What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You On (The Phone, Facebook, WhatsApp, Etc)

2,553 thoughts on “What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You”

jane

January 28, 2015 at 11:25 pm

I was seeing a guy for 7 weeks, very intense and he was very keen. He then decided our minds did not truly meet. He dumped me by email and ha blanked me since. Out of frustration and sadness I sent him a couple of emails/texts to tell him how I felt about him. No response. Then said hey, when he was online on WhatsApp – he ignored me. I then responded saying that I will not contact you again as I have seen that you have ignored me again and now he has blocked me. We never once argued, had a fantastic time, we connected deeply in more than one way and now nothing. He cannot even speak to me! What do I do? I have been so upset and sad over this. I really thought we were going somewhere.

admin

January 29, 2015 at 2:57 pm

Have you been in NC at all?
jane

January 29, 2015 at 7:42 pm

When he sent me the email he said that he is nervous as he does not see us as a 100% match and therefore will not have any contact with me. I have sent messages as i could not comprehend his coldness. He has not responded.

N

January 27, 2015 at 6:33 pm

This guy and I dated for six months, then out of nowhere lost interest and gave me the full blackout treatment. My friends have been harassing him (against my better judgement) but he’s just ignoring them too. I know this is annoying him, but is it doing more harm than good?

admin

January 28, 2015 at 3:18 pm

Usually these things don’t happen just out of nowhere.

Think hard, what was going wrong in the relationship?

Nia

January 26, 2015 at 6:14 am

Hi I never do this but hope I get a reply..I have been dating a guy since August and we had sex I’d say in September I rejected his advances and didn’t budge until I wanted to have sex.Anyway he was a perfect gentlemen at first but I started to notice a few thing that were red flags to me like him being rude to waiters and had an arrogant demeanor but still a sweet guy at the same time..He would get mad over trivial things in my opinion and that was a problem for me but I would still see him being that it was a long distance relationship sort of and I valued our time which he’d BEG for every couple of weeks..Anywho he has been my first disappearing/reappearing guy experience and he has just got tired of it and told him it was over which I’ve said before but never really followed through..He would say anything from I love you to I want you to have my baby to I want you to live with me and confided in me about a lot of his troubles and his life period…Needless to say we had built a great connection but it’s like he would disappear after we would have a great time together that is if we didn’t argue and the visit get cut short ;(!He blocked me today after randomly msging me for the first time since Wed.It is Sunday And he responded K Cool After I told him Game over as a result of being disgusted with the way he handles me.I did not see his msg for one but when I didn’t reply to his “wyd” msg within 20 min he goes Oh ok cool and then it said you cannot respond to this conversation and he is not able to be searched by me so it dawned on me that he actually blocked me and I’m so hurt but kind of feel like I had a right to not allow myself to be taken for granted…I told him it was over in hopes he would have some sort of ” I don’t wanna lose her” epiphany but I’m blocked…Any thoughts?Is this truly the end?N

admin

January 26, 2015 at 4:13 pm

You will get a reply!

Are you blocked full out or are there still methods in which you can get contacted.
Nia

January 27, 2015 at 6:17 am

Hi,Thanks ! I really enjoyed what I read thanks for doing this and yea he follows me on Tango I’m not blocked from there as of yet and he has my Email as well..I haven’t tried to connect with him in any way..No contact rule to the 10th power ;( I’m so offended and was tired of the games..so why do I feel like I did something wrong after I gave him so many chances?shrugs shoulders…Anyway yes there are other ways we could contact one another…

goldstar

January 24, 2015 at 12:06 pm

Hi I have been blocked a month after the break up . We had decided three day s ago we would have no contact and I had not contacted him since. What do you think happened in this case ans what shall I do

admin

January 26, 2015 at 3:10 pm

Well, it seems like the two of you agreed to go into NC.

EmotionalGirl

January 22, 2015 at 4:54 pm

My ex said lets be friends i refused and start no contact. I broke no contact after 2 weeks and contacted him from facebook. He became mad he said im playing with emotions. The reason why i broke no contact is i tought he blocked me on whatsapp. But he said he deleted whatsapp. Anyway next day after this event ( he implied he is done with me) he blocked me on whatsapp . I texted from facebook why he did this. I suggest talk about what i did to him and why he is angry with me. ( because i found it stupid, he dumbed me then he said he loves me then he said we cant be more then friends but he was talking with me everyday. Ibstopped talking with him first we said mean words to eachother but then he chased me little bit. Im fool i talked with him again after his attention but 3 days later he said we are friends again. Then i started no contact. Im trying to say how can i play with his feelings? He playes with mines.) Still there is no response about why he blocked me on whatsapp or why he is angry with me. Im so regret right now because you suggest no confront. I wish i could read this before sending that text. Im scaring, i hope he wont block ne on facebook too. Is it too late to start no contact? Sorry for my english im not native speaker.

admin

January 23, 2015 at 4:11 pm

It’s ok, you can’t change the past but you can affect the future.

Its not too late for NC.
EmotionalGirl

January 25, 2015 at 12:39 am

Thanx for reply you are the best. Your posts are very helpfull 🙂
EmotionalGirl

February 5, 2015 at 8:31 am

Hey it is me again 🙂

After he blocked me on whatsapp I started no contact. His last text was he does not want to talk me nowadays. But yesterday (5 days after his messages) he made himself in a relationship on facebook.

I want to explain my situation clearly. A month ago when I stopped talking with him first time he met with a girl next day, he knew her like a year. I did not care about it. He tried to talk with me again but after an argument I stopped connecting again. Like I typed before I broke no contact in 2 weeks and he said he wants to forget me. Then blocked me on whatsapp. He never mention about this girl and still he added ”nowadays” in his last message.

Now he is dating with that girl. I asked how he can claim he is a loyal person. He said he did not cheat, I stoped talking with him. I asked if he loves her and his response was yes. Then I said I dont believe it and I know it is a rebound relationship, I know he loves me. We were texting from FB, after my words he blocked me on facebook too. Should I give up?
EmotionalGirl

February 6, 2015 at 3:32 pm

I really need advice, should I give up and try to move on?

heena

January 18, 2015 at 4:41 am

my relationship with him is of 5 yrs+ and v had a rocky one. still v were together and then he felt m not right for him and he starte talking of break up n all. sp after this new year i started with nc but after 12 days i saw that on fb he added new pics with many girls and he went for a night out with those girls. he deleted me from his fb account before that but never added me back even after requesting him alot. then on the day v fought after 12days nc his granny died and he blames me sayin i killed her and its my curse that is causing harm to his family. so he went to his village and today after 2 days when i called him he just blocked me on calls, sms, whatsapp and m not in this fb list.. its a complete blockage.. what to do? how to get unblock by him and start good conversation with him.. plz help me…
Jordan

January 16, 2015 at 4:29 am

Hi Chris,

So after an extensive back and forth of getting back together and breaking up after our initial breakup and (I suppose) an eventual breakup that was horrible, my boyfriend of 9 months and I decided to officially break up in late October; however we remained in contact and we were still having sex on and off — the sex and spending the night together stopped in maybe mid to late November but we remained in contact until I decided to implement the no contact rule. Today when the no contact time was over I texted him — he’s a college athlete so I sent him a cute picture that stated the season was starting accompanied by the text “I was online and I spotted this picture and thought of you– I told you before you’d be great this season and I know you will.” I waited 3 hours for a response before checking my phone, and when I did I realized that he blocked me. I had very strong urges to act desperately and message him on facebook all other social media but I resisted. I haven’t tried to contact him since that text because I feel that he maybe needs more time. But I really need to know where to go from here. He’s a stubborn guy and won’t like to admit to being wrong, and his reaction is starting to worry me that the technique won’t work on him. PLEASE HELP!

admin

January 19, 2015 at 3:45 pm

Hmm… He may have blocked you to hide you from someone he is seeing?
Jordan

January 16, 2015 at 3:44 pm

UPDATE: he’s already unblocked me. I’M SO CONFUSED!!
admin

January 19, 2015 at 3:45 pm

Well, thats great news!!!!!

Kay

January 7, 2015 at 2:36 am

Hey Chris!

me and my ex of 7 months broke up a month and some ago. i have made so many mistakes. i begged i pleaded, i even left his house crying on day when he wanted to talk. his people thing im a perfect match for him, and he should still want to be with me. they think he is crazy about me.

but i believe he isnt, i believe he like another girl. and he has changed his number, due to my cousin fussing at him about liking another girl. so, we have talked before he changed his number and he wanted to be friends or good friends. but we couldnt have a realtionship.

he stated his feelings changed and things that happened made things worse, i felt like i pushed him into that girl arms. he has so much negative thoughts about me. but i respected he still wanted to be my friend. but i wanted/ want a relationship.

i know the world does not revolve around him, i just want him because i feel like we have had more good times than bad times. but i feel like i drug him to the point he doesnt want me anymore. at one point of time we was arguing he said ” i dont want a relationship with you anymore period.” then other times he wants to talk about us.

we were highschool sweethearts and we went onto campus together. school start up in like two weeks, and i still talk to his family and before he changed his number he still talked to mine. i figure my actions after the breakup drove him away, instead of closer.

he told me he still love me and he cares, and he doesnt mind being there for me. but he changed his number and he did not give it to me. i think he doesnt want anything to do with me because of what my cousin did (which would text and fuss with him all the time about me) and he told her to lose his number and she did all this without my permission and without my knowing.

do you think in some way i can change all this negativity? and we may be back together through time like my friends, family, and his family and friends are saying? or maybe they do not know him like they think they do. we broke up over something that couldve been talked out. no cheating or anything. but maybe with all my negativity ( like my mom says) im driving him into the arms of another girl.

can you please help me !

admin

January 19, 2015 at 2:56 pm

Sure, tell me specifically what you have done so far?

Maria

December 19, 2014 at 7:45 am

So, my ex unblocked me after a month, but during that month I sent him a ton of emails, and he hasn’t said anything since he unblocked me. I just read this post lol I wish I would’ve read this before. 🙁
Grace

December 16, 2014 at 2:12 am

Hi Chris,
Me and my ex boyfriend dating for 3 years. It’s a week after we broke up. I made a mistake that he can not handle anymore, he said he tired of me. Few days ago, I asked him to give me some times to me for changed my behavior and when I finally can handle myself I want to get beack with him, but he said no. He wont be with me anymore in a polite way, he said that he is very tired with me. He blocked me on facebook and twitter, he said that he didnt want to check up on me anymore. He said that he still loves me but he is trying not to. I really messed up the situation. Is that any way that I can do to get him back?

Thank you 🙂
Maria

December 15, 2014 at 11:48 pm

I just finished my LDR after 4 months just recently its been a week and it was him who told me that.He said that he will unfriend me at Facebook but its more about him So After 5 days i just realised that he blocked me and i was shocked. Outside of the blue i notice that i Can see him Online at Skype and Available at Whats app.We dont text each other at all.

P.s i really want to email Chris my story you will find it interesting (asking for some sanity too because i am having a hard moment)
sammy

November 25, 2014 at 1:44 am

I am separated from my fiance 5 months ago and its a long distance. I was successful in making contact with him but suddenly he ignores me and now he has changed the number also. I am really confused exactly what to do because there is only one option of email for me to contact him. I dont want to look desparate and ask his friends for his number. But should I contact him through email? I would be glad if you give me some advice in this situation. I feel very miserable without him.

admin

November 25, 2014 at 3:06 pm

What caused the breakup with your fiance?

HopelessLover

November 1, 2014 at 4:41 pm

what if your blocked from facebook but was in long distance relationship(different continents USA and Germany) so the only other way of communications is email and skype
Olivia

October 30, 2014 at 7:08 pm

He unblocked me, but doesn`t text me. What to do?

admin

November 3, 2014 at 3:20 pm

Have you tried initiating the texts?
Olivia

November 3, 2014 at 3:24 pm

No, but what can I say – Hey, you are unblocked me! Thank you 😀 or stay waiting for some reaction from him? 🙂

Evea

October 29, 2014 at 2:46 am

My relationship

I’ve know him since college 2 years ago been seeing each other for a year, we have had many arguments about some stupidly little things but we have never had a proper breakup, I told him something bad about his meant to be”best friend” he then got really angry at me and said don’t talk bad about him. We been arguing about it for a month or so, I said sorry to him for making him angry and “I just want to friends” he didn’t answer my message, he was reading them but mostly ignoring them, I brought up the thing about his friend again and he then said “don’t bother messaging me again” he didn’t block me but then I heard he was talking about me with my friend asking if I was okay. She also said he seemed to miss me, I tried messaging him again 2 times asking about it and he then blocked me. I’m also his first so he’s rather immature, he’s blocked me off Facebook but not sure about anything else, we always talk on FB because he never has credit

Thank you

admin

October 29, 2014 at 3:51 pm

He hasn’t blocked your number?
Evea

October 29, 2014 at 7:21 pm

I’m not sure yet, I did text him being angry at him, I lost my temper we both have kinda sort tempers, I I didn’t get anything back from him but didn’t get an eorror message either

Kelly

October 29, 2014 at 1:38 am

What if he still has you blocked completely after the 30 day contact !
Or maybe he’s still angry and not replying ? This ones conffusinh
And no he didn’t contact me. At all during the 30days this made me wanna go longer

admin

October 29, 2014 at 3:49 pm

Your on full out block like with everything?

elba

October 21, 2014 at 2:32 am

My Relationship
Length: 7 yrs…8 next week…hopefully
My problem: trust, passive, can’t let go, a bit insecure, “too many feelings”
His problem: believes my feelings= an argument or a problems, avoidance, 3 jobs, no time for me
Our problems: lack of compromising and communication, pride, trust, friends

Recently, I’ve been feeling angry and upset and would just like to talk to him but about the relationship. He says he has no time for it and does not want to argue. I ask do you want to be with me because you’re not acting like it. No answer. I believed it was over. I called the next day…no success in conversation as I wanted to fix the relationship. I kept on being dismissed by being cut off when I speak and cursed at for no reason. I said look “where you’re at and look where I’m at” pertaining to goals in life and I have not heard from him since and have been blocked by phone for about 5 days. How long should I be patient?. I’ll be meeting with his sister to get an outsiders perspective in how I should understand him better. Is that a good idea when he does not know about this?
Anonymous

October 15, 2014 at 12:44 am

Chris,
My ex and I dated for almost 2 years and I was his first girlfriend. We broke up because he believed I wasn’t the one. I had graduated college and he still had two more years so I guess it makes sense. We were still on good terms until the summer then he started getting mean and trying to make me jealous of another girl who he claimed to really like but she rejected him months prior. When I saw him, I made sure I looked good and followed some of your suggestions in getting a healthier lifestyle. However, when he/my ex saw me, he moped around all weekend, avoided me, then partially blocked me (only SnapChat) the day after I left. I have since then completed the 30 day NC rule and he has not unblocked me or tried to contact me. It has been over a month since he blocked me on Snapchat. I know it’s only an application block but Snapchat is more personal than Facebook I think. The decision of whether or not to talk to him is driving me crazy especially since it’s been over a month of no contact and even though he’s single, I feel like time is running out. I guess my question is, do you believe that there is there any hope to me trying to talk to him or get him back or should I just leave him alone and let him be mad/emotional at me and move on?

admin

October 27, 2014 at 2:35 pm

Leave him be for right now.

Like you said, you are only blocked through snapchat so its no big deal.

kary

October 13, 2014 at 4:33 am

So I found out that my ex wrote about me online so I broke my 30 day rule. And I text him and told him it hurt me that he did that. He responded with he was hurt by me breaking up with him and that he needs space from me. Which is fine. But does the fact that responded to me show me anything? Or am I just over thinking. Also he took down his post that he wrote about me.
andrea

October 8, 2014 at 11:04 pm

What if he blocks you right after he broke up with you? I think he blocked me right at the moment when we were face to face because he did something on his phone. Like, i didn’t even beg or plead, obviously i did right after two days which is bad. I called him from another number and asked if we could talk later, he said yes but i called and called and he never answered me. We were together for a year and 4 months..we had a lot of firsts in our relationship, it was really serious but by the end it got rocky.
either way,
I’ve stopped begging and pleading to get some closure because hes not giving me any, hes not giving me answers.
He broke up with me because said he lost a connection but i think he was just confused about his feelings. Or maybe he thought we would keep on fighting, He would tell me he wants to be with me just to tell me 30 min later he doesnt think its fair to be with me when he doesnt feel the same?
so many things he said i dont even know.
I just started NC but i really get the need to talk to him.

admin

October 9, 2014 at 1:44 pm

Hes just reacting to the emotions that go along with the breakup most likely.

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