How To Get Your Ex Back When He's Moved On To A New Girl

3,819 thoughts on “Has He Moved On? How To Get Him Back If He Has A Girlfriend”

Amber

September 16, 2013 at 3:24 am

Hello, My name is Amber. I have talked to my ex for about 3 years now. After about a year we started dating. It was a year after that we had broken up, and became friends.. It started when he went to India. He came back and everything was great but then he broke up with me a week after he came back. We had plans with eachother. He has a new girl in his life except she is all the way in India and he will not be going there for a while. I have made all the mistakes by bugging him and telling him how much I loved him. It really hurts me knowing he is talking to someone. What can I do? Do I still have a chance with him? I am not able to move on. He said this girl is his girlfriend but then he tells me they are not official.

admin

September 16, 2013 at 5:36 am

Three years you haven’t talked to your ex. Well, read this article: https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/the-guide-to-getting-him-back-after-a-year-or-more-apart/

As

September 15, 2013 at 8:39 pm

He dumped me with no reason, just sayin that the relationtship was cooled and that he didnt like my no contact attitude after fights.After one week he text me with an excuse and also want to meet me to offer a job.I responded only with, ok.Should I meet him?

admin

September 16, 2013 at 5:14 am

That is completely up to you. If you need the job go and meet him. If not, don’t do it.

Graha362

September 15, 2013 at 2:22 pm

Me and my ex has had a lot of problems ups and downs but we’ve also had a great relationship serious long relationship where we both fell in deeply In love however he was in love with me more during one period & I was the opposite now I am in love with him he’s the opposite but he was really head over heels at a time. We broke up and 5 days later he started talking and soon got in a relationship. However they broke up due to his Ill feelings towards me and being confused on whether on not he still wanted me . During that time we texted exchanged our feeling and kissed . We see each other at school every day! But unfortunately he goes back out with the girl whom he went out with after we broke up . Do you think there’s a chance or is he doing it out of spite ? He seems happy hence twitter

admin

September 16, 2013 at 4:09 am

I don’t think it is out of spite. I think it is the fact that he knows he can have you whenever he wants.

kay

September 15, 2013 at 11:41 am

Hi
My boyfriend broke up with me two months ago…almost three and he’s already in another relationship. We’ve never stopped taking and on Twitter he posts all these sweet things to her like he used to do with me. He seems to really like her. We talked last night and he said he just wants to be friends for now. What should I do is there a chance she’s just a rebound And he will come back to me?

kay

September 26, 2013 at 2:35 am

Chris the girl he’s seeing now lives in Europe and they’re going to be meeting this Christmas I’m freaking out….is this going to last what should I do?
admin

September 27, 2013 at 3:24 am

Christmas is a long way off.
admin

September 16, 2013 at 4:07 am

IF you stop talking and cut off communication and follow the advice on this site your chances will be improved.

Also, read the rebound page on this site.
Keisha

September 16, 2013 at 5:01 pm

I am so happy that I found this sit your pages are so well thought out, insightful, with a bit of humor. I also think it is so amazing how you take time out of your day to respond to every single comment. You are really touching a lot of people.
So I took your advice and read the rebound page…four times by the way lol and I think she is a rebound. He’s only known her for a month but we’ve been together off and on for four years. But I think I might have really messed up. I’ve texted and called him way to much and I’ve said some pretty mean things about the new girl. I have yet to get a positive response all I hear is “I don’t want to be in a relationship, I’m tired of trying, I still love you but I just want to be friends,” So since I am getting no where by staying in contact with him I am going to take your advice I try no contact. As I am typing this I have blocked him on Facebook. I am also searching for an app to block text messages and phone call so I won’t be tempted. I also vow to stop twitter stalking him. I really hope this 30 day thing works Chris because I really am in love with him and I want him back.
admin

September 17, 2013 at 1:32 am

Well, you are approaching this the smartest way you can which is something to be proud of.
kay

September 20, 2013 at 11:59 pm

How slightly we talking Chris? I’m already struggling with the 30 days.
admin

September 21, 2013 at 11:05 pm

Hahaha

I don’t know maybe 3-5.
kay

September 20, 2013 at 1:44 am

I forgot to mention that he’s talking to his ex again too. Sooooo after everything I did from texting and calling to much and being mean to him and the new girl and the ex….I still have a shot if I follow the advice outlined in your book?Is there still a chance I could get him back? Or do you think it’s one over? 🙁
admin

September 20, 2013 at 9:09 pm

Well, I obviously can’t guarantee anything. However, following the outline in the book will improve your chanaces (though you may need to extend NC slightly)
kay

September 19, 2013 at 1:14 am

Soooooo after everything I did from texting and calling to much and being mean to him and the new girl….I still have a shot if I follow the advice outlined in your book?
admin

September 19, 2013 at 2:28 am

You never know until you try. Obviously it’s not guaranteed but I think its worth a shot.
kay

September 17, 2013 at 10:38 am

Is there any hope am I doing the right thing?
admin

September 18, 2013 at 3:29 am

Yes, you are doing the right thing.

caroline

September 15, 2013 at 4:50 am

Recently me and my boyfriend had stop talking and I just don’t know why. He’s telling everyone that I broke up with him but I remeber none of that. He started acting weird and we didn’t talked for atleast 3 days and in those three days he started going out with another girl. It hurt my feelings so much. He made me feel some type of way that everytime I see him I can’t help but miss him. We been going out for 7 month. I really don’t know why he’s with her because I know he still has feelings for me deep down. He was holding her and they were walking together to class. I never been in so much pain before. I reallly miss him so much.

admin

September 16, 2013 at 3:53 am

Have you done NC yet?
caroline

September 23, 2013 at 4:10 am

Yes i tried but he always ends up saying hi to me. Im confused! Can you help?

Elle

September 15, 2013 at 3:51 am

My boyfriend of 3 years moved to another state for work 3 months ago, it was meant to be temporary and he promised me we will be okay and he will be back after 6 months. We were very much in love and were each other’s best friend too. We supported each other through some hard times in life and I thought our bond was really strong.

But a month ago, out of the blue he broke up with me. His reason was he may be offered another year at his job in that state, and the long-distance relationship is too hard on him, and he has trouble waiting for something that may not happen. Then last week, he told me that he has been hanging out with his ex gf a lot, who happens to live in that state too (he claims he didn’t know when he moved there). And apparently before he broke up with me he learnt that she lives there and saw her again. They’re not dating now but he thinks he likes her, but he thinks his job makes it unstable for him to date. He said he is confused. He dated this girl for less a year before he met me, and they broke up because she cheated on him. At the beginning of our relationship he told me how much she hurt him and he could never date her again, I couldn’t even understand how he could like her again.

I don’t know if this counts as new girl (or old, rather?), and since they had a history I don’t really know if it’s rebound. We had a much longer relationship than they did though, and much better too, I’ve never done anything to hurt him and nor did he (until this), we had a wonderful time together. Memories of our relationship are happy and he agrees too. He said he likes me a lot it’s just the distance is too much for him.

Despite what happened, I still love him and I want to at least try to get him back. We haven’t gone NC yet, he still talks to me sometimes but I initiate conversations most of the time…He is polite and casual but only short conversations. Is it too late for me to go NC now?

I know this is complicated, with long distance and another ex..That’s why I’m so confused now. Would appreciate your inputs very much, thanks!!

admin

September 16, 2013 at 3:52 am

Well, it is never too late for NC!

You should also check out my LDR post.

And if you get a chance check out the E-Book too.
Elle

September 17, 2013 at 11:11 pm

Thanks, your blog is very comforting and helpful. I’ve gone NC for 5 days now, he hasn’t reached out so far, hopefully he will at least miss me a little bit..
admin

September 18, 2013 at 3:33 am

It is still very early!

kanne

September 14, 2013 at 4:55 pm

1) Which approach should I take to move from FWB to GF potential again? NC or put him in the friend zone?

2) How risky is it to just say how I feel? Loaded Quest I am sure.

admin

September 15, 2013 at 1:45 am

1. You really need to pick up my E-Book AND read this post: https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/the-definitive-guide-to-making-your-ex-boyfriend-love-you-again/

Stephanie

September 14, 2013 at 3:20 pm

My boyfriend of over two years just broke up with me. We had our whole life planned together and were very in love. Two weeks after we broke up he started talking to a girl from his gym. But he still talked to me and hung out and everything. But now it’s a little over a month we’ve been apart and him and this girl are dating now. He told me and I broke down. I couldn’t help it. I asked him if he missed us and thought about us and he said yeah. He also said he still wants to be forever with me and have a family. I asked him how he could say that if he has a new girlfriend that he loves already. And he said he just knows and that him and her already talked about it and he kinda knows him and her won’t work out and he promised me that we would be together again. Why is he doing and saying all this ? He’s with someone else yet he still tells me that me and him will be together again and be forever and die together. I’m so broken and I don’t know what to do. I love him so much !

admin

September 15, 2013 at 1:50 am

I think maybe part of the problem is that he knows he can hav eyou whenever he wants.
Stephanie

September 14, 2013 at 3:28 pm

Also I’m scared of doing the no contact because I feel like if I do he will never come back and be out of my life forever.
admin

September 15, 2013 at 1:42 am

As opposed to:

bugging him and losing him
bugging him and being put in the friend zone

Freddie

September 14, 2013 at 4:28 am

Hi he sent the picture via email.
I work for a company that’s just been privatised
He put under picture “(the company name)” privatised !!
What should I do carry on no contact?
Why keep pictures of me?
Please help

admin

September 15, 2013 at 1:26 am

Keep doing NC and I think it is a fantastic sign that he is doing this during NC!

Freddie

September 13, 2013 at 3:11 am

Hi I’m still in no contact
Yesterday my ex sent me a picture . The picture was of me when we had been to a party and I had been dressed up as Minnie Mouse …
Why???
Please help

admin

September 13, 2013 at 6:02 pm

He sent you a picture on the phone or in the mail?

Maybe he is just reminiscing.

Cindy

September 12, 2013 at 10:09 am

My relationship of 5 years is a mixture of this all, I met him online, dated online for almost a year, I went on vacation there to meet him we fell in love, he moved to my country after 2 month, and stayed with me in a very nice and loving relation for 3 year, the last one was a hard one though we both lost our jobs, financial problems so very heavy for the relationship, he was unhappy with all the things here in my country but he love me so much that he still tried to hold on for a year and then he broke. He couldnt handel it anymore so he went back home.

But we agreed to keep in touch as much as possible because we were still very much in love. One month and half we kept the relationship alive by txting,
3-4 a day maybe more. He was trying to get money together to fix internet and a laptop. He txt me he was having it today and very eager to see me, so I waited for him to come online…

Finally I got the message that he wanted to talk to me online, my heart almost skipped a beat, I could finally talk to him with full sentences again.

First thing he says to me we need to talk, I cant find a sollution anymore to come back, things are not working as I thought it would work, I dont love you anymore as a gf. I was shocked, and then you start blabbering and begging and shaking.

So I started no contact with him, untill I hear from mutual that 1 day after he broke up with me, calling another woman had and making a date to spend 2 days with her.

Broke no contact and txted him, asking why he lied to me and kept me hanging there for a month and a half. He sayed he just loves her and that he is happy now. I was not angry at him, I didnt start shouting, I just wanted answers.

He sayd that after he went to talk to a psygologist and that he made him realize that he only felt friendship. And he moved on….That he fell in love with her last week. Noone of his friends new about her….Guess that was goodbye I only dont understand what happend in 3 hours time.

I m going to try to heal and do the NC for my sanity, my heart is broken and shatterd but I still want him back because I just know we were right for eachother only life happend to us….

admin

September 13, 2013 at 3:48 am

Props to you for starting and trying NC out. Hopefully it works out in your favor in a big way!

Sally

September 12, 2013 at 4:18 am

My ex of 3 years broke up with me about a month ago because we were getting serious and moving towards the future and he doesn’t agree with the fact that my family does not own a home and I will need to contribute to my family and eventually, my mom will need a place to live and he assumed that she would live with me and him. He told me he didn’t want that responsibility.

I have committed all the mistakes – begging, texting, calling, bad-mouthing his new girl, etc. He thinks I am psychotic right now. He has broken up with me before but for different reasons. And I have made all these mistakes before as well.

He told me that he is already seeing someone – within a week of us breaking up. I don’t understand how we could go to meeting up with jewelers to look at engagement rings a week prior, to him already moving on. I am completely devastated.

I am going to try my hardest not to contact him anymore. I am not dealing with this well because all I can think about is him and his new girl and how I should probably give up.

What if he contacts me in a few days, asking how I’m doing? I think he might because I really freaked out the last few days. How should I respond?

Do you think I should just move on? Is there any hope left for me, given that I’ve made such huge mistakes?

Thank you for taking the time to resopnd.

admin

September 13, 2013 at 3:33 am

Hi there,

I do think there is hope b/c the new girl has some signs of being a rebound. How long did you date him for?

Are you in NC?
Sally

September 13, 2013 at 4:51 pm

I wanted to add one more thing: he told me that we would never get back together and that the “damage is done” and I think he threw that in because he immediately followed it with the fact that my brother hates him now (they were friends). Do you think my situation is hopeless now that he thinks that way?
admin

September 13, 2013 at 6:34 pm

I think it is someone saying something at an emotional moment.
Sally

September 19, 2013 at 1:41 am

His new girl just posted a video of my ex and his dad playing ball together, which really is freaking me out because I imagined in my mind that they were not doing so well anymore. Any advice on how not to freak out? I was so close to texting/calling him and just losing it 🙁

This is so painful.
admin

September 19, 2013 at 7:02 pm

It is just a video try not to make it bigger than it is.

So what if they are playing ball. That still doesn’t mean they don’t have problems.
Sally

September 17, 2013 at 2:43 pm

I might go on a date with someone this weekend. Do you suggest that I go? I honestly don’t feel ready to go because I’m still really sad about the breakup but I also think it might be a good distraction. I also don’t want to lead anyone on since I’m not ready to move on from my previous relationship. Also, from an ex’s point of view, do you think it would make him upset if he found out and want to make him cement his current relationship with his new girl?
admin

September 18, 2013 at 3:31 am

I do. Just do it to get out and have a little fun.
Sally

September 17, 2013 at 3:26 am

I really appreciate you responding to my questions. I purchased your ebook – I wanted to thank you somehow!

If I have any more questions, I’ll be sure to ask!

Thanks!
admin

September 18, 2013 at 2:51 am

Thank you for purchasing that by the way.

You have no idea how much it means to me.
Sally

September 16, 2013 at 4:28 am

I was doing research on other sites about this topic and many of them recommend that I “agree” with the break-up and then start NC. I didn’t do that. The last text I sent him a few days ago was basically bad-mouthing his new girl and he never responded and we haven’t communicated since then. Should I just continue with NC or should I contact him saying that I “agree” with the break-up and then start NC all over again?

Sorry for asking a million questions.

Thanks.
admin

September 17, 2013 at 12:50 am

Hmmm…. I say not to send the “I agree” text. I mean, what does it do for you? Just stay in NC.

And ask as many questions as you want.
Sally

September 15, 2013 at 6:58 am

Just wanted to double-check with you…you DO think he will come back, considering that he broke up with me because he doesn’t want me to help my family out with money in the future AND he has already moved on to another girl?

Thank you for responding.
admin

September 16, 2013 at 3:56 am

I would honestly say that I don’t know. He could come back but he may not come back. I can’t see the future so I don’t know. I am just here to help you improve your chances of getting him back.
Sally

September 13, 2013 at 5:40 am

Thank you for responding.

We had been together a total of 3 years, but within those 3 years, he has broken up with me numerous times. I think this is the 7th time.

Although he broke up with me a month ago, I could not, as hard as I tried, stay in NC for long – the longest was 11 days. So, in reality, this will only be the 3rd day of NC, since I am starting all over.

Thank you.
admin

September 13, 2013 at 6:14 pm

Wow it’s really an on again off again relationship huh?
Sally

September 13, 2013 at 6:33 pm

Yes, he had a tendency to break up with me whenever we had an argument. There is no discussion beforehand. Our last breakup was a year and a half ago and he seemed to be improving. We started going to counseling because he has a short temper and he would blow up at me in front of people over little things. Then in counseling, we started getting into our future and how I would like to help out my family in the future, as I have been doing this entire time. He was not okay with that and broke up with me. I do not know if he will come back this time because this has to do with money and our future. It’s not really like I can do anything about it. Although, one time he broke up with me because he thought we spent too much money eating out. Do you think it would be possible for him to change his mind and want to be together considering the reason he broke up with me?
admin

September 15, 2013 at 12:52 am

I do! However, you have to be patient, disciplined and almost train yourself to not think he will come back.

sara

September 11, 2013 at 9:34 pm

ok so technically its almost two months that me and my ex boyfriend broke up. He really loved me and I felt the same way. I went for a month trip and then he told me things weren’t like before. Now I’m moving to another country and he texted me saying he is sorry to hear that and if he needs anything I can always call him. I’ve tried to love another guy and get through a new relationship somehow it wouldn’t work and he will come back to my mind. Now the problem is that I’m throwing a party on this friday and he is going to attend but I dont’t know how I should act with him. Please reply ASAP.

admin

September 12, 2013 at 3:51 am

Replying ASAP!

You should act bubbly, confident, beautiful and happy. Just be nice and kind but keep interactions kind of short.

JKD

September 11, 2013 at 2:38 pm

My boyfriend of 5 years and my friend of 7 years before that had recently broke up with me about 3 months ago because he heard a rumor that (which by the way wasn’t true) said I left a bar with some guy! He won’t believe me when I tell him “I didn’t” because I wasn’t with him that night. We were suppose to get engaged and move in together, we were planning our future and in one night my hopes, my dreams and the love of my life abandoned me I’m so broken hearted and I can’t seem to shake this anxiety, it’s constant and unwavering. I learned that he’s been seeing another woman for a month now and he’s telling her he loves her! Now that’s over and he’s with someone new but she lives in another state so he’ll drive there. We just recently started to talk again and he’s come over my place, he’ll bring up past memories and be very flirty and attentive to my needs! We’ve slept together too, and I know that’s bad and rather stupid of me cause he’s with this other girl now! But he gets jealous if I talk about other guys even joking around, he left stuff at my house, I think on purpose because he said he’ll grab it this weekend maybe thinking he’ll hangout with me like he did last weekend? and before he left he almost slipped and said I love you to me! I’m confused! I don’t know what to think or do at this point, but do you have any opinions as to what I should to in this situation? Does he want me back or is he just comfortable with me and playing games, i mean we’ve known each other for almost 13 years now and it would be painful to know he doesn’t care.

admin

September 12, 2013 at 3:34 am

I am kind of confused here.

Where does the friend of 7 years come in to play.

Sorry for being confused.

ann

September 11, 2013 at 7:51 am

My ex and i were together for almost 3years. we broke up first in April. He initially said that he wanted a break to ‘figure himself out’ so I let him. However the hard thing is that we lived together at that time and every night I saw him going out and coming home really late. One night he came home drunk and he called his sister. He thought i was sleeping but i overheard their conversation cause he was talking so loud. He was talking about a girl he met once and he found her to be attractive. When i heard this, i got panic attack and got out to get some fresh air in the middle of the night. He saw me going out and asked why, i didnt answer. I cried so hard.. At the time I thought i should do something, so instead of letting him do whatever he wants, I told him about the phone call the next day and asked who the girl was. He said that its nothing and that he was just drunk. I couldnt believe him and told him that he hurt me. He said he was sorry. I found out that they met at a party of our mutual friend. i didnt go there cause i was busy. at the party, my ex told the girl that he does rockclimbing and that she should join him sometime. she agreed. So from that time on, i was so jealous and decided to go rockclimbing with him just to see the girl. He wasnt so happy about it but accepted it anyway. In the end we got back together for a month.
We broke up again in june since he was so unhappy and he felt like I convinced him to stay despite the fact that he wanted a break. This time, he didnt want a break, he said that he’s done with me. After that, I saw him going out with another girl (an intern at the company he works at) . I moved out of the apartment and he moved too a month later to a studio.
I did 6weeks NC. During NC, he sent me birthday wishes but other than that, he contacted me only when he needed something. After NC, I text him last week. I got quite a positive reply. However yesterday he sent me a text to tell me that he has mail for me. I told him to sent it to my new address. Then he asked me if i signed and sent the divorce paper. (we were civil partners) . He kept on asking me about it even during NC. It seems like that’s the only thing he cares about. I said i did and he thanked me. I wonder if he s still with that girl (the intern) or the other one but it hurts that he only cares about the papers. Should i still keep on texting?

admin

September 12, 2013 at 3:13 am

I think yu should only text if you are in the right place and mindset.

Honestly, I would do NC and focus on myself longer if I was you.

Lillian

September 10, 2013 at 8:25 pm

Well… He’s back. haha, I posted on FB this morning about me getting a new job, a future trip i’m taking, and getting a new apartment and i’m assuming he saw it because he just texted me right now asking me when I want to get my stuff from his place. I haven’t responded because I am unsure of what to do. I really want to wait because i’m not ready to see him also, I dont know what he would try and do if I did decide to go get my stuff. Should I listen to my gut and keep away or bite the bullet and see what happens?

admin

September 11, 2013 at 2:34 am

Hahah what would make you happiest. Him or just moving on from him?
Lillian

September 11, 2013 at 8:01 pm

Okay I love the guy so I made the decision to see him. He picked me up after I got off work. He handed me 24 cupcakes before I got into his truck, I dont like flowers that much, and then we went to dinner. TERRIBLE IDEA. Nothing got resolved and we weren’t being our fun selves. The waitress even knew something wasn’t right, how embarrassing! He took me back home and we sat in his truck to talk and I broke down. We talked about how we felt about the direction we’re heading and the things that we were doing to each other that we didn’t like. We both agreed we’ve messed up here and there in our relationship and we don’t want to see other people so we’re going to work things out. Just gonna take things day by day. When I got into bed, he had texted me saying that he wants to have something to live for and I ask him what that something was and he responded I really want kids, am I crazy? I said no and I fell asleep. I’m not going to think much of it right now but I still do want to know what it means. I guess time will tell. I do think your no contact rule did help me a lot so I want to thank you again 🙂
admin

September 12, 2013 at 3:47 am

Cupcakes…. DID I HEAR CUPCAKES????

I LOVE CUPCAKES!

Well hey you are very welcome. Do you need my help on anything else?
Lillian

September 13, 2013 at 5:48 pm

Haha! If I could I would personally deliver some cupcakes to you as a proper thank you but if something weird happens i’m sure i’ll be back! haha
admin

September 13, 2013 at 6:35 pm

Vanilla please 🙂

Sohpia

September 10, 2013 at 3:13 pm

Hi Chris! I’m currently in NC. I have a couple of questions: My ex uses Facebook, but not a ton. I have been updating my Facebook more frequently with updates, pictures, etc. I also know through a friend that he is on a dating website (the one where we met). He never closed his account, and was online about a week ago. I don’t know if he hasn’t been on because he’s busy or if he met someone and hasn’t closed his account. He didn’t update his Facebook with our relationship status for a while after we were “official”, so I don’t know if he’s seeing someone else or not. How should I go about finding out? We don’t really have mutual friends. The ones we do have are not close enough friends to talk to about it.

Should I treat this as if he’s seeing someone else or as if he’s not? Then, if it progresses to a point where we meet in person, how do I bring this up to find out for sure? When we were dating, a girl liked him & he didn’t tell her we were together for a few months because he didn’t want to hurt her feelings. I want to try to avoid this happening to me as much as possible. Please let me know what you think.

admin

September 11, 2013 at 2:18 am

Until you get evidence he is seeing someone I would treat it as if he isn’t.

Also, check out my Facebook post. You might get something out of it.
Mara melendez

September 11, 2013 at 8:17 am

Yes

Tara

September 10, 2013 at 1:03 pm

I’ve been in my relationship with my man 8years
i fell pregnant its his” 5months ago, 2 weeks after finding out he packed his bags n left
As far as i no we’re still together.. but he never calls me.. i call him maybe to much every minute of everyday.. he never answers
When i finally get ahold of him he doesn’t really wana talk he’s busy.. has so many excuses
Says he’ll answer next time ect
VERY NEXT DAY HE DOESNT ANSWER!
There are days i dont hear from him at all..:(
Idk what to think anymore?!
But im miserable & dont want him to be with anyone else even if i dont want to be with him :/
& our unborn son is going to be fatherless it really upsets me, I’ve tried turning my phone off, deactivating Facebook to stop thinking n obsessing but i just give in. Which also reminds me my man has always been open like giving me his Facebook ssqord ect.. since he left he changed his password n when i deactivated my fbk he thought i blocked him so first thing he did was add his ex gf..:#…..wtf?

admin

September 11, 2013 at 2:08 am

I am sorry to hear this.

I would say stop pestering him with calls right now. Honestly, even though you are pregnant I would NC him for 30 days. Maybe you tell him and then go NC for 30 days to freak him out hahaha.

Oh, better not do that.
Tara

September 10, 2013 at 1:13 pm

Also he’s at hes living at his mums which is 6hours away, his mum says shed tell me if he was doing anything but so far nothing ..
He always wanted a baby
I just dont get it he’s being so out of character
its been 7weeks since he left
he told me he was going to visit his mum but then he never came back..
when i cry over the phone when we do finally talk he tells me all the things i wana hear but he never does what he says he’s guna do
He tells me lies n his mum tells me the truth
How do i get him to just admit what he really wants? Because i hate being strung along but i have a kid to consider so i can move on too
admin

September 11, 2013 at 2:09 am

You have to take control and get HIM to chase YOU!

Luna lovegood

September 10, 2013 at 8:22 am

I b*tched about him to his best friend. He read it ,broke up with me and is dating his ex-girlfriend now..I still love him how should I get him back?

admin

September 11, 2013 at 1:51 am

I love the Harry Potter reference ;).

Start with a NC period!

Mara melendez

September 10, 2013 at 7:39 am

My boyfriend & i were dating for almost 4 yrs. last week i found out that he and his ex are still seeing each other and found out that they are still in a relationship.. I discovered that they become together again when i and my bf were 1yr in a relationship.. My boyfriend hide that to me, in other words he is a two timer bf. but i love him and i know he loves me too. I lookback in our past that we are happy and i didnt thought that he can do this to me. I thought that i am his only love. We even dreamed our future together. When i found it out, he just dinied and told me to relax. After a week, i got the cp number of that grl on facebook and i txted her to stop seeing with my bf.. But it seems my bf loves her more than i now… We havnt official break up up. I ask him to choose only one among us but he answered me that he cant answer it right now because he is still confused of his feeling.. Im so down now and i dont know what to do. That grl and my bf stays the same town while i am 2 hrs drive away from their town.. I cant help to to imagine if they are still seeing each other.. I feel my bf is turning away from me from the time i found out everything. He even ignore my tx meseges sumtyms that he didnt do bfore.. i feel he had changed..What should i do?

admin

September 11, 2013 at 1:52 am

Wait, so he cheated on you with his ex girlfriend?

Why would you want him back after that?

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