How To Know If Your Ex Boyfriend Still Loves You - Signs Your Ex Is Still Interested

1,415 thoughts on “This Is How You Know If Your Ex Still Loves You”

Abby

April 2, 2015 at 5:04 pm

Hi! i have been searching for ways on how to get my ex back. He cheated on me, but i dont know, its just that im still into him and i still believe he would be better 😀 Im now trying the NC rule, and its hard 🙁 Im confused, he is saying he still loves me, but he cant commit and that he’s not ready for responsibility again 🙁

[email protected]

May 17, 2015 at 11:14 pm

No no no. He has to come back move on to someone who’s faithful
admin

April 3, 2015 at 1:00 am

Have you tried my page on what to do if your ex boyfriend cheats on you?

Lonelyhearted

April 1, 2015 at 10:11 pm

I’ve just come accross your website. I moved out of my boyfriend of one year’s house last week. He had become very distant in the 2 months after starting therapy and got even more depressed. In the last two weeks he would stay out late drinking and doing cocaine which he’d never done in our relationship before. I said it was very difficult for me to tolerate this and put up with his behaviour…so he broke up with me. I’m devastated I thought we’d figure out how to find him some more support not get dumped!! I’m now living with my mum and managed three days before phoning him and crying. I’m worried about no contact as he’s obviously suffering so much from depression and he’s no one to support him but I’m suffering too. I want the man I loved back…maybe he just took me for granted when I moved in? Would no contact work for a man who leaves his girlfriend because he’s depressed?

admin

April 3, 2015 at 12:47 am

Well the fact of the matter is that you have no obligation to him.

kangel

March 29, 2015 at 7:51 pm

No contact Rule really works. I broke up with my bf as he was cheating me and for some peace of mind, I disconnected myself from all social networks including him and our mutual friends. I blocked him from social networking sites too. After 3 months, when I reappeared, he asked me to include him in my friends list. I decided i did not want him back. Though he has a gf now, whenever I appear online for chat (which is really rare) he ensures I am updated about whatever going in his life by asking our mutual friends to give me updates regarding him. Now i don’t understand him. But anyways No contact rule helped me to get a dignified exit

admin

March 31, 2015 at 10:25 pm

I know!

That is why I am always peddling it.

Nee

March 28, 2015 at 7:39 am

me and my ex dated for 3 months and its been four years now that ive known him and still not over him. he wont ever text me on his own or wont ever even pick up my calls. though he does reply only when i text him. i really want him back! can you help? and once when i hadnt spoken to him for 2 months straight and we were at a concert where he met an acquaintance of mine and i was next to them so i moved away and then he asks that acquaintance of mine why am i ignoring him? is this a sign?
moni

March 22, 2015 at 9:29 pm

My bf and I were together for almost 7 yrs.. he one day got up said he didn’t love me anymore and moved out..he has been partying and drinking doing things he didnt enjoy before. He says he wanted freedom. He called today said he missed me but not to get my hopes high.its so confusing

admin

March 24, 2015 at 8:09 pm

He told you he missed you but didn’t want you to get your hopes to high?

He said that?

Lyn

March 21, 2015 at 5:22 am

My 4months bf broke up with me when he knows im pregnanT. Is there a possibility that my bf would come back to me if i do that NC rules?

admin

March 22, 2015 at 5:02 pm

Yes, there is a possibility but a possiblity doesn’ guarantee success. NC will improve your odds though in my opinon.

Stephany

March 16, 2015 at 7:02 pm

What if we broke up because of my problems and his family telling lies and you know you can’t be with him and he stares at you and you tell a friend to look if he is staring at you and he is what does that mean I mean we broke up 4 weeks ago we have been together for 5 months and even when I avoid him he still stares at me when I’m behind him.

admin

March 18, 2015 at 8:27 pm

Have you been utilizing the NC rule at all during this 4 week period?

Cynthia

March 15, 2015 at 5:01 pm

My live in boyfriend of 3 Years is cheating with someone over the phone. He said he like her alot. So we are breaking up and its hard. He still wants to help be and be part of my life. He says he still loves me. What do i do? He even says to call him or text him if i need anything. He also said if he needs anything or wants to talk if its ok to cal me or text me too.

admin

March 18, 2015 at 6:25 pm

Any physical cheating or is more on the emotional side?

ruby

March 11, 2015 at 5:46 am

What if me and my ex boyfriend haven’t talked for 3 months? Whenever he sees me he’ll just take a glance at me and then looks away quickly and walks away quickly. He broke up with me 3 months ago because he wasn’t feeling it anymore. We were together for a year and one month.

admin

March 13, 2015 at 7:10 pm

No big deal, you just did a 90 day NC rule.

It’s ok to reach out as long as you have a strategy prepared.

Anonymous

March 8, 2015 at 8:57 pm

i have been in a relationship for 5 years and we broke up over a year ago. in the fall of 2013 i became a full time student and already started my road to my career and things started to go down hill. we lost our dog that we had together in september of that year and we both became really depressed. then in end of november we got into a nasty fight and he broke up with me. i cried and begged to speak to him but he didn’t want to. in January 2014 we bumped into each other at a bar and we were kinda drunk, and he confessed to me that he really loves me but i told him to leave me alone and left crying. he called me the next day and i didn’t answer the phone. now i found out on february 2014 that he was dating right after or even before we broke up and i was really upset about it. i didn’t speak to him until the end of october 2014 he came around to ask me about our other dog (which he hasn’t seen since our breakup) and wanted updated about his surgery. he did also mention to me how the past year he was in a dark place because of our breakup and our dog passing away. now we text once in a while and i keep him posted about my dog who recently had surgery but nothing about our recent relationships. we say hi to each other at the gym and he actually sparks up a conversation and gives me a big hug. he would also constantly remind me how good looking i am, intelligent, sweet and caring i am with him. regardless of it all i am still madly in love with him. i know that he has been dating and doing things i haven’t done with him such as going on vacations with this girl that he works with for a year. i thought that maybe i was ready to be friends with him without letting my feelings get involved but as of right now i am still in love with him and don’t know what to feel or if he still cares about me let alone love me still. we had our future planned out and i did see myself marrying this person and creating a family with him. i feel like telling him that i want to cut contact with him because of the way i feel towards him and i want to respect his relationship but i told him that i will always be there for him. idk what to do or what to think or if there is any chance of having him again in my life.

admin

March 13, 2015 at 3:46 pm

Its ok if you take a small haitus from being there for him if you feel its what you need to do to get your own life back on track.

Lackofconfidence

March 4, 2015 at 1:13 am

Hey, I’m wondering if you could help me. I had my first love and relationship with this guy for about 6 months. We moved in after a month of dating, purely because I didn’t had a place to stay and (I thought) we were so in love. After three months I fell in love with him, I told him that first, he responded me the very same. Now, we broke up twice, first time I asked him if he could give me a chance, so he did. After two weeks we broke up and now is the second day I’m single. Reason of breaking up: I smoke cigarettes. He don’t. It was a little issue when we first started but gradually he started to ask me to promise him that I will. I failed three times, last time he caught me smoking on my probation period that he gave me of two weeks. He was stone cold and didn’t wanted to talk to me whatsoever when I was apologising and told him that I was afraid of telling him that, I tried to quit for three days, but then I started again, and lied to him that I wasn’t smoking ( I mean he asked me if I had tobacco and I told him no, although he used to go through my backpack and found tobacco, he didn’t told me this till the day we broke up).
Question: I love him, my first love I’m 22 years old. Should I try to win him back? After I was asked to move out from his place, I left him a letter, but till now, no response. He told me that he’s heartbroken because I lied to his face.

Thank you!

admin

March 5, 2015 at 8:31 pm

I would definitely go ahead and try to get him back if you really think this relationship can last a very long time.
jai

March 8, 2015 at 12:51 am

I’m in a weird situation and could really do with some advice privately if possible please…..
Lackofconfidence

March 6, 2015 at 8:49 am

Thank you for your reply! Unfortunately, he texted me after 4 days of break up: “oh, what the odds, I found a girl on Facebook that has the same name like you :/” I replied what a small world we live in” we chatted for a bit more, it was very casual, things such as where I live at the moment, he was happy I finally found a job in forensic mental health ( one thing he wanted me to do, find a new job) and that’s it. I told him that it’s too hard for me to keep up with this “friendly” relationship, so he told me “sorry, it’s hard for me as well” and that was it. I asked him if he read my last letter I left him before moving out, where I told him that no one’s perfect and love is about forgiving, he said yes, and that he wanted to contact me about it before, but he couldn’t find time. I asked him what did he wanted to reply and he replied “things I couldn’t tell you about” and that was it. So now I’m really puzzled if I should still reply to him or no, and if I do reply what context it should be? Thank you so much for your help, it’s very appreciated!
K

Jazmine

February 27, 2015 at 3:21 pm

Helloo! I broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago.. I decided to leave him because he said he wanted to be with my and he loved me but wasn’t ready for a relationship. We broke up in good terms and I decided to do the NC period. Yesterday I was at one of our friend’s band gig and he suddenly he popped in.. in a regular situation he would have never come to this gig because he doesnt get along with these people anymore,actually before breaking up we talked about that gig and he said he didnt want to go… that I should go on my own… Anyways he went there and he was very happy to see me,, he gave me a big hug and kiss! I told him this was the place I least expected to see him and he said.. yeah and this is the place I knew I would find you..
Now! Aside from the fact that of course all my feelings surfaced again.. I want to know what to do about the NC Period..should I start again.. or continue I still have like 12 days left.. Im confused! Please help..
Ms. Unique

February 26, 2015 at 8:29 pm

I broke up with this guy I was dating for just a few months. Its only been 1 week and I miss you terribly, well after the broke up I realized it was dumb to break up with him in the first place because he didn’t deserve it so the next day I texted him and tell him what happened and if we can work things out. I asked him if he ever sees us getting back together he said “maybe I don’t know, I am confused” and he said he needed sometimes to think but we still talked everyday, it just not romantic stuff or things that involve the two of us. I like him so much and I do not know what to do in that case its impossible to forget about him. I always trying talk bring up stuff that involve what happened between us like baby steps but the conversation always change to something else. Last time as we were texting I mention something to him saying “your future wife” and he said who like he wanted me to say something so I told him “your future girl” and he was like wow and his tone just changed when I said your future girl. I am really kind of confused I do not know what to do please help. I wish he could just tell me whats going on if we are never getting back together just save me time and stop wondering about whats going on.
Kelly

February 23, 2015 at 6:34 am

Hey! My ex boyfriend broke up with me dec 2013! It was pretty rough we were together 2 years , he wished me Merry Christmas this past Christmas we talked good and then this past weekend we were speaking so well we are currently still speaking and maintaining contact. Thing is I’m in another country for university but I would be visiting home now and again. He was my first long term relationship , it was hard. Never thought we would be back to speaking so good, he’s asking lots of questions about my family university different things it’s surreal we really loved each other and were a huge part in each other’s lives. In the last few months of our rship we drifted grew apart I admit I pressured him into giving me way too much of his time but I’m managing time way better now. I find myself being super cautious in talking to him again, I really loved this guy and saw myself marrying him having kids vice versa, what do you think? We were very serious…. What do you think about us getting back together or about what’s happening now? All the memories are coming back mostly positive memories we had but some negative . Hopefully maintaining contact right now is a good thing…..
Anna

February 22, 2015 at 7:15 pm

I hv dated dis guy for 3yrs, we love each other he said his family wants him 2marry 4rm der place, we broke up bcos of dat twice n now he wants me back, shuld I go back 2him or shuld I get him since we can not settle 2geder bcos of his family
Elvorina

February 19, 2015 at 12:00 pm

Hi My ex broke up with me almost 2 months ago. He couldn’t tell me face to face that he’s breaking up he sent it via sms but also couldn’t tell me the reason of the break up. He only said that he to make a choice which were to let me go. Okay so you can imagine how i reacted to that. I was texting him for two on end asking to give me closure and accusing him of being a slut. But i was hurt and just couldnt understand why we broke up just like that out of the blue didnt see it coming at all. so i tried the NC rule. but then he would text me asking to contact the swimpool centre. and days after that we would just say morning and goodnight via text. Then i i switched back to the NC rule. 4 days down the line he sent me 2 video clips one of Christina called Hurt and one was a poem which says I’m sorry I did a dumb thing. but the ending of this specific video says “i’m sorry this video will end but it doesnt mean our relationship have to end too. i miss and i love you baby” my question is why send this video where there are so many others that also says im sorry but not with so much emotion. when i asked him the videos he told me he just wanted to say sorry for hurting me but he actually hurt himself in the process. I want him back but he’s a closed book when it comes to feelings. what should i do. in a way it feels like he is reaching out to me but also afraid. is this a good sign or am i seeing too much into this? plz help

admin

February 20, 2015 at 11:22 pm

Do you have any idea of really what caused the breakup.

Surely you might have a guess at least.

Lexi

February 17, 2015 at 2:18 am

I dated my best guy friend of 8 months for 4 months. I took him for granted, was kind of mean, and expected a lot, but even after over a year of not being together, he hates me. He occasionally messages back when I tell him I miss him or just to make small talk ill message him. He says there’s no way we’ll ever get back together, but something inside me tells me differently. And since the break up, he’s still been keeping contact with my brother-in-law, but doesn’t talk about me ever. I really love this guy. Even after not being together for so long and tried to be in relationships with other people he was always on my mind. We’ve been talking the past few days, but not about much. How do I get him to want me again?

admin

February 17, 2015 at 12:49 pm

How were you mean?

SandraM.

February 16, 2015 at 5:56 pm

Hi,
I’ve been friends with this guy for atleast 2 1/2 years and this past year in august he told me that he wantd to get serious and date me. Now this man has been married twice and has no kids. During the time we dated, he has been emotionless. I mean I can’t even get a simple “I MISS YOU” from him when I express it, nor a “I love you”. He eventually told me after new years that his ex wife contacted him before Christmas wanting to work things out. he clearly expressed that he was not going back in that route but with her contacting him, she brought out old emotions of hate and resentment. He then goes on to tell me that he thinks I deserve better and that im better without him. I tried cutting him off but he was really concerned about our friendship so I continued to talk to him because of the fact that we were friends before. I don’t know how to go about a 30 no contact rule. Any advice cause I don’t know what to think of this and im heartbroken literally.

SandraM.

February 18, 2015 at 12:48 am

guess im not getting any help

sandra

February 9, 2015 at 9:30 pm

Hi and thanks please help me out. I having been dating my boyfriend for four months now but online and have never met. But he is so secretive that i kept breaking up with him and today made it the fourth time but was real each time i broke up with him, he wouldn’t let me go but still wouldn’t open up about his pat relationships. Now i broke up with him not knowing his mom past away and he said ‘thanks and that his mom passed away and he thinks that i would be happy and i shouldn’t bother writing back it is important anymore’. Please what do i do? I love him and want him back.

admin

February 10, 2015 at 3:40 pm

Hmm… Is there a reason he won’t see you in person?

Maria

February 9, 2015 at 11:04 am

Hey, Chris! I think it was a blessing that I found your site. Although I had hope before, now I have even more and I can concentrate on other things in my every day life and not cry all day long. At least I hope I’m right…
My boyfriend of 6 years (we are 22-23) told me in December that he loves me and I make him the happiest, but he doesn’t feel the butterflies in his stomach anymore, nor the same excitement to see me, kiss me, hold my hand on the street. We haven’t broke up, we met few times, even sped the New Year’s Eve and Christmas together. I asked him if he thinks it’s a good idea to take a break, to save our relationship and he said yes. He told me that he believes in us(after I asked), that we can get through this and that he sees a future with us together, meant to be forever. Is it a good thing? Should I worry less knowing that he believes in our love, in our bond? I have to say we get along really well, have the same passions in life, the same tastes. Should I listen to my heart, my intuition when I’m down? I feel that we are meant to be, and this period of time will make our love even stronger. Is that possible?

Maria

February 9, 2015 at 11:24 am

I’m kind of trying the NCR and he sent me a kiss message on friday and good-night messages every night

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