What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You On (The Phone, Facebook, WhatsApp, Etc)

2,553 thoughts on “What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You”

Garui

February 20, 2015 at 8:16 pm

My ex has blocked my phone numbers, but not on FB. He reads all of messages, but never replies back. I am on day 5 of the No Contact rule.

admin

February 21, 2015 at 12:05 am

Did you listen to my podcast on blocking?

B.

February 19, 2015 at 12:14 pm

my ex blocked all of my numbers, but haven’t blocked me on FB
He reads my messages, but does not reply.

admin

February 20, 2015 at 11:21 pm

Well, you might need to let some time go by before you can get him to reply.

MizzNatalie

February 19, 2015 at 3:08 am

been in NC for 10 days… the last message he wrote me saying he wanted me to be happy, that I deserve the best, that he’s been ignoring me for 3 weeks so I can learn to live without him as live goes on and we learn, break, love, rebuild, etc, etc… I just feel like if he didn’t care he wouldn’t be so sweet. or maybe those are key words that he’s really done done done done done. He’s going to be gone from the country for a few months… do I wait until then to even try to communicate with him? I’ve been blocked on phone and FB most due to the fact that I went crazy, and then my ex best friend got involved and talked a lot of trash about me, mainly out of her jealousy, been a hard breakup losing two people now… my friends tell me to just wait it out. thoughts? do I wait 30 days or just keep it up for a few months? and I just feel the need to apologize and have been advised to just chill out and send a quick message.. thanks. I feel like such a dumb dumb emotional wreck. getting hot in the meantime tho and trying to focus on other productive things 😉

admin

February 20, 2015 at 11:09 pm

Wait, youve been NC for ten days but hes been ignoring you for 3 weeks?

Doesn’t that mean youve been NC for three weeks?
MizzNatalie

February 22, 2015 at 4:52 am

Yes well he emailed me after the 3 weeks after I begged and pleaded Bc im pathetic, oh well I moved on from hating myself, saying he wanted me to be happy and I deserve better and the reason he was ignoring me was so I could learn to live without him. Any chance at friends ever? He won’t respond to that question…

I also learned my ex best friend told him a ton a ton of negative shit about me. Pretty sure she was super jealous and apologized to me later on so guessing that’s also scared him away. I let long distance get the better of me and just want to be friends. We have so many common interests and it’s upsetting the door is shut. Is it wrong to reach out in a couple months ?
admin

February 20, 2015 at 11:09 pm

Wait, youve been NC for ten days but hes been ignoring you for 3 weeks?

Doesn’t that mean youve been NC for three weeks?

Ashley

February 18, 2015 at 1:35 am

Hi! I recently posed on an another article of yours but I didn’t think to ask about this when I sent the comment. What if he has blocked me from social media, but hasn’t blocked me from the phone? Is there any good that can come from that? And what if there is a possibility he is using Tinder or websites like that? Does that also mean anything? Thank you for your time!

admin

February 18, 2015 at 9:42 pm

Yes, the phone in my opinion is a lot more powerful and personal than social media.

Angela

February 16, 2015 at 10:58 pm

Hi Chris, this was a great, helpful read. My situation is confusing, I met a guy (let’s call him ‘D’) a couple of months ago, and we exchanged phone numbers/Facebook info. Over the course of a month, we started texting and communicating via FB, in a casual, getting to know each other sort of way. We only saw each other at a couple of social gatherings, and he would spend his time talking to me, asking me questions about myself, staying near me. No big deal, as far as I assumed. I was interested in another guy, and thought of ‘D’ as a cool friend. The next time we saw each other (again in a social setting), he walked me out to my car and we talked. Again, thinking of him as a friend, I shared with him something about my feelings for the other guy, and he seemed slightly surprised that I liked that guy. But, he was encouraging and the conversation seemed to go well. I suggested we hang out sometime, but I clearly told him not as a date, because I wasn’t looking to date at that point in time while I was figuring out things with the other guy, but if he was interested in doing something as friends, or with a group, he could let me know. A couple of days later, he bombarded me with text messages about how he doesn’t want to get too close to anyone, he should have been honest and up front about the fact that he is in the middle of a messy, devastating divorce (complete news to me, but upon further investigation, it was true!), that he needs to have space and not communicate while he figured things out and let the divorce play out. I told him I thought we were just friends and I would have been respectful of his situation had I known he was in such a situation, and I apologized for making him think I was interested in him beyond friendship. He said I didn’t, he just didn’t want to be distracted while he was putting his life back together. I told him if he had developed any feelings for me then I thought it would be best for him to step back as well, to which he said ‘oh, cool, thank you!’
After we ended the strange text messages, I blocked him on FB and on my phone for about 3 weeks. I unblocked in the 4th week, and sent him a new request on FB to add him as a friend. I never once texted him, or even added a message in the request, I just thought maybe we could be mature and try to start a friendship again. And after I sent the request, he disappeared from FB, but he is still on my friends page, which tells me he blocked me. Um…I still cannot figure out what I did to make him do that…any insight? Honestly, I am okay with him not being in my life, especially if his own life is full of craziness and instability. But, I’d like to learn whatever the lesson is from this as I move on…was it me? Or was it him? Did I lead him on, or hurt his feelings when I said I wasn’t interested in him? Or when I blocked him to give him space? I’m still very confused by this…thanks for your help!!

admin

February 17, 2015 at 12:37 pm

Maybe it was retaliation for blocking him?
Angela

February 18, 2015 at 2:20 am

Thanks for the reply! It probably is retaliation, oh well! 🙂 We will either move past it or we won’t!
admin

February 18, 2015 at 9:46 pm

Good attitude!

lisa

February 16, 2015 at 7:51 pm

my guy block me from whatsapp because I told him it’s best for us to be friends. I didn’t mean it I was mad at him for not spending enough time with me which I explained to him all the time. What should I do to get him back?
Emily doerksen

February 15, 2015 at 5:27 pm

So not per se my ex, but yeah my ex who was never made official for a lot of complications throughout our relationship has told me to never talk to him. He was the first guy I had ever been with in all ways haha. We met first year university and he cheated on his girlfriend at the time with me. After that we kind of had a weird off and on relationship where we never admitted our feelings. We were seeing each other exclusively before the summer and when we both went home (were from opposite ends of the country) he stopped talking to me. We had a conversation later on and then I got really clingy and thought we would be together in the fall. He ignored me for months and then when we got back finally admitted to having a new girlfriend and that he didn’t want me to be hung up on him. I did NC and then we started hanging out again and he confessed his love for me and cheated on his girlfriend with me (alrhough we never had sex) and would tell me how crazy he was about me and that he could see us dating and all these things. He even told me if I had been around when he met his current girlfriend he wouldn’t even have looked her way. He convinced me he would be leaving her during Christmas break and obviously didn’t. I found out and basically spent the night crying to him he slept over for some reason but we didn’t do anything. The next time we hung out I told him he can’t sleep over or tell me he loves me or anything anymore and that we can only be friends. After that for the next three weeks whenever I asked him to hang out he ignored me the whole week only to come up with some new excuse. I got mad and told him I was tired of how one sided our relationship and even went so far to call it abusive. And then he was ignoring me so of course I freaked out and my emotions were everywhere so some texts were nice and some mean. Fonally, I told him that although I wouldn’t seeing as I was the only other person who knew he’d been cheating on his girlfriend it’s kinda stupid of his to treat me this way. He got really mad and told me he wasn’t used to staying close to people who act like this and if sabatoging his life and relationship would bring me comfort that’s my call. He then called me and told me he told his girlfriend everything so I wouldn’t get that, and told me that lie realatipnship has gone on too long and told me to never text or call him again. Obviously I’m incredibly upset. I only acted that way because I was desperate for him to choose me. I don’t know how to fix it but it’s all I want. I haven’t talked to him since which was two weeks ago. Is there a way to fix this? Or is it that he seems really done this time? I can’t see him talking to me either way if he’s still with this same girl.

Emily doerksen

February 18, 2015 at 5:15 pm

Basically, I just want to know If I should wait more than thirty days or even bother at all. I don’t want to go back to him if I’m just genna make a fool of myself. Also thatnk you so much this site is incredible!
admin

February 18, 2015 at 10:05 pm

You are very welcome Emily!

30 days seems perfect for you.
Emily doerksen

February 19, 2015 at 2:49 am

When i contact him again should I apologize for what I’ve done or just send a casual text? This guy is really weird he’s not a great communicator with anybody. He didn’t delete me off snapchat but he doesn’t have Facebook so if he’s blocked me I’m screwed! And thanks for your advice I appreciate it a lot 🙂
Emily

February 24, 2015 at 2:27 pm

Okay I read this again. I would say although not exactly the closest scenario I would be at this point is that friend you had who harassed you. Would it still be wise to message him after 3o days? I don’t want to lose him forever I would rather wait much longer than have him back right now.

Amber Jones

February 15, 2015 at 1:03 am

Hi My boyfriend and I broke up after 3years. We had a bad argument and he decided he wanted to end things in its entirety. He has blocked me on social media and even deleted 90 percent of my photos off his page. I broke down after thinking I would get over him and try the no contact rule. But, I gave in and texted him. Him and I text quite a bit, sometimes it’s just casual and sometimes it’s me expressing how u feel. He did tell me that he still loves me and is still in love with me, but, came to the conclusion that we can not be together. Over the course of three years, we fought alot. Argument after argument. But, somehow we always ended back together. But, this time it feels different. I think this is finally it and it saddens me a great deal! I have not been fully blocked..he hasn’t blocked me from his email or phone. But, twitter,fb and linkedin. He told me he wants to move on and that he won’t be able to do so, if he keeps in contact with me. He has made it clear that he doesn’t want us to be together anymore because he got tired of fighting all the time. Some of his actions don’t match up to his words. If I text him, he responds right away. He wanted to see me two weeks ago. But, I was unable to do so, due to work. I wanted to see him a few days ago, and asked if we could meet, he agreed. But, the timing was off, so it never happened. I don’t feel he is trying his best to get over me. Because he loves me alot and the only way he can do that is if he doesn’t see my face because it will bring back old feelings. Is this a bad sign? I haven’t heard of him dating anyone. But, it wouldn’t surprise me if he started. But, I don’t think he could be all into the other woman, if he still loves me and is in love with me (his words). I have made the decision to give him what he wants and not contact him anymore. I’m going to do the no contact for 30days, and see how that works out. I am hoping that somehow he will start to gather feelings again for me and try to see if we can make it work out. I’m scared that he will move on and I’ll be left heart broken because I love him so much! We have been through a lot, and has always been there for each other. I do feel if I needed a favor, depending on what it is. He would help me. Is there an open window, if your ex tells you that he still loves you and in love with you, still responds to your text, even though it’s not initiated by him? He hasn’t blocked me on his phone or email. But, deleting my pictures off his page, tells me he wants to get rid of his memory of me. Do you think there can possibly be a chance? Or is it a done deal? Please help! I’m so torn!
Loraine

February 13, 2015 at 5:06 pm

Ok so I messed up big time and wish I read this page sooner, me and my ex had been dating for around 8 years we met in high school were 22 now I was his first girlfriend and his first for everything as he was mine, he broke up with me about 3 weeks ago and told me he was unsure of his feelings and doesn’t know what he wants out of life he said he doesn’t want me or a relationship anymore, that he loves me but not as much as he used to and that the spark was fading, I was thrown off seeing as he did this over the phone, he refused to see me to talk in person, and told me it’s over and to just accept it, and then he said I can make this real easy for you and blocked my number right after our conversation. I was able to make it around 11 days being blocked with no contact and then I cracked I changed my cell phone number and wanted to start fresh with my life then I lost all control and phoned/ txtd him from my new number which is now blocked again, I actually can’t belive how bad I screwed this up he probably thinks I’m so crazy right now and is laughing at me I feel like a fool for trying to talk to him again, the last message I sent to him was just that this entire situation terrifies me and I’m sorry for contacting him it’s just so weird not talking to him sometimes and that I promise to never contact him again and I feel like an idiot for even sending this txt and then immediately after that I was blocked…… I am so embarrassed and feel like a fool for doing this, what the hell do I do now….
Tammy

February 12, 2015 at 8:31 am

Hi, I have a question and I was hoping you could answer. My ex and I got into a big fight and we broke up a little over a month ago. I blocked him on facebook as I was extremely angry (long story short I did exactly as you predicted with your flow chart) sent him a long message of why I was angry and that I didn’t want to see him again, said some sh*tty things in that too which I totally feel silly for and regret, and I blocked hid phone number, I also deleted him off snapchat (except my snapchat stories were public meaning he could see it, please note I have no idea how to change this haha) for the first week we had broken up we didn’t talk and every so often I’d update my snapchat story on the things I was doing, ect and after a few days I noticed my ex would look at all my stories which gives me the impression he was interested in what I was doing after the break up. After a week though, I caved and tried to contact him by calling him. It didn’t go well and he hung up straight away which sucked so I messaged him and told him I was sorry for what I said ect. he didn’t reply so I’m not sure but it’s possible he blocked my number then. and I noticed a few days later he wasn’t viewing my snapchat stories any more so I’m assuming he blocked me on that. since then I’ve gone no contact and it’s been a little over 30 days since I’ve spoken to him. I unblocked him on facebook a few nights ago and his number too. I’m not sure if he’s unblocked me from snapchat or my number and I don’t think he noticed I un blocked him. now I want to reestablish communication with him. I want to send him a message on Facebook (using the techniques you’ve given in your awesome articles. also I know you’re really big on texting but texting was not a common way of communicating for my ex and I. facebook is how I and most if the people I know communicate with each other hehe so that’s the way I want to go) but I’m afraid that once I try to reach out to him he’ll block me on that too. How can I prevent this? And what should I do if this occurs? what should I say?

Thank you 🙂

admin

February 16, 2015 at 10:14 pm

I think in this particular case Facebook would be ideal!

Only because that is the norm for you guys.

That is like texting for you two.

Uni

February 12, 2015 at 6:26 am

What if he is not an ex but a friend? We just met and hung out, kissed, both had an intense chemistry and mental connection. He is very busy and 6 years younger than myself, but mentally seems older.

However, I chased him too hard. Soon after an intense conversation, he deleted me off one of his FB’s (hs business one that he never uses) and I sort of freaked out on the phone with him. He was surprised it was such a big deal to me. He rarely updates his.

I deactived my entire facebook and the next day he deactived his personal FB account. So I showed up at his place, and he said he didn’t even notice that I deleted mine, he just felt like going off the grid because he had so much work. We talked and decided to start fresh and take our friendship slow. He told me to text him when I got home and I did, glad we talked. He said me, too. That was the last I heard from him (6 days ago). The day after our talk he deleted his personal facebook and his business facebook.

Is the fb deletion really because he doesn’t care about such things, or does it have somethimg to do with me?
What is going on and what do I do?
Devon

February 9, 2015 at 9:06 pm

hi, me and my ex boyfriend has been going out for 5 years we split early last year because he was texting another girl and then eventually got back after 4 months. we was doing fine and then i became ill since december last year and the doctors were not listening and kept sending me away, i had no energy to do anything and just felt down (probably moody and a bit naggy) i recently end of January this year me and my ex had a argument because of something i put on snapchat(like social network) but was never meant to hurt him i just went out for dinner with my dad but he took it the wrong way even though he knew i wouldn’t cheat on him or anything. he then kept delaying the time to speak to me about it all, then i went into hospital because i had severe anaemia and had to have a blood transfusion. He came and saw me and when i came out we talked and he said he wanted me to get better first then we could sort us both out but we were fine and that he loved me and i was his girl and so on. Then i saw him4 days later and he finished me because of this argument we had and he doesn’t think i will change. he then text me 3 days later asking how i was and to let him know how the hospital went and i did not reply, then sunday he text me saying when i wanted to meet him for our things and i have not replied, but now i have been on Facebook and he has blocked me.I don’t know what to do because i love him and want to get him back

admin

February 10, 2015 at 3:43 pm

Are you just blocked from Facebook or are you blocked on the phone and other mediums too?
Devon

February 10, 2015 at 7:06 pm

hi, thankyou for replying i am just blocked from Facebook but he text me friday and i ignored it, he text me sunday asking when i was going to meet him to give our things back and then text me again this morning asking me to please speak to him and its only been a week since the break up.
admin

February 11, 2015 at 1:48 pm

You are allowed to break NC to give your things back.
devon

February 12, 2015 at 1:10 pm

thank you i know but i don’t want to see him at the moment, i want to make a difference in myself and show him that i have changed. it was over something so little and he was not there to support me as in myself when i felt so down and ill, fair enough he helped me by taking me to the hospital and so on but was not there for me. I just don’t know what to think with him texting me 3 messages in a week of breaking up. also when i left his house as he broke up with me he text me saying he loved me :s
Devon

February 11, 2015 at 2:21 pm

I just don’t know what to do. Why contact me 3 times in a week of the break up? I want him back and for him to realise that it was a silly little argument and that I am now better so I can be myself and I have changed.

Huang

February 4, 2015 at 6:18 am

Hi, my bf and I were in a long distance relationship. We were suppose to meet when he came back, after 5 months. He was eager to meetup immediately after he came back and texted me to arrange but something happened to his family and we couldn’t meetup. He promised he would call me that night. I texted him to make sure his family was ok and waited for him to call. However, he did not. Naturally, I was upset as I really missed him and was eager to hear his voice. The next day, I texted an angry message saying that I felt unloved and he ignored me. The following few days, i texted him everyday asking what happened to him and was starting to get really worried as he continued to ignore me. One week later, he texted back and it felt very cold. He said that he felt like we had lost connection due to time and distance. Due to the week long ignorance, I was prepared that he would end it. I apologied for the things he said that he felt I hurt him and asked him if we could still meet as friends. He said ok but see first when. I asked him if it was ok if I pestered him to meetup and he said ok and then I ended it by saying that I hope we can meetup sooner rather than later as the meetup would serve as a conclusion for me. However, I did not contact him at all since. Here is where I need your help. On the day we ended, he posted some childhood photos a few hours later on wechat. I saw it but did not do anything about it. I was feeling hurt as well. I decided to apply no contact to him and probably like the pic on day 21. However, on day 14, he suddenly hid his album on wechat from me, which I don’t understand why. I am the type who does not post comments and definitely won’t spam his pictures. I will usually just like his pics. What do you think is the reason for this behaviour? Should I text him after 21 days, or should I still wait until 30 days? Is there still hope? Today is day 17 of no contact and since the day we ended.

admin

February 4, 2015 at 2:25 pm

Wait the full 30 days.
Huang

February 4, 2015 at 2:46 pm

Is this a bad sign that he has hid his album in wechat from me? But he has not blocked me from sending messages. Just some background info, wechat is our usual form of communication and he does not use fb.
admin

February 5, 2015 at 3:01 pm

I would say its not a bad sign .. He hasnt blocked you from sending messages.
Huang

February 19, 2015 at 11:58 am

It’s been slightly over 30 days now. I tried to send a text to him via wechat today but I realised that actually he did not hide his album from me but he deleted me from his wechat. I need to send a friend verification code in order for my text to be received. I did that since its been 30 days with the text included. But I guess that this is a very bad sign and it seems he has moved on from day 14. What should I do now if he does not reply to my text or add me back as friend?
Huang

February 9, 2015 at 11:27 am

Thanks for your insight. Just one more thing, my ex bf schedule is such that his rest day is on Sunday and the rest of the days he is usually very busy to the point where he might not have the time or energy to read text messages. I was thinking of texting him on day 28 instead, on his rest day. Can I text him on day 28 or should I still persist till day 30? Regardless if he has the time or energy to process what to reply me on his work day?

Tuma

February 2, 2015 at 11:09 pm

Hi,
Me and my boyfriend live in the same house.Its an apartment so its me, him and his sister. We had a fight about two months ago and he blocked me on kik. Then we started talking(in person) and everything was just fine.O n New Years I sent him a message saying happy new year on Facebook ,he read it then blocked me without replying.When he came back home he acted like nothing happened and started kissing me. After that we was okay and today he blocked me again on his phone.

admin

February 3, 2015 at 1:19 pm

Very hot and cold this guy…

Are you missing something?

Is this not out of the blue as you think?

Beth

February 2, 2015 at 7:52 pm

Is there anyway to get an ex back if you have broke up multiple time and broke the rules listed above and contacted him and he put in place the full block after the contact?

admin

February 3, 2015 at 1:07 pm

Yes there is but you really have some work to do.

sweetha

February 2, 2015 at 2:18 pm

He close friend cut there friendship because of he breakup me but i haven’t anything i don’t know who say wit her and my ex call me scould me i feel hurting he knew i haven’t do that but still he angry with me and say i am the enemy for him in life i m crying try to tell my situation but not hear that.then i call to he’s friend she ask to me what happen to you n he?thaen i say we got some problem first he talk with one girl like him sister i knew but all in college tell they are couples so i can’t take it and tell to him don’t talk with she he also agree then after few days i need to tell the truth why i asking him to won’t talk with she and he also give some advice me then we ok ready,suddenly the next week we got problem again he not spend time to me so i ask to spend with me but he not then we got fight afret that he tell why he not spend time to me then we are again ok ready .then the following week i just kidding him he take it serieus then he angry with me after 2days we talk like normal but suddenly he say want breakup with me.Then she say why she want cut his friendship when he started to love me she tell to him “if u breakup she i will cut your friendship” but he think i m the one make problem for they bouth.Now this week saturday she want meet me n he to talk about this all i don’t know what will be happen?this is my problem now i can’t contact him because he block me all side ready but i want him,i still love him.Give me idea to get him back to me….
sweetha

February 2, 2015 at 1:38 pm

I hope u will reply to me.Last week monday me n my boyfriend breakup ready.i say i want him in my life n talk to him but after 4 days he will block me in facebook and no any contact i can’t contact also but i wan’t him don’t know what to do for that.No any contact with us how can i get him back?i wan’t him please help me…

admin

February 3, 2015 at 12:56 pm

How long have you been in NC?
sweetha

February 4, 2015 at 1:40 am

No,I still try to talk but today still i haven’t do anyting
sweetha

February 4, 2015 at 2:05 am

NC ONE DAY

sweetha

February 2, 2015 at 1:36 pm

I hope u will reply to me.Last week monday me n my boyfriend breakup ready.i say i want him in my life n talk to him but after 4 days he will block me in facebook and no any contact i can’t contact also but i wan’t him don’t know what to do for that.No any contact with us how can i get him back?i wan’t him please help me

admin

February 2, 2015 at 2:51 pm

Well, you are already in NC correct?
sweetha

February 4, 2015 at 1:40 am

yes…what can do for get him back…
sweetha

February 5, 2015 at 1:55 am

What will i do now for get him back?I m already in NC.
admin

February 5, 2015 at 3:32 pm

Your focus should be on having no slip ups during NC.
sweetha

February 6, 2015 at 3:49 am

That means i can’t understand?no slip ups means?
admin

February 6, 2015 at 2:28 pm

Not breaking NC.
sweetha

February 6, 2015 at 2:35 pm

But tomorrow he’s friends want meet me he also must come but the still not confirm.I hope i will in NC 30days….
sweetha

February 6, 2015 at 3:58 am

Ok until 30 days right?
admin

February 6, 2015 at 2:28 pm

yes.
sweetha

February 6, 2015 at 10:43 am

But tomorrow he’s friends want meet to me how?he also come but he don’t know i m coming it’s not i m doing his friends decide to solve our problem.

Lauren

February 1, 2015 at 5:31 pm

I was never officially dating this guy but we had acted like we were dating and kissed a lot. Problem was the first time he kissed me he was dating another woman. After they broke up I had told her because she deserved to know and I felt horrible about it. Turns out she’s really sweet (opposite of what he told me she was like) but she ended up telling him I told her and he got VERY mad at me.. He was messaging me horrible stuff like how i was a wannabe and a freak and stupid (plus a lot of swearing) i pretty much stayed calm and was saying to stop and just leave me alone and that i was done. he kept saying i had nothing to say cause he was right. when i told him to stop again he said “No you started this shit face me like a grown up.” and before i could even reply he blocked me.. (On facebook).. He started dating someone else and is always posting stuff with her. I messaged him off a mutual friends account saying that he needed to stop acting like this and that he had hurt me badly and didn’t even care. He told me I was wasting his time and I said “no I’m wasting MY time on someone who doesn’t even deserve it.” I want him back badly.. I miss him. Even though he was a total dick he was still so kind. I just don’t know how or when to talk to him again

admin

February 2, 2015 at 2:19 pm

How old were the two of you?

He seems like he is acting immature…

Mel

January 29, 2015 at 3:35 am

Hi,
My ex is 35 and I am 25. We were together for 5 months, had basically no contact (he contacted me twice) for one month. Then I contacted him and we were in communication briefly. We saw each other once. Ultimately, he told me it wouldn’t work with us. He sent me a long painful text that this was so hard for him, but he doesn’t trust me and thinks I’m a liar. I can honestly say I have never intended to deceive him- this was a major battle for us that ultimately cause our breakup. I never cheated or blatantly lied. He feels I was not honest about my past relationships. He believes I kept important information from him. I honestly don’t try to think about my past, but he seems to be extremely preoccupied with it and can’t get over it. I have not been with many guys AT ALL. He just feels I gave my heart away to the wrong people made poor discussions and I didn’t tell him theses things right away (I gave him general but he wanted explicit detail). This was when I was a teenager, mind you.
ANYWAY, He blocked my number after a fight (this was when we were already broken up). The fight was because earlier that week, he demanded that I drive four hours to his house and miss work to see him (he wanted to reconcile I believe). He said some pretty horrible things to me after I didn’t respond positively. I didn’t go, and the next day I texted him that I wouldn’t want to see someone that makes me feel so horrible unless I hated myself. I gave him several days to apologize and when he did not, I texted him I was going to block him and to never contact me again. He immediately called me to “apologize”. I felt it was insincere. Long story short, it did not end well. He hung up on me in the middle of the call. It made me so angry that I just texted him a picture that I was about to block his number. I don’t think I meant it, I was just angry. Well he ended up calling me back, saying more mean things and telling me he was going to block ME. Then he hung up. I have not heard from him since.
I sent a couple texts after that, and called but nothing. I know he blocked my number now. I have not tried to contact him in any other form. (He doesn’t use social media and we don’t have that many mutual friends since we met online.) this was almost two months ago. I’ve been very tempted to drive to see him as crazy as that is, but he told me not to. I dont think writing a letter would work, I did that once before when we initially broke up, but he wasn’t as angry then, just sad. I miss him a lot. The stuff he did at the end seemed very very out of his character, which is why I was so hurt and angry at him. In other ways he had everything I am looking for. He was really crazy about me and thoughtful and was always telling me how special I am. I don’t know what to do at this point. I’m still blocked and it’s been close to two months. Way past no contact rule. Advice?

Thank you!

Mel

January 29, 2015 at 7:40 pm

Yes, he blocked my phone number. That is the only way I know to contact him. He doesn’t use social media. Am I completely at his mercy.. Is there ANYTHING I can/should do.
admin

January 30, 2015 at 3:58 pm

What about email?
Mel

January 31, 2015 at 9:39 pm

He told me his email address once but I never had the need to email him. I don’t remember it :(( I’m stuck. I guess my underlying question is if I should continue to put forth the effort if he still hasn’t contacted me by now? I will say he is very hardcore/stubborn and I don’t know if it is just pride, or if he REALLY never wants to see me again.. Like you talked about in your post.
admin

February 2, 2015 at 1:46 pm

How long have you two been breaking up?

Just trying to gauge how long you have been at this.
Mel

February 3, 2015 at 12:59 am

We were on the rocks for a couple months until Mid September, that is when no contact began. During that time he contacted me twice as I mentioned before (saying how much he loves me, special I am etc. but not trying to get back together). About a month and a half later we talked and saw each other at the end of October/beginning of November. We ultimately determined that we really care about each other and would be together in a perfect world but couldn’t seem to find resolve to our constant conflict (my past and the trust issues) There were a handful of moments of contact after that until the final blowup beginning of December. That is the last time I heard from him and when he blocked me. I don’t feel I ever was really “needy” or desperate so in don’t think that is the issue.. He did flip a switch it seems the second time. The first no contact in September we had a mutual understanding and ended peacefully. The last fight was explosive and angry and he blocked me.
Mel

February 3, 2015 at 1:04 am

I’m leaving out quite a bit of detail, but trying to be succinct and get the main thing across.
admin

January 29, 2015 at 3:08 pm

ARe you blocked full out everywhere?

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