EBR 061: Turning Your Breakup Into A Golden Opportunity

Have you ever heard of the term, renaissance man, before?

Well, a renaissance man is defined as,

A person with many talents or areas of knowledge.

And that’s who I feel like I have featured on today’s episode of the podcast.

Allow me to introduce you to Neil Sattin,

  • A professional dog trainer
  • Singer/songwriter
  • Strategic intervention expert
  • Relationship/life coach

He is also today’s featured guest as he is going to teach us about how to turn your breakup into a golden opportunity. Neil and I talked for about an hour and I have to say that after that hour was finished it really inspired me to look at breakups in a different way.

Heck, even Amor, one of our top team members, loved his interview,

amors-thoughts

So, believe me when I say that this is a MUST WATCH interview.

Video Of Episode 61 (Turning Your Breakup Into A Golden Opportunity)

How did you like the video interview?

If you are interested in learning more from Neil I highly recommend that you join his Webinar!

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That’s right, this Wednesday around 1PM Eastern Time Neil is going to be hosting a webinar teaching you about how you can have a relationship breakthrough.

So, make sure you check that out if you get a chance.

What We Talk About In This Episode

  • Neil’s fascinating background that led him to want to help people with their relationships
  • Source Point Therapy
  • The Relationship Alive Podcast
  • How to become yourself in the relationship
  • How Neil got his ex back (who he is engaged to)
  • The healthy way to break up
  • The one simple question you should ask yourself after you do something
  • Conscious Uncoupling

Important Links Mentioned In This Episode

Transcript For This Episode

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Chris Seiter

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Rachel
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Hi. My boyfriend and I broke up early this year and I have followed ex boyfriend recoveries advise.. and after a patient wait, we got back together! Since we have been back together, we have been on road trips and short breaks and it’s been lovely. We’ve got on well and see each other regularly. Thing is, he lives 40 mins away and I have a 5 year old. He seems to be strategically avoiding my son. Says he has things to do during the week, but will see me when I don’t have my boy. He’s also kind of… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Rachel,

why havent you told him you love him? Honestly, that’s a red flag that he doesnt want to get close to your son..has he always been like that since the beginning?

Rachel
Guest
Hi. My boyfriend and I broke up early this year and I have followed ex boyfriend recoveries advise.. and after a patient wait, we got back together! Since we have been back together, we have been on road trips and short breaks and it’s been lovely. We’ve got on well and see each other regularly. Thing is, he lives 40 mins away and I have a 5 year old. He seems to be strategically avoiding my son. Says he has things to do during the week, but will see me when I don’t have my boy. He’s also kind of… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Rachel,

why havent you told him you love him? Honestly, that’s a red flag that he doesnt want to get close to your son..has he always been like that since the beginning?

Lulu
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Hi Chris, I just want to say that I am so glad I came upon your website one week ago when my boyfriend ended things with me. I purchased your book, have poured over the website articles and listen to your podcasts whenever I have a spare minute. I was pretty distraught when I first received the bad news, but your content has alleviated that awful feeling I had originally experienced where I was helpless and overcome by fear. Whilst I still consider the relationship to be one which is extremely special to me, the break up has shed light… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Lulu,

Thank you so much!! Take this time to out yourself and mind yourself only.. Do everything you want to do.. check this one too:
EBR 060: “Dating Yourself” During No Contact With Veronica Grant

Lulu
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Thanks Amor 🙂 I will

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

You’re welcome!

Lulu
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Hi Amor,
I just wanted to let you know I successfully completed the NC period. In fact, today it has been 50 days! I definitely feel in a much better place – not healed entirely, but in a better place and stronger without my ex boyfriend.
Thanks for all your help. This website and the content majorly got me through that breakup.
Lulu

Lulu
Guest

P.s. He did contact me around the 16 day mark – which I ignored 😉 felt good actually.

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Lulu,

That’s great! Are you texting now?

Lulu
Guest
Hi Chris, I just want to say that I am so glad I came upon your website one week ago when my boyfriend ended things with me. I purchased your book, have poured over the website articles and listen to your podcasts whenever I have a spare minute. I was pretty distraught when I first received the bad news, but your content has alleviated that awful feeling I had originally experienced where I was helpless and overcome by fear. Whilst I still consider the relationship to be one which is extremely special to me, the break up has shed light… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Lulu,

Thank you so much!! Take this time to out yourself and mind yourself only.. Do everything you want to do.. check this one too:
EBR 060: “Dating Yourself” During No Contact With Veronica Grant

Lulu
Guest

Thanks Amor 🙂 I will

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

You’re welcome!

Lulu
Guest

Hi Amor,
I just wanted to let you know I successfully completed the NC period. In fact, today it has been 50 days! I definitely feel in a much better place – not healed entirely, but in a better place and stronger without my ex boyfriend.
Thanks for all your help. This website and the content majorly got me through that breakup.
Lulu

Lulu
Guest

P.s. He did contact me around the 16 day mark – which I ignored 😉 felt good actually.

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Lulu,

That’s great! Are you texting now?

Lauren
Guest
Hi! I will try to make a long story short. Basically I have been dating this guy for over 2 years on and off. We would break up for 12 hours and then get back together and take occasional breaks that would last a couple of days, but we kept getting back with each other, claiming that we would try again. I broke up with my ex about a month ago, thinking it was the right thing to do because I wanted him to focus on school and not make me a priority, since he spent a lot of time… Read more »
Lauren
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I also can’t record my message because I don’t have a microphone, sorry!

EBR Team Member: Amor
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EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Lauren,

are you going to do no contact? You should check this too:
You Desperately Begged For Him Back And Failed… I’m Here To Fix That

Lauren
Guest
Hi! I will try to make a long story short. Basically I have been dating this guy for over 2 years on and off. We would break up for 12 hours and then get back together and take occasional breaks that would last a couple of days, but we kept getting back with each other, claiming that we would try again. I broke up with my ex about a month ago, thinking it was the right thing to do because I wanted him to focus on school and not make me a priority, since he spent a lot of time… Read more »
Lauren
Guest

I also can’t record my message because I don’t have a microphone, sorry!

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Lauren,

are you going to do no contact? You should check this too:
You Desperately Begged For Him Back And Failed… I’m Here To Fix That

Anita
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Hi Chris, I broke up with my ex one month ago, our relationship was always on and off and after living together things got worse and I couldnt handle anymore so I ended, I really want to try to move on cause this relationship brought me so much pain already , despite the fact that I still love him but we don´t know how to deal with each other , he was really angry at me cause I ask him to move out as soon as possible, after the house issues, I immediatly start NC ( not to get him… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Anita,

I’m a bit confused. Did you mean you already did nc but he’s friendzoning you now? How long did you do nc and how much have you improved?

Anita
Guest
Hi Amor, I already did the Nc and it went just as I thought, I made some improvements on myself as Im feeling more confident and happy, now he´s back on contact but I can just feel he´s just trying to became friends with benefits, he actually asks when I will invite him over to my place. I ended my relationship cause I could feel he was not truly commit with me, he was living with me but wanted to do the single life (he´s 40 by the way) and now he just came back in contact trying to be… Read more »
Anita
Guest

I did NC for 30 days

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

You have to keep doing the routine you started during nc.. Use humor when conveying your message, like, “Oh, someone is really missing my house! :)” And then start a different topic.
If he really says he wants to sleep with you just say, you’re flattered but it’s not your thing to be friends with benefits.

Kate
Guest
My name is Kathleen McDevitt. I became a member 18 hours ago. So far the e-book and guide has calmed me down a LOT. But I have a unique situation. I am ABOUT to be broken up with. It will happen after 9pm this Wednesday. It is 954 am Tuesday. In 35 hours he wants to meet me to break up (he has pretty much done this already over two emails [out of nowhere], a weeks time of communication silence). I need guidance to be able to use my e-book and all its components after this is done Wednesday nite.… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Kate,
I edited your comment because we don’t make private emails public unless you want other commenters to email you too. I suppose you already talked? How was it?

Anita
Guest
Hi Chris, I broke up with my ex one month ago, our relationship was always on and off and after living together things got worse and I couldnt handle anymore so I ended, I really want to try to move on cause this relationship brought me so much pain already , despite the fact that I still love him but we don´t know how to deal with each other , he was really angry at me cause I ask him to move out as soon as possible, after the house issues, I immediatly start NC ( not to get him… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Anita,

I’m a bit confused. Did you mean you already did nc but he’s friendzoning you now? How long did you do nc and how much have you improved?

Anita
Guest
Hi Amor, I already did the Nc and it went just as I thought, I made some improvements on myself as Im feeling more confident and happy, now he´s back on contact but I can just feel he´s just trying to became friends with benefits, he actually asks when I will invite him over to my place. I ended my relationship cause I could feel he was not truly commit with me, he was living with me but wanted to do the single life (he´s 40 by the way) and now he just came back in contact trying to be… Read more »
Anita
Guest

I did NC for 30 days

EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

You have to keep doing the routine you started during nc.. Use humor when conveying your message, like, “Oh, someone is really missing my house! :)” And then start a different topic.
If he really says he wants to sleep with you just say, you’re flattered but it’s not your thing to be friends with benefits.

Kate
Guest
My name is Kathleen McDevitt. I became a member 18 hours ago. So far the e-book and guide has calmed me down a LOT. But I have a unique situation. I am ABOUT to be broken up with. It will happen after 9pm this Wednesday. It is 954 am Tuesday. In 35 hours he wants to meet me to break up (he has pretty much done this already over two emails [out of nowhere], a weeks time of communication silence). I need guidance to be able to use my e-book and all its components after this is done Wednesday nite.… Read more »
EBR Team Member: Amor
Guest
EBR Team Member: Amor

Hi Kate,
I edited your comment because we don’t make private emails public unless you want other commenters to email you too. I suppose you already talked? How was it?

Beachrose
Guest
Hi Chris! Love your site & info. Had to wait for my finances to rise before investing in some of your stuff, but taking the plunge today 🙂 Just wanted to give you a little feedback, as a professional filmmkaer & video editor: You don’t need to have your mike in front of you while you speak on camera in your podcast. That mike is completely sensitive enough to pick up your voice just fine, without being directly in front of your face. So, just *trust* that it’s doing its job, place it lightly above your head, and then just… Read more »
Beachrose
Guest
Hi Chris! Love your site & info. Had to wait for my finances to rise before investing in some of your stuff, but taking the plunge today 🙂 Just wanted to give you a little feedback, as a professional filmmkaer & video editor: You don’t need to have your mike in front of you while you speak on camera in your podcast. That mike is completely sensitive enough to pick up your voice just fine, without being directly in front of your face. So, just *trust* that it’s doing its job, place it lightly above your head, and then just… Read more »
Chris Seiter
Guest

Hi Beachrose,

I am totally posting this publicly. Thank you so much for the advice. Do you mind emailing me here:

[email protected]

I’d like to pick your brain a bit and maybe help you out a bit.