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1,957 thoughts on “Why Is My Ex Boyfriend Always Ignoring Me?”

  1. Katie

    May 9, 2018 at 3:57 pm

    Hello! Quick question, got back in touch with my ex yesterday after just short of 3 weeks, and he seemed really receptive, hoped I was looking after myself, wished me luck in my exams and I said I’d let him know how he got on and he said “please do I really want to know”, he wanted to know what I’d been up to etc. He’s on holiday for the rest of the week so I understand he’s busy, but he’s stopped replying and it’s bothered me more than I thought it would. Should I restart no contact at this point and do the full 30 days, or wait to see if he messages me when he’s back (while maintaining no contact)?

    1. Chris Seiter

      May 10, 2018 at 12:05 am

      Hi Katie! Thanks for stopping by, glad to have you! He seems to be pushing back. Perhaps an abbreviated NC…to give him space and an opportunity to initiate contact…then try again.

  2. Paige

    March 18, 2018 at 5:48 pm

    How long is no contact rule if he can reach me haven’t heard from him in 6 months 🙂

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      March 24, 2018 at 4:46 pm

      That’s not a no contact rule anymore.. That means you should move on.

  3. Dawn

    March 17, 2018 at 7:49 pm

    Followed NC from day 2 of being broken up. I only begged him to give me a second chance the night of the actual breakup.
    During NC I worked on myself to be the Ungettable Girl. Lots of inward reflection to not make mistakes going forward, spent time with friends and I’m even starting a new and rewarding job soon.
    At day 21 I sent him a message about how a certain tv show reminded me of him and asked how he was. He responded within the hour. After another hour, I responded with casual chat and after another half hour he indicated he was on a snowboarding trip. I let a few more hours pass before responding again, I saw that he read it right away but said nothing. So after another half hour I asked if he would be open to talking about some things when he was back from vacay and he responded right away saying “ok, I’ll text you when I’m back”. It’s been 2 weeks now and I know he’s home. I’ve just continued to give him his space. I really want to talk to him. How should I proceed? Thank you for your time!

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      March 22, 2018 at 5:54 pm

      Hi Dawn,

      It looks like you rushed it on the first day of texting.. Are you continuously improving yourself and being in posting in social media?

  4. SV

    March 6, 2018 at 4:48 pm

    Hey,

    What if after two months he said he’s still angry with me (but we were exchanging texts after NC). Where do I go from there and is this a form of punishment?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      March 10, 2018 at 4:45 pm

      After two months of texting? Either let him initiate, or move on.

  5. e_y

    February 23, 2018 at 7:38 am

    How to stop texting the ex on Facebook messenger?

    I have deleted his phone number/his whatsapp, so that I can never call or text him as I know (when I am sane) that I shouldn’t and do not want to. However, how can I block myself from contacting him on Facebook Messenger? Deleting or blocking him on FB seems too spiteful. How can I do it without seeming spiteful and preferably not letting him know?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 27, 2018 at 10:00 am

      Hi EY,

      how active are you in your life?

  6. John

    February 22, 2018 at 11:03 pm

    My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 3 months ago. She still messaged me everyday until about 3 weeks ago and she isn’t messaging me anymore. What should I do to get her back ?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 27, 2018 at 9:44 am

      Hi John,

      do you want to try the nc rule?

  7. Sky G

    February 4, 2018 at 4:45 am

    My ex brokeup with me a month ago. It was a rocky relationship because he wasnt sure about us since his parents didnt approve. We still talked everyday for another month. And just like that he told me we shouldnt talk for a while. That we cant be. I have been crying every single day since. A lot! I havnt spoke to him in 21 days. I was his first g.f. he is 28! I am doing everything possible to move on but the crying doesnt stop and now im itching to text him. I havent heard from him. We were together for 5 months and 2 days before we stopped contact he was saying how much he loves me. Now i dont believe anything he said. How can i stop crying? Will texting him make me feel better? Im emotionally drained

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 7, 2018 at 1:08 pm

      Hi Sky G,

      how active are you in improving yourself and in posting?

  8. Paige

    January 19, 2018 at 6:58 pm

    Just founded out my ex boyfriend cheat on me on twitter he was talking to the other girls since he have been ingoring me for 5 months what should I do ? 🙁 🙂

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 20, 2018 at 2:19 am

      Hi Paige,

      He cheated on you, blocked you and ignored you. You should move on.

  9. Paige

    January 18, 2018 at 5:04 pm

    My ex boyfriend left me in about 4 months ago I still haven’t heard from him since he block my number and he changed his cell number I want to fix things it’s not my fault that’s his fault should I try again no contact rules for six months 🙂

  10. Paige

    January 18, 2018 at 3:48 pm

    Hi my ex boyfriend left me in about 4 months ago he block me and changed his cell number. I still miss him it’s not my fault that’s his fault since he call me a names how long should I go no contact rules 🙂 when will he come back me and still haven’t heard from him 🙁 🙂

  11. Nellie

    January 17, 2018 at 2:04 am

    He tried to end things last week, but after we talked in person he told me he wanted to keep seeing me and that he saw a future with us but wanted to take it slow and take a step back. We had plans to meet up this week until he sent me a text message saying he was thinking about it and he isn’t in the right place and ended it completely. I tried to call him with no answer so I responded to his text that I care about him and I’m sorry things have to be like this. He didn’t reply and is not talking to me at all. Is there anything I can do to try and flip this around, or get some closure?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 18, 2018 at 7:14 am

      HI Nellie,

      Start the nc rule… be active in improving yourself and be active in posting.. Your posts are your indirect way of showing that you’re moving on and not chasing..

  12. Morgan

    January 15, 2018 at 12:08 am

    I did what the articles said, after 21 days of no contact, had a good first post nc conversation. After trying the second time after waiting a few days, he didn’t seem interested in the conversation, but continued it, and shortly stopped replying. What do I do now? I’m lost and confused

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 15, 2018 at 2:42 pm

      Hi Morgan,

      When and why did you break up? How active are you in improving yourself and in posting?

  13. Jenny

    January 7, 2018 at 7:13 pm

    Me and my ex broke up 3 months ago and it’s been a constant back and forth with each other. Neither one of us cheated he just felt like I was stressing him out and wanted space after I first broke up then he broke up with me . We went with no contact for 20 days he texted me for my birthday in between . And we finally saw each other last week . We were intimate but after all of it he said I know where this leads and I’m not ready for a relationship . I’ve used the digital romance maybe not down to a tee but I honestly don’t know what to do anymore. I just wanted him to chase me and it seems like I’m doing the chasing .

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 9, 2018 at 9:39 pm

      Hi Jenny,

      restart nc, and stick to at least 45 days and then take it slow after nc..

  14. Jane

    January 2, 2018 at 6:38 am

    After almost 2 years no contact with my ex I sent to him greeting message about new year and also for his birthday. He don`t reply. I can`t understand why. I never cheating, lying or manipulating him, I gave to him my all, beleve me I was so good girl…. I hope to stay friends, after he dumped me, but can`t understand how bad and rude can be. What can you tell me, please.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 5, 2018 at 6:29 pm

      Hi Jane,

      That means you need to move on..

  15. Ana

    December 30, 2017 at 9:30 am

    Hi Im having a dilemma here. We were engaged then he pulled away. I did the NC then sent a message saying “you wont belive what I happened” in our previous workplace. NO reply. Just seen mode

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 31, 2017 at 10:23 pm

      Hi Ana,

      when and why did you break up? And how long did you do nc? How active are you in improving yourself and in posting in social media?

  16. Lis

    December 20, 2017 at 8:13 pm

    Hi,
    I did all off you said in the all articles.I completed 21 days of NC. and I inittiated interesting text but no reply after 1 week I tried 2nd time a text ‘You wantto hear that thing I just saw’ but no reply again I was active on the social media and he saw all of them, but he dont wantto talk anymore it is clear. Any suggestion ? I miss him so much I try to keep myself to write a letter to him that future gonna be okay I changed etc. all of the things that I wantto say. I lost my hope can you help me?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 20, 2017 at 10:36 pm

      Hi Lis,

      what was the email add you used in your previous comments? Because there’s no other comment in this one. When you said you shared in Whats app, you mean you sent it to him personally? If yes, that’s the wrong way.. Restart nc, do at least 30 days, do public posts that doesn’t disappear in 24 hours in Facebook and Instagram.. It has to be indirect, so that you look like you’re moving on, and not just changing for him and making him see it.

  17. Adriana Mejia

    November 28, 2017 at 1:36 am

    hey! so my ex recently just broke up with me and we have been together for 1 year and 7 months and i am barely going to try the NC because i have tried to talk to him as friends and i tried to talk to him but i know i cant force him to talk to me but i realized to let him have his space and mine as well but i seen that him and his ex recently added each other on instagram so i know there talkinig because before we had an arguement and she even gave him advice but like i feel like theyve been talking right now and so i was wondering what if he does not talk to me or hit me up after the 30 days do i just move on and take the advice that my friend sayed that she said if a man really wants you hell do anything to show and prove it. because if someone is friends with there ex they still have feelings for eachother i dont know what to think after the 30 days happen hopefully it works

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 29, 2017 at 1:44 pm

      Hi Adriana,

      Check this one:
      What If He Doesn’t Contact You During No Contact?

  18. Tracie

    November 11, 2017 at 1:19 pm

    My ex bf and I broke up 4 months ago. We were together almost 2 years. It was a long distance relationship (he lives 4 hours away), but we have known each other for years. I had drove up to see him, and he told me he had to help his buddy. I wasnt feeling well so i stayed behind. After 5 hours of him being gone i text and he told me it would be a couple more hours. I got mad and drove back home. He was upset with me but still talking to me but i didnt like his tone. So i stopped comtacting him and waited for him to initiate. He never did so after a month i texted him and he responded. Over the phone he told me we could never be together again and he didn’t want to be in a relationship and have to answer to someone. He let me come see him again but was confusing me as one minute he was calling me baby and next minute telling me we are just friends. I backed off and stopped contacting. Then started texting again. We saw each other at a public place where friends were at. I started texting him on daily basis. He normally replies. Although sometimes he doesnt. Especially if I ask to see him. When i am in his presence his face lights up and he is warm to me. When not in his presence he keeps me at arms length and is cold towards me. How do I turn this around when he won’t let me come see him?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 13, 2017 at 1:17 am

      HI Tracie,

      even if you didn’t for a month before, it’s not a no contact period if you weren’t active in improving yourself and in posting during and after it while slowly rebuilding rapport.. DO you want to try it?

  19. lizzy

    November 11, 2017 at 6:46 am

    Hi! My Best Guy Friend (with benefits) of 10 years has always had a “thing” for me yet I just never had the same feelings for him. Until, recently… my heart took a 180* and has suddenly fell head over heals for him. IDK how or why, but It seems as if he has changed to be more “manly” (no more insecurities within, productive, life on track, busy, etc.). Only one problem, he went from “loving me” deeply to shunning me… essentially everything you said in your blog. However, my million dollar question is, I was never in a relationship with this man, he was my best friend who loved me 1st, then I can around, we “played” relationship for about 3 months of our 10 year friendship and now he’s backing off from calling everyday (1-3 times a day) to calling 1-3 times a week. Yes, due to his change, it has made me more “needy” by texting all the “Spotify” love songs to him that I hear as well as texting him one after another when all I receive is unanswered text messages. Given he is OCD, Does he have a GF? (He says he’s just busy with work). —-clearly a lie as he was never to busy to call me before. We haven’t seen each other in 3 months but for some God awful reason, he will call or text out of the blue like it was yesterday we last spoke. It seems as if he is leading me on to hurt me or I don’t even know. Any thoughts?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 13, 2017 at 1:06 am

      Hi Lizzy,

      check this one:
      EBR 006: How To Turn Friends With Benefits Into A Relationship

  20. Ntokozo

    November 1, 2017 at 2:10 pm

    So I was with my ex for a little over a year. he broke up with me 3 months ago and I did the begging and pleading. for about a month and a half. then I implemented full no contact. he did not try to contact me during NC. when nc was done I text him and we actually spoke properly but as time went on whenever I text him he will respond but ignore me mid conversation. this has happened multiple times now. I really dont understand.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 1, 2017 at 9:33 pm

      Rest for a week from initiating..

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