By Chris Seiter

Updated on June 10th, 2021

There are a lot of things I am used to when it comes to Ex Boyfriend Recovery.

I am used to writing very long, in-depth articles…

I am used to interviewing experts on certain theories…

Hell, I’m even used to interviewing highly emotional women who have just gone through a breakup.

Do you want to know one thing I am not used to?

I’m NOT used to interviewing an ex boyfriend who has gone through a breakup.

And that’s where Aaron comes into the picture. You see, Aaron has a very unique case because not only did he succeed in getting his girlfriend back but he was also using the EBR method, but backwards. Luckily, when I heard about Aarons result I reached out to him to see if he’d be interested in coming onto the podcast and sharing his experience.

You see, I thought it would be interesting to get a mans perspective on a breakup from an actual ex boyfriend.

So, buckle up because Aaron and I are about to drop some serious bombshells and help you understand the way men think.

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What We Talk About In This Episode

  • What Aaron had to do to get his ex girlfriend back
  • The emotions that he went through during the breakup
  • The moment he decided to give up and move on
  • How even though he has his ex back he hasn’t fully committed to her yet
  • Why it’s important to plan for what to do after you get your ex back

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24 thoughts on “A Real Interview With An Ex Boyfriend And How It Can Help You!”

  1. Confused

    February 17, 2018 at 4:15 pm

    Im trying to get him back. Im the same case as before with the same name.

    I talk about things he really likes. He just really take a long time to im not sure how does it fits in a flowing of conversations if he replies every few days

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 20, 2018 at 11:51 am

      If you’ve been doing it long enough, that means he’s ghostinf you.. And if you’ve done nc a number of times that means you have to move on..

  2. Confused

    February 12, 2018 at 11:38 am

    An update, it seems to be his pattern is every four days. Isnt it weird like to have an ongoing conversation every few days? Im not sure if this means Im engangaging a convo and creating any positive feelings

    I usually reply with sth like a memory text or sth to leave him wondering (last time I wrote it was to discuss a current news, he actually did reply when I said he’s quiet just his pace is a few days). He does sometimes exchange texts w my sister. And i noticed he reacts to posts on fb (a gf tagged me on a photo when we had an outing and he hid his most of posts on fb timeline)

    You might be right its either he’s doing it wrong or im not really sure what he’s doing to be honest. Is it possible like you said he’s doing it wrong?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 15, 2018 at 6:58 pm

      Aaron was trying to get his gf back but is your ex trying to get you back or you’re the one trying to get him back and you’re topics are not that interesting for him?

  3. Confused

    February 4, 2018 at 8:08 am

    We broke up mid december 7 weeks ago. Since the breakup once. Before we broke up he said he need some time before we can talk.

    Recently after a week he replied to a message a week ago. But after two texts he’s quiet again.

    Is he doing a NC on me?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 7, 2018 at 1:12 pm

      hmm.. if he wants to get you back probably but he’s doing it wrong, but if not, he’s just ghosting you.

  4. Confused

    January 30, 2018 at 5:22 pm

    Im confused because he said he needs more time and Im not sure how to build rapport. Its our first time breaking up. Ive done nc for a month, and then a week after he said he needs time, and then now another week since i accidentally texted him.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 31, 2018 at 5:35 pm

      When did you break up? How many times has he said he needs more time? If this has only been recent, that’s normal that he would need space but if he has been saying it for a long time, that means he’s just stringing you along and you need to move on.

  5. Confused

    January 28, 2018 at 10:30 am


    My ex and I were in LDR too and well now we are still seperated by distance. When we officially broke up I went to him to try make it work but he said he still cant. (I went because he said he felt he cant do this anymore)

    After a month and a week I contacted him but he said hes not ready yet. But a week later i accidently sent him a message but he surprisingly replied. I briefly explained and wished him a good day saying I was on the way to a retreat. And for a month and a half its the first good response.

    Ive worked on myself during NC and kept myself busy. Reconnected w friends and also looking at what went wrong with us.

    But how do I go from here?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 30, 2018 at 3:33 pm

      Why are you confused? How many times have you done nc? And how many times have you broken up?

  6. Beautiful mess

    December 2, 2017 at 2:49 pm

    Hi, my ex broke up with me 6 months ago because of a personal mistake. I apologised & went radio silence to help us heal.
    In the process, I reflected & realised I made the mistake as my emotional needs were not met- and also went into severe depression (the guilt of hurting him had consumed me). I was so affected by it that I quit my job and went on solo travelling to find peace.
    He broke the NC to wish me on my birthday after 30 days. He informed me that he needs more time to think about us as his career is building up.
    At this point I told him I’m willing to wait, he responded by saying he is unsure about us and his future plans. He does not plan to move on and wants things to be sorted out first one step at a time.
    So I went back into NC and it’s been another 30 days now.
    When do I reach out again and what do I say? He had once promised to marry me 🙁

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      December 5, 2017 at 1:27 am

      HI Beautiful mess,

      It was actually wrong to say you’re willing to wait because now you look like you’re just there waiting, and he’ll probably either just string you along, or leave you hanging… make it seem like you’re moving on in this second nc.. and don’t tell him that.. just do it.. your posts are your indirect way of showing it.