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378 thoughts on “EBR 024: Using Social Media To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back”

  1. lis

    May 30, 2016 at 5:55 pm

    Hello me and my ex just broke up a week ago.I want to know how and if I can get him back at all this is like the 4th time we break up but this time it was me that broke up with him. He would never text me or want to spend time with me. And he would say I bug and that I was over dramatic always.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 31, 2016 at 5:43 pm

      Hi Lis,

      how long were you together? You should stick more to no contact because you’re on and off.

  2. Eve

    May 29, 2016 at 6:49 am

    I deactivated my FB profile long ago and broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago. I reactivated it. Would there be a good chance of him checking up on my profile? He’s a marine and I’m an airwoman. He was always afraid that I would run of with another airman, since I was obsessed with airman and pilots. Should I upload my FB profile photo with an airman since I’ve already found one?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 31, 2016 at 7:19 am

      Hi Eve,

      Don’t do it right ahead.. It might be too forward. If the issue of your breakup is mistrust, the more you shouldn’t do it.

  3. kimia

    May 26, 2016 at 8:18 am

    hi me again :)))),the thing about my social media and my (i dont even know to call him ex or not right now :D)boyfriend is he first liked one my pictures on insta few days after breakup when we kinda were still in touch, but he didn’t liked 4 next pictures(in nc period) which two of them was ungettable girl type of pictures and one was funny picture and one was hangging with friends type,and i’m sure he saw all of them,is it a good sign or bad?(while it was he’s own idea and suggestion for me to be happy and be hang with your friends),is he upset and jealous about my pictures?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 29, 2016 at 12:46 pm

      Hi Kimia,

      sorry for the late reply. I have to make some things clear because I’m not sure I understand. He broke up with you but you suggested to go to therapy? Have you started going to therapy but you started no contact?
      And I”m sorry, for now, credit card is the only option for payment.

  4. Peterson

    May 22, 2016 at 3:03 pm

    My ex and i broke up few weeks ago. When would be a good time to follow him again?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 26, 2016 at 10:37 am

      Hi Peterson?

      What do you mean by follow? Follow in Instagram? You should start active no contact first.

  5. Jade

    May 22, 2016 at 2:59 pm

    We broke up couple of months ago but my ex keep checking my SNS and likee one of my photo. We unfollowed each other as soon as break up and he even got a new girl. When he texted me i told him not to reply me back but he came back and liked one of my photo again. I dont understand why he’s doing this since he got a new girlfriend.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 26, 2016 at 10:36 am

      Hi Jade,

      have you responded to his reactions? Like thanking him and asking how he is?

  6. Maddy

    May 13, 2016 at 9:18 pm

    Hi,
    Just a question, I deleted my ex on Facebook and snapchat after he broke up with me, I’m in NC atm, I was wondering if I should add him back or not? Would it seem weird to him?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 15, 2016 at 6:20 am

      Hi Maddy,

      add him back when you’ve built rapport in texting

  7. PEDRO

    May 11, 2016 at 10:18 pm

    Is been 2 months since the breakup. He wanted to be alone. I started NC a month ago… He checks my snapchat stories Daily. I don’t understand why?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 15, 2016 at 2:38 am

      Hi Pedro,

      he wanted to be alone, but that doesn’t mean he wouldn’t miss you..

  8. Kim

    May 5, 2016 at 2:21 pm

    I m in NC period . He congrats ne on my success stories which I shared 2 days ago and didn’t respond to him. Today I found out that he put me on Restricted on Facebook. What does it mean ? What should I do to that ? I completely lost him ?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 8, 2016 at 4:27 am

      nothings, just let him be for now.. it can an emotional act for him or a way to get you to respond.

  9. Daniela

    April 26, 2016 at 11:01 pm

    It was on instagram He posted the picture.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      April 27, 2016 at 8:48 am

      yup! it’s a positive sign.

  10. Daniela

    April 26, 2016 at 10:57 pm

    My ex deleted me on bbm withn two weeks of nc. Then posted a pic for the first time since we started dating ( that is 1yr plus) and when we were dating he once sent me that pic tagged as specially for me. He hasnt contactd me yet its been 19days. Do you think its a positive sign?

  11. Erika

    April 19, 2016 at 9:05 pm

    What if he confronts me about a picture I posted? He asked me who I went to dinner with? What should I say?

    1. Erika

      April 19, 2016 at 9:06 pm

      Also, he blocked me on FB, so that means he is still stalking my profile through someone else right?

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      April 21, 2016 at 1:58 pm

      iF it’s a group date, just say you’re with friends.. If it’s really date, and then say it was someone you met and you went to dinner to talk.. Just don’t post pics that are too forward like kissing or hugging each other.. yes, that’ means he’s looking at it from somebody else’s.

  12. Rebecca

    April 11, 2016 at 1:01 pm

    Either way probably means I don’t have a good chance of getting him back since he blocked my Facebook page,right?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      April 11, 2016 at 2:34 pm

      for now, yes..until he becomes more open to being friends, you have lesser chance

  13. Rebecca

    April 9, 2016 at 3:53 pm

    I have a question. My ex boyfriend and I been broken up for about 2 1/2 weeks. Recently he blocked my facebook page but we weren’t friends and I haven’t contacted him via facebook. Why would he do that?

    1. Rebecca

      April 10, 2016 at 3:27 pm

      Affected by my posts in what way? Keep in mind he left me without telling me. We never had the break up talk. I just stopped hearing from him and he wouldn’t respond to my texts.

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      April 11, 2016 at 7:12 am

      that means he doesn’t want to see your posts.. either it’s his ego or that it hurts him to see you move on, if he really doesn’t care at all he wouldn’t that because you’re not even friends.

    3. EBR Team Member: Amor

      April 10, 2016 at 5:30 am

      if you’re active in posting, it means he’s still affected with your posts.

  14. Kate

    March 21, 2016 at 7:11 pm

    Hi Chris,

    So my ex has a private twitter profile, he unfriended me on fb, he had blocked me on snap chat but recently unblocked me which caused an unfortunate first contact since the NC rule. The only thing we both follow each other on is Instagram. We have talked but I think I have been friend zoned. But anyways. Would reaching out and trying to follow him on any other media like snapchat or twitter be a good or a bad idea?

  15. Marns

    March 16, 2016 at 10:41 pm

    Should I add my ex back on snapchat?
    I let him know that in order for me to get over him I need to delete all social media – Facebook, Snapchat, and unfollow on Instagram. He says he is sad about it but if that’s what I want to do then he supports it. You see, he has a new girlfriend and it’s unbearable to see.
    He still has followe me on Instagram. And I used to love chatting on Snapchat.
    But if I ‘flipflop’ back and add him on snapchat am I going to look crazy and unstable? Maybe I am over analysing it

    Xxx

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      March 17, 2016 at 1:58 am

      Hi Marns,

      it depends on when you deleted him

  16. Daniela

    February 8, 2016 at 6:25 am

    hey so my situation is basically me and my ex had trust issues because of a nude photo i sent to a man at the beginning of the relationship he got over it but when when we got trust issues and i messaged that same man 8 months later and he blew up and broke up with me. now weve been broken up for three weeks and we were sorta in a limbo, not together but not broken up either. so just recently i told him that we should focus on ourselves and in the future try again he agreed and i was so upset cause i didnt feel ready to say goodbye but the in between limbo relationship that formed was hurting so much. i then was dirty talking a guy on fb the same day that me and my ex decided to break it off for good and so my ex logged into my fb later and saw and read the conversation of me and this guy dirty talking and now my ex has completely blocked me on fb and has told me he hated me and several other bad things. anyway i realize that all the things ive done have been impulsive because of not feeling very wanted in the breakup and then the limbo relationship… i just wanted to feel like i was wanted by a man. i still love him to death and want him. how do i approach this situation?? i have no clue whereto even start… its a mess.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 9, 2016 at 3:39 am

      Hi Daniela,

      First the dirty talking and sending of nude pics should stop. It puts you in a bad light. And also,the more you do that the more you will not be treated the way you want to be.

      You have to unfriend those guys and wait basically, just be silent until your ex unblocks you. It’s better if you use this time to grow your self cobfidence and get to know yourself more

  17. Annie

    January 25, 2016 at 4:41 pm

    Long story short… my ex and I were dating for about two years but have known each other for about seven. He broke up with me because “he wanted to focus on himself.” I feel he’s just very confused. We’ve been broken up for about three weeks but have only talked twice over that time. He likes all my stuff on all social media but doesn’t text. I’ve been ding NC for about a week but he hasn’t even tried to text. Any idea on why he likes everything and all that but doesn’t even try and talk to me?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 26, 2016 at 9:45 am

      Hi Annie,

      We can’t know for sure but it can be because he’s still undecided, or he doesn’t know where to start, but at least you know he’s seeing your progress

  18. Allison

    December 13, 2015 at 10:56 pm

    Thanks for writing this, it is very informative. I need some advice from anyone who can give me some insight! Short version, Two and a half dates were awesome (best ever actually), second half of third was awkward because he claims I wasn’t giving any signs of interest, so things ended on a giant miscommunication (probably my fault). He just liked my photo on social media 3 weeks after we ended things. Is he trying to get my attention or just a “like”. Should I do anything? I still really like him.

  19. U

    December 12, 2015 at 5:00 am

    Hi Chris,
    Is it possible to get an ex boyfriend back if he has a high ego and would probably never ever ask to get back together again? So much ego that even if I were to become the ungettable girl, I don’t think he would even care.

  20. Ella

    December 8, 2015 at 4:04 am

    Hi Chris,

    Thank you for all the insightful information you provide here. I have a situation I’m not sure how to deal with.

    I met a guy (32 years old) in Feb 2015… we had an amazing physical connection and went on several dates and were passionately intimate. Suddenly he started to ‘fade’. He said he didn’t want a relationship but about a month or so later he came clean and said he ‘met someone’. They continued to date from April (or before he met me I don’t know for certain) until mid-September 2015. He told me not to contact him or he would have to block me because he needed to respect his girl. This however, did not last and was back to contacting me after he did this only two weeks later. He would never post images of this girl on his social media (he has twitter, IG, fb). I think he posted her once but he was in a group and it was hard to identify IF this was his actual gf. Either way, he continued to contact me the ENTIRE time he was in the relationship. At least once every two weeks. If i went silent on him he would contact me again always literally 2 weeks. He would send me explicit photos, videos, and tell me how much he wanted me. He wouldn’t physically see me but the sext flirtation continued. Eventually, in late September he contacted me yet again… we met up and were intimate twice in the course of two weeks (he said him and his gf broke up and I thought now could be our chance). The last time I saw him and we were intimate I asked him why he kept in contact with me for 7 months and wasn’t interested in dating me. He said because ‘we had a strong physical connection and it was comfortable’ . He also went on about needing to get his shit together, that he was a mess and that he has always had a gf and needs to be on his own. The next day I text him and was cold right after, with short responses. He said ‘he wasn’t in the mood (to flirt in text) and needed to get his shit together and he didn’t need my pressure right now… needed space’. I gave him 30 days space and reached out to him again. He responded promptly and we texted back and forth for a few days. On the third day I made a sexual flirtation along with an image and a video. He went dead silent and now it’s been almost a month. I have sent him several text messages asking him to speak with me or that I miss him, I tried calling once. Nothing angry or crazy though, very calm. I did mention his ignoring was really hurting my feelings and I would be as understanding as I could to whatever he had to say. I wished him a happy thanksgiving …and still… SILENCE. Yet, he literally posts a new social media post of himself doing something ‘fun’ or doing something ‘alone’ EVERY OTHER DAY. My feeling is he cheated (and feels guilty and knows if he communicates he can’t control himself) or really doesn’t want a relationship (with me or with anyone right now). I really like this guy yet I am very upset with what he is doing. I don’t need to be lectured on how I deserve a better guy (I’m 30 years old, not the first time i’ve dealt with this and they usually always come around, although sometimes they are too late), I just want information on how to turn this back around. Please help. Thank you.

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