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2,553 thoughts on “What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You”

  1. Susie

    July 21, 2020 at 8:57 pm

    My ex blocked me four days ago during a few days of heated arguing. A female friend had said to unfriend/unfollow/block him on social media to give us space. I just unfollowed but didn’t block. So he immediately blocked but kept texting. And arguing. Then blocked me on text. Is this the same as the blocking you’re referencing? It felt more retaliatory? And it has only been 4 days but I don’t know what to think.

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      July 25, 2020 at 8:03 pm

      Hey Susie, this is the same idea as being in a hard block yes – giving that you have no other way of getting in touch with him now.

  2. Casemira

    July 16, 2020 at 8:10 pm

    Hi, My ex and I broke up 3months ago. I did a 30 days NC, I still added a few more day, cause I didn’t know how to initiate a first text. We talked a few times, like we was cool, then I noticed I stopped seeing his WhatsApp status. Which I used to before. I opened another WhatsApp with my other line and discovered I could see his status. And the only other time when he has blocked me from seeing his status was in the weeks leading to his breakup when he wanted to make a post wishing his ex a happy birthday.
    I’m confused as to why he would have blocked me this time around, considering the last 2conversations we had were cool, and casual. Now I don’t know what to do or say to him.

  3. Bri

    July 12, 2020 at 1:51 pm

    It’s been a year since the breakup and we dont follow each other on twitter. He blocked me on twitter and on instagram but i got unblocked everntually last april. Note that we dont follow each other on twitter but last week, he liked my tweet and he blocked me the week after that. I’m just overall confused with what just happened.

  4. melissa

    July 4, 2020 at 11:45 pm

    Hi
    So I was talking to this guy.
    Short story, some of my friends didn’t like him. When I spoke about him I said good things, they’d bash him and I defended him. He then blocked me and one of the friends that didn’t like him went off on him….I severed ties with her and also cut of ties with the other person. the only reason why I cut ties with them was bc they did me more harm. I know that saying of ‘don’t let a man make you cry, have your friends around’ but see my friends were the ones that made me cry, he didn’t. (I cried for him once due to what he told me on what has happened to him in the past) but what am I supposed to do?….I’ve been waiting patiently and don’t want to appear like a crazy chick to him. I’m so broke to buy any program. And I actually liked this person!!

  5. Shell

    June 30, 2020 at 6:09 pm

    Hi my ex has unblocked me on everything after 5 weeks of being blocked.
    What could this mean?What should I do? Do I wait & see if he reaches out?
    Thanks.

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      July 3, 2020 at 11:30 pm

      Hey Shell, I suggest that you take it slowly before reaching out make sure that you post to social media to see he if he reacts to anything – this may take a couple of weeks. Do not jump into contacting him as he may jump back into blocking you. Take it slow

  6. Kay

    June 26, 2020 at 10:35 pm

    Hi, so me and my ex broke up 2momths ago. We had an argument and he said hurtful things about my family and insecurities, then we blocked each other on application and phone after some days. Then came the Facebook contact, where I pleaded and begged him but all to no avail but we talked at length on Facebook but in a passive aggressive way. I.had noticed he unblocked me May 7th but I didnt unblock him,3weeks later his mum called saying he was sick and I helped out. During the course of this I tried making us have a conversation because I miss him and still love him but it ended badly I then blocked him and swore to never have anything to do.with him but I couldn’t keep that promise then I contacted him and conversation was going nice. The following week I tried reaching out to him. He didn’t pick and noticed he used another number to call back, but I missed the call. I dialled the number back and noticed it was a girl asked who the person and she gave me the whole wrong number story but I knew there was a connection and I confronted him that his girlfriend reach out to me and his respond was “ok” well it didn’t end well and we blocked ourselves again 4days later he unblocked me and I tried reaching out but he keeps ignoring me. Reading through this article, I have seen my mistakes and I dont wanna make more. I want us back together but it seems like anything I say to him irritates him.
    I need your advice. Also how do I go about the NC rule?
    Thanks

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      July 15, 2020 at 8:38 pm

      Hi Kay, so to follow a No Contact rule you would just not reach out or reply to him for at least 30 days but I would suggest after your last interaction you follow a 45 day one. Work on yourself and your Holy Trinity, and your insecurities that you mentioned. IF he is in a relationship with someone else this is another reason to follow the 45 day No Contact as you need them to pass their honeymoon phase, and you then need to follow the information about the being there method.

  7. Jazmine Roland

    June 11, 2020 at 11:58 am

    My boyfriend & I broke up after 5 yrs the day my mom was rushed to the hospital a stroke put in ICU!! He wanted to go to a gathering hangout and not be supportive or be with me and my family. When I tried to talk to him he had nothing but excuses never apologized and said I was unreasonable. Then he blocked me.
    The relationship ended from this. He blocks me thinks he is right and I’m wrong. But he is saying the gathering was more important than supporting me and being there when my mom was put in ICU!! Not right!!!
    He was dead wrong.

  8. Kate

    June 8, 2020 at 10:33 pm

    I’ve been dating a man for 6 months from another country. We have fallen in love and things have been good with a lot of open communication. He have had some fights and have been able to talk through them well. Last night we talked on the phone and things were good. This morning he woke me up with a phone call, telling me he needed to talk to me about something serious. Half asleep I listen as he told me that at the beginning of our relationship he was still flirting with another girl. He stated cheating, then said he was just flirting and it was for a couple of months. He told me he loved me very much and he’s only been with me since he stopped talking to her. I was shocked and didn’t know how to feel. I told him I needed to think. A couple hours later I was about to call him when he sent me a discord message. Basically telling me that he was sorry he didn’t make me happy and that or good and that he really really sorry for what he did. He said it was weighing heavy on his shoulders. That he’s a human being and needed to fix himself and be better than that. He said it wasn’t personal, he wanted me to be happy, told me not to be mad but he knows I will be but that seems like a good way to change himself. Signed it with all my love then blocked me, blocked me in the games we play together, then blocked some friends of his who play the same games. I have no way of contacting him except one game which I sent him messages asking to talk which he saw before blocking me there. I don’t know what to do or feel. I want to talk to him and fix thing if possible. I don’t know why he did this when he was the one who did something wrong. Not giving me a chance to have closure end breaking up with me in a message. Will he unblock me? He is breaking my heart right now and I know he still loves me very much.

  9. Britt

    June 1, 2020 at 1:57 am

    So this is the third time he’s called off the relationship, he broke up with me and I was spending time with a mutual friend of ours and went to a nude beach with the mutual friend; well, after he said he didn’t want a relationship he comes running back again. So I was honest and told him what had happened. This was also after a relationship full of derogatory comments and threatening to hit me or actually choke me. Well he just recently blocked me after ending it again!! All I want is my happiness and life back!! I do still care about him and love him but I can’t handle the wishy washy or craziness!

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      June 1, 2020 at 10:09 am

      Hey Britt, from reading what information you have given me I would suggest that you work on moving on from your ex as neither the relationship or him sound healthy which is not what you want to do if you want a happy life. The threats and abuse is not okay on any level!

  10. Nancy

    May 26, 2020 at 2:16 pm

    Hey!
    So my ex and i had been passive aggressive to each other for the last couple of days. He said something that upset me and i threatened to block him, he then proceeded to block me. He completely blocked me everywhere!! We don’t have mutual friends. I want to go over to his house and just talk to him about everything we had both been passive about. I know i made him upset when i threated to block him but i feel like if i went to talk to him we could just talk it through

  11. Arlene

    May 25, 2020 at 8:30 am

    I did the NC right aftwe i begged and pleaded.. Then after 3 months i chat him on messenger just an inquiry if he’s okey.. Then he block me on messenger and facebook.. I was shock.. He was the one who cheated on me.. I dont stalk him but after he block me a mutual friend of ours sent me a screenshot of his post 2 days ago before i message him which says that the one he chose over me chose someone else. I dont mean to provoke him..

  12. Gray

    May 24, 2020 at 8:16 pm

    I broke up with my ex 5 days ago, I feel I might have made the decision so soon… I miss him so much and I really do love him. We were going to be 3 years on the 26th of this month. We got into an argument, it was a very little issue but he said a lot of hurtful things about I, my family, he’s insecurities and my past. I was so hurt I broke it off. I just noticed he blocked me on all his social media application. What do I do? I really do miss him

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      June 1, 2020 at 11:25 pm

      Hey Gray, you are forced to do NC while you are in a hard block, but you need to complete a 45 day NC where you work on yourself in that time. Then prepare for your reach out at the end of your NC hopefully by then you are unblocked, or you are going to have to try an alternative method of reaching out

  13. Leila

    May 22, 2020 at 7:13 am

    I broke up with my boyfriend about 2 weeks now, I even changed my number. I must admit I do miss him even though the breakup was really bad. I still don’t understand and don’t know why since it was really from one day to the next things just changed. Anyway I tried reaching out through Facebook but message got delivered but not read. A couple days later I had a few drinks to where it led me to text him! I was very upset at myself when I sent the text and said to myself “why the hell you changed your number for”?. Of course he didn’t even reply so I left it alone, later the same night I endup checking the messages on Facebook just to see if the messages were read unfortunately is when I noticed I’ve been blocked!! Sad to say that even tho this isn’t the first time we break up I feel that now is really over between us. Everyone tells me he doesn’t deserve a woman like me because I’ve done so much for the relationship to work and he doesn’t make any effort so why bother to keep trying. Should I just let things be and move on?!!

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      June 1, 2020 at 10:47 am

      Hi Leila so no one can tell you to move on or keep trying, apart from yourself. If you want him back then I would suggest that you start following the program but also look at your relationship and ask yourself were you happy and felt loved. As you say you did so much to make the relationship work. Try and pro and cons list regarding your ex and the past relationship. If there are more cons than pros then consider if you want to be in that relationship with this person again. Take some time to think about what you want in a relationship and a partner and if he meets those expectations

  14. Shell

    May 16, 2020 at 10:22 pm

    He told me he was done, to move on & that I was crazy as i told him I think his talking to another girl as I saw something suspicious.
    I replied back with yeah your probably right I will move on as I can’t deal with this hot & cold behavior it’s not fair on me Iv stood by you and you know it.
    I then went to sleep and he tried to call me I didn’t hear it. I then noticed he blocked me on WhatsApp and Instagram BUT hasn’t blocked me on Snapchat and has viewed my story why has he done that? I haven’t reached out as I’m still pretty upset by everything.

  15. Carla

    May 14, 2020 at 5:23 pm

    My ex and I broke up almost 2 months ago.
    It was mostly initiated by him, but he was passive so I pulled the trigger.
    It ended very kindly and respectfully, both acknowledging our part.
    We exchanged some nice text messages the following day, alluding that we would check in on each other at some point.
    We’ve had no absolutely contact in 8 weeks. I wanted to give both of us space, and he indicated that he wasn’t in a good place, so all the more reason to give it time.
    I notice that it looks like he blocked me on what app. We never used that as a platform for communication.
    Needless to say, I’m perplexed, especially given the way things ended and the fact that neither of us have chased the other person.
    Thoughts?

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      May 20, 2020 at 5:49 pm

      Hi Carla, if you want to try and get your ex back then I do suggest you read some articles about the texting stage, while also working on your Holy Trinity. Him blocking you on Whatsapp may have been a way to stop seeing your activity on there, as with the recent changes he could see your image and your stories etc. Or he got into the dreaded habit of checking your last active.

      I would suggest that you attempt to reach out with the style of texts that Chris explains through his articles to try and open a form of communication

  16. Nokuthula

    May 2, 2020 at 6:18 am

    Hey Chris thank you so much for taking time and unlock this am one of the people who’s facing a challenge my boyfriend blocked me after an misunderstanding and it’s been three weeks in hell for me, am not a person who goes to his apartment without his invitation so I tried.using another number to text him.but he never responded. Am hurting but I try to be strong.

  17. Aly

    April 27, 2020 at 12:39 am

    My boyfriend of 6 years ended things with me at the end of February. A few weeks went by of him still telling me he loved me and that it was hard on him but then about a month ago he started dating someone new. I’ve tried my best to not contact him but unfortunately we lived together and had a dog and two cats so it’s very complicated. I need to reach out in order to get my things and it’s been difficult trying to clear it all out because of the pandemic. He’s been very kind throughout most of this. He deleted me off Snapchat about two weeks ago but still answers when texted or called. I watched our cats over this past weekend because he was away. He’s frustrated that I haven’t gotten all my things out (and I get it, I just want to be done too) and I am officially getting it all tomorrow and will no longer be talking to him. Today he blocked me on Facebook, I’m assuming because he’s angry from our convo and that I haven’t been able to get everything and cut ties yet. Do you think there is any hope at all…

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      May 2, 2020 at 1:36 pm

      Hi Aly, I would say that if you want to get this guy back that when you have removed all your items that you stop all contact, following a full 45 day NC and then start following the being there method. If anything I assume his frustration is that you are still around when he is trying to have a new relationship with this other woman. This is hard for you to be around so following a no contact is going to give him a change to pass the honeymoon phase and you a chance to work on your holy trinity and become ungettable before reaching out to him again

  18. Anonymous

    April 25, 2020 at 4:05 pm

    We have been dating for almost 3 years and he has blocked me everywhere except mail. I chatted with a guy I knew from class. It was just a friendly chat but I didn’t tell my boyfriend about it. He often feels insecure because he thinks he isn’t enough for me. He said he didn’t like the fact that I hid things from him. So we had an argument that lasted for 20 days after which he broke up with me via chatting on Facebook and blocked me everywhere else. When I asked a mutual friend about him he said that he has a new crush on someone (which is a total lie to get back at me I know). He has access to my social accounts because he has my passwords. Should I change my passwords? Or keep letting him stalk my account? I know that he still cares and my instincts are not letting me give up on him yet because we’ve been with through a lot of hardships together. What should I do now? Should I let him go or keep waiting?

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      May 2, 2020 at 11:21 am

      Hi there, first YES you need to change your accounts thats one thing you do not want him to have. He can view your accounts if you post things publicly, he can view them that way. You do not want to give your ex access to social media accounts where he can essentially post what he wants with your name. If you have not started yet, start following the advice for the No Contact Rule, – Holy trinity work, becoming Ungettable, working to be the best version of yourself. Do not attempt to look at any of his social media, or email him for at least 45 days.

  19. Marie

    April 21, 2020 at 2:46 am

    My boyfriend and I have been arguing a lot lately. It was a lot for me to handle so I needed space from him. I went back to my parents’ house and didn’t tell him. We were on the video call all lovey-dovey and notices I’m not home, he hangs up, tells me to stay at my parents’. I apologized to him saying I didn’t tell him because I was scared he’d get mad, but he blocked me on everything.

    Its not the first time he’s used the blocking tactic, but this is the first time he’s gone full-out on everything. It’s been 4 days of being blocked and I’m scared that this is the end.

    He’ll usually say he wants to break up, but then a couple hours later will act like he didn’t do it. Before he blocked me, he was “breaking up” with me for at least three days in a row. I don’t know what to do and I just want him back.

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      April 21, 2020 at 11:11 pm

      Hi Marie, it sounds as if your ex is in control of the situation where you need to change that. You need to then follow a 45 NC and an active one at that. Where you are working on your Holy Trinity and when your ex unblocks you and reaches out again like nothing has happened you do not reply unless it has passed your 45 day mark. This behavior is not acceptable to anyone and you should realise you deserve to be treated better than this

  20. Shell

    April 16, 2020 at 4:28 pm

    Im feeling pretty down in the dumps right now and would love some advice.
    My ex has just gone and blocked me on WhatsApp.
    My ex text me out of nowhere and basically from what I red it didn’t sound too great at all and thought that was us done so I removed him off my Instagram didn’t block just removed. He got upset that I removed him and said that he was trying to say he wanted to try work on things. I honest didn’t know this I mis red the message completely I asked if we could have a phone conversation and he didn’t take me up on that offer. I left it 9 day before I reached out again and I apologized for the honest mistake I had made and that I hope him and his family were happy, healthy & that I saddly have lost my grandad due to covid / dementia.
    He red that message then few hours later decided to block me on WhatsApp. I really wasn’t expecting that at all. I feel his holding a big grudge against me and not sure what to do?
    He hasn’t blocked me on Instagram I have checked. Not sure sending him a message on there would be much good?

    1. EBR Team Member: Shaunna

      April 23, 2020 at 6:44 pm

      Hi Shell it sounds to me that hes used this as a way to pass guilt for ending the relationship. The fact he blocked you after you asking how he is seems that he is not ready to speak to you civilly yet. Stick to a 30 day NC and then attempt to reach out again

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