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598 thoughts on “Decoding The Mixed Signals From Your Ex Boyfriend”

  1. jura

    March 21, 2015 at 9:40 pm

    When my ex is first to message me, we are able to have a conversation. But when I initiate, he calls me needy and desperate lol! I guess he likes to use me as entertainment.

    Kakistos is a reference to the vampire in Buffy series. Maybe you used his name, because ex boyfriends giving mixed signals suck our blood just like vampires do? πŸ˜€

    Did I guess it right? πŸ˜‰

    1. admin

      March 22, 2015 at 5:33 pm

      Haha yup Good ole Kakistos!

      (Someone got the book already though)

      Hmm… how often are you callin ghim if you don’t mind me asking.

  2. Amanda

    March 21, 2015 at 8:37 pm

    Chris can you please help me I’ve ruined things very badly and I don’t know how to get him back

    1. admin

      March 22, 2015 at 5:27 pm

      Sure Amanda!

      How can I help?

  3. Katherine

    March 21, 2015 at 7:55 pm

    Is it a reference to buffy the vampire slayer?

    1. admin

      March 22, 2015 at 5:29 pm

      It sure is!

      (Someone else got it though Katherine sorry πŸ™ .)

      I always have fun stuff like that going on though so just stay tuned and youll probably have another chance down the road.

  4. Faith

    March 21, 2015 at 6:42 pm

    Hi Chris,

    Thanks for the great article. My ex never actually broke up with me… we were having some trouble and he slowly stopped talking to me. We were together for about a year and a half. The last time I heard from him he said we could take things slow again and try over but then I never heard from him. It’s been two weeks now, I haven’t tried talking to him.. no emails texts or phone calls. I’m so confused! haha

    I have your book and it’s very inspirational πŸ™‚

    p.s. Kakistos is vampire from Buffy

    1. admin

      March 22, 2015 at 5:22 pm


      Haha you are right but I already gave the book to someone.

      I think you are doing the right thing believe it or notby ignoring your ex.

  5. Kim

    March 21, 2015 at 6:17 pm

    Wow! What a well-written article, Chris. Exactly what I wanted to read up on. You have this deep ability to really understand your audience and address their concerns in an article or in a video and so much of the material you post, speaks to me! Thank you so much, Chris! I would continue to read your articles and listen to the podcast even long after my ex-boyfriend is no longer in the picture because it gives plenty of insight for future relationships and how to understand men in general. You always have this way of really keeping me engaged. I always refresh your website on a daily basis just to see new material and to read your repsonses to my comments.

    1. admin

      March 22, 2015 at 5:20 pm


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  6. Dimple

    March 21, 2015 at 6:12 pm

    This is very amazing article. You gave us lots of valuable insight. My ex gave me lots of mixed signal. Last week we hunge out and it was nice. After few days he said he is a mess . He is not a good guy for me. He said he doesn’t know how to love anymore. I am very confusing and trying to figure out how do I prove him my love. I really need your help.

    1. admin

      March 22, 2015 at 5:17 pm

      Glad you liked the article.

      I highly doubt that he doesn’t know how to love.

      Have you done NC on him at all yet?

  7. Maya

    March 21, 2015 at 1:36 pm

    He broke up with me long time ago and i was ok with it. But funny thing is he still ignores me, I don’t know why.Its been 6 months now.
    What do you think?

    1. admin

      March 22, 2015 at 5:07 pm

      He ignores all your attempts to reach out?

    2. Maya

      March 22, 2015 at 5:23 pm

      Yeah, but our break up wasn’t bad. I moved on. It’s just stupid that he wont say hi when he sees me. I mean we know eachother for a long time. Its just weird. What could be the reason?

    3. admin

      March 22, 2015 at 5:59 pm

      Maybe he is scared to talk to you.

    4. Maya

      March 22, 2015 at 6:44 pm

      Ohh..So will he get over it with time, or its up to me make a move?

    5. admin

      March 24, 2015 at 8:02 pm

      Sometimes you do have to take control of your fate and make your own move.

    6. Maya

      March 24, 2015 at 8:33 pm

      Thanks.I will think of something.
      Do you maybe have an article to recommend?

    7. admin

      March 31, 2015 at 6:51 pm

      Hi Maya,

      I completely lost context haha (a bit overwhelmed lately.)

  8. Rony

    March 21, 2015 at 10:39 am

    Kakistos, the Father was an ancient Vampire master, possibly of Greek origin. πŸ˜€ πŸ˜›
    Very Interesting blog Chris .. Thumbs up! (y)

    1. admin

      March 22, 2015 at 5:01 pm

      Thanks Rony!

      Kakistos is from Buffy but you are on the right track!

      Unfortunately someone already got the free ebook.

  9. Kavya

    March 21, 2015 at 8:43 am

    Hey Chris in case you want ‘Buffy’ reference of your posts on this website then they are here:

    1.The Definitive Guide To Making Your Ex Boyfriend Love You Again
    ” The truth is that I adore Buffy because of it’s emotional high moments.”

    2.The Complete Guide To Getting An Ex Boyfriend Back In A Long Distance Relationship
    The Buffy Meme…yes that Buffy versus Twilight meme! (:

    3.When Should You Stop Trying To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back?
    “A β€œBuffy and Angel” type of breakup (Buffy aficionados will know what I am talking about here.)”

    That’s all I could find…! (:
    Actually I am behaving lil desperate for your book because I was thinking if Articles are so amazing…then surely The book is going to be more Amazing…Right?
    Seriously I really enjoy reading your articles…other so called experts just try to hide more but you present us with awesome insights!!!
    Take Care! (:

    1. admin

      March 22, 2015 at 5:00 pm

      Now that earns a free book! I never do this but I am super impressed!

      P.S. every text picture is the name of a buffy character πŸ˜‰

    2. Kavya

      March 23, 2015 at 6:55 am

      Thank you so much!
      I really appreciate it…Seriously you have got the guts to do this while other so called experts can’t!
      You are different! (:

    3. admin

      March 24, 2015 at 8:39 pm

      Wow, thank you so much!

  10. Kavya

    March 21, 2015 at 7:26 am

    Hey Chris,
    You asked to give reference to ‘Kakistos’ for your free e-book so its here:

    Kakistos from Buffy the Vampire Slayer.
    Kakistos, the Father was an ancient Vampire master, possibly of Greek origin. Kakistos was an old-minded, traditionalist vampire who reveled in the torture and mutilation of his victims. He seemingly did not approve of modern developments such as the electric light, preferring to light his dwellings with candles instead. He had little interest on modern comforts that would’ve allowed him to establish a power base with little effort. It was this short-sightedness that led Trick to abandon his Master to be dusted by the Slayers.

    Hey Thanks for such an amazing Website!
    You are really cute and Awesome! (:

    1. admin

      March 22, 2015 at 4:57 pm

      Thanks Kavya!

      Yup, that is the refrence but you were third to get it and only the first person did.

      Thanks for the kind words though!

  11. Miranda

    March 21, 2015 at 7:03 am

    Kakistos! From Buffy the Vampire Slayer… that was hilarious imagining him responding to texts for a coffee date πŸ˜‰

    1. admin

      March 22, 2015 at 4:52 pm

      Miranda YOU WON!

      (Kakistos from Buffy!)


      I am sending your ebook now!

  12. Kimmie

    March 21, 2015 at 4:20 am

    Kakistos reference: Kakiboy is a character in Buffy the Vampire Slayer who finds joy in the misfortune of others. So using it as a reference there means he is cruel to send a text agreeing then backing out in the end, muahahah!

    Anyway about the article, what about him going on dates with you and giving you special gifts, but being generally cold to you or not really as sweet anymore?

    1. admin

      March 22, 2015 at 5:09 pm

      Hi Kimmie,

      There was an issue with my comments and I didn’t notice that you actually did get the refrence first.

      I am going to send you a free ebook righ tnow.

    2. admin

      March 22, 2015 at 4:55 pm

      Hi Kimmie!

      Sorry you were a little late but you did get the refrence!

      Going on dates and giving gifts but being cold = He is expecting something special for the gift (perhaps physical) and when he didn’t get it he’s disappointed.

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