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278 thoughts on “I Want My Ex Boyfriend Back But He Doesn’t Want Me”

  1. Melissa

    October 3, 2018 at 6:18 pm

    Chris,
    I live with my boyfriend for 1.5 years. We broke up 2 weeks ago. We are friendly, he told me we can be friends, but he lets me hold his hand, he talks like we are still a couple and he said I can stay as long as I want. I am SO Confused.
    I know he wants a dominant woman, but the confusion all of this has caused I am not feeling dominant at all.
    What can I do? Oh and moving out is not feasable right now. HELP. I have purchased the ex recovery pro in the past but have lost my login information. Anything will help. I am on an emotional roller coaster and it’s mentally destroying me.

    1. Chris Seiter

      October 5, 2018 at 2:25 am

      Hi Melissa!

      If you lost your login information for Ex Recovery Pro, simply contact me via the “Contact Form” on this site and ask me to send you another link to your eBook! Or respond back to me using one of the previous emails you would have received from me when I sent you the book.

  2. Virgina Dwiki

    September 23, 2018 at 2:57 am

    Hi..
    I have an ex-boyfriend that doesn’t want me back although I want him back so bad.
    He was my boyfriend during highschool (now both of us are college student. So we broke up around 5 years ago. It was 3 years relationship. )
    I made mistake. He was texting his ex-girlfriend and I got mad and started to play with another boy although I know he didn’t mean it and he just wanted to say “hi” to his ex. But you know, girl can get jealous with that stuff. And I kind of did some “revenge” towards him.
    Although he knew that, he still want me. But I pushed him away. And when he started to date another girl, I realized that I made mistake and want him back. But of course he didn’t want to bcs he found another girl.
    But they broke up after 4 years dating.
    Now, he is single and I’m trying to build a rapport as his friend (although my heart still want him). We hang out several times. He hugs and kiss me, he cares to me,. And I feel like I have chance to get him back. But when I asked him, he didn’t want to go back and said that he feels nothing to me.
    But I want him. What should I do?

    1. Chris Seiter

      September 23, 2018 at 4:27 pm

      Hi Virginia!

      seems you are getting mixed messages from him. If this continues, consider pulling back and trying no contact. You can learn more about this Principle on my site.

  3. Nadia

    September 16, 2018 at 6:39 am

    My boyfriend and I started out very quickly and moved right in together 2 years ago. Things started getting bad about 8 months ago, we would fight about stupid things. The main thing we fought about was him spending so much time with his mother. She’s sick but not dying and his dad takes care of her for the most part but he was always there. It started taking its toll and I was lonely. Anyway, things just went downhill from there. Well the second week of May we got into a huge fight and he left. He’s been gone ever since. We still talk and we’re still having a physical relationship but that’s about it. 2 weeks ago he decided to come back for good and the second night he was here there was an incident with my son. After that got worked out he left and told me that he doesn’t want to be with me anymore. He said deep down he wants us to eventually get back together but that may take a couple of years. He says he doesn’t want to be with anyone ever but if he decides he does than it’ll be with me. He wants me to let him go but I can’t. I’ve been trying for 4 months. But now that he actually broke up with me 2 weeks ago I don’t know what to do. He won’t tell me he loves me anymore, he doesn’t call me babe anymore, I just don’t know what to do but I want him back so bad. And after all of that we are still sleeping with eachother occasionally. So what can I do? How do I get him to come back?

    1. Chris Seiter

      September 17, 2018 at 9:32 pm

      Hi Nadia!

      Family issues can cause stress and that was effecting you guys. So you and your ex are sort of in a rut. The relationship is not healthy, but you still hook up, yet are separated in another way. So this could go on for awhile with little improvement or it could get worse. You might consider breaking this routine and go into No Contact, explaining to your ex you need time to heal and also focus in being the best “you”.

  4. Stephanie s

    September 10, 2018 at 11:20 am

    Hey, my ex and I broke up May 31, 2018. I am having a very hard time with this,because I know he is my soulmate. I made various mistakes by talking to other guys and disrespecting him. Currently I am different and he doesn’t see that: he has blocked me on everything and I don’t even know if it’s possible to get him back .

    Thanks,

    I need some help

    1. Chris Seiter

      September 11, 2018 at 12:51 am

      Hi Stephanie!

      Everbody makes mistakes during a relationship. Have you looked at my program? Its best to have an ex recovery plan to inform you how to proceed and optimize your chances.

  5. Lolie

    September 9, 2018 at 11:12 am

    Hello !
    My ex broke up a bit more than 6 months ago, after more than one year of relationship, because I became needy and insecure. He was very sad to break up. After, we have always been in touch and nice to each other. During the first two months, I begged a bit (but I did not send him a lot of texts of instance). We saw each other again after two months, he hugged me and kissed. But when I asked him explanations, he got angry, saying we would not go back together. After two weeks without talking, we starting emailing each other, and he saw my changes as he told me (I started traveling again a lot). We emailed and talk for four months, he was sometimes initiating too, bringing topics and sharing things. We never talked about « us » just our lives, like friends could do. But two weeks ago, he told me he did not see the point of talking, we were not together and he could not forget our past relationship, that we would not go back together. Isn’t it a bit hot and cold behavior or am I just seeing signs where there is nothing ? Should I just wait for him to maybe (who knows) text me ?
    (Just to mention I moved in his country and we were living together after months apart when he broke up, we are separated by distance now but I came back to his city one week ago, for work. And that my ex is the kind of man who wants to stick to his decision..)

    1. Chris Seiter

      September 9, 2018 at 6:57 pm

      Hi Lolie!

      Yes, he is all over the map. Some space and healing necessary on both sides. Then you both will know what you truly want from the other.

  6. Jennifer González

    August 28, 2018 at 5:35 pm

    Hey guys! My ex and i were together for 5 years and 2 months. I can honestly say that we lived through many happy moments during the rust years and he even proposed . We were engaged for about 7 months. These last couples of however were somehow feeling like we were distant from each other. He was caught in a few lies and I suspected him cheating. He was pretty much blaming me for it saying it was because I had gained weight and also he felt like he didn’t love me anymore. I just can’t seem to add up how he doesn’t live me anymore. Well we broke up about 3 weeks ago and he told me he wanted me back , but then changed his mind and said he didn’t think we would ever be back together because he didn’t love me. I honestly think that we had a lot to make this relationship work. I live him deeply and want him back. I made the mistake of texting him after the break up and he told me he wants us to be friends. I don’t want that I want to somehow make him see that we can actually work. I’m trying the 4 weeks no contact rule and see if maybe that helps ? … what do you recommend for me I need help !?

    1. Chris Seiter

      August 28, 2018 at 9:27 pm

      Hey Jennifer!

      So 5 years in a relationship plays to your advantage as a bond grows and it is not easy to completely sever. He is wrong to blame you. Never is a breakup the fault of one person. Looks like he was trying to shift and deflect the blame. I agree with you going into NC. You have my book, right? If not, go take a look as it will help optimize your chances as there is much to know.

  7. GG

    August 17, 2018 at 3:36 am

    Hi , we were together for about 4 years with some on and off situations. He said he was tired of being in a relationship mostly because he wanted his space to make his own decisions. It’s been a month and I want him back. I know it’s not up to me, but I am making an effort to see and talk to him hopeing there will be a rekindling of some kind. How do I approach him after we went on 2 “dates” and want to ask him

    1. Chris Seiter

      August 17, 2018 at 1:57 pm

      Hi GG!

      So 4 years together is a strong foundation and gives you some traction and roots wot work with. Guy often will say they need space and most of the time, the do. Only later do they realize they need you more than then need space. Like a fine wine, allowing time to age the attraction. Doing the little subtle things to raise your value. Its also about having a cohesive game plan. Go to my website’s home page and there you will find tools and resources that can help you. I have distilled a lot of my knowledge in some helpful products that can benefit you.

  8. Maneli

    May 5, 2018 at 3:57 pm

    I forgot to say he always told me he liked me but didn’t love me.

    1. Sara

      May 6, 2018 at 7:37 pm

      I had exactly the same problem. He likes me but he didn’t love me. Finally he broke up with me because of that. We were together for almost 2 years and he broke up with me end of March. Now I run No contact rule for ~ 4 weeks but I don’t think I can ever get him back. He doesn’t love me. As simple as it is! I’m totaly broken but What can I do.

    2. Chris Seiter

      May 6, 2018 at 8:27 pm

      Hi again Sara..forgive me for forgetting, but I don’t recall if I told you abut my Private Facebook Support Group. Its a real Community of mostly women who have gone through all types of breakup situation and they draw support and advice from each other. If you wish to learn more about this Group…go to my Website Menu/Products Section!

    3. Chris Seiter

      May 5, 2018 at 11:18 pm

      Hi Maneli…time will tell what his true feeling really are. Guys sometimes don’t like using the love word for fear of losing control.

  9. Maneli

    May 5, 2018 at 3:34 pm

    Hi Chris. We broke up two month ago. But unfortunately I I broke no contact and no texting rules. He didn’t text me back at all. I finally asked him to block my number and social media and he did. I feel so bad about this. But I still miss him. What do you think I should do now? Is there any way to fix this or I should completely forget about him?

    1. Chris Seiter

      May 5, 2018 at 11:22 pm

      Hi Maneli…thanks for commenting! I think there are some things you can do to better your chances, so I wouldn’t encourage you to give up. First of all, have you picked up my ebook, “Ex Boyfriend Recovery Pro”? (available at my website Menu/Products link). If not, go take a look at it because it will help you immensely. You really need to understand much more about No Contact principle and what you do during and after that process to optimize your chances. Let me know how things develop for you!

  10. Lily

    April 23, 2018 at 10:11 pm

    Me and my ex boyfriend were going out close to a year, after 4 months of dating he moved away for a job so we did long distance. We’d see each other every 2-4 months. We were so happy in our relationship but eventually decided to end it because the distance was hard. We ended on good terms. Since I’ve been in a relationship for close to a year and we haven’t talked. The other night I reached out to him saying how I still have feelings for him and asked fin we could try work things out and be sort of of casually dating while he’s home for 3 months. He said he’s not interested in a relationship at the moment and suggested we be frack buddies. He told me to not get my hopes up thinking he’ll love me again because it’ll end badly. My family has been begging me to get back with him cause we were so happy and we loved each other but it’s hard to do when he doesn’t want it. He moves back home at the end of the year and I’ll be going to University. What do I do?

    1. Chris Seiter

      April 23, 2018 at 11:47 pm

      Hi Lily…thanks for dropping by. So was he brutally honest or brutally selfish and insensitive about his f buddies comment? Not sure, Long distance can put a monkey wrench into relationships, but I found my wife through a LDR, so there is always hope. But I want you to be pragmatic. It may not work out, so if you pursue it, just know your feelings will be exposed and you could be hurt…again. My gut tells me that he is just casually engaged in the relationship working. I could be wrong. My concern is your emotional health. So I would also recommend you consider joining my Private Facebook Support Group. It consists of about 1500 women right now and they have all been through different breakup situations and help each other. I also show up weekly to do Facebook lives. To learn more, just go to my website Menu/Products link. Let me know how things shake out Lily!

  11. Kk ss

    April 7, 2018 at 9:12 am

    Hey everyone.. I was in a relationship with him for about 18months.. We were just perfect..
    But suddenly he felt that I am sad being with him & he left me.. I miss him so badly.. I asked for the patch up 4-5 times but he rejected & we always ended up with a fight after he rejected me. He not wants to be in a relationship with me but he loves me… Now I have decided to talk sweetly to him & not get angry as usual.. So will he come back? Or it’s necessary to move on.. Please reply.. Am in trouble…

    1. Chris Seiter

      April 7, 2018 at 9:41 pm

      I feel like you have a perception issue.

      You let your emotions control your behaviors and appear unstable to him. You need to work on that.

  12. Victoria

    March 15, 2018 at 4:03 pm

    Hello,
    Me and my boyfriend just broke up a little over a week ago. We were dating for 11 months. The first 9 months were amazing. We never fought about anything and it was the happiest time of my life. We started talking February of last year and quickly we were hooked and we ended up just picking a date that he said I love you, which he said it first. He’s a we not in college now and I graduated last year and I moved back home. I live in NYC and he lives in Philly. The summer time and fall semester was easy we saw each other all the time and went on cute dates and were laughing all the time. We had an argument after Christmas but we moved past it and we both agreed we were doing a lot better and we were both happy. Now that spring semester is here, he’s more busy with baseball and it is very stressful for him. I can tell. I’ve gone to many games to see him play and even taken road trips with his mom. We didn’t get to do many fun things the last month because every weekend he had baseball practice but I always went down to see him even if I spent most of the time waiting for him to come back, I didn’t care I was glad I just got to see him. But anyway last Sunday he said we needed to talk that he didn’t know how he felt anymore and he had been feeling this way for awhile and there was nothing that I could do or could have done differently I was perfect. When I suggested it could be the stress of school and graduating he agreed and said he would love to talk about it before giving up. Unfortunately he didn’t get home till 1am that night so we ended up talking the next night. She. He broke up with me. He just said he wasn’t crazy about me anymore and just wasn’t excited to text me or call me. I was so heartbroken and basically fell apart I can barely remember our conversation because I felt like I was in a for and he made up the decision all by himself and didn’t include me in it. He said he cared about me he just didn’t think it was love. What should I do? I love him so much and only in the end of January he was asking me if I saw him in my furture because he saw one wigh me. How could he fall out of love in two weeks? I honestly,think with the stress from baseball, school, graduating and having to move back home to start his Job has got his emotions all mixed up. I havnt spoken to him since we broke up because I figured space would be best for him. Me and his mom are very close and she told me the same thing. How do I go about this. I love him and I’m not ready to give up on what we had.

  13. SS

    March 8, 2018 at 9:15 pm

    Its been 3 months since the breakup. We were together ant 1.5 yrs in a commuting ldr.

    After a month of nc I established contact but he said he needs more time. Then a week later I accidentally slipped and texted him an emoji (designed in our chat – Inside joke). And he responded well. I tried to communicate since he responded in a very good manner. But it seems he have a pattern of replying every 5 days and after a month plus I feel like he was kinda cold (compared to how responsive he was). And then he told me hes still furious at me at even the thought of talking to me.

    It really shot me down. But I told him I understand it takes time. And its been 2 weeks since.

    Ive tried to talk abt things he enjoys doing and ive been really working on myself. Back to my daily yoga and been trying to stay positive. I listed down things that went wrong and have tried to improve on it.

    Since the breakup both of us had been mia on social media. But once my gf tagged me on a photo and I saw he reacted (I think!) as he hid all his photos on fb.

    I feel a bit stuck here in the planning department and am not sure how to go from here. Do I text him? And if so how do I start? Any advice is appreciated.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      March 11, 2018 at 5:16 pm

      The bad thing is it looks like it’s obvious that you want him back and at this point, you should move on because if he really wanted to work it out, he already did.. The only chance I can see is to let him initiate for a month, while you continue being active in your life and start being very active in posting.. If it doesn’t progress within the month, move on.

  14. Renee Davies

    February 27, 2018 at 10:01 am

    I broke up with my ex 6months ago. For the first few months he tried to win me back. Then I started arguing and fighting with him over everything. I refused to make it possible to be together. A month ago we decided to try to work it out. I constantly told him he wasn’t trying enough. Now he’s talking to another girl in a different state. He says hes done trying and I’ll never change and he can’t see a relationship with me because I won’t make him happy he’s only been talking to the new girl for 3days. I did the typical begging and crying and he still won’t budge. We have two kids together and still live together. He says he still loves and cares about me but he’s not in love with me. I know I pushed him away and I really want to fix the situation. We we’re together for over 4years. He’s tired of trying and getting the same results. I really need some help on this whole mess.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 27, 2018 at 2:54 pm

      Hi Renee,

      follow the advice on this one:
      EBR 027: What To Do If You Live With Your Ex Boyfriend

  15. Mac

    February 21, 2018 at 10:38 pm

    Me and my ex were together for almost 3 years. Over that time he broke up with me but would come back the next day saying he regretted his decision (most of the time it was due to fights). The last couple of months have been difficult. He started playing footy which required him to train every week night and he also works full time crazy hours. We live an hour away from each other also. Things used to be great but all of a sudden his priorities changed and he put after everything. He would tell me he just doesn’t have time etc. He ended things and then 3 days later came back saying that he just couldn’t stand being without me etc. For about a week and a half things were great and he was saying how much he missed me and wants to work things out. Then all of a sudden we had a small disagreement and things changed. He started to ignore me which made me stress and continue contacting him but that only pushed him further away. He contacted me and said things arent working anymore and hes sorry he dragged me along but he just doesnt want a relationship anymore.

    It’s been 9 days since we last spoke and things ended. He blocked me on facebook but still follows me on Instagram and has been watching my stories and all my friends (he never used to watch my friends stories). Is there hope of him coming back to me? Or is it over for good? Please give me advice.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 25, 2018 at 10:51 pm

      Hi,
      I think he got tired but that doesn’t mean chasing is better than doing nc.

  16. Olga

    February 17, 2018 at 2:47 pm

    I think that my chances are at about 0%… Me and my ex were together for about 3 years, we broke up around 1-2 months ago. It was not our first break up. We broker up before, when I , out of anger threw him out of the house due to his lies. We had several month of seeing each other, on and off, before we moved in again. When that happened, he started studing, meet new people, startet going out more to the clubs and bar, while I was sitting at home waiting for him, for hours. I got jealos, insecure which caused fights. I was trying to expain my point of view and so did he, but we did not understand each other.
    The day we broke up, was the day when I passed a very important exam and wanted to celebrate with him, but he was at the bar eith his friends… and it was just too much for me.
    We bearly spoke duing those 1-2 months we are broken up, and when we did, it was mainly about the apartment. I do miss him and would try to work things out. He said he was not intered in it, shortly after we broke up. So after a month has passed, I asked him for help getting with teaching me how to fish (he loves fishing, I was never into it) claiming that I am going to participate in a fishing competition at work. At fisr he said yes, but when I texted him some days later asking when he would have the time, he told me that ” he has a new life, is not intersted in teaching me how to fish and that I should find someone else to do it “. I think that he can feel I want him back… and I DO, at least I want to try. IS there ahything else I can do and not seem desperate ??

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 19, 2018 at 5:01 pm

      Hi Olga,

      If you meant that was nc, restart it..do at least 45 days. Be active in improving yourself, in posting in social media and then continue doing that after nc while slowly building rapport through texts firt and then calls and then meet ups..

  17. Ella

    February 12, 2018 at 1:27 pm

    My ex and I broke up last Wednesday. We were together for almost 10 months. When he broke up with me he told me that he wanted to break up with because things were always going to be the same and we were always going to end up fighting. During our last month’s we fought alot cause we didn’t see each other much and he always went out with his friends. A week before he broke up with me I was actually the one who told him we should break up but then u told me that he didn’t want to lose me and that he loved me. Having heard that my hopes for our relationship rose again and I was happy. Then the week after he breaks up with me. I asked why and he said it would be difficult and that he’s not ready for a relationship. I begged him and cried he wouldn’t changed his mind. I asked him if there was someone else he liked, a couple of times he said no but after me annoying him a bit more he said yes. I know the girl and I know she’s not his type but he told me that he likea her alot. We talked on the phone last night and I asked him if he loved her. He said no but he really likes her. He told me he isn’t sure if she likes him back. I asked him if he still wanted to have sex and he said ok. I asked him if he still had feelings for me and he said yes but I don’t know if I should believe him since yesterday I stopped begging him ti get back together with him cause he threatened to block me. He was really mean when I was annoying him but when we talks on the phone he said sorry to me. He talked to me about her and I could hear in his voice that he really liked her. The way he talked about her. She’s younger than us…
    I told him that even though I still loved him I wanted him to be happy. And he said thanks. Then when we hung up he said goodnight and love you and I said love you too. I was going to start the No Contact rule today but i texted him telling him we needed to talk. He said ” I’ll let you know” . I wanted to tell him tonight that I couldnt be just friends or friends with benefits and that I still had feelings for him so it was best if we forgot each other for a while. Deep down o want to tell him thag cause im hoping he stops me from doing it but I know he won’t.
    What should I Do? I still love him and I want him back but I’m scared of I do the No contact rule he’s going to end up with her. I don’t want him to leave me for her or anyone else.PLEASE HELP.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 16, 2018 at 9:37 am

      Hi Ella

      If you dont, he’s still going to pursue her because he broke up with you for her..

  18. Ella

    February 12, 2018 at 1:17 pm

    My ex and I broke up last Wednesday. We were together for almost 10 months. When he broke up with me he told me that he wanted to break up with because things were always going to be the same and we were always going to end up fighting. During our last month’s we fought alot cause we didn’t see each other much and he always went out with his friends. A week before he broke up with me I was actually the one who told him we should break up but then u told me that he didn’t want to lose me and that he loved me. Having heard that my hopes for our relationship rose again and I was happy. Then the week after he breaks up with me. I asked why and he said it would be difficult and that he’s not ready for a relationship. I begged him and cried he wouldn’t changed his mind. I asked him if there was someone else he liked, a couple of times he said no but after me annoying him a bit more he said yes. I know the girl and I know she’s not his type but he told me that he likea her alot. We talked on the phone last night and I asked him if he loved her. He said no but he really likes her. He told me he isn’t sure if she likes him back. I asked him if he still wanted to have sex and he said ok. I asked him if he still had feelings for me and he said yes but I don’t know if I should believe him since yesterday I stopped begging him ti get back together with him cause he threatened to block me. He was really mean when I was annoying him but when we talks on the phone he said sorry to me. He talked to me about her and I could hear in his voice that he really liked her. The way he talked about her. She’s younger than us…
    I told him that even though I still loved him I wanted him to be happy. And he said thanks. Then when we hung up he said goodnight and love you and I said love you too. I was going to start the No Contact rule today but i texted him telling him we needed to talk. He said ” I’ll let you know” . I wanted to tell him tonight that I couldnt be just friends or friends with benefits and that I still had feelings for him so it was best if we forgot each other for a while. Deep down o want to tell him thag cause im hoping he stops me from doing it but I know he won’t.
    What should I Do? I still love him and I want him back but I’m scared of I do the No contact rule he’s going to end up with her. I don’t want him to leave me for her or anyone else.PLEASE HELP.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 16, 2018 at 9:34 am

      Hi Ella

      If you dont, he’s still going to pursue her because he broke up with you for her..

  19. Delaney

    February 12, 2018 at 1:38 am

    How do you build and present a ridiculous offer to someone who won’t speak to you?

    I dated a guy for 7 weeks – it was eerily fast and comfortable because we already did have the same outlook on life, interests, dreams, etc. I screwed it all up though because the speed that we became close triggered memories of my last relationship, with a man who contacted me months after I finally got away from him to tell me he’s a sociopath. It was very abusive. I lashed out at the new guy almost disassociating like he was the old guy. We stopped talking the first time for a few days but then I explained to him my past and he told me his (ex with a severe mental illness that he was abused too).

    Anyway after spending an amazing weekend together, he asked for space to think about if he wanted to continue on as we are long distance (but in constant contact, Skyping, etc and we were both willing and able to travel) and I freaked out on him again. It got nasty on my end – he remained a gentleman but eventually completely cut off contact.

    I spoke to him two days ago and he said he was wounded and needs space and for me to let him go for a while. I said i would do that but I also needed to be let go too if that’s what he wanted. He said he is too upset to say what he wants but if/when he decides he will reach out and apologized for not having a more clear answer.

    So I can’t speak to him at all, I have to wait for him to make contact, and he may never again. How do you do this then?

    We we’re so close and so perfect together, we both have so many odd similarities and we both felt like we’ve always known each other. But I screwed it up and I’ve never been so angry at myself. I’m focusing on working on these issues I realize are still here from my last relationship but it’s hard to accept that I can’t fix this, too. I miss him so much.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 15, 2018 at 6:25 pm

      Hi Delaney,

      He probably expects you to still initiate within the month. Don’t. Start the nc rule instead. Do at least 30 days. If he initiates in it, don’t reply. Initiate after 30 days. Be active in improving yourself and in posting in social media during and after nc.

  20. Alexa

    February 9, 2018 at 11:56 pm

    My ex & I have been with each other for 1 yr & 4 months. We broke up for constant misunderstanding each other. We last got in a huge argument where we both said horrible things. He gave me mixed signals about our future since we are still in high school. I didn’t want to be lead on to false hope so I approached him often to try to figure out if he truly meant after high school we would try again. &’ from there he would avoid me cold turkey so I approached him again and I got him to ” be honest ” he told me he didn’t want me in his life and that he didn’t love me. That we would never be togheter again. I got him to be friends but that didn’t last. I knew he didn’t want to be friends so I let him go , a week passes of me letting him go and he blocks me from the only social media I have and I’m not sure why he blocked me if I had not contacted him for 6 days. All I did was make my account public. Before he blocked me my friend told me he freaked out when I passed by and a girl was playing with his hair being flirty. I had thought to myself why he reacted that way if he made it clear that he didn’t want me.Today marks 15 days from the NC and he is back to being Cold turkey again with me and I am still blocked. High school will be over in 4 months and I feel that I am running out of time to get him back. I am in love and I am now a stable positive woman who is ready to take my ex back and built a healthy loving relationship. I don’t know how I can possibly get him back. I have been improving on myself since the NC purposes. I still have 2 of his family members on my social media who have not shut me out. Please help me.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 15, 2018 at 12:40 pm

      Hi Alexa,

      how much are you improving yourself? What new activities have you started? You can follow the advise on this one:
      EBR 009: The No Contact Rule If You Work With Your Ex

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