What Are Your Chances of Getting Your ExBoyfriend Back

My Ex Boyfriend Thinks I’m Annoying

Have you ever been talking to someone and literally thought to yourself,

This person is so annoying

All you want to do is leave an never talk to that person again.

But lets change the script up a little and pretend that you desperately want your ex back but he finds you so annoying that he wants nothing to do with you. Not a really great position to be in, huh?

Well, that’s a position that Sydney has found herself in as she believes she was too much of a text gnat and scared her ex boyfriend away.

No worries Sydney, help is on the way!

But first, there is something very important I’d like to talk to you about.

How To Get Featured On The Podcast

If you didn’t already know one thing that I like to do with my podcast is field listener questions and answer them in an in-depth manner but I have never really stopped to explain how I choose the listener questions.

Click Here To Record A Question

Basically there are three things I am looking for when I pick a question to answer.

THING #1: It has to interest me

I feel like sometimes my entire life revolves around answering breakup questions and sometimes it can get a bit dull. So, one thing I look for when asking a question is if it interests me or not.

Asking a basic question like, “Should I break the no contact rule?” isn’t going to cut it.

With this episode I remember taking Sydneys question and thinking,

Wow, I don’t think I’ve talked about this on the podcast before. I am going to pick it.

That, plus she also met the other three requirements.

THING #2: I have to understand the person asking the question. 

One thing that makes it difficult to choose a question sometimes is the fact that I can’t really understand the person. Sometimes they have a thick accent that I can’t pick out and other times they literally call in using a different language (true story.)

It becomes increasingly difficult to pick a question out like that, just saying!

THING #3: A clear connection

Sometimes someone will call in and I can understand them and their question is interesting but their connection is kind of bad. Either I can only hear every third word or I can hear a construction crew outside hammering away.

But enough about that. Lets get down to business now and talk about what I cover in todays episode.

What I Talk About In Todays Episode

  • What it takes for me to choose a question and record an episode about it.
  • What is going to happen if your ex blocks you
  • What I see happening a lot of times if they block you
  • Figuring out how to adapt when things don’t go your way
  • What to do if you became a “gnat” and annoyed him

Important Links Mentioned In Todays Episode

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Chris Seiter

10 thoughts on “My Ex Boyfriend Thinks I’m Annoying”

  1. cambell

    December 11, 2017 at 3:37 pm

    i don’t know what to do and i am completely lost. it has been 3 months since he broke up with me and he has moved on. i don’t know what to do. i know it’s worth it and that our relationship was special, everyone around us did too. i want to try no contact but i don’t think it will work. he is going to ask her out on christmas so i still have time. i am so desperate and lost i have no idea what to do. i have read all the articles and just want him back. please help me.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 13, 2017 at 1:16 am

      Hi Campbell,

      If he has moved on, chasing him is not going to help you get him back..

  2. LittleLady

    December 11, 2017 at 1:34 pm

    Hello.
    So I tried to resume texting a couple of weeks ago. he was not the most communicative person ever, even when we were dating (he once said I was the only person he replied to, at all…) Him ghosting or not replying was not an uncommon thing, even back then. Now I keep having even more troubles squeezing a reply out of him or getting him engaged… When exactly do I get annoying, turn into a stalker or the famous text gnat?? I’ll post an example of texting this weekend below. Any ideas? I tried my best to hit on topics he likes, be funny an upbeat….
    Any help would be greatly appreciated!! thank you!!

    Saturday:
    [10:59, 12/9/2017] Me: Hahahaha look what I found in my advent calendar this morning!!!
    *photo* What do u think, any chance I end up bulky ??
    Did u manage to reincorporate going to the gym into ur busy schedule? How many times per week do you u go now (ideally) ?
    [11:27, 12/9/2017] Him: Hi. Regarding the sock, thanks again. It fits mostly well, but the heel is a bit too large.
    I resumed the gym yesterday. I will try to go back to three times a week.
    [11:29, 12/9/2017] Me: Ah, cool! Finishing a day with some physical exercise helps so so much to maintain sanity doesn’t it, Physical & mental
    (he ghosted…)

    [13:45, 12/9/2017] Me: Haha did I mention that there’s a free gym & yoga studio in my house? Not big but very convenient, just down the corridor.
    I’ll send a picture next time I go. Ur the pro, what’s ur favourite exercise??

    Sunday:
    [16:45, 12/10/2017] Me: look at this gem I spotted
    I found this funny and curious, look: *photo*
    They seem to be somewhat afraid of it tho?!! Or is this a common thing ??
    Oh dear now I’m laughing at my own joke…
    And I’m waiting for ur indignant comment “that’s not right, that’s not how any of this works” …
    (no reply…)

    [21:40, 12/10/2017] Me: Huhu u still there?? U have a second?
    I just came home and I don’t know why, when I opened my fridge I thought of the.best.pun.ever. concerning this thing I would love to tell u but u’d have to play along
    (no reply…)

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 13, 2017 at 1:03 am

      Hi Little Lady,

      You’re gnatting him, those would have been good topics but once you get a neutral or negative or no reply, you should wait a week before trying again.. but since you kept texting him for two days, I think you should wait two weeks, if he’s still like that, it means you need to move on..

  3. LittleLady

    December 11, 2017 at 10:48 am

    Hello.
    So I tried to resume texting a couple of weeks ago. he was not the most communicative person ever, even when we where dating (he once said i was the only person he replied to, at all…) Him ghosting or not replying was not an uncommon thing, even back then. No I keep having even more troubles squeezing a reply out of him or getting him engaged… When exactly do I get annoying, turn into a stalker or the famous text gnat?? I’ll post an example of texting this weekend below. Any ideas? I tried my best to hit on topics he likes, be funny an upbeat….
    Any help would be greatly appreciated!! thank you!!

    Saturday:
    [10:59, 12/9/2017] Me: Hahahaha look what I found in my advent calendar this morning!!!
    *photo* What do u think, any chance I end up bulky ??
    Did u manage to reincorporate going to the gym into ur busy schedule? How many times per week do you u go now (ideally) ?
    [11:27, 12/9/2017] Him: Hi. Regarding the sock, thanks again. It fits mostly well, but the heel is a bit too large.
    I resumed the gym yesterday. I will try to go back to three time a week.
    [11:29, 12/9/2017] Me: Ah, cool! Finishing a day with some physical exercise helps so so much to maintain sanity doesn’t it, Physical & mental
    (he ghosted…)

    [13:45, 12/9/2017] Me: Haha did I mention that there’s a free gym & yoga studio in my house? Not big but very convenient, just down the corridor.
    I’ll send a picture next time I go. Ur the pro, what’s ur favourite excercise??

    Sunday:
    [16:45, 12/10/2017] Me: look at this gem I spotted!
    I found this funny and curious, look: *photo*
    They seem to be somewhat afraid of it tho?!! Or is this a common thing ??
    Oh dear now I’m laughing at my own joke…
    And I’m waiting for ur indignant comment “that’s not right, that’s not how any of this works” …
    (no reply…)

    [21:40, 12/10/2017] Me: Huhu u still there?? U have a scnd?
    I just came home and I don’t know why, when I opened my fridge I thought of the.best.pun.ever. concerning this thing I would love to tell u but u’d have to play along
    (no reply…)

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 13, 2017 at 1:03 am

      Hi Little Lady,

      You’re gnatting him, those would have been good topics but once you get a neutral or negative or no reply, you should wait a week before trying again.. but since you kept texting him for two days, I think you should wait two weeks, if he’s still like that, it means you need to move on..

  4. LittleLady

    December 11, 2017 at 10:19 am

    Hello.
    I tried starting to text him a couple of weeks ago. He’s never been very communicative, also when we were dating. Not replying or ghosting was not an uncommon thing, even back then. Now I’m having an even harder time squeezing a response out of him and getting him engaged. I’m wondering: when exactly do I turn into a stalker/ text gnat? I’ll post an example how texting this weekend went below. Maybe you have any ideas? Any help would be greatly appreciated!!! Thank you so so much for your awesome work!!

    Saturday:
    11:27:
    Me: Hahahaha look what I found in my advent calendar this morning!!! *photo*
    What do u think, any chance I end up bulky ??
    Did u manage to reincorporate going to the gym into ur busy schedule? How many times per week do you u go now (ideally) ?

    11:28:
    Him: Hi.Regarding the sock, thanks again. It fits mostly well, but the heel is a bit too large.
    I resumed the gym yesterday. I will try to go back to three time a week.

    11:30:
    Me: Ah, cool! Finishing a day with some physical exercise helps so so much to maintain sanity doesn’t it, physical & mental 🙂
    (he ghosted…)

    13:45:
    Me: Haha did I mention that there’s a free gym & yoga studio in my house? Not big but very convenient, just down the corridor.
    I’ll send a picture next time I go. Ur the pro, what’s ur favourite exercise??

    (no reply…)

    Sunday:
    16:45:
    Me: look at this gem I spotted (specialbuys catalogue @aldi here )
    I found this funny and curious, look: *photo*
    The Brits seem to be somewhat afraid of it, it’s adults only ??!!
    Or is this a common thing that u must be over 18 to purchase this??
    Oh dear now I’m laughing at my own joke…
    And I’m waiting for ur indignant comment “that’s not right, that’s not how any of this works”… 😉
    (no reply…)

    21:40:
    Me: Huhu u still there?? U have a scnd?
    I just came home and I don’t know why, when I opened my fridge I thought of the.best.pun.ever. concerning this thing, I would love to tell u but u’d have to play along 😉
    (no reply…)

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 13, 2017 at 1:03 am

      Hi Little Lady,

      You’re gnatting him, those would have been good topics but once you get a neutral or negative or no reply, you should wait a week before trying again.. but since you kept texting him for two days, I think you should wait two weeks, if he’s still like that, it means you need to move on..

  5. amy

    December 6, 2017 at 7:07 am

    hey Amor
    I behaved like Cordelia too ! Isn’t my situation like this too? except the girl too! cant I follow this and ofcourse stay away from fighting at all costs!

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 10, 2017 at 5:10 pm

      Hi Amy,

      It’s not really to stop talking for 6 months just to rest but it’s for you to have time to accept that he has moved on.. Come from a point that no feeling for you remains from him, that he has moved on…because right now, you’re already friendzoned and you’re just chasing him..
      At least after 6 months, if you still want to try to build rapport, you’ve already established a different life routine, in that time, if it doesn’t work out in building rapport, just stop, and continue moving on in your life doing your new routine…

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