learn how to move past the pain for your benefit. Following the program is going to give you, your best chance of getting him back as you have no choice at the moment as you are blocked but normally when they are less emotional exes tend to unblock us

  16. Cherry Seya

    December 20, 2019 at 4:39 am

    My ex blocked me (total blockout) after an argument. He didnt tell me anything but he told my sister and my son he thinks it wont work out for us. Initially, I tried talking to his kids that made him ask them to block me. I feel devastated. After few days he send me an I Love You message but remained blocked. We had been doing good aside of course from small arguments which are settled immediately. I really want him back. What would I do? I have read everything in this article and I want to give it a try. By the way, he is on his 60s and we are almost 20yrs apart.

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      December 21, 2019 at 10:32 pm

      Hi Cherry, so you have to respect that right now he does not want to speak with you, so you are forced into doing a no contact, so make sure you make it worth while and work on being ungettable. and do not reach out to his children again

  17. Betty

    December 15, 2019 at 3:35 am

    My ex.. now ex I guess has completely Blocked me from all avenues -we had a discussion that turned into a very heated discussion and I said something hurtful that I did apologize for but couldn’t let things go. This back and fourth went through email and texting for another 2 weeks.
    during that two weeks he changed the locks At his apartment that I have keys to and when I came back from Thanksgiving I wrote him an email making light of the situation I mention that we should talk face-to-face because things get lost in translation when we write each other -he wrote me and said I don’t think we should see each other again and blocked me completely. FROM EVERYTHING.
    It was the biggest fight we have ever had and he mentioned that he thinks we have grave differences that have come to light and then makes this decision through email after being on and off for year and a half??
    I’m not sure what to do.
    Is this completely crazy I was thinking of leaving a voice recorder of me talking to him explaining a few things that he is not aware of and leaving it at his store or am I just thinking psycho thoughts now?

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      December 15, 2019 at 9:19 pm

      Hi Betty that is very extreme, you need to give your ex some space! You are not respecting the fact he wanted to break up, or are you following the rules of no contact! Do not voice record anything and do not send him any more emails, texts, or phone calls. Leave him completely alone for 45 days and work on yourself, on your emotional control and learn how to work on yourself, as we call here Ungettable. You have 45 days to reinvent yourself and cultivate a different impression to your ex when he unblocks you, if you leave him alone long enough to do so!

  18. Kassandra

    December 10, 2019 at 10:17 am

    Hi Shaunna,
    Thanks for the reply! That’s great insight into why he blocked me, since it never was his intention to cut ties with me. He was always dead set against it and got offended once when I suggested we give each other space (why?? I still don’t get that).

    I’m struggling with the idea of being ungettable. Breaking up with me surely equates to saying “you’re undesirable”. I’m also not sure how I could make my life look more amazing on social media. My Facebook and Instagram have always been about my hobbies and activities. He knows that because we were connected via social media for many years. I don’t want to suddenly post in an uncharacteristic or insincere way; this guy is stubborn post break-up, but he’s still quite perceptive and will know what’s behind that.

    When he ended it, he said that I enriched his life, and that he thinks I’m very intelligent, interesting and sexy. He expressed heartbreak at the idea that he couldn’t convince me to have higher self-esteem. But rejecting me doesn’t exactly prove his point! It just feeds into my insecurity.

    Do I just keep posting and hope curiosity gets the better of him eventually?

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      December 11, 2019 at 8:55 pm

      Hey K yes keep posting UG things and make sure you are always striving to be the best version of yourself so that you reach a point that you are always doing amazing and are happy in your own company too

  19. Mary

    December 10, 2019 at 9:25 am

    Hello! So my ex blocked me on whataspp a year ago and I haven’t said a single word to him. In september, this year, he contacted me on instagram out of the blue, like nothing ever happened.I made a stupid mistake and slept with him for a couple of times. Yesterday i checked my instagram and I saw that he blocked me, again..Why would he do that when I wasn’t the one bothering him or intiating contact? I am so mad right now and I wanna tell him so many things. What should I do? Why can’t he leave me alone?

    Thank you

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      December 11, 2019 at 8:58 pm

      Hi Mary Im sorry he did this to you, just ignore him and take it as a lesson learnt that he is not going to be able to do that to you again

  20. J

    December 8, 2019 at 5:21 pm

    Hi EBR,

    Looking for some advice, here. My ex bf dumped me over text message. He said it was because he didn’t have feelings for me, but he has a long history of commitment issues that definitely are playing a key role here. Our friends all agree he had very obvious strong feelings for me. A slight loss of attraction is very possible, but a few weeks prior, he told me he was freaking out a bit about commitment and the relationship aspect of the entire thing. I explained to him that I was very much ok with taking it slow and not labeling things before we felt good and ready. I tried to be as patient and loving about it as I could be. I could go on and on here about reasons I’m sure that commitment is the main cause, but I of course have to take his word that some sort of lack of feelings may exist.

    Anyhoo, I completed an ENTIRE 30 day no contact rule! Very proud of myself, (*insert pat on the back here*) I didn’t think I could do it but I did, I did not reach out to him at all whatsoever, didn’t wish him a happy birthday or happy holidays either. I’ve been hitting the gym nonstop, doing some light traveling, finishing up college and generally living my life.

    31 days later, I sent him a very mysterious (and enthusiastic/friendly) text asking for his opinion on an interest of his. He responded very enthusiastically as well, we had a very brief but positive exchange, and then I ended the conversation by not responding. So I sent him 3 texts, and he responded to all 3. So far, I’ve done exactly as this site has advised me to do, everything has gone according to plan.

    BUT, it’s now a few days later, and I’m feeling stumped. The problem I’m having, is that I actually blocked him on social media during the 30 day no contact rule. I found myself obsessively staring at his social media accounts. He’s a bit of a ladies man, to put it lightly. I needed to block him to make myself sane, and while I don’t regret it, I do realize that in hindsight it is preventing him from seeing how well I’m doing.

    I have unblocked him on instagram but not followed him, and my account is (and will remain) private. So, he can’t see my account and I can see his. I’d really rather not follow him, because truth be told, I don’t have expectations that things will ever work out for him and I. I of course miss him and want to be with him, but if he has commitment issues, then no amount chasing after him will change that right now. I deserve better and don’t want to get hurt.

    I guess this is where I really need EBR advice. Do I follow him? Does that seem stupid/desperate/too soon/awkward? I’m trying to think very long-term here. Should I text him again in a week or so? Should I build rapport before following him? What do I do?!! I especially fear that I could follow him and he may not request to follow me back. I think I would rather continue texting once in a while (I’m taking things particularly slow because he scares quite easy, and I don’t want to get my hopes up), and then if things are definitely more comfortable in the future, I’d consider following him. There’s always a small chance he’ll notice that I unblocked him and request to follow me first?

    Any advice at all would be excellent here. I’ve managed to come this far, it seems a huge waste to abandon ship at this point. I don’t have anything to lose here, I’m sure it’s over between us, and I’ll be just fine if it is, I know that. But if he does ever regret his decision, I want him to feel comfortable talking to me about it!

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      December 14, 2019 at 9:28 pm

      Hi J, so it really depends on what you want. If you want to follow the EBR process then you need to reach out again and have hopefully the same positive short conversation but a little longer than 3 texts… and so on. I would NOT do anything social media wise until you are texting more naturally or if he decides to start following out again then I would than follow his page in return. But for now keep to the texts

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