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6,800 thoughts on “The No Contact Rule (The Definitive Guide)”

  1. admin

    September 11, 2013 at 1:41 am

    I think it is a good idea yes!

  2. sandra

    September 10, 2013 at 8:25 pm

    So my boyfriend and I have been on and off for about 10years. We have dates other people and what not. In may he contacted me and a while later we got back together. We have gotten into stupid arguments about our past and etc. Each time we fight he wants to break up. I always end up sad anf crying and asking him to be back with me. He tells me everytime that I have an attitude and the reason he came back to me this time is because he thought I had changed and that Im.proving to him I’m still the same girl with the same bad attitude. I.told him I would try amd change and I have been trying. (I’m.pretty much a spoiled brat and if I don’t get my way I get mad amd what not) So.this past Saturday we went to a concert and we were habing a good time up until I felt I was not getting attention from him. I felt he was more preoccipied with what was going on around him than me. So I started to be a brat again. I walked away, I told him I would get my own ride home and becasue I wasn’t getting a rise out of him I then proceeded to tell.him I was done (even though i wasnt)We then drove home and I kept nagging and blah blah and the next day he broke up with me. He told me he can’t do it anymore and that he will never come back, that were done for good. I know.its my fault and I know I have issues I need to take care of but I don’t know what to do. Should I start with the n/c rule or what should I do in this situation. I love him and don’t want to lose him again.

    1. admin

      September 11, 2013 at 2:31 am

      I say start with the NC rule!

  3. Sara

    September 10, 2013 at 9:09 am

    Hi 🙂
    I am on my 22nd day of no contact with my ex. He recently sent me a message on the 20th day asking me what’s on my mind. I found out that he’s been asking mutual friends why I am not talking to him.
    The reason I started no contact with my ex was because he was very rude and disrespectful to me as a friend. And I told him that I will not talk to him till he is ready to treat me with respect.
    I am a bit confused as to why he is asking our friends why I am not talking to him. Should I tell him? He is acting like he doesn’t know and this is making me look like a rude person who is ignoring him for no reason.

    1. admin

      September 11, 2013 at 1:59 am

      Nope sit and let him stew a little more.

  4. Danika

    September 10, 2013 at 1:00 am

    Me and my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years broke up two weeks ago, at first I just wanted a break because I felt like he didn’t appreciate me and took me for granted.we lived together. So he moved out and told me that he would have me back and that we would get through this, the very next day it was completely different. He had told me that he didn’t know what he wanted and told me we need to go our separate ways, but would confuse me by telling me he loved me very much and maybe one day we could work it out. The first couple days I called and txtd nonstop because I was upset then he wouldn’t return my calls or texts. I’m trying really hard to not have contact with him. I’m just afraid he will forget about me and move on. What do I do?

    1. admin

      September 11, 2013 at 1:39 am

      The NC Rule sounds like a brilliant idea to me hahaha.

  5. Hannah

    September 9, 2013 at 10:16 pm

    I’m currently on what my boyfriend calls a ‘break’, after being together for nearly 7 years, after me going through hysterics of panic and begging I’ve started the NC rule trying to respect the fact he needs space and time to himself, he feels we’ve become more like friends and his feelings for me have changed, but I’m so worried that if I don’t message him he’ll just think im ok and that I’ve moved on, or he’ll forget about me. I’ve recently graduated and living back at home and he’s starting uni in two weeks, I keep thinking he’ll just find someone else and have so much fun at uni with new people and the NC rule will only be for the worse?

    1. admin

      September 11, 2013 at 1:34 am

      No, I think it can really help you. I wouldn’t worry about the factors you have no control over (like what he does.) Just focus on obtaining this mindset:

      “I want him to be my boyfriend again but I don’t NEED him to be my boyfriend again”

      Women who can accomplish that kill it when it comes to getting exes back.

    2. Amanda

      September 12, 2013 at 6:39 am

      I don’t understand the want vs need. Why is it good when wanting exs back?

    3. admin

      September 13, 2013 at 3:36 am

      So, a want is basically something you want but you can live without.

      Something you need you can’t live without.

  6. Linda

    September 9, 2013 at 2:58 pm

    If his birthday falls 2 weeks into the no contact period, do I still send him just a “Happy Birthday,[name here]” text or do I just continue with the no contact?

    1. admin

      September 9, 2013 at 7:55 pm

      I recommend sticking with NC but the final decision is up to you.

  7. Jeianne

    September 9, 2013 at 1:49 am

    My boyfriend broke up with me on August 27th. Since then, everytime we see each other, we kiss because we can’t break that connection and he still wants to hang out with me, but now I’m realizing that it is so unhealthy. I think I need more than a month away from him. Will the no contact rule have even the slightest effect on him?

    1. admin

      September 9, 2013 at 7:44 pm

      It can have one heck of an effect.

      Especially if you two are used to talking every day.

  8. Amanda

    September 9, 2013 at 12:00 am

    I tried no contact & failed at day 7.. Bombarded him with messages. He told me to relax. He said you message and i reply not u message 6 times then i reply.I kept pushing and asking if he was interested in me yes or no. He was reluctant to reply & then said the way I’ve been acting the answer is no.. I kept pushing…I got angry said I was out of his league. He replied then go find someone better then.
    Then I started apologizing for my craziness and emotions. Blamed them on period. He hasn’t replied. Blocked me from Facebook and instagram.

    Have I messed up whatever chance I had to get back with him?

    1. admin

      September 9, 2013 at 7:41 pm

      You didn’t help yourself thats for sure.

      Go back into NC immediately and stay there for 30 days!

      You might also want to check out Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO.

    2. Amanda

      September 12, 2013 at 6:42 am

      Thanks for replying. I feel like a complete idiot. For anyone reading this don’t make the same mistake – it gets you nowhere & does more damage then good!!
      I hope NC repairs the damage :/

    3. admin

      September 13, 2013 at 3:39 am

      Don’t feel like an idiot. You are a human being and I have made many of the mistakes too so noone is perfect.

  9. Déjà

    September 8, 2013 at 4:01 pm

    Well I’ve started to NC contact rule and it’ll be over on September 19th but lately since this challenge, I think he’s trying to talk to me even though he has a girlfriend like trying to touch me and sometimes I even catch him looking at me like yesterday we were at a football game and he was sitting on the bus in front of me and I caught him looking at me. We haven’t talked to each other since he started going out with his new girlfriend. Am I doing the right thing so far cause it’s hard to see him with another girl.

    1. admin

      September 8, 2013 at 5:05 pm

      You are right so far!

      BTW is that really your name Deja? That is such a pretty name.

    2. Déjà

      September 10, 2013 at 4:00 am

      Yes it’s my real name lol thank you 🙂

    3. admin

      September 11, 2013 at 1:49 am

      I love it!

  10. Julia

    September 8, 2013 at 2:56 pm

    Ok..I need an advice from a relationship specialist like rly bad right now. I wrote before about a guy I’m in love with and wanted to return him but nothing helped. Still nothing does. Yesterday he told my female friend that he can’t stand me. Nothing’s changed. Now..today I fought with a guy who rly loves me, but.. for me he’s no more than a friend..even though we kissed. I avoided meeting him for months, created axcuses..because..I don’t like, I feel nothing at all and I decided to tell him the truth and the truth hurt. We wanted to go to the movies but I said “sorry..I can’t hold it, I like someone else” He’s very hurt, he said he hates me too now. And I feel bad being hated by 2 now. One who loves me but I don’t and another one whom I love but he doesn’t.

    Maybe I’m supposed to live without love?

    1. admin

      September 8, 2013 at 5:00 pm

      Don’t say your supposed to live without love because it is not true.

      Have you done NC yet?

    2. Julia

      September 8, 2013 at 10:19 pm

      yes. he still can’t stand me. As he tells my friends.

      and the todays guy keeps telling me how hurt he is.

    3. admin

      September 9, 2013 at 7:25 pm

      The today’s guy?

    4. Julia

      September 10, 2013 at 6:36 am

      uh my msg disappeared. the guy who loves me but i dont. i told him the truth and now he hates me but I hate fights. I want to be friends, what to do with both these guys? the one i dont love still talks to me but he’s rude now. The one I love ignores me completely.

    5. admin

      September 11, 2013 at 1:49 am

      Youve tried NC?

  11. K.L.Williams

    September 8, 2013 at 1:37 am

    So, i made a lot of typos in that last post.( sorry, hope its clear enough). Basically, I guess im going to use the NC rule because I do want him im just sensing that he doesnt care as much anymore. I just dont know if this will work because he can just not respond to me. Im not sure if this is it, I have some friends telling me to kick him to the curb bc if he cared, he would have responded by now.

    Not really sure whats going on and what I should do?

    1. admin

      September 8, 2013 at 4:30 pm

      You are right to use no contact and don’t sweat the typos.

    2. K.L.Williams

      September 8, 2013 at 10:45 pm

      ok, thanks. I will keep you posted

  12. K.L.Williams

    September 8, 2013 at 1:31 am

    This really nice guy was pursuing me for like nine months and I really liked him was just unsure of his age and intentions. WE talked and he said he liked me, knew that I liked him and that he wanted to talk to me. After throwing out every possible scenario about our age gap (11 years) he said he still wanted me and that he really really liked me. He is mature for his age but I’v been hurt before and just needed to take my time. He wanted me to express my feeling and was frustrated that I wouldnt open up so easy but we still talked and hung out a dated. For about a month and a half he contacted me everyday, whether through text or phone call. Well, one day I talked about some negative stuff about out age difference ( mind you he did noting wrong, all this is just me being scared) and he was didnt like that. Then I could sense him pulling away and he said that he really like me but it scares him that I fear expressing my feelings to the point where he just wants to leave me alone. Well, i told him I would work on it and that i dont mean to push him away and he didnt understand why if I liked him, I would do that. So, then he started pulling away, we didnt talk to two days, I panicked and was basically broke our interaction off, he didnt sound happy about that. Then, i regretted doing that and a day later tried to retract saying that cuz i really liked him i was just scared to get hurt. WEll, he ignored my texts( sent about three or four over a two week period, then ignored me the two times i called him. Then i consulted a friend to help and that helped a little bc i told him i was going to come and see him and he aid he was in the office and busy and then a other ten days went by. By this time, i realized i pushed him away but i was trying to get him back with out coming off as needy. So basically, i send him something sweet two weeks ago and he finally responds a day later and said he was sorry for not responding to the text and every other day he says he missed me and i told him i missed him. It was really nice, i even told him i didnt know he missed me and he said i should not have doubted him. So last week, he comes to see me because i told him I wanted him and he came over but I was on my cycle. There was a lot tension, like it was awkward but he was still his self just something was off. We talked all that night and played with each other but something just seemed off. I was so happy to see him but for some reason i couldnt interact the way i wanted with him. So he finally leaves and we hug and kiss goodbye but something was different, he was holding on to his phone like he didnt want me to see his screen (maybe this was in my mind) but it felt like he was hiding something. Either way, he leaves, i text him the next day (to show that i do want him) something sweet and he doesnt respond, two days by and im like..im not doing this again. So basically i send a text saying i was confused bc he wanted me to open up and now that im ready, i get nothing. I tell him i dont like the way he makes me feel and that if its something or someone else, to let me know. I tell him that im not giving an ultimatum but that if he doesnt respond to what i said ( i didnt tell him when to respond) that i was going to move on. He hasnt responded yet, its been 6 days.

    1. admin

      September 8, 2013 at 4:28 pm

      Haha you did give him an ultimatum then. If you don’t text me I am moving on is essentially an ultimatum.

      It’s ok though. I do think the no contact rule is the right way to go. You might also want to check out PRO (the ebook) as it could help you get him chasing you again.

    2. K.L.Williams

      September 8, 2013 at 10:44 pm

      did the “ultimatum” mess things up? Did I do anything wrong in the midst of what I told you? So I will know not to do it again

    3. admin

      September 9, 2013 at 7:25 pm

      Saying this isn’t an ultimatum and then essentially giving him an ultimatum was the mistake you made in my opinion. Luckily, if you play your cards right you can recover from this.

    4. K.L.Williams

      September 17, 2013 at 4:57 am

      Hey..whats the post that came out this week that you said I should read?

    5. K.L.Williams

      September 10, 2013 at 1:32 am

      Yeah, issuing that so called ultimatum means i have to be prepared to lose him or be brave enough to move on and realize what I did and didnt want.

      I know the NC rule was a good thing, but I really have no idea of how to play my cards right?

      And wondering if this is even worth it…

    6. admin

      September 11, 2013 at 1:37 am

      I think you should give it try.

      I just said the ultimatum hurt but you shouldn’t give up.

      I have a post coming out this week that you will find very interesting I think.

  13. Eric Hardy

    September 8, 2013 at 12:36 am

    Good article, but have a question. My girlfriend and I dated for about 10 months. She told me she loved me constantly, then out of no where it all stopped and she felt like she needed space. Month 6 she broke up with me, but then kept emailing and texting the days following. We got back together, but she never could say the word “love” again. Month 10 comes around and she breaks up with me. Now what’s odd is the three days following the second breakup we sleep together…two nights in a row. The morning of the third day, we say our goodbyes and I haven’t spoken, text, or emailed her since. It’s been about 4 days now. She wants to check in with me in 30 days. This sucks because we were so affectionate up until the last day. No fights or cheating happened, she just asked for space.

    What do I do?

    Thanks

    1. admin

      September 8, 2013 at 4:25 pm

      No contact rule seems like your best option.

      Also, lets try to figure out why her feelings changed like that.

  14. Marie

    September 6, 2013 at 6:06 pm

    I am on day 14 of NC (Actually, it’s day 16, because on day 2 I had to forward some information to him, but I kept it fairly professional in content.) … Anyway, to my surprise, he’s now leaving emails and texts and phone messages to me and …. to tell you the truth, it feels rude not to answer him. If he is telling me now how much he needs me and misses me, should I continue simply ignoring (NCing) him?

    thank you for advising…. Marie

    1. admin

      September 7, 2013 at 1:58 am

      If you feel it is time to break NC then go for it!

      Trust your gut. While I know a lot about this subject I don’t know your ex as well as you do so if something feels incredbly off about what I recommend trust your gut.

    2. Marie

      September 6, 2013 at 7:38 pm

      Ok I just read; no contact, even if he initiates it. … This is what happened… He has a family issue he is trying to deal with, and things between us shifted and suddenly he told me he needed to think, and asked me to give him a couple of days to work stuff out in his head. Well, I read that “needing space” was code for breaking up, so I started looking for advice and learned about a NC rule. I thought “Ok, he wants space, let’s give him 30 days of it…” Because in my heart, I feared he was saying goodbye. 7 days passed and then he started to write me and send messages, but I pretty much moved in a way to take myself off of his radar, and this includes no longer logging into the cyber game we both play, just because I wanted to ensure the NC rule. … And believe me; I am suffering from not going into the game because I have things in there I need to take care of, and agreements to deal with and it’s like I just abandoned the game and all my friends waiting on me and everything. …. Did I do this just right? Did I misinterpret something; or should I maintain the NC for 16 (14) more days?

    3. admin

      September 7, 2013 at 2:05 am

      Hmm… did you implement the NC rule while you were still dating him?

      It is only supposed to be implemented if you two have been broken up.

    4. Marie

      September 10, 2013 at 12:58 am

      ty, svm. I will refer all people hurting to your program, henceforth. 😉

    5. Marie

      September 7, 2013 at 1:00 pm

      Uh, …. well, no- he did not see it as a break up at all. He was dealing with a death and was overwhelmed and asked me for a couple of days to deal with it. … I thought he was telling me goodbye. I was really surprised when he actually started calling and writing a few days later, repeatedly asking me where I was and if I was ok.

      But honestly- all the articles I found implied that when a man ever says “I need a few days to sort through this…” that is was really his way of saying that he wanted to break up. Apparently they were wrong.

      Thank you for your help and clarification.
      Marie

    6. admin

      September 7, 2013 at 11:57 pm

      Yea, until he says the words “we shouldn’t be together” I wouldn’t consider it a breakup.

      That is just my two cents.

  15. Megan

    September 6, 2013 at 5:38 pm

    My boyfriend of almost a year broke up with me the other night after an argument leading to him saying he no longer loves me, has wanted out for a while, and has now cut all forms of communication. Confusing thing is, the night before he brought up when we should get married. I’m very confused.

    He has been asking mutual friends about my Facebook page since he removed me, and emailed asking if he is still helping out a close family friend.

    I figured I would give him a few days to calm down and see where that leads us. I think he may just be extremely stressed from starting a new school. Do I even have a chance of getting back together with him?

    1. admin

      September 7, 2013 at 1:59 am

      I think so, but there is no way I can tell you that you are going to get him back 100% of the time. All I can say is that if you do the things I recommend on this site you increase your chances a lot.

    2. Megan

      September 7, 2013 at 6:56 am

      So far, I’m trying to just give him his space, let him cool down and not talk to him. Let him come to me. I’m just scared that he will see me not contacting him as me no longer being interested. Do guys take it that way?

    3. admin

      September 7, 2013 at 11:50 pm

      Some do but I would say in most cases they just want to talk to you again eventually.

    4. Megan

      September 8, 2013 at 6:30 am

      Thank you. He contacted me today, and I have to admit I broke the NC rule, though I was very reserved and guarded. Met up to get some answers from him, and I guess we will see where it goes. Definitely remaining reserved though and not instantly getting hopes up. All I can say is that your articles are very helpful and the best I have found in all my online research.

    5. admin

      September 8, 2013 at 4:48 pm

      That is what I wanted to go for! Have my site be the best online.

    6. Megan

      September 7, 2013 at 6:58 am

      Also I ran into him at a public event last night. We didn’t say anything, just saw each other from afar. Does this constitute breaking the NC rule when I didn’t expect that to happen?

    7. admin

      September 7, 2013 at 11:50 pm

      Nah, I wouldn’t sweat it.

  16. confused

    September 5, 2013 at 9:58 pm

    Hi Chris!

    Me and my bf broke up about over 6 months ago and we’ve been together for over 7 years. He’s been talking to this girl who he claims they are just friends but he’s also showing intimacy towards me. I do sometimes sleep over his house because we’ve been hanging out lately and sometimes get a bit sexual. Just last night he asked me why I sleep over and I told him because I like being with him and spending time with him. He’s told me in the past that he’s not ready for a commitment. Idk if he’s testing the waters with me or if I’m just his safety net in case it doesn’t work out with another girl. The NC rule seems like something I should do, but in all honesty, it seems like we’re already dating and starting over slowly by his actions towards me (being all intimate, hugging, cuddling, kissing, and holding my hand) the only thing too is he wants me coming over to be private and not letting his family know because he does live with his aunty but in a separate area. How can I get him to commit or at least really confirm that he wants to try it out again? I want to talk to him about all this but I know what he’s gonna say which is “I already told you, I’m not ready for a commitment. not now, maybe in the future” or his infamous “idk” I’m also scared its gonna change things between us, by pushing him away. I’m all out of ideas and what to do with him. Can you help me? I’m confused

    1. admin

      September 6, 2013 at 2:35 am

      Sounds to me like you need to define your relationship. There is risk with that obviously as you pointed out but then at least then you know where you stand and then you could enter into a NC rule if things go wrong.

  17. Kendrick

    September 5, 2013 at 4:40 pm

    I was hanging out with this girl for about two months until a couple weeks ago. We really liked each other, but I could tell that she was getting really distant and stopped talking to me for a bit. When I finally called and confronted her about it, she ended up saying that she told me that she wasn’t ready for a relationship (which I knew) because she still wasn’t completely over her ex and that whenever we hung out, she just kept getting reminded of him. She also felt that I was getting needy and that we hung out way too much. Since a week ago I initiated NC, and it kinda hurts, but I feel like she’s easily getting over me which sucks. She even posted something on Facebook stating that she wished she got some guy’s number.

    So I guess what I’m asking is… Is this NC the best thing right now? I was doing decent until I saw that Facebook post. I think I’m just scared that she’ll start talking to and hanging out with some other guy.

    Thanks

    1. admin

      September 6, 2013 at 2:21 am

      Well, I think NC is a good idea.

      Problem is youhaven’t dated her so is that what you are kind of wanting?

    2. Kendrick

      September 7, 2013 at 10:53 pm

      Sorry, let me clarify. We were dating and we’d always have fun with each other and messed around, but she told told me that she wasn’t ready for a relationship because she still wasn’t totally over her last boyfriend. She said that I was pushing for one though, which made her push away from me. Now she just wants to be alone and stay single. I really just want to see her again and keep that bond because I felt like we were real close. Do you think that there is still hope?

    3. admin

      September 8, 2013 at 12:36 am

      I think there is as long as you can play your cards right.

  18. Heather Colbert

    September 5, 2013 at 8:29 am

    Hello came across your site and wanted to see if I could get some quick advice. About a month ago my girlfriend broke up with me, we were arguing about feelings she had four another girl. Originally we were going to take a break and we agreed it would be best if I went and busted my mom for a couple months because we live together. WhenI left I went a little crazy and I gps’ed her whereabouts on day. Of course when she found out she was pissed, she said she didn’t want to be with me anymore and that she didn’t want to try right now. Of course I did everything you aren’t suppose to do for about three weeks. Begging for us to start over blah blah blah. Well before I left I gave her my car to use until I got back. Originally the break was suppose to be for two months, but I figured since she was done with me I would come back early so I can work and do the nc. We work together and tomorrow I’m going to get my car from her. Aside from me crying and asking her why we never really talked about the relationship. First she said she was tired of the arguing. This was only our first big argument in three years. Then she said she wasn’t in love with me and hadn’t been for the past year, but she proposed to me in Feb and we had tried for a baby (her idea) in June. She claims that she thought things would get better. Between crying and begging she had also said that she’s unhappy and she couldn’t do it anymore. I keep thinking do what? In my mind we were fine until this argument. Then she said it was because when we use to have it little arguments I would say that I’m unhappy and that I didn’t want to be there. But clearly I did want to be there or I would have left. I just wanted her to try harder. Anyways my questions is do you think the nc might still work to getting her back, I love her. And should we talk about anything tomorrow when I get the rest of my stuff? I’ll takeany advice at this point, I just want us to start over. It was okay before and I know it would be great this time around if we could just talk about the issues. Also I forgot to mention the small fights were because I felt a certain way and she doesnt really express her emotions. Thanks.

    1. admin

      September 6, 2013 at 1:57 am

      Hi There Heather!

      I am glad you had the courage to comment on this site.

      Anyways, I think NC is the way to go but do it after you see her tomorrow. When you do see here just don’t talk about your relationship. Try to keep things light. You are there to pick up your stuff. When you do talk to her just keep things pleasant and simple. Make sure you smile a lot and seem really happy.

      Oh, and I don’t have to tell you to look gorgeous do I?

    2. Heather Colbert

      September 5, 2013 at 8:59 am

      Also if you haven’t guessed it’s a lesbian relationship, does your system work for my situation it do you know of anything that would help and Cater to my specific needs?

    3. admin

      September 6, 2013 at 1:59 am

      You are actually not the first lesbian to contact me. Actually I have had men, women, gays and lesbians contact me before. While this is a site about boyfriends I think most of the tactics are interchangable. Let me put it this way, if you like what I write here then you will like the E-Book. I think a lot of it is all about making your ex chase you and how to handle any texting interactions and what to do to really evolve into someone who people will find wildly attractive.

    4. Heather Colbert

      September 5, 2013 at 8:55 am

      Also I broke down and bought the magic of making up ebook (didn’t come across this site quick enough) . Also like I said she was using my car while I was away. I wasthinking letting her continue to use it so she would know I still cared about her and I wanted to make sure she got to school and work ok. Is this a good idea or should I just take my stuff, nc, and go from there.

    5. admin

      September 6, 2013 at 1:58 am

      I have read the magic of making up. It’s not all that horrible. A little pricey for my taste but hey everyone out there is trying to make a living and sadly I am no different haha.

  19. Zish

    September 5, 2013 at 6:45 am

    Hey! I’m on day 17 NC and my Bf who cheated on me and then in turn accused me of cheating, is calling me non stop, like almost everyday and sent me a text that he needs to talk to me. I’m tempted to take his call but at the same time I feel that, he needs to know that there are consequences 2 such behaviors and I know I’m still mad @ him, and also scared of loosing him. What do you think?

    1. admin

      September 6, 2013 at 1:51 am

      I think I lo…

      All kidding aside you are doing AMAZING. You attitude I wish I could clone and give to other women on this site.

  20. Jenny

    September 4, 2013 at 9:42 pm

    Hello Chris, firstly i’d just like to say that i love your website, it has helped me to keep my head screwed on through out this painful process.

    i am currently on Day 27 of NC and i haven’t heard a peep from my ex. i think this is partially to do with the fact that i ended on bad terms on him – he thinks that i am still angry at him (he did a ‘slow fade’ towards the end of the relationship and basically made me break up with him). he said he wanted to be ‘friends’ and that i should be the one to initiate contact in the future when i am ready, which annoyed me greatly, as i was always the initiator in the relationship. i stopped replying to him promptly after that and blocked him everywhere.

    i don’t know if i’ve screwed things up in my rage in terms of getting him back and i was wondering what you think i should do when i reach 30 days, if i still haven’t heard from him? thanks in advance.

    1. admin

      September 5, 2013 at 12:39 am

      I think you should test the waters with a text message and then reevaluate from there.

      If you need help with the texts I recommend checking out my E-Book.

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