What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You On (The Phone, Facebook, WhatsApp, Etc)

2,553 thoughts on “What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You”

Kay

April 15, 2020 at 10:40 am

Breakup took place on March 20th. Didn’t contact him again the 23rd. (The day he gave me back my stuff) The 23rd felt like the true breakup day. I was sobbing horribly and somehow got him on the phone and talked for an HOUR to get some reasons out of him. However, each relationship I’ve been in I never made it my SO’s responsibility to be in charge of my happiness and they are NOT my life. Men are not my PLAN A, they are an OPTIONAL plan. Each breakup I usually go through some physical transformation and sometimes learn from it. This is my first time I want an ex back. I did a no contact 22 day period (21 day orginally we had a short-term relationship and scored above average when I took the test. Wasn’t sure if the 30 day for me) On the 23rd of March I did sadly black out and send TONS of text messages that day. I didn’t call his phone off the hook or send more texts or reach out to him any shape way or form during the no contact, I even woke up in some days feeling like I really didn’t need him, but breaking the contact on April 14th I called and learned my number was blocked so I used the *67 rule and he picked up instantly gave him a quick 7 minute call and he actually cared if I was safe or not and heard what I had to say because the problems we found I saw were fixable. We have nothing but good memories and only had 1 “argument”. The argument didn’t have any yelling, name-calling, physical abuse, interruptions when one is speaking. It was his first relationship so I can’t bash him much. But learning he blocked my number though not on social media… I do think I maybe made the grave mistake of calling him asking “I want to get back together.” and the classic “Come back to me with an answer soon.”, instead of easing in first by contacting him with my unblocked area (Instagram). Of course I will respect if he never get’s back to me, men have selective hearing after all who knows if he listened to me and I loaded alot on him during that quick 7 minute here are the resolves to those problems we had. Though I’m worried…is there any way of saving this shot gun to the chest “Accept me or..well nothing is going to happen to you it would just be cool if you did?” Do I try to contact him via social media and try to test the waters with texting?

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

April 24, 2020 at 7:07 pm

Hi Kay after contacting him and being emotional I would suggest that you take a 45 day no contact where you focus on your emotional control. And then yes reach out with texts that are about his interests, not emotional at all and definitely not about getting back together. Just try to open the window of communication

Carley

April 7, 2020 at 9:54 am

Hi,
My boyfriend aged (50) has split up with me for the 2nd time in 2 years because I hung up on him one night when he was paralytic, he text me in the morning which I replied back and in the evening I missed a call from him. He then blocked me on WhatsApp, so I sent him a messenger message asking why he has blocked me and he replied saying he isn’t playing my games anymore and then blocked me on Facebook and messenger. He is a heavy drinker so I’m actually not sure why he got so mad for me missing his call. I still have his key and he has stuff of mine at his house. I feel very upset and angry that he has done this. I don’t understand it and he always said he loved and idolised me to be then treated like this. I should move on shouldn’t I? But it hurts and I miss him. What should I do? I can’t contact him at all.

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

April 13, 2020 at 3:31 pm

Hi Carley, I would say this is very erratic reaction to someone not answering a call and then to end the relationship too is over reacting. I would suggest that you go with your gut instincts here, listen to your head not your heart as I think this behaviour is not going to change with this man

Norah

April 2, 2020 at 2:28 pm

Hy Chris, my boyfriend broke up with me infront of his friends and new gf and told me there’s no way we getting back together, we have a 2 and a half yrs daughter and im pregnant with his son, he knows about it and he told me i should terminate coz he won’t be involved in our son’s life, i last spoke to him the day he dumped me i haven’t contacted him yet but yesterday he blocked me on Facebook and i don’t know why, i love him so much we’ve been together for 5years, please help me

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

April 2, 2020 at 10:30 pm

Hi Norah as hard as these times are going to be for you, honestly, why would you want a man back who is treating you so badly, no respect and clearly doesnt care about his children either!! Heal from the heartache sweetie and look after you and your two babies they are all that matter. He will regret his decision one day but he sounds very selfish and immature

A.T

April 2, 2020 at 4:53 am

Hi,

So, my boyfriend of 7 years ended things with me about two months ago because of my attitude. I Was all depressed because I’m about to turn 30, he felt I was judgmental, lost my drive to do things, and am not emotionally mature. Mind you I still live with my parents and he feels I want to be just like them which I don’t. So after the breakup I kept begging him telling him that I’ll change and that I’ll do my work and I even emailed him and he’s blocked me on everything and has been so cold towards me saying that he’s “moved on and has accepted it”, which I don’t believe at all. I truly love this guy and really would love to have another chance at our relationship.

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

April 9, 2020 at 8:50 pm

Hi AT so I would say that you need to work on your Holy Trinity, and then reach out to your ex after 30 days NC

Jane

March 29, 2020 at 3:48 pm

So, my bf and i have argued about something and he blocked me on fb. A week after i texted him and i asked for a break up. He refused and unblocked me after.
It’s been 3 days since we started talking again and he’s acting like nothing really happend. But we are no longer friends on fb and he haven’t added me yet and it really bothers me .. I don’t know what’s on his mind..

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

March 29, 2020 at 4:45 pm

Hi Jane if you and your boyfriend are still together and he isnt adding you back on social media etc. I wouldnt over thing it took much. I know many people who do not list that they are in a relationship on social media as it is unimportant. As long as you are both communicating positively in person and through text, and you are getting better I would not let it effect how you rekindle your relationship after the argument

Lien

March 27, 2020 at 12:16 pm

Dear Chris, Dear Shaunna,

So I have been dating this guy for 8 months. We are both from different countries and both have completely different cultures. He is a Muslim as well, where I am a Christian. Despite our different religions and cultures, we have fallen in love with each other.

The relationship was great. We respected each other’s culture and we were willing to learn from one another about our differences. Everything was exciting and new for both of us and we really fell deeply in love with each other.

His family is traditional, and he knew that they will not accept the relationship. However, he continued the relationship with me in the hope that they will accept us. I have never met his family as we are staying and working in a different country. He respects his mother a lot and she is his everything. He has told me this countless times and I valued and respected the love that he has for his mother. He told his mother about me, at first she thought it wasn’t going to be serious and later our relationship got more and more serious to the point where he started talking about marriage with me.

His mother did not want to accept our relationship because I was not from their country, or had their cultures and I was not a Muslim. His father and the rest of the family was willing to accept me but not his mother. She forced him to end our relationship with me or she will neglect him.

I was very sad and I tried everything to keep him, but I didn’t want to put him in a position to choose between me and his mother. I told him that I will accept his choice, even if it breaks me and I am losing the love of my life.

I have followed your advice on the NC rule and it’s been 17 days now. I have been very active on social media showing him on my status that I am enjoying life and having fun. About two days ago, he unfollowed my account and muted me on WhatsApp.

I thought if I didn’t contact him and made him jealous through social media that he would come back to me, but now that he has unfollowed me, I feel he has completely cut me out of his life and there is no chance for us being together ever again.

I don’t know what to do. Should I just let him go, do I still have a chance with him or should I just forget about him and continue with my life even if I know I am losing the love of my life.

Please can you help me?

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

March 29, 2020 at 11:05 pm

Hi Lien it is difficult when someone who has a family who are strict with what they will accept into the family. Where he has told you that he respects and love his mother the most and she is against him being with a woman who is Christian it is unlikely he is going to go against her. So you could start focusing on moving on and making sure you are happy without him. Unless he decides to go against her wishes he is not likely to come back as he knows there is no future

Noemi Anaya

March 24, 2020 at 10:23 pm

I have been dating a guy (not officially yet still dating) for five months. When we first met he was crazy about me, obsessed in a good way, super into me, sweet, caring, loving and wanted me so bad. He tried really hard with me, and eventually when he told me he wanted something serious and build a meaningful relationship with him I trusted him and gave him a real chance. A week or two after that he went back home to Canada (we went to school in Florida) for Xmas break. Things changed, he said he felt as we weren’t on the same page and only wanted to be friends (said he told me that when in reality he didn’t), he even unfriended me off Facebook and unfollowed me on Instagram. When he came back we talked about it twice, and it was clear that the feelings and connection was still there and very strong. He wanted to push me away but at the same time he didn’t. So in January we kept texting here and there. We started seeing each other again in February until this month, and things were great, we got really close again and it was undeniable that we both liked being with each other. All of a sudden about 2-3 weeks ago, he started acting different again, after we had dinner together one night he wasn’t as responsive towards me anymore, would ignore me, and wouldn’t make the effort to see me while I tried. There were things I wanted to talk to him about and that’s why I wanted to see him. I didn’t understand why he would keep treating me so poorly all of a sudden again when things were amazing. So all of a sudden because of The corona virus school were cancelled, sports were cancelled and he played baseball and I worked for the team, so that was done. Everyone started leaving and going home, and we both lived in the same apartment complex off campus. So I didn’t know if he would stay until his lease was over. He agreed to see me last Saturday and we both needed to talk to each other. He was packing and told me he needed surgery on his arm, and after the surgery he would leave back to Canada and never come back. At that point I knew I would probably never see him again, unless of course we tried to stay in contact. I then told him how I felt really weird about his behavior the past two weeks and was confused as to why I was being treated like shit, I told him that he knew I cared for him, trussed him, liked him and was crazy about him so all I wanted in return was for him to respect him as I respected him. He apologized for his behavior and said he knew he treated me like shit and did asshole things to me, and that I deserved better that I deserved for him to treat me better. So I told him I’d like to see him or spend time with him as much as we could before he left especially since everyone by that time had left and we’d both be alone. He said he wasn’t sure maybe once or twice but he’d definitely say goodbye to me before he left. After that we were texting on and off during the week, and I had planned to move back home since I knew it would hurt too much to stay after he was gone and had also gotten him a goodbye gift which was a canvas of a picture I took during his last game. I told him about it and he said thank you but didn’t want it even though he didn’t know what it was, to which I said it was just a goodbye thought I wanted him to have before he left. He said he couldn’t do that night because his roommate was leaving the next day. Later in the weeks he told me he found out when his surgery was going to be, and I asked if he planned to stay here until then and he said he’s. I also said to him he could come over anytime or i could visit him just to pass the time as I knew that he was all alone and there was nothing to do. The next day I had started bringing home some stuff, and I texted him if I could stop by his place later, he ignored me the whole day and then later that night I just said to him “let me know whenever you’re at the apartment thank you” he then called me a while later, it was a long call but to summarize he said he was going to say goodbye before he left but now he’s not going to anymore that he had told me he wasn’t going to really hang out anymore until then so no point of me asking, I asked if he cared about me he said no not really, and didn’t even care to say goodbye to me or for our friendship as well. He said he was going home and never coming back so there was no point and we both needed to move on, that’s the healthy thing for both of us” he was also kinda getting angry about certain things, he really was t himself at all, he said mean things that really hurt. He then said goodbye over the phone and that he didn’t want to have this conversation again” he then blocked me off every social media and phone #. Two days later I decided to move out officially and packed my whole car, before I left I still had the canvas with me and couldn’t bring myself to throw it. I then saw him from my balcony and knew he was home so I decided I would walk there and leave it outside his door without even facing him and the leave. When I walked up I didn’t expect him to see him outside, he was packing his car. He saw me and came up to me, I said “I’m leaving today my whole car is packed and I had this still in my room and could t bring myself to Throw it. This is my way of moving on, just leaving it outside your door I wasn’t expecting to see you out here (I looked so ugly no makeup, super messy hair). I said to him I didn’t hate him and wished him the beat and that his arm recovers and the surgery goes well. (I didn’t ask if he was leaving right now, what’s the new plans with his surgery, what he’s planning on doing, or even mentioned him blocking me or wishing he hadn’t done that). He said he didn’t hate me either and wished nothing but the best for me, he then looked at the canvas and really loved it and was really grateful, he made a joke about his signature cheeks in it. He then grabbed me and gave me a hug which I didn’t expect at all. He said goodbye to me, and I walked away.
It’s been two days since then, I’m living at home and have no clue if he left already (which I’m guessing he did since he was packing his car, and with this whole corona virus I’m worried about him driving to Canada especially worrying about his surgery as well) it doesn’t make it any easier that he blocked me off everything and I have no way to contact him, and wondering if he’ll ever unblock me. In a way I’m glad we had a positive last encounter so his last memory of me wouldn’t be that awful phone call (I was never rude to him or pointed fingers at). I hope he will eventually regret treating me like that or the way he handled things, and maybe even miss me or want to know what’s going on in my life. I hope we will be in contact again and that our face to face goodbye was a sign that our friendship could somewhat be saved. I’m miserable right now and any advice would help.
Alayaisia

March 21, 2020 at 3:58 pm

What do I do if he dumped me over something stupid?

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

March 23, 2020 at 11:36 pm

Give it time and complete No Contact

Tamika

March 20, 2020 at 9:49 am

March 20th 2020 at 12.37pm
We broke with my boyfriend about a month ago,so I told his friend to contact him and tell him how I missed him but I am afraid of talking to him once more because he is going to hurt me once more,so that day that her friend texted her,he said that he didn’t want that story and told his friend to just assume that story,the guy also said having broken up with me that I’ll come to thank him later,the guy told her friend who happens to be our friend to tell me that,the guy went on ahead and said that also he didn’t want to force issues with me,so I went on ahead and texted the guy that which issues was he forcing which of there was no issues that he was forcing,so the guy told me to stop all that am saying and he laughed and said that he would hate bitching out to me,I told the guy that I wasn’t afraid of anything in this world,and he can blow it out if he wants the guy laughed and said goodbye or okay with the WhatsApp emoji,I went on ahead and told the guy that I am always real because I am not afraid to make enemies after that the guy didn’t respond to the last text that I texted,then after a day he blocked me on Whatsapp.But I haven’t contacted him after the block via normal message.
Anonymous

March 20, 2020 at 9:42 am

I engaged my marriage 5 years ago. It was a mistake and I’ve always wanted my ex back. I was told by people I thought I could trust hee was cheating and feared it was trueso I ended the marriage. Told after the divorce they were lying about him cheating by the people who told me he was (it was about revenge for a past problem). Long story, but we have children together and we text every so often regarding them. I am blocked from his Facebook so how do I know which mutual friends we have?

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

March 20, 2020 at 10:51 pm

The fact you share children, means that you are going to be in contact and see each other from time to time. So it does not matter who your mutual friends are on Facebook as such, as they will be informing him of anything that you may post that is Ungettable. Work on yourself for some time to re attract your ex.

Kat

March 19, 2020 at 11:56 pm

Hi, I need some help. My ex-boyfriend dumped me and blocked me completely. We had a long distance relationship for 2 years, but I was fortunate enough to visit him at least every 2 months and stay for multiple weeks (my work allows this). We were talking about next steps, but it was going to be hard, nearly impossible (religion, moving,…). After an emotional (his side) 2 weeks, he ended things with me and blocked me everywhere. He said that he loved me ‘endlessly’ but that he couldn’t do this and it was for the best. That’s a month ago. I still won’t give up on us, because we were really good together, had a great communication and I still see a future for us. I didn’t contact him in any way since he blocked me because he clearly needed some space. I did text mutual friends to ask how he’s doing and they don’t get him either. He’s a doctor, so I assume he’s really busy because of corona right now, so now I’m afraid that he completely forgot about me. I don’t know what to do…

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

March 28, 2020 at 6:34 pm

Hi Kat, when it comes to the program of course I am going to recommend that you complete a No Contact as you have broken up and taken steps to hear if he is doing ok etc. But in the times, I would say that you need to understand it is very likely you wont be hearing from him if he is in the mist of dealing with this pandemic, the world is on lock down, there is such a big pressure on any medical staff right now you are just going to have to be patient. He is not going to “forget” about you, but honestly, his priority is going to be his job, his own health and surviving a very very demanding time for him right now. Try to reach out at the end of 30 days but do not take it personally when all this is going on along with his line of work

marcia

March 11, 2020 at 10:15 pm

Dear Chris, Dear Shaunna,

So I am re-starting no contact with my ex, as he blocked me back, after he answered my query when I was concerned about his well-being and safety after the emergency incident in my town.

Since then, he hasn’t unblocked me. Now with the coronavirus threat around us, I believe there is no room for bitter feelings towards anyone in the world. But he stays the same, and he is not unblocking me.

Do you think he will ever unblock me again? He has blocked/unblocked me 5 times already in 3 years. But his blocking intervals have become long (recently 2 months), and his unblocking intervals are very short (the last one was only being unblocked for 1 week). What a tactic and I wonder what is the purpose!

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

March 12, 2020 at 1:09 pm

Hi Marcia, so not to downplay the virus right now.. but it not a reason to break no contact or a reason to reach out, and it is not something that is going to affect your ERP process. IF you are blocked you remain in No Contact and work the Ungettable, if you are unblocked and it has passed the 45 day mark of NOT speaking then you can reach out with a text that Chris suggests. He is blocking you because your conversations are more than likely obvious reach out to talk to him emotionally or he gets the vibe that you are trying to get him back. When you are willing to start moving on with your life is when you get better results

Chris

March 7, 2020 at 7:19 pm

Hi, I would love some help! Me and my ex have really gone through the paces. We were together 2/3 years. He struggled with my anxiety and I ended up not working which just made everything worse. He broke up with me and the anxiety caused me to reach out, stalk, message, email for the following 3 months (Fully blocked me on the phone and only replied to the odd email saying go away) 5/6 months later he unblocked me, I made out I was doing much better and we ended up getting talking and spending time with each other until he found out I hadn’t improved I had lied and it really hurt him! He said, I needed to get hold of it because it’s too depressing the one person he wanted to spend his life with just won’t get sorted. We split up and 3 weeks later, he was with someone new living the ‘perfect life’ which again triggered me into messaging and getting involved with his relationship. Since stopping, they ended up breaking up after less than 2 months…I’m still fully blocked and he hasn’t replied to any emails for 2 months.
We did really love each other and I’m working on my anxiety which was the total cause of our relationship not working.
I don’t know whether to keep focusing on myself and hope he unblocks me or ever try emailing and reaching out again.
It did get very stalker, I would message all the time via text until he blocked me then would email.
I guess it’s only been 3 weeks since I last emailed so I should just wait and see if he ever unblocks me in months to come like he has always done before?

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

March 17, 2020 at 8:27 pm

Hi Chris, so from what you have told me you should do a 45 day no contact at a minimum but yes, until you are unblocked you have to remain in No Contact. You admit that your actions were very stalker like. That is not a good impression to leave on your ex so you are going to have to accept its going to take some time for your ex to forget those things. Do no email your ex again. You need to work on the Ungettable information and then from there you can apply this to yourself using social media to show the improvements you are making to your life

marcia

March 1, 2020 at 11:38 pm

Dear Chris, dear Shaunna,

I have news! There is an emergency situation today in my town and I was naturally worried if my ex is OK. So, as I am blocked by him in messenger, I sent a text to his mobile, saying ”I hope you are OK, I would love to hear that everything is fine with you”.

A while later, he unblocked me in messenger and he replied, ”yes, all is fine” and then we started talking! After 1 year of ignoring my texts, that was unbelievable! We talked for 30′. But I was the one who was asking him all the questions, and he was just replying in a cold way, and never asked me anything about myself!

Then suddenly he writes ”I am going to sleep” so I sent ”kisses, goodnight”. Then he sent this nostalgic text: ”I remember when we used to meet up at your house”. I read it but replied 10 minutes later ”I remember it too” . And quess what…. I find out that I am blocked again, and this last message didn’t even go through. So, he kind of said he missed me, then blocked me again, then went to sleep. Perhaps because I didn’t reply immediately, and he was angry?

I am sad, and happy and confused and I want to cry… He simply holds the key of our communication. This behavior doesn’t make any sense. What is left to do?

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

March 2, 2020 at 10:25 pm

Hi Marica, so you should have stayed away from emotional conversations and you shouldn’t really have reached out for this even though it was an emergency in your area, you have just made him aware that you still care. So re start a No Contact and make sure when you reach out again you need to use one of Chris texts where it is short and friendly but do not outstay your welcome where he becomes cold with his replies.

Daisy

February 27, 2020 at 5:52 pm

Hi Shaunna ,thanks so much for your reply , do you think him looking and ignoring my message but not blocking me this time is showing he might still be interested?
Should I be encouraged that he didn’t block me this time ?
Many thanks again

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

February 27, 2020 at 10:51 pm

Hi Daisy, I think the fact he didnt block you shows that he is less emotional about hearing from you which is good as if you give it some time and create the type of text that Chris suggests hes going to be more likely to reply to you for a short conversation. Where you need to make sure that you end the conversation not him, even if you just stop replying randomly

Daisy

February 25, 2020 at 2:49 pm

Hi ,I hope you can help ,I was a text gnat to my LDR (We are together 2 years) at his busiest time (I was bad) he blocked me everywhere ,I waited one month tried to sort me head out and then after a month I find I am unblocked so I message a neutral fun message and he blocked me again so I wait 5 weeks ,try to improve myself ,made a funny video of silly things that we did and then I find I am unblocked agin so I send the video ,my ex read it straight away but there was no response ,I have waited 10 days but don’t know if I should message again . Can he still be mad ,has he gone off me in this time ? I’m not sure what to do next ? Thanks in advance

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

February 26, 2020 at 10:05 pm

Hi Daisy, so when you are a gnat you become the person they dread to hear from as they are going to assume that one text is going to follow by a thousand others. Its good that you waited 5 weeks before reaching out but make sure that when you do you are following Chris texting advice and trying to get him to talk about his interests and ending the conversation at the peak

Chloe

February 25, 2020 at 12:44 am

Hi
I broke up with my boyfriend of a year about 3 weeks ago because he was treating me badly (hot and cold etc.). I became spiteful and messaged his housemate telling him- with the message og ‘please take care of him he has nobody else in Aus’ even though you dont get along. The housemate didnt realise that my bf didnt like him and I think I definitely accidently caused drama that my ex would have hated. I messaged my ex and told him what I had accidently said and he got very angry with me, telling me to leave him alone and goodbye because this shows I dont listen to him about things (like dont trust my housemate he is a snake). He has ended things 5 times over the year mostly via SMS and I would always tell him how immature it was that he did that. I finally did it via SMS when I was so upset that he told me to go away (that morning) because he was tired and didnt feel like speaking to me. He told me that he cannot believe I would dump him via SMS when I was always so against him doing it to me.

A week after I did this I messaged my ex telling him that I really wanted to be with him but that we needed to be nice to each other- that I grew up in a home with lots of name calling and I hated that he did that to me (even in jest). He didnt respond.
A week after that I messaged again and asked him not to ignore me. He responded that he did not want to be with me again.
I asked him if he used me for his visa (I did his visa paperwork for a year so he could stay in the country- he sucked at paperwork), he said no. I asked if he had found someone else and he said “no I have not been out, I have no interest in finding someone else, I want to be on my own.” I asked him if he ever loved me (he never said it but would always ask if I loved him) and he told me he would not answer this. I didnt let it go and I saw he had blocked my number.
I then messaged him on instagram asking him to please just answer- he said “go away!!!!!” and blocked me. I got annoyed and felt really disrespected (knowing I was also disrespecting him!) and messaged him on messenger and said “stop being so mean to me! I have always answered you when you have asked and I have never asked this! Please answer.” He wrote “do not do this.” I sent a sad face and he said “move on there is nothing to gain from this.” I said “please just answer some things before I let you go.” He responded “No” and blocked me.
I did the same thing on Whatsapp and he blocked me.

I have NO WAY of contacting him now. I am so upset. It has been 5 days and I feel as though I have completely ruined it.Is there anything I can do now?

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

March 3, 2020 at 10:37 pm

Hi Chloe so you have to do no contact at this point as you have no way to reach out so during that time you can focus on yourself and your holy trinity. Which is going to be to your advantage when you get unblocked it just takes time for your ex to get curious about what is going on in your life. Read the posts about being Ungettable and prepare yourself for your first text reach out but make sure you do not do it in the same week that you notice your ex unblocks you

belynn

February 22, 2020 at 1:11 pm

I was dating this guy from January 2019, everything seemed great until September when we had a misunderstanding that led to cutting off of communication, he went mute for almost 3 months and during this time I was the one initiating communication because i was trying my best to apologize for all the hurtful things I said to him.
but in January this year, I felt tired of his continued silent treatment, so I approached and asked him if he was still interested in fixing the relationship and he said he wasn’t sure so I decided to let him go after having an in-depth discussion with him he decided to end the relationship because I couldn’t keep giving my life and time to a person who is undecisive .i respected his decision and didn’t beg him to stay
After 3weeks of no contact he starts calling and texting, i didn’t pick or reply because I knew I wasn’t emotionally strong enough to talk to him
I went about with my life like everything was great but unfortunately, this was valentines week .on vals day I ordered flowers and had them delivered to my workplace.
he got to know about the delivery, got really angry I guess.
so when I figured out that I can now reach out to him after the no contact period has ended and also I feel am now emotionally strong, only to find out he has blocked me on WhatsApp, Instagram, unfriended me on Facebook.and cant figure out what his issue is because it was him who wanted to be free from me,so Why act bothered about the flowers?

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

February 28, 2020 at 9:06 pm

Hey Benlynn, so being bothered by the flowers is a natural reaction for an ex, even if they wanted the break up. It is an emotional reaction. He is upset that you could be dating someone else, so you now know he is struggling with the break up too. I would attempt to reach out with a text that Chris suggests through normal text message and see what sort of reaction you get from him

marcia

February 20, 2020 at 9:24 pm

Dear Chris, dear Shaunna,

I may have good news! My ex who re-blocked me 3 days ago, he now put a new fb post, saying that ”he is feeling fantastic”, and the post then says ”you have no permission to view this post, or it is viewable to a limited number of people, or the owner may have deleted it”. Several people have ”liked” it, so that means it is real, just I am not allowed to see it.

He normally doesn’t make public posts more often that once per year! He never had put such a post before saying ”I am feeling great”. So putting this up, just 3 days after re-blocking me, I think is made on purpose, to tell me that, he is doing fantastic after he blocked me!

All we can do is laugh!! I hope I am right…!!

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

February 20, 2020 at 10:13 pm

Hi Marica, I think you area right that this is justify to himself that he is doing “great” if he was happy he wouldnt feel the need to announce it publically

priya verma

February 17, 2020 at 7:59 pm

hey i was seeing someone for three months we went on holidays etc .. i asked him few times if its going somewhere he always just ignored me .. i got a bit annoyed ans said i want to stay quite for a while he said ok . then i messaged him after a couple of days and asked how was his day and he never replied . i messged few times but no reply .its been two weekks now and looks like he have changed his ph number too as i tried calling him last week . i dont have his any social media or no mutual friends what should i do ? thanking you in advance

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

February 17, 2020 at 8:39 pm

Hi Priya, it seems as if your “ex” didn’t want to have a more committed relationship than what you had at the time and avoiding speaking to you about it was his way of dealing with things rather than being honest. If you do not hear from him within 30 days and no other way to contact him than texting or phoning him then I would suggest you start to focus on moving on

« Previous 1 … 4 5 6 7 8 … 52 Next »

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

2,553 thoughts on “What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You”