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554 thoughts on “How To Get An Ex Boyfriend Back If You Slept With Him”

  1. Leo

    November 10, 2015 at 4:18 pm

    Chris,

    My ex boyfriend broke up with me 3 months ago. We dated for 7 months. I know that he loved me dearly, I am severely depresses (so is he) and I depended on him entirely for my happiness. We had a few arguments here and there, but I cried a lot and got frustrated sometimes and I now realise he couldn’t take it. He tried his hardest to love me and to tolerate my sadness, but I did not see this at the time. He was always very sweet to me, and always supportive. We never raised our voices at each other or threw insults when we got upset. We had WAY more amazing moments than bad however. They were beautiful…like cut out from a romance novel. We spent some holidays together, family reunions and dinners, and he was there when my father was ill in the hospital. He cried to himself several times before making the decision of breaking up with me. Our breakup was terrible on that day as it was our month anniversary (yeah we did 1 month anniversaries sometimes, lol). He told me he wasn’t ready to date. And whenever he is ready that he does not think it will be with me. I told him to never talk to me again, but I couldn’t. So we had sex on multiple occasions after that breakup, It was me who convinced us to even though he said it would not be right, but we did. He treated me like I was still his gf: kissing, hugging, laughing, calling me his “lady” and he even told me he missed me being his girlfriend. He texted me as usual. Then a few weeks later I ruined it, I was tired of being only friends with him and feeling strung along. One day I called him NON STOP and sent lots of texts with no reply from him…it has carried on this way for the last week and a half. I told him not to talk to me unless he wanted a relationship with me and I was tired of being ignored. And then I told him that I was done and that I love him. He knows me fully, but I think he doesn’t want anything to do with me now after all the calling and emotional rides and crying. It’s been 3 days since I have not contacted him. I miss him entirely and just want him back as he is my baby. please help me

  2. Camille

    November 10, 2015 at 2:03 pm

    Yes chris, he’s in a relationship. I can’t understand him anymore. I am tired already, and I’m no longer sure if he’s worth getting back.

  3. Jessica

    November 9, 2015 at 11:45 pm

    To add to my last comment – my question is what are my next steps if there could still be a chance? Go NC for a couple weeks and then ask him to hang out again but in a strictly platonic way? There will be no more sex but I don’t want to seem needy.

  4. Jessica

    November 9, 2015 at 11:41 pm

    Hey Chris- My ex and I dated for 7 years then another 3 years on and off (mostly off) but never near as serious as before because he has a fear of commitment. After 5 months of NC, he reached out telling me how great I was but I knew he had just broken up with someone so I tried not to take it too seriously. We talked a few times after that but the texts eventually turned sexual and he started coming over some to spend the night but I always held strong and didn’t give in to full fledged sex. Until this week that is and now I’m completely regretting it because I know it was the wrong thing to do if I want him back. He texted the next day to say “hope i had a good day” but I can tell he’s not looking to turn it into more now (not sure if he ever was or I’m just his comfort zone). I still love him despite having dated several other people – I just haven’t found anyone that makes me feel the way he does. Do I have any chance at fixing this or should I just cut my losses and move on?

  5. Monica

    November 4, 2015 at 12:30 am

    Hi Chris,
    I was in a long distance relationship for 2 years (and 3 years before without distance). He broke up with me 2 and half months ago. I had no contact for 21 days, it worked and he contacted me telling me he missed me and wanted to see me. I went home for a weekend but made the mistake of having sexual relations and telling him I love him. He then started to show less/none interest again. I waited 10 days to contact him again and we started to text and talk by phone again. I told him I was not interested in being together as a couple, just friends. We flirted by phone and then I went again (after a month) back home and saw him. This time he invited me to go out to have a drink and after that I made the mistake again of having relations. The next day we went to the movies and he tried several times to kiss me and touch me. I took his hand off several times. However, he took me to the airport and he showed interest in me, so I am not sure if he wants to get back together. Should I keep texting him or do the no contact rule again? Should I talk to him about what is going on with us or not?

    Thank you!

    1. Monica

      November 4, 2015 at 12:41 am

      I forgot to say that he always tells me that I am very special to him. He said that did not wanted to be long distance because we were always fighting. Also, he said he did not felted the same way and was not in love anymore. He was really contradictory. I will be graduating in one more semester. This last time I saw him I told him I did not wanted FWB and he told me I was more than a friend.

  6. Olivia

    November 2, 2015 at 1:40 pm

    My ex broke up with me in September of this year and we were basically living together for a year before the break up. I mostly initiated all the texts after a month of no contact and he’s responded to all of them. He’s initiated 2 texts so far. First one was when he was drunk and asked me to pick him up. I didn’t pick him up and didn’t see the text until the next morning. Second, he was questioning about my text a couple of days before. Halloween, I went out and yes, liquor was involved. I called him a few times and he’s picked up every call. I told him I was going to pick him up, since he was not able to drive back home. I sobered up, picked him up, and he wouldn’t let me leave when I dropped him off at his place. I slept over and we had sex at night and in the morning. He’s cuddled with me while sleeping and kissed me during the day. He’s told me that it feels a little empty without me there and still holds onto a stuffed animal of mine. He’s let me use his toothbrush to brush. It felt like we were together again like how it used to be. He also let me use his place to store my couches while I am in the process of moving out. He dropped me off and I asked him where are we in our situation. He says he “doesn’t know.” I text him a couple hours later (12pm) that I missed sleeping next to him and at 8pm, he responded, “Yes it was very nice.” Where is this going?

    1. Olivia

      November 2, 2015 at 1:44 pm

      I’ve also asked him the first week of our relationship if this break up is really what he wants and he says, “it’s not what I want, it’s what has to happen.” A month after of not talking, I asked him if he still has feelings for me or if he just sees me as a friend. He said, “It’s not healthy for is to talk about it. Please no more questions like that.”

  7. Ash

    November 2, 2015 at 12:37 am

    Hi Chris,
    Hope ur doing well.

    I am so confused in my relationship now. I slept with him many times as we are in relation from longtime. Everything is going well until he went home to see his parents. He met a new gal. Then he started saying he wants to breakup with me.i cried a lot and tried to convince him. But he said he can’t cheat and he wants to end before he start up a new relationship. He says he wants to be my best friend and promising me that he will still care for me as he used to be before. he did cared!! He texts me to remind me of every imp appointments, he referred me for a gud job etc. He said everything will be the same except sex bcoz he doesn’t want to cheat on his new gal.but I love him a lot and can’t accept him as just a friend. So I started no contact rule.i didn’t replied to any of his texts, calls. With in 10 days he came back to me saying he doesn’t want to put me in pain anymore. Now he says he would never leave me and want to be same with me including sex.I don’t know whether to trust or not ???

  8. Asap

    October 31, 2015 at 1:47 pm

    Have you had any testimonials of girls trying to turn around FWB and succeeding? Basically right now my best shot is not contacting him for 45 days and not inititating more than two txts. If he doesn’t initiate any texts after two texts its time to move on even if I can get him to respond? I also should not try to seduce him either in my txts, just platonic? I have been trying to ignite a relationship since June 2015 after a year of no contact after he told me he didn’t have feelings for me back in June 2014. I have gotten him to respond to txts 1ce or twice a month since June. Last night he suggested being completely platonic friends after I got upset he was not interested in touching me after sex but I told him dont even respond to my txts if you’re not interested in a relationship, which he has been doing since last night. Time to give up or is there still hope?

  9. M Steph

    October 31, 2015 at 6:31 am

    Hey Chris, I’d like to start by saying thank you for all the time & effort you’ve out on to this site.I’ve Learned so much!
    My story is a bit complicated but I’ll try to keep it simple. My ex & I dated for 5 years, he wanted to propose to me but due to a lot of harm from the past I was hurt & felt out of love. Shortly after, I met someone else. My ex & I ended things up amicably but he was very hurt. We always hung out on the low & had contact for 4 years, but eventually we starting talking less & less because I was in a relationship & decided to diminish all communication between us. He chased me nonstop for those 3 years (even though we were also good friends). I had moved on, but couldn’t stop being friends with him & about 2 years ago he met someone else. He seemed to have moved on about a year ago when we stopped talking. We recently met to hang out as we usually did, after almost a year of not seeing each other. We clearly had a lot of feelings for 1 another, he was nervous to see me (we’ve known each other for 9 years so I don’t get why he still gets nervous lol). Bottom line is, I felt I loved him the minute I saw him & I felt for the trap & gave it up. It’s been 3 times now. We go out on these amazing dates & then we do what we do. But he’s in a committed relationship & I am in the process of ending mine. I wasn’t planning on this. I love him & it hurts like hell! I can’t stop thinking abt him, I know he has feelings for me but he confessed to me that he is very confused, I was there so I understand. Idk what to do, so I came across your site & I’m going to do what it takes. I really hope it works.

    1. M Steph

      December 5, 2015 at 7:08 am

      Gosh Chris, I don’t mean to be a pest but I wrote this back in October & my comment is still “awaiting moderation”. All I wanted was some sort of feedback from you. Not fair that everyone else gets a response, while I faithfully check this site on a nearly daily basis. I’m a bit disappointed.

    2. Chris Seiter

      December 7, 2015 at 6:06 pm

      I am so sorry.

      It’s been so hard with the baby. I am doing my best to answer comments. I still literally have a thousand awaiting moderation.

  10. Haylie

    October 29, 2015 at 6:39 am

    I’ve literally never done something like this before. Read websites about getting an ex back, and then actually comment on one hoping for an answer. I’m sure my story is going to be no different than others, but im embarrassed to tell it. I made a terrible mistake and lost the person who I loved. I was in a long term relationship for almost 5 years with someone who truly cared for me and I just took for it granted. Our relationship was perfect the first couple years, but lots of fights and pointless arguments put us both in a place where we just weren’t happy. It became hard to be happy even though we cared so deeply for each other. I blame most the fights on me, for questioning him about everything when in reality, he always just went to work and came home, never even hung out with friends. I honestly don’t know why I acted like that towards the end of our relationship. I feel like I wanted more, I wanted more from him.. But he didn’t want to give it because of my behavior all the time. He was a good guy, my best friend, the only person I literally tell everything too and the only person who I want to celebrate good things with and hold each other when things are bad. We lived with each other and spent every waking day by each others side, which I know wasn’t good because we gave each other no time to miss each other. We stopped going on little road trips with each other and just having fun, instead we sat in the house, literally all day. And even if I did want us to do something and go somewhere just to get out and be happy, he wouldn’t want to anymore. We fought so much to the point where he felt like he didn’t want to go anywhere with me because he was so angry and hurt on the inside. We lived like this for a long time before we finally split up. The final goodbye between us happened because of a horrible mistake I made, and honestly don’t know why I made it. I drank a little to much one night, and ended up cheating on him. He found it, and packed all his stuff and left, which I don’t blame him. He blocked me on Facebook and trys hard not to contact me. When he does, its always the same ‘I’m thinking about you constantly, even if you think I’m not, I miss you and love you and want to be with you so bad, but I just can’t ‘. We broke up 5 days ago and it’s extremley hard. I was so used to doing LITERALLY everything with him EVERYDAY. I have no motivation to do anything but cry, and I really do try hard to not let him see that. I’ve texted him and spoke in person explaining how sorry I was for everything. And I truly am sorry. I don’t know what came over me the night I cheated. I wish I could take everything back so badly and he knows that. He’s told me he forgives me, and even if it hurts, he wants to try to move on though. Its really hard for me to do the no contact rule with him because I feel like it will help him move on rather than miss me. I know he misses me and he’s hurting right now, I just wish he was willing to fix this rather than walk away from it. I noticed he only talks to me at night and sends me old photos of us and says he’s crying, obviously because once your done with your day and just lay in bed you have more time to think. Its impossible for me not to respond cause I just want him to know how much I feel the same. I just want to grow stronger from this even if it takes time, ive realized now so many things that we needed to change and I just want him to come back so I can prove to him what he really meant to me. I know I’ve already talked a bunch, but it gets more interesting, or rather worse. I saw him today because I owed him some money, I also got my tongue pierced and he was really curious to see it. I came over and we talked for a while, cried for a bit, and then ended up having sex… Twice. I kept saying this is wrong (and trust me, as much as I wanted him I KNEW it was wrong). But he told me if it feels right just go with it, I miss you and I want you so much right now.. So I went with it thinking it might benefit our situation in some way. Instead, I still walked away crying because to him, he was just doing what felt right, but it didn’t change his mind on wanting to be with me. Its been hours since we saw each other and he hasn’t texted me. I want to msg him so bad but I don’t know what to say. I know he loves me and wants me but hes just so stuck on dwelling on my mistake to move past it. I miss him. I miss my best friend. I miss the person I laid my head on every night to sleep. I miss my boyfriend. My question now after every thing was said, is in this situation is the no contact rule good? Will it make him wonder what I’m doing and want to text me, or will it make it easier for him to move on because he’s not hearing from me and can’t see anything of mine on social media. I know he’s hurting and is angry with me for what I did, so that’s why I’m just worried if I don’t somewhat stay in contact with him he’ll just move on. And if I don’t respond to him when he sends me a msg first he’s the stubborn kind of guy who wont keep trying to talk to me and will just let it go. He will start to think I’m trying to move on from him and don’t want to speak to him, when it reality I just want him to know how much I love him, miss him and am sorry for everything. I’m just confused on what to do and really don’t want to give him the wrong idea..

  11. Liz

    October 26, 2015 at 9:32 pm

    Hi Chris I have finished the no contact and me and my ex started talking randomly again and there was no more yelling. I was going to his college and I asked if he was willing to have dinner with me and he told me he didn’t think it was a good idea. I then said he clearly didn’t want me in his life and he told me that wasn’t true. I then told him that he needed to tell me if he had feelings for me anymore and if he didn’t have feelings for me I would leave him alone and delete his number but if he did we needed to figure it out. He now will not answer my messages to avoid the question and I don’t know what that means. I know I will most likely get a text message from him within the next couple weeks just saying “hey” but I am not sure how I should react at this point

    1. Chris Seiter

      December 3, 2015 at 2:21 pm

      Go into no contact for 21 days.

    2. Liz

      October 27, 2015 at 9:54 pm

      I’m worried he is keeping me around as an option and I don’t know how to get out of it. I’m really worried that it’s too late to get back to the ungettable girl. I don’t know if I should be meaner and careless towards him for him to finally understand I am not playing games

  12. emma

    October 26, 2015 at 4:10 pm

    Hi Chris, I did the non contact rule 30 days.. we only texted twice during this time, talking about giving him back my his things. So..I saw him..it was great, we were joking, we went to walking..talking like old times. We also hugged and looked into eyes..I could see he felt bad, like he was hurt. Me too. Then big mistake, we had sex. I wanted. I thought he would stay with me even though he kept saying no. I was just very emotional and desperate. He said he will think about things but I should think we are not getting back together. Today he said he feels bad about sleeping together, it brought memories. Now he says he will write to me. Do you think its over? I said him that I want him back. Thank you so much for your help.

  13. Sophie

    October 25, 2015 at 6:04 pm

    Hi,

    My ex and I slept together recently but he has a girlfriend. We meet about once a month and last month he tried but I didnt let him and this time we had a few drinks and I guess I let my guard down. Why would he do that to his girlfriend though? Does that mean he doesnt love her enough? Or is he just using me to know he still has me?

  14. Clare

    October 23, 2015 at 5:05 pm

    Hi Chris,

    So, this may be a long one but please bear with me. My boyfriend of one year broke up with me and I get why. By the end (circumstances forced us to live in a room together), we were fighting all the time and I just wasn’t a fun person to be with. I was whining a lot and I had become a negative element in his life and somebody he had to take care of. Now, he comes from an extremely poor background which means that he has a set of responsibilities in any case and both of us are more academic in our approach towards life, which means that eccentricity is >normal. All of that resulted in a tumultuous relationship and he couldn’t take it anymore by the end. He couldn’t bear to have my responsibility also. Unfortunately or fortunately, both of us are still in love with each other (yes, he is too), but only I want to get back (even if and admittedly, more desirably, a slow paced relationship). I feel the break up did us well enough for me to realize my mistakes and be more equipped to work on us and his complexities.
    Now, I did have conversations wherein I didn’t beg, but asked him to get back and he shoved me off. For the one and a half months that we had broken up, we had sex on and off, but it was pretty clear that he wanted nothing else. After one intense conversation about almost two weeks ago where I realized he NEVER wanted to get back, I told him I was done. His mood swung immediately and by the end of the night, he said he felt like shit. I came back home and slept. For a week, I didn’t see him or call him or talk to him. I needed space to get my own shit together. I knew that was necessary. So, I did. I read everyday for hours together and spent more time with people than I had (viz zero). A week after, I fell sick (I’m psychosomatic) and there was no one else but him, so I called him. He came, took care of me, stroked my face, kissed my cheeks and treated me like he used to when we were together. In short, for those two hours, he was my man again. He got me food after, but left.
    The next morning, I wrote him an email saying that I appreciated what he did for me and how I was doing well (that day and life, in general). I also told him that I completely understood his decision for breaking up and that I hoped he understood why I needed space from him. I told him may be in the future if we are in a better place and more sure, we could try again. I also told him that I may not be able to see him everyday, but that I could write to him.
    He replied a couple of hours later saying that he can’t do long emails and that he’d much rather talk to me face-to-face. He said that I should call him and that he’ll come over, whenever I feel like it.
    So, I did. I did call him the next day and we were watching Whose Line is it Anyway? and that was fun…. except, it led to sex. We started kissing and he held me close and said how he had forgotten just how much he missed this. He said he really wanted me, but couldn’t have me. I didn’t say anything. He asked me if he could have me one last time. I didn’t say anything. We chilled for a couple of minutes, after which we made out again and he asked again and (surprise, surprise!) I caved. We had sex. What’s worse is that we had sex after we chilled the next day as well. He looked at my face and saw my disapproval and said that he was highly attracted to me and therefore, it was so difficult on him and that he shall try to stop it.
    I put my foot down the next morning. I sent him an email (say hello to Ms. Coward) and told him how I refused to have the sanctity of what we had be reduced to just sex and that I couldn’t be anyone’s no-strings-attached. That I did hold on long after he had left and I couldn’t have done anything anymore. I told him I didn’t need flings or my sexual desires to be satiated and that I was good being by myself. He hasn’t replied to the email, although I’m fairly certain he has seen it. I texted him a picture of a sketch he had made me which I found and he replied to that though.
    I know he still wants me and loves me. He is protective of me and shudders to think of another man being near me. Yet, he doesn’t want a relationship and I’m done with that. I can’t sit around for him. I can’t wait.
    Except. I AM in love and as much as I don’t want a full-fledged relationship right now, I do know that I shall not be able to think of another man. I know myself and how much capacity I have of being stuck in love. Also, it doesn’t help that we live and work in the same place. For one year, we practically lived together and it was beautiful.
    I know he misses me, but not enough to want to get back. The last few weeks still cloud his judgement.
    I am willing to give this as much time as it takes. Love doesn’t come easy and I get that. I just…. don’t want to lose him. I know what we had was special, for both him and myself. We had never been with anyone the way we were with each other. We were just going through a rough patch and he isn’t capable of undertaking responsibilities as a person (more than he already has), but I know he loves me still.
    How bad does the situation look to you? Is it reparable? What would you suggest I do now?

    Thank you. I hope you’re having a good day. Also, congratulations on your baby girl. All the happiness in the world to you.

  15. Sarah

    October 23, 2015 at 9:13 am

    Hey Chris! So I broke up with this guy a year ago and since April we have been sort of FWB. I asked him about why he sleeps with me many times and he says because he’s comfortable with me and trusts me. He texts me regularly shares his personal things with only me and no one else, resorts to me when he is sad and cares for me a lot. He shows all these things so this is definitely not my imagination. He’s very nice to me and always want to make me feel special and happy. Also during sex he always makes sure I’m comfortable and its pleasurable or else he stops. But he won’t ask me out what is this? His behavior just makes me feel like he does like me a lot but he never mentions it as such. Do you think I have a chance with him in near future or this is just over because we are FWB? Thanks in advance.

  16. Tricia

    October 22, 2015 at 9:49 pm

    Chris, Congrats on your family addition! She is beautiful. Thank you for the wonderful service you provide for those of us who are lost in the myriad of relationship boxing. For my situation, we have/were together about 1 1/2 years. We broke up the 1st time 8 mths ago when I got upset with him staying out drinking late several times in a week. He wanted out too as it was clear he had mentally checked out of our relationship. We got back together about a month later after I sent him a closure email. Three months ago, we broke up again when he cheated. He had never cheated on any prior GFs but I was the lucky recipient of that favor. He was visibly disgusted with himself and broke up saying I deserved better. We got back together about 3 weeks later again at my behest. A month ago, we broke up again because he didn’t come home until 5am after another one of his drinking escapades. He said he woke up on the sofa of some strange girl’s couch fully clothed and nothing happened. Regardless, even if true I think something would have happened if she allowed it. I went successful NC for 3 weeks ignoring a drunk text once and an email later, until running into him at bar last Friday. A couple hours and several drinks later, we’re back at my place doing the deed and he stays until Saturday evening when I have to go meet a GF. Sunday night, he and his buddy show up unannounced because they need me to call an Uber since my ex’s phone died. Friend leaves and ex stays. He says he loves me but is confused and I tell him I will let him go so he can go figure it out. We of course have sex and he leaves Monday morning for work. The number of texts has continued to decline during this period and I’m feeling pretty crappy about giving it up all weekend. Last night, he’s out drinking again till 12:30am and he texts saying he’s in my neighborhood. I declined the booty call thank goodness. I thought I loved this guy, but as these antics continue I’m starting to be disgusted with myself and with him. But I want him begging me back. I want him to want me and professing his love for me like in the past so I can be the one to decide if we give it another go or say no and good riddance. Should I go NC again and if so, for how long? Or should I dangle that sex carrot by being nice but letting him know no more sex without a committed relationship because I won’t get trapped in a FWB arrangement? Maybe I should tell him no sex without commitment and then go NC for a month. I dunno.

  17. Sarah

    October 22, 2015 at 9:35 am

    Hey Chris! So I broke up with this guy a year ago and since April we have been sort of FWB. I asked him about why he sleeps with me many times and he says because he’s comfortable with me and trusts me. He texts me regularly shares his personal things with only me and no one else, resorts to me when he is sad and cares for me a lot. He shows all these things so this is definitely not my imagination. He’s very nice to me and always want to make me feel special and happy. Also during sex he always makes sure I’m comfortable and its pleasurable or else he stops. But he won’t ask me out what is this? His behavior just makes me feel like he does like me a lot but he never mentions it as such. Do you think I have a chance with him in near future or this is just over because we are FWB? Thanks in advance.

  18. Ashley

    October 22, 2015 at 6:58 am

    Hey,

    So I currently live with my ex, we are currently stuck in a lease for 6 months and can’t afford to break it….how exactly do I go about a no contact rule or no sex rule when we’re always around each other… Please help

    1. Ashley

      October 22, 2015 at 11:57 am

      Also I should add he says he wants to be my best friend but still wants sex and admits he still has feelings for me just wants to be single right now because too much is going on.in his life and between us…. He talks to me everyday and when I ignore him he keeps texting then gets mad says he’s going to move on and get it somewhere else or asks what’s wrong I never get space from him then he gets mad and says I guess you’ve moved in and don’t want to work things out since your talking to guys I’m just puzzled at this point we’ve only had sex twice and we split about a.month ago been trying to do my own thing and get space but he won’t let.me.be

  19. alana

    October 21, 2015 at 3:20 pm

    Hi Chris, I slept with my ex a few weeks ago. After what happened he’s just kept saying that he had absolutely no idea this(sex) would happen and at the time he’s already started dating another girl(wtf right!?). But anyway, we had a lovely dinner together and I slept over at his place until the next day, he told me it was feel like the good ol’ times all over again and he also brought back a lot of nice memories. It’s been a month now, he texts me sporadically, saying he wants to get serious with this new girl but at the same time also wanna hang out with me and still cares about my life, it’s just there’s no more sex-talk. Is he friend-zoned me? Or is he waiting for me to iniciate the fwb relationship? What should I do next? HELP! THANKS!

    1. alana

      October 22, 2015 at 2:15 pm

      Hi Chris!! Thanks for the reply, really! Actually I’ve already done the NC for 5 months straight. We broke up in May and just started talking at the beginning of October. I haven’t sent him a single message, like ever, during this period of time. I didn’t initiate anything except the first two texts. He did. It was supposed to be a casual hang out but somehow it turned out differently and unexpectedly…He said he never would have thought this could ever happen, was that even true? Anyways, he just asked me out next week. Should I ignore him totally and start the NC all over again? What if things get really serious with that new girl? Thanks again!!

    2. Chris Seiter

      October 21, 2015 at 8:46 pm

      Do not become FWB! Just stop talking to him. You will have to do no contact on him for sure. He doesn’t respect you as of right now. You will have to change that. Make it a challenge for him. When you start talking to him again, cut off conversations early. You always end everything first. Try not to initiate anything except the first 2-3 texts after no contact.

  20. Jen

    October 20, 2015 at 8:35 pm

    Hi Chris,
    I purchased your ex boyfriend recovery PRO and the texting bible. I did the 30 days no contact rule with my ex and he never tried to contact me. I ran into him at a party last weekend and we ended up going home together. When I drove him home that night he said the night reminded him how much he missed me and said he wanted to try talking again. He said he wanted to go on a date tomorrow but never called. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and called him that night, no response. Then he texted me the following day asking whats up. I waited 30min then responded saying that i was watching a movie that we watched together and asked how he was. He never responded to that text and I texted him the next day and he never responded.

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