How To Get Your Boyfriend Back If YOU Cheated On Him- Advice & Help

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abcd

March 22, 2015 at 6:47 am

Admin I really need help.. Plz reply to my problem as soon as possible.. I can’t find a way out to my problem

admin

March 22, 2015 at 5:37 pm

Ok, what’s up?

Karina

March 20, 2015 at 11:18 pm

I cheated on my boyfriend of 1 year and 4 months like about 5 times (he cheated on me about 4 times) because I felt that he wasnt the one for me, but everytime i break up with him, i want him back. i dont want to see him with anyone else, but i want to move on from him. I’ve been talking to a guy for about 2 months & we really love each other, but today my boyfriend found out about me & the guy he bursted out crying & told him to leave him alone and to just talk to the other guy. what should i do?

admin

March 22, 2015 at 4:42 pm

Wow, this is crazy.

Well, first off its not ok to cheat EVER.

Of course, I think if you are in this endless pattern of taking him back, cheating, breaking up and then repeating it all over again you are just going to have to step outside of the situation entirely.

abcd

March 20, 2015 at 2:28 pm

I have been with my bf for 5 years. Our schooling is from same school and now we r graduating from d same college. We both love each other like hell. But dere was always a problem with my bf dat he was over possessive for me and used to beat me and abuse me at tiny mistakes. We went for a fest out of the city with our seniors. One of my senior started showing his caring nature for me and from there we started having conversation which I was hiding from my bf. I went out with dat person and I got so attached with him dat i started forgetting my bf. I always felt dat d new person loved me more and my bf would always behave rudely with me. After one month my bf came to know about it we had a fight for so long and dan he forgave me. I was so scared that I told my bf dat i only loved him but again I started talking to dat guy. My bf again gave me a second chance. In dat duration I came to realise dat my bf was d perfect guy for me and started to keep me like a princess. In dat duration, due to d status of d new guy on social networking sites which I thought were related to me,I started to get affected by it. I talked to him to make him understand dat he should move on. Due to his situation,which I assumed to be bad,I started talking to him to help him get out of me. This time again my bf came to know about it but he is angry with me bcoz i hid things from him. In dis duration I had made it clear to dis person dat i loved my bf alot and he should move on. But dis time my bf is not able to trust me. He is not talking to me and he is not ready to listen to anything wat i say. I am so guilty wid my constant cheating acts dat i m nt able to concentrate on anything in my life. I want my bf back. He loves me like hell. And i want to keep him happy. Dnt advice me to be wid the new guy bcoz i have realised who is d correct person for me. I need help. Plz help me to get him back..

admin

March 22, 2015 at 4:20 pm

Well, I think you need to completely cut contact with the new guy if you don’t love him.

Neisha

March 18, 2015 at 9:09 pm

Can we email? The situation is rather intense, I am not comfortable with writing about it on here.

admin

March 21, 2015 at 3:09 pm

Hi There, I am really sorry but I no longer email anymore. It was taking up too much of my time.

qrane

March 17, 2015 at 9:17 pm

like your blog and the effort u put in.and u hv tried replying to ppl,,awesome!

admin

March 18, 2015 at 9:06 pm

Thank you Qrane!

Chris

March 17, 2015 at 5:54 pm

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months now. When we started dating he wanted to take things slow, as he was still recovering from his ex, who he broke up with over a year before we met. He said the problem with him and his ex, was they rushed the relationship, and it all went wrong. After several dates, we went back to mine, and the connection between us was unreal. There was no awkwardness when we were together, and it was one of the most passionate nights of my life. The next day (Mother’s Day) I woke up and saw him lying there next to me, my face lit up. I have never felt this way about a guy before. He kept saying me “I really like you, I replied “I really like you too” he then said “no I REALLY like you.” After cooking him a breakfast he left, and we shared a passionate kiss on my door step. I went to my mums pub to celebrate Mother’s Day with her. I was sitting across from this guy, who kept staring at me, and it brought up strange feelings in me (this guy wasn’t my type at all). I couldn’t stop thinking about Reece that day, and the time we spent together. But I kept questioning myself to why he won’t commit to me. Eventually my feelings bubbled up inside me. I messaged Reece saying “there is a randomer staring at me, what do I do?” His reply was “you can do what you want, we’re not exclusive it’s fine” I felt so angry that in a stupid reckless moment I got with the guy (kissing nothing else, although he asked for more) I was shaking the whole time, I couldn’t stop thinking about Reece. When we stopped kissing I locked myself in the toilet and contemplated what had just happened. I got messages from Reece saying “if something’s wrong” and by my one word responses I was typing back through tears, he knew something wasn’t right. On my way home I confessed to Reece that I kissed a guy, but I feel like crap about it. He replied “it’s fine, were not together, don’t worry about it.” The next day I messaged Reece, and received no reply, which was very unusual, I asked if I had hurt him, and he said I had. This then progressed to a long argument, that I’m a slut and he thinks I slept with the guy, and don’t care about him. I admitted I’m in the wrong. He stated he needed time to think about us, and didn’t understand that if that night meant so much to me, why would I do something like that. I explained that I don’t know why I did it, I just wanted to feel wanted, and loved by him. After more arguing over him blaming me for pointless things, when we were dating. He stated he just needed time to think about what he wants. Please tell me I haven’t messed up on us? We weren’t exclusive so kissing someone shouldn’t be a problem. What do I do? How do I give him time, and get him to talk things out with me in person? Please help me I don’t want to lose him!! Thanks x

admin

March 18, 2015 at 9:02 pm

Well, unfortunately he is probably feeling led on by you a little bit.

Technically you weren’t together but it still hurt him.

Ariel anderson

March 16, 2015 at 12:34 pm

My boyfriend recently broke up with me cause he seen me flirting via text messages with other guys. He told me to delete his number and dont contact him. Does the 30 day rule even apply to me or is it a lost cause?

admin

March 18, 2015 at 7:15 pm

What kind of flirting are we talking abou there?

And yes, NC applies to you.

Srishti

March 15, 2015 at 9:53 am

I reacently broked my boyfriend trust and i was sorry at that time but i stopped msging him he called me and fighted y i didnt called him. As i was not physical with other guy i was with it was a thing i like him but when i lost my boyfriend i realized that i only love my boyfriend. Though we bith were physical and have a good time but he said once he is gone he will never back but i want him. He is very practical and sometimes very immature but all i want is back to him an i am having a way for it help me. But yeah he always use to say he cant live without me but on other node he also says he will not talk even he will be dieng to talk to me. I know he is hurt so bad cant explan but their will be a way… Anyone help me

admin

March 15, 2015 at 5:36 pm

Did you cheat on him or something?

Noc

March 13, 2015 at 4:51 pm

I would advise heavily against not contacting someone you’ve cheated on for 30 or 90 days if you want them back. Maybe not call but definitely text and just let them know you are thinking about them. True enough, talking to someone too soon.. you’re going to get blasted and yelled at, but rightfully so. You cheated. Though it’s not the end of the world, you should feel bad about losing a good thing if you feel that you had a good thing

I’ve been cheated on…and my ex returned about 3 months after the fact to patch things up and I was absolutely done. Had she come back earlier while my heart was still hers though she had broken it. I was still attached to her…we would’ve had a shot of getting back together. But by her taking so long without communicating I felt like she was probably still living it up with the guy she cheated on me with. That pushed me away even further until I no longer wanted to go through that process of trying to open up to her again.

To me, it’s a cop out to dodge all the emotionally pain someone has experienced from being cheated on then come back to the table as if you’re fresh as a daisy. Every guy is different but I think this is advice for if you cheated on in a very casual relationship to begin with. If things were more serious…you absolutely should apologize and you absolutely should make the person aware that they are on your mind.

admin

March 15, 2015 at 4:09 pm

Good advice!

na

March 13, 2015 at 2:50 pm

So my ex and I were together for roughly 3 years…he cheated on me. I cheated on him so he knew how it felt. Then he cheated on me again because he was hurt and I ended it to stop the cycle…it has been a year and a half since then and we still keep in contact and we still love be each other. I have gotten over everything considering we both were young and stupid. He is afraid to trust me and I don’t exactly blame him…the catch is Im now pregnant with his child… I have faith that if we gave it one more shot we could make it…but I also want to try and make it work for our kid…what do I do?..
han

March 13, 2015 at 5:33 am

im han..i cheated on my ex bf…i thought hes not serious on me…he found out i cheated on him thinking i play with him…he want me out of hes life and asked me to leave him alone…i realized how much i love him and how much he mean to me but its too late coz he broke up with me and he was gone…i tried to called him,,,send sms,,,but he only bursted hes anger…i dont know if we can still start all over again.

admin

March 13, 2015 at 9:27 pm

Well, I recommend reading this,

https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/you-cheated-on-your-boyfriend-and-now-you-want-him-back/

Caitlynn Cuttic

March 13, 2015 at 4:46 am

I cheated twice on my bf who I have lived with and been dating for a whole year. I think I did it because he was teasing me about my weight and when ever we talk its like he always corrects my grammar making me feel like im not smart or something. but he says ” that doesn’t even make sense you don’t go cheating on someone you care about twice because they teased you about your weight or made you feel stupid”
is what he saying true?
what do I do?

admin

March 13, 2015 at 8:52 pm

Did he treat you right or was he always hurting your confidence?

I think that’s not a great reason to cheat (not that there ever is a good reason to.)

So, in a strange way I kind of agree with him but still he played with fire by making fun of you like that.

Imogen

March 12, 2015 at 5:21 pm

Hi I broke up with my bf of nearly 3 years and slept with someone else soon after. I felt like he wasn’t there for me in the way that I needed at the time and looking back I see I was so wrong. We have been back in touch and he says that he just wants to be friends even though we have slept together recently he still says he just wants friendship and doesn’t want to lose me out of his life in that way. I’m so confused. He is now also saying that the relationship wasn’t all that great for various reasons e.g saying I was a nag etc. He says that he still cares for me and loves me but just not in that way anymore. I am so confused and hurt. I know I love him so much and I really want him back but seeing him as a friend is killing me and he says there is no way we will get back together. What should I do? Please help.

admin

March 13, 2015 at 8:22 pm

Have you done NC?

hannah

March 12, 2015 at 12:42 am

My boyfriend and I were together for about a year and half. We met in college and we did everything together. Literally, my whole college experience is him. We ended up moving in together and somewhere along the lines our sex life just stopped. I didn’t want to have sex anymore and the thought of sex repulsed me. I thought it was my birth control, because I just recently switched. I started texting my guy friend a lot more often and after my boyfriend(ex now) and I had a huge fight I ended up at his house that night. We didn’t do much, but I found myself going over to his house a lot more often. My boyfriend and I were so rocky and I would just keep confiding in the other guy until we ended up sleeping together. I immediantly told my boyfriend the next morning and he ended up having his parents come and move him out of the apartment and back on campus. His family hates me, he hates me, and all I want is to have him back. I love him so much and I just want to fix things between us. How do I fix things?

admin

March 13, 2015 at 7:54 pm

Well, why did it repulse you?

I mean, it didn’t with the other guy.

Deanna

March 7, 2015 at 3:00 am

I’ve been dating my BF (soon to be ex, I think) for about a year and a half. He moved with me down to Florida From CT, while here we has a couple big fights. In turn, we mutually decided we needed a break from each other to get our minds right. So he went back up north. While gone, we talk everyday. Tango, text, FB, Ig… we keep in touch. Allll the time. A month into him leaving I was at a bar, and met another guy. One thing turned into another, and I ended up sleeping with the guy. And then again. Only twice. But I also continued to talk and text with the guy afterwards. My BF took a flight and came and surprised me on his birthday. He could sense I was a little antsy. Somehow he coerced me into letting him see my texts (I tried everything to keep him out.) At this point, I knew what was next. He saw texts which confirmed what he dreaded, I cheated. He was beyond hurt. At this point he is back in CT. He says we will try to make it work but i don’t know how. He already had insecurities and jealous issues before. Is this worth fighting for?? And if so, how do I go about proving myself to someone from sooo far away. The distance helps with the 30 day no contact, but after that? & with the 30 day no contact… he is still talking to me, although he’s mad. I feel if I did that he’d think I was moving on. Am I right? Thanks in Advance!
dion

March 6, 2015 at 2:59 pm

I cheated because he was being inconsistent and i felt like he wasn’t giving me enough attention. i’m trying to decide if i should fight for him or if it’s even worth it because he has a pattern of being inconsistent. it’s like when he’s good, he’s GREAT and when he’s off, its so bad. idk what to do! I really do want him in my life in some way. I actually would love it if we were together, but I just need for him to remain consistent. what do you have to say about guys who are inconsistent?

admin

March 7, 2015 at 5:57 pm

If you don’t think you will get that attention from him then don’t try to get him back.

Thats my advice.

Though, if you do think he will change then it might be worth a try.

Kelsi

March 6, 2015 at 2:40 pm

I cheated on my boyfriend of almost 3 years and he broke up with me about 6 days ago. We live together and there’s no possibility of either of us moving out so I can’t give him the 30 day no contact. I had flirted with a girl through text because I was insecure about him talking to a girl I knew had a crush on him and I don’t know why I did it, I just did. I love him more than anything in the world. I have told him everything he’s wanted to know, given him every account and password, and completely ceased contact with this girl. All I want is him back. We’ll go through hours of everything seeming like normal and then hours of fighting and crying and pain. I just don’t know what to do. I know he has to deal with things in his own way but I want to do everything I can to show him he’s who I want to be with. He says he’ll never trust me again and even says that there is no way he would ever want to be with me again, and I don’t blame him, but sometimes it feels like he still wants to be with me and I just want us to pull through this… what do I do…

admin

March 7, 2015 at 5:59 pm

REad this,

https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/when-not-to-use-the-no-contact-rule-on-your-ex-boyfriend/

Samantha

March 4, 2015 at 6:52 am

So I cheated on my boyfriend of 5 years about 2 years ago. And it still seems like he just won’t let it go so we can move forward. Any fight we may have, he always brings up what I did to him an throws it in my face. I love this guy to death an have truly changed for him. But how can I get through to him that he’s doing is wrong & how can we move forward? HELP!!!!

admin

March 5, 2015 at 8:36 pm

Have there been any more cheating incidents since then that he may have picked up on.

He is insecure obviously.

Jessica

March 2, 2015 at 12:30 am

So I was with my now ex for about 3 months. I fell in love with him the first time that we met. One weekend in my first semester of college I was drinking and blacked out. I didnt remember making out with this other guy. (my ex didnt go to my school and he also doesnt drink) I was sending snapchats to my ex all night and when he saw them he was angry. He asked the next day if i did anything with this other guy and i said no because i didnt think that I did. and also in our relationship i was really insecure, i always have been and there was one or two times i asked him who he was with, what he was doing, etc. i felt things were off around 3 months so i went to see him and talk to him, and i suggested that we think about things and what we want to be. I gave him the necklace back that he gave to me for christmas, (he looked like he was going to cry, he wanted me to keep it) the next day a guy i used to like came on to me and i have him head and we made out. I told my ex because I wanted to be open and honest. My ex says that he wont give me a second chance, i may be young but i know in my heart he is the one. im scared and i dont want to lose him. I want to get him back. the one thing he recently told me was hed never let anyone make him feel the way his mom made his dad feel (she left him for another man) and i kinda did that..me and my ex still talk and everything he wanted to be friends and i wanted to cut all ties he said “…Jess..i like having you in my life..a lot more than not..” So now idk what to do and i refuse to do anything with anyone else because I know in my heart that this is worth fighting for. what do i do?

admin

March 2, 2015 at 9:37 pm

Go into NC.

Give him time to heal and you stay away from other guys for a while if you are serious about wanting him back.
Jessica

March 2, 2015 at 12:35 am

And how we met…we met on Tinder. I kept going on to see if he was still on and he told me that he recently has been going on, letting it load and then getting off because he knows im checking. Ive stopped because its only going to make my anxiety worse. I believe what he said, hes never lied to me. I just want him back into my life and for him to trust me again, I dont want to live without him

Naah

March 1, 2015 at 8:45 pm

I have been dating this guy for one and a half years. We sometimes have petty quarrels but we settle them and move on. One day during the Xmas vacation.. he was complaining about how I don’t call him often and don’t check up on him.. and he began saying harsh words at me. As usual. . We settled it and moved on. Not long after.. he sent me messages about how he regrets knowing me and befriending me and loving me..because I said we should have a break in the relationship. He even said we should quit… I was shocked and angry that he said those things.I then decided to do something to hurt him as pay back. In the midst of the anger.. I called for a break up, started a pretend date with a friend..all with the aim of hurting him..and stopped talking to him. No calls. No texts. Nothing.
He would call and apologise. Won’t mind him
Then we came to school and he came to visit me and he apologised and I accepted his apology.
I was still pretend dating my friend..but made it look real.
One day..my ex(new friend)..took my phone and read my whatsapp chats with my fake bf. In those chats..I had said horrible things about him..and he saw them. He became very angry..sad..hurt and disturbed.his main issue was that I was cheating on him. He said this because the cats he read were like that of lovers..and it started just about a week after our break up.
I wasn’t cheating on him when we were dating and the new relationship is just a fake one which I have told him so many times but he still does not believe it.
He is now going round telling everyone that I was cheating on him.
And that is my problem.
I wasn’t.
Please help me.
Tell me how to make him believe that I wasn’t cheating. I don’t want him back anyway but I just want to clear the air around the cheating issue. That’s all.
Please
Thanks

admin

March 2, 2015 at 9:26 pm

I think the problem is that even if he does believe you he is going to have serious trust issues because “fake dating” isn’t a normal thing to do…

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