How To Get Your Ex Back When He's Moved On To A New Girl

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Vicca

May 5, 2015 at 10:29 pm

So, my husband and I were together for 4 years and have been separated for 3 months now. About two weeks after leaving, he immediately started dating a younger woman. Since he’s been gone, he’s made it perfectly clear that he doesn’t want me out of his life. We talk every day and he says he’s seen such a change in me that he totally thinks differently of me than he did before he left. He told me last night that he regrets entering into another relationship so fast without giving us another chance. When I asked then why he wouldn’t, he replied “Because this girl has done nothing wrong for me to run her off.”
I was wondering if the No contact rule would still be applicable here? Like I said, he’s made it verbally clear more than once that he doesn’t want to let me out of his life…he just can’t. What should I do?
Graze

May 4, 2015 at 7:37 am

Hi Chris,

My boyfriend of 4yrs asked me that we should take a break and it’s been a month already. We barely fought. He said he wanted space but we will still be friends and that he will help me out in all this break up process because of course he is aware it hurts big time. We had minor problems but when i found out that one of his reasons was to try a relationship with others (since i was his first girlfriend), i was upset coz i thought the problem was just between us and that he just needed space. I did all the crying and begging in front of him for how many days and he was there comforting me, telling me that ill be ok and can move on in time but keeps on saying he loves me and cares for me and that he still has accountability to me since we were so close and he cant afford to just let me go. I just think he got hooked into the idea of wanting to try a relationship with others because according to him he wants/needs something to compare with what we had in our relationship. ( i dont get his point. maybe because im his first gf? what do you think?)But i know it’s a lame reason. I gave him the space he asked for but he thought im ok with the keep in touch thing to know how are we both doing. But the thing is i am really hurting all this time. I just kept in touch with him because of course i love him and breaking all the things u’v been doing together immediately for how many years is not easy. Now he’s eyeing someone else because i even pretended to support him with the idea of dating someone else but i was vocal that it hurts (of course he should know it hurts) but i couldn’t take it anymore. Last time we talked i even pretended that im ok but after that i never contacted him again. I am already in my 10 days of NC and he keeps on calling and texting how am i doing and after how many days of not replying, he’s telling me to answer his calls. The last time was yesterday. I know NC is necessary to bring back my sanity and im feeling better now but is there still a chance to bring the relationship back? What do you think of our situation?
Emma

May 3, 2015 at 11:29 pm

I was wondering, is there a chance to get him back even though we have been broken up for a year and he has a new girlfriend?
Thanks!
Tina

April 27, 2015 at 12:51 am

My boyfriend broke with me a few weeks ago, we were going out for 5 months. And I miss talking to him, hanging out with him and just him. I haven’t seen his roommate since he was traveling in Asia but i went out on a date with him just a while back and found out he was my exboyfriend roommate and my ex has already found someone the week after we broke up. How do I get him back or is it not even worth it?
Georgina

April 26, 2015 at 1:51 am

Hi will you help me with a situation? Please I need help asap! :/

Chris Seiter

April 27, 2015 at 10:24 pm

No….

No jk jk.

How can I help?

Radhika

April 23, 2015 at 3:10 pm

Hi Chris…
It’s been a while since i checked in here. and i’m pleasantly surprised with your site… as in, the format’s changed right?
it looks amazing!
keep up the good work!

Chris Seiter

April 24, 2015 at 10:32 pm

I have changed it yes!

Loving the new site 🙂

April

April 14, 2015 at 2:39 pm

What if your ex who has found someone else is also giving you the n/c? We share a mutual friend, my roommate. She invited him over a couple weeks ago and then this week to hang out with her. (I didn’t have any plans on bein around, and before they met me they used to hang out once a week to watch movies) I have been doing n/c, but he ignores her now too. She’s not happy he left me for someone else, but they are still friends. Is he thinking I’m behind the hanging out? Or is he just doing this to avoid running into me?
Evelyn

April 9, 2015 at 1:46 pm

My ex and I together for about 5 years since high school. We always together and have sweet memories together until I go outstation for further study. He always feel loss because I am not there for him. I understand guys always in needs or need someone to stay beside with, but I cannot always go back because of my study as well as I couldn’t afford to buy ticket to fly back. Then he said he feels not like before anymore. Of course, it is because I am always not besides him and there is time difference for 8 hours too.

Two months ago, we broke up not because of another girl but we just want to continue our relationship as usual but without status. I thought like that he won’t feel burden by me. However, after two weeks, he together with one of our friends since high school and now they studying at same uni and same course. A lot of friends said she is a attention seekers and always use others guy and more. I feel so disappointed because my ex still tell me how important am I to him and how much he still miss me. Moreover, the girl just always purposely stay close to my ex by going to his house or calling him to her house or bring her to school when she got car. My ex is a really friendly guy who just think that is not a problem but as a girl, I can sense the girl trying to get close to him.

A months ago, I still chat with him until one day I get so upset because of the girl intentionally post some sweet photo of them at my ex house and I tell him that it is unfair that he take two girls and I won’t talk to him. I thought if he love me, he will be back for me. However, yesterday I try to find him again, he feel so angry about me going and he thinks that I unfriend him. I feel so sorry. At least, he is willing to chat with me.

I feel his girlfriend now is so strong and covered herself so nicely. I don’t know what to do actually. I trying to control my feeling. However, next week he is travelling with the girl. Who should I do? My friends tell me that he is confused with his feeling and others said the girl is using him because he always give whatever she want. So complicated.

He even tell me that he fought with the girlfriend because of me and he don’t want to fight anymore with her, if not he will hate her more. What I can do only wait him to message me only? wait? I afraid that the girlfriend will starts anything scary that make our relationship bad.

One of the example that the girlfriend is:

She tells others that guy A (the guy who like her) invited her to prom night and at that time she got boyfriend already. The fact is that guy A didn’t even ask her to prom but she ask him to go prom together then she just tell others friends and her boyfriend that guy A is the one asked her first.

I am just afraid she going to lie and he will not notice it. I trusted her once as friends because she is so friendly outside but she keep her inside so secret that only outsider can see. Now I am a outsider, I start to see who she really is.

Sigh. Please tell me what to do. So complicated.

Jackie

May 7, 2015 at 6:20 pm

evelyn, the best thing to do is to let things take its course. if this girlfriend is playing him, he will eventually see through her. the key to this situation is patience. trash talking her to him will not help, that may make him distance himself from you and closer to her. Instead do the exact opposite of what your gut tells you to do and he will realize how much he misses you and leave her. dont ever message him first and play it off like your happy

jessica

April 7, 2015 at 8:02 pm

me an my fiance were together for 3 years we loved together and have a 1 year old son. he left me 7 weeks ago and has a new girlfriend already! i have been doing minimal contact but nothings working. he cried when he left i dont understand how we got to this. he is saying he dosnt love me anymore but i dont believe him. what if his new relationship gets serious! i dont know what else to do
anna

April 4, 2015 at 1:40 am

4 days ago I had broken up with my boyfriend I am a freshmen in high school and I thought I was doing the right thing he took the break up really hard and I didn’t, we had been together for 2 months and today he got back together with his ex in a matter of 4 days, now I want him back I don’t know its just like everything hit me when that happened, anyway today I broke down and texted him trying to make him feel bad but it was like now he didn’t care even though I know he does deep down I don’t know what to do could you please help.

Ashlee

April 25, 2015 at 4:24 am

My boyfriend did the same thing but he got with her like 5 mins after we ended. I was a bitch and he was sick of it. I saw them in the hall together and nearly collapse. Luckily me and him were best friends before. Just start as friends and show him you are there for him and he will love it. His ex might have been a rebound maybe not but try and see if you can get him to fall in love with you again. Im still trying.

Nina

April 3, 2015 at 9:49 pm

Hi,my boyfriend of seven years as of January broke up with me about a month ago but started with taking a break.I was junky texting him psycho things and pushed him into the arms of some else that I believe he met already.Last Saturday I was suspicious about something and found out he was with her I krpt calling to catch him she got on the phone and told me she’s his girlfriend now to to stop calling n texting him and she knows “all about me”.I have two cell phone lines on his account n a car in his name including insurance.He has not tried cutting my phones off.He also left clothes and a huge smart t.v n a Bose system at my place.And we did live together at my place.I broke 30 day rule but started again Monday.Pls. Any insight to his BRAIN would b great I cannot concentrate that’s y I’m resorting to writing this!!! <3He told me so many different things.
Jenn

April 2, 2015 at 6:39 am

My boyfriend and me have been together for almost 6 years. He has been holding on to us no matter what quarrels we had. It was 4 months back that he initiated a break up. He don’t usually meant it when he said that. This time he was serious. He changed his contact number and i emailed him instead. He keep asking me to move on and that he see no future with me. But it was just 3 months before break up, we talked about wedding. I see no signs of losing interest in our relationship from him weeks before the breakup. (I just send him a long email, didn’t mass send or bother him by calls)

3 months after breakup (1 month of not replying his “move on” email) i went to look for him, he told me he is attached but is still coming to meet me. After talking things through, he told me he can’t move on and that i’m not forgotten. He even initiate to breakup with his current girlfriend and get back together with me. I was shock by the new girlfriend fact and stop replying him.

2 weeks after this event, i called him again, this time his attitude changed. He was back to the strong stand of not having a future with me. I tried pulling things back and explained to him my reason for not replying. He replied and ask me to move on and said he won’t turn turn back no matter what i do.

I tried my best trying to move on. But it seems the pain is getting deeper and deeper. I’m not getting better day by day. The last time i contacted him was 3 weeks back. What should i do from here?
mea

March 30, 2015 at 7:54 pm

Me and my ex had been going out for about 2 weeks but that sounds like nothing I know but it felt like forever anyway he abruptly ended it with we are better off friends and his mom said that it wasn’t working out anyway I still love him and want him back we never had the no contact rule because he already wanted to be friends and now we are best friends or so he says anyway the new girl doesn’t like me and here’s why because people say we flirt with each other all the the time that I cannot deny so any tips on how to get him back
Georgina

March 30, 2015 at 6:33 am

Hi, 6 years ago I met my ex boyfriend, we had a relationship for a year and then broke up out of nowhere. About 2 years later after the break up we started talking again and it was getting serious (as I thought) but later on I found out that he had just started seeing someone else. He broke my heart for the second time. In the beginning of 2013 we started talking once again and this time it felt different… He was actually fighting for me… We were talking for like 9 months and then he just disappeared. We even went on vacation together that summer and everything was going good… or at least that’s what I thought. A few months later I found out that he was seeing someone else and they’ve been together since then. I’ve been thinking about him a lot and wondering if there is a small chance that we might get back together someday…or even if we will get the chance to talk? His birthday is in a few months and I thought about sending him an annonymous text saying “happy birthday”… how can I get in contact with him?
Please help me! :/
Anna

March 29, 2015 at 10:26 pm

So… I’m in high school. I’d had a complicated relationship with a guy for about a year. There were times when we were “official” and times when we weren’t, but we have always had a flirtatious relationship. Then half a year ago we both went to different schools. And we’d sort of stayed in contact, like I would go visit him and watch his games and meets, and he’d come to the ocean with me, but we didn’t see each other as frequently. The times we did see each other though, we flirted and held hands and were just all around close. The last time I had saw him, he and a couple of my friends had come and stayed the night at my house. We cuddled on the couch, I slept in his shirt, and I slept in the bed with him. Then, three months passed and we hadn’t talked too much, nor had we seen each other at all. All of the sudden I hear that his family is doing a car wash to support him going to nationals for wrestling, and I decide to go help. When I get there, he gives me a hug, as do his mom, dad, little brothers, and all his other family members. Then I notice another person there, and its a girl from his wrestling. I said hi, introduced myself, and this was her response: “Hi, my name’s *****, I’m (his name)’s girlfriend.” I was shocked but I played it off well and acted like it totally didn’t bother me. I helped his family for a couple more hours, and I talked to him once or twice, but every time I tried to even say a word to him, he’d guiltily look over at her like he was worried she’d see us talking. I’m really confused and I don’t at all know what to do… Any advice?

admin

March 31, 2015 at 10:04 pm

Have you even used the NC on him?

Cheryl

March 28, 2015 at 9:01 pm

Me and my husband broke up a year ago I really want him back. But he’s now dating a new girl and I feel like all hope is lost. I wondered if the nc rule works if you have been broken up for so long, and also wondered if with the time frame that I actually have a chance in getting him back. This girl lost her house and has moved in with him and his mother so I feel like I wont be able to fix anything. I wondered what you thought of this.

admin

March 29, 2015 at 2:14 pm

I think this is an ideal guide for you,

https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/how-to-get-your-ex-husband-back/

mel

March 27, 2015 at 1:40 pm

i am beyond devastated. I’ve been with my boyfriend for six years and was completely and utterly blindsided when he turned around and broke up with me. we live in neighboring states and i worried that him coming here mostly was the reason. a week prior to the break up we spent time together the day after valentines and he did not act distant, he gave me a gift, wrote me a card he was happy we were together six years and was eager to sleep with me. nothing was amiss. so when he turned around and said “i don’t think i should come out there anymore” i panicked. the next day i went out to see him and he told me “i’d love that” like it’d be positive.
i spent over two hrs with him and all i did was cry but no matter what i said it didn’t make a difference. i asked him twice if he met someone else but he lied. later on i was online on a media site we both use and saw him talking to another girl. this girl lives in canada and i know this is why he broke it off with me even though he won’t say. i have no idea how long they had been talking but he was always coming to see me and we were talking, no fights, nothing and it’s like being slammed into by a truck.
how do you you leave someone you’ve been in a relationship for six years for a stranger? someone you haven’t even met?

he’s struggled a lot in his life. both his parents died with a couple of years of each other. and he’d always say how i was there for him for it. he’s also always stressed and worried he’ll end up homeless and he worries about work and how he’ll pay for or get through school.

i don’t know if talking to her is some sort of escape for him. my mom keeps telling me i was more invested and the relationship was one sided. but i can’t believe he has zero feelings left for me? he told me we could be friends and at first i said i needed space and he said he understood but after a couple of days i texted him trying to work things out but he wouldn’t. finally agreed to try to be friends even though it’s a tremendous shock. he doesn’t text me unless i text him but for the past two days i have not texted him

i am so completely lost. i’ve never felt this much pain in my life. i’m reeling and feel so hopeless. i don’t know what to do and need help. i feel like as long as he’s talking to this girl he’ll just forget me

admin

March 29, 2015 at 2:46 pm

Well lets put you back together first before we work on getting him back.

Sound good?
mel

April 1, 2015 at 1:19 pm

im actually going through therapy now because of all this. i’m being told that he’ll end up regretting leaving me but it’s like he’s infactuated with this girl online and even put that he’s in relationship with her on fb. i want to believe it won’t last.

i’m not texting him and he does not text me so it feels like i’ve just been replaced like i don’t even exist to him anymore.

Patricia

March 24, 2015 at 11:54 pm

Hi. I have read almost all of your articles and let me just say that they have definetly boosted my confidence about myself and getting my ex back. Although i am still unsure. Let me tell you about my issue. me and my ex boyfriend are both 15 (9th grade)and have been together for a year. We have gone through thick and thin and we even broke up once before but that was in the third month of our relationship. He would tell me how special I was to him everyday and I’d make sure that he was happy and never down when I was with him. We talked everyday and night, no one could separate us.On the first of march my heart was broken by him. He told me that he didn’t want to be in a relationship anymore and that he just wanted to stay friends. I agreed. I later found out that he already had a new boyfriend that he met online not even two hours after breaking up with me( He met him on steam, the guy is in university, and lives far ). My ex says that he is in love with this man and it breaks me inside since he would tell me I love you everyday (even when he dumped me). I later discovered that the guy online asked him out, also, I had already been suspicious of this guy before since he was talking to my ex a bit too flirtsciously for my liking when me and my ex were still dating (the man even knew he had a girlfriend -_-, oh and BTW, both my ex and that man are bi if you were wondering.). I’m just wondering if you’d give me any tips to help me out in this situation? Will he get over it? I have begged my boyfriend to take me back and I have also swore at him which I later apologized for. I am currently in no contact and am treating myself and exercising whenever I can, it I’d hard but I hope I’ll soon have the strength to talk to my ex without being desperste. Do you think this is some sort of phase for him? Do you think he will come back to me? It would make me so happy if you replied. Thank You and have a good day!

admin

March 31, 2015 at 7:05 pm

Super glad that you have read a lot of my articles.

What do you mean by phase?

I personally think NC works better on younger guys b/c its never been done to them before.
Patricia

April 4, 2015 at 11:11 pm

Update: He blocked me on Steam about a week ago. He added me back today to tell me that he is no longer with the man anymore and that he will be single for a while. And then he deleted me right after and blocked me again. He told one of our mutual friends that he did it to “crush ” my “dreams” and that he did it for closure even though he said he got closure about a month ago. Uh, what does this mean :/

S

March 21, 2015 at 3:31 pm

Hi, I am a complicated situation.

My ex and I dated for about 5 years and he was the most gentle and polite person ever and we truly were in love with each other. We broke up an year back but both of us were not over each other at least till December (i am still not over him). While on the break, around september, he said yes to an engagement with a girl who has been pursuing him for years. However, he realised he still wasn’t over me and called it off within 2 days. After that, he started emotional contact with me all by himself and told me he felt really guilty for have said yes to her even though we were on a break. We started talking again and both of us confessed we are very much in love with each other but things are not exactly working out. He is the kind who gets scared of emotional situations and heartaches and runs away.

Then we had a really bad fight in december when i found how he had compared me to that girl like comparing fruits, we had a very bad fight. He told me it doesn’t matter because he called off the engagement because he loved me which shows he chose me. But i was too angry and hurt at that time. He said ‘you are still mine’ and that ‘we will get through this’ and when he says these things, he means them.

We stopped talking for a while but i realised if i wanted him to come out of his shell again, i’ll have to draw him out. In february, when i started talking to him again, he started ignoring me A LOT. He confessed he was talking to the other girl a lot and taking her calls at 2 am and meeting her all. I was very hurt but i marched on (i know, stupid!). He suddenly statred saying things will not work out between us because we are not compatible and we wont be happy together (we had discussed this before too but he was always open to trying to talk it all through, but this time he wasn’t).

All through this time, he was behaving as the girl’s bf but had steadfastly refused to offer her any commitment and told her that no matter what happens, he would never stop talking to me. I, however, told him that i WILL stop talking if he chooses her and i wont stand by. He used to become extremely emotional when i would say these things till last month and said that i stood up for you even before her. I told him that he needs to at least let me in as a friend if he wants me to stay but he would mostly just ignore me completely. One day he said he likes her and will marry her, quite suddenly. I stopped talking to him there and then.

This was about 2 weeks back. He didn’t even try to stop me or initiate conversation after he realised i really was gone. Then a friend of mine shared the news that i had accepted a date with an ex-flame and he got very very angry and upset about it and messaged me asking if i was dating him just because he hated the guy. I told him he needs to get over himself and everything doesn’t start and end with him. He never replied after that. He replies to my friend only when she feeds him some gossip about me going out on a date but otherwise ignores her totally.

He still is acting like the girl’s bf, but refuses to tell her how upset he got over me dating my ex-flame and still hasn’t given her a commitment of any kind. The one issue i know has been creating problems between them was that he steadfastly refused to stop talking to me when she wanted me gone. But i made me ‘gone’ myself after he told her he likes her, so that shouldn’t be a big issue for him.

About the girl – she is not that well educated or classy and i know for a fact that my ex likes class. He is even irked with her wrong usage of english from the very first day. She isn’t someone who is ‘exciting’ and i know he likes exciting but he thinks she is a lot more submissive than me, whereas i argue a lot (i know it sounds bad, but it isn’t as bad… he doesn’t want to smother me, but i was suffering from depression and i made a lot of scenes i shouldn’t have).

Now he is upset and sulky about the fact that i am actively dating, but still refuses to get together. Whats happening?

J

April 2, 2015 at 6:44 am

Hi S, your condition seems to be similar to mine. How are things getting for you?
S

April 3, 2015 at 10:03 am

Hi J!

I have no idea!

He messaged in early march that he liked this other girl, knowing fully well that I would stop talking to him. So i stopped talking to him completely for about 20 days. During this time I actually put in some effort to keep losing weight which has actually made me look quite good and i went ahead and dated a few guys. Thankfully, those 20 days apart which was like a forced NC period for me, without the knowledge that I might get to talk to him again changed quite a few things for me. I am a lot happier, calmer and since I took help for my depression, I feel pretty much brand new.

A mutual friend of mine let him know exactly who i was dating and when (one of which was an ex-flame that this guy absolutely hates). During these 20 days he finally came out of his denial mode and realised he wasn’t over me. He didn’t say that to me but he did say it to our mutual friend who shared these tidbits – he said that he thought he had gone too far away from me to be bothered by someone else being close to me, let alone touching me.

The other girl gave him an ultimatum to take a decision on her. I am not sure and I haven’t actively tried to know but I think he has distanced himself from her once he realised he isn’t over me.

Our mutual friend got us to talk, I didn’t put myself out there.. he was very reluctant to talk at first but once he started talking, he has actually been a lot more receptive than he had been for the past few months, but I guess he is still torn between not wanting to marry because of all the fights and ugliness we had due to my depression and actually realising he still loves me somewhere deep down. He always maintained that I be in his life as a friend at least and I was the one who said that I cannot stand there watching you fall for someone else. Now the position is completely opposite. He said we shouldn’t be talking if we need to get over each other. I told him after we started speaking that I’d rather know from him whats happening in his life than from a stranger so i would like to be friends and he accepted that without a single argument.

In the past 3-4 days, I have been able to force a bit of an equal conversation without me being the only one talking. But I still have to be the initiator for every conversation, so I really have no idea what to do and where to go from here. He talks, but he takes his own sweet time to reply even though he sees my messages and comes online once in a while. He has been very nice and cheerful, which he wasn’t being in the past few months, but he still doesn’t share much with me. So I really have no idea of what is happening here. I have been all bright and cheery (I feel a bit bright and cheery too, I think) to make our conversations nothing but pleasant. And I am planning to not message him for about just to check if he wants to talk on his own – moment of truth, I think!

But these are all assumptions of a female mind. I have no idea where he stands. **Admin**, could you please weigh in here? So far, your guide from NC to the kind of text messages to send has pretty much worked word-to-word, but I am lost a little here.
S

April 7, 2015 at 11:46 am

Hey Chris,

This is in continuation with the above. My ex messaged me that he liked this girl and wanted to marry her knowing fully well that that would be the very last communication between me and him, since I told him I won’t be around to see him stay with another girl. I did NC, then started talking exactly like you advised and two days back he said he ‘I slept with her’.

I carried on talking like it doesn’t matter since I have been pretending I am over him and I DO feel like after all of this a certain level of resentment and indifference has started creeping in. But I still cannot help but think about him all the time and it still kills me to know he slept with her (its a big deal in my country, you don’t just sleep around – we had been intimate for about 5 years).

So anyway, he said that it was weighing on me since then and he needed to get this off his chest. We started talking a lot intimately after that and he said the sex just didn’t feel right. I told him he needs to get out of that relationship. He said he had rushed his parents along to talk about engagement, even though his sister had warned him to take it slow, so he couldn’t now say no to her, plus it would break her heart etc etc. After talking for a while, he asked me to come up with a plan so that she doesn’t get hurt and he could get out of this shit. He messaged a mutual friend saying ‘I am in deep shit’. However, just after that I had a date with one of my ex-flames and totally lost it when he heard of it and hasn’t talked to me since.

Now my point is, what do I do? Should I keep in constant contact and risk being a text gnat (because he is going hot and cold on talking to me, so I end up having more messages, except when we talked properly that day) or should I get out of the picture with another round of NC, since that girl’s value obviously decreased when I went out of the picture (but I am scared this will push him more towards her since he’ll start feeling like he will be lonely).

I still want him back. I know its very very stupid and he is a narcissistic, selfish guy… but my brain is kind of repelling rational thought right now.

Ashley

March 21, 2015 at 4:13 am

I’m in a very new relationship; we started dating 2 months ago. We hit it off right away and have a lot of common interests while still being individually unique. His last relationship ended in August, and he says he and his ex are cordial and he sometimes invites her and her friends to hang out with him and his friends, and he says it’s totally platonic. Anyway..things were going great with us. We’d see each other a few times a week, and we always had a great time together. Last weekend his ex-girlfriend told him (in the middle of a crowded bar) that she regretted the way they ended things and wanted to give it a second chance. He tells me he told her no and that he was dating me, and he said the whole interaction with her was awkward. He then told me that- especially after that episode- he realized how much I meant to him, that it was put into perspective. The next day, I met his parents for the first time. And a few days after, he stopped texting me. I reached out yesterday and said “I know we didn’t really talk much yesterday, but I hope you’re having a great day! :-* “. He simply responded with a polite, “Thanks, you too!” And then, nothing. I am completely at a loss.. I want to give him space, because I’m sure the encounter with his ex has got him reflecting. However, I’m an over-thinker, and I’m afraid that if I execute the No Contact rule, he’ll get hurt and move on from me. I don’t want to fight fire with fire. Again, I’m just baffled– I thought things were going so well.. 🙁

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