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1,987 thoughts on “You Want Your Ex Back After Cheating On Him…. Here’s What To Do”

  1. Aya

    February 13, 2018 at 2:20 pm

    My story is different I was with my boyfriend for 4 years before one year he broke up with me at that time I feel like he heat me I try my best to forget him but I failed they’re goes then I met anther guy I just know him for one month we not dating but he became close friend one time he kiss me after that I know how much I love my boyfriend after afew days my boyfriend back to me and I am so happy then I cut my relationship with the anther guy we ok until one day my boyfriend broke up with me again then I was so hurt I was out of mind then I make mistakes I go to another guy office and we just talking I never do anything with him then we back together I never told him I go there and he catch me when the anther guy call me until now he think I am cheat on him and now he broke up with me again what I have to do. Please help

  2. bunny

    February 12, 2018 at 12:17 pm

    i slept with my ex once (before the current one)due to sympathy his suicidal problem, it was bad and short cuz i didn’t want to, i regret it right after, later i realized he just being manipulate so i’m mad about myself being stupid and hurt the one i love .
    i lie about this for an year, then my ex found out and broke up with me right away, we were talking about get marry the next year.
    during the breakup we were in long distance, i flew to his country for a week to show him i’m serious, he thinks that was super sweet and we had a good time. but no longer after i went back, he got a gf for a short period of time, i was being cool with it, he told me he can’t find some things i have in her and he still gets jealous about me so he end the relationship with her. then i did no contact, on the 30th he message me just to ask if i’m sleeping with anyone cuz he got an anonymous message saying i am (which is strange cuz i was busy and i didn’t), then we have short convo every week or so, sometimes he’s being hot sometimes cold.
    3 months ago he got back to my country, i picked him up at the airport, we hang out about every week or longer, and almost seems like nothing happened before, just having good times, we hold hands, hugging etc, sometimes even call me babe, tell me he loves me, say that i’m his he’s mine, tell me his future plan(i have a feeling there’s me in it)but afraid if he give me a chance the history will repeat or what if some guy would go after me. i block that ex long time ago, treat other guys like they are dead, show him my phone if he want to see stuff. now we chat online maybe every one to three days, but things besides us he doesn’t really seem to want to share(or just really nothing to share, idk), and only his new friends who don’t know the broke up know i’m exist, so basically im a secret. and i feel like he put his friends first on purpose when i ask if he want to hang out sometimes, also he hide some fb posts, but those posts are just normal stuff.i don’t understand?

    i’m confused, sometimes it almost feels like i’m doing good we gonna get back ,but when think about some small things, i get frustrated thinking he would never commit.
    i wonder if i should do no contact again, can cheating be cover like normal breakup? what should i improve ?plz help

  3. Monique

    February 9, 2018 at 10:44 pm

    my boyfriend and I broke up for a couple days and in that time frame I sexted an ex and mutual friend of ours. my boyfriend found the texts, left in the middle of the night, and has said multiple times will never be the same. he will never love me the same and if we ever get back together it’ll be fake. (he told my best friend this, not me personally) I should just count my blessings and walk away right?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 15, 2018 at 12:38 pm

      Hi Monique,

      you can still try the advice above..

  4. Alexandria

    February 5, 2018 at 7:55 am

    What happens if he leaves you for another girl so you get revenge by sleeping with his best friend and putting his toothbrush in the toilet?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 7, 2018 at 3:15 pm

      Hi Alexandria
      That’s still considered if you’re trying to get him back..so, you can still follow the advice above..

  5. Mark

    January 31, 2018 at 2:04 pm

    i know this sounds weird, but pls help me with this just pls tell me what to do 🙁 she cheated on me.. she wants to have us back.. i love her so much so i gave her the chance.. we talk that we’ll help each other to fix it, but im not feeling her effort to have us back 🙁 what should i do? by the way were a long distance relationship

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 31, 2018 at 5:29 pm

      Hi Mark,

      Have you told her that and why you feel that way?

  6. Marisa

    January 28, 2018 at 2:25 am

    I did cut all ties off with the guy I cheated on my ex boyfriend with. I do tend to get very drunk every time he breaks up with me and make-out with a random guy at the bar which just makes me feel more empty, but I know I have to stop doing that because it’s just making everything worse. Based on my previous comment, do I have a chance of getting him back for good? What can I do? Should I just give up all hope?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 30, 2018 at 11:16 pm

      You can still try the nc rule, this time be active in improving yourself and in posting in social media but avoid jealousy and bar posts.

  7. Sandy Opera

    January 26, 2018 at 6:16 am

    Hello
    I don’t know how to deal with my situation. My boyfriend and I have had a very good relationship for the past 2 years and we both love each other very much. However, 6 months ago, I went back to my country for a visit and met my ex there. My ex was trying to get back with me and I told him no because what’s the point? I’m only here for a few weeks.
    I told my boyfriend about this conversation and he got extremely mad that I didn’t know how to answer my ex and that I implied that if I were to stay there longer, I would be with my ex. We were very close to breaking up but I cut off all communications with my ex and apologized and eventually things calmed down.

    A month after that while I was still in my visit, I met my crush from 2 years ago. The plan was only to meet and talk but I ended up kissing him. I’m not saying kissing isn’t cheating but we didn’t have sex or anything like that. I admit that I was very much looking for the attention and affection and the feeling of being loved by someone at the time because my current boyfriend was at the other side of the world and couldn’t provide me that especially after what had happened just recently.

    So after the unplanned kiss with the crush, I told him I still love my boyfriend and I don’t know why I kissee him. He told me to forget about it and we didn’t talk to each other after that until expect once after I got back when I told him I don’t wanna have anything to do with it and I am not going to leave my current boyfriend no matter what.

    So I came back from my country and the relationship with my boyfriend was going very well. We were talking about marriage and settling down. I never told him about the kiss because I was scared of losing him but about a week ago, he started telling me he doesn’t deserve me and that I’m too good for him etc. I always felt guilty and was always conscious about my mistake and in the back of my mind I knew that I was the one who didn’t deserve him.. So I couldn’t bear to hear him say I’m perfect when I wasn’t. So I told him about the kiss after 6 months that it happened.

    He didn’t get mad in the beginning. He said he was more disappointed than mad that I would do something like that. Now our relationship has gone haywire. I feel like I should have never told him because the last thing I want in this world is to see him in pain. But obviously I can’t go back in time. The next day he was acting normal but was getting angry unreasonably and throwing subliminals at me. A point to note is that he never said he would break up with me. He said he has a lot going on in his mind and because I cheated, he can’t trust that I won’t do it again and that he can’t trust himself if he would cheat on me as a way of getting back at me. Like if she could do it why can’t I? Another point is that he has been cheated twice before in his past relationships. He said he thought I was perfect but now he’s realizing that I’m only human.

    Later in the day he decided that he wants to be in an open relationship and that’s the only way he’ll feel secure because you can’t technically cheat on an open relationship. He doesn’t want breaks. I’ve told him that I will give him space to think and I will keep my distance but he says he doesn’t want to feel like anything is changed so he wants me to act normally and not mention anything about it.

    But I don’t want to be in an open relationship and I definitely can’t function without knowing that our relationship has a future or not. I don’t do well with uncertainty. I love him very much but I don’t want to see him in pain. I don’t know if I should still be with him knowing that he will never see me as perfect ever again, that he will never be the happiest with me ever again. What should I do? Looks like the no contact method doesn’t work but what else can I do?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 29, 2018 at 11:45 am

      Hi Sandy,

      No contact is not guaranteed to work in any situation but it helps increase your chances. Well, frankly, he probably thought being in an open relationship with you is what you wanted because you acted that way. Telling an ex that you wouldn’t be with him just because you wouldn’t be staying in that place long enough sounds off, and then after that you kissed another guy.. You’re acting like you’re not sure with your current bf. I’m not trying to blame you for all of this, I’m just trying to say what your bf probably thinks. Because if it’s the other way around, would you want him to act like that? No, right?
      Well, to him, what happened were cheating, so, you can still follow the advice above and check this one too:
      This Is How To Make Him Trust You Again

  8. Marisa

    January 25, 2018 at 2:29 am

    Hi,

    I need your help. I cheated on my ex boyfriend 2 years ago and told him at the end of this past summer. He broke up with me when I first told him, but we’ve been on and off since. It’s really complicated but I know more than anything I want to be with him. As of right now he doesn’t want to date me but claims he’s in love with me. What do I do? I just want him back for good…

    To provide you with a little background on the situation, he broke up with me at first that lasted a week then wanted to try to fix things that lasted 2 weeks then didn’t want to try then we had 2 weeks of no contact and he told me he wanted me back so I took him back. He broke up with me again 2 weeks later then two days later changed his mind and wanted me back. We lasted 2 months and those 2 months were amazing. He broke up with me because of a horrible big fight we had that made him feel similar to how he did back in September. Now he claims he doesn’t want to date me but is in love with me. This whole situation seems so unique and I do not know what to do anymore. Please help, he’s the one in my eyes and I don’t want to loose him. We did agree that we will at some point maybe a month from now check-in to see if this is really what we want. Do I even have a chance to get him back for good or is this something we can’t come back from? What do I need to do during this time apart?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 25, 2018 at 8:18 pm

      Hi Marisa,

      He still loves you but doesn’t trust you. Did you cut ties with the other guys?

  9. Bre

    December 20, 2017 at 12:01 am

    I cheated on my boyfriend by txting another guy that was just giving me more attention and wanted to hangout when my boyfriend was super busy with work. I felt lonely and underappreciated. I never met up with this guy though. My boyfriend found out and ended up breaking up with me and then came back and said he just wanted to go on a break because he doesn’t trust me and still wants to talk. Anytime I bring a relationship up with me he gives excuses and still says he doesn’t trust me. Will there be a chance of him ever wanting to be in a relationship with me!? I don’t know what else I can do..

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 20, 2017 at 9:35 pm

      Hi Bre,

      do you want to try the advice above?

  10. Candi

    December 10, 2017 at 1:03 pm

    I cheated on my ex 4 years ago. It was such a messed up situation. 2 years before I cheated he would not commit he did what he wanted to do but had me on the me on the side. Then when I had enough. And walked away he decided I was the one. By then I was already seeing someone, I was so confused because I still loved him but was scared because he did a complete 180. We still talk and go to dinner, I’m a friend with benefits. He has told me he does not want a relationship with me, said he doesn’t want the cheating to happen again but it’s been 4 years he can’t let it go he feels he is second choice, and he sees nothing he did wrong

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 12, 2017 at 5:02 am

      Hi Candi,

      Honestly, it just looks like he wasn’t really going to commit..he just gave you what you want when you had somebody else because he’s losing you and now that you’re back, he’s just using what happened as excuse to continue doing what he’s doing..but you can still try to check this one:
      EBR 006: How To Turn Friends With Benefits Into A Relationship

  11. Anonymous

    December 7, 2017 at 6:03 am

    So my boyfriend and I were together for 9 months before we broke up due to me moving to another state for school. After a few months we realized we loved each other and wanted to try and make it work long distance until he could finish school himself and move out here to be with me. We have been apart for a year now and had been back together for the last 7 months. Within that time we had only seen each other twice for about a week each. A couple months ago I hung out with a friend from high school and we ended up drinking to much and long story short I cheated. We barely even had sex before I stopped it and broke out in tears because of what I had done. I broke up with my boyfriend the next morning. I didn’t tell him what I had done because I didn’t want him to fear future relationships, I just told him that I wasn’t ready for the level of commitment it would be for him to move across the country to be with me, especially since we hadn’t had a close intimate and physical relationship for almost a year. The truth though is that I was so excited for him to move here and to finally be with him. He was my best friend. I know I don’t deserve him now and he probably won’t move out here if he knows what happened but I want to be with him more then anything. I don’t know what to do.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 11, 2017 at 8:34 am

      Hi Anonymous,

      Why not try the advice above? If you plan to get back with him, he will know the truth sooner or later

  12. Alex

    November 28, 2017 at 5:11 pm

    I cheated on my ex 3 different times, because of feeling alone in our relationship and a underlying love addiction, due to some childhood issues. Every time I would explain how I was feeling he would take responsibility for his part in the problem and we would move on promising to be better. A year after the second time he even proposed and we were engaged but nothing really ever changed in the relationship. Three months before our wedding I met someone who was doing all the things that I had always wanted from my fiance and this guy was very clear about his intention to be with me. I cheated again but this time broke it off with my fiance, who I had lived with for 5 years, he was 100% opposed he wanted to work on it, bought relationship books ect. he also showed some major change, he decided to stay in the apt for another month and begged me to let him try to fix it so we could stay together, I was a confused emotional mess torn between these two guys. I held firm and he moved out but I didn’t really want that, it just felt like something we had to go through. I ended up talking to him for the next 4 months as if we were getting back together and I just needed time, while I was dating this other guy, who wanted to move super fast. it was hell and finally I knew i couldn’t keep it up and went to counselling and realized how much i regretted my decisions and wanted my ex back. He had told me all through this that we were fine that as soon as I was ready to be all in, he was ready to work on us but then as soon as I was and told him, he disappeared and wont talk to me. He said that he was so angry with me and that he didn’t know about the future but as of now he couldn’t trust me and didn’t care if I tried anymore. We talked very sporadically after that for about 2 weeks, but then he cut me off entirely . That was about 2 months ago. He is now dating someone else and I am crushed I want him back. I don’t know what to do.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 29, 2017 at 2:41 pm

      Hi Alex,
      You can still follow the advice above..

  13. aarzoo

    November 17, 2017 at 10:37 am

    Please help me …i want him back

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 18, 2017 at 2:43 am

      Hi Aarzoo,

      did you cheat on him? Do you want to try the advice above?

  14. ayanda

    November 14, 2017 at 2:58 pm

    hie lm Ayanda l broke up with my bf because he saw some nasty texts of me and this other guy who l was dating before him but dont love him anymore ,but l made a mistake l didnt tell this other guy its over so we continued talking through the phone as if l still love him ,but l rily love my new bf.

  15. Emma

    November 5, 2017 at 8:39 am

    Hi, my bf saw texts on my phone to another guy. Me and my bf were in a bad place as it was long distance and we kept having little arguments, probably mostly because we missed each other. In this time I stated messaging someone I worked with, I then slept with this person when I was drunk and thought it was over between me and my bf. My bf now knows all of this and I am trying everything to get him back. I did it because i was upset because i thought our relationship was perfect and when we started arguing i didn’t understand why it had got like this. I don’t have any interest in the other guy and I have deleted him from everything. I am mostly confused as I am back at uni with my bf and we have been texting a bit and sleeping together but he still seems to think we won’t get back together. I met up with him to tell him i think we need space (as he can’t keep sleeping with me when he wants then saying yeah i still don’t want you back). I am trying to give him space, but I am worried he will just move on in this time apart and never come back. Please help I don’t know what to do.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 6, 2017 at 12:37 pm

      Hi Emma,

      Why not try the advice above?

  16. sunshine

    October 31, 2017 at 3:16 am

    Hi
    I never wanted to cheat my bf. But I texted my ex bf. Ex bf has sent all my screenshots to my bf and now my bf is angry with me. And switched off his phone. I need him back please help me. I told my ex to tell my bf that those screenshots are not true. But my bf didn’t believe it..

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      November 1, 2017 at 6:53 pm

      Hi Sunshine,

      Do you want to try the advice above?

  17. Surbhi

    October 26, 2017 at 3:11 pm

    I broke up with my bf becouse he didn’t give me time and i left him now he has another girlfriend but i want him back please give me some advise

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 29, 2017 at 11:16 am

      HI Surbhi,

      do you want to try the no contact rule?

  18. Sweety

    October 16, 2017 at 2:18 pm

    We’ve been together for almost nine years.and next month is our wedding.he found out that I cheated on him last four years ago.and now he told me that he is afraid to love me again.and he don’t trust me anymore.He gonna call off the wedding.I don’t know what to do.but I really want him back.I regret that I cheated on him.I love him so much. I can’t lose him. Please help me

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 17, 2017 at 12:07 am

      Hi Sweety,

      Are you going to try the advice above?

  19. Nicole

    October 10, 2017 at 11:08 pm

    my Boyfriend was wasted and I walked into the bar and he told me to leave because he wanted to get with the girl next to him. After all that I broke up with him nd over time we tried to work on things. It was too hard for me to trust him and forget about it so he ended it with me just this weekend. I got drunk and texted him saying I slept with one of his friends and I snap chatted him me in bed with another guy . He blocked my number and the next day I messaged him on face book and he basically said he hates me. He believes that I didn’t actually get with his friend but he will not forgive me. If I leave him alone do you think there’s any chance of us getting back together again? Our 3 year anniversary is in 2 weeks 🙁 I can’t stop crying and I haven’t got out of bed I have no energy. This boy was my first love but I was not his so this is way harder for me . He was so romantic and sweet and loving and I pushed him away and I want him back so bac

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 11, 2017 at 10:26 am

      Hi Nicole,
      If he believes you didn’t cheat, then yes, you have a chance.. just let him be for now to cool down and go do your own thing to heal..

  20. BOITUMELO

    October 10, 2017 at 7:51 am

    i cheated my b/friend for no reason,they is a time when i was with him and this other b/friend came at night.i tried to speak to him but he didnt listern,he ended coming inside of the house,he find my boyfriend there he chased out my boyfriend.since then my boyfriend is not talking to me i tried to apologise by sending messages but he is just quiet.what can i do to get him back?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      October 10, 2017 at 3:19 pm

      Hi Boitumelo,
      Do you want to try the advice above?

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