55 thoughts on “My Ex Boyfriend Hates Me And I Love Him….”

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   Rose

   May 9, 2017 at 7:06 am

   I need hlp..
   i have been seeing ur videos..The things u said r the things happening in my life..Me and my bf was in a very thick relationship..He loved me so much..n mee too..later seeing his affection i was badly in love with him..i used to call him frequently and we used to meet every week..and his interest turned down..The main problem was me calling him frequently..At our final exam time he said to me that he was loosing interest and so i said take your time..Nw lets have a break for sometime and we will be back to our relation..when i said that he was so sad..i didnt pick up his call..And later on he cried.
   Bt i luv him..then v got back together and then the real problm strts.. he completely looses his intrest n he said v need a break..let our final exams be over..but i was really afraid in giving time to him..he started avoiding me..I am very sensitive..Small things make me cry..and soo his frnds knew this they saw mw crying..And they convinced them and he came back..bt i didnt knw the real problm was frequently contcting him..2 dys before valentines day we got back and he was back to normal..calling him made him again loose intrest and later on lead to break up..His friends and everyone had talked to him but nw he is in a strong decision that he doesnt was a relation..after that he was avoiding me badly..he says to his friends that i knw its hurting her but i cannt do anything if thus goes further and after a long time v broke up she wont be able to resist that pain..so it is better to stop now..many of his friends talked to him..And he got angry for that everyone staying in my side..And later on i started the no contact rule till our final exams got over..He said to his friend that i wil surely contact her but nw it is not the time she should forget me as her lover..There was no improvement..he was becoming more harsh to me to avoid me and he said that the only way to avoid her is being harsh..Then he called me and said to meet him..he gave me all the things i have given him and said with this our relation ends here.. after that i tried meeting him but for some or the other reason i dont know may be it is that it is not yet time to meet him..If his friends thrws a party and calls me for it my ex says dont call her.. if she comes i wil go from here,is she or me important for you..now he says being single is like having freedom..He lost intrest in being in a relation..And tried contcting him..bt doesnt respond..a few days before i calld him and by surprise my number was out of reject list and just talked and i said i still luv him..and after few talks he just hung up without saying the i calld back 3 times there was no response..today i called him when he undrestood it was me he hung up i tried again but he rejected my call.. During our exam times i followed the no contact rule..but.. he says that he want me as friend nothng else..
   Please help me..He says he is not at all intrested in a relationship..Bt he knows that i have contact with his friends and still on this topic..please help me..Nw he is like reallY moved on..And as cool as ever..he says being single is like freedom n so on.. 🙁

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   May 11, 2017 at 6:18 pm

   Hi rose,

   check this one:
   You Desperately Begged For Him Back And Failed… I’m Here To Fix That

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   Cee

   April 26, 2017 at 2:24 pm

   Hi, my boyfriend broke up with me a month ago and I did everything wrong post breakup such as being needy, desperate, gnat texting, etc. I started NC two weeks ago but he messaged me yesterday and I broke no contact. He then deleted me off all social media. Will the NC still work if I restart now? I feel like he hates me…

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   April 29, 2017 at 10:22 pm

   it’s not a guarantee that it will.. but it’s better to do it than chase.

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   An

   March 24, 2017 at 11:19 am

   I have unintentionally emotional abuse my ex boyfriend and say mean things to him. He is so hurt that he didnt reply my messages and also didnt want to meet me because I think he doesnt trust me anymore. I said something terrible like “I wish I had a better boyfriend than you” or “I wish my boyfriend could be strong enough to protect me” while he was sick. What should I do now? Im desperate.

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   March 26, 2017 at 10:18 am

   Hi An,

   do you want to try the advice above?
   check this one too:
   How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Desire You Again

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   Pam

   March 18, 2017 at 11:53 pm

   Im fine in no contact. Im to pissed off to speak to him anyway. I hate him I just still miss him. But perhaps it is over. In any case no contact is easy we hate each others guts. But he has my only nice pair of prescription eye glasses. I would like them back. I asked once 4 or 5 days ago by text. No response. I’ll buy new ones before I ask again. If he does call to give them back should I even bother or just write them off? They were just cheap anyway. I think I have my answer. For all I know they’re likely in his trash can anyway lol

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   March 23, 2017 at 9:10 pm

   Hi Pam,

   if you can just replace them, then just let them be..dont answer if he’s not to contact you about it during nc

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   Jenny

   March 13, 2017 at 8:00 pm

   Hi team, I need some major help!

   I broke up from my ex boyfriend of 4 years 3 months ago. I was devastated but in a way I knew it was coming as this past year he messed me around and I think he just wanted to be a lad and do what 19 year old boys do. We broke up and straight away he was messing around with girls, I was heart broken and decided to move on myself. Whilst we weren’t together I did sleep with someone else I was seeing mainly because I was hurt at what he was doing to me ( at the time he was the only boy I had ever slept with) in the end he found out and was so upset he headbutted me which broke my heart even more. I tried to do no contact to see if that would make a difference I did two weeks and then gave in and he completely rejected me, then I did 3 weeks and broke it the other day and ended up begging for him back. Unfortunately because of the other guy he insists he has no more feelings for me and we are done for good. Every time I beg and cry he just tells me to move on; never contact him again and he doesn’t care about me. I am so gutted it’s unreal the fact that he wasn’t begging before was hard but now that he has no feelings for me, he hates me and wants nothing more to do with me again hurts even more. When I do no contact he makes no effort to contact me at all and he’s moved on. He was my first love, the love of my life and he cheated and lied and more importantly hurt me. I know in these situations I should realise my worth and move on but more then anything I want him to actually realise what we had and what we lost and him beg for me for a change. He is so stubborn I know that what I want will never happen. All he does is slag me off behind my back and tell people he’s gonna make my life hell but all I want is for him to come back realise what he threw away and be the man I need for good.

   What do I do? Is it too late this time? Will he ever come back even though he says he feels nothing for me? I am suffering with so much anxiety and depression because of this I can’t take anymore I just want him back.

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   March 15, 2017 at 2:59 pm

   Hi Jenny,

   There’s less chance of him begging if you dont change.. change and improve first.. it’s not yet too late. Focus in that.. Aim to be an ungettable girl..